Lusted After with Doug Weiss | Daystar | Joni Table Talk

Why do men lust? Dr. Doug Weiss is back with Joni and the Ladies to pull back the curtain to reveal the truth about lust, how it makes women feel and what to do when a man lusts after you.
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The Lusted After DVD discusses those awkward moments where women are lusted after by men. Most women have had an awkward moment at some point in their lives where they have been lusted after by a man.
Sadly, these women have not been given any manner of information on how to interpret or understand this experience.
Some women falsely blame themselves or assume some responsibility for these advances toward them. Lusted After educates women on why it is not their fault, why men lust and will empower them when an incident like this occurs.
Every woman needs to be armed with the truths that Dr. Weiss outlines in Lusted After. After watching this DVD, you will have the tools to have a life that is untainted by lust.
Lusted After DVD: www.drdougweiss.com/product/l...

[@tarajaneaustin]

Wow. God is good. This video is 4 years old but I tell you it is so relevant to me today. When I do the school run with my children, I have had a male parent constantly lust after me but only from a distance. Well today he crossed the line and it left me feeling like, should I not have been friendly in my hello, good mornings as we pass by each other. Not going to lie, but on the way home I was calling him all sorts of nasty names. Then when I had some alone time, I was praying against him. Now I see that instead I should have been praying for this broken man, asking God to give him the victory in his life, over his family & marriage. I thank God for putting this in my KZbin feed, and for spreading the truth of his gospel. May the grace of God shine upon you for the message of this word Amen.

[@bridgettulloch7615]

Mr Weiss keep up the good work u cannot please all of the people but some blessings🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@luannapoole4496]

What A Holy Godly Blessing This program is for me, and I Fervently Pray that it will be to all I share it with on my blog and on other social media platforms. I know that this is an older program because you and Dr. Doug are now married. But this information is Holy Supernatural Powerful Yesterday, Today, & Tomorrow. Holy God Mega Blessings Always and Forever To you both. Amen & Amen

[@deniset3164]

Every person is broken some are more broken. Couples trigger each other, by stress or bad habits.

[@jesusgirl9858]

So POWERFUL!

[@paulmerritt2484]

At 17 years old taking married women home from the pickup bar does not make you prey if it is a regular occurrence.

[@paulmerritt2484]

Wow that is quite a thing to assume about someone. That if a man does not have other men in his life that are older than he is then he is no good to get into a relationship with? My marriage turned out just fine. 33 years and going strong. I had no one. I had no family or father or mentors or lifetime friends. Then I went to work 6 days a week to support my family. I did not feel comfortable around all the macho stuff and I was tired of being put down for not being into sports. The only men I knew were the ones I met at work. My father is God. The only Father I ever knew. I am a man. I do not need to be a mans man. I am for Jesus. I am for my community. I have friends today who are men. Lots of them and I know most from Church. My wife and I met and fell in love at age 16. We got married at 20 and had our first child almost 2 years later. We never had other partners we dated or all these problems. We had our own problems and grew together closer to Jesus.

[@faigee3493]

Amen to that. God bless you and your wife and your family

[@gracekennelly8534]

Almost 100K subscribers 🎉!

[@sheldrickholmes6787]

Sometimes, there is a process you have to go through

[@faigee3493]

My husband doesn't peak.I am so blessed.He jokes about a celebrity possibly just to tease me.But most times I also like that Person, I am so blessed. I had never have to worry about that and he does not have to worry about that with me. We are just totally comfortable with each other. When I hear the Stories of the people who do struggle with that it pains me. We met when I was 15 and got married when I was 17.Had my first child at eighteen five daughters by at the time I was twenty five I don't look the same anymore but it does not matter to him and and that is how it should be. We love each other more now than we ever did.Who knew we'd be together for 45 years this year? Most of our friends thought it would not last. The older I get, the more I realize that life is not about.Looks or sex at all not at all. And my husband. Agrees wholeheartedly

[@terichastain4179]

Women's bodies are holy... my spirit bears witness. I grew up with an entirely bizarre idea of holiness. Thank you especially for this Table Talk episode. ❤🔥

[@shlrlaborben8934]

❤ JOHN RAMEREZ WAS ON THE GREEN ROOM , CBN , AND MAYBE EVEN ON TABLE TALK......PLEASE BRING HIM BACK TO PREACH ON SPIRITUAL WARFARE ON MINISTRY NOW & LET HIM SPEAK WHAT GOD PUTS ON HIS HEART ......AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS....LOVE & PRAYERS....IN CHRIST YESHUA'S HOLY NAME AMEN.

[@Mel-cc9vr]

This is some powerful information. Thank you Dr. Weiss

[@mariabarlow149]

I love this and needed it! Im on dating sites and get supposedly Christian men that with in the first conversation, they throw out sexual innuendoes. It drives me nuts and then thats a wrap and I do not want anything to do with them at tgat point cause I see them as week and if they do not respect me then they will not respect a relationship .

[@patriciacrider1114]

#jonitabletalk Hi Joni. This was very enlightening. I will keep my testimony to myself here, but I sure learned a lot from this program.

[@user-iv6pr4tz3z]

I'm enjoying what the ladies of Table Talk are saying as well as Dr. Doug Weiss. My question is how does lust compare to guys noticing some of that "eye candy" that walks through stores that we guys notice. Please advise on this topic.

[@sheldrickholmes6787]

Trauma not being dealt with .

[@sonjaengland2338]

But I've been unable to get my husband to talk, or admit anything, seems he'd rather lie & I'm suppose to forgive him of everything 7 times 70. Can't sweep his lust, porn & adultery under the rug and forget it, without dialog.

[@DrDougWeiss]

If you'd like, we have a Partners of Sex Addicts phone group and Facebook group available for support. www.drdougweiss.com/groups/partner-groups/ facebook.com/groups/partnersofsa/

[@melodiewood1315]

RUN !!

[@sonjaengland2338]

@@melodiewood1315 too late to run

[@melodiewood1315]

@@sonjaengland2338 Cant imagine even going near a person like that. Bless you Sonja !!

[@sharoncrawford7192]

Don't live with it.

[@kendrawells1288]

Could you please address the betrayed who’s spouse battles lust/addiction. I feel like we were not addressed or acknowledged in this talk. How this affects us.

[@DrDougWeiss]

This video was a segment from a tv show that I appeared on a while ago. However, we are coming out with a DVD called Intrigue Addiction, which covers this part. Any of the Partner Recovery materials could help you heal if you were betrayed. We also have a phone support group and Facebook support group you can join. www.drdougweiss.com/partner-group/ facebook.com/groups/partnersofsa/

[@kimberlyleonard154]

9:42 I don’t even want to go out in public either my husband. He tells me what he thinks about every woman that’s around!!! I feel so embarrassed, hurt!!! I feel like nothing!!

[@DrDougWeiss]

I'm sorry you're going through this, Kimberly. If there's something my team can do to support you, Heart to Heart Counseling Center has female therapists trained to work with you. The phone number to schedule an appointment is 719-278-3708.

[@suzaniovieno2023]

Dear lord I pray that you bring all men back to your words now and forever in your almighty name get back from them in his name Jesus Christ amen amen hallelujah ❤. Keep this prayer going ❤

[@MJ-hope]

When I became a man, [woman] I put away childish things. Paul said this, in the SPRIT.Obey this !

[@sheldrickholmes6787]

The Holy Spirit gives us authority .

[@patriciarowland8230]

It hurts period And Jesus said not too.

[@grateful1929]

I don't like my husband looking. He peeks at them several times. I still see and it hurts me.

[@jayniekinser7259]

God is your source. Cleave toGod for strength. Perfect Love Cast Out Fear. And Proverbs 3:5,6. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, lean not unto your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him and He will direct your path. Pray for peace. Pray overall for your husband without anger.

[@darlenesumter4026]

Ought not be. Find Bible verses about that situation and pray it over your husband. God Word is true.

[@sheldrickholmes6787]

If the man your rating is not surrounded by men , he is not a man .

[@mr.titanz5209]

Please talk about when you can be lusted after even when you dress modestly and because the anointing and calling you have on your life and how satan comes to try and destroy the gift or your gift. Thank God for you now I feel at peace at rest. My marriage has put me under almost a mind state to where I began thinking I was not important etc......BUT God. I will be one who will spread this message quickly. Hugs of a sisterly love in Christ Jesus such a breakthrough!

[@DrDougWeiss]

Since lust is 100% a man's choice it doesn't matter how you dress. In the DVD "Lusted After" I help women realize they are not creating lust.

[@audreyperreault2036]

Dr. Weiss, I have listened to many of your Podcasts.. Thank you for making them and sharing your expert knowledge. I have learned a lot from you.. My only "bone to pick with you' is that YOU TALK WAYY TO FAST., if you SLOWED DOWN YOUR SPEECH, you would come across more convincingly. More mature and much more intelligent... ! You have a captive audience., slow it down some ok?

[@DrDougWeiss]

thanks for the comment, Audrey!

[@livelovelaugh2027]

It’s an unclean spirit, when you have an unmet needs you operate in an unclean spirit. When you surrender your needs to Christ you will be set free. Sow to the spirit and reap from the spirit sow to the flesh and reap of the flesh. You attract what you are it might manifest in a different way. As a counselor that’s the hardest for people to hear and actually take that in. You just manifest it in a different way. That’s why you don’t recognize it at first in the person till you get set free. That why your blind to seeing it. Once the holy spirit opens your eyes to the truth you and sets you free it’s easy to recognize that spirit in other people. Example if you were insecure and get set free you will recognize insecurity in others very quickly and not be attracted to it.

[@lindablackmore]

I was with my ex boyfriend for 14 years. He was a pig. Period!

[@sheldrickholmes6787]

We become honest about our sin .

[@lynghee159]

Thank you Dr. Wiess! Holiness❤

[@user-ii7zx9fp4k]

😂

[@sheldrickholmes6787]

Come in and bring healing .

[@colleenrogers3536]

What about when a woman is lusting after a married man? What is she trying to purchase?

[@DrDougWeiss]

Only she would know the answers to that. However, she might want to talk to someone before she gets hurt.

[@sheldrickholmes6787]

Lust free living .

[@ozzyoz5210]

My spouse openly flirts with other women;even in our home, to the point I can't have female friends. Our neighbor becomes his target for stirring up controversy/ I've been married 4 years in June 12 2019!!

[@DrDougWeiss]

He may benefit from watching "Lust Free Living", but he may also benefit from watching "Lusted After" so he can understand how women feel like when he is exercising this behavior. Lust Free Living: www.drdougweiss.com/product/lust-free-living/

[@Justtobewholeagain]

My ex husband did that for years. It broke my heart. Get help while you’re still young and still newly married.

[@sharoncrawford7192]

Red Flags.....

[@sharoncrawford7192]

That's disgusting.

[@MJ-hope]

She would be ex- neighbor.

[@Kimberlyjae3679]

Actually everyone. Dr. Doug was extremely good here. Pls don’t mix up what he is saying about a woman’s body being holy. Think about it. What would make it holy? Who tries tooth and nail to destroy it? Come on, you got to have some discernment IF you are truly born again.

[@Paula-fs8qq]

Hello Froggie.

[@Faji9r]

How can you be holy if you’re a sinner and not born-again.

[@user-hk8gp7ui6s]

Repent of your sins, confess your belief that Jesus died and rose again, and ask Him to be Lord of your life. You can be holy because He is holy. Do it! God Bless you.

[@transformtodaywithteresa7005]

God is holy. Women are not inherently holy. Bizarre.

[@lindamolyneux3536]

Holy Biblically means "set apart" God is "Holy!" , "set-apart" God...like no other and Lord of all lords. If we are holy, we choose to live a life surrendered to Him and not like the "common,"worldly ways...we are set apart unto Him.

[@sheldrickholmes6787]

That is lust .

[@sandysimoes4662]

He’s talking about himself

[@rebeccaR22]

Does this have to do with men finding pregnant women to be so attractive?

[@GardenerRose]

Us moms need to pray and teach our children the power of self control .respect of our bodys and out of that understanding ... we will respect others 🙏 strong in faith ❤ 🎉

[@shawncoulter2512]

My heart breaks at how much these women in the panel are trying to destroy other women. They keep blaming other women for causing it!!! Please stop judging!!! This is so destructive.

[@rebeccaR22]

I didn’t pick that up.. but they aren’t wrong about women attracting what they dress like. However Doug was on point saying they could be listed after even if nothing is showing.

[@allisons6180]

I agree something in our culture blames the woman. 😢

[@fredaarends-xz2gm]

​@@rebeccaR227:14

[@sheldrickholmes6787]

Trauma .

[@sheldrickholmes6787]

Princes take longer than a kid.

[@sharoncrawford7192]

Im 66, and I don think I have to worry about anyone lusting after me. But I dont look 66 and Ive had men refer to me as my husbands beautiful wife. I just think, what,,,,

[@HeavenestStCyr]

This is so empowering... But as a non married man what's wrong with checking out a girl? We are highly visual and I can check out a girl without lusting after her

[@earlethecanadian5470]

THis has been my question, too

[@TrishaLynnDYI]

You can not check out a girl without lusting. Being single doesn’t mean to be free to lust. You are training your Brain with those behaviors. Sorry that’s my opinion.

[@olivialoeto204]

That is your fallen nature talking. You have more control than that. The fact that you know as man, you are visual; means you know enough to take control.

[@HeavenestStCyr]

@@olivialoeto204 okay thx. But I think you misunderstood my question. though.

[@lI-qt8ir]

Well it’s a habit that won’t stop when your no longer single that’s for sure

[@sheldrickholmes6787]

Men make men.

[@sheldrickholmes6787]

Covenant.

[@sheldrickholmes6787]

The word of God is not his authority .

[@patmelton43]

What? How do you know?

[@ryanortiz9629]

Easy! He is not basing his argument on biblically principals. He calls people idiots. He is condescending

[@sheldrickholmes6787]

Surrounded by men of God .

[@alidahmokomatsili-ntulo2905]

hmm! yah our society has decided that a boy is a man!🤣aiii God help our societies

[@sheldrickholmes6787]

Sex attraction.

[@sandrafarley7433]

Why are u all making a mountain out of mow hill ? Holy Spirit changes people simple

[@Exhibit_Obedience]

Oh yes indeed, Holy Spirit changed me completely!! Thank GOD!!! 🙏🏼

[@loricarroll7379]

Women don’t lust?? I think women are waaaay more lustful than men.. Men are sexy

[@patmelton43]

Wow! You sound so wicked. Don't judge others because you are that way.

[@angelslovelybraiders2366]

What about the churches that is teaching it’s okay to lust🤔🤔

[@lindamolyneux3536]

Wow, they must not read their Bible....sad

[@cherylriley2753]

🤮👿

[@sheldrickholmes6787]

Men make men.