GRWM | How To Make A Guy Chase You

[@float4046]

I'm claiming the mindset of " if you're not making my life any easier or if there's no positive uplifting from you being in it, then i see no reason for you to be around."

[@j.music1157]

Completely agree !! That’s why I don’t want to have contact with him anymore. He makes my life not easier, just more stressed bc of him

[@Lori.jane08]

Cloak

[@float4046]

@@Lori.jane08 whats that supposed to mean?

[@DiaGreen08]

@@acryptotrader5926 what

[@mercedes-benzbentleyranger1070]

I like your way of thinking

[@connortmurphy]

As a guy... if the guy likes you he'll do the work to chase. Mostly its personality, looks and if he enjoys your conversations. If you date the guys you friendzoned... trust me they'll do their best to make you happy even if you're not attracted to them they'll put in the effort and sometimes guys in your friendzone make the best partners. :)

[@lummaaziz]

I agree!

[@R999soup]

One more very important thing, any guy will chase u to impress u initially bt once u r impressed nd get into the relationship, the initial things start fading away and the guy might change his decision also...so beware of that too

[@OmarAhmed-jo1cf]

Sorry , but this isn't always true . I'm a guy who loved a girl so deeply I was afraid to blow up the opportunity & didn't feel I was enough for her yet , that although I knew we are for each other my mind was too nervous in trying to make it perfect and that I needed to work on myself first .The pain of this love stayed with me for years , so please don't always assume that if the guy doesn't approach then he doesn't care , he may care too much to approach .

[@vivsmeliatz4397]

@@R999soup this is actually a double edged sword. I dont know either to show him Im also interested or just act normal and let him do the chasing until we feel its enough. I once dated a guy, he put lots of efforts in the beginning but when i gave in he lost interest.

[@R999soup]

@vits meliatz yeah this happend wid me too nd this has become very common these days...i find

[@jeemaarts]

i feel so warm after watching this. you’re like the older sister at a sleepover that always gives the best advice. i came from the break up documented video and subscribed and seeing you blossom into this confident woman who knows what she wants. i wanna grow up to be like you😭 thank you for inspiring me

[@lummaaziz]

I love this, and you so much!

[@lovelillysingh1230]

I think the main message of this video is that, KEEP YOUR GODDAMN SELF-RESPECT TOGETHER GIRLIES! Do NOT give your all to a man who is not ready to make you his gf.

[@nicolejenkins-q1t]

please do not use God name in vain , He will not hold those guiltless who do so . Jesus Christ says i am the way the truth and the life no one comes to the father except through Me 🙏💗 John 14:6

[@charlieannamary]

I love how this isn't focusing on manipulating the man into a relationship or like tricking them into thinking your something your not. It's just healthy behaviour

[@charlottes6975]

you have absolutely no idea how much I needed to hear this. I am so so into this guy its embarrassing and was freaking out about what to do because he keeps letting me down emotionally and I know now that I need to just live my damn life and if he wants to be apart of that...boy better work but I'm not slowing down for him.

[@eeelizabethh95]

Period

[@sophiayef444]

Same exact thing for me

[@simpleooogabooga]

She genuinely sounds like such a sweet and polite person. I'd love her as a friend or my elder sister❤️

[@hi-ix2ps]

fr

[@TheAttractionTriggers]

*Be confident and independent. Show him that you have a fulfilling life of your own and don't need him to complete you. This will make him see you as a challenge and want to chase you.*

[@JonathanGarcia-hy8hd]

You’re such a comforting soul. I feel like I genuinely get to know you through your videos and they’ve definitely helped me through my breakup process, just want to say thank you for your vulnerability and honesty! Please don’t stop making videos like these 🤍

[@nihushii_luv]

I was hurting myself and now I am so ashamed of it that I gave too much effort to the guy who didn't even cared about my emotions and feelings

[@nihushii_luv]

@wasapp9463 What message?

[@mahfugaparvin5121]

she is perfect ! she is beautiful both inside and out and is polite and relatable !!

[@lummaaziz]

Love this!

[@demi519]

she starts at 4:45 with advice :)

[@SonyaKhanOfficial]

Not all heroes wear capes!

[@achiengdeji]

Hehe😂

[@lifedeather]

How much time it takes girls to get to the point 😂

[@biancaasacc]

i love u

[@jahnvipassi]

You are so relatable I remember when I was dating my ex , we were texting and I suddenly disappeared for hours due to some work. When I finally texted him back , I said I'm sorry for disappearing while you were waiting the whole time, something urgent came up and from next time on I'll let you know how long will it take if I'm busy and he said no no that's not a problem you don't how much I love waiting for you especially when I don't even know when I'll hear from you again. And there has been many such instances with me, so I definitely believe men find it exciting to chase and that's their core nature. When we are too available we are actually trying to change his core nature and that's when things get messed up.

[@LemansSunset350]

You’re dating advice is on point and I’m in my 40s. you’re wise beyond your years. Smart lady!!!! You’ve got it!!! 🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@malva5456]

The key here is to be happy, have your life, enjoy… and then a man will come into your life and say: she looks so happy, let me go ruin her life

[@whyjustwhy2168]

So right tho

[@iaf4454]

True

[@mirrorballinme744]

😂

[@prachikhanduri8251]

😂😂😂😂

[@ExpandMeditation]

Exactly 😂

[@stropia1]

her energy and mindset >>> 💗

[@nandabguedes]

This is so much more wholesome than I expected, I actually feel beautiful hearing you say this stuff 🤧✨

[@aleeza9025]

ahhh I love her she explains this in such a simple but feminine wayyy 🙂🤍

[@lakenita2443]

Omg yes girl lol put the advice out there. Sometimes we girls do the dumbest unnecessary things for a guy's attention lol. Your tips advice and support is very kind and very helpful.... thank you God bless u 🙏 ❤️

[@yeahnah4303]

nah don't ever tell a guy what you want. It's giving them the blueprint to manipulate you!!

[@jrd_711]

Yes! And I think key is never get too comfortable on both sides. Embarrassing moments are what keeps a little spark. When everything always feels new, you'll always work hard to keep them! Never share too many thoughts together, obviously keep some to yourself. And learn to live without them. So in the end everything is gravy.

[@julesfamily3745]

The right guy will manipulate you the right guy won’t

[@isabelaglo]

right like especially if u are asking for the bare minimum like attention cmon girl wtf u doing!!

[@ithil-maril9141]

@@isabelaglo exactly!

[@7uuaan]

if he tries then he stupid asf, i aint dumb to get manipulated tf

[@melodyclementine]

I love her this video helped me so much already. I already feel better. im getting over a toxic relationship that lasted 2 years. we broke up two months ago. and I'm feeling a little better now. I dont want to put myself out there for awhile cause I wan to focus on sucess and myself but if someone comes around I know this advice will help. Especially since this helped me to understand that there will be someone who treats me right and I must wait and not put up with their crap because my worth. Thank you for this video I love you.

[@ottomanpapyrus9365]

yeah yeah well someone who "treats you right" is a turn off its damn amazing how oblivious females are to their own feelings and nature

[@Tshanduko]

I have to agree with everything you said here. We must not be afraid of starting all over and we must never settle 💯 😉

[@ottomanpapyrus9365]

Too late honey

[@ottomanpapyrus9365]

Wtf your name's actually honey hahahaha

[@GnlBenjaminNiiKoteyNeequaye]

you are just right

[@geethasanthosh6084]

❤

[@vikermmeenavikerm3805]

It’s kinda crazy how nobody’s talking about the book womens magic truths on borlest

[@lemanerdogan8831]

I swear when I am watching your videos it's like a listening my best friend.... girl thank you for being real and keeping up real!!!!!!!!

[@gatestimonymiracle1302]

Yes I learned about dating multiple men. You are more at peace. I have two guys right now, currently looking for number 3

[@nanaabenadarkowaah1800]

How do you do it? Tips please.

[@NusratJahan-mf1ji]

I loved it..... Every time she says " babygirl" like aaaaahhhhhhhh!!!! Yes.

[@SadiaHarun-o9x]

You have become my best friend in my healing era. I just watched your 3 months breakup documented video and got so much motivation to feel I will be okay too.

[@MS-bn3rg]

I think "Why Men Love Bitches" is a good read related to this topic

honestly, do what you love to do but you are GOR-GEOUS without the makeup too!! wow!

[@prlncess4ever]

I like what you say about value yourself and not giving time unless they deserve it but i disagree about talking to multiple men. I believe it's amazing to focus on just 1 person and if it doesn't work then it doesn't if it works then that's a blessing

[@GadgetsGearCoffee]

I find until there is a commitment it's good to keep dating because you show up differently with everyone, less anxious for example. They sense it whether they know you're seeing a few people or not

[@tacobellemployee7819]

I enjoy talking to just one guy as well. It feels so draining talking to multiple, it ends up feeling like a chore to me. For me personally it feels wrong if I start talking to other guys 😭

[@prlncess4ever]

@GadgetsGearCoffee people aren't dumb, they know when you are dating multiple people and you will get dropped. Any guy that's okay with me dating multiple people I would question their intention with me, I wouldn't do it because I wouldn't want my partner to and it's worked amazing for me

[@prlncess4ever]

@@tacobellemployee7819 lol same, I have terrible focusing on someone other than myself

[@Sunnysidelol1]

Oh, am glad you are back

[@paulinavlogs3693]

10:34 "You are not ROOM SERVICE...baby girl" 😂😂 very true tho.

[@crystalalberto2230]

Too late I cleaned his studio apartment 😅😂 i know he’s not ready for relationship and I’m realizing that it’s him not me. This really help me want to move on more ❤thank you love 💕

[@lyndsayrodriguez1962]

omg i loooove your energy. thank you for this queen🙏🏼🦋

[@shaydarkbloom335]

That’s such good advice. I like how you said a girls gotta have standards and value herself. Thankx ❤~Subscribed

[@Cynny_cyn]

Thank you for slapping reality into me ❤😂

[@ottomanpapyrus9365]

a right five across the eyes

[@bulkist]

I used to be anxiously attached to boys only from being in the talking stage. Then this boy, SUPER handsome, smart and kind, with so much in common, came chasing me and made me his girlfriend AND he put a little weight on my finger. I was in the talking stage with a boy already who I was commited to. there was something missing there but I accepted it. luckily my now boyfriend put himself in my basket.

[@MissModernprincess]

sounds awesome and I am happy for you! Just make sure it's not what they call love bombing by narcissists!

[@bulkist]

@@MissModernprincess haha yes!

[@OpheliasAdvices-mp9km]

Thank you for the reminders! I swear the ‘don’t treat him like your bf’ hit me so hard lol, much required!

[@sinaoscar9881]

Happy to see you back queen. You are so cute ❤

[@lummaaziz]

Yay! Love you!

[@athenagriego4561]

Thank you! I needed this video and I will rewatch over and over again so that I do NOT forget!

[@Alyjoyce]

I already have a man, but I’m here for the sister vibes and girl time! I love your energyyyy!

[@darkknights6661]

i literally love your vibe girl, no matter what others say . your truly a gem out here💖. ILY❤

[@sOsOmega]

Tell it gurl! Preach! Its so true! I read this book, Why Men love bitches. Dont be a nice a girl. Realize and take ownership of your womanly worth. But DO NOT ALLOW THESE FOOLS to take advantage of your worth which is DIAMONDS! Girl NO stop! Lumma is sharing wisdom. NEVER SETTLE. You are not room service. Dont become Mommie which is servant. I will say it is really sexy when a male is a gentleman, a males maturity is sexy as world.

[@vanshikamishr369]

Love it be more brutal honest for girls we need this instead of sugar coating lies

[@ladyjayd2588]

Idk what’s better, the makeup or the advice 😍💜

[@ritejslim5859]

Her voice when she sing

[@ginmarie7674]

I feel like I'm getting ready to go out to a party with my best friend watching this video. ❤️

[@barbararivera5160]

“This is not Build -A-Bear” 🤣 love it!

[@jasmino6077]

I need to start watching this video everyday until I internalize it. I make myself way too available to guys I like.

[@FatimaMD7]

You will be in vogue I promise queen 💗💗💗💗

[@katelynnanio]

BROO I LOVE HER VOICEEE

[@PrabhasPandey-uz7es]

This video is a game-changer! So much helpful information packed into one clip. I personally don't like promoting anything in comments,

[@mehekkibria9377]

I didn’t know how much I needed this before I clicked.

[@AmandySue]

Right. A partner is suppose to enhance your life and make it easier. Not stress you out!

[@ShIIohz]

nothing but GOOSEBUMPS. thank you this really helped me see what i was doing wrong in most relationships

[@DesignDanielle]

Wish I knew all of these gems before I got into a relationship 3+ years ago

[@Cadesbaee]

Just found this channel and i love it omg!!! it’s the only channel out of many that i actually fully understand ❤

[@mysirenprincess]

coming back here bcs 5 months after the breakup and 2 months after watching your break up videos, I'm healed and need knowledge to get back into dating

[@t.shinee6288]

I am one of the Asian girls. I really like watching your videos. Watching you, I increase self confident and self care. I am healing myself day by day. ❤ 🌎🌎🌎

[@xobbynov]

gosh you’re soooo stunning and glowy!!!! your makeup looks so pretty as well 💗💗

[@kristinej.4182]

Great advice and well taken! Love your energy and videos! 👍🏻💕💕💕💕

[@bhumikabethra5495]

Oh I was waiting for the final outfit look...you are gorgeous, thanks for the words❤

[@FatimaMD7]

Your channel saves me , not only in terms of life talks also seeing your vlogs makes me feel alive , I love you my saviour angel 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💞💞💞💞💞💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@chillingout2690]

Lumma is my lil therapist! Love you girl! 😍😍❤❤

[@cydneylaren9746]

Omg gurl I love this so much, I’m so glad I watched this!! You’re energy is everything and keep being u girl! Thank you for this vid it’s so helpful & I like ur take on this topic ☺️💗✨

[@god_given]

4:40 is when she starts to give advice!

[@alisonalibongo3177]

Thank you for this. I have been single 7 years & 50 next year. Hope one day the right man will come along. your stunning

[@dagmarelize]

Girl you know what you are talking about. This is my new podcast right now ahaha. You have a beautiful voice and it’s nice to listen to your video’s❤❤

[@Skylerdubbels]

when i say this was the PERFECT timing

[@sivialove475]

NOT MISS CLOWNY FROM THE CHANCE OF MEATBALLS IM CRYINGGGG😭 but Fr girl you right. I needa make the guy work for it lol!!!

[@baddieblanca8283]

Some big sister advice Right there❤❤❤love it .

[@blacksugar7773]

you literally look like a Disney Pixar animation, so pretty!

[@twk9541]

The best way to make a guy chase you is to tell them how handsome they are, pay the bill , and present them your underwear etc ❤😂🎉

[@sabrinahsu9567]

"this is not build a bear" AHHAHAHA

[@mervebalkan2]

From „3 months of heartbreak“ to „how to make a guy chase you“🔥🔥🔥

[@catherineshines]

How to make a guy chase you: You chase you.

[@leesanderson6885]

So needed to hear this ..awesome dates ..live apart....he even puts me on the train!! Not just dropped outside the station...but when part ..keeps in touch ..but giving crumbs. All energy to get together...is from me. Yep .having that chat soon...

[@DavidNelsonChing-oj2hx]

Now hear this gentlemen! The expert with all the experience speaks💥🤨

[@wallacecortazar7924]

You’re literally so funny and have the best advice

[@RobertMorris-r1y]

she starts at 4:45 with advice :). Thank you for slapping reality into me .

[@ashtonhammond1302]

Humble yourself and go for the best you can be. Never be mad at second place. Logic is best and get pass yourself to be at your goals!

[@preetverma3657]

We don’t need men to be obsessed with us. We need to be obsessed with ourselves first and stop thinking about how to people please and guy please just so he can get and notice you. Be selfish it’s good for you. Stop trying to make him obsessed because at the end of the day, you’ll be drained cause your strategy to make him obsessed won’t work at all.

[@lucy-zf9rp]

yes thank you

[@hibam9048]

5:40 omg I needed to hear this, thank you

[@clinch2clench]

I'm going to help you 1. Don't have a lot of guy friends. Unless you're ok with him having many girlfriends 2. Guys don't want to be 2nd choice Don't talk to multiple men. pick one, a high value man has many choices and doesn't need to compete for your attention. Instead of wasting his time with a girl that might chose someone else he will chase one that has more time for him. 3. Don't try to make him jealous, this trick works on boys not men, it's mean and not fair to him or the guy you're using to make him jealous. this almost always backfires if you're dealing with a high value man that knows what he is worth 4. Apologize the next time you see him if you were mean to him. 5. Let him know you're interested don't make him initiate every single time in the beginning.. if you initiate conversation it will make him more confident and he will try harder 6 don't pull away when things are going good. Some women will pull away in the beginning to test a guy they like to see if he will chase them or to see if he will be upset basically to gauge how much the guy likes them or how crazy he is. But some women do this because things are going too fast or they found someone better or they're just losing interest. Men are not mind readers it's confusing and you could ruin something that could have been awesome.

[@cynthiaa3359]

lol Andrew Tate, is this you?

[@amyoursafespace]

thank u for this video! youre so beautiful and everything u said was on spot! sending love xx🤍🥰

[@ayanacrumble]

allll facts and it works if use it in a healthy way

[@biancaumana7388]

Thanks girl like you have helped me make a boy chase and in my school there is like alot of like people liking each other and its hard to find someone to trust and to love when you know that a bunch of people like to play you ❤

[@j1nnienchrist]

Is it just this vid u watched that helped you?

[@lenawonderland8688]

Two words.Big sisterrrrrr❤❤❤ u go girl

[@elisazouza]

not him replying whilst watching thisssss gotta play it cooool eeeeeeee

[@dashichaconnenow]

There is a boy who at the beginning of the relationship treated me very well and was extremely sensitive. I don't deny that I was afraid of being tricked (because I didn't know if it was genuine) and that's why I ended up treating him a little badly, so as not to show that I was at his mercy. Now I'm not sure if I made the right decision... he's been paying me less attention, and I'm not sure if it's because he never wanted anything or if he just got hurt too much and decided it wasn't worth it anymore. Any advice?

[@mts9687]

This has happened to me, and honestly it could be both but If you’re a little interested then I advise you to show him a little interest, like idk send him a message first or show a little clues of liking him, if he responds the same way then maybe he goes back the way he where, and if he seems uninterested when you show him interest then he was just hunting for fun, or it could be that he lost interest

[@dashichaconnenow]

@@mts9687 tysm for the advice... i think that this worked. He answered that "that was cute coming from me", and also said he was missing me. Guess i've got a positive answer.

[@mts9687]

@@dashichaconnenow that’s awesome I’m glad it help, guys like it when women show some interest back , just don’t give in completely, let it be a fun game , without being rude or completely desintered, show interest but also focus on yourself

[@mf4rosa]

Omg I’m a little late but I love your videos and especially this one🥹😩 I can totally see you pov🤭 thank you for blessing me wit your videos!!! Sending you kisses and wishes😌

[@gigioso241]

Yessss!!! Thank you for the reminder! I AM the prize 😜🤗😄

[@carladeprada5770]

Ive never really understood the concept of never settling for less than what you deserve, I was like yeah obvi, but didn't fully understand till now. thank you:))

[@CathKitchen]

About every eggs in the same basket…I agree 50/50. Like I’ll give him some exclusive time to sense his intentions about me and a chance to see if he truly pursue me. If I see that he doesn’t (& it’s fast to notice) I move on. I wouldn’t talk to too many guys at the same time, also it’s exhausting 😅😂

[@Brookeworm_xx]

I wish I knew this stuff beforehand as someone who isn’t really experienced. I did treat a guy like a boyfriend once, and when I found out I was only an option I stopped talking to him. He came back and said he wanted me and not options… eh.

[@LilianAshley512]

Girl yesss spread me that MOTIVATION!!!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@tmz123]

an u by any chance do a hair tutorial, like how u wash it and style it and the products you use to style or maintain it on the regular

[@lummaaziz]

Yep! For sure

[@ericamartin398]

I came across your video by happenstance and immediately was drawn in.

[@5dklls]

she’s gorgeous

[@ソフィア98]

This is not build a bear 🐻 GIRL THAT HITS HARD