Part1 EP.47 Basetsana on being married to an abusive Croatian gambling addict who left her stranded

[@unmaskwithbasi8897]

Thank you so much for allowing me the opportunity to share my story queen!❤

[@nk1332]

God be with you😢

[@neosjournal_]

Thank you for trusting us with your story. 🤍 I’m so sorry that you have to deal with judgemental people in the comments. People always have a lot to say until things happen to them or their loved ones. I wish you all the best and I hope your son grows to be a humble, kind and loving boy.🥰

[@unmaskwithbasi8897]

@@neosjournal_ thank you!😊

[@I_am_Gee_]

To everyone speaking ill, you clearly leave perfect lives here at home i guess. This lady suffered exactly what what many ladies go through here in our home grounds and just because she was in Europe you feel entitled to speak ill. For your information Europeans ladies endures exactly what the poor lady went throw. It is a norm just as it is in SA but they do not tell. As long as you have never been in her shoes, think twice before you pass judgement.

[@mishumoyatshilidzi]

Spot on my dear, they just never tell...

[@madams___speaker]

Thank you ❤️❤️🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@melaluxe8195]

Marring a foreigner and moving abroad is such a huge risk if you don’t have a well paying job, don’t know the local and don’t have a good support system…especially when there’s kids involved. They have the advantage because it’s their home ground … I’m grateful that she’s home safe❤

[@siwemalele1884]

Oh wow thank you for bringing light , most of the men there are abusive and dnt respect women

[@mpho9019]

I feel for you girl. Thank God you arrived home safely. I am a student abroad, currently doing my final year. All i can say is, life abroad isn't as glamorous as it seems. As soon as i complete I am going straight back home. Life abroad will humble you. Trust me, I have learnt to love and appreciate my own country the hard way. 😢

[@lebohangm7252]

I’m so sorry that you’re having a bad experience. All the best with your final year and studies.

[@Hlaluminathi-u9p]

I ALSO ENDED UP AT THE SAFE SHELTER 10 YEARS AGO IN 🇨🇦 I M STILL HERE ALIVE AND MAKING 😂❤

[@phumzilenkosi8265]

Sorry babes. How long is your study program?

[@mpholetlaka6490]

she is sharing to help everyone, plz do not judge or criticize this young girl . We all have mistakes, everyone can fall under this trap even in your own country. I thank God she came back home safe.

[@CctvkznSecurity]

@@mpholetlaka6490 okay

[@cynthiasebakamotse4188]

What i took from the story. Its important to have a skill.... branding ppl really saved you alot of times.

[@Success_Masondo]

One thing I am learning from these stories is that red flags will never turn green. The first time you see them.... run.

[@KwinBee6064]

Now my thing is I think only 2 out of 1000 men won’t have red flags 😭

[@spicefaith7419]

and sometimes we can be so adamant 😢, we need to be strong let us not be blinded by love

[@menniekumalo3276]

Yeeesss. We ignore red flags and convince ourselves we can change people.

[@crimeholics3401]

No words…. yhooo. I just wanna give her a hug. She has been through so much, I can’t imagine. Yhooo…. 💔

[@aaliyahmakoni3910]

I experienced what i deem to be aggressive racism in Croatia. This doesn't surprise me, sadly.

[@NondoKadzi]

Thank God you survived ❤

[@lindalolly6318]

Are you still there? I believe racism is everywhere. We do it white to black . Black to black ⚫️. We just have to make peace with it .

[@I_am_Gee_]

@@lindalolly6318 spot on.

[@mamakalami]

I am a South African living overseas. I have noticed a growing number of South African ladies coming here on love missions. Non South Africans see us differently and treat us differently. Because we tend to be calmer, we are expected to maintain that demeanor even within abuse. Also noone wants to hear you've been in an abusive situation incase you qualify for assistance and are able to live like a human being. The only advice I can give you is investigate the countries legal system before you get there.

[@missjones9737]

I really want to encourage people. Leave and dont go back once abuse starts. Am sorry Basi that even the embassy did not help you. Europe is not easy. I am in Budapest right now i stay in my lane and cant wait to go home

[@olayinkamartha]

I better suffer in mzansi.I am going nowhere

[@MotherOfBlackStars]

Vele you have no other option…😅 Ngiyadlala.

[@yaneliswakhoza5901]

😂😂😂😂​@@MotherOfBlackStars

[@LangelihleNgema]

@@MotherOfBlackStarsSavage😅😅

[@nomondevakalisa2672]

I remember wanting to work in ﹰEuro so much and the doord wouldn't open. Later I went for the vacation yhooooo🤦‍♀️😭🙆‍♂️ on the flight back home I decided that vacations ONLY are enough for me. Yhoooo devils those ppl their faces in the streets,restaurants and at the stores and beaches...my friend would say straight to their faces " Bekezelani bakwethu we are only here for few weeks futhi angazi yhini because we are eat our money nobusha bethu" bese atwerke😂😂😂😂

[@normadunjwa7135]

Molo Mfundisi. Unjani kodwa? We are praying for you

[@unmaskwithbasi8897]

Their faces alone tells a lot!

[@OlgaMnyanda]

Kunzima ngihlale 24 yrs ngibuyile kukwa hell on earth.

[@UniverseBeauty-ff4eo]

😂

[@gladysphoshoko6291]

Can be she banned not to enter Croatia anymore,,, because seriously u cannot go back to same place that keeps on hurting you. She needs psychological help

[@LangelihleNgema]

@@gladysphoshoko6291 I don’t think she will ever go back.

[@mulalomurovhi8258]

Madam speaker looking 👌

[@nthabisengmokoakoa4424]

Madame speaker was born for this. She listens, calm and gives the guest time to speak

[@I_am_Gee_]

Listening to this story breaks my heart.

[@Itss_your_girl_bk]

That's pure racism I don't care who says what.I hope this young lady learnt a lesson

[@Lesegoo3753]

They want greener pastures from makgowa

[@theglen85]

I genuinely wanna feel sorry for her but I can't coz no girl you need to take responsibility.... Like how

[@jacobethmadiba]

Same here,I'm getting upset by listening to this story ,what she put herself and her child through .

[@amandanxala2580]

What pisses me off is that the redflags were there she saw the cops wouldnt help from the beginning with her husband, why keep forcing matters yuh 🤬🤬🤬 UYANDI PHAMBANISA!!! Sorry you went through this but hayi nawe!

[@missnteo]

Can we please hold this girl accountable???? She’s to blame for her problems

[@Hlogi-my8zp]

How so, you are heartless

[@Lulu90345]

Do you really have to judge her

[@darkhorse9277]

How are we supposed to hold her accountable? She is not any different from you. You most definitely don't have a perfect life and that is due to your choices. What do you mean hold her accountable?

[@sharonshiba8460]

Uyagula sanalam

[@Simply_Bonga]

Exactly, these type of women need to accountable for their decisions. Those that get it ,get it.

[@anitatumeka1466]

I'm glad you are home safe dear❤❤❤Sending virtual hugs😊

[@portiatyulu5258]

You not serious 😢 what were you doing there in the 1st place. Stay home these no place called home stay away from outsiders they don't like us ND they will never

[@gladysmkhize4085]

You came back to South Africa you make a card and go back again

[@leonardmabunda69]

U can say that again Gladys

[@LangelihleNgema]

I wonder why she never opened a bank account in Croatia?

[@dorcramps6779d]

Hebanna

[@palesatsokodibane3948]

Bathong 😣😣

[@yelwadesousa]

😒😒

[@LadyKwenAdi]

Even if she was in South Africa the same would have happened to her. This has nothing to do with Europe or other countries. Learn to love yourself and live alone with genuine friends, family and neighbours. Following an abusive addict in the name of love is foolish. No matter where: PEOPLE TREAT YOU THE WAY YOU TREAT YOURSELF!

[@LangelihleNgema]

Exactly this has nothing to do with Europe,so many women have lost their lives in SA in the hands of men even with protection order.

[@ElnathanMaduhu-km5uy]

Valid point, abuse is everywhere

[@pfulu]

Eeehhh

[@isoboy1000]

I disagree, they guy took her there because she had no support. It wouldn't have been the same. Clearly he was conniving with the social workers because of the language barrier. And was treated that way by the police after reporting about the landlord because she is black. He used it at his own advantage.

[@LadyKwenAdi]

@@isoboy1000 She took herself there. She’s an adult. She could have simply said NO! She used herself to his advantage.

[@nikitaletsie9086]

The fact that there are women here judging this lady that harshly is so sad. At least some people's lives are so perfect. I hope it stays that way. Bassie you will be okay. Just stay at home and you and Christian will be safe.

[@nkhabe03]

What is the use of the Embassy

[@I_am_Gee_]

@@nkhabe03 nothing my dear. Especially SA embassies. They are just like DHA

[@blondeeramba4381]

Oko ndino msindo watching this rha usisidenge maarn

[@leonardmabunda69]

Why kept going back mara coz u saw red flags before

[@Flo-zb8pw]

Young ladies this is why older men with baggage will go for you. Streagth to this young lady to start a new chapter

[@SibsM93]

One thing I've realized is that there's no ubuntu and democracy to black people in foreign lands outside of Africa. Seen it with English teachers in China and now this. Their laws are definitely different from ours and they hardly protect foreign nationals. Im so sorry you had to go through this ❤

[@I_am_Gee_]

@@SibsM93You are right, but look at our own country too. No one gets justice unless they know someone or have plenty of money to pursue their cases. This world is f*ck up.

[@connymontsho]

In 2021 I took my son home in SOUTH AFRICA from Botswana.We over stayed and he was suspended for 5 years. Am here waiting for 2026 for the 5 years to end....😂😂😂😂😂😂 Guys given chance stay in your country.😂

[@LangelihleNgema]

Apply for a South African passport for him if Dual citizenship is allowed in Botswana,once he has a South African ID and birth certificate you will not have to wait for 2026 to enter SA with him,I went theough the same with my son.

[@mayumimolotv8523]

​@@LangelihleNgemaincorrect information you're dishing out. She needs to go to VFS to find out what it is that is required for her to be able to travel and live between the two countries. If she has money, she can appeal the suspension/ban because even waiting for the 6 years to pass won't suffice. It's just that she did not give much information on her experience so I can't advice any further. And Botswana doesn't permit dual citizenship.

[@LangelihleNgema]

@@mayumimolotv8523 oh please,Iam talking about facts here,same thing happened to my son overstayed his 3 months visa in SA,when we finally left they banned him at OR Tambo for 5 years,the guy even asked why did I not register his birth is SA if he had atleast a birth certificate they would have not given him a ban,so I later applied for his passport which at the same time his birth was registered and he now has a SA birth certificate but it states where he was born and got SA passport too,3 years into the ban we travelled to SA and he was let in and Ban cancelled at point of entry,this ban has nothing to do with VFS but Home affairs the appeal you are talking about you are only given 10 days to appeal and half of the time it does’nt change anything.

[@LangelihleNgema]

@@mayumimolotv8523 Get your facts straight,VFS has nothing to do with Home affairs,Iam talking about real experience here same thing happrned to my son and after I registere his birth with HOme affairs he was issues a birth certicate and SA passport the ban was lifted.

[@juliete-t2x]

@@mayumimolotv8523You are the one who is dishing out wrong information VFS is only a contrac this a Home affairs issue,my daughter was in a same fate only had a french passport overstayed her SA visa but when she was banned we registered her birth and was issued with birth certificate and SA passport and was able to travel to SA again with her SA passport and at the Airport they lifted the ban,if Botswana does’nt do dual citizenship then she can wait until the 5 years is over and the ban will be lifted.

[@weirdFlower-vc2mq]

life is tough realy sorry baby at least you are still alive

[@unmaskwithbasi8897]

By the grace of god and his mercy!❤

[@bongiwezaca2721]

Yeap if u have a chance stay in your country..its soooo hard rasing a child in a foreign country..my partner and I are both South African but we live in America and have a 1 year old daughter, its so hard raising a child with no family ih a foreign country, literally just the 2 of you guys..but im grateful he is supportive. God will bless you sisi

[@lindalolly6318]

So come back , we also want to experience gold in America 😅

[@LangelihleNgema]

Kids grow,they don’t stay young forever as long as both partners are on same page it is doable to take care of a child even if you are abroad,also build a community around you and there are nurseries and day care to cater for kids.

[@MichelleMo.]

firstly Madam thank you for such a platform ... you are great at what you do .... yhooo so sorru Basie ... it gets better , one day i will also tell my story ...

[@unmaskwithbasi8897]

❤❤ I hope you do, until then I wish you all the best, love and healing

[@nikitaletsie9086]

I wish you love and healing too ❤

[@nellygumede5597]

Different country, same person. Nothing will changed.

[@TwinX911]

My big sister used to say she wish to relocate to overseas one day.....and I always says to her ...'Me' I will Never...I'm ok to stay here in my Country ..I love my South Africa with all of my heart....and I mean it ..I don't wish to go to overseas I don't knw why....but I hve this bad feeling about going there😅

[@palesasefurutshe6832]

I also want to explore Europe and North America a bit. Maybe a year or two then come back. The feeling can be unsettling since it's a new territory the laws are different and the atmosphere.

[@LangelihleNgema]

⁠Do it,life is for the living you can’t live in fear all you have to do is make wise decisions for yourself and don’t settle in situation that are not favourable to you.

[@palesasefurutshe6832]

@LangelihleNgema I will🤍🥺 but I'm still trying to get my coins. Hopefully, I will secure a job. Now I'm still unemployed and living at home. But that dream isn't going away. It's part of my long-term goals.

[@LadyT06]

@@palesasefurutshe6832go ahead Pale and don’t limit yourself.Also,I can say is that do you and be alert.

[@Dklady]

Is it just me noticing she developed an accent?

[@tthuto.m]

I thought I was the only one hearing that she developed the accent

[@phumzilemtshali4488]

I also noticed the accent

[@bulelwagladysvinindwa2514]

I noticed that too

[@palesatladitladi1513]

@DKlady I've lived in KZN for some time and I developed an accent too, my Zulu was different from the one spoken in JHB(where I've lived for over a decade) then I moved to the UK and picked up on accents there too, lastly lived in Asia and spoke Mandarin with an accent too... My point is, picking an accent is natural and it also makes being understood when communicating among people there easy...

[@annencube9483]

So what if she speaks with an accent. Don't be petty.

[@lihlemakamu5660]

We are here

[@madams___speaker]

❤❤❤ I see you

[@amaivevana7937]

Unfortunately people from that part of the world went through some deep stuff back in the day and are quite hardened. Check their history. Unless you want to be their therapy keep away.

[@sekoaib]

The Soviet Union. Yeah that could be why the whole family hate them, some went through ethnic cleansing and starvation

[@nokonwabazulu7467]

Im happy that you came back with your son. May God give you strength to forgive that racist landlord for your own peace.

[@missnteo]

Why did she go to a country with no job? Ok sorry but she set herself up for failure

[@pfulu]

Some black girls they marry white guy for status nje 😢.

[@No2HeartStoppingClotShots]

Do we have an ambassador from Croatia here in SA?

[@Le_mire_]

Yes

[@neommutle8033]

Basetsana, baby girl, be strong, work on healing 💖 I pray he doesn't manipulate you to going back. God gave you 🚩🚩to protect you, now you must protect your son.

[@sekoaib]

Shame man, I feel for her

[@JethroDube-c8w]

Hmmm, being a kwerekwere in Croatia.😂

[@Winterflowers1]

Bitter much

[@annencube9483]

Hahahahaha everyone is a Kwerekwere...... Something like "a taste of your own medicine"

[@koketsonamanyane2879]

She kept going back, 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️njani

[@tshidi129]

Thank you... U sisi is not telling us the whole truth, either that or she's very dumb... As for coming to SA to withdraw money??? YOH!

[@Lesegoo3753]

Given a chance she will again she is Thomas

[@FancyMaite]

This is why i wld never date outside of south africa. Not because SA man are better, but because my family and friends are here so when eish hit the fan, i have somewhere to go.

[@mohwelethalita5529]

Nna I'm even scared to date outside my Province 🤞

[@entertainmentfolloworgomis3169]

😂.

[@NosiphoM-l5z]

many Kenyans going through this in Europe under Muzungu Husbands😢

[@PulengLiphate]

Gal Mar lwena😮😮obatla ho utlwa ka letlalo pele😮yhooo achr

[@Blessed_for_life_2023]

Le nna I don't understand, seriously. Moipolai ga a llewlwe. They put themselves through these situations, and then come to tick tick and cry abuse, when they were in their right faculties to know right from wrong. Ijojoh🙄

[@lindalolly6318]

Love is something else hey

[@pfulu]

@@Blessed_for_life_2023that’s is why we need to love our girl child enough so that they don’t depend on man.😢

[@faithing88]

Why did they attack you

[@hildadavids217]

Why are you so desperate to go to a place that you are not wanted. Come back home, why are so desperate for a man. Why go through so much.

[@I_am_Gee_]

Such insensitive comments are unnecessary. It expose how small your thinking ability is.

[@everythingtrending7677]

Please learn to be kind. You don’t know the battles people are fighting on a daily basis

[@LangelihleNgema]

Did you not watch the whole video?she is back in SA.

[@hildadavids217]

@@I_am_Gee_ Just too bad if his friends advise you about red flags of someone you are about to date,telling you to be careful and you think that they are jealous? Secondly Croatia is part of Europe, those people are just racist. If you are matured, you must do your research about any place you are going to immigrate to. You can't just do things because you are in love. You have a child to think about. The man is a married man. Too many red flags, hence the situation she is in.

[@I_am_Gee_]

@@hildadavids217 i hear you, her story is really not different from of many women here in SA infact would wide. We think and make decisions differently as human beings.

[@mbakiwilliam7747]

It's always good to come back home when things don't go well 🙏🏾

[@Amanda-y4v]

We will also be racist to those people, personally Mina I’ll be!!!

[@blessingkhalipha5059]

Another jollofina became a victim they never learn

[@unmaskwithbasi8897]

I was married to a Croatian, Croatia is in Europe and i doubt they have jollof there, but thank you.

[@glambyzipho7840]

this one still has no confidence i suspect shell go back

[@gladysphoshoko6291]

🤞🏼

[@nandisnicethings]

😵‍💫🤌

[@nandisnicethings]

She went back twice haai noooo! 😢

[@pfulu]

@@gladysphoshoko6291she wants a father figure 😢

[@matuikuanidax1362]

This lady's reasoning capacity is questionable. How was she barely surviving, had already been through so much with an abusive husband, and still flew back to SA "to fix her card" in order to pay rent cash and then go back to continue living there?

[@LangelihleNgema]

Exactly,there are a lot of what she is not disclosing also converting Rands to Euros is not cheap and why did she not open a bank acc in Croatia as well?

[@Devine_dee37]

I'm a South African living abroad. I didn't move from SA on a love mission. I must say living away from family and friends have its challenges. But I'm enjoying myself while working and studying. It's not bad for everybody.

[@tsholofelomosoane919]

This one is not a victim she's a volunteer

[@CctvkznSecurity]

Omathandizinto laba ungavele uthandane ne foreigner nje

[@bridgem_m]

I am looking forward to part 2. I love her voice, and I like that she is sharing her story and not allowing people to push her down. I am proud of her!

[@I_am_Gee_]

@@bridgem_m she’s soothing. I wish her all the best in her future endeavours.

[@pamelamkiva9285]

Part 2 upi shame Maan

[@Maforakoketso]

Shame ngwana ko gae banna, I Am sorry for all ur bad experience abroad, phephi. We thank God you home safe

[@nikitaletsie9086]

That's all that matters. She's home and safe.

[@sthembisomthembu395]

Women always complain about abuse but they put themselves in that.

[@NondoKadzi]

Yhoo, this girl went through so much. Those people are animals at least they should have felt sorry for the child. Cruel people. Am glad she survived and is now better home

[@Afrosoil11]

I want to feel sorry for her but she ignored all the warming and red flags. All her problems are self inflicted. She kept putting herself even in messier situations, I'm embarrassed, she sounds like someone who wanted to do everything to live abroad, very unSouth African. Hopefully she has learned from this experience. I'm glad she got her son back, only person i feel sorry for the son who had to endure his mother selfish decisions and put him in harms way

[@missnteo]

My thoughts exactly this girl is selfish and not matured at all. Very ambitious to go to a foreign country with no job

[@Afrosoil11]

@@missnteo very ambitious, several opportunities to not go back but she did back 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@misstadams]

LESSON LEARNED STICK TO UR OWN KIND, NEVER EVER MARRY AN OUTSIDERS

[@siyashilla6885]

2500 Euros is 47,998 Rands

[@sabbiestrp3385]

Eish 😅

[@CctvkznSecurity]

How your child looks like mix masala neh

[@pfulu]

Whaaaat 😅

[@zamathobekambele4239]

​@@pfulu😂😂

[@lebomadingoane4118]

😂😂😂😂

[@nkhabe03]

Heartbreaking story 😢

[@leratommuwe2553]

I'm from a psych hospital, I'm not crazy or mad, still not. We get admitted for different reasons and different illnesses. We are not crazy lady.

[@unmaskwithbasi8897]

I slept at a hospital were people were scary and mentally disturbed, I was talking about my personal experience here ma’am, not yours.

[@ayandabaca7545]

Maybe in the room she slept in. I've been to a psychiatric hospital as well. The psychological conditions of people differ.

[@92Kandee]

@@unmaskwithbasi8897 her statement doesn’t necessarily take away anything from your “personal experience” but rather educates you that not everyone in a psych ward is crazy. & to be frank, even if they were crazy, as you said, it’s mental illness. Instead of trying to defend yourself, just as you want to share your story & people to listen, maybe try listening & learning from others.

[@92Kandee]

@@ayandabaca7545even if that is true, it’s insensitive to use the word “crazy”

[@unmaskwithbasi8897]

@@92Kandee I didn’t try to take away from her’s either and she said “we are not crazy lady” I never said she was crazy, I said I was at that time-surrounded by clear crazy people, she made this about her and you trying to make me look and sound dumb, no.

[@Nataleah777]

This is a difficult situation I understand but don't want to judge many woman in SA go through this daily without even leaving SA so be kind.

[@Thembakazi_1]

Everyday we are leaning million reasons why we must stay away from foreign men. Imagine your own son not having citizen of your country 😢 that's wild thing. You are so strong sis❤ I'm so sorry that had to happen to you, I'm happy that you are home safe with your baby ❤️

[@sesimakoya]

I always ask myself how someone can stay when there’s so many red flags. Like I feel sorry for her situation but it seems like she also played with help when it was being offered to her on many occasions and that is WILD.

[@menniekumalo3276]

Ke acccent ya Croatia e?😭 if it is, e bohloko man😢

[@makonentsoane7545]

😂

[@mpingamarenene5627]

I'm so sorry mommy, God will definitely heal you.

[@phindileforbeskhumalo2571]

This story infuriates me yoh but I'm glad you are home!

[@PanaNorBobo]

Madam speaker where is part 2 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

[@pfulu]

I’m just wondering how old was this man 👨

[@Hodansooiyosasnag1987]

A child would never change a man. first mistake, you should have went straight to the shelter when the social workers came to the hospital after giving birth.. I am sorry you went through all that horrible things.

[@juliuschikupa6306]

Watching you from Spain.

[@Mimi-gj1fq]

How is this experience a surprise thou? Dont people learn about where they move to before they move? Especially when they are black…black people need to value their lives more esp women..you cant fight a snake in its territory

[@nontsikelelonoruwanahealth8035]

Right and people must know white people are just humans like any other they are no saviours . I sympathize with her because she is victim of the circumstances .zEish the trauma her Son endured.

[@LangelihleNgema]

Your question does’nt make sense,you can’t paint everyone in Croatia with the same brush,this lady is not the first SA lady to be married to a Croatian guy,so many black women get abused by their own black men.

[@MOSIMA.]

Mimi, o bolela nnete. it's all ready risqué for a woman to move to another province in South Africa. what about moving out to another Country/Continent?

[@southernafricanboy4148]

​@@MOSIMA.Thank you. The person who wrote above you is best ignored as they are clearly very dense😢 You are right moving province is a big risk what more moving countries

[@southernafricanboy4148]

@Mimi well said. Black people need wake up. I been living in Europe since 1996 and every time I land in Africa I feel 20kgs lighter. I can breathe freely. It's no easy and ow I don't advise people to do it but my youngest son is now 16 so I can move back home now as he is old enough. I'm divorced from the mom

[@Japhter-v4w]

What's her Tik Tok handle?

[@DitlaboMogapi]

I feel sorry for her...

[@bethuelnevondo1152]

It's giving fans only

[@nthabisengmokoakoa4424]

This lady suffered 😢

[@KeneilweModikwe]

Went back twice 😢😢?

[@NeneShabangu]

I know what its like to be in a foreign country and feeling like your rights are being violated. I was recently in the US and had the worst treatment ever. When I touched down at OR Tambo I thanked God 😢

[@ZethembeMntungwa-p6s]

Kodwa yini ebikwenza ungabuyi ekhaya ngempela🤷‍♀️ you came back to SA only to fix your capitac card why didn't you come back for good Ufuna ukuthi kithiwe uhlala phesheya ekbeni you're suffering there... all the trauma that your son had to go through ngoba wena nje ungafuni ukubuya ekhaya why my sister?

[@ChatsworthBranch]

Le accent echinchile

[@sibongilengini4623]

Me wondering if this was love or the pursuit of greener pastures. I cant ,for the life of me, i do not understand. Were you running from someone in SA yini is your family that bad because wow . Bebesithini kokwenu, netshomi zakho zona ? Or umfundisi that married you two?😢😢

[@nellygumede5597]

Why does she talk like that. Did she sufer from stroke or something? Some of the words are not clear.

[@reenahlahla6614]

She is nervous

[@Cybernetwo]

Nervous and accent

[@sthembisomthembu395]

She has developed a foreign accent

[@phophishalom6536]

Why didn't she find another apartment instead of coming to SA to make card just to pay him

[@connysekoto290]

Thank god ,through all suffering, you used your head to come out alive n come back home,am so 😞 😔 ❤❤

[@connysekoto290]

Sad story ,this is lesson for us all coaetia,yeah neh heartless people,,,you can see that this young women has been tromitised,,

[@catherinemphelo9502]

Madame Maremeni Hello Hope all is well Is there part 2 podcast video on how Basetsana Horing moved from her tenant, to the place of safety with the child...

[@nontandomagxala8528]

That social worker was unprofessional and deserves to be reported and lose that job!!!!!

[@ThandiMasilela-m4k]

Not easy in other countries police are dangerous sorry for all the trauma you went through now you are at home try to make a better life for yourself and your son

[@paulinemthimkhulu-xm9iu]

Sjoe my dear sister I can imagine,things were really tough for you,So sorry mummy

[@sybillamula7190]

Abuse is like an addiction? You can’t help but keep going back!

[@zamanxumalo8457]

Oh my baby ❤️❤️I’m sorry you went through all of that.

[@FikileGwala-y3k]

Can't get part 2 😢

[@madams___speaker]

Yes on Sunday ❤️.