Koj Dag Kuv Nrauj Txiv Koj Tsis Yuav 12/20/2021

She got framed in believing someone too much

[@meqabzib]

Vajtswv txoj lus tias tus poj niam ntse nws tuav tau nws lub cuab lub yig nyob ruaj ntseg tus poj niam ruam nws rhuav nws lub cuab lub yig pov tseg no es peb poj niam ces siab muag muag thiaj peb ruam ces peb tsis ceev faj peb raug dag ua tsaug rau koj zaj neej neeg muab piav ua kev kawm rau peb cov niam tsev txhua tus os mog

[@user-bw9ro3jz4v]

This is one of the main reason why marry couple divorce. Always give your spouse attention and affection so they don't feel lonely. This is what I always tell my husband. We still go on dates every now and then. Just because you got them it doesn't mean you don't put in the effort.

[@tsis-k-koj]

True, but maybe just don't expect or need constant attention because we are not children...why do you hardly ever hear a husband say my wife doesn't pay enough attention to me? I think women are just more needy, but that's just my opinion take it with a grain of salt.😅

[@HmongCook]

Woman with no self control and blame for the husband. Go back and listen to the beginning of the story. She said if not true love than dont lie.... this is the true of that woman...

[@magicalunicorn5853]

No - it’s not this. She decided to make the decision to cheat all on her own and never communicated to her husband exactly what she wanted. Her heart was already gone because of her decision.

[@soukha2232]

When a spouse plans to cheat, he/she always has words to blame...

[@solomoua5520]

Nothing to do with attention or affection Someone that want to cheat will cheat either way …

[@lovetoplaywithyou3530]

The issue of Hmong people is that they stop dating after marriage

[@microbiologist50]

Thank you for sharing your story. It's a great lesson for everyone to learn.

[@maovue4406]

Sister, it was a great lesson learned for you and for all of us to learn from. Give your heart and love to someone who deserves it -- I think you are still young enough for another marriage. I wish you the best -- learn to be empowered .. stand strong as a Hmong woman. Don't hurt others like others have hurt you.

[@hlubtshajmuas3405]

Vuag kab lia niam neej vam es nim muaj tej tus poj niam qaug quav thiab siab muag npaum no thiab ntag cas yuav yog hlwb me nyuam aub xwb os hajhajhaj ruam dhau lawm ces tab tom kawm kom ntse xwb os

[@fongvang3259]

Lomzem tas tas. Tham tau zoo mloog heev. Ua tsaug ntau.

[@mosvaj1385]

Muab hais ces koj kuj yog ib tug Poj niam siab phem thiab es koj thiaj raug dag. Tim koj ntau dua lawm os mog.

[@Loves_DuckSR]

Awww thank you for your story, sister. This is a hard lesson learned. Don't believe everything some on line dating guy tells you.

[@godness7770]

Thanks for sharing...its a lesson learned.

[@cabagehead44]

Wow tus yeej no mas yeej phem2 tiag2 li nawb thov kom nws npam kiag Vivncaus aw cas koj tsis xwj nws kom zoo2 mam nrauj txiv naj

[@cabagehead44]

Vivncaus aw yeej Tim koj siab phem koj thiaj tsis tau txiv tabsis tus hluas nraug los nws phem li ib tug dab li thiab vim nws twb paub tseeb2 tias nws yuav tsis taus koj nws tseem dag koj thiab nav

[@pajtshiabtsheej1984]

Ua tsaug ntau uas koj tawm tuaj nthuav cov txiv neej uas liam liam li no lub qe os. Feem ntau sawv daws yeej hu poj niam tias yog "home wreckers " xwb. Tseeb tiag txiv neej yog cov "home wreckers."

[@luekhang6437]

You did this to yourself. I don't feel sorry for you a bit.

[@ramdom23180]

Thanks for the life lesson for everyone here. cas ntiaj teb no tseem muaj cov neeg ruam ua luaj, hos xav kom cov neeg phem liam li tus txiv neej no raug kas cees kom lwj mus

[@phem55]

Ruam tiag ..tiag koj os..peb cov pojniam txhob ruam, tej qub hluas nraug luag yeej tsis hlub tiag

[@kvan4385]

merry christmas, mab vaj. live long and prosper! loving your stories.

[@sombunman5551]

Pov koj khawv lauj yod txoj MI kev ntxeev rau yus tus txiv vam vam tus mi gub hluas nraug !

[@zhangthor912]

Thank you dude for exposing these wicked dishonest housewives. Very deserving.

[@yrongxong405]

Ps tau txaus kj siab phim kawg yom

[@KC-qd4pg]

Hehehe 😂 😂🤣Hahaha!!! Sawv daws yeej kawm tsis tiav li os, sawv daws yeej tseem niaj hnub cev caj dab rau hauv lub voj hluas xyov tseem yuav zawm txog thaum twg thiaj mam li kawm tiav os, because so fun and so good!

[@a2dazgod539]

I got to say that this story wins the 2021 best story award of the year

[@khueyang7791]

To the lady in this story.. as a married person.. your door is closed and not open to anyone that tried to mess up with your life.. It’s a disturbing behavior when you only talked to the guy online and trusted him enough to divorce your husband and left him & the kids. Koj ces tag li no yuav tsis muaj chaw cob Cuab Nrog koj khuv xim tias Koj lub Neej ces tsis muaj hnub yuav zoo li qub lawm vim koj tsis coj li ib tug Niam tsev xav muaj lub Neej nrog luag ua. Koj xav ua pauj Koj tus Txiv thiaj yuam kev loj heev nyob rau tiam no..

[@oneandonlybrielle6079]

Well said! Cov tham lub sijhawm mus work xwb yeej yuav tsis kav ntev. Nws yg kev npam xwb os. Los lus qab zib thiab zoo lawv hais tas li rau yus tiamsi qho tsheeb lawv hlub lawv poj niam tshaj. Tus ua lawv los nrog pw tas li. Zaj no zoo kawm kawg li. Ib tug poj niam mus tham lawv tus txiv yeej tsis muaj hnub yeej lawv lub siab os.

[@maithao4474]

Be smarter don't ever believed ex's Life move on forward!.. The person can love you to dead is your husband xwb.. Karma.. A lesson to learn for future.

[@KC-qd4pg]

Tus pog Maiv Yees no mas yog ib tug poj niam uas liam tshaj plaws yog zaj neej neeg muaj tiag os.

[@norrisxiong9660]

Ib tug poj niam deev hluas ces cov txiv neej zoo luag yeej tsis ntshaw koj li os, ib tug poj nrauj/yawg nrauj ces 49% yog qhov zoo, hos 51% yog qhov phem. (Poj niam npwb ces yog koj).

[@alexjohnson9499]

Good story!

[@vangxai3355]

thaum yus tau txhua22 yam lawm ces yus yeej tsis xav tau tsis yog tim tus txiv neej sab tov nawj mog txhua22 yam yog tim koj ib leeg xwb vim koj lub siab tsis ruaj tsis tus xwb nawj

[@Herikane82]

It's a double edged sword. Communication is the key. Just because your husband doesn't do something you like or ignore you doesn't give you a reason to cheat.

[@baokong2537]

Txhob Cia2 siab rau lub neej npau suav uasi. Yog yus twb laus tag lawm ces kav tsij tsa chij dawb sib nyoo rau yus tus txij nkawm xwb os lawv aw....txhob vam2 luas lwm tus yuav hlub yus tshaj yus tus txij nkawm li lawm os...

[@TOUBEETHAO]

You got what u deserve what goes around comes around

[@microbiologist50]

Be nice. She was just craving for true love, except he was just playing her and many other women. You'll never know or understand the feelings of being neglected by your significant other until you have experienced it yourself.

[@everett123hawj2]

Play stupid game, get stupid prize! What's that made you? Red flag when he's not answering your calls!

[@leejmuam1]

Ntuj aw, yeej tsis npam niag txiv dev ntawv li hos, vim yus txaus yus siab muab yus lub neej pov tseg. Tus npam ces yog koj ntag hos vim koj siab tsis tus, plawv tsis ncaj ne. Thaub ntawv tus pojniam los yog neeg npam thiab thiaj nyob nrog ib tus cheater just for the sake of materialistic. Yus yog neeg muaj txiv tsis coj lub siab zoo ces no yog kev npam ntag 🤣🤣🤣.

[@onlygod5667]

You brought it upon yourself... You're at fault.

[@kaovang2881]

I love the way u look

[@7stars2love]

Wow cas muaj tej neeg ruam npaum no thiab los.....pab koj tu siab os viv ncaus aw.

[@kermoua6883]

Txhob tu siab rau Koj lub neej vim Koj siab phem thiab raug Koj Tus qub hluas nraug dag.

[@tsis-k-koj]

Being lonely is an excuse. The emotions you feel can only be controlled by you and no one else unless you allow them to. The reason men other then your husband sweet talk you is because they are trying to get into you pants. Your husband may not do so because he can get in your pants anytime. Don't equate attention for love because that would be a mistake. 😅

[@electricgenie966]

Your boyfriend is not the bad one. According to your story, you are the bad one. You are the one who destroyed your marriage. I don't feel sad for you. Karma comes to whoever deserved it. Learn from your mistakes and move on, it's the only thing you can do. Best of luck to you.

[@atlasanyaandamazingplaces8597]

True

[@mollyt339]

Where is this beautiful flower field at? Please tell me

[@leevue1920]

If I was a cheater and still married I'll pretend that I already divorced my husband to see if the other party is forreal or not. See their reaction before jumping the gate. Gotta be smarter than that lol. But in all seriousness that really sucks that you were lied to (shouldn't have cheated to begin with). His karma will catch up.

[@shawnlee420]

Ib tug pojniam los yog txiv neej es muaj 40 tawm xyoo lawm, hais txog kev nkauj kev nraug, es nws tseem tsis paub txog tias luag dag yus xwb ces tsis thas ua neeg nyob li lawm nawb. Cov lus sib dag rau kev ua nkauj ua nraug mas, luag hais 100 lo mas koj tsuas khaws 10 los yog lus tseeb xwb ov. Tus txiv neej twg yog nws khav nws kev muaj nyiaj, kev tsim txiaj, kev ua tus coj, kev tseem ceeb npaum ub npaum no, ua hauj lwm es yog nais xwb, busy heev li, siv nyiaj rau koj luag thuam ntsuav, cov no txhob ntseeg ib lo lus nws hais li ov. Txhua yam yog ntxias kom tau koj nrhab ceg rau nws xwb nawb. Lawv hais li cas rau koj ces lawv hais li ntawd rau lwm tus thiab ov. Nco ntsoov nawb.

[@maypayang7990]

Ua cas tej neej neeg no twb muaj puas tsav yam thiab tawm thoob ntiaj teb no lawm. Qhov phem,qhov zoo los lawv twb hais tag li,tsis tas yuav kom leej twg qhia yus thiaj paub. Yus yeej txaus2 yus siab ua ces tsis tas foom leej twg li os.

[@charlielor9877]

Meskas teb no, yog leej twg dag rhuav yus lub neej, yus muaj cai foob ntes tus neeg ntawd nyob txim. Cas koj tsis foob tus neeg dag ntawd kaw.

[@pangleechannel4031]

Thov koj txob tso qhov commercial no nw tsis zoo rau koj os niam neej Vam.

[@thaivang740]

Ua neej nyob hlub tus yus tau xwb o mog . yus ntxeev siab lawm yus yuav yog tus Txom nyem

[@HaibTshajHaib]

Be smarter next time. Take it as a life lesson.

[@mailee7449]

Water your own garden to keep it growing green and blooming. It looks beautiful on the other side but it's not always what it seems. Put effort into your marriage. Some people play the game to ruin your marriage only then let you hanging.

[@thestoryofmylife6979]

WTH!… What a embarrassment!…

[@seethoj2082]

Ntuj aw! Neeg laus ib yam lawm tsis muaj leej twg dag tau leeg twg nrauj txiv nrauj poj niam li os. Tim koj tsis txim koj txiaj thiab koj ruam koj liam xwb os. Tsis tas foom yeej tsis npam li.koj yog ib tug poj niam ruam txob qhaab twb tsis tau ntsib luag es cia li muab koj lub neej nchuav ces ruam tshaj ruam lawm lau. Tus txiv neej twg tseem yuav koj na.

[@myprecious6751]

Happy Holidays everyone.

[@meexiong9961]

Poj Niam xiam hlwb ...ces tswv yim tsawg li ntawd tiag ....

[@suelo617]

Tseem yuav npam leej twg na yus lub neej yus txaus siab nrauj yus ces twb yog npam yus ces tiav li ntawv lawm xwb ma los

[@YawmSaub]

Neeg g sawm zoo ces zoo li no ntag

[@hlubkuv7]

Yus siab npam yus ntag, tseem yuav mus Kom npam luag.

[@zoovnusvaj365]

Kuv xa ib taub tshuaj ntxuav nyiaj tuaj lawm nawb tus niam tsev ntawm zaj neej neeg no txog no 0ab muab haus.

[@nkaujhmoobheu3874]

Raug leej twg mas nws yeej khiav tsis dim.vim tsis tau mag rooj txiab.

[@maoyang4163]

Kj hais yog tshaj...!

[@pavang2466]

What’s a stupid lady! Laus neeg xwb ruam tiag2!

[@winudndi9469]

nej cov hmoob mis kas rov qab sib dag thiab yom

[@myprecious6751]

😂😂😂 Sister you had a good life. Neither bad nor the greatest but comfortable and peaceful. You are jealous of your husband and his hobbies but you yourself should've gotten some hobbies and make friends with the wives. Instead you decided to hook up with an ex. People are out to destroyed or cost conflicts in your home. You gave the green light and opened the door. You cannot rekindle a past. If anything your ex probably wants to pay you back. He's married.

[@nkaujhmoobchannel8223]

Koj yog neeg muaj txiv lawv dag tau koj nrauj koj tus txiv ces lawv yeej tsis yuav koj ib zaug! Vim koj lub siab phem heev lawv thiaj li dag tau koj txawm lawv yuav tau koj los lwm hnub lwm tus yuav ntxias tau dag koj ib yam nkaus!

[@jackieyunan4899]

Poj niam hmoob meskas ces yeej liam li no ntag nawb lawv aw...

[@a2dazgod539]

When you are weak, naive and vulnerable, people are going to take advantage of you and your life is going to be very difficult

[@cianavang789]

Muaj ceem kawg cov rov quav dev no na.

[@KC-qd4pg]

Kuv yuav ua cas yuav taus koj, koj tus txiv kiag koj twb muaj tsab peem xwm nrauj taus, yog lwm tus ntxias koj ces koj kuj yuav nrauj taus kuv tib yam thiab, ( most of the men not that stupid).

[@diavang3633]

Nyuam qhuav haum vim koj ntxeev siab es thiaj raug dag vim ntse tsis txaus xwb hos viv ncaus. Twb yog koj npam lawm thiaj mag

[@nkaujhmoobchannel8223]

Thaum laus txawv thaum hluas lawm lawv tsis yuav koj lawm os

[@InvincibleMegaBeast]

The guy said he’s not someone whose a bad person. If he got a wife he wouldn’t cheat on his wife but he’s getting it on with another mana wife so he is indeed a sad f***

[@Thao22]

I hate it when Hmong ppl use Hmong culture against the law 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

[@KeebKwmYàj224]

Lam sim koj xwb koj cia li ua tiag2! Koj txhob tu siab nawb mog!

[@xmeivaj6976]

You have no one to blame but yourself only. There is no such thing as a mistake. If you know its a mistake you wouldnt have not done it. You know you made that choice so you can blame no one buy yourself!!!

[@kaovang2881]

One day I will see you!

[@chiechee80]

Woman you are crazy!!!!!!! You haven’t met your ex face to face just talking only. Can’t believe you divorce your husband before even met the guy. I guess lesson learned not to fall deep to sweet word on the phone.

[@petercha5184]

kev dag, yeej tseeb tshaj plaws rau yus vim you tsis txaus siab rau yam you muaj lawm ntag tig yog koj nawb tus niam tsev! vim koj tus ua neeg tsis ncaj rau koj tus txiv nawb.

[@suexiong537]

Maivyees pog laus yees hlob ces tuag li no tiag...

[@bluewhisper5008]

Leejtwg kom koj hlwb rwj dhau lawm ne. Nyias laus nyias tas lawm Leejtwg kom koj hlwb tsawg tsawg ne. No sympathy for you. You're not a good person. Nobody's fault but yours.

[@HumbleGolds]

haha...tim koj xwb mas. Ua kev kawm nawj.

[@yajcaivplawv88]

Yog zaj no yog muaj tseeb, txhob chim chim. Tseem tshuav ib cov txiv neej toom kam pojniam.

[@Zeb1245]

Most people are unfortunate when they go back to their exes. Only a few are happy but most don’t have that kind of luck. Take it as a lesson learn that the grass is not greener on the other side.

[@nkaujhmoobheu3874]

Tej tug txiv neej no mas siab phem tiag 2 li

[@jeanpaul2317]

xav muaj nyiaj ces mus cog meguana xwb mas kwv tij hmoob

[@_milly]

Cov poj niam tsis sawm zoo ces zoo li tus pog no tiag. Yus tog neej tsa qhuab ntuas yus mus ua ib tug niam tsev zoo los yus cia li mus ua ib tug niam dev tsis zoo.

[@chuevang3115]

Zaj sab sij huam no qhia tias maiv yee yog tus npam loj tshaj plaws hos yeej yog tus tau koob hmoov ntau yeej thiaj dag tau maiv yees nrauj nws tus txiv.

[@swmloojvaj8285]

Tiam 21 no tsis hais cov nkauj nrab los nraug nrab los yog cov poj niam thiab Txiv neej peb Yuav kev mus rau txoj kev lom zem thiab Nyob fb thiab KZbin no coob kawg kiag. Nco ntsoov ua ntej Yuav ua Yuav tau xav kom zoo tso mam ua tsis hais tus Txiv neej los Tus poj niam. Cov laus hais tias nqqub ya tsis pom nqua zes ces zoo li no cov phooj ywg. Thaum twg pom nquag zes ces zoo li no . Mam xav ces lig2 lawm Yuav pab tsis tau koj .

[@simvang7101]

Koj ces kawg yuav kuv lawm xwb los ma. Puas kam os tus me niam tsev raug dag aw. Yog kam no hu kuv tau ma.

[@maikiaxiong9888]

Vim koj qaug lawv quav lawm thaum ub lawv twb tsis yuav yus es koj tseem mus ntseeg lawv thiab os

[@soukha2232]

Cheer for daring to come forward telling your bad decision. Hope others will learn from this poor lady.

[@misspa8590]

Tu dab tuag dag kj nrauj txiv kom tshev nws yv noam tuag kiag nb thv kom nws npam xai li xai tau

[@heevtshaj9066]

Haha

[@mloognkauj1074]

Hhh nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb os

[@KC-qd4pg]

Yog tus txiv tseem rov yuav thiab ces thov kom nws muab nws pob nas xwv hlais pov tseg es tuag mam rov thawj dua thiab nrhiav dua ntsuj plig tshiab.

[@myoutlaws]

Like the part where she said "I only want to eat sushi because I love eating sushi"...come on any girls that knows what she wants to eat, you can't trust them..haha jk

[@katrinashong8171]

The minute you gave your phone# to your ex boyfriend . You knew what you were doing or heading > 100% AFFAIR. You did it to yourself .

[@misspa8590]

Txiv neej lub sb phem txhob yv ib tu li o nyb ibleeg xb yum hlub yum tu kheej nb

[@yersalinalee2234]

Wow sister! You didn’t have physical contact with the boyfriend, that was a sign that the relationship wasn’t right. Hopefully u learned from this.

[@pashvang5394]

It’s your own fault that you cheated and you divorced your husband. Don’t hate his wife or even him when it’s your own fault. No matter how much a guy tries to seduce you, you should’ve been stronger and smarter not to fall for it.

[@simonyang775]

Marrying time was ending!

[@menglor9901]

Tsis tas foom yeej kom npam li os, twb npan koj lawm ne, poj niam siab dev li koj ces nyuam qhuav phim xwb

[@mosvaj1385]

Luag yeej ib txwm hais thiab hu Nkauj hais tias Poj niam tsuas muaj nuj nqis thaum tseem nyob muaj tsw los yog tseem muaj tus txiv yog li kuv ntseeg tias muaj tseeb2 li os. Yog li thaum yus muaj txiv mas yus tej Qub Hmoob thiab tej txiv neej sab nraud mas saib yus zoo li nim zoo2 muaj2 nqis thiab zoo li ib tug niam tsev tabsis koj nrauj txiv tag nrho ces lawv txawm saib yus zoo li ib tug Maum dev lawm xwb hos yog yus tsis nyob twj ywm es tseem ua2 Maum nkais thiab mas luag haj yam saib tsis taus yus hlo li xwb os

[@kaylaheu4466]

You got what you deserved tus niam tsev cause you went after the wrong man. If you wanted to cheat at least get a divorced first. Nyuam qhua ntxim xwb os. Kuv tsis muaj sympathy rau cov pojniam thiab txiv neej uas zoo li koj os. Lwm tus txiv neej uas yuav los yuav koj ma ntshe yuav yog nyuab l..

[@yervue5742]

So many ppl here are so ready to bash her how wrong she is but you shouldn’t judge her for you’re not in her shoe. Sometimes we listen to these kind of stories without the understanding of one’s own life of loneliness and neglect. Loneliness in an marriage makes anyone depressed and desperate. Most Hmong men lack the understanding of what a women needs even when they know or see. While some men needs a wake up call before things can turn good, it can be to late. However, beware that there’s a lot of fake leeches out there that purposely destroy good marriages just out of jealousy too. In marriage, it’s safe to say that you must hold true values for yourself of what’s the most important thing you want without having to go this route and regret it later. Good luck to you on your journey.

[@sombunman5551]

Poj kas lis li kom kod koj tus txiv thiaj tsis hais ib lo lus zoo rau koj ntag niaj hnoob mus thab koj rab niag gub uas loj li loj xwb . Tus thawj teg mas nco ntsoov txog hnoob tuag kiag ntag

[@toualee9588]

Tus npam ces twb yog koj, Koj yim foom luag ces yim npam koj xwb.