MADDIE SPEAKS | Kody CUTOFF For Being a DEADBEAT!

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[@TomFittonisHOT]

Kody IS the GOSSIP of his family. He went from wife to wife to gossip about OG3 and not about his Angel Robyn. He likes to stir up the pot. So sad what he did to that family. Narcissistic people destroy not build.

[@mariannepowell-kline1840]

Isabelle, going across the country for surgery & he “ couldn’t be there”, it upset her terribly.

[@StarWarsFanGirl1975]

Kody wasn’t there physically for when Maddie’s daughter had to have surgeries like having a leg amputated. Like with Ysabel’s surgery, he just couldn’t bear being away from Robyn and quarantine during the worst of the plague.

[@joannem6878]

I love an interviewer that asks the question and then gets out of the way for the interviewee to complete what they are saying.

[@marylamont982]

So glad u did this, Maddy was always my favorite. She's always been a rebel.

[@kathrynlester2352]

Not showing up for the kids important days ie..birthdays, Christmas are the two most important. Then not at siblings important days.

[@cynthiagaudet3012]

Kody ! " 3:15 Blame youself if WE dont love you"! Or robbing robin.

[@Chellistan]

Therapist here: completely agree with the ADHD hypothesis for Kody. I’ve been thinking that for years!

[@AshleahShortcake]

Oldest 8 in order: Logan, Aspyn, Leon, Madison, Mykelti, Hunter, Paedon, Garrison, all were born between 1994-1998. I'm a psych major, about to be in my senior year, narcissism isn't caused by untreated ADHD. The cause of narcissism isn't completely known but it's thought to either be from early childhood trauma (before age 5) or from parental coddling that creates personality flaws that develop into a disorder. The thought behind the trauma cause is that the person uses their narcissism almost like an armor of protection, they keep themselves above everyone else because they never want to feel low again like they did when they suffered the trauma. The thought behind parental coddling is the caregivers overly praise, don't teach accountability, don't teach good coping skills, and spoil a child, making the child feel that they are superior to others, and everything is always someone else's fault, so the child develops these features as part of their personality, they believe themselves to be as special as their caregivers thought they were.

[@vanessaTheGrittyArtist]

Oh man, this makes me think of Jeff Winger from Community. There's a whole episode where their explore an aspect of himself that traces back to his trauma of his father abandoning him at a very young age and his mom doing all the things you listed. I need to watch that show again. It's so good.

[@Melissa_Badhorse]

Sounds right to me!

[@Vixen743]

I have a question for this being so- what if the child in question has a severe health condition that makes them feel flawed and not superior but underneath everyone? Can they be narcissistic? Could that make them feel like a waste of time?

[@Kristenm28]

It's spiritual.

[@Vixen743]

@@AshleahShortcake in my perspective I’ve taken a brief psychology class(I didn’t get to finish the second or third levels) but I would think Ashleah there’s been some heavy coddling wouldn’t you agree?? not so much trauma but heavy coddling and some trauma

[@elizabethgulley7044]

What about her daughter’s leg amputation? Can you imagine going through that? I am sure he showed no interest in being there. That is an EXTREME surgery!!!

[@-pinkbutterfly-6972]

The interviewer got on my last nerves. Always giving her views. We don't want your opinion. We want Maddie's.

[@syrax2424]

Yesss, she kept cutting Maddie off and talking over her 😠 and it sounded like she was begging to be her friend, saying how loyal she is after Maddie said it 🙄

[@-pinkbutterfly-6972]

@syrax2424 you are so right. It did feel like she was auditioning to be one of Maddie's new girlfriend. It was annoying.

[@followthewhiterabbit9490]

I know the kids and the family believed no one knew. But come on. The neighbors didn’t see 12 kids, 3 women and 1 man living in This one house? It was never said to their faces but everybody knew. The worst kept secret.

[@amissteree]

Exactly!!!

[@amandaelkins590]

Especially in Utah!!

[@judypranke735]

Maddie did the interview because Kody spoke on the mormon podcast about her. She did it in reaction to her dad speaking about her on a public podcast. Kody says Maddie ghosted him, then in the same breath says he stopped talking to her because she only called Kody to fish for info to gossip about. So which is it, did Maddie ghost Kody or was she constantly calling to grill Kody about stuff to gossip about.

[@followthewhiterabbit9490]

Agreed. I also wonder if he was the one only calling Madison to get intel on the rest of the family. Because we know kody will blame everyone else for doing something but there is video evidence that it is him doing the thing. He likes to switch the blame.

[@joerudnik9290]

Kody was fishing, then ghosted her. No doubt!!!

[@SandraUrquia-p7p]

​@@followthewhiterabbit9490Kody Projects his "Own" behavior onto Others..📽️🗣️🪞

[@SandraUrquia-p7p]

You forgot to show Kody saying that the OG3 were getting "In the Way" of his "Goals!"

[@cherylmcguire2972]

Kody did not like that Ysabel was going to stay with Maddie and Caleb while she went to college. He as much as accused them of luring his children away

[@elizabethgulley7044]

I really believe that Caleb is the only person in Kody’s life who could actually get through to him and make him face what he did to blow up the family. He did love and respect Caleb once.

[@natalieoliver2837]

I think he was in love with Caleb

[@nicoleeo7984]

He had a crush on Caleb. Remember the episode with Kody’s old classmates and they always thought he was gay? They wouldn’t think that for no reason. 😂

[@hotpinkthread]

@@natalieoliver2837100%!

[@katethegreat26]

I totally agree with Lauren on Kody having ADHD, I've wondered that for a while. I think that he has a cluster of things, and ADHD is likely one of them. I want to emphasize, though, that having ADHD is not an excuse for these behaviours he exhibits. When I was recently diagnosed, I finally understood WHY I would let friendships die on the vine, for example. It doesn't mean I'm not accountable for those things. People with ADHD struggle with focus (not just with tasks, but relationships). We also struggle with productivity, despite feeling busy and overwhelmed all the time. We struggle a TON with managing money (You got it? Spend It.) Many also struggle with temper control and anger, particularly if they feel overwhelmed or emotionally dysregulated. I can't imagine how destructive ADHD can be if combined with a personality disorder, like NPD, or the influences of fundamental Mormonism. ADHD is a blessing and a curse, and I bet in the beginning it was very helpful in managing a polygamist family. It might even explain why he was drawn to it, in part. I maintain he has more than just ADHD, though. He needs intensive therapy and psychiatric evaluation.

[@merdy111]

That “friend” of Maddie’s, giving the interview gave me a total “pick meEee” vibes!! It’s like we get it, “you’re LoyallL” & you NEVERR New Maddie was on a reality show…(sister wives whOOoo)!!! What an obvious CLOWN

[@DJB8520-k2l]

Robin did a great job of teaching her to fake cry on demand.

[@mariannepowell-kline1840]

Correction, I meant to say, I hope they weren’t affected by the hurricane.

[@Nina-dj1pl]

Why did Robyn get a beautiful wedding and honeymoon when the other spiritual wives didn't that just proves Robyn was the favorite wife from the very beginning

[@hotpinkthread]

I believe Maddie put out her opinion to her dad about him being totally wrong about not going to Ysabel’s surgery. And then if he didn’t show up for Evie’s surgery also. Add all that to Kody’s treatment of the whole family during Covid. If I were Maddie, I would have cut him off too! She and Caleb went from being so close to her Dad, to him never calling or reaching out to them at all. Never coming to visit either. He is way too focused on Robyn’s previous kids to maintain his adult friendships with his kids, and it is so wrong!

[@PatriotJewell]

Who gives a shit? I’m so sick of these people!

[@thepurplediva2957]

I agree with Darlene.Tony isn't half the man Caleb is. Rather than maintaining gainful employment, he capitalizes off his in-law's family drama. Both he and Mykelti have the emotional maturity of a knat.

[@NM-ub6ml]

I wonder of robyn using her kids on the latest stuff is going to make more kids speak out

[@IndigoBellyDance]

Robyn is using her kids to make $$. She refuses to talk about anything real so she puts her kids on

[@liadown9052]

So Grody started pushing the older kids away when they started vocalizing the inequities. That's also when the grift went into overdrive. Curious. . . . 🤔 Edit: it's too bad the interviewer interrupted so much.

[@traceypritchard782]

Might Maddie be talking about when the kids booked a house big enough for the family to meet up with Kody and he said no you have to talk with me before and then come to my house for Christmas and blamed it all on Christine

[@bobbiedunlap4745]

This interviewer made me insane. Just let maddie talk ffs.

[@a.schottinthedark57]

I didn’t like the interview either. She speaks like a Kardashian.

[@kimapel1528]

IQ i think it would be interesting to have a show about Christine and Jenelles friendship. I think that relationship is a little off. Jenelle doesn't seem to want to talk about stuff with Christine and feels Christine is too pushy. I know they were both married to the same man but friends should feel safe talking about things and Jenelle is very guarded.

[@getmotivated1707]

I get what you mean, but I don't think it's weird, just unusual for two such different personality types to be friends. Janelle is seriously independent, pretty stoic and doesn't need closeness with others that much, while Christine is pure nurture, social and needs deep connection to others. Robin has said a few times about "wives not liking that" while talking about intimacy, and I think she meant Janelle. She always portrays her relationship with kody as a friendship foremost, and I kinda get how that can be. I'm a pretty solitary person and find janelle really relatable. People like Christine, while lovely, can grind my gears easily with their touchy feels worldview lol, so their friendship is unusual but real imo.

[@mariannepowell-kline1840]

Kody “ THE PATRIARCH”!!

[@user-ou2ty3ts6k]

My theory is Kovid raged on Madison over telling Christine to leave and being somewhat involved. He’s blaming her and not himself. Narcs NEVER take accountability for ANYTHING. It’s always someone else’s fault. Sometimes you just gotta cut toxic ppl out of your life whether they’re family or not.

[@TheAnointedfamily]

Darlin I totally agree with you on everything. The only thing I would say is strong dislike instead of hate. Tony is a Cody in training.

[@Jura_Cilean]

Wish I could've caught this Live, Darlene was spot on on EVERYTHING!

[@smileyfried1313]

I agree that I've assumed that Kody might have undiagnosed ADHD (but we obviously cannot diagnose him). We know at least one of Kody's biological children is diagnosed on the ASD spectrum (Gwen) and one of Robyn's (Dayton), and I've wondered if Robyn might also be neurodivergent or primarily inattentive type ADHD (this could even explain hoarding tendencies and shopping addiction in Robyn's case, because people who fit in the OCD/ADHD/ASD triad are at higher risk of developing hoarding disorder, and shopping addiction and poor finances can be a result of poor impulse control like in ADHD). If one person is diagnosed with ADHD and/or ASD in the family, chances are high that they're not the only one because they appear to be hereditary. If Robyn and Kody are both neurodivergent, it's possible that this played a role in them bonding closer if they could relate better.

[@xXLady001Xx]

OMG @Darlene. Chefs kiss😘. Totally nailed that call

[@katluann]

I love Janelle and so my favorite kids were Logan and Maddie and especially love Gabriel! If I went to her house it wouldn’t have even been a question. We were not plig but all my neighbors were my teachers at school and church. Most weekends I woke up at my principal and my fifth grade teachers house. They were married. There were always kids everywhere so it wouldn’t have even been a question! *The most important thing Maddie and Caleb can do as parents is to lead their children to know Jesus! Teach their children to be good people and Caleb is the greatest example of that! I’m so impressed with what Caleb did for his sister.

[@terrylkumpf3894]

Maddie spoke on her relationship with her Dad on Instagram. Why she doesn’t have him around her kids. She said he suffering from a mental illness. Once Kody obtains treatment that might change. My Mom was married 3 times her 2nd Husband who was not my Dad was Bipolar & psychotic! I went to live with my Dad because of the abuse. He was dangerous because he didn’t take his medication. In fact he shot a gun off in a locker room where he was coaching!! The kids did win the game! The shot was fired before the game! He still had his Teacher degree, plus didn’t go to jail! It was the last game of the season. Later on as a teenager I party in that town & people were scared of me because of him. Till I told them he was not my Dad & I moved out. Some boys were scared to Date me at the time. They were scared that they would get shot!! Couldn’t blame them but that changed it is a good little town. My Mom passed away I missed her but she out lived her 3 Husbands

[@lagenewright2799]

I think she is referring to the surgery her daughter had. He was not there--- shameful!

[@veerebel7112]

The number of times Maddie says "Yeah", is clear how terrible this interviewer was. Let her talk!!

[@cheekychicka]

There was another critical moment between Maddie and Robyn. I can’t remember where they were but it was around the time of the infamous purity speech ~ still gagging about that one. They were talking about churches and Maddie made a comment about attending a different church youth group and Robyn basically pulled the evil step-mother card saying that if it wasn’t through HER choice of churches they can’t go and she said so. Maddie had such a look on her face. It was Robyn pulling tank on her and the older children despite being so new to the family. If she was like that when the cameras were rolling can you imagine why a hag she was behind the

[@mwest3191]

The first amendment protects our right to criticize religion as much as it it protects those who practice it. Not a criticism, I largely agree but would just add the caveat that considering it too personal or sacred for us to even discuss can be equally problematic. Free speech cuts both ways, but those practicing religion are often given more grace to say whatever they want, and neither extreme is productive.

[@HereForTheComments990]

The biggest issue is the power granted to religions in government to influence policy. People have been steadily leaving religion in the U.S. for decades. Fewer people are religious now than ever before, yet religions have more power in government than ever before. It’s wrong and really destructive.

[@joerudnik9290]

When you saw Kody with his mother, he said, Everything that is yours is mine, everything that is mine, is mine, or to that effect.😮

[@veerebel7112]

Darlene needs her own show!!! Love her!

[@katymay4605]

The oldest 8: Logan Aspyn Madison Mykelti Hunter Then the triplets…? Garrison, Gabe and Gwen? Mykelti is one of the oldest, but she talks frequently about being left out of the oldest sibling club

[@katymay4605]

Mmm…. Maybe the twins were Gabe and Gwen, and the triplet was aurora now that I’m thinking about it. So I change my answer to garrison, and also the twins gabe and Gwen. Lol

[@hotpinkthread]

Nope, that is wrong. Logan Aspyn Leon Madison Mykelti Hunter Garrison Gabe and Gwen were the twins, because they were born in the same month. Then can Ysabel and Savannah Before Robyn’s kids came in. Then Robyn forced the twins to call themselves the triplets and include Aurora who was born in the same year, but nowhere near the same time of the year.

[@TheMom2three]

You included Maddie in who the 8 were. Gabe should have been included instead of herself.

[@hotpinkthread]

No, Gabe was a middle kid. He was not part of the older 8. Gabe & Gwen were called the twins, and they were best buddies until Aurora came into the family. They were not part of the older 8.

[@blackbrry02]

Meri had the first child

[@veerebel7112]

Janelle did.

[@christinetull4162]

Janelle, Christine then Meri

[@hotpinkthread]

No, Logan is the oldest!

[@susanleonhardt927]

You said it...... He's insane.

[@AnnmarieNew]

How can you do a show on the family and be clueless as to the first 8 children are..geez

[@melaniecoombs1873]

Another great show!!

[@heatcat6]

304 - I’m sorry I missed the Live stream today but I’m glad that I have the chance to watch now!

[@terrylkumpf3894]

I understand that their is only 6 episode in this season and according to the internet it may be the last of Sisters Wives but not the series their maybe a spin off

[@Betty-z5n7e]

Go for Maddie

[@IndigoBellyDance]

Where do we find this interview?

[@gwendolynnorton6329]

Logan, Aspen, Moriah (Leon), Madison, Mykelti, Hunter, Garrison, Paedon

[@lucytowns6971]

He didn't come for Evie K surgery/ Janell came alone/ even though she was named after him

[@sherryrudalavage5525]

Wish the sound quality of the interview was better

[@DazedbutStillConfuzed]

COMMENT: as much as I enjoy handmaids tale, the actress that plays offred, Elizabeth Moss, grew up in a cult! She is currently Still a Scientologist

[@MawmawTruett]

Wow. This was a year ago?!?

[@mariannepowell-kline1840]

1, I AGREE

[@caroladams8795]

I would like a membership memo

[@Sail392]

Am I just not seeing the link to the original interview a year ago?

[@StellaFlamingo]

Handmaids tale season 6 will air spring 2025

[@anglee6624]

Well said about religion🎉 will have to use that description when teaching

[@carollhouston2380]

Maybe didn’t show up for family gathering or birthdays.

[@mikapeeple9738]

Memaw is awesome!!🎉

[@celticmoon111]

Missed live again 😢 on replay crew ,how your feeling bettet49er. ❤

[@michellebates7489]

Logan in order of birth Logan Aspen Mariah Madison McCarthy Peyton and Hunter

[@PWatts-ff2fd]

McCarthy??

[@a.schottinthedark57]

*Mykelti.

[@tanyaphilstrom7077]

Ysabel

[@miaclark1043]

Replay crew 718.

[@maryhanks8391]

One

[@deena-ii2pu]

Your list is not in order lol

[@tonicarter5444]

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[@sannywicca7504]

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[@alexandrealockhart]

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[@dustyblevins5502]

Reply I am 538

[@Meljassy]

I don't understand this channel do you just spend an hour thinking people for compliments or are you giving actual news

[@ResidentMilf]

She discusses the show with her viewers, if you just want the straight tea this probably isn't the channel for you. Maybe check out RealiTea Squad or My Take On Reality

[@jennifereriksen1337]

That’s a pretty mean spirited thing to say. This channel is about deep dives and IQ puts a lot of work and time in for free. What makes it special is that she acknowledges the support she receives and people thank and compliment her because she’s created an inclusive community.

[@Meljassy]

@@jennifereriksen1337 no its not its a bunch of click bait

[@ResidentMilf]

@@Meljassy Haters gonna hate lol