Lumineers "Stubborn Love"

live in the MetroPCS Lounge at Radio947 October 10, 2012

[@toddelliott9896]

“It’s better to feel pain than nothing at all. The opposite of love is indifference”

[@JC-00945]

The best line

[@shaneconnaughton5961]

There’s something about the first 10~15 seconds of this video that just make me reminisce. The cello, the guys voice introducing, the build up to the song, it just does something to me. I listen to this clip so much, the whole video is just perfection. The Melody’s, how the music ties up with the vocals, a masterpiece of a performance.

[@gavinkirkpatrick1700]

When im drunk, as I currently am, I can sing this to perfection. WHat a SOng

[@joeyzumwalt8349]

That aye boy mate

[@kellieward1495]

Me too

[@maryannstipe8964]

@@kellieward1495Knew it was you.. I'd say cut back on the drinking Love.. and try to be a little more sensitive. 😘THANKS Love!!

[@kari4225]

Ha ha ha you go good thing 😉

[@kari4225]

There is sooo many lyrics from musicians when we where young , keep your head up. Can we love today ?🧡🧡🧡 So much pressure

[@Mq6vL9Bu]

"The opposite of love's indifference" ... so true, all the feels.

[@JB-ip7vr]

One of the best and most uplifting bands of our time, along with mumford and bon iver

[@stevenwaldvogel449]

T Kol Grouplove?

[@muskyman26]

Get you some trampled by turtles

[@existingman3000]

If I heard this on the radio I'd of thought it was Mumford and sons

[@wwaldo2525]

Avett brothers blow Mumford and bob over out of the water

[@darrenmendez7262]

What about novo amor and gregory alan isakov?

[@JTSX1]

Easily the best performance of this song. The cello and Neyla's voice are much more prominent than in other versions. I don't think they showcase her enough in their music.

[@amyg3138]

JTSX1 agree

[@sudershenstinson6307]

That is the reason she spilt up with the band

[@virgilhilts3924]

​@@sudershenstinson6307 Yup Thats because Schultz's ego couldn't handle her and it showed over the years. I remember in early shows both her singing and playing were potted up equal to Schultz and Jeremiah, she would also play multiple instruments not just the cello. Then as time went on I started to notice she was being potted down lower and lower, first her voice then her playing. You'll also note that eventually she would only play cello and no other instruments. Speaking of singing, she would ALWAYS garner far more applause than Schultz, especially when singing "unnamed/falling". He would do the first line and there would be a bit of applause, then after she did hers the crowd would always go nuts. Eventually it would appear that he would get pissed, you could actually see it in his face, which is why I think they dropped it from their live shows. Another thing to look for is how he treated her on stage. Early there was the normal back & forth and playing off each other, but then it started to look as if he didn't even want to look at her. After they last song they would all hug each other except when Schultz got to her, he would just give her a weak handshake then quickly turn away, after I noticed that I knew something was up. Not long after I noticed she was being physically isolated on stage farther away from everyone else, eventually being put in that sort of fenced off area. You could also see in her face that she was no longer having fun and pretty much going through the motions. She and Jeremiah always seemed to be smiling and having fun early on, but eventually she just looked miserable. Sad because I personally thought she was the brightest spot in their show, both her and Jeremiah. At that point I had a gut feeling she would be gone soon and sure enough the next year I heard she had left. Neyla was pure class in every aspect, when I saw the new girl rolling around on the floor like a fool I just felt sad for them. Hopefully Neyla continues on, keeps smiling and having fun.

[@joecepp5218]

Neyla is magical. She was so underutilized on the albums, but in concert and live shows she's AMAZING. Can't believe they didn't use her more. The new Album III doesn't have the same heart/charm without her. A big loss for sure.

[@blairhancock8132]

Agree 100% - She made them more distinctive.

[@chadmillar4530]

Her background vocals in this version are ANGELIC! I can't get enough of it.

[@toddmontondo364]

@@blairhancock8132 absolutely correct

[@robertmacarthur8324]

Agreed and not to mention she is absoulty stunning

[@mozzbagels1274]

I am so pissed. Imagine how AMAZING it would've been for her to be in the albums and even having a couple solos. They would've gone and sold twice as much. The duality of a man and a woman singing is underappreciated, especially when it's two singer of a high caliber like in the Lumineers case

[@mcnally211]

I WANT NAYLA BACK SOOO BAD. PLZ SOLVE THAT ISSUE. WE LOVE HER.

[@lowellcalavera6045]

irish anger I like the new fiddle player.

[@christopherwasko5948]

What happened?

[@cynthia9642]

Best live performers I’ve seen. The simplicity of their shows coupled with an uncanny ability to sound exactly like they were in a recording booth. Just listen to this one. If you weren’t watching the video, you could assume it’s a studio recording.

[@Lily-dc4vb]

Now that's what I call music

[@TheboyCaleb]

which number?

[@ewok132]

Possibly the best thing ever written and performed ..... So profoundly true line after line

[@CaesarJayL]

"She'll tear a hole in You.. Tha one You can't repair. But I still love Her I dont even care" the lyrics that build generations. ❤thats real love right there 💯 ❤😂

[@hookedonthebay3890]

This is one of the most touching and accurate songs to me. "Its better to feel pain than nothing at all". Why I stayed in a long relationship and put up with lying and cheating. No one could tell me anything.

[@finleytyson6639]

My first ever boyfriend was long distance. We shared music with each other all the time and he was the first boy I ever felt truly connected to and I truly felt like he was my soulmate. He was 3 years older than me keep that in mind. We talked all day and night from October 2020- February 2021 and in January he told me he was moving in with his brother in another state. In March we started talking less which broke my heart but he said he was struggling and needed time to focus on himself. I cried for an entire week and didn’t eat it was bad. After 2 weeks of not talking we still follow each other on everything and I opened Instagram to see him on the beach holding a girl and the caption was a heart. He didn’t move in with his brother, he moved in with her.

[@PuffingTheHerbs]

I've been there. Not nice when you love someone who has cheats on ya and shows no respect at. Everyone should experience it because it will make you a better person from it.

[@alexandriaocasio-smollett5078]

Been there. I don’t know why we stay. And then after we leave jump right back into another unhealthy relationship like a bug to a zapper on a hot August night. I’ve given it a lot of thought over the years. Mostly because I don’t want it to happen again. What I’ve come up with is I suspect it’s an individualized mix of pride, ego, fear, insecurity, and the dynamic that “it’s easier to fool someone than it is to convince someone they’ve been fooled“. So I decided to stay out of relationships long enough to understand why it happened. To jump right back into another relationship wouldn’t be fair to myself or the other person. I’m grateful I did that because it bought a measure of clarity.

[@wolfpacrule]

That's such a negative way to interpret the words. The actual meaning is It's better to feel the pain of breakup than to stay in a toxic relationship and feeling numb and nothing.

[@musclvr377]

@@finleytyson6639 that was a d*ck move. I'm sorry. I'm not sure why people can't just tell the truth. It's gonna hurt you no matter what but this was more hurtful. I'm done with long distance relationships after being burned a couple times. My bf was with me here and then moved. He actually got married and still acted like he wasn't. what a jerk. I hope that you've found happiness. :)

[@kylemartin5764]

Goodness it's been 10 years already? Love indeed has been stubborn

[@keesdevreugd9177]

KZbin's algorithms kept suggesting me to listen to this. I ignored them little buggers for months. What was I thinking? This is one of the best songs I've heard in years.

[@doannha215]

I'm glad they're still going strong and steady but truth be told, this version above all is still the best version of this song. Nayla added a whole layer to all the feelings and adds more depth to the song. The moment she started singing and especially when she sang that phrase "when it got cold". I swear I can feel the power and the impact of the melodies in her voice. This was the golden time of the Lumineers.

[@SPBurt1]

And now they broke up....shame, not gonna be the same band, I have no real idea why only speculation but...maybe Nayla's amazing voice should have been premiered more??

[@virgilhilts3924]

@@SPBurt1 It was... early on Watch recordings of early shows and then watch later ones and note the difference Schultz's ego couldn't handle her and it showed over the years as I think she naturally, innocently, upstaged him As I mentioned in another reply, watch Schultz's facial reaction in early shows when they sang "Unnamed/Falling" After she sang her first line after his the crowd would go nuts each and every time (I went to many of their shows) As time went on it actually looked as if he was getting pissed that she would get so much applause I honestly believe that is why he dropped the song from their live shows, it was hurting his ego

[@brandoncadena27]

There songs make me feel better

[@autumnleavestowinter]

I agree

[@alextex11]

One of the best songs of our time.

[@Michelangelo0003]

This is music. This is awesome music. I love this. I hope they keep away from drugs, bad habits, and all the negative stuff. I wish them a great future.

[@johnbarasch1917]

For real

[@dorianjames9798]

Yup yup

[@hoganfan2006]

When you say, “all the negative stuff” you mean the occult, eh!

[@oriolpochgarbi2617]

people with your thought are negative stuff

[@vandals145]

Shut up stupid it’s rock and roll.

[@andy3210]

Hard to see the Lumineers ever recapturing this magic. The genius and creativity of youth is hard to bottle

[@Wightzebra]

Tambourine dude is killin it!

[@mannytabontabon5349]

Lumineers you saved my life!

[@victoredwards0530]

Neyla on the bass is a huge asset to the Lumineers. She has a real ear for music/tones, and rounds out the sound nicely.

[@victoredwards0530]

Sorry, I mistook it as a double bass.

[@embeksehat666]

agree

[@cpmow831]

"than most" ;).

[@Nanda170808]

Ccx""‐ pooí

[@jimduncan6982]

Does Neyla play bass or cello ?

[@jessp6290]

My song to Him... 💜❤️💚 I can't be told Ah ah it can't be done It's better to feel pain, than nothing at all The opposite of love's indifference So pay attention now I'm standing on your porch screaming out And I won't leave until you come downstairs So keep your head up, keep your love Keep your head up, my love And I don't blame ya dear For running like you did, all these years I would do the same, you best believe And the highway signs say we're close But I don't read those things anymore I never trusted my own eyes

[@reichstreu3362]

I went to high school with Wes. He was a good dude. He def deserves the success.

[@renegado100]

I love the Cello ..girl !!

[@WaitaMinute574]

There will never be a more emotional live presentation for me than the stubborn love ones, they really know how to make me fell the lyrics. This is surely one of the best versions of this song.

[@tonyb1984]

Fêh Neves "ghosts that we knew" by Muford & Sons

[@GrandHustle97]

Hard to believe this is music from today, they're really musically talented

[@teleconferencing-arkadin6748]

GrandHustle97 opposite of love is hate

[@krb0123]

^No it isn’t. It’s indifference

[@derekrogers1668]

best version

[@brandonp3991]

Magical song, never gets old

[@mariacristinasalvemini647]

Lumineers Forever .😍

[@davehause8571]

Can a trio have more depth of sound than this song? Wow.

[@calebeyl5127]

Dave Hause kzbin.info/www/bejne/fXKwi2yhbbWFY6c

[@david_burgos]

She'll lie and steal and cheat And beg you from her knees Make you thinks she means it this time She'll tear a hole in you, the one you can't repair But I still love her, I don't really care When we were young Oh oh, we did enough When it got cold Ooh ooh, we bundled up I can't be told Ah ah it can't be done It's better to feel pain, than nothing at all The opposite of love's indifference So pay attention now I'm standing on your porch screaming out And I won't leave until you come downstairs So keep your head up, keep your love Keep your head up, my love Keep your head up, my love Keep your head up, keep your love And I don't blame ya dear For running like you did, all these years I would do the same, your best believe And the highway signs say we're close But I don't read those things anymore I never trusted my own eyes When we were young Oh oh, we did enough When it got cold, Ooh ooh we bundled up I can't be told, Ah ah, can't be done Keep your head up, keep your love Keep your head up, my love Keep your head up, my love Keep your head up, keep your love Head up, love Head up, love Head up, love Head up, love

[@melissaa2639]

Thank you!

[@AleFranc-cv1ou]

Gracias!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤

[@nathanielmorley3874]

If I get COVID-19 and die, this is the song I want playing at my funeral. That, or a recreation of Qui-Gon's from the Phantom Menace.

[@dabbking]

I miss the old days, I am about to have my first kids and I happy to have them at the same time kinda sad to see my youth running away. Brings me back to a younger me.

[@JTSX1]

An amazing song which I'm sure many are able to relate to. Hopefully I'll get to catch these guys live.

[@thebean6668]

+JTSX1 Check out the new album 'Cleopatra' which is just out. Some good stuff on it.

[@grimmstone4043]

Good God She makes That Cello Cry

[@Tommyggs5432]

And the cello makes me cry 😢

[@coachjohntracey]

I can listen to this version all day

[@queenmiepje]

Omg I loved how the girl sung at 1:07 !

[@JTSX1]

+Chrissy V. (Catrina) Yes, she looks great in this video and has a lovely voice.

[@juanelganame7781]

You should listen to the song "Falling", where she sings a lot. She has a beautiful voice and the reaction of the people is epic.

[@heinercordero2905]

♥️

[@aleetee2003]

The cello is the most underrated instrument

[@Tommyggs5432]

Anyone else just listen to this song and cry ?

[@joanneross5482]

No

[@englishteacher-rb9pi]

The best version of this song!!

[@bobmcmahon1920]

Great song...great performance. That's a lot of sound they put out with a guitar, cello and a tambourine and of course vocals.

[@motherofcreation9892]

Beautiful tio there. I love that song 💖 for some reason my heart kinda aches when I just watched this.

[@stephengaffney998]

Love this song means alot when your going through a hard time ❤️xx

[@Tommyggs5432]

❤️

[@pranavnair8623]

Still listening!! 😊

[@wk3xls]

I like this version!

[@dixonwapoose3015]

I miss summer 2k19 listening to this.

[@nd7]

Best version of the song by far

[@charlesnullens]

Absolutely brilliant! 👍

[@saviamariacarvalho5932]

... É para ouvir trilhões de vezes ❤

[@agegenramsamy5827]

❤️❤️❤️ from mauritius🇲🇺

[@pipettibi4204]

Best band in the whole fucking world ... I never feel music like I do now with this band . All songs are amazing . ❤️ Keep this music up and keep love

[@weatherlyt]

I have renewed belief that the cello is the most human of all the instruments.. So effing good.

[@jjgoogle663]

Such great musicians.. Every performance i ve watched is awesome!.Come on down to Winnipeg!

[@parkerwilliams6948]

She left a wound in my heart that will never heal

[@gavinandrews843]

heard this song on a video for the late great mae young, loved lumineers since!

[@jameslynch4732]

Makes me feel alive thank you

[@ianharrison873]

Bring back Neyla - the band was brilliant as a trio - something different and unique - now it has become "just another electric band" - lost its magic!!!

[@goonie8774]

Its quite close, I wouldn't say they suck with out her, but I would certainly say they were much better off with her. When I listen to this band it's always to songs she was apart, never the new stuff w/o her.

[@isabellacarrasquelventura7409]

Nayla looks sick in this video. Miss her so much

[@peteyojeda5096]

I can't wait to see them live this may..

[@mnkysee01]

damn, i dont even know the lyrics but i can feel the music going through my soul

[@mawsonfamily3633]

Sensational, fabulous song, music and everything. Just amazing

[@canada_rye]

I get goosebumps listening to this.

[@orangemonsoon1883]

I love her❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@emilyhart5229]

There live covers make me want to cry :(( they sound exactly like the music videos or whatever but there's just something special in the live versions that hit me right in the heart and soul

[@lordsidious8428]

Listened to this in 2019 the very first time after I left my late girlfriend to go for training at a different town and different time zone, cried some nights because we just had a newborn baby and I got called up 2 days before I got to get on the plane, listened to it every night, I missed them so much that I started to drink every day. But I had enough. I called my supervisor and told him I wanted to go home. Lo and behold, I was home to my family... sadly Andrea (it was her name) passed away this April 25th 2023.. lord knows how much I fucking miss her. Miss her so damn fucking much.

[@deborahvictoriaedwards5188]

Illuminating you all be. Beautiful music sooths the soul. Blessings and love 💖🌟🙏 Bee🐝

[@DCXCoorexDakarCoore]

"The opposite of Love is indifference" 💔

[@missnativebeauty82]

This is music. A band who still plays instruments. Love this song

[@frankneudeck6505]

Perfect song. 😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@nirvanna7774]

im in love with that chick!

[@joellarsen6254]

This song is perfection.

[@CityZoe]

I need to see them live.

[@itaintmebabe714]

Beautiful

[@jaysonvillanueva9164]

my all time favorite.❤❤❤

[@karlbryant7478]

Goose bumps every time 😍

[@yisfernandezz]

“And I don't blame you, dear For running like you did all these years I would do the same, you best believe And the highway signs say we're close But I don't read those things anymore…”

[@jimdavis1566]

The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference. The worst thing you can do to another person is to not care.

[@IslandFrame]

the 470 people that gave this a thumbs down need to put the meth pipe down. This track is amazing.

[@eva_eva_evakishna]

I love this music ❤❤❤❤

[@colerainfan1143]

Love it.

[@tommycat2054]

They are going to be a band people will dig 50 years from now

[@truecolors6451]

Incredibilmente emozionante !

[@stew918]

A girl plays the cello well.

[@sofavs6670]

HAHHAHAHHAHAHHAHAH Arya lookalike

[@user-nk3re4dj5h]

A girl has no name.

[@schumacherenator]

this is objectively false, her technique is beyond busted and she has no sense of pitch whatsoever. terrible tight sound, lethargic vibrato... there's just no merit to her playing at all.

[@user-nk3re4dj5h]

schumacherenator He said the word "objective" that means everything he said is true and any rebuttal is futile. He ended the conversation everybody, you may go home now. He also apparently doesn't watch Game of Thrones

[@BaldAndroid]

Nick B - You're confusing objective with subjective.

[@aurorapena5720]

F-ing AMAZING! Sooooooooooooooooooooooo in love with Mr. Tambourine Man!!!!

[@joanneross5482]

Music stripped to the bone . love it.

[@ckrose4163]

Why so many dislikes? I Love this song and Band-Group, or whatever we call them nowadays. I have seen them twice and they are Amazing!!

[@blg1267]

Love this song. Great cello work

[@wl1073]

Really Enjoy the Lumineers.

[@bwe90]

love the cello a bit louder in this version.

[@Tessietots]

I love the Cello! Makes the song in my opinion

[@bwe90]

Absolutely!

[@Wooflungpoo]

bwe90 the cello isn't in the recording, it's another string n bow instrument. I always thought it was the fiddle lmao high chance I'm wrong tho

[@angeluk2020]

Fing love it......... it's amazing,

[@albertolopeznarvaez9513]

Hey! Without the cello this band and this song would not be so beautiful and successful. The soul of this style

[@johndrinkard3264]

It sounds almost exactly like the studio version lol. Amazing talent

[@markhenry9024]

Better

[@patmiras]

That was good! Made me feel the spirit

[@MouseTrapNRH]

Keep your head up my love(smiling with tears)

[@finneire2081]

Never dreamed widow Harrison’s offspring would be so talented

[@karasmith8421]

Love

[@brandoncadena27]

I love them

[@daniellebauer3678]

Geesh. I've been on both sides of This musical conversation. My love is stubborn, but it has had to set safe boundaries for me & my beloved.