My own father rejected me for years, he wanted a son. I still gave him a decent burial | Part One

From the word go, Lynnet Achieng's father hated the fact that his firstborn child was a girl.
He preferred a boy because to him, having a girl as a first child was unacceptable.
This would see him put his wife and daughter through so much pain and abuse.
In this Part One of the Lynn Ngugi Show, Achieng opens up on taking full responsibility for her family when her dad left, dropping out of University, seeing her younger brother through school, and giving her father a decent burial even after years of openly rejecting her
#LynnNgugi #LynnNgugiShow

[@LynnNgugi]

What message do you have for Lynnet? You can reach her on 0748047081 Connect with her here instagram.com/kwin_lyn? And here,.. kzbin.info/door/h-Wnbn0xDg1oBRnUIQsNPg Thank you so much for watching Stay tuned for part Two tomorrow at 10:30am🙏

[@Kasweetie_254]

Waiting💯

[@chekakids]

I know her she was my classmate in primary school, she is saying the truth but very painful

[@judithgetiro7053]

Seven folks primary alumni

[@diananyaboke2873]

If it's possible Lyn bring us her mother to the show she really is the pillar

[@eunicewitindi9592]

My God help our men,how can you reject your own blood this very bad

[@loreenjoyce4006]

Can we appreciate Lynets mum for standing with her daughter through thick and thin🙌

[@bethuelmwangi3139]

Much love for Lynnette moms she is a hero🔥🤩💥

[@jmkihoro7000]

There is God. Amen

[@loreenjoyce4006]

@@bethuelmwangi3139 kzbin.info/www/bejne/lYnMqYmjnr2KrLc

[@loreenjoyce4006]

@@jmkihoro7000 sure. kzbin.info/www/bejne/lYnMqYmjnr2KrLc

[@Dandelion794]

Love her mom. Amazing GOD fearing, wise and very loving lady. GOD bless her

[@kwinlyn]

Thank you so much everyone for all your support and encouragement. I will definitely take time and try to reply personally to as many comments as I can. God bless you All 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️

[@nampalaramlahbirungi5017]

I love you Queen ❤️❤️❤️

[@sheilamaina7101]

You go queen 👑

[@beatriceobegi8577]

I have cried..Mungu akubariki zaidi

[@nuellatv2756]

How can I get you😭

[@faithnjoroge8232]

Thanks for your encouragement it has totally changed my mindset you were born to win

[@wahukaren8159]

the fact that she gives glory to God for everything that happened 😭😭brings me to tears... she's making many people to trust in God and know that God will always be there for their rescue 🙏🏾

[@annjoel203]

Schooled with this girl,but would never think she could have gone thru such,always bubbly,girl you're strong. God is not yet done with you Lynette

[@wuodabala9706]

I don't know what some men wants, The way i love my two daughters and not even thinking of having any other child a gain.

[@susankambrude4668]

She is like my eldest daughter who would do any legit job to earn something. She'll graduate next year April with her Honours Degree in Cyber Security, specialising in Digital Forensics, but she worked as a waitress, stepped into a pharmacy and asked for a job. She then started the next day as a pharmacy assistant. She is now in her third job as an IT intern that pays very little, but she's not saying no when it comes to work. I have faith and know that our Lord will open doors for her. Love and light to the both of you from Namibia ❤❤🇳🇦🇳🇦

[@kwinlyn]

Hey Susan, I proclaim that she will graduate successfully and get a big job. God is with her, sending her all my love and light 🙏🏽❤️ say hello to her ☺️

[@ndegwamugo9304]

It is sad that in this age of information some men still have issues with child gender. A child is a child and furthermore, it is a man who determines the sex of a child depending on whether his sperm is carrying an X or Y chromosome. Y from father and X from mother will give a boy. X from father and X from mother will give a girl. Lately, I have made an observation that it is actually girls that have been of great help to parents in a majority of households. A girl can equally accomplish great things in life. I don't have a girl child but I hope God will bless me with 3 or 4 girls

[@emilymokoro7469]

Ndegwa it's very true. I come from a family of 5 girls one boy. People teased my dad for having many girls. Later years my Dad is enjoying the fruits of having girls.

[@foiwambo3636]

I have never cried this much. Learnt something from this lady. She is so strong.

[@florenceoduor50]

Thought I was the only one...I had to pause quite often

[@jmkihoro7000]

She is very strong. God such people. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@iamnellian5017]

I have cried along. This is so painful.

[@phidiamaingi399]

I can’t stop crying not because of sorrow but the joy of humans who still have compassion!God bless Mr and Mrs Odongo and everyone who helped this girl in her time of need!❤️❤️❤️

[@elsoniaabrahams2886]

Amen

[@anjramcharran7702]

Deth and life is in our tongue so be careful parents what you say to your children

[@fridahmwongeli7853]

Achieng, my deskie and friend from highschool.. girl, you’re a true definition of a strong woman.. I’m glad we still got to connect further at UoN.. your future is bright. Wish you all the best!! ❤️❤️

[@florencejones8870]

This girl is the most articulate and intelligent person ave ever heard been interviewed...her narration is so much on point and her English is profound....am so proud of Lynette...❤🙏🏽💯

[@terryivy9507]

😭💔💔I broke down in the middle of this interview, childhood traumas are hell, may we find healing.. May we heal

[@viv254queen5]

If you listen to this story you'll understand few important things about Lynnette 1. She appreciates the power and grace of God in her life! 2. She appreciates everyone who stood by her. 3. She loves her family unconditionally 4. She believes in herself no matter what. Lynette your story is far from over. Thank for you for sharing your journey with us and may God keep opening amazing doors for you. And thank you for reminding me that it's only God who holds our destiny and future in His hands.

[@ahamedahamed7503]

The story is ok, but u r half necked, am sorry 4 that, very war 4 Men.

[@Jenniferspace]

I noted that

[@K_James95]

I believe we as men should love and protect our wives and children everyday every-time. We should never subject them to any kind of harm. It's a direct command from God that men should love their wives.

[@childrenofgodministriesnyc1246]

unfortunately there are so many of these creatures just totally hellbent on going to the lake of fire.

[@AregoJuddy]

One thing I salute my father was the fact that he appreciated his five daughters so much and always strived to be the best. My brother was the sixth born. It is sad my dad never lived to see his son grow. I remember akipiga boma; a male child is supposed to carry the panga or axe. I don't know what it simbolizes, but my dad gave me the panga, and his friends said I would die; They always laughed at him, saying that he had not given birth yet, because he had not brought forth a boy child. Dad it may take some time, but I promise that your name will never be lost. Your name will forever be remembered.

[@rosemarymusanga9575]

Oh thanks dear Imagine umenikumbusha my beloved Dad My das loves us 6 daughters and 2 Boys We were 8 in number our Dad loved us especially me By Bad luck he died in 2015 when l had recieved VISA Ya Germany Ohhhh im trying now i cant control tears My poor Papa died surely ohhhhh

[@agneskithinji9391]

Of app so

[@carowanjiku3126]

@@rosemarymusanga9575 may God continue comforting you. And did you manage to go to German as you had planned earlier ?? I have been working in Germany for a number of years now. .

[@rosemarymusanga9575]

@@carowanjiku3126 yeee Currently im hier in Germany Stuttgart Now 6 years But l miss my Dad Who died pooerely oh no nooo When l Think of my Dad l cry cry nonstop

[@yegokiprotich2091]

If you are in a good position start a trust fund in his name. Give back to society, just my 2cents

[@stellangoka7032]

The girl child will always have her parents in mind. This lady will go far.A touching testimony

[@christinejuma2]

This one made me shed tears and at some point laughed. I almost went through a similar story but unfortunately my mum past when I was in form two. It broke my heart because I looked forward to changing my mum's life. Through the struggles of life and by the grace of God I managed to graduate in 2019 with a diploma in education but looking forward to getting a job this coming year 2022 in Jesus name. IAM a Victor who God ordained me

[@thembisaodendaal]

2022 is your year of victory the job is yours

[@rastabeiby8550]

Woow may God fulfill the desire of your heart

[@keziahmwaura5252]

Would wish you to interview for 2022 teaching job.l wish you left your contact.

[@winniemukunya8787]

Amen

[@moriahminji]

Amen.

[@effieoila1765]

I met your mum this Sunday and we clicked and she showed me your pics and I'm shocked to see you on Lynn ngugi's show ,, your mum is such a strong person

[@versitymuthoni2697]

I'm stuck when she said'when we grow in such environment ,you become an over achiever , because people will love you when you only have good things happening ,they can not appreciate the fact that ,just you being alive is a blessing 😭😭😭💔💔💔'i felt her , because that's Versity exactly her life..I turned 21yrs yesterday , Working because of Gods faithfulness in my life,I dropped my course to work because of different circumstances,I may not be where I have always dreamt of but I'm glad I'm in a God place ,I give God all thy Glory..This story has encouraged me,that God is not yet done ,He still has bigger and Greater plans for my life.❤️🥺

[@margaretmbae2681]

Lynn you have outdone yourself today.I love your interviewing style where you allow your guests to tell their story without interruption.Thanks Lynette for allowing yourself to be vulnerable for the benefit of others.May God continue to bless you.You are destined for greatness!!.

[@winnieshiroh8532]

I've never been so emotional when watching Lynn's programs. This gal is blessed. I resonate with these words too...but we move on, cos there's a God above.

[@plum_loco]

Around the world, so many cultures are still caught up in the dogma of having a first born son, and the rejection and abuse thrown at the daughter not only from the father, and his side of the family, but sometimes also the mother who would take out her anger on her daughter. Your story is similar to stories in many parts of the world. I cried listening to the first part of your story. Moreso, I cried and as a Kenyan born Indian, I was ashamed to hear that there are still Indians in Kenya who practise racist behaviours through name calling, etc. On behalf of these ignorant people who mistreated you, I apologise. You are a very beautiful, and intelligent young lady. I wish you would compete for Miss Kenya. I truly mean that. I am sure you would not only win that but I see you winning Miss World or Miss Universe! If you come to the USA and need a place to stay, I don't have much but I would love to have you over. Remember, if you wish, the USA does offer a Green card lottery and Kenyans qualify for it. It is open right now for application. Google if for more information. May God continue to bless you!

[@barbaramabuda9512]

Awwwww may you never lack

[@margaretwairimu5739]

The way my dad loves and appreciates me is on another level ... thank you my daddy

[@imahighvaluewoman4424]

Wish my dad did the same he rejected me since I was a child met him twice and he stopped picking up my calls

[@willhector9478]

@@imahighvaluewoman4424 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 You are special no matter what

[@sylviaachieng7299]

@@imahighvaluewoman4424 as long as GOD is for You Nothing Can Separate you from the love of GOD

[@nastedave9842]

@@imahighvaluewoman4424 You are so my twin

[@franciswarutumo1627]

This is the one most single touching story I have come across. We firstborn go through a lot.

[@brendanyongesa7014]

Ooooh yes we do!

[@lydiaongaki5713]

We are totally different from our siblings ready to sacrifice for everything

[@maggiesaina7284]

That's true ..we go through a lot but we still turn out to be the best

[@teresianjeri4544]

Most of us have gone through painful times in our childhood may GOD heal us 🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@patriciandungwa5]

Very true but you forget tho,

[@queenslayhamisi5022]

True. Thanks for this forum that she was able to share. God is with us.

[@christinenjuguna2423]

Yes.may we heal what we don't talk about

[@stephancechelulei9155]

It was tough sometimes we flashbacks..I remember the time my mom alimwagiwa chai moto...akaambiwa atakuja kupigwa mateke dad akirudi jioni..I really cried

[@NaomiNzomo-w4n]

My Dad could beat my mum Infront of us and when we talk he will beat us too as animal and when we grow up help our mum people start talking and say mum talked to you not to help your mum

[@busizlane]

Lynette you are such an inspiration to the girl child period. I love how much you acknowledge God. You were special from birth and the demons your dad battled with and unfortunately overcame him knew you were a shining light but it’s unfortunate how they deceived your dad successfully. We thank your mom , your intercessor otherwise we would not get a chance to hear such a glorious true life story. I believe you telling your story your life has just begun God is about to open even greater door, no eyes have seen, no ears have heard. God is again doing a new thing in your life. You too care of your mom and brother and says it’s your turn now, to heal and be whole♥️ P.S I would buy your book📕

[@dorcaskengere7892]

M

[@tobiasaduda9291]

Mungu ni Mungu

[@annmbugua30]

Childhood Traumas may we all heal

[@amad_ris]

Same group

[@ruthwaweru1284]

Surely coz like me kuona mamangu akipigwa na my dad n his brother was the most sad thing hata na panga n my mum akapata depression akajiua coz of that one day I will open up coz this anger is affecting my marriage

[@missmutegi2526]

Marrying a bread winner in his/her family can at times be a challenge. This reminds me of my ex husband, a luo.he could go do shopping and buy clothings for his nieces and nephews and buy absolutely nothing fir his own child, not even pampers, he was known to have a blessing hand by everyone including friends and relatives but he couldn't buy medicine for his own son.he even used to beat my son who was bare 1 year in the name disciplining him.he even called my little son useles and started even physical abuse on me and changing women as he wants....but all in all I thank God I walked,4yrs now striving for my lovely son.

[@esthershaningwa4928]

That was a good decision you have made to walk away.That is the only way we can bring those violence to an end. I think Luo tribe in Kenya are more like wambo tribe in Namibia.wambos respect where they come from more than their wives and kids.

[@ephigenianyange711]

Wanaume wakijaluo huwa wako violent..I am sorry also useless wife batterers

[@mamawatorotalks8208]

@@ephigenianyange711 not all don’t generalise even wazungu are violent

[@cynthiaaliwa2447]

@@ephigenianyange711 wewe hivi vile unaongea you sound like a wife beater....

[@beatriceobegi8577]

I love the way u r intimate with God .

[@childofthemosthigh1294]

I told someone about abuse by my mom as a firstborn they said I was attention seeking. The pain only Yahweh knows. She even blamed me for dropping out of school and not becoming a big person like she wanted. She told me I ruined her life. I have never been back home for 3 years and I told her when I left, you may reject me but “ I am a child of Yahweh, he will watch over me”. Yahweh has been faithful and am not looking back.

[@gracemuriuki6305]

Keep going girl. Yahweh is the best parent.

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

I'm sure your comment won't get much likes on this platform

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

@@gracemuriuki6305 it could be a guy

[@dorahongoro6662]

That is my mom. Blaming me for all she is been through. Narcissist

[@lizsarah4580]

God loves you so much. You are His.

[@jamesgathaiya6450]

I just love how she's appreciating every one who helped her when she needed help the most ..she is such strong and brave girl Lynn God bless you

[@irenenalias9919]

This woman is a warrior,,,am so blessed through her

[@lovelyndetta1357]

Part 2 please 😪

[@raphaelmuindi9108]

True this lady has really gone through hell on earth. May the Almighty give you the strength you need to achieve His goals through her life experiences. Amen and Amen.

[@margaretwanjiku4156]

This makes me appreciate my Dad , may his soul rest in peace ,aki to anyone who is suffering in such God wipe away your tears , as lynette said God gives us right people at right time, so emotional story , God is sooo good!

[@Kasweetie_254]

This is so sad 😭💔 there's no difference between a male or a female kid ,some beliefs are outdated n barbaric😞

[@vision4774]

How will I finish watching this my tears are just rolling down. What a strong gal your Destiny is great lynnette

[@marynoah4150]

I just want to go on a dry prayer and fasting for 2 days just to tell The Almighty God Thank you for always fighting, blessing and opening doors, unbelievable doors for single mamas, always being there for their children, however dark the tunnel might seem to be, the Father above will Always make sure thatthis woman and her children reaches the light, Glory to God, Linett may the Lord continue to open more doors and grant you enough strength to stand with your mum and brother. You have made me happy Girl!!!!

[@JayyAAAA]

You are kind God bless

[@consolatricemwanza4161]

Linet's story is so inspirational. I love the fact that she sees God in everything. God is truly gracious and only He deserves the glory!

[@PriscillahZ]

I relate to Lynette’s story so much. Our stories are so similar and I’m really glad that she had the courage to share her story. Thank you for showing me that I’m not alone.

[@priscanyanchama1664]

I hope you heal. This is a very touching story.

[@ritahora2903]

Am hea too n Even extra am courageous that ican win too

[@maryannemwangi168]

Hope u heal

[@emillyakinyi237]

Can't stop crying because she is just sharing my story ❤️may God see me through

[@Maureen_Koech]

You can't watch this story and not cry. One of the most inspiring stories I have heard in my entire life. I relate in so many ways and levels. Her star shines bright. God bless and continue to favour you.

[@annnjeru9409]

I remember this story from our emotional high school nights. I remember the change of the plans for closing. I remember the other lady. You have done great Achieng. You are going far. Bottom line is we are victors not victims God bless you Romana ( Njeri Namu) you are such a darling

[@lucymwangi8279]

Thank you dear angel, for been there. We need more friends like you. Be blessed

[@carolinecongo1179]

Glad she has acknowledged the Namus

[@esthershaningwa4928]

Such a good testimony. A child of a prayerful parent will never be a beggar. The challenges you went through Lynnet were meant to strengthen you.

[@annkm7339]

To God be the glory, He who never foresakes His children. Keep shinning Lynette. Firstborns go through a lot that only they can understand. 🙏🙏🙏

[@loreenjoyce4006]

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[@eurayescapades4991]

I am so sorry for what you went through...hugs hugs.... To all who went through such traumas, hugs hugs..I love your mom.. Grew up in Seven Folks too,dad worked for KPLC/KENGEN and we stayed at Kamburu and Masinga and schooled at Seven Folks and Kiambere Complex. I know the distance between kambi ya Kiambere na shopping centre na yenyewe ni God aliwaprotect... More grace to you!

[@sharleenjj8548]

I grew at sevenforks too,my dad worked at gitaru/ kamburu power station, nice meeting you guys here..tuko wengi.

[@roselynezuber1055]

I'm shedding tears as I listen to this girl's testimony...waaaaaa!!!! There is a God in heaven....those who trusts in him will never be disappointed...Glory be to God..🙏

[@JesusChristLovesUs4ever]

Before I watch part 2 I love to give God all the glory for holding Linets hand,God is the only father who never rejects his CHILDREN

[@norahmuchele9363]

This girl has narrated my life......word for word......yani wababa wengine tu......But there's a God in heaven, father to the fatherless......

[@tajiri174]

I can relate

[@abishuawafula3395]

Hugs darling😭😭😭

[@joskyshams4758]

On behalf of Lynnette, I want to thank God for her and appreciate all her guardian angels.

[@Love-pd8lz]

This lady is so beautiful 😍 may God give you all the courage you need dear lady

[@salyakinyi4011]

I like the way she is appreciating everyone that came through her

[@maggyashleymaggyjesusparte9452]

Exactly that's owesome

[@Nothwest]

Somebody is cutting onions, this story is so Touching till the Tears are just rolling done

[@thembisaodendaal]

Very triggering I'm a firstborn toxic mother and family

[@michellefisher470]

me too lord

[@FirstClassEnt1000]

This interview was Lynnets therapy, she had to get her story out of her chest to be free. God bless you girl.

[@eglahgichana7094]

Born In a family of 6 girls to my parents,it was not easy from my father's brothers, villagers but today I celebrate my dad and mom for always standing and supporting each other to raise us,good schools with all the poverty.. someday I'll share my story

[@ZUURAOSUNDWA]

Your family story is same like ours, us we are 7 girls..my dad is such a darling..he stood with our mum..Ni God aki..now our home is full of happiness

[@rishy1525]

Ngai, this is so intensely raw and stirs every emotion known to man. Lynette, am sad for your traumatic past but happy for your victorious present and a glorious future that awaits you. Am sad for the tears that continue to flow from the wounds of your deep pain but happy for the booming laughter and joy coming from the depths of your soul. Am sad for the evil that destroyed your childhood and innocence but happy for all the angels that strengthened your wings. Continue soaring like an eagle!!! You are very inspirational and a living testimony of God's goodness, mercies and faithfulness. The best of your life is yet to come. You are definitely blessed and highly favored! May God continue blessing the work of Lynn's hands...she's one of a kind.

[@blessingsndunge1319]

Sorry Lynnette for what you went through girl 😥😥 may God heal you completely 🙏❤️❤️ I wish people could know the importance and position of a firstborn in the spiritual realm ,they will appreciate and thank GOD everyday 🙏 Jacob/ Israel fought for the firstborn position from when he was in the womb until he got it and today GOD calls him "Israel my firstborn" Lynn tuletee mtumishi wa MUNGU afundishe watu juu ya mzaliwa wa kwanza ni muhimu sana; otherwise you are gorgeous 🥰as always 🥰🥰🥰

[@user-wr9fn4ny4i]

Girls are the best. They have made my family to stand .

[@xoxomacx2539]

Yes. Please let’s talk about spiritual realm.

[@ruthkerubo9616]

This so sad. I am the first born and I can say that growing up wasn't easy. My dad getting married to the second wife made our lives very difficult. I could cry for school fees to be paid. I could go to school without pocket money. He used to work with Kengen and I thought that we will never lack, but that was not the case. My mum was my strength. She could encourage me to soldier on. All thanks to her. When I thought of giving up I could remember my mum's words and say no. I need to soldier on. Thank you for sharing ur story. U will go places

[@careykamau1989]

I'm so sorry for you Lynette, I can relate aki I was raised by a step dad and it wasn't easy I remember how his brothers tried to get rid of me at one time one of the brothers threw hot ash on my face. I think my dad like he made the wrong decision,he became very cold on us,I remember at times we'd go to the shamba with my mom tunashikana tu tunalia. I'd say I'm grateful that he a gave me a roof over my head . To his brothers I forgave them for they didn't know what they were doing. I'm grateful to God that sai dad hawezi fanya anything kama hajaniconsult. How I wish that parents out there who are mistreating kids they can stop it coz there's no child who chooses where to be born. Mtoto is very innocent alijipata kwa hiyo nyumba!!!

[@shemnyaka]

Thanks Carol, God is ever Great

[@safamarwa1904]

Lynets mum is the reason she’s flourished and overcome everything. Having a support system that constantly prays for you is so powerful. Mama lynet god bless you! Lynet you are so inspiring, you’ve touched my heart in many ways. You not giving up through all this is giving me strength never to give up and for that God bless you ❤️

[@brilliantmind9729]

Best interview ever!! Lynette you turned out to be 10 times the man your dad could ever be! I'm sure he knew it but his ego couldn't accept it

[@thepanafricantv]

I agree. OMG! What an interview!

[@virginianjoki486]

I am happy my Aunt/best maid helped you Lynette. God will see you through.

[@charityoketch9022]

This story has really touched me. Indeed there's a God up there who answers prayers. This girl has gone through so much. The mum too has suffered a lot

[@travellingmaasai]

The best interview and testimony that God is real and works in a way we do not understand.

[@kimberlytv7895]

The trauma in this lady is very high,may God heal you,the pain in the voice,im sorry girl,dont hate yourself because of what you went through.your special and unique, you have something good that other people doesn't have

[@eunicesyombua1533]

wow. today's guest. i love her story /journey... though full of tears but inspiring..... may God keep you shinning girl.. You're beautiful!!

[@Ubhntu3789]

This girl is so so traumatized she needs counseling. Lynn, you’re going far. You’re a strong girl.

[@childrenofgodministriesnyc1246]

nope she needs Jesus. most or all "counselours" are sociopath creatures and make everythign worse. The Scriptures and The Ministires of Children of God (mostly brown skinned of course OBVIOUSLY DUUHHH), PRAYER & FASTING WILL lift her beyond all the little ones.

[@Ubhntu3789]

@@childrenofgodministriesnyc1246 I bet you’re the type of person that tells sick people not to go to the hospital instead they should pray 🙄. While at it, please educate self on mental health, trauma and PTSD. Ignorance isn’t cute at the age of internet.

[@childrenofgodministriesnyc1246]

@@Ubhntu3789 YES that's exactly what I say! After spending the entirety of my life as an atheist believing in the system ALMOST as much as you androids AND STUDYING and living more than you could ever fathom. NOW I HAVE SEEN, DONE, EXPERIENCED HEALING OF EVERY KIND UNDER THE ALMIGHTY POWER OF THE KING OF KINGS LORD OF LORDS OF ALL THE HEAVENS AND THE EARTH WHO IS COMING back very soon to eradicate ALL evil that means the narcissists and sociopaths. HEALING IS EVERYHTING and therapists know nothing about ptsd/cptsd, of which I am an expert. Ask questions; it far outweighs being a narc or socipath who are soomed to the lake of fire. THE MOST HIGH ALMIGHTY GOD BLESS YOU, HAVE MERCY ON YOU, IN THE ALMIGHTY NAME OF JESUS!!!!!!!!

[@childrenofgodministriesnyc1246]

*doomed to the lake of fire

[@Ubhntu3789]

@@childrenofgodministriesnyc1246 😂😂😂😂😂. Loonie! Go in peace.

[@mazzarellow]

Pole Lynette...I respect people's backgrounds.People go through a lot and makes me not to judge. May God bless your mom for being a real Pillar.

[@m-dawg4095]

Haki si nimelia!!! When will men understand that an empowered woman=an empowered society!? Men, Men and women, please deal with your traumas before you even think about starting a family. This is a vicious cycle that we can break. God bless our mothers for forever holding us and holding it together when men fail them and us as their children. Lynn, keep bringing us these stories of encouragement. This story will bless so many people!!💜💜💜💜

[@trizargatwirimbaya2826]

I can relate this story of being abadoned by a dad,thank God for your mum i have a similar case n the mum of the gal is deceased.Am worried what will become of her but i have always encouranged her.Very touching experience God bless you Linette for fighting n mum for holding you.Lyn Ngugi you are such a Virtious woman.kuddos gal...👍👍👍

[@mutheumary]

I can identify with her story. The pain the trauma no one can understand.

[@lindacherono2140]

Sorry dear,God is your anchor .

[@mutheumary]

@@lindacherono2140Thank u. God has been & forever He will remain to be faithful .

[@fionaakoth4474]

I remember seeing my mum going through this hell yet outside he was the perfect person...I swore that I would never marry a Luo man that's just that ...years later when we left and we are now okay I asked him why he was doing all this he told me that he was possessed...my question still remains should I still help him or will I be disrespecting my mom,this woman has seen hell ..I only imagine how I am surviving outside Kenya in an office all my work mates have master degrees yet I never finished even college... there is just blessings following us,and I thank God but the pain involved.. one day I shall visit Lynn when I am ready

[@Abedi1001]

This is a very bright lady. It is unfortunate that she had to go through this pain. For those who do this, may GOD awaken you.

[@sharshanbiz]

I respect your mother...she never told you to hate your father despite all that he did to you. Some mums create a hatred realm and leaves you without fatherly blessings...Also, the point "look for blessings from him"...these are strong words..

[@loreenjoyce4006]

Guys I'm tearing down.. but there is always light in the end of the tunnel. Your heart is still Heavy nyar Nyakach(Lynet). Cry it out honey,you gonna be fine

[@wakaimba]

Very moving experience, so sorry that Lynnette had to go through it Be encouraged that nothing just happens because God's plans and purposes are achieved even in our worst experiences.As a father of 2 girls and 2 boys I take this opportunity as a father to apologise to Lynnette for all the hurt your father took you through.He could have meant it for evil BUT God meant it for good so that many will be healed for His glory.

[@missmutegi2526]

On time.salute to all First borns our second moms and disciplinarian.God bless all Firstborns.road to 300k keep winning Lynn 🤸‍♀️💃🥰🥰

[@annettemwenesi6443]

Not all of them ours ametufail vibaya sana and yet he's working kwa government

[@boohookidscreations8003]

As a first born here, I am proud to see my brothers shine, and it blesses my heart.

[@lesleys1731]

I almost feel like she is telling my story, when she talked about feeling isolated and friends not understanding that hit so hard, am still in the struggling phase but I dream big knowing God will come through for me. Thanks for sharing Lynnette and PS I think the title doesn't do justice to this story.

[@debbiethekenyan3274]

Hang in there.it shall be well.waiting for your testimony soon.

[@samilahthirika6483]

Lynette you are a product of God's grace. Lynne I can relate to the story 80%. I serve a protocol breaker!

[@Nyamuhu]

This young lady's story should be recorded in a book and probably made into a movie. How she's managed to come out from such a hard dark place to where she stands today, is by God's grace and resilience. This is the type of life coach, and counsellor needed for our youth. She an intelligent articulate brilliant and smart cookie. Who has come from such a dark place to where she is. This is the best interview I've ever listed to.

[@lorrainekohn6056]

I couldn't agree with you more. This young lady's inspirational story definitely needs to be known either by way of a book or as you said, a movie. Her earthly father cruelly rejected her, but her heavenly Father loves her unconditionally and He has graciously bestowed His favour upon her so that she can continue to bless her mother and her brother. It seems like this particular verse was written for Lynett - Jeremiaih 29 v 11 "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."

[@loreenjoyce4006]

Ooh Lynet,have fallen in love with your voice..you so beautiful and charming,I pray one day you heal completely from your childhood trauma. Your a Victor and not a victim just as Lyn has said.

[@apalelove1272]

Lynn this story has broken and strengthened me... I have learnt to take a leap of faith from Lynn...Let God move your mountain

[@stephenodhiambo7556]

Women, work hard and get your money. You need that money to exercise freedom. Freedom to leave an abusive marriage and live like other free human beings. Remember, if you stick to an abusive marriage when you have a chance to leave, you are putting your children through what they don't deserve and you will be judged for that. You must know that you are on the receiving end. You are worse off than men. This statement should ring in your head every time you are about to make a stupid decision.

[@Kasweetie_254]

So true 💯

[@lindagithaiga1974]

Thank you.Preach my brother 🙌

[@mazaocc8065]

To you life is about money🙄?

[@stephenodhiambo7556]

@@mazaocc8065 Let me ask you a question, If you financially depend on your husband for every thing (food, shelter, cloths, healthcare, etc.), where do you go if he starts abusing you? Suppose you have kids and you have no parents, no education, no job, and relatives that you can run to, where do you go? Don't you think the situation would be better if you have a means of providing for yourself and your kids?

[@mazaocc8065]

@@stephenodhiambo7556 kwani kenya hamjawahi kuona well to do women who are abused?

[@ollybossy]

I love this girl and how positive she is with life. And her Mum, oh God, may God bless her abundantly.

[@vgeegodseed1720]

I'm happy for her mother standing with her encouraging her Praying for her.if a mother stands with daughters wonders happens .Glory to God .prt2 following

[@theugandanvillagewife6647]

When God writes your story no matter the enemy throws your way doors will keep opening 🙏 WE THANK GOD FOR YOUR TESTIMONY

[@sicilynmuthoni5686]

I have shed lots of tears coz of this beautiful girl... All in all the father died in her hands. The rejected stone became the corner stone...... I have been encouraged.... Aki God..... The mother's prayer was her strength. I will never stop praying for my children.

[@Trina020]

Am out of words have literally cried through out this is so emotional and at the same time so inspiring one thing have learnt is God is Faithful to the one who trust in Him big up Linet and to your mum for the great support, Lynn bring her mum on the show too

[@esthermwaniki7023]

Same me

[@john_njonjo]

what a beautiful and strong lady. First born are such a blessing. Im a product of what my first born brother had to sacrifice

[@1on1withjune81]

Wah! Wah! I went through the emotions with her as she so eloquently told her story. The best interview yet!!!! Period!!!

[@ireneatenya7418]

aki headline pekee, l can remember my dada alinikataa nikiwa class 6 mbele ya watu sijai sahau the words he used (kama amekataa kuishi na mimi mim si babake mpeleke penye mnataka) he used kunitesa this man made my life very difficult but l thank God my mum took me back tukaanza kuishi na yeye ( mum wherever you're l love you so much

[@abishuawafula3395]

Hugs dear

[@annointingable]

Thank God for mothers who speak life into their childrens life even when they are backsliding....

[@Kasweetie_254]

Kwanza nowadays watoto wa kike ndo wanasaidia sana! Angalia boma zenye wasichana na utaona vile wanajituma kujenga familia 💯

[@florenceakinyi8026]

Well spoken

[@wambuitracy4487]

True!

[@qatatvip5451]

Very true

[@terryphainteriordesign7211]

Education and knowledge is so important...if men knew they are the ones that determine if we get a girl or a boy, they would never blame women ...men need to be taught this thing about genetics

[@frankombuya5348]

We were tought in school

[@terryphainteriordesign7211]

@@frankombuya5348 and why are most of you men still blaming women ...no one is to blame ...its all God's plan

[@jakescasper743]

No one chooses to be Born first but really to be sincere first Borns really pass through alot of pain & even at some point rejection, do more than their age allows them to do.. unfortunately most first borns even die poor because they don't get that chance of living fine life out of pressure that they encounter..but God for us all first Borns.

[@monienjeri3042]

🥺🥺🥺 I can relate as a firstborn

[@mazaocc8065]

The power is with you. Take yourself out of that pressure. I did. Sasa ni masengenyo tu na si waendelee🙄

[@jakescasper743]

@@monienjeri3042 tough even siblings looking down & hating on you.

[@jakescasper743]

@@mazaocc8065 masengenyo sio big deal.. We first Borns try hard atleast siblings to find life but yet seem to be zero.. haven't you seen a family where last born is even driving & living a fancy life yet first born can't even buy a shirt because simu zote za pesa ni kwake.

[@joynerlavenda9086]

Being a first born and married to a first born wacha tu

[@Nedyiesh]

Lynn, you are such an awesome interviewer. You don't interrupt your guests. You make them stars... Wow! And as for this bright girl, wow. She's destined for greatness. She's an amazing girl. Wuuuwiii, God bless her more!

[@selfaakinyi7824]

NYATHI NYAKACH WE ARE AMAZINGLY LETS SHOW OUR SISTER SOME LOVE, AM ALSO COMING FROM NYAKACH KADIANGA, MUCH LOVE FROM QATAR DOHA. 🥰🥰🥰

[@sofianduta2498]

You know a story is powerful when Lynne says we have to have a part 2. 💖

[@carowanjiku3126]

May God heal you girl and may HE always comfort you. A parrent should be a refuge for their children. Discipline is necessary but with restrain. May God wipe those tears and replacè them with tears of Joy

[@ireneabuya7231]

You made me remember my childhood traumas as well lynette,all in all I’m always pushing hard hope I’ll get there someday

[@rivqahnal]

Lynnet your life has been a blessing and you are an encouragement to me and I believe to others who will listen to your story. And I see what God has done in your life which makes me trust Him more your story makes us see how He made 2ays where there were no ways and how He came through. You are a blessing and blesses to be one. Your experiences have made you stronger and you have taught me not to give up. Can't wait for part 2. Thank you Lynn.

[@sim_simmer__]

Awwwe that’s my girl! I’m so proud of you and I’m happy that you’re using your experience to guide yourself and people to be better in every way possible. You don’t know how much impact you have on this world. Sending love mumma ❤️❤️❤️

[@kwinlyn]

Thank you my hun, I’m so glad you are a part of my journey ❤️🙏🏽

[@Mochore_Ruth]

Lynn it's a good job you do transforming lives...and to Lynnette the sky is the limit...reach the skies❤️

[@stepstep865]

OMG,from the start to the end l couldnt stop crying watching tis girl speak ..l am the first born and my father treat me good,the second was a boy then the following children were girls,thats where my father was like not so happy but my father never treated us bad ... then when we grew up and started working,then he knows till today even when some of us sisters are married but we never forget helping them till thier old age ...he hardly got help from he's sons ....my dad is in heaven now,we still have our mum to care for ...Praise the Lord for my Loving Parents .....GIRLS OR BOYS ..children are GIFTS from GOD...I am a mother and l love my children equally......

[@sheilaalice811]

She's a good story teller I've really cried throughout the story but God's favor was with you all through your life

[@plum_loco]

I did too, I've gone through half of a tissue box!

[@KavamiMiusik]

When its your story, you dont need to be a good storyteller.

[@Kalondufaith]

I remember you Achieng,in Kyeni....and yes you were very bright. We just saw this beautiful tall girl but we knew not what you went through. May God wipe your tears and comfort you, you are an overcomer

[@TheFrancesZachary]

What an incredible testimony. This lovely souls middle name is Endurance. She is a testament that faith works. Thank you Lynne Ngugi for bringing your namesakes powerful story to the world. Unfortunately this behaviour by her father is quite often seen among the Luo men of a certain generation.

[@moriahminji]

Very true, also this generation too.