Xa Rov Qab Vim Siv Freedom Los Tsuj Tus Txiv~06/26/2024~

[@shuachangyang1699]

Zoo kawg nkaus!

[@MsPangY]

That’s how it is being a stay at home and the one working (CONCEITED man or women) always comes home and judge, complain and argue with you for no reason when they don’t realize your so busy with these kids 😢😮❤

[@coldfeet3849]

Im glad he was strong enough to let her go. You are worth more than that and im surprise you realized that!! Alot of people dont and arent strong enough to leave or simply dont want to

[@PM-oe5mk]

Those Hmong women who keep using freedom as their excuse to put down their husbands are nothing but behaving badly. Having freedom doesn't give you the excuse to abuse people with it! There is no excuse for bad behaviors! The same goes for those husbands who disrespect/abuse their wives. In a marriage, if there is no respect for one another, the marriage will be miserable and ultimately fail! If you want harmony and happiness in your marriage, you must not only love one another but you must respect each other, regardless of earning power. Money should NEVER be used as a tool to put down your spouse because this WILL cause resentment! IMO, money is nothing more than a means to a comfortable life for those of us who are just ordinary folks; only mega-millionaires/billionaires can use money as a tool of power since they deal in the tens of millions of dollars!

[@autumnlossij-muas1490]

A smart and intelligent person would not behave in this manner. Be humble bc we don't know ehat is to come tomorrow.

[@kermoua6883]

Now how men feel when we as wife, mother, and also working full time and still have to cook clean pay bills etc. stay home dad 😅😅 enjoy your baby sitting cooks clean etc

[@visaylee5651]

I like that kind of lady. Freedom and forget Hmong Tej Deev Npua Cai. This is America.

[@shathao24]

Divorcing for the best. She's a strong, and independent, yet unable to control her ego, let her go to someone who suits her. Despite money, both man and woman should still have respect for each others.

[@faithf1689]

Now you know how stay at home moms feels!

[@ntxoovxwmvaj9773]

Women who used authority in the family goes nowhere but down the drain.

[@jackieyunan4899]

Cov poj niam hmoob es kawm ntawv siab siab ces yeej siab phem li no ntag nawb lawv aw...

[@pataoher4788]

Yog mas tus nyob tsev zov me mas sab thiab khwv heev li os os

[@Mloogzoo]

She may be educated, but I guess she didn't take Freedom 101. It states that Freedom is not free.

[@AmyYang-wh1me]

Some people become obnoxious and domineering when they start making money. We see this over and over again. One thing I want to mention is that as a woman speaking, some women who claims “equality” doesn’t even know what it mean. Go do some digging before you think making more money than your husband mean you don’t need him anymore. Moral of the story: don’t let money ruin your life. If you do, you were a shallow person to begin with. This goes for men and women.

[@katrinashong8171]

It’s RESPECT. If you don’t respect each other, the relationship is dead. I make more than my husband and we love each & respect each other. Your wife has her own agenda & no respect for you. Money & status is her love.

[@NtximHlub-yc4vu]

Women always treated their spouses this way if you are not making as much as she is making!!!

[@zoolikuv]

Too much pride on both ends.

[@wisteria4550]

Ua neeg nyob mas feem coob cov neeg kawm ntawv siab me ntsis mas lawv siv lawv lub hwj chim los caij tsuj yus tuag ntig.

[@MS_Only]

People who have never been a stay at home parent will never understand how hard it is to be home with their children 24/7. People think it's easy, and you have a lot of "free time," but what they don't know is that you become every profession with NO PAY and NO BREAKS!!! Been there and done that... even worked from home while watching the children, too! I'd rather go to work than be a stay at home parent! Your wife is just greedy and controlling. She's insecure. If she wanted to leave the kids at daycare instead of having your parents watch them (because they want to), she should pay for daycare since she makes "more money"!

[@Bossman-qaib]

The difference between men and women when they’re making money is guys think about how can they take care of their family and women think they’re independent and don’t need a man.

[@nragxyoojchannel7265]

😢txiv neej mas tiag mas yuav tsum yuav tus pojniam hlub yus tsi yog yuav mus nrhiav tus kom tau nyiaj ntau thiab ntse tshaj yus xwb ces zoo li no ntag tus pojniam siab zoo xwb

[@kuvxwb9466]

Hoyo Hoyo peb cov poj niam los twb xav tau ib tug txiv los hlub peb thiab hlub peb niam peb txiv. Some educated men and women put their ego too high. Y’all need to learn how to respect one another. Being a stay at home parent is a tough job. There’s no break.

[@nkaujnub5372]

Yog lawm tug nyob mas yeej khwv tshaaj kuas yeej tsw muaj nqes le kuv yeem ua hauj lwm zoo dlua

[@tonglee5602]

Yog kawg poj niam phem muab tso tseg kiag li kos

[@minecraftboy2676]

Yep that is how us women feel when we women stay home and take care of the kids and do much more too beside just you men keep thinking that just staying, just staying home doing nothing. Your life is like my brother's life right now. Just divorce the B!!!!

[@tongkafamilyuasi2223]

Tus me txiv tsev Aws koj paub zoo lawm taij kiag lawm os yom txoj me kev yus tub Tsis tshe txhaus los niam npav mus yuav Tus ntshe tshe khwv nyiaj ntau dhau yus yog ntshe txhaus lawm koj mas mus yuav os tshe thaum koj hluas koj yuav tib cov ruam Tsis kawm siab kawg pob tabsi niam no koj xav txog lig ces kuj lam yuav Tus ib yam yus xwb mas .😂😂😂😂😂 kawm tiav. Lawm ces zoo kawg.

[@appreciatepurview]

Too many fishes in the sea to think she's the only one.

[@CloverStarz]

This is your typical hmoob girls in this new age. The Western culture sure changed how they act. Hmong men have really changed how they treat their women in a good way, though, but hmoob women nowadays reverse and mistreat. Just because time has changed, it doesn't mean the old ways are erased. We should carry both old and new and only use whatever is good to better equal both sides, let's say if suddenly things went back to the old age do you think a woman can lead and do what a men does, I say likely not. Your degree doesn't make you wise, nor better it just helps you get a job with higher income.

[@nagxyoojchannel9160]

Pojniam txiv neej los siab phem li ko ces yus yeej uv tsis taus, yus nyob tsev zov mi nyuam yus tseem khwv tshaj. Los lawv saib tsis taus yus tso mus zoo dua

[@ntuyug4913]

Pab tsis tau txiv hmoob zoo li no.

[@neversurrender9070]

This lady was cocky as “F”. Thaub aw! Koj ces tuag lau, tau tej tus poj niam siab dev li ko na. Koj ces tsis txim txiaj dabtsi li os. Vim koj ua tsis tau dabtsi li.

[@paxiong5725]

Sib xa xwb mas neb na

[@yingvang1276]

Your wife has it all wrong. It is not for a wife to lead in the marriage, it is for her to support her husband, that is her role in leading. But I agree with your wife on the giving money away part. I rather give to the homeless than relatives.

[@molly24777]

First making under $250K per year is just comfortable living, it’s not a lot depending on where you live. She is on a power trip and sounds extremely vain. My SIL makes about $500K per year and my brother is a stay at home father. Lucky for him, my SIL is humble and participate in most of the Hmong nyab duties.

[@kuvxwb9466]

Hoyo Hoyo peb cov poj niam los twb xav tau ib tug txiv los hlub peb thiab hlub peb niam peb txiv. Some educated men and women put their ego too high. Y’all need to learn how to respect one another.

[@Cheenoux]

I can relate. Us men also face abuse in relationships.

[@kueyang6346]

Jack sparrow

[@suchilee7257]

When the table has turned. Lol

[@thestoryofmylife6979]

The table has turned.😅😂😂😂😂😂. She ain’t wrong though.

[@nancymoua4982]

she is smart making money but not smart enough to manage her household. Plus mekas yeej ntxub cov poj niam ua2 niam li koj tus poj niam ko thiab os. Tabsi thaum nws tau mekas lawm nws yeej siv tsi tau lus freedom rau daj haus li os. nws hais tau rau koj xwb nawb. thiab cov poj me kas uas sij mus tom bar ntawv ces twb yog ua2 niam siv freedom lo tswj tus txiv es thiaj ua poj nrauj. mes kas feem coob ua poj nrauj ces yog coj tus cwj pwm zoo li koj tus poj niam tsi paub hwm tus txiv xwb os.

[@blueberrysmilie1]

This is not about “freedom”. This person doesn’t know “respect” in a marriage. “Ego” is something Hmong people don’t acknowledge, recognize and struggle with. Beware the ego, man or women.

[@maixiong-mu5cm]

What exactly is her job? Must b making over 10k per month. Too mean, too bossy, too much freedom that's why.

[@userhlubyuamkev]

Pojniam siab phem lim hiam

[@jarvaniv4328]

I hope you got about 50% of her income and her 401k since she makes more than you. If not, you lost out real hard. Get a lawyer and split combined finances 50/50 including house.

[@msmaix808]

My bf like this type of woman. He said if his future wife is educated and makes a lot of money, she can talk down on him. He will suck it up and tolerate all the bs. I hope he meet this type of woman because thats his wish.

[@meexiong7772]

I want to hear your wife’s side of the story. There are two sides to every story.

[@DejNtab]

3 txhua xeem Hmoob lub neej txhua tiam neej uas PHEEJ YUAV KOM tus vauv them nqe pim nrog nws 2 lub mis nruj nreem zoo zuaj ywj siab thiab NPLUA.. Thaum kawg: Tus ntxhais tseem muaj plhus thiab saib tsis taus tus vauv...Sib nrauj txawm txhaum thiab tsis txhais los TSEEM muab nyiaj XA ROV qab.. PE...PE... thiab THEM NQE QAU mas TUB QAUG VAUV Hmoob TSHAJ PLAWS! KAV TSIJ UA KOM NWS FOS NTAIS...MUAJ THOV TXIM thiab THIM LUS los: "Ua ROOB TAUS THEEV TSIS HLE" xwb TIAG: Phooj ywg!

[@davidv41680]

Stay at home parent is easy. Youre just lazy. For all the people that says its hard its not. You deserve for her to talk crap to you about being lazy. You have washer, dryer, stove running water. Life is easy in America. Yes you are lazy She is wrong in her other behavior and treatment of you though.

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

Muab mloog los koj yeej ntxim npwb tsawv thiab. Npwb tiam sis xav tau qhov haib na has…😂 If you would be the one to make more dollars than her, pretty sure you would roll her over even more.

[@slxxxx3]

Lol she is taking “freedom” to the next level. Sorry but lady, the way how u act behave, go be a single mother. Your husband clearly stated about equally 50/50. He never mentioned about him trying to top you but you are the one trying to be the top dawg in the relationship and verbally abusing him. A couple is suppose to be a TEAM.

[@maiyang3659]

Me nus koj los yeej ua txiv dlhau thiab mas. Nws yog kev ib leeg tsis txawj hais ib leeg xwb. Koj los yeej tsis txawj hais, nws thiaj li tsis mloog koj hais, tim ob leeg nawb

[@james8899able]

Rough but at the end you’re the MAN.

[@pangxiong2273]

Tsi tim koj tus ex os. Koj nrhiav tus zoo nkauj, kawm ntawv siab thiab ua haujlwm tau nyiaj ntau. Koj twb tau kiag tus ntawd ne. Koj twb tsis nrhiav tus phim koj ne. Yog koj nrhiav tus zoo nkaus li koj ces no problem. Peb ib cov txivneej mad mus tsom cov yus tsis phim es yus mam ua dev leg xwb. Ua neej nyob, nrhiav tus hlub yus thiab yus hlub nws es thiaj ua neej Kajsiab. Lwm yam ces yog secondary lawm xwb

[@alenalor1432]

YES brother, you don,t need to stay home for baby sitter too long. Because you need benefit or retirement after 60 year old. Even your lady works and earns double/triple wage than you. Don’t care about her. You need at least $500,000.00 on hand before you file retirement other than pension benefit and social security benefits.

[@TouVang-h3i]

Cov poj niam zoo li no mas dhua tiag2 yog leej twg tsis paub thiab tsis rau yus txais khau mas tsis paub. Ntxov siab tiag2 cov phooj ywg.

[@huashi06]

Never be scared if you’re the one making less. Only be scared if your the one making more especially when there are kids involved.

[@kenl1260]

... let her go so she can get line up

[@yengvue4849]

Qhia rau nej cov pojniam hmoob tsab ntse paub tias nej tsis txhob xav tias nej mus ua hauj lwm tau nyiaj ntau2 es nej yuav los tsuj peb kom peb nyoo nej no nawb. Nco qab ntsoov tias yog nej tuaj yuav peb tuaj pe tuaj seem nej niam nej txiv los ua neej ua tsav los yog nej tuaj yuav tua zeem peb niam peb txiv mas qhia kiag rau nej cov pojniam paub tias txawm yuav yog nej mus khwv ib hnub tau kiag ib lab los tsis quav ntsej nej ib zaug kiag peb tsuas ntshaw tus pojniam fwm peb xwb kom nej nkag siab li ntawd tus pojniam twg yog tsav fwjchim li ko ces nws yuav tau mus ua poj nrauj ib hnub xwb2 txoj kev poj nrauj ces dai ncuv ntawm hauv npliaj xwbntag.

[@hlubyang4072]

22...23...years old she knows everything...she's not kid.

[@nvisionproduction3949]

Hmong guys need to change.

[@hmongremark2686]

Koj tus poj niam puas txawj hloov oil tsheb? No. Koj tus poj niam puas paub kho springler? No. Koj tus poj niam puas txawj kho neb lub sink puas lawm? No. Koj tus poj niam puas txawj kho neb lub tsev leaking? No. Yog li no tsim nyog koj nrauj nws lawm vim poj niam txhua tus leg tsis tau txiv neej tes dej num. Nws tsuas paub mus work thiab rov los tsev nkaus xwb.

[@james8899able]

Slaving away 9 to 5 and still arrogant. Shame shame shame…!!!

[@juliesiong1351]

Koj yaj no koj yuav tau hlub txog cov poj niam hmoob ua kuv xav ma yuav muaj li 70 % ntawm cov txiv neej hmoob caij tsuj li koj rau Kom ! Thov ua koj Tsaug ua koj muab hais ntawm rau sawv daws kawm!

[@mosvaj1385]

Hehe cov neeg lub neej tiam no ces muaj 1 co ces tsab2 ntse thiab lawv Xav tias lawv ntse2 es tsis nyoo tus txiv li lauv.👎

[@SouaChang-v5q]

Tus me txiv tsev aw!!! Yog koj tsis mus ua hauj lwm ces txog thaum retired ces koj yuav tsis muaj nyiaj noj ces koj tus poj niam haj yam tsis pom koj nyob rau ntawm nws txoj xov qhov muag os

[@sunnygirl973]

Koj twb ntshaw ntshaw ib tug poj niam txawj ntse ne. Thaum siv freedom ces hov tsis nyiam ces kawg mus yuav cov ruam ruam xwb las.

[@lindayaj1333]

Why is this an issue?? Hmong men have been treating hmong women like this for generations. So if yall don’t like it why don’t think it’s ok to do it to women?? Yall are getting a taste of your own medicine! 😂