美国生宝宝放多少天假，爸爸和妈妈休假工资有多少？Is Maternity Leave Long Enough In America?

[@wewatch4892]

希望你们要改正一直颠簸和摇动宝宝的习惯，经常抱抱他是必须的，有时轻轻晃晃他也可以，特别是在他哭闹不肯睡觉时。但一直这样就不好了，这会让宝宝养成了一种习惯，不摇晃他就不舒服不想睡，这样宝宝是很难放在床上自己入睡得（除非他悃得不行了），这样的状况会随着时间越长变得越发难以控制。还有一种说法是过度的摇晃会对宝宝的大脑发育产生不好的影响。 所以你们可以试试不要一直摇晃宝宝的做法，最好也不要成天抱着他，这样应该更有利于宝宝的成长发育。 供你们参考。 吻小豆腐，宝宝太可爱了🌷🌷🌷。

[@jennyhuang7495]

小豆腐很可爱😍。都像妈妈这边多点。再生一个女儿就像爸爸了。一样美。加拿大父母各有半年，爸爸不休，妈妈就可以休一年，有薪假期。（父母有工作而言）。祝你们幸福快乐👍😄❤️‍🩹

[@yigeqi8128]

你们让我看到了这个世界的美丽 柔和 和 教养

[@digitalpau2347]

Your videos make me so happy to remember how hard my wife worked to raise four children. (she is English and I am Chinese)

[@sauravlahiry6951]

hi brother, are u based in the UK ? in UK, BBC ( British born Chinese ) guys consist of Hongkongers, usually. This is Saurav Lahiry from India. My two sisters have married Chinese guys.

[@TheJlee28]

@@sauravlahiry6951 good looking kids

[@huangclack2345]

In Jiangsu provide, father has 15 days leave, mather has 158 days leave, both with full salary.

[@太陽-m9i]

祝福您們 天賜麟兒 平安 健康 闔家平安

[@janeshen1790]

为了减轻新手父母的繁忙，可以在之前找一个华人月嫂，又有经验，夫妻双方又可以睡觉，因为，没有父母在身边，月嫂是最好的选择!

[@TheJlee28]

人家是年輕父婦，賺產假收入

[@annateng-ot1er]

小豆腐好可爱呀，很是期待你们多发视频。

[@albertlin1134]

坐标上海，妈妈一般是128天产假（国家规定的98天+上海额外的30天），爸爸会有10天陪产假（含周末），另外孩子满3周岁前，父母额外有10天的育儿假，这些都是全薪（妈妈产假期间薪资不是单位发，直接领生育金，生育金=单位平均工资，所以对年轻的刚入职场的妈妈更友好）。

[@pandrache5509]

respect and love to all mothers at this planet!! I am somehow so happy that I am a single dog😅no responsibility and shoulder free😝

[@emilyli2223]

好羡慕你 好会享受生活哦😎

[@damon-uk2pt]

别老拍他，这样他会产生依赖，不拍就哭。美国有没有婴儿睡眠学校？

[@happylu546]

我女兒在矽谷Apple總部工作，基本上媽媽有五個月全薪產假，若是剖腹產加多一個月，女婿在矽谷Meta工作，該公司不管是爸爸或是媽媽都有四個月全薪產假。

[@TheJlee28]

正！

[@hsiajeannie1441]

小豆腐精神很好每次看視频他都是睜著大眼睛

[@亮諸葛-r3y]

中国现在各地所谓的“法定”产假和陪护假还蛮多的……有长的如190天左右的也有短的60天左右的， 但！是！这些更“可能”被“国企”“央企”“政府”“事业单位”“有关企业”执行，民营企业几乎，几乎不可能“依法”享受！

[@Annie0519]

我生孩子後至今沒睡飽過🤷‍♀️😂非常能體會妳們夫妻的辛苦😅孩子的每個階段都有不同層面的辛苦，加油噢！😄我們台灣產假有二個月（全薪）但很少有爸爸會像Jay如此參與，協助照顧🤦‍♀️😭

[@star727798]

為什麼爸爸不參與？

[@Annie0519]

@@star727798 以我先生來說，就是懶吧！覺得反正媽媽會顧好🙄或藉口“我不會”😠讓我覺得好自私啊！

[@HarukoMangaTalk]

我天，作为一个山东人，我要不帮我老婆看孩子，估计我妈会扇我两巴掌，目前我妈负责全部白天的活，我下班后负责全部的活，我老婆只需要半夜喂喂奶，如果宝宝还不睡，我就起来哄睡为止，一晚上总要折腾好几次，现在刚断奶，我已经感觉身体被掏空了，我们三人合力，已经感觉很幸苦了，无法想象你一个人怎么带孩子的

[@Annie0519]

@@HarukoMangaTalk 哇！真是好老公好婆婆，已羨慕🧡真的很累。。謝謝您溫暖的發言🙂

[@HarukoMangaTalk]

@@Annie0519 只有体会过的人才知道其中辛苦，只能说您是一个非常、非常伟大的母亲，这样温暖的母爱一定会影响你的孩子，让他在快乐中成健康成长，祝福

[@999lin4]

TO Jay和Ari 第1個小孩照書養，第2個小孩照豬養。

[@juliaying2050]

I wish you can share more about baby tofu❤❤. He is so cute.

[@jimmyyao1357]

以前最常聽媽媽講的話就是等你有小孩你就知道了～現在才真正懂得真的只有自己做人父母才知道養育孩子是多麼辛苦的一件事～父母為了自己的小孩可以付出很多很多～可當人老的時候往往我們做子女的能回報付出的卻少之又少～

[@Stephanie-qf3qi]

因为子女把爱都给了他们的子女，然后就这样一代一代的传承下去。

[@高锰酸假]

现在国内法定产假，一般的企业是98天，产假期间工资由生育保险支付；国家机关公务人员可以很长，产假结束还是可以请假，而且也是带薪的。

[@tieli7345]

你的条件可以生三胎

[@高锰酸假]

年纪大了，生不了了@@tieli7345

[@Omg-l5l]

Wow. Your friend husband is Civil engineer no wonder he have couples house to rent it out. Smart hard working man. Hahahaha Jay have more than 15 paternity leave he doesn’t need go to work but don’t know how he can support the living . Other need go to work 9 hrs a day Mon-fri come back from work take care the baby earn more money to Support the family 😊

[@user-it5nh8xd7h]

Air瘦了。两夫妻照顾好宝宝之余 也要好好补充营养哦

[@digitalnomad5643]

Time for a full month celebration!

[@karinahe8495]

那2个麻花辫子是2姐妹吗，好像啊😊😊😊😊。 Ari恢复得很不错啊，脸色红润的。很喜欢看你们的视频，关注了好几年了都

[@violetqq]

同感 现在已经很少看到这种麻花辫子的发型了😂

[@jyue0607]

Both my husband and I got three months full paid parental leave. We both work in the banking industry, different bank.

[@LittleMonkey-h3b]

建议不要摇或者拍哄睡，养成习惯会很累人的。

[@jhtu9071]

In China, it varies for different cities. The national rule is as follow, and different cities may add extra days on too. Female employees are entitled to 98 days of maternity leave, of which they can take 15 days of maternity leave before childbirth; for those who have difficulty giving birth, they can take 15 days of maternity leave; for those who give birth to multiple births, they can take 15 days of maternity leave for each additional baby. If a female employee is pregnant and has a miscarriage for less than 4 months, she will enjoy 15 days of maternity leave; if she is pregnant for 4 months, she will enjoy 42 days of maternity leave.

[@mikealms2162]

is this paid or unpaid leave?

[@danling9308]

What about people who work for a private company, for example , a waitress in an restaurant ?

[@jhtu9071]

@@mikealms2162paid leave

[@jinleslie2775]

国家规定产假补贴98天，有些地区和个人休息158天，超出的日子就没有补贴。@@mikealms2162

[@jinleslie2775]

The same，but you have to sign a work contract first,becoming a regular employee。@@danling9308

[@YanWang0622]

get a Snoo for little tofu！❤ it helped us a lot

[@wroughtforge7547]

In Canada here.. the mother gets one year with 66% of gross salary maternity leave. The mother is paid by the government. The mother’s job is guaranteed when she returns to work. The father gets 2 weeks to one month off with full pay.

[@refinnej088]

There’s another option in Canada to get 18 months leave.

[@llww7026]

But there is a maximum limit. Only around 60k$

[@etow8034]

Canada falls behind most European countries the father also gets 3 months off in Quebec. In France it's a full year plus house cleaning services.

[@etow8034]

@@llww7026 Only ? ...poor Canadian taxpayers I don't want to pay you a penny ...errr okay a nickel !

[@hongkhov7944]

I think in Canada we only get 55% of our earning up to $650 weekly.

[@kai-lilin5288]

恭喜 小豆腐滿月了，好可愛喔。記得24年前，我兒子小baby時，也喜歡趴在我的胸口睡覺，新手爸媽最缺乏的就是睡眠，辛苦你們了😘

[@paulwang6250]

My wife took one year mat-leave. I took 5 weeks.😁

[@liuzun]

恭喜恭喜1岁了 恭喜 축하드려요 참오로 보기좋아요 짱 ㅠㅠ

[@Jason-iz8jg]

it is 30 day old, not one year old

[@hanxizhou3774]

Start sleep training from month 4! Seriously! Babies need to learn healthy sleeping habits. We learned it in a hard way.

[@lynettehuisinga2202]

I love your friends!

[@lauragrt]

15年前，北京，full pay 晚婚晚育➕独生子女假➕剖腹产假，一共6个多月，12年前香港，只有10周产假, 80%工资

[@yigeqi8128]

太棒了，加油

[@ernestyeap3053]

Wow! I still remember when your wife just got pregnant, and now he's a month old! So scary the way time flies

[@user-hm2rx8yp9z]

坐标美国，100%工资产假6个月，然后可延长50%工资3个月，再延长没工资3个月，新爸爸产假8个星期。美国的产假没有什么国家标准，各个行业各个公司差别很大。一般越新兴行业福利越好，公司们会内卷福利抢人。

[@erisazheng4789]

哇 这是什么神仙公司？想跳槽！！求公司名称

[@user-hm2rx8yp9z]

@@erisazheng4789就我十几年工作经验，绝大多数科技，金融，银行，和其他行业头部公司都差不多这福利，甚至更好。一个规律是你可以查一下一个公司女员工比例，国际员工比例，越高的越liberal福利也越好

[@clief6124]

恭喜🎉

[@cheungtszmaknatural753]

在香港，產假14週，可享有五分之四薪酬，陪產假5天，也是五分之四薪酬。😂

[@yuliang6594]

陪产假太短了

[@cheungtszmaknatural753]

@@yuliang6594 2019年以前只有三天陪產假。

[@lauragrt]

我当时只有10周，生之前还要用去5天，差不多只有9周

[@Juno_CA]

Our company have 18 weeks maternity leave for mom and dad, and extra 6-8 weeks before the baby born for the moms according to the California state law.

[@Lancy18]

我生老大到她兩歲半都沒有睡過好覺，雖然她4個月后可以睡整晚不起夜，但是我會常常醒來幫她蓋踢掉的小被子。老二出生後，月子里有請中醫幫忙調我可以好好睡覺，所以二寶出生5個月的時候我就可以和她一起睡整晚了，二寶她5個月的時候剛好是夏天，不用擔心她晚上踢小被子會著涼。我家兩個孩子都在滿3個月以後開始斷夜奶，中間醒來就奶嘴安撫，晚上也不會留小夜燈給她們，有小夜燈會影響寶寶生長發育，給你們參考。

[@sukipeng711]

Ari 后面有空整理一些newborn must have方面的视频吧❤

[@jianxixi]

It depends on the state law. IMO, the companies in California have better parental leave policies. Quite a lot of companies provide 16-20 weeks for paternity/maternity leave with 100% base salary. I hope it could be more common in other states as well.

[@马拉戈壁]

昨天还在想你们什么时候更新呢

[@huihuangloh5030]

祝福小豆腐满🈷之喜 🎉 长的越来越可爱🥰

[@rnf4914]

congratulations！！！😄

[@pspSkye]

In Australia the government pays for 18 weeks of maternity leave for mums and 2 weeks for dads. Most large companies have fully paid maternity leave averages around 18 weeks, you can opt for 50% pay and double the maternity leave to 36 weeks.

[@姜斌-k9h]

杰你們好.祝宝宝順利滿月.还有好友关爱好幸福❤🎉

[@xuyang3989]

好可爱的小豆腐，趴在爸爸肚子上睡觉好像一只小狗狗😀

[@joannahcheng6988]

In Malaysia, we have 2 months maternity leave and 1 week paternity leave.

[@guanghan-dk8xl]

三线城市国企职工04.06年 母：产假三个月，全额工资，无奖金（工资总额百分之十），哺乳假两年，工资总额百分之六十 父：06年无陪护假期，现在十五天

[@sheegeoklai9761]

在新加坡一般妈妈的產假是四個月。

[@jlouie8835]

Ari keeps on saying it's not American culture for the mom to take care of the daughter after birth and I tend to disagree. Maybe the answer should be depends on the family. My ABC daughter married a white guy and his mom took care of my daughter after birth for 2 weeks and I took over for another two weeks (we both had to work). She did the same for her own daughter, two white moms (one from CA and the MIL from New Mexico) shared the babysitting duties for the first month after birth. Lots of my white neighbors did the same, not exactly one month but at least 2 weeks. I am very surprised that Ari's mom was not there for her. I have been in US for 46 years, even if the grand mother have to work, my co-workers with new born grand child will take couple weeks off to help. The funny thing was, my son in law told me he wanted privacy and didn't need the parents help when they had their first kid and by the second time around, he made sure we were there the night after the baby was born to help.

[@Duoji-]

恭喜小豆腐满月 也祝您们一直这么幸福健康快乐🎉 一家充满喜乐有爱的家庭 每次看您们视频很幸福！也特别喜欢有趣的Jay 先生的老丈人 祝您们提前中秋节快乐🎑

[@sauravlahiry6951]

hi sis and bro, shocking. in germany, it is 14 weeks of paid maternity leave.

[@牛牛-b1n]

美国人习惯，不带朋友回家呀，聚会吃饭都在外面。很中国化，有朋友家里吃喝。🎉

[@LittleMonkey-h3b]

走的近的朋友会去家里的，况且他们几个朋友都是一半是Chinese🎉

[@stellateng7678]

我感到在美國才多請朋友來家裡party. 因為房租比中國大。

[@etow8034]

Full moon is actually full month as it is the same word 月 in Chinese.

[@tigermom1348]

Canada have 1 years maternity leave and have 60% of salariy,

[@henryay]

Hard time will over, 加油!

[@linghu8103]

孩子三个月以后就好了，我小孙子从出生到三个月都是黑白颠倒。现在他已经四岁了！

[@嬋宗的生活筆記]

初為人父母才能體會爸媽的辛勞，尤其是頭一胎男生都較難帶，之後的孩子不知是有經驗還是孩子也較好帶。祝安康

[@amelieye2897]

hi，我们家宝宝七周。白天每三小时喂一次；睡得特别，也很好带。可以到了晚上就很闹；只接受抱着睡；不然一放回她床就开始哭。直到凌晨3、4点是可以好好睡到6、8小时。你们家宝贝这样吗？

[@yangkangpan1592]

在美国如果父母要上班的，这么小的宝宝谁去照顾，如果托管的话，托管的成本是多少。

[@jamesfan1207]

我们在美国中西部，孩子出生的时候刚好是新冠第一年，没有国内老人过来。单位有short term disability的leave，6周发全薪，然后请了两周的带薪年假，2个月大就送托儿所了，每周大概350美金费用，一直都还好。

[@tieli7345]

你的条件不可以生三胎

[@Lelelelelelelelelele]

恭喜满月小豆腐。朋友是双胞胎吗，看上去好像

[@期期厮是韭]

这时候的宝宝脖子是没有力气的，这样电动摇椅应该是危险的，你去查查美国应该是销毁过这种摇椅的，宝宝因该平躺着，看着都怕

[@jiefeng2383]

小豆腐is so cute！！！！！

[@Hing.Dickson]

满月吃红鸡蛋😂😛

[@Winter-yc4sw]

Not enough time to see the baby

[@sj7038]

It depends on companies you work for.

[@arkun223]

awesome boy

[@liwenxiao4156]

TLC, Tender Loving Care.

[@期期厮是韭]

下巴直接被压在胸口上了，有呼吸困难的危险

[@bongjai]

Mat leave in Canada is 18 months!

[@AlkalineL]

台灣，2年的育嬰假，給予80%的薪水。不確定是否所有公司會遵守，但目前我的公司是如此執行。

[@christinelu7949]

My office paternity leave is “0”, for maternity leave, you can have 4 months 100% unpaid. Worst that I ever heard.

[@nancydu629]

像外公，一点都不像爸😅

[@phungmoe2302]

Is that.... A Twins sisters?

[@zhangmike1308]

杰真是一个好丈夫好爸爸，你是一个真男人，敬佩你。

[@老污龟-v6c]

人见人爱的小豆腐🥰

[@wenshi6124]

小豆腐满月快乐🎉

[@jianfengsu4802]

坐标上海，去年刚生宝宝，妈妈产假158天，因为单位是学校，遇到寒暑假可以顺延，生育津贴是去年单位所有缴纳社保人员的平均工资乘以天数，也可以选择全额拿自己工资，当然是哪个高选哪个，我自己有半个月的陪产假，that's it.

[@chenzhida-b7z]

中美航班恢复不到1成，你们三个来回目前的交通成本约10万人民币，1.2万美元左右........

[@elainengo2350]

Happy full moon!

[@giggschia6987]

宝宝太可爱。。😍

[@穗羊下凡]

加拿大maternity leaves是18个月，可以是母或父一个人拿，也可以两个分享拿每人一半。 这么快满月了吗？真可爱！

[@XieAlisa]

我也是生了孩子才知道原来每个晚上每隔2小时就要坐起来给孩子喂奶，那段日子太难熬了。感觉自己现在的黑眼圈就是这么熬出来的。做父母确实辛苦~ Jay你们心里也稍微放松点，不要太紧张，一步一步来，会慢慢适应的。

[@kaa2369]

日本产假6个月 工资拿一半生育险出，可以再延长6个月 但是工资会相对再少一些。

[@BBCintw]

看了好多视频，有带过Ari到国内吃过吗。感觉应该会喜欢。

[@kevinzhao2003]

快来成都吃火锅，说不定可以偶遇你们😂，希望小家伙健康成长

[@camlee2341]

i have seen alot of half asian with green or hazel eyes...how is that possible

[@lulululu1u]

教堂鸡yyds！！！！！！！！！！

[@ransun377]

The second one will be a lot easier. Don't let the first one scare you 😂

[@yifengzhou8935]

从我个人经验来看，结尾那里Jay可以拍的频率慢一点儿，稍微对准一点儿宝宝呼吸的节奏好一点儿。不过也可能我想多了，我当年是在亚洲这边cover美国市场，凌晨三点左右到家换我老婆，照看宝宝到早上八点，再换回我去睡觉。所以我是比较清醒的状态哄宝宝睡觉的，经常盯着他的脸看好久，估计一般人后半夜没这么好状态😅

[@roseflower_bee]

可愛的寶寶😘

[@monortues]

像妈妈

[@maverick-kc5qq]

加拿大可以休一年，拿EI。有人甚至能休到2年

[@chanjim1407]

Lovely congrats again

[@TianyiWang-b2r]

啥时候带着老丈人一家回国逛吃逛吃，很期待

[@tinayeung3308]

Baby有点像老丈人，隔带遗传了哈哈😆

[@dennist9285]

好有愛的一家人，不知道是不是看錯了，感覺小豆腐有一雙美麗的藍眼睛😂

[@hanmingchen3138]

黑眼睛也美丽。谢谢

[@dennist9285]

@@hanmingchen3138 是的