Luann de Lesseps Called Out For Being Self-Absorbed | RHONY Reunion Highlights (S11 Ep20)

[@kiwi9602]

As someone who’s super self critical, I wish I was as oblivious and delusional as Lu sometimes 😂

[@theresalwayshope5349]

Squid _ same

[@Veryvery987]

Ignorance truly can be bliss🙃

[@tanisha.r.thomas]

God... my life would be cake!

[@alpe1987]

But you can’t afford it

[@cammyr12Productions]

SAME! I Kinda admire that about her omg

[@colton4261]

Damn can they make the volume of the transition music on the same level as the scenes. I have to crank up the volume when the scenes are playing and then it's music blasting during the transitions. So annoying

[@damien1781]

You'll be ok snowflake

[@JuLayLeeBee]

Mykee Wattz LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

[@colton4261]

When someone watches Real Housewives and uses the term "snowflake". Ok dude

[@reishuko]

ive commented saying the EXACT SAME THING on their other videos omg its irritating

[@Meg-kx9ne]

Their app is awful as well.. never works or loads properly... Get you shit together Bravo

[@avengedefend8384]

You're not Adele Luann😂😂😂

[@RENTBOYBEAUTY]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Keybumpz]

Then she lied and said she was gonna star in Chicago but couldn't say what part. She's ridiculous

[@tarync6539]

Fully believes she is 😂

[@brandonwhite6994]

She cant carry a tune😆😆

[@Lommy9999]

They are jealous...

[@material___]

“You’re tone deaf about this whole situation” Luann: “well that’s very upsetting to see” LOLLLLL

[@See-if_I_care]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂....lmao!!

[@jtarantula3390]

Lmfao oh my

[@merongirma33]

Ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahagagagagagagaa

[@essenceaquarius9958]

Lmfao

[@nahidah.1790]

Taurus energy 😭😂😂 I had an ex like this once I told him you changed and he was like “wow I bet that’s very upsetting to see someone change out of sudden” and the worst part is that he was SERIOUS just like luann 😂😂😂 lmao! I love her tho!

[@NorthernGirl106]

LuAnn has always been self absorbed, it's just more apparent after people were there for her at her worst and then it's never enough

[@helenlesczynski3989]

Megan Marguerite I think she’s always had an idea that everyone was jealous. The countess etc. I always thought that even her mother was rolling her eyes

[@dianaboyer683]

So true

[@miaz4766]

Yup. I’m watching all the old seasons right now and it’s reminding me she’s always been this bad

[@CarlyGayJepsen]

Romona enjoying every minute of that reunion cause for once the guns aren’t pointed at her like every reunion 😭

[@betterthanemril988]

Bethenny’s face when Ramona said LuAnn can’t carry a tune 2:45 😂

[@DarkKnight906]

LuAnn is blinded by her own ego and narcissism. She can't handle the truth about not being a great singer and being self absorbed.

[@regaliaretailfashionmerch4314]

IT'S CABARET, for crying out loud!! She doesn't NEED TO BE A "GREAT SINGER", and she knows, she's nowhere close... Jeez, Give LuAnne a break...

[@C_Tizzle]

@@regaliaretailfashionmerch4314 But, before the cabaret show (which is just her narcissism, with an audience) she was an absentee mother that has always placed her clout above All else.

[@letrice2892]

Luann is very much self absorbed and her sobriety has nothing to do with it shes been this way from the start

[@1876Susan]

Every addict I've ever known has been self absorbed. It's part of their problem. They can't see past themselves. Imo, anyhow.

[@fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied]

Humility, is the one tenet of recovery, she missed entirely. It also happens to be the most important one. Not only for addicts, frankly but for every human on the planet.

[@dajamsteryo]

3:18 Dorinda: "Congratulations. You're on Broadway. So can we put that in a box...?" That took me out lol

[@scouts.748]

And she was never on Broadway 🤣🤣🤣

[@annihilator45]

Luann still cannot understand she is self centered.

[@phoenixrising1675]

like every single person on that stage including Andy, especially Andy!

[@LP-ss3fg]

She's the most delusional person I've ever witnessed in action. I feel truly sad for her children

[@LP-ss3fg]

@Onion Face for a while I thought being self absorbed was synonymous with being narcissistic ... little did I know there was such a big difference

[@tanisha.r.thomas]

I'm watching at work with closed captions. Who made the crack about the self tanner looking like a New Jersey housewife? If it was Luann then she definitely is never going to get it.her husband should have NEVER made her a countess!!

[@joeymama4666]

Florence Foster de Lesseps.

[@sassimaus2]

Andys shade when they said that Barbara has too much shimmer on „I feel like I’m at a New Jersey reunion“ 😂😂😂

[@decemberlove]

No one reacted to Ramona saying "No, you can't carry a tune" and I have no idea how 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Toywins]

Bethenny did!! 😂😂😂

[@jemimapd534]

The woman can't bloody sing! I just don't get it🤔

[@Pink_MobStudio]

At all

[@nesharhae]

Big OOF to Luann not knowing which college her daughter would be attending.

[@margaretbonnett3233]

This is crazy to me as I'm a helicopter mom and grandma.

[@nesharhae]

The other women knew it was Penn

[@battybatshytcrazy4365]

Rhae Zin wow!

[@patriciadudzik6440]

Maybe she didn't want to say,i wouldn't,to protect my kids.

[@amandabrown364]

@@patriciadudzik6440 exactly!! Why announce to the world which school your daughters going to???? Crazy!!

[@lizzyborden123]

What is there to be jealous of? Luann truly is delusional.

[@johniii8147]

LMAO. Nothing to be jealous of a drunk going broke

[@tanisha.r.thomas]

@Don K did she really steal their trustfunds?

[@twistedsista4467]

@@tanisha.r.thomas yes

[@assiabenslimane2589]

Sonja looking super good ..she deserves it I love how bon vivante she is

[@sarahcrews2544]

Assia Benslimane Sonja is my favorite

[@nnekam6153]

Sarah Crews mine too

[@usuk9316]

Love Sonja

[@twistedsista4467]

She's the only real one

[@edwardburt2398]

Dorinda confusing "fig leaf" and "olive branch"...love it!

[@mckayfam3090]

Barbara isn't crazy enough for this show lol

[@KristannaGarden]

Bethenny saying "That's insaaaaaane!" cracked me up 😂

[@user-zx3ze3fz5k]

I know and she looks so amazing!!

[@bRoWnsKinfRien]

Loved it 😂

[@lewisedwards4058]

Dorinda: “You’re like the Tin Man!” Everyone: “Hahahahaha” *solid three second of everyone moving on from the moment* Ramona: “yOu’Re LiKe ThE tIn MaN!¡!!1” Lmao never get rid of Romona 💀💀💀

[@mattbrohman3654]

RIP to headphone users at 0:39

[@kashkave9898]

The audio on these videos is horrible.

[@martinlyle2328]

it's terrible what is wrong with the editors lol

[@poopsydo8052]

Yup

[@thehardercandy]

The music cuts make my ears bleed.

[@miaz4766]

“DARLLLIINNNNG. THIS IS NOT THE PLAZA HOTEL THIS IS MOROCCO.” Like if you remember

[@misspipeliner208]

It's so sad & frustrating that Lou is that far gone! Telling her that she so SELF CENTERED & her reply is THIS IS THE KIND OF SUPPORT THAT I GET!!

[@moneymaker3208]

The fact that they still have to coddle Luann’s feelings about being a “great performer” when she’s not. Smh. She’s “Tardy for the party” on steroids. She can’t sing and she’s not a great performer. 🤷🏾‍♀️ Stop coddling her feelings.

[@scouts.748]

She's awful

[@aprilrawls8929]

I like how they all call out Luanne for being so self absorbed....when they all are...each and everyone...lol! They are not self aware at all!

[@cherylleech785]

Exactly!

[@emilyfvdksvk2629]

Yup!

[@mendohlakuva5459]

Whoever did the work on Bethenny's face did a great job. She looks absolutely amazing

[@ciciheart6085]

There is something very wrong with the sound on this clip.. The interview is very soft volume and than I get scared to death when they transition to another clip; it is like defqon 5

[@brianfraley6528]

This was the first time I ever liked that Barbara

[@itsmephil]

SORT. OUT. THE. VOLUME.

[@poopsydo8052]

NOW.

[@carsb121]

LuAnn continues to lie to others as much as she does to herself...seemingly always has & always will. As pathetic as it is infuriating!

[@battybatshytcrazy4365]

Yes!

[@steph7139]

I really think she believes her own stuff, she’s truly delusional

[@jsanders2610]

Referring to someone sitting right next to you as a big fat turnup is soooo rude.

[@sophiealexander1073]

“This is Christmas” is one of my fav housewife lines 😂

[@sarahholland1375]

Luann's narcissism knows no bounds. No self awareness. But on the plus side the hair is a way better look than the short layered 'Mom bob.' What the actual heck will she do in Chicago I don't know, she can't sing! That's hysterical.

[@2006glg]

Y'all remember the movie Clue from the 80s with Tim Curry as the butler and Leslie Ann Warren played Miss Scarlet? I see Miss Scarlet when I look at Lu in that dress.

[@MsDeMandeville]

Luann maybe be self-absorbed but they must have all have some of that trait to even be on a show. And whatever, she looks phenomenal.

[@steph7139]

She took it a little too far

[@TheeCoachg]

Luanne actually makes a very good villain 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@lexibecker278]

New Yorkers are THE BEST.

[@adelinewurzer4533]

yes

[@valentinarichard1602]

Very true.

[@sheruns8579]

Ramona: 🗣YOU’RE LIKE THE TIN MAN 😂😂😂

[@noodlessurprise]

Luanne is so entitled it is utterly unbelievable.... she is under the impression she is Liza Minnelli but without Liza talent.

[@i_know_it_all]

I feel like LuAnn needs to understand that people aren’t going to see her show because she’s a talented songstress with amazing songs... they are going to see her because she’s LuAnn the countess from RHONY. I don’t get how she can’t understand that.

[@bRoWnsKinfRien]

Luann has a completely different idea about herself 😂

[@taigemini7662]

It's funny how LuAnn is being painted a "narcissist" for trying to pick herself back up. Dorinda was super sarcastic when Luan said shes going to be on broadway. There were no legit congrats to her or anything. if Luann stayed on that downward spiral she was in, they'd either be kicking her while she's down or pretending to be her friend. She's coming across as a narcissist on screen because she literally HAS to be her own cheerleader. And when will anybody grow balls to call Bethenny out on her ish?

[@susanmatteo6005]

100% right on the money!

[@susanmatteo6005]

Dorinda is very jealous of the other women and their jobs away from RHONY.She acted like a envious green eyed monster when Tinsley was picked to host the Big Apple Circus.She went on and on saying how much better she would be then Tinsley.Dorinda is not a well wisher to others and always makes a fool out of herself showing it.

[@LP-ss3fg]

This is completely misguided. Friendship is not a one-sided deal. She's completely self absorbed and the biggest hypocrite

[@sierra2123]

Facts

[@CommentReplyEdit]

Omg my head 🤯 All I hear is MINE,MINE,MINE,MINE! (Seagulls from Finding Nemo) 😂

[@lorir2800]

Ramona tells Luann cannot carry a tune but Barbara gets beat up for saying the same. Lu broke that friendship with barb. So crazy. She was a really good friend to her. Luanns cabaret was campy and fun. But she says herself she dresses up and does q & a

[@mirandam5746]

Lol ramona is one to talk.

[@ediapaff8858]

It would be so great, if somebody could manage to have the music on the same volume as the interviews, so that I will not have to live in fear of a heart attack every time it changes to a title card.

[@schwannies]

I would take a self-absorbed friend any day over someone who says the nasty and cruel things that Dorinda, Bethenny and Ramona can sometimes say. Lu loves herself A LOT but I don't think she has much hate in her. I can't say the same for the others who I think have a real mean streak.

[@margaretbonnett3233]

I agree with you If I had to be around these woman I would gravitate to luann. But first I would do anything to avoid being around anyone. I have a cousin that is like bethanney and I can't be around her

[@lepen4652]

I agree with you on dorinda and remona definatly, betheny has a lot on and admits she has taken on to much, I wish I had her confidence and wit, dorinda on the hand is vile, and is clearly jealous of Sonja, and I think dorinda is aware of what many of the public think of her vile behaviour, and playing the nice game, to change public opinion, is not working with me. She is a disgusting human being that is a nasty drunk and got knows what else she takes.

[@AdjustedCrown]

Totally agree

[@bluemermaid8026]

BloodsFromSydney Hands down agree!!!!

[@sierra2123]

💯

[@nicknika490]

Bethany talked about Skinny girl non stoo. Episodes were made on Skinny lauches, new jeans, parties, crying over the burden of Skinny Girl. Railing Sonia fir being JEALOUS and copying Skinny Girl. Luanne is correct.

[@cleobinx]

Nick Nika and? She was still there for her friends and celebrated their achievements, that’s the difference

[@AdjustedCrown]

Facts , she even blocked out Jill during that time and their relationship never recovered

[@sierra2123]

Someone sees through the double standards of all of this. EXACTLY skinnygirl was none stop all the time.

[@idontknow-ms8mc]

What's so funny is, I feel like someone in the cast tried to warn Dorinda when she first joined that Luann was this way and she brushed it off. Time always tells.

[@theimpishartist]

Mario said it best, years ago: luann is "count less." Everything she has to say about "class" is a bad joke. Such a hypocrite.

[@madamelebuff]

There are Givers & Takers in life. Lu is a taker, she relentlessly takes from her friends & even her children (if she could get away with it). Her go-to excuse for her revolting behaviour is always "people are jealous of her". After the Tom fiasco, she should have learned but you can't teach an old dog new tricks, unfortunately. It seems Lu is destined to remain alone with a deep love & appreciation for herself. When you think so highly of yourself there is no room for anyone else.

[@tosomt5419]

barbara seems like a sweet soul

[@andreadiamond7115]

Luanne is right....money can’t buy you class. My fandom finally fell this season.

[@MsCristinika7]

Guys take a chill pill....this is her passion. Good for her having the balls doing it and she payed . Inspiration for many women of her age. Luann keep your head high ,your crown will fall . Greetings from Romania

[@coen849]

The girls having some serious heavy talk. Luann to Andy; Do you know what time it is. There you have it. A person couldn’t be any more Self-Absorbed. She is not a nice/kind person.

[@stoneghana4171]

She needed to take her breathalyzer. That’s her priority. Sorry not sorry.

[@danielleclover8342]

Yes Luann can't sing as well as the Legends and New Legends that's been around for years. But Luann made two great songs "Money Can't Buy You Class" and "Jovani"

[@marcalexwatts]

Tinsley doesn't bring much bless her.

[@r.22r]

Dorinda is always so jealous of other women, whether its sonjas morgan crest, luanns show , tinsleys circus appearance/ her money! She always has a problem

[@Koekje_Kijkt]

R What show have you been watching..? 🤔

[@lepen4652]

Dorinda is disgusting, jealousy is clear, always an issue, and her behaviour is not class, she needs serious help for her drinking, she turns so horrible and looks like trash. Get her off the show bravo

[@patriciadudzik6440]

Maybe Luann has needed to make it about her...i think you all are way to hard on her ,shes not a bad person at all,Dorinda is a lush...has no right to counsel Luann,Bethanny is so tiresome ,yelling at ppl.Ramona i wish they'd let her go...

[@pearlbubbles6885]

Andy, Bravo needs to take a look a what addiction is, Sonja, Dorinda, Bethenny, Romano, all appear to have drinking problems. Bravo please educate Andy.

[@Mjt1262]

Pearl Bubbles Right??? But it’s the Bravo recipe. Add alcohol and watch what happens. Andy encourages all the housewives to drink and misbehave.

[@pearlbubbles6885]

@@Mjt1262 Remember when they thought Sonja had a drinking problem, then Dorinda, she flipped out!! So they leave her alone. Ramona is so mean. Omg what shitshow! Yes I said it!!!

[@Mjt1262]

Pearl Bubbles And when is someone gonna call out Dorinda ? She gets super messy after her 7 or 8 th cocktail

[@pearlbubbles6885]

@@Mjt1262 They have and she's gets super defensive it's gets ugly! I don't remember which episode.

[@pearlbubbles6885]

@@ladycreole3261 Skinny girl

[@Dan-pd9ys]

Lu being delusional live on set and only course correcting at the end is like watching a sociological experiment. Fascinating

[@ginaiannucci]

She has anxiety and that gives her insecurities. Wishing her well in her recovery.

[@Supernova_87]

Bethenny lol 😂 @ 2:59 on Luann’s singing 🎤 💥

[@themagickalmermaid]

Bethenny's Storyline Sorta Left After Last Season aka Carole! Lol

[@celiaweiss6705]

Luann is not self centered. She is the nicest housewife of the group. She becomes defensive with the group when the other ladies attack her. I think it all began with her being a contessa.

[@leebrittain9078]

shes "Dee-LUE-sionai""

[@forcewe5933]

Love Bethany's dress.

[@KevenTalks]

It would've been interesting to see Barbara on RHONJ. She would've fit in there more I think. The thing is she really IS NYC/NJ, but the Long Island / Staten Island / outer boroughs version. The other ladies are all very much Manhattan women, and that's where she didn't mesh with them. BUT, I see why production threw her in - it made for an interesting dichotomy, kind of like Alex from Brooklyn in the early seasons vs the rest of the cast.

[@flowwithvince]

“Poor Tej” 😂

[@noodlessurprise]

And she doesn’t believe she is an arsehole ... she is under the impression that she has a god given talent, she doesn’t.

[@OctavianWho]

I love it, I'm so happy, this is Christmas. I cried laughing 😂

[@scottg4441]

Romania had me dying!!!!! 🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@0r0r0]

Andy: some people said it went to far with Tej Sonja: well you do have to be careful these days 🤣😯🤔

[@gretaalcindor8364]

Well I really love lunann dispice her ups and downs we all do mistakes new York house wife is one of my favourite love sonya

[@sav.walker]

i’ve never hated a tv personality more than luann 🤣

[@jtarantula3390]

This was my all time favorite Dorinda look

[@Davylp]

LMAO they were talking about Luan on The View today, and one of the hosts husband was sitting next to Luann at an event, and he had no idea she was, but later complained to his wife in Spanish, that this woman sitting next to me , that she kept talking about CABARET CABARET all night... lmao! hahaha

[@robinrocha2091]

Luann is absolutely gorgeous!

[@mcmahel19]

"I love it. I'm so happy. This is Christmas.:

[@fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied]

“Poor Tej, we’re friends; he’s in college” Profound stuff.

[@kwanilo]

Luann is just doing what makes her happy!Show em what you made of girl 👏

[@pollyhelluva2897]

I am surprised I made it through 3 minutes of this cackling

[@christineriutzel]

Whoever is editing the audio needs to be fired.

[@mstea3232]

I just met her after her show and she was funny, kind and sondiwn yo earth. I said something abd she laughed, talk about flattered. I get her, i may be a bit like her, but she treats her fans like gold.

[@NikolaiStoykovic]

this audio is mixed so bad one minute perfect level the next blasting in my ears lol, sort it out bravo !

[@shannonyoung3910]

Luann is delusional omg I just can't!!!

[@nahidah.1790]

“Well that’s very upsetting to see” LMAOOO 😭😂😂 Taurus energy!!! I had an ex like this once I told him you changed and he was like “wow I bet that’s very upsetting to see someone change out of sudden” and the worst part is that he was SERIOUS just like luann 😂😂😂 lmao! I love her tho!

[@Diana_Fire]

Why is this quiet AF but the Bravo TV inserts are loud AF.

[@laday4792]

Hard to spot a narcissist but it’s not Lu. A narcissist blames everyone and anyone else for their own bad behavior. Lu took accountability for her behavior and apologized. Narcissists never apologize. Dorinda is the narcissist in this group. She’s always right. Never has anything to apologize for. She is envious of everyone. She’s just plain mean...and has no remorse for her actions or words. Lu is the scapegoat not the narcissist in this group.

[@okok-bp9dj]

BOTH of them are narcissists. There a NINE categories of narcissists, and tons of them actually do admit their wrongs, but of course it's a matter of time before the REPEAT their bad behavior again and again and again. Some narcississts outward behavior is the opposite of another type of narc. Help yourself by studying all types. Some of the people who seem to do the best things for others are the biggest and most insidious narcs.

[@laday4792]

I believe Lu is the scapegoat in this situation and will stand by that. Also since millions of narcissists admit their wrongs then are the millions of scapegoats out there trying to get validated about the abuse they have endured lying? Covert narcissists never admit their wrongs! Never. They will shift the blame to anyone or just gaslight and act as if nothing ever happened. Narcissistic personalities have no remorse or empathy so admitting their wrongs is just not a part of their make up.

[@sierra2123]

Luann is always the fall guy. Bethenny has done terrible things to all the cast and Andy's favorite. She never takes responsibility for anything. Look at her divorce and her treatment of Jason. Luann finished her probation Bethenny is still on divorce.

[@martind586]

SOBER Luann is going to be a different Luann. The 1st year is VERY hard. The Ladies should have backed off and just let her do and be whoever she wants during this time.

[@ryancourts2726]

martind586 they don’t understand

[@sierra2123]

She had to focus on herself.

[@steph7139]

Nope bc that would be enabling bad behaviour

[@lindadavis3728]

LuAnn is above telling her friend to kiss her axx. Bravo is nasty. You don't get a pay check unless you can get in the mud with the rest of cast and it is uncomfortable for a viewer.

[@7777lizabeth]

Andy said to Tinsley, When did you finally get comfortable being naked on the show!!!! Andy forces them to act like Lesbians and do vile acts!

[@lindadavis3728]

It is a classless franchise with classless cast member.

[@Strawberryfearsforever]

Luann is the most delusional, self absorbed, no self awareness having housewife in the entire franchise.

[@pearlbubbles6885]

They all are except Barbara.

[@cate4338]

omg - this show needs Tinsley - bright, fun, objective and honest

[@obibraxton2232]

S11 Luanne was doing up Nene Leaks S6/S7 RHOA where she’s a full blown Narcissist and self obsessed “broadway broadway etc.” I mean when she went “I just got cast in Chicago” I had to cackle 😂 like wtf has that got to do with the topic at hand smh 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@aboudial-sahli2857]

Andy really needs to calm tf down

[@libbyr2040]

whoever edited this video made that transition ridiculously loud

[@margaretbonnett3233]

I have fallen in lust with other women but never acted on it. I've always been in relationships with men. I think Barbara is actually very interesting but you need to be a viper to be on rhony with this cast. I want the cast to stay the way they are.

[@MasterOfTheElements]

That's insaaaane😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@bRoWnsKinfRien]

It's my favorite thing to say now 😂