Breaking Free from Shame After Divorce: Kellie Copeland’s Hardest Season Opened Her Eyes to This

Through the darkest seasons, we find opportunities to grow in ways we could never imagine... Author and speaker @KellieCopelandMin opens up about her personal journey of dealing with pain and shame after multiple divorces left her feeling unworthy. Hear the steps that would lead her into greater faith, healing and freedom like never before and discover how you can experience God in deeper ways with these powerful keys!
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[@rhondaedwards2464]

This has literally set me free. I picked up my phone and this KZbin popped up on my screen. 15 minutes ago I was praying and crying out to God after experiencing a similar situation. God has used this to set me free.

[@maranatha2033]

Rhonda, I want to share this playlist with you. This music is so healing to my soul. I know it will bless you. kzbin.info/aero/OLAK5uy_l67ZDhJpyFXr0uC9GUV7LB89-CslVsbg8

[@ilovesketching1]

Pray for me I totally get this of all that was shared as well😢

[@berealrb1496]

Grace is God's empowerment to make good choices.

[@LovableMe137]

Hugs❤❤❤

[@rebeccahobin1900]

Iv had a few myself but God forgives All,,,,So happy to know other people that have overcome ❤😊

[@godschild3547]

One time recently I told the lord " I know I have made many mistakes in this life" and he stopped me short of the sentence and said" you aren't full of mistakes you are full of breakthroughs and miracles" . I began to cry...The lord is so good ❤️

[@keiarahjohnston9887]

Awwww ...I love that 💜❤️

[@jacquih8804]

This sounds "So Much" like our Ever-loving Faithful Father!❤🙏🏾🙌🏾 I'm so happy for you, thank you for sharing!❤

[@lindapearson8137]

Oh, I love what you said!

[@marleen6507]

Yep, sounds like the answer our God would give you. Blessings ❤️🇨🇦❤️

[@brendah4773]

Thank you, sister in Christ, Kellie for sharing your journey. I’ve been through 3 divorces too. We’ve been redeemed from shame. Hallelujah! ❤

[@patrickadams2864]

It is so life changing.. praise God for what He has done for you

[@milliereyes-pabon3763]

Wow I’ve been divorced 3 times as well. Though I’m better I still struggle with shame.

[@brendah4773]

@@patrickadams2864 praise the Lord indeed!! ❤️

[@patrickadams2864]

Lovely smile. You must really do a great job brushing your teeth every morning

[@helainegaray8205]

Same here....3 times. When i started volunteering at church, i was on marriage #3 & embarrassed to say so. The reaction? Beautiful. An older man (?) said something like, "Well, we can't say you're not tenacious "! Lol! 😂. And he smiled so big .... AND so did everyone else! What a blessing! Thank You God, for that Sunday morning, in the ushers & greeters meeting. ❤

[@monicaswavel6074]

Great show!! Been there myself. Also 3x. Now in my 4th marriage but we are in year 20 and it gets better and better if we stand in faith! Love you all! Thank you for sharing! 💝🙏💪

[@deej9697]

Thank you for sharing, Monica. May you have 20 years (and more) of a beautiful marriage.

[@paultapau72]

Thankyou, Daystar for hosting Kellie Copeland to share her Testimony, I'm a Pastor living in Separation for 5 Years, Thankyou, Kellie for the Book, it's such a Blessings & Timely Word from the Lord to Address this Issues of the Heart around the Shameful Stigma of Divorce, Thankyou, God Bless.

[@chinwesdiary9175]

Thank You Kellie, Thank you Joni. been feeling ashamed, hurt ,by my broken marriage that was caused by infidelity and abandonment. am just 32 after 4 years of marriage , last year my husband walked out of our marital covenant, the reproach from the church, feelings of a failure that as a believer its wrong to be divorced, it makes it seem like you disobeyed GOD or didn't pray enough . its so hard to even go to church, but I receive his grace daily to face my life now.

[@LovableMe137]

Sending you lots of love and hugs sis ❤

[@helainegaray8205]

Omgosh, God bless you! 🙏 My husband wanted (demanded) a divorce...it wasn't about the girlfriend(s), no, he said he was tired of taking care of me. I'm immune deficient & sick, A LOT, & unable to work, & he was done! That day, it felt like i was having a heart attack! 💔 😭 My world came crashing down, hard! i thought I'd NEVER survive a MINUTE without him. i had to move out of "our" house in May 2019.... So, evidently, i COULD survive a MINUTE without him! 😃 THANK YOU, GOD, FOR YOUR LOVE NEVER FAILS! YOU NEVER leave me, NOR FORSAKE me. YOU say that even if my own parents should forsake me, abandon me... YOU, GOD, Will take me up as Your Own, YOU Give me The Spirit of Adoption... & i am called ,"Orphan", NO LONGER! ✝️ 🙏 📖 🕊 ☮ 💜 😂 And not for nothing but, The Love of Jesus in my life vs. The love of a cheating, lying, deceiving, betrayer?? Nolo contendre! Or is it....."No Contest"?!! ❤

[@helainegaray8205]

And, i surely do know what you mean about feeling like you didn't pray enough! You know what? The enemy would just LOVE to have us camp out on that...ONE more thing to feel bad about myself over! BUT GOD Is Good & HE Is good to me & well, i guess all I've got to say to that, is a big "THANK YOU!" A million times.... Thank You!

[@tanyawatkins7206]

Looking at Kellie’s eyes, I see Kenneth so much.

[@johnmartin7919]

Kenneth Copeland is certifiable.

[@ShelovesJesusandElvis]

She has such a surrendered peaceful spirit. This was beautiful to watch and hear.

[@gabriel-1957]

It's a shame a dirty, rotten shame she's on television, how come, she didn't claim her marriage like her father claims everything else, just goes to show you they're all a bunch of liars, and charlatans!

[@runner8095]

Heavenly Father I lift Kelly to Your Throne of Grace. Please send her peace, the peace of Yashua

[@SteelBlue911]

I pray that the LORD open the floodgates of peace and happiness on Kellie Copeland. Forget what people say. Some of the worst condemnation comes from people in the church who have NEVER been there. God deals with everyone of us to draw us closer to Him. May God bless you, Kellie 🙏

[@MTknitter22]

Kellie’s transparency in getting over shame and embarrassment is a great great help to all who are dealing with this particular torment! Many thanks Kellie!!

[@susanmunoz7688]

Thank you for this, I love the Copeland family and Kellie’s honesty and truth is so helpful and freeing. Thank you and Our Fathers Blessings to you all ❤️🤗

[@marygrant9817]

Kellie Copeland is a great Bible Teacher and so anointed, like her parents! She’s so real and authentic! Thanks for having her on Daystar. 🎉✝️✝️

[@LG-wm1nw]

Thank you, Kellie. Your testimony and ministry have blessed me today. The scripture you shared is one God gave me years ago for my emotional, mental, and spiritual healing, deliverance, and restoration. At times, I feel so alone, broken, and confused. I hunger for true and lasting freedom in Christ.

[@leahm8258]

I love Kelly Copeland. Her ministry on the Fruit of the Spirit with Gloria Copeland was so powerful to me. I have been blessed by her sharing today. God bless the Copelands even more as well as Daystar Television.

[@ChristisLord31]

The bible says that women shall have no voice in the church. Shes literally doing the opposite of what the bible says. Just like her scumball husband my bad. third ex husband. who called Humans DEMONS when asked why he needed private jets to get everywhere...

[@tanmarketingchannel3436]

SHE IS SO REAL LIKE HER DAD AND MOM.God bless them all.🤠

[@debbieworth7865]

Thank you Kellie, sometime our choices are not the best and sometimes we are in circumstances that just happen. This is LIFE! It's good it's bad it happens. So glad you shared the part of worship, I think that hit me the hardest. If nothing else Kellie you helped me. Thank you.

[@rebeccastolting9452]

Love this...what a hero Kellie is.

[@dranddydavidmarc6005]

Hello 👋🏻 Beautiful Lady 🌹.. How are you doing today and your weather condition like

[@marlenenicholl6825]

This message is teaching us not to judge but to love and forgive the person - Kelly’s situation is between her and God - it is none of our business

[@keiarahjohnston9887]

Amen Amen Amen! I hear so many christians say such horrible things !

[@l.a.6522]

True... its bw her and God and its not our business... so, marry a 4th time and keep teaching the word...

[@bonitamarshall453]

Thank you for having Kelli Copeland on your show.

[@wannaduckfin]

Love all three of you! I also love Miss Gloria so much❤

[@riaanpotgieter475]

Thank you for this message 🌹❤️ I was married for 26 years, never did believe in divorce. Being a divorced man is a shameful thing, but I had no other choice. On my own for 6 years. The Word divorce is a hateful thing. It is so important to ask God to lead, guide and teach us through the Holy Spirit when you are young. To marry someone is a lifetime commitment. One has to make the right choice. Knowing God through a intimate relationship and to ask His guidance in all that we do is the most important thing in our lives. Amen 👏 🙌 ❤️ 🌹 🇮🇱 💕 🙏 🙌

[@l.a.6522]

Sir... please dont marry again... please... try yr best...

[@kellykinde8642]

Thank God for healing you Riaan. May the Lord show you who is the best mate for you.

[@l.a.6522]

On yr own for 6 years, please dont get back to that if u can... i wish i had stayed single...

[@tanyawatkins7206]

This is so important to talk about as Believers!

[@Loverofjesus77]

Wow! That was so beautiful The presence of the lord was so sweet through her . ❤❤❤❤

[@deej9697]

Kellie, what you said about being receptive to the ministry of others, that are not from our “camp” is very powerful. We are to receive the wisdom of other ministries, and not judge them on the basis of what WE KNOW, and they don’t know, but receive them on the basis of what THEY KNOW that we don’t know.

[@lindapearson8137]

Love when she said, It isn’t matter about what happened but what matters is will we give our heart to the Lord in whatever we’re going through!!! Thank you Kellie! I just want you to hug you!

[@livvictory7933]

The enemy seeks to devour family and especially marriage. Husbands and Fathers are to lead, love, provide, protect. Be the example of Christ and groom his Bride.... righteousness, unity, transparency.

[@lynghee159]

Glory to God! "Grace is His power". Thank you Kelly & your family for all of your years of faithful ministry 💝

[@charvankerck9617]

what a great message . divorce can happen in marriage, in jobs. in friendships , in family . bless you .

[@davidbusk2255]

Kellie, Thanks for being real. Great testimony

[@nanettechapko5867]

I totally understand her message and honest sharing, thank you Kelly.

[@livvictory7933]

3 here too. The Lord knows our heart.

[@kimberly1868]

So wonderful to hear her teached that!!!😇❤️😇

[@elainejohn9]

Thank you Daystar for sharing

[@audreyjackson6057]

Thank you Kellie Copeland, Daystar ladies, for sharing this video ❗❤️it set me free and Kellie helped me understand so much about the wilderness, as a place God calls us to, to feed us His Word. That is happening in my life right now as I am being fed tremendously in this "wilderness" or my location, where I am most attentive to God and His Presence in my life daily. It is humbling and life altering to know God and receive directly from Him in such a way.🔥🔥❤️🔥❤️✝️ I look forward to reading your book and may God Bless you, looking forward to seeing you back in the pulpit as well 🌻🌻🌻🌹🌹❗✝️✡️☮️🕎🛐📖🌈🙏🌏🌍🌎❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@womenofstature]

Great interview, the truth isn’t threatened it’s the error you believe is truth ‼️🙏🏽

[@iDelta77]

I think it is so courageous of her to express her healing into a book. So many divorced ladies needed this.

[@carolynjackson6435]

Thank you Daystar for having Kellie on your program.. very Good today❤

[@saha7272]

Such a Beautiful Testimony. Very Very Appreciated Kellie - Thank You So MUCH

[@conniewilson2366]

Your interview just came up for me. Thank you thank you thank you I too have been divorced 3 times. Thank you for your words truly truly truly

[@teresastanton1140]

Thank you Kellie for sharing your journey, I've been there. Single for 8 years now and content💖🌺💖🌺💖🌺💖🌺

[@chrisruth2040]

Had 3 divorce felt ashamed. This message bless me

[@debrabilodeau2038]

Love Sister Kellie!and Daystar Family!

[@jennyjohnson5153]

Sis Kelly, ur always so awsome and transparent, I have been heard you for about20 yrs! I admire ur tenderness and goodness!

[@daystar]

We love Kellie Copeland too! So glad this blessed you!

[@carlenekaiser3442]

Thank you Kellie ❤I am widowed and this set me free to l9ve again

[@LovableMe137]

I love you Kelly!!! God bless you for being so open ❤

[@teresaschumacher2716]

We are full of breakthroughs not mistakes!!

[@carolynprice8952]

Thank you Kelli for sharing. This has helped me a lot.

[@donnaharris5754]

God bless you Kellie

[@cherylringuette5498]

Thank you Kellie for sharing, this spoke to & touched my heart! ❤️

[@natashafrance8878]

Thanks for sharing your story

[@hyacinthleon4178]

Thanks for sharing

[@NellaRukoye]

Thank you Kellie

[@patriciacrider1114]

I love this message! Such an anointing! Thank you Jesus!

[@jeanhowarth1852]

I love the Copelands. Love,is explained thoroughly by them. Gods love your neighbor. Her books,Gloria, and his music. Ty Joni

[@marianmears8026]

Beautiful.. precious 💞

[@patrickadams2864]

I totally relate. I struggled with shame so much.. We find our healing, release, freedom and wholeness in Jesus Christ.. Jesus Christ made your heart and He is the only one who can heal it.

[@Kathschannel]

You blessed me Kellie with the words that the Lord spoke to you in your communion with the Lord “let me serve you”.

[@dranddydavidmarc6005]

Hello 👋🏻 Beautiful Lady 🌹.. How are you doing today and your weather?

[@cindycox57]

Not just divorce in all areas Kellie’s msg is for us

[@florentinadom6602]

Thank you JONI for hosting topics like this! Appreciate you and your beautiful family! And I also love Commander Kellie, I grew up watching Superkids.

[@daystar]

God bless you, Florentina! We're happy to hear you are blessed by the programming!

[@msingh2727]

This is so important and true . It set me free . ❤️ In UK 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

[@Nana_Mack]

Just fast and pray God hear our prayers

[@berenicebassardien7300]

Kelly. You are beautifully graced with your perfected love for the King!

[@tkayfox74]

I've always admired her. Many, many years.

[@Pinkestluv]

We all make mistakes, and we all go through life experiencing numerous challenges, but where do we draw the likes with justifying or excusing our behavior?

[@suzannedepadro9265]

Wow shepherding and the grace to be you

[@saronelyas6899]

One word for you Courageous🔥❤️

[@gwenhill4440]

My former neighbor saw me after years. She told me, "If she can do it, I can do it". Her husband had taken her through the whole nine (yards). I never knew her story or the impact that I had on her life until she told me. I was raising my daughter alone, and that strengthened her.

[@mjwas3475]

Wow thank you

[@CocoPatriot]

Hey, Kellie is a mere human being! Lets stop blaming ourselves or others when sad things happen to our lives. If you are lively lovely so pretty and good, you become a target for people who want you AND DON'T DESERVE YOU! They mirror everything you are BUT they can't keep the ACT up forever and when the fake- cracks and the actual human shows up....that doesn't mean you stay there! She is a wonderful person who everyone wants to be with or near! Bless you girl!!!❤️

[@lenettasmith-murray2145]

I've been divorced twice & have tried to go to church, but I just can't. I read my Bible, pray, journal & do devotions & I feel I'm ok in just that. Failure is something I deal with with second divorce. I just feel like such a failure.

[@mahlatsimoroka1500]

You are not a failure, God loves you

[@deej9697]

Lenetta, you are NOT a failure. The thoughts of failure are not from God!!! PLEASE, refuse to let the devil keep you from. church. Church attendance, being with people of like faith, will provide strength to you. Will there be negative people there? Absolutely!!! Just like the brother of the Prodigal son, there will be similar, negative people. However, there will also be people waiting for you with loving arms…those wanting to “smother” you with love!!! Ignore the naysayers. They will be there whether you go to church or not!! Just read the comments posted even here. Some people are just miserable, and they criticize and hate. Ask the Father to lead you to the sheepfold where you are called to be. There are BLESSINGS awaiting you!!!!

[@kayBTR]

Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as you see the day approaching. Hebrews 10:25. You’re thinking that it is ok to stop going to church contradicts the word of God. The devil loves it that you aren’t going because he can get a foothold with you while you are separated from other believers in Jesus.

[@nanstevenson25]

You could help lots of people with your testimony

[@peggybaggenstoss3817]

I’m 69 years old.. married and divorced children’s father twice due to his infidelity… later dated a guy for 5 years before getting married to catch him in infidelity about 8 months into marriage. I stayed 11 more years as I was embarrassed I’d made a mistake again. After years of praying and asking “ what’s wrong with me?” I forgave myself and let go of what family and friends were saying and thinking about me. Today I’m grateful for the 31 years total i spent with those two men and the good and bad experiences I gained. My Jesus is with me always ❤️

[@stephenpikaahu8883]

Bravo Kellie wonderful grace that gives what I don't deserve, gives me what Christ has earned lets me go free, and all that I am, I lay at His feet the wonderful Saviour who loves me. Blessings

[@livvictory7933]

Ever Idolize man. No one has 2 masters for you will love one and hate the other. the Lord is the ONE!

[@ShelovesJesusandElvis]

Jesus must always be first ❤

[@michellepartington7538]

I read that Katherine Khulman was also divorced, but God used her mightily......

[@Oceangirl60]

God told her Never to get married.

[@gabriel-1957]

Thank you for what? for bringing reproach!

[@RebeccaMills-vj6gr]

We love you Kelly ❤

[@mersase1]

I too had undergone shame & judgment by the household of faith than from non-believers especially during those years that divorce was a taboo word n the Christian churches & community. I had remain single & never remarried bc Jesus told me let me be your husbandman & prepare you for the Bridegroom. But I’ve learned after I had no comfort & protection by the church that it was a good lesson to throw yourself to Jesus & remove yourself from ignorant judgmental Christians. Also learned that the Word became so alive & anchor me as His mercies & grace to sustain me … ✝️📖🔥😇

[@VeronicaJones58]

❤❤❤❤❤❤ God bless my sisters 😊

[@livvictory7933]

Those who are demonic will fight and rebuke truth.

[@livvictory7933]

a faithful man who can find?

[@newlife45692]

Where out here, but I do believe more men need to be seeking God and leading their families in the ways of the Lord.

[@livvictory7933]

our mess, the Lord's message.

[@pollyparks9943]

God’s grace is sufficient in every circumstance and situation we go through in life. I think we all have blind spots in our lives and unless we take a honest assessment of our lives, an honest assessment of the decisions we’ve made and submit to a process of grieving our losses, and on a path to recovery, we will continue to repeat the same mistakes. God help us to repent and recover 💗

[@mandadean9365]

Thank you. I'm in my 3rd marriage. Thank you for your courage to talk about this. I needed it. Thank you.

[@ebenawukuaddo2230]

We have been redeemed from shame

[@livvictory7933]

the Lord wants more for us than what a demonic man offers.

[@ShelovesJesusandElvis]

With age comes understanding and wisdom-that’d why the Word thru Paul to Timothy says to not have the young In Christ teaching. And there will be a greater judgement upon those who teach. You have the power to bless but also the power to wound as well!

[@tomibriseno9383]

Shalom

[@athenaparish72]

Praying you find peace with jesus

[@user-vr7fg9hd9z]

Most christians were taught they had to be PERFECT. Many kids who were raised in christian homes always felt the pressure to be perfect and felt the terrible SHAME when they could not obtain perfection. The shame Kellie felt for her failed marriages and how some christians judged her. hope Daystar has Jinger Duggar on the show so she can talk about the toxic pressure she felt to be perfect growing up in a christian home and how it lead to an eating disorder and panic attacks

[@pamelahart4804]

Blessings and peace. The word of God, says write the vision. Read the book if you want, you might learn something. God bless. Shalom.

[@godsloverevealed5003]

I love Kellie. She is an awesome Bible teacher and I can tell she loves the Lord and He is in her life.

[@daystar]

We love Kellie Copeland too! So glad this was able to bless you!

[@justfelicia6671]

God! Kellie looks just like her dad

[@ceceespejo5164]

I have a question, where is Johnathan and Lucy Lamb? I dont see them here any more is being a couple of months. Please 😢i miss them so much

[@hollietincani]

Her face is absolutely gorgeous.

[@cindycox57]

She favors her dad so much

[@carmensaunders6932]

Some people are better off not being married. God loves us with all our fault but the other person we married doesn't. A lot of Christian divorces are because of self-centered. There's are two sides to a coin. One side always sounds good until you hear the other side. 😮 Proverbs 18:17. This is my second marriage the first we were not saved & I was very self-centered. The second I wasn't saved, he was an alcoholic and drug addict & I was an alcoholic. We got saved & put Jesus in the center of our marriage & 37 years later by God's grace we still together & enjoying each other. We both had to learn to die to self & pick up our cross.... Are we perfect? No but God 's grace is. I heard that the rate for Christian divorces are higher than the non Christian divorces😮

[@dennislalla8623]

Obey the word not only read

[@pixivity]

WHY do they choose to cheat on their spouse? They know they are married. How hurtful.

[@therisamolefe3542]

Amen x2

[@pegc9889]

Wish she had talked more about the spirit of abandonment that was at work in her life. Many ministers teach that Christians dont need deliverance/demons cast out.

[@liketearsintherain832]

I have had three as well. I know I am jacked up.. I go to church and sit in the back. Shame yes.. beyond you can imagine