Yus Txom Nyem Txhob Mus Nrog Pab Muaj~10/11/2024~

[@lnchannel1186]

I never befriend materialistic people!! And they must not be very rich if they spend like that. Rich people spend like they’re poor and poor people spend like they’re rich

[@PM-oe5mk]

Those "rich" ex-friends are NOT truly rich...I bet good money they mostly live off of credit cards! Truly rich people DON'T require expensive gifts from others because they are rich enough to buy themselves whatever they want! This woman sounded a bit desperate to be part of this pretentious group of "rich" friends...I actually felt a little sorry for her, but she's better off making real friends somewhere else, not with people who only care about others if those others can spend money on them---not the behavior of real friends!

[@tonglee5602]

Yog lawm ov yus txom nyem ces ua siab nawb

[@hlh9393]

Qaij dabtsis los yeej tau tag tiam sim thov peb cov hmoob clean peb cov barbecue. Tej lub niag barbecue dub / qia neeg cuag li khawv tau hav zoo los cim qaij mas lam no xwb lwm zaus kuv yeej tsis mus noj tim tus tibneeg khiv nyiab... Koj cov phoojywg hais ces yog lus kawg kaus. Peb nyob level twg peb yuav tau nrog cov tibneeg nyob li peb level ua kes thiaj li hais lus tsis mob leejtwg

[@maichavang6896]

That's the truth, luag ua zoo rau yus ces yus tshuav luag nqis xwb os, I'd rather not accept friends like this

[@colleenchan9872]

Hais ncaj hmoob ces 100 leej ces yog muaj nyiaj ces 10 tus thiaj txawj xav siab thiab zoo xwb os..90 tus ces yeej thuam thiab cem neeg heev xwb..cov neeg zoo li ko tsis nrog los tsis ua cas os nrog lawv ntau yus tseem yuav pluag os..cov neeg muaj muaj li lawv los txhob saib tsis taus neeg heev thiab ntuj npam npam kawg os😊

[@youchang7077]

Yog kawg nrog cov zoo li yus xwb thiaj tsi mob siab kuv tus kheej twb raug li koj thiab

[@pahouajohnnasack4713]

Too many wanna be fake rich Hmong people in America....smhh!!. True rich people are not show offs. True friends do not make u pay for trips and disrespect by laughing and returning gifts.

[@May-u1h2t]

Those are the poor people just recently have money in the USA. Only Hmong people are like that. I know many rich people besides Hmong they don’t act like that. Those a call fake friends. Don’t feel bad sister you made the right choice to leave them.

[@minamoua6546]

Nothing comes free

[@maryly09]

Let this be a lesson learned.

[@katexiong2732]

Don’t be cheap. If you can’t afford don’t be friends.

[@Iyla-d6v]

noj yam nqaij twg los txog nyias lub caij nyias yeej yuav tuag nyias mus

[@QueenSheer]

Hmoob os hmoob aw! Gosh, I've never witnessed or experienced this in my entire life. Can't believe people like this exist 🙄 or is it just Hmong people that act like this? I've never experienced my wealthy non hmong friends do this.

[@seexiong9985]

I rather save my money to treat my children and be friend with people not too cocky and put $$ first. Not worthing. Good friends are not judgmental. Only you still be friend with them. If it’s me, I’m already say bye bye when they criticize the meats.

[@MaiXoxo3]

I agree and sometimes it's also family members too including siblings. Hmoob ces cov muaj yeej saib tsis tau cov pluag. Best thing is to distance and not get involved so they can't look down on you. Be friends with people on the same level as you or people who respect you is the best way to go.

[@yourrrkool8825]

I’m so sorry you met some fake friends. I have some rich friends and they don’t ever require expensive gifts. They are loving and caring. They have everything for themselves and would never ask you for anything. I hope one day you will make sure real friendship.

[@Lovecookies01]

Friends come and goes... I will never stress to spend soo much for just a friend!!

[@Mayt398]

Muaj2 nyiaj Los siab phem2 ces Tsis muaj nqi abtsi os

[@wl336]

Friendship is about spending time together, being silly and laughing your heart out, not how much money you spend on each other, those are not true friends.

[@yepper1]

Thanks!

[@vanhthor1974]

Kuv yog koj ma kuv xa cov khoom lawv muab rau kuv rov qab rau lawv sister aw

[@tvang8]

Of course you don’t hang out with rich people. They should have already known not to invite you as well

[@lilythao1965]

so sad but so true....nwg nuav tes kuv nyob tug tug lawm xwb...yug txomnyem vim yug muaj ib paab mivnyuas coob coob tsis muaj nyaj nrug tuabneeg moog ua ub ua nua....kaavlam yug maamle nrug yug cov mivnyuas xwb lomzem tshaaj es txawm yug pluag los yog yug moov xwb....kuv tsi need leejtwg thuam kuv behind kuv back tas kuv txomnyem vim kuv yeej paub zoo tshaaj lawm.....kuv coj kuv cov mivnyuas moog MacDonald's hab Dollar Tree xwb los puab twb zoo 2 sab qw tsheej tsaug lawm....tsuav kuv cov mivnyuas ntsib kev noj qaab nyob zoo hab tseem muaj lub suab luag xwb tes kuv haj yam zoo sab tshaaj plawg lawm....ua Vaajtswv tsaug kuv tseem tau puab hab muaj puab lug nplig kuv lub sab xwb.....but I just wish kuv tug tub, their dad, tseem muaj txujsa nrug peb nyob :-( But life goes on.....

[@tongyang6314]

Yus txom nyem thov txhob mus nrog cov muaj nyiaj nawb yus nyob tsis taus lub lub las ces ib pliag yus txaj muag ntag ho.

[@elisely5353]

Hmoob tus cwj pwm yeej zoo li no os, lawv tsis muaj éducation tus muaj saib tsis taus tus ntxom nyem tsis paub sib pab li luag lwm haiv neeg es Hmoob thiaj tsis muaj tebchaws nyob Peb ua neeg nyob mas peb tsis paub tagkis nawb Txhob khav 2 theeb ov…

[@TheLynierose]

This is one of the e reason I can’t let ppls be over too good for me.. most ppls want pay back the same or more.

[@mntxy300]

Cov phooj ywg zoo li no kav tsij muab tso plig kom mus thawj thiab kiag

[@xeeyang5867]

Neb mass ntshe nyuajsiab dhau lawm laud, txawm yog kv los yeej nyuajsiab oss,

[@denali12023]

1st very good

[@suabqabzibva9181]

Kav liam os nraug hmoob tej zaum luag twb haus ntshav tes lawm es koj txawm Ua 9 neeb 10 tsawv lo thiaj tuav tsis tau nws cia os. Txhob tu siab ntshe Yus lo ib leeg thaum rov Yus Yov rov ib leeg Vim luag tsis yog Yus Tus khub es luag thiaj Muaj luag khub mog… Kuv lo hnub twg Kuv tig rov ces Kuv ib leeg thiab xwb os ntshe Kuv Yov mus yam kaj siab lug nplawm tes sis lawm thiab xwb os

[@nengxiong6991]

Yus txom nyem ces yuav tsum ua phooj ywg rau cov txom nyem los más leej twg kom neb pheej tsab muaj no !!! Hmoob yeej ib txwm coj thaj loj thaum muaj nyiaj ne !! Tab sis yog neb yuav ua kom phim pab no ntshe neb kawg txom nyem vim lawv muab lub hnub yug ua tej yam loj dhau !!!

[@kuab50]

Ua ca nej tseem mus Mexico mus Cruise xwb naj!! Hais tías zaum no ces peb cov mus dab teb no ntas hov. Tsi xob tu siab nyob lub tebchaws Melikas no ces txhua tus yeej muaj yeej tsi mus thov leej twg li os, cov neeg coj li no ces lawv xav tsa lawv kom lwm ntshaw thiab qhuas no xwb, tab sis paub li no ces khiav kom deb cov neeg nyiam khav theeb no xwb mas.

[@kellielee9829]

Lady, I would have packed all their gifts and return it to them. Show them you may be poor but you understand what a thoughtful gift is. Show them you don’t need their gift as well. People like those type of women you do not need them in your life. Friends like that you don’t need to be around. They obviously have ulterior motives for going all out.

[@pahouayang1063]

Ib txhia neeg mas taker xwb. Hnub koj tsis muaj rau lawv siv ces kev phoojywg tag.

[@xeeyang5867]

Vuag cas kv nrog tusiab oss, g hais leejtwg. Kj g nrog kv ua phoojywg esss,

[@Siriprapha-i4w]

Twb zoo qhov lawv tso neb lawm os yog tsis tso ces neb ciaj khaub lawm os

[@thorvang2899]

Yus txom nyem nrog cov muaj ce yuav tau ua neeg tsab muaj thiaj phim lawv lawv yuav khoom nplig txog $1000 rau yus hos yus yuav $100 tawm rau lawv xwb ce lawv yeej tsis nyiam tsis yuav yog luag yuav txog phav lawm mas yus tsis muaj los yuav tau yuav tej yam tus nqi tsawg npaum twg los txij phav rov los mas lawv thiaj zoo siab

[@KMH0078]

I know how you feel sister :( I once bought a beautiful throw for my sister in law and she told me that her dog would love it when she said that it hurt my feelings.

[@maichavang6896]

They must carry LV and Gucci and channel and u got them a Michael Kors or Coach which is low class for them , I wouldn't carry those either if I was carrying a LV already 😂😂

[@phouathao9741]

Phooj ywg es zoo li ntawv..xav kom yus yuav cov khoom kim2.. muab recycle xwb...best friend tsis coj li ntawv.. toxic.. Nyob ib leeg zoo duas mus nrog cov neeg pretend to live like a millionaire.

[@nangkue8371]

Out of our friends, my husband and I are better to do than our friends, but we have been friends with them for decades. Other than our home, cars, and vacation property, we don't care for high end things. If people see my friends and I, they'll never know I'm the one worth millions and my other friends live paycheck to paycheck. I have no more than 5 pairs of shoes, and the most expensive purse I owned is no more than $250. No need to leave behind such a large carbon footprint once we leave this world.

[@cheexiong1634]

Well if you can’t be at that rich level then you just need to separate yourself from that kind of group and for those that don’t appreciate your gift even if rich or poor then they don’t deserve you as there friends too… be around humble people

[@Ccphong1980]

This is why I only have 1 friend in my life. All I have is my sister and one best friend only. Your mistakes is trying to bland in with your rich ppl. You should have cut ties the min they don’t want to eat your food. Geese the cruise is enough gift already but still have to get presents too????? I guess I’m poor so idk that kind of life.

[@leejmuam1]

Stopped listening half way. You should only befriended with people on your level. You can't match the level of money spending behaviors. Cov pluag es mus ua phoojywg nrog cov muaj ces yeej tsis work. You know you don't have the money to spend like them, yet you want to take advantage of this friendship too.

[@MTlee-zr4oh]

Those people give but but they expect same in return….

[@xeeyang5867]

Vivncaus, lawv mas ntshe tsheej tog nuj nqis xwb oss, ntshe lawv charge lawv tej khoom xwb oss mog, dej najkhoom twb txawj nqig oss mog, txhob tusiab mog,

[@ndzaeumoua7006]

La roue tourne, le jour où elle est rouinait tes cadeaux le moin chère elle ne pourra jamais acheter, alors sois contente de tes cadeaux.😅

[@ibhnub3965]

True friends are found when you are in poverty. Fake friends are found when you have power and money.

[@chouxiong206]

Ho yo koj niag txiv neb nrog neeg yuam kev lawm pob cov neeg ko ces yog neeg pluag tsab muaj xwb os tej nyuag khoom plig sib pub xwb yuav tau qhov zoo li cas qhov kim thiab pheej yig los tsis matter li na kuv yog neb es txij hnub tuaj ntawm kuv tsev es tuaj thuam kuv cov nqaij tias yog nqaij seem xwb no ces kuv twb tu siab nrho tsis nrog pab neeg muaj2 $ ntawv li lawm los hos cas neb es tseem yuav ua dev leg nrog tsis paub tu siab li thiab yus yog cov neeg nyob qhaab twg ces yus nrog cov nyob li yus xwb tsis txhob xav tias yus mus nrog cov neeg ua thaj muaj2 es kom yus tau ntsej muag no tiam sis yog 1 qhov luag ua saib tsis taus yus

[@electricgenie966]

Those are not good friends. Stay away from them from the start .

[@judyvang9089]

Nqaij seem yog nqaij dabtsi naj? Kuv tsis tau hnov dua nqaij seem thiab os.

[@cerol1625]

It’s ok… most of those ppl leave off of credit cards 😅

[@huamyeejcimlis5336]

Just a FYI: Peb ua neeg nyob ces tus muaj ces yeej muaj muaj kawg. Ho tug pluag ces kuj pluag pluag kawg. Tiam sis mas FEEM NTAU yog cov ua muaj muaj nyiaj tab si ho yog cov niag neeg es qia qia dub. Yam no; yam hnav; yam haus los nws npav qhov pheej pheej yig. Yog mus vacation mus ua ke lawm ces yuav tsum peem kom dhau sawv daws thiaj nyob tau ua ke mus ntev. Yog yus xam hais tias yus khuv xim nyiaj ces txhob nrog lawv yuav zoo dua.

[@kayouexiong8360]

Those people are not friends. They’re materialistic, judgy, and rude. They did you a favor by showing you their true colors.

[@chorlee6835]

Muaj ib txhia neeg mas nws lam xav nrog cov neeg muaj nyiaj es kom tau txais khoom plig zoo zoo ntxawm lawv xwb, tabsi thaum txog lawv li birthday mas yuav khoom cheap cheap rau xwb don’t work like that when it’s your birthday they buy you a expensive purse 👜 two thousand and a coat five hundred and a really nice necklace for you, but when it’s their birthday you buy a purse cost only one hundred xwb it’s not going to work like that, yus yog neeg zoo li CAs ces yuav Tsum mus nrog cov neeg zoo li ntawd xwb txhob mus nrog cov muaj muaj vim yus tsis phim lawv nrog cov phim yus xwb.

[@diannaxiong693]

Aub...Luag yuav rau yus kim2 yus tabsis yuav cov pheej2 yig rau lawv ces kawg luag tsi nyiam yus los puas chawj os..

[@MissPeachie]

Truthfully, it was your fault why they cut you out. You enjoyed being spoiled by them but you went cheap on them when it was their turn. When you have friends like them, you have to keep up with them. Instead of being upset, you should have learned from them on how to be rich.

[@yajcaivplawv88]

😂😂😂I live on a beer budget and will never get close to a champagne appetite.😂😂😂

[@MalyLor-i4w]

Hmong ce ib txwm nyob saum rob tsi paub cai muaj zog xwb ce nw xav tia nw zoo npaum Biden lawm no ma Thiab ntsa fwj chim tab si cov con li ntawv ntuj tsi pub muaj ntev os Ib ntu ce tau pluag ma tseem tshaj yu lawm thiab vim nw lub siab phem siab tsi tau lwm tu neeg txom nyem

[@kaj956]

Tus viv ncaus koj yeej muaj kev txhaum vim luag yuav khoom kim kim rau koj tab sis koj mus yuav tej niag purse phedj yig li coach thiab Mk xwb ces txawm yog kuv los kuv yeej chim thiab

[@MsPangY]

I understand this feeling being with people who thinks they PRESIDENT of THE United States! Someone told me that when I go buy an ELEPHANT present for CHRISTMAS, it has to be EXPENSIVE over $50, why didn't she just say "EVERYBODY SHOULD AT LEAST BUY AT LEAST $50 BUT she turn to me and said that and it's the way h ow she said it like she's RICH living in a TOWN HOME only!! I stop being friends with anyone who think and want expensive things, we can't even do it for us and they expect too much but it's better not having friends and have a small CIRCLE is better with them FAKE RICH... I also gave a Mother's Day girl to a ex mother in law and she gave it back to me or put it in my bedroom.. NEVER AGAIN, would I give anything to anyone EVER again and now I SPOIL myself more than anyone and I don't regret it, PERIODT...

[@krisloveseat]

You don’t need ppls like that in your life!

[@pahouaxiong9444]

I think u r at fault, you only want to take but not give and y do u still to be friends with them?

[@visibopath1412]

Neb paub neb ciam teb ces neb txhob tham zoo li tusiab thiab vam ntsoov tias lawv yuav hu yus mas, thaum neb rov los tsev nws tsis kam yuav lub kab paub lawm mas nyob zoo zoo txhob tos ntsoov li kom lawv yuav hu yus li ov. Neeg muaj mas lawv tsis saib khoom muaj nqi li lawm nawb tseev meskas los ib yam ov luag cov million thiab billionaires na.

[@miabhlub63]

Yus yuav tsum paub tias yus nyob level twg. The poor and rich people can not be friends because of lifestyles.

[@hlubyang4072]

You got the wrong friend.

[@Hmooblubneej-y7j]

txawm leej tuwg yuav hais li cas los hais, peb tsis hais os. Koj tus txiv neb yog neeg ruam tsab ntse, neeg pluag tsab muaj. Tsis yog nyiaj xwb, yog yus ruam txhob mus ua phoojywg nrog cov ntse, yog yus pluag txhob ua phoojywg nrog cov muaj, yog yus tub nkeeg txhob ua phoojywg nrog cov khwv khwv, yog yus yog pojniam txhob ua phoojywg nrog txiv neej, yog yus low class txhob ua phoojywg nrog cov high class. Koj tus txiv yog cov khav theeb nrog cov high class ua phoojywg.

[@katrinashong8171]

Sister try to fake but didn’t turn out your way. Don’t get but hurt, you knew how they were but you wanted to be in with the ladies. You wonder why they didn’t call you after 3 months, you want to be in group with them. You wonder about them & keep tabs on them via FB.

[@xayxiong1061]

It’s your own fault for want a be rich! Don’t feel sorry for you.

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

Leej twg hais rau neb khub niam txiv tias nej li lifestyle sib txawd es nej yuav ua life zoo tib yam no naw. It’s called “lifestyle” duh. It’s call different, duh. Yog lawv tsuas xav thiab coj li neb xwb ces lawv kuj muaj lifestyle li neb xwb mos. Twb yog lawd xav txawd neb es lawv thiaj tsis live neb lub lifestyle ne. Tus tsis muaj mus nrog tus muaj ces yuav ua cas haum naw. Neb puas yuav haum nrog covnyob qab choj ma? Erh…. It’s Common sense, people.

[@MountainEncounters]

Lady, I think you’re at fault. The bare minimum a birthday gift for your friend should be at least what she bought first for your birthday. They included receipts to let you know so next time you can give them something of similar value. If you know you can’t hang with them anymore, buy a gift similar to what that person purchased for you, then slowly decline hanging out with them after the cruise. Your friends are materialistic, but you’re also cheap.

[@kaosvang]

Hai li kuv kev xav xwb. Yog kuv yuav 1 qho gift rau kuv tus phooj ywg $500. Thaum nws muab gift rau kuv es nyuav qhuav yog $100 tawm xwb ces kuv yeej chim thiab nawb haha.

[@paoyang2836]

Mloog thiab o kab lias aw tus mi neeg los zoo nkauj lub suab los qab zib tsi paub kawg mas nim hais tau meej2 kawg

[@c.lee-soulisak327]

Why you be friends with the "Mean Girls"?

[@5tuglis573]

Fake fliends. I think i know these ppl. All the ladies wear the same outfits on vacation😆

[@angie-gz4yg]

you need better friends.

[@kaj956]

Kuv saib mas koj yog ib tug niam tsev qia dub heev.

[@bosslady8498]

This is what happens when you’re poor or cheap and want to be a fake follower. 😅 Lesson learned for you real quick! 🤭 Just be yourself, be a good and respectful person and live your best life !!

[@solomoua5520]

Stay away from friends like that That’s like they never eat those meats before they have money. 🫵🏼

[@May-u1h2t]

Those are the poor people just recently have money in the USA. Only Hmong people are like that. I know many rich people besides Hmong they don’t act like that. Those a call fake friends. Don’t feel bad sister you made the right choice to leave them.