Lub Neej Tau Txiv Muaj Nyiaj~05/04/2023~

Hmong true story: The lonely life of a woman who is married to a rich man.

[@panhiathao6192]

Cas tau txiv muaj nyiaj los tseem tsis txaus siab thiab nas. Cas ib qho ob qho los pheej yuav kom yus niag txiv nrog yus tas li xwb nas.

[@kaher9238]

I’m sure there are some women out there that will take that life in a heart beat. No men is perfect. Believe me, there are worst men out there.

[@victoriavang4152]

Many Many women like us would take the kind of life you have any day. Don't take it for granted!!!!

[@houaxiong9996]

He could be living a double life

[@dxxyooj8081]

Yog tej zaum nws twb mua ib tu poj niam ntxiv thiab🤔

[@simplymomcreate1037]

Lol dam I must be tire of nagging kids and husband and doesn't have much time for myself.... for a moment here I want this life lol...

[@Ladylotto24]

Not I. Sometimes the simplest meals are the best. Married to a rich person but they don’t value you, he’ll no! He could be living many lives.

[@_MS_X]

Your ex-husband did not love you, he loved his money! He only married you to have someone in his house. Some rich people are greedy... not with their money, but with their time! I'm glad you found someone who loves you and filled that emptiness in your heart.

[@marylee5608]

Some people don't know how to appreciate a good man. This man is a hard working and have big dreams but only that he's not around too much but the part that she's in labor, he should be there at least one day. If he's not it should be ok at least he always do everything for her. She's too much too

[@sijhawmtsitochannel1659]

Peb kev ua neeg ce tau tus muaj sijhawm muaj kev hlub ho tsi muaj nyiaj Tau tus muaj nyiaj li no ce ho tsi muaj sijhawm thiab kev hlub yog li ce yus yuav tau xaiv yam yus txau siab

[@JL2931-ls1ws]

Totally agree!

[@Xavtauntsejmuagcedagtxhuayam]

Cas kuv mloog mas kuv pab hlub koj Niag Txiv qhov koj tsis nkag siab Nws ko Dhau Lawm Os Koj Txhob xav tias koj Yog nas Ej es yuav Tsum muaj txhua Tus los nqa rawv koj Os Ntuj e Ntuj Koj Niag Txiv Twb Tseem nug txog me Nyuam hais txog Kev yuav khoom yuav Tej khoom Siv hais Nws Niam Nws Txiv lawm Tib si Yo yo yo Ntuj Os Ntuj kuv mloog ces ntshe koj tuaj hais khav Kom lwm Tus Poj Niam Ntshaw koj xwb Os Koj mas phim Tau Tus Txiv khwv Nyiaj thiab khwv koj Es rau siab ntso tsoo hauj lwm Tau Nyiaj hli Dhau hli Tej zaum koj yuav muaj Kev Zoo siab dua nawb

[@hmoobkatemiddleton-not3711]

Most rich ppl would rather marry ppl in their tax bracket. Ppl within their tax bracket understand the lifestyle. Whereas, ppl in middle class or lower income upbringings struggle to adjust and fit in, unless they have the patience to put up with a lot or be a chameleon.

[@Zeb1245]

One of setbacks of marrying a rich man who’s not a free, trust fund baby is that they work long hours, even if they’re CEOs. When you married these men, you need your own hobbies, and make friends with women that are in your tax bracket. There are rich housewives that can relate to you, too.

[@seeyang5951]

I totally agreed. I think some of these women doesn't understand the business and rich life style.

[@lizyang9740]

Agreed!!

[@TheWangVang]

Lol 😂this lifestyle only works for those gold diggers ladies only

[@Faifferz]

Sometimes the rich people have no personal life, that is why they are rich. But surely you had to know this when you guys were still dating?? His routines and his responsibilities.

[@Xavtauntsejmuagcedagtxhuayam]

Tsuav Kom Nws Txhob tham lwm Tus xwb mas yeej tsis muaj Leej Twg Zoo Tau Tag txhua Yam Os Koj khuam Nrhiav Kom Tau Tus haum koj xwb Khees Tshaj Cov Nws tham lwm Tus Nyiag koj Nyiaj mus Pub lwm Tus Neb tsis Sib haum Yog koj muaj qhov Tib Nws koj kus kes ces Kav tsij Nrhiav Tus li koj nyiam Es Nws nyiam Tus Ua Niam tsev Tej ywm ces Cia Nws mam li Nrhiav dua Ua Neeg Nyob ces Yog Tau li ko ces Zoo heev lawm Yog koj Tseem Tau ntsib Cov Niag Txiv Dev Peb ntsib Peb pom los thiab mas koj thiaj rov Tig mus saib koj Niag Txiv ko Yog Tus Zoo Os

[@mainenglee-xiong3344]

Hmm, can’t have it all. Be humble and be grateful for what you have. You expected too much!

[@Xavtauntsejmuagcedagtxhuayam]

Nas Ej Dhau Lawm Os koj na

[@tonymoua1058]

Every women's dream until reality kicks in. You both just have a very different life style & expectations.

[@meethao1360]

Lady, you cannot have it all. A rich and wealthy husband of course will be very busy. Choose your own battles 😅

[@yuxianlee2864]

Lawm es nqa tsis tau ab tsi mus mus yus tus kheej xwb ces twb tsis yog kev hlub😢.

[@kristyxiong4140]

I don't care for money and riches. All this cannot make me happy. Time and love and family is precious. You cannot get this back or hold it in place. Money, riches, worldly materials, you can always get. This will never replace love. Even all the rich people in this world dies regretting having a family or loved ones. I'm glad you found someone who loves and appreciates you. Some people who are rich or have money, think too highly of themselves and too egotistic. Don't lower yourself to these kind of people. Love yourself and make yourself happy too

[@ShortyThankyou]

Yus tsi yog neeg muaj nyiaj los yog neeg txawj ntse ces zoo li no mas yus yog level twg yus mus yuav tus level twg thiaj kajsiab txawm txomnyem los ob leeg mam khwv muaj thiaj yog ob leeg li

[@nouvang9245]

Your husband is so sweet, he showers you with money, flowers, diamonds and gold. Diamonds a girl best friend

[@hummingbyrde]

As someone who’s the bread winner, I can tell you that it’s exhausting to work! When I come home, I’m dead…don’t want to get up 😂 but I understand my spouse needs my time too. Weekends are devoted to what he wants to do. 😂

[@prokriteyang9546]

Cas ho tsis mus pab niam pog txiv yawg

[@klchanel3110]

Living in a dreams of good Lifestyle is not fair and double down for less. I agree 💯. Leave him is a good choice.

[@magicalunicorn5853]

A marriage, to be rich enough so you both can spend time together. Work is not above a relationship of loneliness. Money can’t buy love, sex, loneliness, companionship, trips, memories. Things mean nothing if you don’t have any memories of time together. When he goes - he can’t take his money with him. Don’t let anyone control you by not letting you work or have a career of you’re own to be independent. It’s his way to control you so you have no other option but to stay.

[@paxiong6541]

People with money live life like this. The money does the talking, taking care of things for them. Money buys people but not love

[@maivvwj7116]

Nyiaj yog ib thaiv dab na niam tsev

[@wendylee4892]

He’s a very smart man!!

[@lnchannel1186]

There is a saying that Money cannot buy happiness. This story is proof of that

[@lilyv.628]

Find happiness in yourself and not in someone else. Find a partner that wants the same things in life as you. Sometimes, that means a lot of work and little time with one another. Sometimes, that means a lot of time together and little money. You and your ex wanted different things.

[@159nightangel]

People never appreciate what they have. Lots of women would kill for your life

[@sunnygirl973]

Neeg muaj nyiaj Tiam si tsis txawj Xav os. UA neej es nws control yus xwb ces xum tsis nyob os.

[@Xavtauntsejmuagcedagtxhuayam]

Koj piav Tau Tau Zoo Dhau Lawm Os Ib txhia muaj me Nyuam mas Lawv Tseem pab Lawv Tus Kheej xwb Os Ntuj Os Ntuj cas yuav Vam Tau ntau Yam Ua Luaj

[@maryly09]

If i have that much money, i wouldn't put my spouse's name on anything too. U never know how people's hearts are. Be smart like Achraf Hakimi.

[@maithao1139]

If u are bored than go help his parents so that he can spare that time helping them to be with u. Or go with him to help his parents. Duh!!

[@yiavangyongkouajerxa2883]

Ab cov neeg muaj nyiaj ces yeej li ko os yg Tau tus li ko ces yus kawg nkag siab nws xwb ma tej zaum pob nyiaj loj ntawv nws yuav cia khiav lag luam tab sis qhov g zoo mas yg nyob hauv tsev xwb ces zoo li yus saib yus g tshua muaj nuj nqis

[@lilylo5191]

Sounds like you just met him and married him right away. Cuz you sound surprise about his routines and his personality. If you know him well before you marry him, these issues would have come up and had the chance to talk about. You'd leave him if you don't like the way he is or at least negotiate with him so he don't treat you like that. Yog koj pom nws cov nyiaj xwb es lwm yam koj tsis pom until koj yuav nws no ces yog koj caum nyiaj lawm. This problem is on you.

[@yuxianlee2864]

Tau nyiaj xwb tsis tau kev hlub los laj nyob kawg li. Mam nrhiav dua xwb ma. Yuab tus koj ntshaw tus ua koj lub siab xav tau xwb ma.

[@pajthao4813]

Koj txiv muaj2 nyiaj ntawd cia nws puag nws cov nyiaj ua neej zoo lawm peb ua neej nyob tsuas ntshaw kom yus muaj khub es mus thiab nyob qhov twg los kom muaj ob leeg thiaj sov siab os me vivncaus aw koj xav yog lawm

[@nengyang6746]

He’s living a double life

[@sombunman5551]

Muaj nyiaj ntau 2 uas yog nws li xwb koj twb tsis muaj nyiaj li os Koj txiav txim siab yog lawd

[@harryjohn5476]

Ua cas niam pog lawv khwv ua luaj es ho tsis mus pab niam pog thiab ma tsis to taub li os

[@fuemoua8345]

ua neej nyob nyiaj tsis yog 100 tsav yam, tus neeg tsis kam tso npe ua ke hauv cov nyiaj hauv bank ces tsis tas yuav li lub neej yeej tsis txog twg tsis sov siab li os

[@wahouakha8308]

Txhob tu siab os mog

[@pebyogkeebcagneeghmoob31]

That’s why they say money doesn’t buy everything. Glad you are much happier now 👍

[@saykaomee]

I would've say bye when a man says to me that my job is to birth children for him. How about marrying someone who you can be yourself, be financially independent, free of control, spend what you want and when you want without needing someone's permission. You may have the checkbook and debit card, but he still controls how much and what you can spend.

[@xayxiong1061]

Agreed!

[@onlygod5667]

You knew exactly what you were getting yourself into...don't blame anyone but yourself...

[@lalalalavuuu69]

Agree, gold digger. She should make her own money

[@ntujdubntujkaj339]

Ho yau hmoob os hmoob aw tau tus muaj nyiaj los ho hais thiab ho tau tus txomnyem los ho tsi kam yuav thiab ces tuag mu xwb ma cov tib neeg zoo li nej kos na

[@palor6785]

Glad you found happiness.

[@pakue9869]

Cas yuav ua boring ua li txawm muaj nyiaj nto ntuj los tsi muaj romantic li

[@maolee8152]

Right!!! She gets flowers, jewelries, cash handed to her, but these doesn’t always signify as romantic!

[@tsualis9696]

ໃໃ

[@huevang2115]

99.999% of woman commenting are not being honest. You hit the jackpot. Any of these woman will fill your absence.

[@mariedenave1089]

So capricious ! ! My husband is not as rich as your ex-husband, but he is very busy and has a lot of responsabilities. It is understandable he cannot be there each time you need it. Things you can deal alone, do it by yourself. I went to give birth to my 3 children, alone, and as far as I am concerned, it is better like this. Nobody came to bring me the special hmong chicken (we used to live far from hmong people) but it is Ok ! Today I am almost 50 and I am doing fine and I am still marrying to my husband.

[@pajntaublaug9326]

Yuav tub nplua nuj 21 ces tsuj cov laus tus hneev taws yuav tub nom..

[@staceychang9685]

I feel u I didn't marry a rich man but I marry a work alcoholic he work 14 hr 7 days when he work to bz home he sleeping never have time for me n our kids we always home I cry to my husband I told him money not everything I'm dying for his time more just money we need time together too money come 2 ND now he finally change n make some time with me n the kids

[@chialee3459]

My husband is like that. We married for 17 years. All he cares is money, and what benefits him. Finally, he is changing, but sometimes, to me I think it is too late.

[@hlinagsiabhaam4169]

Tej yam meme li no xwb es twb tsis txaus tu siab li os. Yog muaj nyiaj lawm ces yeej tsis muaj sij hawm nrog yus nyob li nawb Yog tsu lub sij hawm lawm ces yeej tsis tau nyiaj siv li os. Yog kuv ces tas zog kom nws muab nyiyrau kuv tau siv xwb tiag. Thaum no nyiaj ces yus khaws cia kom tau nyiaj ntau ntau xwb los. Thaum nws tsis nyob lawm ces kom nws muab nyiaj rau yus mus vacation xwb tiag

[@denali12023]

Very good 👍 👏 👌

[@myprecious6751]

Sounds to me you are his trophy wife for his parents. His doormat. He doesn't have time for you because he's not in love with you. You are like his employee except wife title. He controls your money expenses and doesn't trust you with his bulk of assets and money.

[@pahoualee6059]

Ntuj yeej faib haum haum os…tsis pub leej twg tau txhua yam nyob hauv ntuj lub qab plab nod

[@wizardga]

Money is the root of all evil. Dont need money to b happy

[@yuxianlee2864]

Money can't buy love. Poj. Niam nyob hauv qab ntuj no ces ntshaw 2 yam txiv xwb ma.1 tus txiv muaj nyiaj ua hauj lwm khov khov xwb. 2 tus txiv love tob tob hlub tiag tab sis tsis muaj nyiaj xwb. Love kev hlub ces tsis tau nyiaj, tau nyiaj ces tsis tau kev hlub xwb tiag. Seb xum xaiv qhov twg xwb.

[@chueyang7312]

Wonder how they end up together when they are from different background, it goes to show money doesnt buy happiness and love

[@electricgenie966]

I say, stay in your lane. Spend according to your income. If you are a multi-millionaire, why not, you can take your money with you. If you are a multi-billionaire, you really have to spend your money and donate it.

[@Xng88]

Rich people problem.

[@niamtsevxeemlaujlauj5003]

Money and love should work hand in hand, but if ur alone and have a ghost husband, then yeah...money doesn't buy love and love that money can buy ends when money is out.

[@chouaher6886]

Tus niam tsev aw neeg nlpua nuj lub neej tsis xws neeg pluag lub nawb yog koj tsis yog neeg nplua nuj ces koj nyiam nyiaj tab sis Koj tsis nyiam lawv tes haujlwm thiab lawv txoj kev khwv

[@kathyher1416]

Twb tau txiv muaj nyiaj es ca ho tu siab na yog muaj nyiaj npam koj hai ko ua ho tsi hnov meka qhua lawv lub neej luag cov meka yog muaj nyiaj npaum ko luag yeej qhua tia aib no yog neeg npluag nuj ca ho tsi hnov meka qhua li na

[@Wolf_lover975]

Good for you. Money is not everything

[@maylauj9032]

People are rich in certain area and poor in other area. Decide what fulfill your needs. Sometime we can’t have it all- balance lifestyle to make a healthy happy fulfilling life. This is how pple live a double life…… You’re living the rich and famous life style. Live a happy life with all the money or live a day by day life with struggles.

[@nalysaeyang2402]

Omg this story is kinda like my life me and my boyfriend is always going out of the time. My boyfriend has no time for me in always go work 24/7 like this man in this story.

[@hmongfixnas2255]

Mloog lawm koj yog ib tug poj niam txob 2 tus txiv thiag koj paub tias yus ua tsias rau tus txiv mas ntxim 2 npau taw kawg li

[@Faifferz]

I mean…. It’s better than marrying a broke guy who still goes fishing and drinking all the time 😂😂😂😂😂

[@jefferythao4243]

Lol

[@sandyyang1244]

Ntuj aw!!!! Cas tau tus txiv muaj nyiaj!!!! Los tsis zoo siab!!!! Tau tus txiv txom nyem los tsis zoo siab!!!! Yuav ua li cas tiag2 na!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@colleenchan9872]

Kev muaj nyiaj yuav tsis tau kev hlub os! Yog npaum ko nrauj los zoo mas! vim txoj kev hlub yog yus yeej tsis tau yus twb ntshaw nws lub xub ntiag nws txoj kev hlub xwb..tau ib pob nyiaj los tsis tau kev hlub ces yeej tsis kaj siab li os!! Nws mas nws xav tias nyiaj yuav tau txhua yam.. cov neeg coj li no nws yuav tau mus yuav cov muaj nyiaj siv nyiaj loj thiab ua neej nrog nyiaj xwb mas thiaj sib haum..

[@pvp503]

I don’t blame him for being control becuz the parents gave him lots of money. Lots of case I’ve heard and seen the woman get to control she will spent more on her side of family only and don’t care much about his family..At lease he bought you what ever you need, you didn’t work for that money so don’t be complaining.

[@kuvxwb11]

Kuv tus yawm yij coj yuav zoo li tus thaub no thiab tiag. Nws pob nyiaj loj nws yeej tsis pub kuv tus maum pom li. Nws twb tsis muaj nyiaj zoo li tus thaub no thiab lo nws qia dub kawg li nws tsuas cia kuv tus maum pom pob nyiaj tsawg tsawg uas niaj hnub them nuj nqis xwb pob loj ces ciav kiag. Lub neej kuv tus maum yeej zov me nyuam ntau ua hauj lwm part time tau nyiaj psawg psawg xwb lo nws kaw kuv tus muam cov nyiaj tseg nws tias siv nws cov es tseg kuv tus maum li no thawm kawg kuv tus muam mam paub tias kuv tus muam sis muaj npe tom bank tsis pom pob nyiaj ua rau kuv tus muam chim thiab tu siab. Lub sij hawm uas kuv tus muam paub tias nws tsis muaj npe kuv tus yawm yij tham tham hluas nkauj nws yeej muaj lub siab phem. Nws yeej planned nws lub future life lawm nws thiaj ua li raaau kuv tus muam. Niaj hnub no kuv tus muam yeej tseem tsis muaj npe huav lub account tabsi tus yawm yij qhia kom kuv tus muam ntse xwb. Peb ua neeg nyob yog yus ua phem rau leej twg ces yus qhia kom tus neeg ntawv ntse ua rau yus xwb.

[@LimeLM3]

He doesn’t want a wife, he wants someone who can’t think to themselves and only there to keep him company when he’s home.

[@TubTxheebCaaj]

Cov poj niam xav tau zoo paub lub neej zoo li cas lawm lov. Boring npaum li no nav.

[@itsaaron392]

So rich but so broken inside

[@TheMongcha]

Money can NOT buy happiness. He used money to buy love and championship. Good luck with your future.

[@KayVang-kp4us]

U should have your own checking and savings, and one where both can use to pay bills buy groceries etc… u have to remember that, his money he earned before marrying u, isn’t yours. I agreed with this man.

[@hmoobkatemiddleton-not3711]

A lot of haters in the comments. Rich Hmong ppl don’t associate themselves with hating peasants, that’s why they don’t make themselves known in the community 😂

[@nkaujyajyoua9253]

Money is a good asset to have, but it won't buy your happiness.

[@kuvxwb9466]

No matter how much a person loves you, when they have no trust then lawv yeej hlub yus tsis tag. I can understand that sometimes when we put money together, ib tug yeej yuav hloov siab es nyiag nyiaj. Kuv tus txiv los zoo li koj tus thiab os. At least he give you his debit card and allowance. I got nothing from my husband. We both have our own separate account and spent our own money. As much as I want to share account with him, he doesn’t so Kav liam. Just treat them how they treat you. It’s such a lonely marriage.

[@maylovang1880]

Qhov nws tsis nco qab kaw bws lub tub ces yog nws siab phem rau koj ntev heev lawm ces khaum nws lawm ntag los nas. Koj niag txiv no ces nws muaj nws poj niam nyob txhua qhov chaw li nws thiaj tsis quav ntsej txog koj li os me ntxhais aw.

[@Ntximhlubchannel]

Koj tu ma tseem nplua nuj ho kuv tu e twb tsis nplua nuj txom 2 nyem xwb twb yuav g tau ua g tau dab g rau yu li lo yu twb tseem g tau nw kev hlub g tau nw sij hawm li qhov sij hawm yu tau ntawm nw ce sij hawm nw sab e lo pw xwb

[@cheexiong1634]

Money can’t buy love and some people don’t want live this life also how sad..I wouldn’t want a husband who doesn’t make time for me and my kids … you can have all the money in world but if your not humble and understanding and loving being there time for your wife those memories are what you want and cherish most …

[@beyamvwj4881]

Reminds me of 50shades… CG was a millllllionaire and came home for love love 😂😂

[@leejmuam1]

Everyone in these stories so rich but no specific business. Business people not scare to tell their business. I'm thinking these people do Dr*g 😆😆😆 your husband probably a Dr*g dealer and live a double life😆

[@GV-xv8im]

No, they’re not obligated to tell bc most Hmong ppl are jealous when they see Hmong ppl in a higher tax bracket that ain’t from the illegal industry.

[@hmoobkatemiddleton-not3711]

True, but I wouldn’t invalidate it just bc you know rampant drug dealers. I know some Hmong ppl that are definitely up there in the higher tax bracket due to longterm investments that made them big or by working with Fortune 500 companies. They’d rather not socialize with a lot of Hmong ppl and prefer to keep their Hmong circle small. It’s just the dealers tend to be the loudest bc they’re gaudy.

[@soukha2232]

Oh! That is a smart man?He buys you a gift or jewelry when he knew you will be mad. Just like parents treat their little kids when they got mad.

[@hmongfixnas2255]

Tab sis tshuav ib yamv ua koj tus txiv tsis tau paub tab vim tias ib tug poj lo daw cev mas tus poj niam xav nyob rau tus txiv lub xub ntiag tsaj thiaj yuav ua rau tus niam txoj sias loj me ntsi

[@maileeyang1905]

Seems like u have to much tm to do nothing. U should of made friends with his families and keep yourself busy by going to the gum or join a housewife club and meet other people (friends) you should of srart a business with the $ he gave you. I believe if you ask him for more he would transfer it to you. Also you should of put $ away for raining day and pawn the stuff, and tell him u lost it. Girllll....idk what u were thinking.... Remember, u can't have ur cake and eat it to. Rick people are not rich by working a 9-5 job.

[@MyConfessions]

What a sad little man. He thinks he's the best person with money but really in his soul, he's actually a really sad sad man. I'm glad you found someone who really do love you. Without love, money is worth nothing.

[@missysmart8620]

I think this guy is taking way over the top about not being able to be at the birth of his first child 🤦🏻‍♀️. I’m sure most rich people don’t do this. Uas neej muaj txiv los cuag li tsis muaj txiv li thiab tiag. Tus siab kawg.

[@4BFL11]

Women never know wat they want

[@livebythesunlovebythemoon2318]

Can’t have it all with that mindset. Choose comfort or happiness. Otherwise, take on a new perspective and you can easily have both.

[@leek-te5dx]

One necklace for you one for her. AWAY on poonanee trips hmmmmm

[@suabcuayaj877]

haha..my thoughts exactly...! she got played.

[@pangyang7551]

How come you never go on any of his “meetings” with him? He’s probably not going to meetings, he probably has a second life. 😳

[@Xavtauntsejmuagcedagtxhuayam]

Neb tsis nplua nuj koj Tus Txiv muaj xwb sav Vim koj Twb Tsis Tau tuav Nws pob Nyiaj Loj li koj hais hahahahhahahha

[@ky7518]

Ruam tsab ntse pluag tsab muaj ces coj li na ntag. 😂

[@begood2urslf884]

It’s like I’m listening to my own story. At least 90%😔

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

Sounds like she didn’t know or date him prior to marrying him. Sounds like she married him after a month of meeting, to not know his habits, mindset, and how he sees her.

[@ellarosexiong586]

We will never win sister. There’s some that are not rich but still cheat on you. At least yours has money to buy your love

[@tonyvang5258]

People will never happy ..its call greed for love or greed for money ..u have love but complain about money issue..have money complain about love...😅