Tau Poj Niam Xyob Txhiaj Thiaj Ua Neej Poob Qab~08/08/2023~

Hmong Drama Story: She had a terrible spending habit that broke her husband's bank.

[@nouyang3166]

This is the reason why I don't carried a LV handbags bc I rather have 1k in my purse vs zero. Can't believe you are still with her. Peb ua neej nyob tsuas yog ua neej sib tws xwb hos. Siv zog khaws nyiaj ces thaum kawg twb yuav luag tsis tau tsev nyob

[@sijhawmtsitochannel1659]

Nyuaj kawg lub neej ib tug ntxhuag nyiaj ib tug tsi ntxhuag mas tsi pom qab yuav hai

[@kwvtxhiajkhosiab]

Zoo kawg os🎉

[@PH-ThailanD]

koj tij laug haig yog kawg koj tij laug thiaj ua taug txiv

[@panglee7957]

Good story life lesson. We can spend but know what your spending on. Money goes never come back.

[@lalalahmong8350]

Ab ya koj tus poj niam zoo kiag li kuv niag txiv thiab os lwj siab tshaj plaws li yus tau 1niag txij nkawm zoo li ko ces tsis nrog luag muaj li os yus khwv2 tuag kiag los yeej muaj tsis taus li os

[@Lotus-og6if]

You need to stop saying that your brothers do not understand your situation. Buying expensive purses is not a life or death situation. Why is it fair for the two of them to cough up your share while your wife enjoys expensive purses? You need to know your duty and quit making excuses. You allow it to happen. Why not sell her expensive clothes and purses? If you’re that desperate for money for your mom’s funeral? The reason why you’re still with her is because you obviously shared in her habit as well. Don’t make anymore excuses for your dad’s service. You are to blame as well!

[@meemeezong1827]

$10K is too much to borrow/lend someone. Especially if you know they don’t have the means to repay back.

[@chang3568]

Brother, it's never too late to start over. You're already doing everything by yourself, you don't need her. Let her go.

[@leejmuam1]

Omg tu siab to your brothers is not even right. Your parents loved and helped you the most but you didn't know how to save and now you're asking your siblings to let you get away. No WAY.

[@whatheck6797]

IKR! Who the heck he think he is?!!! Lol You ain’t getting away without doing your part by chipping in. There’s bank for you to get a loan if anything. 😅

[@mhaiyaaj]

Irresponsible people who don’t prepare for emergencies will always say “got no money “. A couple who both are working and have less than $5k? Where do they work? Part time at Mcdonalds?

[@autumnlossij-muas1490]

Lub ntuj faib tib neeg lub neej tsis ncaj ncees li os. Dhuav kawg li. Yus nyob yus zoo tshaj lawm xwb.

[@joshualee2133]

That’s why when you are dating someone make sure you know that person well before you tie the knot. Don’t just go for the look.

[@PM-oe5mk]

Completely agree, for both men and women. If a person rushed into marriage with someone based mainly on looks, then they have no one (or fate) to blame for their sucky life due to their poor decision making.

[@paher7300]

Saving money is hard. I hope one day Hmong funerals will change. It should be less than a wedding... why spend more for the dead and the living suffer.😔

[@aiytk4096]

😊

[@ZLorchannel1484]

Lub ntiaj teb nov tsis ncaj ncees li os tus txiv neej zoo rau siab khwv ces yuav ncaj cov pog xyob txhiaj cov niam tsev zoo rau siab khwv ces tau txiv xyob txhiaj xwb xyov lub ntiaj teb nov ua li cas lawm tiag! 😢

[@dolliilov3144]

Why buy expensive purses and clothes when you can have that money in the bank? I bargain shop and can still pull the expensive looks and get the compliments. Its never too late to start saving up again and get to your goals.

[@kaoxiong6148]

It’s time to make a change if you have a partner like that…😩!

[@user-rh2cj4xi7z]

Koj Zaj neej neeg ko ces yog kiag kuv zaj thiab os.

[@misslovelyynnt]

Brother you are SO CORRECT! if a couple is poor, one of the person is a huge spender

[@christinabthao8825]

Sim neej no cas lub ntuj nim tso ib phem rau ib tug zoo os cas nyias nim muaj ntias ib tug niag xyob txiaj zoo li no os ntuj aw

[@cua1879]

Brother you are partially to blame too. When your brother wanted to talk/lecture her, you tried to protect her. You enabled her to live that xyob txhiaj lifestyle.

[@hmongremark2686]

Sawv daws yog tub yug thiab niam txiv tsa sawv daws yim tas lawm ces thaum niam txiv tau nruam sim, cob tub yuav tsum tuaj equally nta nkawv lub ntees. Nws tsis muaj lub hau kev twg rau ib tug tub twg muaj cuab yig tas lawm khiav kom dim txoj kev nta niam los yog txiv lub ntees ib zaug.

[@paoyang2836]

Kuv lub neej ces raws nraim li zaj no kuv mas tu siab kawg o kab lias aw, ces ziag no nyias cia nyias li nyiaj tu siab kawg lam.nyob ua neej mus xwb txog li cas ces yuav li

[@korxiong2440]

Txhob maj tag kev cia siab mog tus tij laug aw ntawm kuv zos no muaj ib khub muaj ntsis mus raws li no thiab kuv kuj nrog nkawv tu siab kawg os nco ntsoov hlub yus tus kheej mog

[@Ibvuag912]

Lolll...ib cov txiv newj yeej phim cov pojniam zoo li no xwb.

[@maivlee82]

Your brothers are right. Just because you can't control your wife doesn't mean you should be exempt from helping with your Mom's funeral. She did pay alot for your wife.

[@xiongvue4229]

Kuv xav mas Tim koj xwb koj khuv xim nws thiab hlub nws dhau lawm xwb o.

[@beevang7967]

Tsis hais pojniam txiv yog nws yog cov neeg siv nyiaj loj npaum no ces yog nrauj tau kavtsij nrauj mog. Txhob cia zoo li kuv nawd. Kuv tus txiv ces zoo li tus pojniam no ntag. Siv nyiaj loj2 noj Los noj loj.....kuv es xav tuag lawm xwb os hmoob.

[@95leefamilychannel33]

Don’t be mad at your brothers! It is the right thing they did that to you. You could not discipline your wife so let your brother teach her a lesson. You’re not a real man. She’s simply self center & only think of herself. She deserves to be lectured!

[@aongvarngaongvarng1760]

Peb ce khw nyiaj yuav tsheb ua tsev rau peb tus txiv thb me nyuam xb as

[@nragxyoojchannel7265]

😂tsi yog tsi hlub os yog tim koj pojniam xwb cov pojniam zoo li kos ces yeej tsi muaj nyiaj txau li txhua kawg twb tsi tau

[@juliesiong1351]

Koj 2 tug kwv tij tsis txhaum nawb Tim koj thiab koj tus poj niam xwb qhov ib ces yog koj tus poj niam ib leeg nkaus xwb os nawb

[@yayulyn4016]

Thaub Aws pojniam tsis yog tag rau tus ko lawm xwb os. Zoo li koj hais tiag koj tsis need nws los koj yeej khwv txaus rau koj thiab them nqi lawm. Tus pojniam zoo li koj tus muaj thiab tsis muaj los yeej tsis tsav koj qhov twg.

[@nkaujyajyoua9253]

Men needs to love themselves too. Leave her before she leaves you for someone more wealthy. Or else you will be miserable with her forever.

[@thomher2955]

Tus txiv tsev, Txawm neb cai nyiaj cai txiaj los kuj yog ib qho zoo tabsi koj muab neb cov nuj nqi (all your monthly bills: mortgage, car insurance, foods, electricity, water, garbage, and others) muab sib faib ib leeg thim ib qho. Poj niam siv nyiaj loj tes muab nws them qho tsawg xwb. Thaum muaj nuj nqi them lawm, nws thiaj paub khaws nyiaj: siv ib txhua los tseg ib txhia. Tsi tag li ntawd, nws thiaj paub thia khwv nyiaj nyuab npaum ca, nyiaj txiag muaj nuj nqi li ca.

[@debbieyaj4642]

Ua cas es ua ib yim neej no es twb tsis muaj nto $10,000 mas lam dag xwb paub. Nyiaj txiag yuav tsum siv thiab yuav tsum tau tseg cia thiab ho. Cov neeg es pluag tsab muaj ntshe yog koj pojniam ho. Cov neeg coj li koj poj niam ces nrog lub teb lub chaw muaj tsis tau nyiaj li os. Tsis yog khav theeb tsua yog hais qhov tseeb xwb. Yog koj muab nws tso mus es mus yuav lwm tus pojniam txawj txuag nyiaj ho txhob tsab tsab muaj ev purse kim kim li nws meb koj lub neej nce qib mus lawm deb ho.

[@borxg]

Just divorce her. Don’t be afraid to start over.

[@denali12023]

Very good

[@MXhX88]

Im not materlistic, still broke.

[@christinabthao8825]

Ab...cas tseem hais li ko thiab lau..kuv ma dim plaws txoj kev nyuab siab ntshai rwg tsam account negative ntawv lawm ma kaj siab lug ho yus saib yus tus lej ncev zuj zus ma tsis nco txhawj li lawm os...

[@MV-ct6nj]

Tsis muaj ibvtug neeg es yuav liam npaum no pob???? 🤔 there’s morw to this story!!

[@ellysavaj5656]

Sad that there are people like this. I wouldn’t believe it if I don’t know some personally.

[@pebstories]

That is so sad! I see this in so many relationships. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@MsPangY]

Feeling Sad For The Husband! & How His Brothers Didn’t Help! What Is Brothers For?! It’s Not Like He’s A Gambler?! 😢

[@mhaiyaaj]

Irresponsible people who don’t prepare for emergencies will always say “got no money “. A couple who both are working and have less than $5k? Where do they work? Part time at Mcdonalds?

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

Twb nyiam nyiam nws ua zoo nkauj ces nws kuj nchuav nyiaj mus ua kom zoo rau koj xwb mas thaub. Tsis xyob txhiaj li os. Yog koj zoo zoo es nws xyob txhiaj tiag ces koj nim yuav khaws nws puag thaum pib los txog tam sim no na😅

[@pkcyang2910]

Oh my goodness, coj koj pojniam mus rau nws niam nws txiv lawv hais mas. Ib tug pojniam zoo li nonnws tsis hlub koj li os. Tus neeg hlub yus nws tsis siv nyiaj ywj siab cuag ib tug neeg nplua nuj li ntawv. Peb cov pojniam yeej ntshaw daim zoo tabsis tej purse kim2 peb tsis lam yuav. Yus them nqis tag mam siv ib txhia, tseg ib txhia for emergency thiab. Yus twb tsis paub tias tsam tagkis yus tau kev tsaus ntuj yuav need nyiaj, tsheb puas yuav need nyias mus kho tsheb. Tsis muaj kiag los yuav tsum muajbat least 6 lub hlis ntawm yus cov nqis. Coj mus rau neej tsa ntuas, tsis hloov ces nyias nyob nyias xwb tiag.

[@Llis3322]

Sell the purses. duh!! 😂😂😂 the brothers probably knows their mom GAVE this guy money to "save" for the mom... so that's why they pressure so much that he cough up money for her funeral (but I'm sure He left that part out)

[@paoyang2836]

Tu siab kawg o kab lias aw, kuv ces nyias muaj nyias account

[@colleenchan9872]

Txhob tu siab zoo kawg ua li ko thiaj tsis mob hlwb nuj nqis faib ob leeg pay.. kuv tus husband wb ua li no thaum yuav siv tej yam loj ob leeg mas los sib tham koj kuv tuaj li cas xwb.. wb lib neej kuj tsis muaj problem thiab

[@chiamoua7084]

Cov neeg tuaj nyob tim no yog zoo li neb ib niam txiv ko xwb ces rov lawm tim nplog xwb mas yog tim koj tus ua txiv xwb vim koj tsis coj zoo ne hahaha tus txiv los txoj hmoo phem thiaj tau poj niam phem li ntawv vim koj tsim nws tiam tag lawm koj tshua nws nqi

[@pavang2466]

Your brother’s is right, everyone are pinching equals, she gave birth to everyone’s…. It’s your fault that’s your wife become like that, koj Ua Tsis tau txiv….luag hais tias txus muaj txus ntxeem, txus pluag txus kheem, ruam Tsab ntse, pluag Tsab muaj ces yog cov zoo li koj poj niam….

[@ouradventuresnspecialmoments]

Some women are like this because their husbands allow them to be this way from the beginning! It's never too late to start over...life is too short!

[@chaher3513]

Do not feel sad. You are not only one who has a poj niam xyob txhiaj. I had the same wife. I believe my wife and your wife were born from the same parents. My wife is the same as yours.

[@whatheck6797]

😂

[@shawnlee420]

Thaum koj qhia koj lub siab muag rau koj pojniam paub lawm ces nws yuav siv nws lub pim los tswj koj. Koj puas nco qhov nws hawv tias kom txhob ua niam txiv lawm yog hais tias tseem cais nyiaj? Hos koj puas nco qhov koj hawv tias yog nws tsis hloov nws tus cwj pwm ces kom nws npaj sau nra tawm es nws ua nws lub ntsej muag ntshaus ntsho? Koj pojniam ua li nws los vim yog tim koj uas tsis taus txiv thaum pib lawm. Koj tij laug kom koj coj nws mus rau koj tij laug ntuas nws los koj tseem ntshai tsam koj pojniam ua heev hlo rau koj tij laug. Koj tseem ntshai tsam nws nrauj koj. Tej no qhia tau tias koj muab nyiam koj pojniam dhau lawm. Nws yeej paub li ntawd es nws thiaj li siv nws lub pim los tswj koj txhua yam. Koj tsis ua li nws hais ces nws yuav tsis nrhab ceg rau koj. vim li ntawd koj thiaj li pluag kaub huam li koj ko.

[@mhaiyaaj]

Tsi yog xaam khib. It’s your responsibility to help your siblings with the funeral. You need to dump your wife. You and your wife have less than $5k in the bank when both of you are working? It’s 70% her fault and 30% your fault.

[@mainenglee-xiong3344]

How frustrating. I would have divorced her after the first month. She’ll never change. It’s her personality. Why have so many children to suffer her laziness? Man up and get a real wife!

[@phem55]

I know your pain…when you have a lazy wife it is very difficult to get your life to be like your friends, my sister in-law just like your wife.

[@diannaxiong693]

Hi muab ntshaws thoob khib nyaub xwb los mas...pib xoom mus yuav zoo dua nrog cov kws pluag tsab muaj nyob.

[@yl7495]

Aib thaub no ua tsis tau txiv nws yeej tsis muaj peevxwm muab pog ntsaws khib nyiab li os

[@pasaiy.8578]

Why do some women think husband's are supposed to make money for them to spend? Do they not see other women working? Tell her she is stupid.

[@bchang227]

The problem here is that she thinks there's an endless pit of money. Ppl like her, no matter if you're a billionaire, she will suck you dry then move on to her next victim. It's not how much you make, it's HOW you manage your money. If you can't manage your money, your money will manage you, and you'll fall into debt.

[@changthao6377]

My wife was similar, i divorced her ass after 3 years of ua siab ntev. Now my life is 100x better.

[@PM-oe5mk]

Dude, if your wife doesn't want to help you succeed in your marriage & life, then she doesn't truly love you. She's selfish and acts like a spoiled brat. She needs to grow up and become responsible! My husband is so happy I'm not materialistic. We have plenty of $, but I usually turn down expensive gifts and purchases because I would rather invest that money so we can retire early in our mid-50s.

[@pajrosedawb8047]

You choose her and you choose to stay knowing how she is so why complain?

[@houaxiong9996]

You know she was this way and yet you still allow her to have 5 kids? Vwm pob! You are to blame for your own misery.

[@saykaomee]

If she's financially irresponsible, why did you allow her to be in charge of your household expenses? It is your fault because you enabled her to continue putting your family in financial ruins.

[@nkaujmogmim125]

Tu pojniam xob txhiaj ce recycled ♻️. Yuav lo g zoo d g yog g pauv.

[@Shoua608]

Your wife is not worth keeping. Your children will grow up and leave home. Don’t blame your brothers for being jealous of your parents’ loving you more. It’s only fair you pay your share of your parents’ funeral expense regardless if you have money or not. It’s your problem, not your brothers’ fault that your wife spends recklessly. She has no common sense.

[@sandyvangyang110]

I'm so sorry to hear about your non transparent relationship, but I want you to know that you don't deserve this. You deserve someone who cares about you, emotionally, financially, etc etc. The day you die, she won't be at fault; it'll be yours because you didn't love yourself enough. God BLess!

[@CloverStarz]

This is like 90% women nowadays bro should had stop with 2 kids Seriously made my blood boil. These woman are narcissist not in the right mind.

[@meemeeh33]

It's not your brothers fault you and your wife have no money for your mother's funeral. You lucky they split it evenly because if they wanted to, they could've told you to do it all. The problem is your wife and you know that but you can't let her go so just put up with it.

[@nkaujmogmim125]

U should have recycled her from the beginning. U know she like that n lazy why u still let her take over 💰.

[@evabhmongocadventure9831]

This is the wrong title. It should be called the LAZY WIFE not the unfortunate wife

[@pakue9869]

Boring story kawg tub nkees xwb.

[@myprecious6751]

OMFG, brother, you're not that stupid. You should've canceled her out a long time ago. Especially after the 1st kid was born. Divorce her.

[@northshorelight35]

I wouldn’t lend money to you. You choose to stay married to her and have a lot of children. Should’ve let her go or at least not have 5 kids with her. I don’t have respect for soft men. There are so many good women out there who are also physically attractive but you act like she is the only p around.

[@tiayang9572]

I wish I had someone teach my older brother in laws like this guys brother did, to his wife. Smh it's worse when the younger siblings have to pull the most weight when a parent passes. But I'm glad we are out of our hardship and now own a house and land. I guess you can put it to the parents blessing for the children that do the most for them when they are alive and/or passed on. 😔

[@kuvxwb9466]

Koj ruam dhau. You should have divided all the bills. She is upset about not having her name in your account then she needs to pay bills. You should have divorced her lazy butt.

[@vajtsabxeemlis5778]

kwvtij koj tus pojniam ko mas vim nws uali ko rau koj los koj g tsoob/aim nws qhovquav na, xa nws qhovqua kom nws qua silaim ces nws g txiaj lawm los ma yog koj g paub no cia rau kuv sim seb...