[M4M] Your Dad is a Proud Parent [Comfort ASMR]

[@iscao_comet]

My father is absent. I always envied the boys who got to do stuff with their dads. This almost made me cry

[@JJ_cooks]

And then my alarm blares, reminding me that my father yelled and hit on me all the time and that this is just a fantasy of what id hoped my childhood had been

[@MrNewtube25]

I have been having a rough year. My twin brother passed away, my best friend took his own life, and im moving through a rough divorce. My father was never around, and as a veteran I have always had a lack of anyone telling me I was doing well or they were proud of me. Thanks for this man.

[@Anthony-m1o9p]

my dad always valued grades over than me, hearing this makes me so envious of the fathers that tell their kids this, so i make it a promise to myself that in the future i will tell my son this (if i dont commit)

[@princessxcatsz]

I seriously cried so much i never had gotten any of this from my dad

[@fad3d_v1per22]

as someone whose father has gotten extremely abusive (physically, emotionally, mentally and very rarely sexually), even more than in the past few years, this made me feel so much better. he’s also extremely transphobic so being called a boy makes me feel so valid. I just wanted to say thank you. feels nice to know I won’t be thrown across a room and be called a weakling and a failure just because I got a 3 (C) in school

[@hypnoticskull6342]

Shit, I’m really sorry. I hope that things will get better. It’s awful that it happens, and that piece of shit can burn in hell

[@_Destinyy]

I'm so sorry to hear that dear! you are so strong

[@hotpocketoverlord7800]

my dad thinks i’m a failure because it’s my second go at college and the field i chose “doesn’t make money” (but it does) he also was very transphobic and abusive when i was a kid, too.he still is but i’m huge… so he kinda just keeps it to himself. 🏳️‍⚧️

[@HighShepherdLopes]

As someone who grew up in a stable household, even my dad struggled with me growing up. He was never able to just hug me and say these things because he was so worried about me. Now as im healing both in my relationship with him as well as healing sexually(its a long story) I listen to this video, imagining that im cuddling up to God the Father, and He's telling me everything my dad had troubke putting into words. Thank you. We need more fatherly videos like this one.

[@gr8singer1]

As a trans man who grew up in my father's shadow only to be discarded once I came out to my father, thank you! This made me cry but also have hope. Thank you so much!

[@thestrokeofmidnight7269]

I'm glad this helped you. You are amazing and never give up on being who you truly are!

[@luke8799]

"you will always be my boy" hit me so hard. i literally broke down. when i came out to my dad as trans (ftm), he told me that no matter what, i'd always be his little girl. and he meant well, but it hurt, it hurt so much and i try to pretend i got over it but i really didn't. it felt so good to hear the same thing in the way i wish i'd heard it. the way it should've been said. this... really hits deep. i dont think i realised how much i needed this. thank you. really. from the bottom of my heart.

[@switchbladediablo]

Damn this hits close to home

[@totallynotsolace]

As a trans guy I’ve also faced a very similar maybe even same experiences as you but it just shows that we’re both not alone and we can do this! Another stranger told me this the other day and I think you should hear this too, *”You shouldn’t have to change for society, you are perfect as you are, and you will always be a boy no matter what the others say.”* it was something along those lines. (I’m trying to comfort you but I’ve been told I’m bad at comforting people so I’m sorry if I Have made you uncomfortable /gen)

[@brendanbeck2942]

Thank you so much for this audio. I feel like I’ve grown so much but having a dad that actively tries to destroy your self esteem is something that takes a long time to heal. I’m just thankful I had the strength to cut him off before I did something I regretted. Thank you for bringing the joy of fatherhood to those who weren’t given what so many take for granted.

[@Racer_24]

I was told by my father that i am a failure... Again. I really wish my father would be as kind as in this audio. Thanks for this one.

[@thestrokeofmidnight7269]

I'm adopting you now. I am proud of you

[@Racer_24]

@@thestrokeofmidnight7269 thats awefully nice of you but i don't think you can legally adopt an adult

[@Boogiewoogie354.]

Thank you. I was adopted without a father and always needed this comfort. All the other videos of father comfort always end up weird, i just wanted something like this

[@silvereyedcat2226]

I just lost my father and mother this touch a place in my soul thank you for this comfort

[@anyaaudios5410]

I can't with you, I swear. This is too beautiful and touching for me to find words to describe it. You did an amazing job. I really wish there was someone like you in every children's life, because this is exactly what anyone needs to feel loved while growing up. Thank you for being your sensible, sweet self.

[@thestrokeofmidnight7269]

Awww, well thank you for such kind words Anya, you're the best and I'm grateful to have such a lovely friend

[@little.king.lambie]

started crying a minute in :') I was thinking of the man I view as a father rather than my actual dad, since my father figure is more present than my bio dad... plus he tried to disown me years ago and we'll never fully fix what's wrong

[@aow2410]

My dad passed when I was 12 here I am at 23 and you don't know how much this video means to me. Thank you

[@rob-ty2ob]

just thinking my dad will no longer be around to see me grow up feels so scary idk,hearing this kind of audios just hits close to home

[@Anon0998]

This is feels to real ……I needed this from my father all along but I was not close around him and had to be hard on myself and make myself thinks I’m tough and stone but today I cried like a man after soo long I cried like a boy….. that needed love and I …idk it’s tough I wanna hear this from him lol it’s reliving but hard to believe that’s not my dads saying to me

[@anwarovgetitbro]

@@Anon0998 fr I lost my father when I was 6 and this gives me good goosebumps

[@Oceanboi-bu5rg]

I cried just reading the title. As a trans boy, I feel very sad because of my parents, but this has made me happy, thank you 🫶🏻

[@toastius9939]

Thank you so, so much for this, Sir. I frequently get mental breakdowns in the middle of the night as i never hear anyone that they're proud of me. Thank you so much for this, you have saved a lot of lives with your words too.

[@Notbatman483]

Why cant all of our fathers be like this...atleast just once....being abandoned by my bio dad and seeming unwanted by my step dad this audio made me cry man..especially knowing ill never be "his son"...

[@horrorgameslife6294]

my (ftm)trans, affection starved ass is crying. never having a proper father figure makes this sadder for me as my brother(half) grew up with his dad and i haven't been able to get this comfort from mine. this gives me more the half the comfort i could wish for

[@claypill]

thank you so much. i wish my parents accepted me as their son. i can't cry most of the time but this really tugs on my heartstrings. i feel more ok and motivated to go out and live life.

[@LunaWestbrook]

Genuinely crying I wish my dad were like thus

[@miskapeiponen1426]

This really helped my gender dysphoria, my dad has never called me "son". Thank you!❤️❤️

[@thestrokeofmidnight7269]

You're so welcome! I'm glad this helped you ☺️

[@citypopgal]

wow i needed this, i love you. you make me feel safe and protected

[@thesilentone3877]

This is beautiful very cathartic made cry in a good way. You are so amazingly talented. You true calm for this ravaged soul.

[@shxdeexl_.9509]

Thank you, for making this. I never cried so badly to an audio, i don’t have a father, but listening to this makes me feel way better :).

[@notyves8952]

I love you dad, thank you

[@lucasdoria-mi8oi]

I am my fathers "fuck up" and my brother is the "one they got right" I cried throughout the whole video. It feels so surreal being treated like this. I wish my dad loved me. Thank you for this. I hope someday he changes. He's getting pretty old so, who knows haha. Maybe someday he won't be a cranky old man :') I love him I know he doesn't love me, but I love him so much. I put this audio on since I was getting ready for work and it's pretty cold outside today, and I feel better now that I've gotten my tears out. Thank you man, I mean it

[@AdrianOktober74]

Thank you for this recently got thrown away like trash by my adopted dad after I tried to so hard to help him to just want to spend just one day with him, but it I wasn't enough and wasn't worth spending time with according to him. And I am just crying listening to this on repeat cause it's just nice to hear this. So thank you for this video.

[@rataazanaa]

Im in tears

[@BeefyBryan]

Woah, this actually made me tear up. I’ve always dreamed of having a father by my side. Unfortunately I’ve never had. Always imagined playing Catch with a Dad or hearing him cheer for me at my competitions at school. Looks like I needed this more than I thought. Thank you.

[@mattallen7114]

I had to pause this several times...it was just so much.. I don't want to let the tears flow...and that's probably the problem. I'm only about a quarter of the way through the tape and I'm stalling before I press play because I want it to last...I want this to last...

[@JeremyCantDraw]

Thank you, thank you so much, this made me cry.

[@luchiluchi7571]

Thanks for being the dad mine couldn't be

[@thestrokeofmidnight7269]

You're welcome, newly adopted son, I am proud of you

[@luchiluchi7571]

@@thestrokeofmidnight7269 Thanks for bein here dad

[@mathias9830]

Damn, your interraction made me tear up. Really beautiful to see.

[@Lanitol_FN]

i needed it, thank you

[@carloslemus501]

My daddy issues makes this hurt more

[@cool_corvid]

found this a while ago and totally forgot how much it affected me til now and i lowkey teared up, i wish my father was this supportive. i wish i was told any of this when i was younger, i wish my dad accepted me and used my name.

[@toro4475]

I'm so proud

[@Bluefavcolor]

We gonna be okay. And we’re gonna be great parents to our kids! We will shower them with love!!!

[@laraamy]

Thank you, you make me crying so bad I really just want to hear from my parents that they're proud of me

[@iOnlyListenToMusicHere]

hearing this makes me cry. i know my dad would never say this or feel 1/4th of this for me

[@Esnart.X3]

Just one of those days where I'm crying my eyes out because my dad was never in my life and I wasn't born a man

[@_-_-_-_-_-_-_-__-]

I can’t- I couldn’t stop crying. My dad never gave me any affection or any caring or any fatherly guidance which didn’t hurt. Through all the fucking times they called me a waste or a failure or were disappointed in me, I can’t remember the last time they said they cared, let alone hugged me. I don’t think they ever did. I cant thank you enough- it’s so hard to deal with sometimes, it’s all too much

[@val_yaz]

I'm crying so much, I wish I had this treatment

[@kittygardenva2741]

This is a very beautiful audio! You've done a fantastic job with it!

[@thestrokeofmidnight7269]

Thank you so much! ☺️

[@Otakadilla]

My dad left me. Thanks for this. Guys im crying help

[@aesonly]

maybe one day my dad talk me like that

[@kecoakgeming4005]

Ngl im cryng rn.

[@chenlesbf]

my dad likes to deny that he ever did anything wrong raising my sibling and I, but I feel like, if your son can't get 2 minutes through a comfort audio without breaking down crying, maybe you fucked up somewhere idk

[@lem0ns4eyes.7]

9:50 i just really needed this

[@Starboy-lx2hm]

I am thankful for this since I wasn't able to hear my father and will never and I wasn't able to have a man in the family who was caring the only is my grandfather but I am happy that there are kids out there not having that pain

[@thehelltaker8820]

That was really nice, I loved it. Thx Midnight Pancakes 🥞

[@thestrokeofmidnight7269]

Thank you for listening!

[@Strawberryfroggy_13]

I-i don't know how to thank you for this, thank you i needed that.💜

[@cannibalmilkshake8923]

As someone who doesn't have parents, this helped me a lot. thank you

[@elmuchacho8598]

thank u daddy u helped me so much im crying

[@devilsdeckofcards]

Made my cry a little. I’m ftm and also was parentified, so it hits home and I would love to belobe my dad is accepting but he sadly is not. He will have to admit defeat when I get top surgery and he is the only one dead naming me but he is a jerk so-

[@thestrokeofmidnight7269]

Be strong, you've got this!

[@greenhousesubs]

daddy issues has entered the fucking CHAT bro, my dad doesn’t accept im trans, bi and honestly doesn’t say he’s proud or happy with me and just says im lazy and worthless a lot but this is fucking chefs kiss omfgs ilysm😭😭😭 edit: currently crying rn lol

[@CBABN]

I felt like I was hit in the chest and then suddenly it all went numb. Started from my fingertips and goes and it engulfed me. I cried harder. It's hard to choose anymore. It's hard to hide my scars. No one cares how I'm feeling irl. It hurts me so hard

[@robinfox1902]

My therapist will be hearing about this (with gratitude)

[@thestrokeofmidnight7269]

🙏🙏

[@matthewgoodson9275]

ty man. I love my dad more than anything on this entire planet. all i ever do is disappoint him though. I wish he would hug me more. Im such a fuck up in his eyes, and in my own, but these videos help me cope with being the the disappointment that I am. Thank you so much man. It's not my real dad saying these things to me, but it still feels comforting. I hope one day my own dad will say something like this to me. He always says that I have so much potential, and that I am so smart, but I don't think he really believes it; I think he just says it to me to make me feel better. I think he knows that I will always be a piece of shit, and I also know that. I think he knows that I will always be a fuck-up, druggie, piece of shit son, and I can't take it knowing that my dad will never, ever, ever, be proud of me.

[@The_gregory.]

I dont remember the last time i cried so hard, i may have "daddy issues"

[@buckyistryingtheirbest]

I made it into my second top college with a good scholarship. Im going into social work and sociology. I did it. I made it.

[@aethology.x]

I need more duration

[@NotGoroMajima]

It's been said a lot now. But, thank you, genuinely. This gave me a lot of strength to go out there and do my best. Cheers 🙏

[@waltjr2340]

If only my dad was like this 😔

[@bunbunsasmr3775]

I feel like knowing my father will never say this to me hurts more than being stabbed.

[@FreshOrgans]

I feel like this what my dad wants to say to me. He started checking my tiktok and I guess has seen my pronouns (which are they/he/she) and started to call me he or boy in spanish which always made me feel valid also he is pretty cold-faced but when me (and my lil bro) are with him, its mostly laughing and smiles.

[@BOB-yi5ys]

i wish my dad could say this we got in a really bad fight he broke my tv and fliped my bed with me on it some more things happen so i kicked a hole in the wall so he attack me holding me down spitting in my face then drag me up the stairs then i got kicked out lol the whole time he was holding me down i was yelling at him to kill me cuz mom didnt raise no bitch good vid it got me crying hard lol i cant even see as im typing

[@idiashroud8054]

My dad never was and still really isn't in my life he might text me here and there or calls like 1-3 times in a month and this makes me reaply happy bc I never heard anything like that from him and it makes me feel less lonely n fatherless :)

[@babybatz666]

Can you do ‘dad finally got the milk’ next?

[@weibowhy1988]

I cannot fucking believe I'm here

[@switchbladediablo]

I never had a dad, this the closest to feel like I have one

[@thaithaikwtxval56]

Thank you🤟🤟😞🔥 God bless🤟

[@thestrokeofmidnight7269]

And bless you for your support!

[@fireflyrp3214]

Man... I have some deep issues inside. Everyone's saying how this is making them cry or smile, but I'm shaking with anxiety. It's like... So abnormal for me, I feel like this has to be some kind of anomaly. This is not a human, it's... SYS.ERROR:IRQL_NOT_LESS_OR_EQUAL

[@thestrokeofmidnight7269]

Trauma can do that. When you can't trust your family or they've hurt you in a way that leaves you unable to trust a father figure it can be devastating for sure

[@nobody-oj7gk]

This was hard to hear especially since even my mom says he will never be proud of the work i do and he says that i will fail at anything i pursue.

[@BrittleGuy]

As a trans man, I've never really heard my father say he was proud of me, nor has he called me his son. I just wish once he would be proud of me and support who I am, but he always gets mad at me for small things, or we always get into fights over small things. I really wish one day he'd accept me