I hope everyone understands why I kept some situations in this video regarding the personal lives and information of others vague, at this moment I don’t feel it’s my place to hash out or explain the personal details regarding sensitive situations that have been brought into the public eye by gabbie Hanna. Sorry if that made any part of this video confusing, linked in the resources are important links for Bianca’s law and Jessi Smiles’ videos so you can hear her story from her own words 💜 Also, regarding the ricegum situation I don’t think I clarified well enough in the video that acting out physically like that is never, ever okay and should never be excused or justified.
@SD-mi2vc3 жыл бұрын
How's the baby
@cruelworldhappymind3 жыл бұрын
@@SD-mi2vc doing great!! Healthy and kicking 😅 Due date is only a few weeks away and I’m so excited and feel very ready💜
@Impossible-t7z3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this very informative, sensitive video, I agree with you 1000%!! Keep safe and happy !!!
@SD-mi2vc3 жыл бұрын
@@cruelworldhappymind that's amazing thanks for the content as always. You soo great
@glittersoop3 жыл бұрын
i really commend you for your thoughtfulness in regards to certain parties, their families, and their stories. also, i thought you made it adequately clear your view on ricegums actions, jusssayinnnn 🥰
@user-mh7db7ei1s2 жыл бұрын
Gabbie Hanna is that girl in high school that “hates drama,” yet never stops talking about people behind their backs.
@chanajohnson48332 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY and is constantly starting ish and then wants to play victim but no one cares because she is so annoying and is always doing the most 😒😒😂🙄🙄🙄😡🤬🤡✌🏾🤪
@ravenmawi48992 жыл бұрын
People still lives like that even out of high school, in they 20’s, 30’s, insane huh
@imshill._2 жыл бұрын
@@chanajohnson4833 why all them random emojis 💀
@TaylorMadeConvos2 жыл бұрын
@@imshill._😂😂😂
@MCPunk552 жыл бұрын
So a hypocrite. That's the word you're looking for.
@ineedanap3215 Жыл бұрын
I hate when people use ADHD as an excuse for being an asshole. Cursing out people is not a symptom of ADHD. People with ADHD know right from wrong.
@katarinatibai8396 Жыл бұрын
Being predatory, manipulative, and raging entity is definitive, not ADHD. It's one of the cluster B. I smell a borderline. A BPD will be the greatest victim in the room while assaulting other people.
@OliverStarfall Жыл бұрын
As someone who actually has ADHD: Gabbie is actually harmful for the public perception of ADHD. Even though things have changed the standing idea of ADHD is still “little cis boy who can’t sit still in a classroom” and her erratic and hurtful behavior towards others with the label of “oh haha i just have ADHD” isn’t helping. She wants to be a good rep for people with ADHD without being a good person She wants to be seen as a good person without being one.
@AlyaKovalev Жыл бұрын
Yeah! I have ADHD and sometimes I can unintentionally hurt somebody bc I joke impulsively and some people sometimes find them offensive. Although I did not mean any harm I always apologize if I hurt anyone and take accountability for my actions no matter the intent. I can't imagine excusing yourself for hurting people by saying "haha I'm so ADHD" Even if you didn't intend any harm, you should own up to your actions.
@shannonmcnair8238 Жыл бұрын
I have ADHD and Autism and I ain’t as bad as she is. Im also not on any ADHD meds cuz of some other chronic health problems. HOW AM I MORE WELL BEHAVED THAN THIS WOMAN!?
@unquestionablelake8893 Жыл бұрын
@@katarinatibai8396 got BPD and I ain’t done nothing you just mentioned. That’s a stereotype not all of us are like that. Id like to speak for all of us when I ask you not to generalize us it’s extremely harmful. When you generalize people it hurts the whole group of people not just the one or two people your talking about. There’s too much stigma about personality disorders and talking like that just makes it worse In no way do I condone any of Gabbie’s actions or defend them
@SunniDae3333 жыл бұрын
"She's not an artist. I don't care about her opinion... I accept criticism from talented, smart people." Okay, then *why did you send her your book to review, then?*
@Sigurjon5433 жыл бұрын
That part
@jamiefarnik55953 жыл бұрын
Not to mention Rachel writes poetry, so she is an artist...she's literally done critical reviews of her own poetry. Gabbie really thinks her shit poetry ever would have gotten published if she didn't have KZbin fame, puh-lease.
@hotdabscoldbeer3 жыл бұрын
idk maybe bc she was trying to be friends at first?
@alicefigueiredo64553 жыл бұрын
She grown on fame by being what is trendy and when she arrived to normal world she fails to see that like that. Ppl study years to active a master piece and many have to pay from their on pocket for it get published. She sold it out cause she is a internet star with a teens fan base, i know can be hurtfull for her, but its what its.
@linalu58813 жыл бұрын
Riiight!?! Exactly what I was thinking
@greenfloatingtoad10 ай бұрын
Whoever taught Gabby Hannah the word gaslight needs to be held accountable
@greenfloatingtoad10 ай бұрын
Girlboss of weaponizing therapy speek
@joli132010 ай бұрын
Same with narcissist
@trasher_gooby99219 ай бұрын
LOL
@thelegendofthedogfacedwoma37087 ай бұрын
Gaslight has become the abuser's best friend. Just say your victim is gaslighting you when they say you're abusive and now THEY'RE the abuser!
@the_goddess_18594 ай бұрын
Probably a therapist unfortunately. Narcissistic people are very good at weaponizing therapy language against people.
@dahliafatale3 жыл бұрын
i’ve never been a follower of gabbie, not even in her vine days. but am i gonna watch an in-depth analysis of her? yes.
@marianap.h39613 жыл бұрын
Same
@alexisjauregui35233 жыл бұрын
Ahahahahah same. How is this so interesting? Same with the creepshowart thing. I have never even watched any drawing or art videos in my life, but the drama had me glued to youtube 😭 who am I? And why?
@worms36563 жыл бұрын
Same here. I have no idea what any of this is about lol.
@frankcesaretti48173 жыл бұрын
Right 😂
@sawawtiv37643 жыл бұрын
without knowing much of her you can already tell shes sick
@naruchancutie13 жыл бұрын
Gabbie learnt the words "narcissist", "abuser" and "gaslight" and hasn't shut up since. How incredibly annoying. My heart goes out to Jessie.
@michellespanier52483 жыл бұрын
The insane part of it is she is and does those things. Shes narcissistic, gaslights, manipulates, bullies, etc and turns around and plays victim. Calling everyone else the villain and not taking accountability unless it can help her play victim. Like an actual narcissist
@tam98563 жыл бұрын
😂
@hevs78893 жыл бұрын
@@michellespanier5248 it’s like a cheater with a guilty conscience accusing their loyal partner of cheating
@bigc50903 жыл бұрын
Gabbie's English teacher watching her videos: "sigh...I never should have taught her those words"
@shannons99633 жыл бұрын
@@michellespanier5248 that’s pretty much the definition of a narcissist. Everything they are, and everything they do, they then turn it onto everyone else, making it seem as though they are stable, the victim, and everyone else are the disordered people. I know first hand, my daughters father is a narcissist, its a mind game I wouldn’t wish on anyone. Even my 9 year old has figured out what he is and she hates him because of the psychologically abusive shit he says/does.
@revelare_xvii62693 жыл бұрын
*She’s like that one annoying kid who keeps teasing everyone yet cries every time she gets stood up.*
@mars___02593 жыл бұрын
This is literally the perfect description on her
@confusedbutamused52603 жыл бұрын
Sounds like my neighbor
@justyouraverageaj86753 жыл бұрын
Oh man I used to be that kid
@CereDulce373 жыл бұрын
@@justyouraverageaj8675 🤢🤢🤢🤢 wtf?
@Memu_3 жыл бұрын
@@justyouraverageaj8675 Redemption
@cassandraburns3792 Жыл бұрын
If someone called me a stalker, said we weren't friends, and said they were afraid of me TO THE ENTIRE WORLD ON THE INTERNET, I would never ever speak to them again out of sheer embarrassment.
@greenfloatingtoad10 ай бұрын
And that kinda good sense is why you'll never have to
@Switcheroo16 ай бұрын
Ppl literally want nothing to do with her, yet she’s like- “ just admit to the world we are friends 😡 “
@Dustyp3ar4 ай бұрын
I'm so proud to say I'm I have never seen or heard of these nostrils before. Thanks for coverage!
@alyssagrammer79752 жыл бұрын
The audacity of the woman to say, “You can’t talk about your trauma, but I can talk about your trauma.” Is unreeeeeal.
@brandenclark14852 жыл бұрын
She didn't say that. What the actual fuck is this word twisting bullshit?
@kitkatgirl56732 жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t imagine that I was raped and sexually assaulted multiple times growing up. For someone to do this to me I couldn’t imagine it. Then for it to be all over the internet. I feel for JessiSmiles. I hope her baby is ok and that she’s in a better headspace now.
@sargasso4673 Жыл бұрын
Stupid people have a tendency to overestimayed their intellektuelli.
@katamine11 Жыл бұрын
Lol that’s essentially what half these comments are doing 😂
@kunya163 жыл бұрын
A guy didn't want to sleep with her and that makes him a misogynist? Not everyone will find you attractive... get over it. She stalked a child. She harasses men, but that's fine because they're men? No. It's wrong no matter what. But she gets a pass.
@JLynnEchelon2 жыл бұрын
To be honest, I think the Smash or Pass trend was tacky and I could see her point if she had never indulged in it herself, but she did and made harsher judgments on others. The Vlog Squad were actually awful to her, that guy was not. He was pretty respectful.
@jazzmeineee2 жыл бұрын
@@JLynnEchelon i feel like the game smash or pass is just a game where instead of the answer to the question of the select person being inside of your head (which is a everyday human thought) becomes public and vocal.
@blazaybla222 жыл бұрын
Which part of the video is this
@blazaybla222 жыл бұрын
@@JLynnEchelon A narcissist being cartoonishly hypocritical? Idk, doesn’t seem possible
@gollygod2 жыл бұрын
It the embodiment of when youre in middle school and tell your best friend youre gay and they say “lol well dont develop a crush on me 💁♀️” and you say “i wouldnt, youre not my type” and then they get offended that you dont find them hot. Like not everyone is going to like you. Not to mention her whole idea about that Smash or Pass is that they’ll eventually see each other and it’ll be awkward if they pass her, why didnt she then do a video of her saying smash to everyone on the list, what in the off chance they see each other.
@adamburdt87943 жыл бұрын
She acts like everything she does has this deeper meaning and is somehow more grandiose than anything you are doing. She is her own biggest fan.
@Ashleyrae113 жыл бұрын
Oh god this is so fucking accurate, tbh.
@MarijaYetta3 жыл бұрын
Everything she does is Art and noone understands her.
@croaky29513 жыл бұрын
@Wolfgal900 Boop ok
@bryanaperry87603 жыл бұрын
@Wolfgal900 Boop a little ego is healthy, yes, but when your ego is so huge that you will do anything to protect it, you need to check yourself.
@Ultamami3 жыл бұрын
@Wolfgal900 Boop than
@MissCaraMint Жыл бұрын
That bit when Gabbie basically goes “what if you were a little bit drunk would you have sex with me then?” makes me so incredibly uncomfortable. It feels a little predatory.
@christalcavanaugh Жыл бұрын
“What if I drugged you? Maybe then?”
@MissCaraMint Жыл бұрын
@@christalcavanaugh *shudder*
@katarinatibai8396 Жыл бұрын
🥶🥶🥶 100% predatory
@nicolekuzbek6220 Жыл бұрын
Or she knew the only chance of that ever being remotely possible is if he had beer goggles on 😅
@roserkk Жыл бұрын
@@nicolekuzbek6220 "he couldn't get me if he wanted to anyways" girl you couldn't get him
@kairikatarakimikogir3 жыл бұрын
I find it interesting that her thought process is basically “Yes I did all that messed up stuff but how dare you accuse me of it and hold me accountable, why are you abusing me?”
@rainestar822 жыл бұрын
its like the narcissist's mantra....deny deny deny
@chanajohnson48332 жыл бұрын
OMG YEEESSSS SPOT ON IT CAN NOT BE EXPLAINED NO BETTER LMMBO 😂😂😂🎯🎯👌🏾💯😏😬
@Kiahsoahsnjs2 жыл бұрын
Or she would find a way to blame someone else
@Factor.X2 жыл бұрын
her though process is “yes i did all of that stuff but you held me accountable and caused me to do the thing you’re mad at me for now so it’s your fault”
@StudioNama2 жыл бұрын
Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss
@duchessnoor3 жыл бұрын
As someone with ADHD, yes, I have done some impulsive crap I have since regretted. But seeing Gabbie use ADHD as an excuse to continuously harass people is so upsetting.
@snorkels91883 жыл бұрын
I don't have ADHD but looked into to it as a sort of general awareness of other mental health struggles/how to support etc, and not one thing I've read/heard about ADHD as a symptom is, "be a complete a**hole to others, harassing people, bullying people, ". Ugh. Even if it somehow magically was, or some other magical mental illness that explains away allllll the sh***y things she's done, it would only explain the behaviour, *not* excuse it.
@morley3643 жыл бұрын
(copying this from another comment I made) YES as someone with ADHD, her using it as a defense for verbally abusing people because 'that's how it works' is so insulting. We can suck at social cues and my ADHD can sometimes accidentally lead me to upset people. But if that happens, I own up to the hurt I caused, explain the misunderstanding, and work to avoid hurting people in the future. Creating a world where people accept our neurodivergencies should not mean accepting cruelty towards others, ESPECIALLY those who work 'below' you.
@snorkels91883 жыл бұрын
@@morley364 Thank you for replying, I really appreciate hearing from people with first hand knowledge of ADHD. But I agree, as someone with diff mental health issues, it is SO destructive and harms the MH community in general, and in this case, people with ADHD, when people like Gabbi use it as a shield to protect themselves when being sh*tty, and it's even more upsetting/problematic when it's based on complete lies about the illness in question. I'm glad she's becoming insignificant and roundly disliked so she hopefully can't inflict any more damage.
@Nowaynoway503 жыл бұрын
As another person with ADHD is 100% agree with you. I might say things without thinking, but I’m ALWAYS nice to people . ADHD doesn’t determine if you’re a nice person or not. That’s YOU
@Lizmations3 жыл бұрын
ADHD person here as well. I have done some hella impulsive crap(ran into a wall and shoved my hand in boiling water), but never have I intentionally insulted a person and blamed it on my ADHD
@emmietessen-powell37953 жыл бұрын
My least favorite part of Gabbie’s story was when she was dying out and not only blamed everyone else for her downfall, but she GUILT TRIPPED her ENTIRE AUDIENCE simply for not enjoying her drastically different content anymore.
@Stolas17773 жыл бұрын
She’s a no talent narcissist what more should we expect
@weirdwhit6953 жыл бұрын
You mentioned guilt trip and my eyes widen, I didn’t realize she was guilt tripping her audience since I was apart of her audience until very recent but that makes sense on how she’s trying to keep them
@emmietessen-powell37953 жыл бұрын
@@weirdwhit695 yeah definitely. Like the whole “it’s extremely personal to me and I put everything into it and now my follower count is plummeting”. The crying and blaming everyone else for her downfall is a total guilt trip to her fan base and it’s not even their fault, she changed drastically and not everyone’s going to enjoy that content anymore
@idontspeakenglish8273 жыл бұрын
And she barely posted for a year.
@emmietessen-powell37953 жыл бұрын
@Justin Łukaszewski hey now, somebody has to work those jobs. You can’t demand service from those people by buying their product and then talk shit about them and profile everyone who works those jobs as “no talent narcissists”. If you don’t like Gabbie Hanna fine, but don’t talk shit about plenty of good and honest people doing the jobs you require.
@liss2503 Жыл бұрын
All the words she tosses at others are describing herself. Toxic, narcissistic, abuser, etc.
@cocothedino_2901 Жыл бұрын
i suggest watching brads taste in music’s video on her most recent album. every song is either her describing how she enjoys tearing people down emotionally, her going back and fourth between protecting and tormenting her partner, and just generally being vindictive and controlling while still having songs on how shes the victim. from a psychology standpoint its such a fascinating album to experience.
@Baldjotarokujo Жыл бұрын
@@cocothedino_2901 Ew
@edro51188 Жыл бұрын
Don't forget gaslighter
@electroscribbles3874 Жыл бұрын
Like that Lego movie 2 song-
@AwaiHashiba-Yu-Gi-OhDM-Season6 Жыл бұрын
Narc's accusations are always confessions.
@SMOK1562 жыл бұрын
He dehumanized and degraded me ... "She's not my type" Literally one of the nicest ways to turn someone down, and she took it personal and started accusations of random things he never said. But that's just kinda Gabbie ain't it
@courtneynb55672 жыл бұрын
D
@lv92652 жыл бұрын
its degrading to participate in such type of objectification without someone else's consent but go off i guess
@lvlHive2 жыл бұрын
@@lv9265 While i dont condone doing smash or pass on real people. It's not like he created the trend, and Gabbie's response was way worse than the comment he made.
@likepocketsjingling2 жыл бұрын
@@lvlHive Yeah, if she'd done something along the lines of a response to the whole trend and "hey, I was just living my life and didn't ask to be featured here," it would be completely different.
@lv92652 жыл бұрын
@@lvlHive she didn't create the trend of the way she reacted to his actions either, but she still reacted the way she did. "It's not like he created the trend" isn't an excuse. The creator of this video absolutely glossed over that dude's actions and repeatedly said that he was being "polite". It is *not* polite to do what he did and it's not fair to act like he was the only one wronged in that incident when he even started it in the first place. You can build your case against Gabbie's behaviour without minimizing her hurt.
@SuperNuclearUnicorn3 жыл бұрын
The fact you said the word "irrelevant" multiple times and didn't once use the pic where she wrote "irreleant" on her face shows remarkable restraint
@katc19493 жыл бұрын
Lol I definitely pictured that in my head when she said it
@hotdabscoldbeer3 жыл бұрын
when will ppl realize hate doesn’t solve anything
@dnfi54803 жыл бұрын
@@hotdabscoldbeer When will ppl realize flowers are just the genitals of plants? When will they realize that tomatoes are fruit? If you're going to make a comment that adds absolutely nothing useful to the conversation, at least make it more entertaining ;)
@hotdabscoldbeer3 жыл бұрын
@@dnfi5480 lol
@melizabeth.3 жыл бұрын
@@dnfi5480 lmaooo
@xoxomaddie7773 жыл бұрын
She didn’t “kind of” harass people. She harassed people. Relentlessly. She broke boundaries, pushed people over the edge, and then tried to make herself the victim. If the roles were switched, and a male KZbinr found an underage girls address, name, and school just because she made a video criticizing him, we’d all lose our minds. She has gotten away with too much shit over her career. I’m glad it’s ending.
@calliejohnston94893 жыл бұрын
Or outed a female youtuber’s STI status? Ooph, ‘he’ would have been dragged over the coals. Edit: I’m aware that Trisha currently identifies as ‘they/them’, but at the time I believe they identified as ‘female she/her’
@chupachups22363 жыл бұрын
I think she added “kind of” bc she didn’t want to directly accuse gabbie of harassing ppl, but yes, it’s clear she has
@navalends89683 жыл бұрын
"Allegedly" harassing people might be the best words to put it.
@mywingsareyours3 жыл бұрын
@@Anon_85 Trisha is they/she btw
@mywingsareyours3 жыл бұрын
@@beetlebug6976 it's literally in the video
@ms.blooddiamond3857 Жыл бұрын
Gabbie is an objectively terrible person, but I really hope people don't gloss over how disgusting her "friends" were. That "are these... diet pills?" was legit heartbreaking. They deserve to be called out for treating people like garbage.
@graysonrogers-barnes630211 ай бұрын
Same. Even if that had been "just a skit" or "just a joke" that was so fucking gross.
@vilerat-m8t10 ай бұрын
right like even if that was staged it really looked like she was hurt
@RhiannonHookings10 ай бұрын
Pretty sure that was David Dobrik. He is the really fucking gross guy who permanently disfigured and disabled his friend by crushing his skull with the excavator while they were doing a stunt for KZbin video. He has since been pretty much identified as a gross KZbin scumbag to anyone with a slightly intellectual mind.
@angelaking792910 ай бұрын
Given her awful behavior and the genuinely vile things she's done to people, I have almost no empathy for her. But I agree about how hurtful it is to give her diet pills as a gag gift. I would be in tears for days if that happened to me, and I'm pretty comfortable in my own skin. Clearly, she had some terrible friends who caused her some self-esteem issues, but that doesn't give her a pass to treat everyone like trash.
@ms.blooddiamond385710 ай бұрын
@@angelaking7929 I completely agree. I'm saying her "friends" were bad people, & this emphasizes that. & I think they deserve to be called out. But Gabbie is terrible, yes. I don't think she deserves her platform, anything like that. She's also very awful.
@deathrays3 жыл бұрын
"he dehumanized me" the truth: he said you weren't his type "he came up to me, he confronted me." the truth: you went up to him. gabbie went for a petty, rude insult - attacking Dom for his height. all he said was, "not my type."
@justsayin62143 жыл бұрын
Because Gabbie finds herself hideous, she assumed that he actually meant "she is hideous" when all he said was that she's not his type. She believes that he thinks about her the same way she thinks about herself and got offended😂
@kadebebesis42043 жыл бұрын
@@justsayin6214 Funny enough, it’s also “narcissistic” behavior from her lol
@Aimeeevps3 жыл бұрын
She CANT HANDLE REJECTION
@Aimeeevps3 жыл бұрын
@@justsayin6214 naw she is a pure narcissist
@kylemiller24143 жыл бұрын
I get sense that she goes for men who don’t want her to prove she can flip their opinion to improve her self-worth.
@MsEastGrave3 жыл бұрын
I think she is calling herself a “victim,” so that when people don’t believe her she can tell herself, “it’s OK: the victim is rarely believed.”
@rice_keki25703 жыл бұрын
She literally ended up doing that
@Dubois_tada3 жыл бұрын
she did that on twitter 😔
@achris22493 жыл бұрын
D
@achris22493 жыл бұрын
Didn’t know I’d accidentally made a comment till someone likes it, lol. Maybe I’ve left random letters scattered across KZbin without knowing.
@raythe_first9693 жыл бұрын
She is always accusing everyone that they cry to manipulate, but when she cries it is because she is emotional 🤨
@haralambimarkov68623 жыл бұрын
Watch a full-length movie? Naaah, who has the time for that. Watch a movie-length video about a person I barely know anything about? YOU BETCHA
@00st307-m3 жыл бұрын
Sign me up
@JustMeChrissLee3 жыл бұрын
Exactly lol
@erincochran18873 жыл бұрын
I was like wow this video is long and then twenty minutes later makes popcorn fully invested
@jamiemaxcold93253 жыл бұрын
Same
@JYXRachel3 жыл бұрын
Omg this just hit me
@robsolf Жыл бұрын
44:20 I'm getting really tired of people saying they put their blood, sweat, and tears into a music career, when they can't be bothered to take a single singing lesson.
@darth-milk10 ай бұрын
you really need to know the rules before you break them, no matter your medium
@thepassingstatic62689 ай бұрын
At least for live performances anyway. I say that from experience.
@GriffinPilgrim8 ай бұрын
Better than putting blood, sweat and tears into a cooking career though.
@coolnerdlll60534 ай бұрын
I can't hear that phrase without picturing the bar patrons on The Simpsons spitting out their Flaming Moe drinks.
@TheDisell3 жыл бұрын
Her pinning her behaviour entirely on ADHD is so frustrating as someone with ADHD. We work so hard to go against the stereotypes and she’s leaning into them as a scape goat. Like yeah maybe you do struggle to the point where anger management is difficult but don’t sit there and say “I was shit, it’s because of my ADHD. Ain’t nothin’ I can do about it” say “you know I struggle to manage my emotions and impulses. I’m aware of that. I have been/plan to work on that. ADHD makes me susceptible to these behaviours but that does not excuse them. I’m sorry to everyone I hurt.”
@carlyrios82973 жыл бұрын
I dont know who she is really, is she truly diagnosed with adhd? It can often be confused with narcissism sometimes. I don't know her, but it could be a possibility considering she can't take accountability and the despair of the lack of attention?
@TheDisell3 жыл бұрын
@@carlyrios8297 I have no idea if she’s dx’d or not but she claims to have adhd in the video and then uses it as an excuse. Whether she has it or if something else is going on is irrelevant because she claimed ADHD specifically. Also I don’t know her personally and I’m not a mental health professional i can’t speak to whether or not it’s narcissism at play. I also wouldn’t want to. I don’t feel comfortable speculating on her mental health. She did some shitty stuff and she should take accountability and work on her future behaviour. (I hope this didn’t come off as argumentative. This is just my view on it. ☺️)
@carlyrios82973 жыл бұрын
@@TheDisell oh no it didn't come off poorly to me, and you're right. I just took time to listen to the stories involved and I can see more of the picture now. I completely agree with you. Sometimes people like that have to learn the hard way. thats being hopeful of course that she will be open to it
@milenamorelli97993 жыл бұрын
ADHD or not, it seems like she has many other psychological struggles that would make more sense to be the actual causes of this. This video reminded me of some Coffeehouse Crime videos, it feels just as disconnected from reality and sad to see someone this deep down in a hole. I hope she gets the help she really needs and finds some peace of mind and by default, giving the involved parties their so requested peace as well.
@reyortsedlana11183 жыл бұрын
@@carlyrios8297 yes!! To me it seems like Gabbi is a functioning narcissist. Every hint of criticism or someone disliking her is an instant trigger for her and conflicts with her own perspective of herself. She demands to be liked and lashes out if anything interferes with her own view of herself. The stuff she went through with the vlog squad was terrible and no one deserves that, but I feel as if it fueled her to spiral the way she’s done. The way she’s milking her wrongdoings/mistakes (and the criticism she’s received) doesn’t feel like her struggling with self hate, it’s a way to reinforce the picture of her as a victim to gain sympathy and support. That way she gets to feel liked, cared for and appreciated again, which is what she seeks from the outside world. What she’s done wrong doesn’t really matter, it’s all about the public agreeing with her own view of herself. Then she’ll be satisfied. Also not a health specialist, I’ve only had 2 courses of psychology which isn’t enough, but that’s the feeling I’m getting from this :’)
@kaylynvandermerwe3 жыл бұрын
i was diagnosed with adhd at the age of six, and my mom always made sure to teach me that you cannot excuse bad behaviour with your diagnosis
@margitup69812 жыл бұрын
I wish more people would teach this ❤
@VamiGwen5002 жыл бұрын
Well done mama :3 tell her she’s great
@serenahopeisabella22262 жыл бұрын
Facts I learned this in life
@veronicawood82952 жыл бұрын
Exactly. My son was diagnosed with ADHD at six too, and is now 22...and was always and still IS, a good kid who has never purposely hurt another person in his entire life. Gabbie's sort of 'bad' behaviour has literally NOTHING to do with that condition...ADHD is NOT a personality disorder, which is what SHE has...not even CLOSE. She could have at least done some minor research before selecting that as her token 'disorder' before trying to manipulate that into fitting her ridiculous bogus false narrative to explain away years of her endless shitty behaviour towards other human beings. ADHD doesn't turn it's sufferers into nasty selfish narcissistic bitches...sorry Gabbie...try again.
@scentist_error2 жыл бұрын
You can use it as an explanation or reason because it probably is why you did whatever you did, but Hannah overused it so much that it's fucking overwhelming
@savannahlisonbee12023 жыл бұрын
it’s interesting that she calls literally everyone and anyone a narcissist, when her behavior, her words and the way she’s handled things over the course of years and continues to handle things points more towards narcissistic symptoms in herself. she genuinely believes that she is always the victim, and can’t ever do any wrong
@bbbrittanyyy3 жыл бұрын
Yup she is gaslighting her own viewers .. when In reality she is the narcissist person…
@cameronpitcher65623 жыл бұрын
Narcissists never think it's them, it's always someone else cause their views are the only right ones.
@motherofsighs73753 жыл бұрын
I agree, trying to imagine being with her, it's so damn draining. Frustrating even. like you don't have any idea how to escape from her mentality and personality.
@mariamz43 жыл бұрын
I read somewhere that ppl tend to describe others in the same way they view themselves. When she constantly describes ppl that way, she prob feels that she is exactly that
@JayPee5753 жыл бұрын
Apparently everyone but her is a narcissistic abuser
@peytonpupstar7931 Жыл бұрын
Nothing is ever her fault, according to her. The way she talked about Rachel Oates was disgraceful, especially when you consider she sent one of the books to Rachel herself and invited her to review it. She drives people away with her behaviour and then cries when she is all alone.
@yani99043 жыл бұрын
The way she lied about Dom “dehumanizing” her just goes to show that you can’t believe anything she says. He just said she wasn’t his type. How is that dehumanizing Gabbie?
@PolliitoAle3 жыл бұрын
It kinda reminded me to that scene in spiderman FFH, when they show us the BARF emory from the villain's point and he remembers everyone laughing at him when in reality they didn't. Or that Game of Thrones scene, where Cersei walks away from Marjorie and the further she walks the louder their laugher is. They both felt humiliated and in their minds, the mockery was real and way bigger than it was in reality. The point is, I don't really think she understands that she lied about that, or how off she is about the entire situation. I feel like in her mind, she actually lived that experience how she describes it. It's not justification tho, she really needs real therapy and I hope she seeks help, for everyone's wellbeing.
@Roadent12413 жыл бұрын
She wants to be dehumanised~? Cool she can have my disability and my repulsed aceness~
@kiyaluque3 жыл бұрын
CLEARLY by saying “not [his] type” he meant not even the same Sp3C!eS as him and thus implied she is an alien or otherwise not a human! Hence dehumanising her! DUH!!!
@agamabraham3 жыл бұрын
@@kiyaluque i love this comment 😭
@danidelafuente13 жыл бұрын
@@desiree9476 it means the things in them are sarcasm
@napatora3 жыл бұрын
gabbie's quickness to call literally everyone a "narcissistic abuser" says a lot more about her than it does them. her lack of self-awareness is honestly baffling, it's like she can't open her mouth without projecting something onto someone else.
@emmarose20373 жыл бұрын
That's just how people like that work. They don't change because they project instead of reflect upon themselves. Best to take it as a lesson to always allow yourself room to grow as a person instead of deflecting and projecting and blaming everything else on other people. Accountability is so hard for people who refuse to grow. People like that just don't succeed for very long if at all unless they get professional help. Gabby strikes me as an angsty teen that never grew past that stage. Kinda sad but at this point, no point in giving it a platform. It'll just keep collapsing til it's not really that big of a deal.
@essxsolo3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@Mewse12033 жыл бұрын
Projection is a hell of a thing.
@bushraakibriah55293 жыл бұрын
Gabbie is like Kwon Mina of AOA.
@jasminedalgarno-stevens66463 жыл бұрын
🥰
@amberpenelopevd3 жыл бұрын
Adhd is not an excuse for being a shitty person!! Sincerely a person who is diagnosed with severe adhd
@Metro4313 жыл бұрын
Ikr! Even when I get angry from either overstimulation or the occasional mood swings I know I’m being irrational and apologize to anyone I direct it too. We may not be able to control how we feel but we can choose how we express it.
@RealEyesRealiseRealLies3 жыл бұрын
I hope they're not giving you medication for your adhd, these made up modern diseases are ruining young peoples lives and the medication that they give you to cure this bs is what makes today's kids anxiety ridden and in some cases depressed at such a young age. If you ever have kids and they say your kid has adhd, DO NOT DRUG THEM, kids are meant to be kids and hyper.
@Metro4313 жыл бұрын
@@RealEyesRealiseRealLies ADHD/ ADD is very much real and you can look at brain scans and see that people with adhd have different brain activity compared to a neural typical one, but when medicated each brain had the similar brain activity. So yes I’m medicated because I can literally feel a mental fog lift and I feel like I can function as a normal person. And yes many people with adhd can develop anxiety or depression along with the condition,but that’s usually because we grow up thinking we’re stupid because we can’t seem to focus compared to our peers.
@ario22233 жыл бұрын
@@RealEyesRealiseRealLies made up? Wyf
@Emilia-ll3ii3 жыл бұрын
@@RealEyesRealiseRealLies you know nothing about psychology and it shows, also people can have ADHD/ADD regardless of their age so if your argument is that it doesn´t exist because kids are meant to be hyper, then what about the teenagers or adults?
@ariyalatona-phasuk8157 Жыл бұрын
Seeing her videos as a kid and being exposed to ADHD as what “made her act like that” messed with me so much I refused to acknowledge my own diagnosis for years despite how much it affected me just out of the FEAR that I might start to act like her??
@Baldjotarokujo Жыл бұрын
As someone with ADHD we don't claim her ok :) your safe🐶
@its_a_filosofie Жыл бұрын
@@Baldjotarokujo I agree with u. She makes people with adhd look bad
@erika2m16 Жыл бұрын
That's how I feel about Trisha Paytas. I doubt she was even formally diagnosed but she makes me ashamed to have BPD 😅
@kiwibaby33510 ай бұрын
@its_a_filosofie people who actually have common sense are smart enough to know that was a poor excuse she made and having ADD or ADHD doesn't make you an asshole. So no she doesn't make us look bad, she makes herself look bad using a dumb excuse lol.
@paigeharris99093 жыл бұрын
I don't like Gabbie, but that diet pill joke that David did was really messed up. That could have triggered the start of her ED. I'm surprised she held herself together. That is a terrible thing to say to anybody. That is beyond cruel. It's crazy how much David got away with.
@YoureRightIThink3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I think with friends like that it's were she learned how to treat other people. Then you see bullying that girl who was newer to fame and calling a c*nt to the production team worker
@RoyalRoses3 жыл бұрын
But that for some reason is the only thing she said doesn't bother her?? The only behavior she hasn't condemned? Shes unreal.
@ltotheinzi09193 жыл бұрын
Just for future reference, ED is short for Erectile Dysfunction. But your message is definitely right.
@spongy_mothra3 жыл бұрын
@@ltotheinzi0919 "ED" is also commonly used for "eating disorder".
@ltotheinzi09193 жыл бұрын
@@spongy_mothra When I first read it, I thought erectile dysfunction, and was so confused. 😆
@abbiereese083 жыл бұрын
Funny how everyone agrees that David Dobrik treated her terribly when she hung out with the vlog squad yet he's the only one she DIDN'T call out or ask for an apology!
@chubby_cheesecake_cheeks3 жыл бұрын
Because she’s desperate for male validation which is disgusting. Don’t look for validation from others, she should find her self awareness first in which she’s super lacking.
@jessicamessicaYT3 жыл бұрын
Because she’s a Pick me girl
@chubby_cheesecake_cheeks3 жыл бұрын
@@jessicamessicaYT She definitely is.
@meeschell73 жыл бұрын
Because she was in on the *satirical* bits
@summersevening3 жыл бұрын
Yes, this has always bothered me. His treatment of her was disgusting, yet he gets a pass. Why?
@Darkrose5172 жыл бұрын
It still pisses me off that Gabbie portrayed Rachel's videos about her books as unintelligent bullying when Rachel's videos were SO detailed and well thought out. She compared Gabbie's poems to other poems with similar themes, talked about why her poems didn't work, gave tips on how they could've been better, etc. Rachel's videos were VERY constructive and it just shows how much Gabbie can't take criticism that she thinks they're just bullying.
@ginao68102 жыл бұрын
It’s such a good example of her inability to take criticism. I can’t deny Gabbie has received so much crap, trolling, hate etc online. But Rachel approached Gabbie’s books as literary works, not bubblegum KZbin crap. Rachel could not have been fairer. And Gabbie couldn’t tell the difference between Rachel’s constructive literary review, and teens reposting Monster memes. It really exposed her mindset
@mallory7783 Жыл бұрын
Right!?
@songweretson Жыл бұрын
Also, let's not forget... SHE SENT RACHEL A COPY OF DANDELION!! That's the part that sets my teeth on edge. She sent it to her, and pretty much asked for a review, then flew off the handle when she got it.
@imbluedubbadee Жыл бұрын
Man I was beyond pissed when this happened. I love Rachel's channel, have for years. She reminds me of one of my mum's and I feel very protective over her so I'm aware I may be biased but holy shit I was RAGING when Gabby baited her into a review and then blasted her
@bamstrz Жыл бұрын
Oh, yeah. Criticism ≠ Bullying. She sent that copy to her for a review but responded like a crazy person when she got one. It was so well thought out and she explained her thoughts perfectly, Gabbie really had a downfall.
@blaketheawesome830 Жыл бұрын
Everything she accused Jessie of doing she did to a CHILD and was proud of it. Gabbie is an absolute monster
@BeanColored9 ай бұрын
Im so lost what the hell happened
@OttoOctavius775 ай бұрын
@@BeanColoredinsanity. That's what.
@cthult78562 ай бұрын
I know you from somewhere @@OttoOctavius77
@shilohbell15732 жыл бұрын
This girl is the human embodiment of the quote, “When you live for people’s approval you are forever their prisoner” She created her foundation on the approval of others and she absolutely crumbles at even the slightest CONSTRUCTIVE criticism. She needs to find a new foundation.
@LisaSimpsonRules2 жыл бұрын
If anybody wants to check out, it is explained / shown in the character of Gail Wynand on The Fountainhead by Ayn Rand. The book is terribly problematic in many of its plots, characters and attitudes, but Wynan examplifies somebody at the top of their game who thought they are in control but actually they've just been feeding the worst in human nature, so when push comes to shove Wynand realised the public is in control. Nothing to prevent the public to stop buying his newspaper or as in Hanna's case, not following what she is doing.
@SleepySloth27052 жыл бұрын
She should have all of her social media and internet access cut off, sent to a farm in the middle of nowhere to labour for a living and find her humility
@evanthorn4082 жыл бұрын
yeah it looks cakey
@shilohbell15732 жыл бұрын
@@evanthorn408 lol, that too
@Loomzy2 жыл бұрын
@@evanthorn408 lmao💀
@svftmgc3 жыл бұрын
does she realise that her book selling well doesn’t mean it’s necessarily *good*? fifty shades of grey is a best-seller but it also romanticises abusive relationships, portrays bdsm relationships in a terribly disgusting and disrespectful way, and is just generally not well-written at all.
@Fot1133 жыл бұрын
True and vice verse. Although books vary person to person
@jacqlynberkoh21753 жыл бұрын
It's a romantic fanfic for desperate housewives who have the most bland romantic relationship and this is what they internalize as " spicy" relationships when in fact they're just " plain salt and pepper". Ps: I totally agree that not all " bestsellers" or popular books are good. Also just ignore my rant, I get really passionate over books like that.
@nehajha85783 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Even Shane's terrible book was a bestseller.
@calliecocritter92473 жыл бұрын
Off topic, but skam 😏
@alittlekittycat213 жыл бұрын
That’s because it was a fanfiction
@beatricefox9373 жыл бұрын
David Dobrik body shaming Gabbie Hana was honestly so hard to see. No one deserves that and it probably negatively impacted his many fans as well
@mountaindew93 жыл бұрын
I know, I feel so bad for her in those clips, David is such a horrible person and I do actually think he contributed to the sort of overall internet perception that she's a joke when ironically he's the one who deserves a truly terrible reputation. but still somehow he just keeps on going. not to excuse other stuff Gabby's done but damn
@nadirimyers66433 жыл бұрын
It did. In the case of Big Nick because they made fun of his height on the channel so much ppl he didn’t know felt like they could do it in person and I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s the case for all of them and for them most part the fans are kids so it’s not like you can say something back or snap or whatever cus then you look bad cus it’s more then likely a child
@Veggieblondie3 жыл бұрын
Today they are even playing fields and it was just a taste of her own medicine. I don’t feel bad for her because she regularly body shames people.
@limbo5763 жыл бұрын
I'm surprised she didn't make an episode video in her "revenge doc series" about him/ vlog squad.
@mar64883 жыл бұрын
@@limbo576 maybe it's coming?
@gabrielleelizabeth4349 Жыл бұрын
What she did to Jessie is disgusting and unforgivable.
@pixiedust199911 ай бұрын
I'm glad Jessie got out of that cycle that Gabbie tried to keep her in. And now she's happier than ever
@the2ndsaint3 жыл бұрын
I'm wondering if "narcissist" is even strong enough to describe a woman who treats another woman's traumatic experience as her story to tell ad nauseam.
@thedarkcat74843 жыл бұрын
Hey, the reason this situation wasn't described in the video is because it's fucked up to mention it in any context except support for the victim. Very disrespectful of you to listen to someone say in their video "I will not talk about this person's trauma for drama" and then talk about it in the comments. :/
@the2ndsaint3 жыл бұрын
@@thedarkcat7484 I have changed my post accordingly. While the intent was not to be disrespectful I nonetheless see where you're coming from.
@thedarkcat74843 жыл бұрын
@@the2ndsaint That was really respectful and responsible of you, thank you for doing that. The point of your comment still stands. 😊
@aurelej79273 жыл бұрын
Being a narcissist is not only that and is a very specific diagnosis. Just like Gabbie, please don't use this word like that. Maybe Gabbie is one, we can't know and even less say she's one because we don't have nor the information or the formation to say so. Thanks !
@potteryplayground98753 жыл бұрын
@@aurelej7927 There are narcissistic behaviors and then there are narcissists. You don’t need a medical diagnosis to point out narcissistic behavior. However, I don’t think narcissism is “evil.” People with narcissism can do evil things, but not the disease itself. People need to receive help. I agree that people have made the mental disorder synonymous with evil. And that’s wrong. I do believe that Gabbie has narcissism due to her unstable behavior whenever she’s asked to take accountability and or take criticism, even when it’s constructive. I think Joey Graceffa is a good example of that. She refused to take accountability and she couldn’t handle the justified criticism as a result of her behavior.
@nox79193 жыл бұрын
What really gets me about the whole poetry thing is that Gabbie didn't 't go after any creator who just made fun of her book but instead went after Rachel who is so sweet and has a passion for written art. Rachel analyzed and gave Gabbie tips on what would work better-she gave it an effort and Gabbie treated her horridly
@ggundercover36812 жыл бұрын
what gets me is she asked Rachel to fucking review her book, and then attacked her. edit: I wanted Gabbie to choke on a nugget at that moment
@babyconch64592 жыл бұрын
When I watched Rachel’s video for the first time I did believe she was a bit too critical on it. Especially since it was Gabbie’s first poem book. I feel like Rachel critiqued her as more of a consumer of the book instead of a passive way like a teacher would to help their students grow and that sent Gabbie off. Gabbie’s response was over the top tho. And then on top of that, she sent her her 2nd book and cried harder then first time 🤦🏾♀️
@haruhwa2 жыл бұрын
@@babyconch6459 i totally see where you are coming from. but my main issue is, if Rachel was harsh (and she was) why would Gabbie SEND her her second book? that's what i am not able to understand.... and Gabbie said she didn't even watch Rachel's videos. blows my mind
@niamhcorrigan39722 жыл бұрын
@@babyconch6459 reviews of products, which is what it was at that point, are for the consumer, not the creator
@lea88pu2 жыл бұрын
@@haruhwa Maybe she was confident enough to think that if she told that her art was good, it would legitimize her and she could "tell to the haters: I told you so!" 🤦♀️😅 Dunno, just shooting ideas
@biggreenpepperz3 жыл бұрын
it’s scary how gabbie seriously doesn’t see herself as being the problem. how can someone be that delusional?
@MrRealeyesrealize3 жыл бұрын
Trauma. Ppl are products of their environments and how they respond.
@PurpleBaconEater3 жыл бұрын
@Aspen I feel like dismissing negative behaviour as narcissism oversimplifies situations and also oversimplifies narcissism. It’s not just a synonym for “toxic” or for a person you hate. Trauma doesn’t excuse her behaviour but likely plays a pretty significant role because trauma does a lot to shape our ingrained responses to situations, making it hard to see reality for what it is.
@savannahm99433 жыл бұрын
@@PurpleBaconEater oh thank God, someone with a modicum of intellect to contribute. Lol
@savannahm99433 жыл бұрын
@Aspen That’s so dumb because almost every psychologist in this field has posited that Cluster B disorders are rooted in trauma, but please do go on, flaunting your blatant ignorance.
@RockCollector2013 жыл бұрын
@@MrRealeyesrealize while trauma can do this to people, this gabbie Hanna does not seem traumatized. All of this that's happened is a direct result of things she did. She put herself in these situations by not reflecting on herself and watching herself and learning from mistakes. Being made fun of sucks, being insecure sucks, being depressed sucks. She made all this money and made friends she could have tried therapy if she was that traumatized that she lashed out at others and has been called out so many times and has had clarifications on her habits by others enough times to go get help to not trash her entire career. She has been caught in lie after lie after lie, she has been caught being aggressive towards others for nothing if trauma caused all of this she should have put herself on a break and gone to intensive therapy. Many people are traumatized and don't do half of the things gabbie has done.
@ginnys.matthias1818 Жыл бұрын
The story of Icarus is a good reminder, but not a lot of people mention the whole thing. In the story the father does tell him not to fly too close to the sun, but ALSO not to fly too low lest the spray from the waves ruin the wings as well. Its not just a story of hubris, but a cautionary tale of extremes and how both can ruin your wings and cause you to fall. He chose high, but low would just as equally killed him. A good lesson in moderation and balance.
@patriot-hj5vx2 жыл бұрын
If someone told me, "we're not friends" I would feel embarrassed and hurt and I'd probably not try to message that person ever again
@emmetthowell8992 жыл бұрын
Right! Like shame and embarrassment that you ever opened up to that person, where you go red head to toe
@magz88492 жыл бұрын
It's actually a narcissistic trait to keep texting another after the person tries to cut contact. They want to create guilt/ reaction from the other. Pro tip: always let narcissists have the last word, no matter how painful. They will never leave you alone if you reply.
@patriot-hj5vx2 жыл бұрын
@@magz8849 right. I've had the same experience with an ex friend that has borderline personality disorder. Just blow up your phone even when it's really clear you're over it
@asl90242 жыл бұрын
@@magz8849 youre right, leave them to waste at their own reflection. They'll find themselves eventually.. through therapy
@mozorellastick2583 Жыл бұрын
That’s exactly how she feels, she’s embarrassed and hurt and that’s why she acted like that
@Girl95szia3 жыл бұрын
The way Gabbie talks to the camera, is really aggressive. Like her hate seeps into me, like I am the stem of her bane and it's infuriating. She uses her viewers as emotional trashcans, and the viewers flock in to watch this trainwreack situation. This is an abusive, weirdly codependent parasocial relationship. This is not ok.
@animalcrossing7993 жыл бұрын
Yes!! And the fact that most of her fan base (the fan base that’s left anyways) is so young and naive. they most likely have no idea she’s using them and it’s damaging them; this is not a healthy fan-idol relationship. :(
@crieverytim3 жыл бұрын
chance would be a fine thing indeed
@crieverytim3 жыл бұрын
this is outrageous. this is contagious
@lilweedsea3 жыл бұрын
Yeah no her anger and hatred is so contagious, I’ve always noticed I mentally and physically feel ill when I’ve seen her rants bc she’s like her own little plague of rage. Gabbie 19.
@manifestgtr3 жыл бұрын
Yeah and you’re all thoroughly addicted to it…and even *more* addicted to calling it “not ok”.
@Lexicoley18262 жыл бұрын
When I look at Gabbie Hanna, I see a woman who, deep down, actually really hates herself. She continually seeks out validation through whatever little bit of fame she can, hoping to find that miracle something so she can finally be happy. That includes starting drama with people to stay relevant; drama she can’t handle correctly because she’s so insecure with herself. It’s cliche but she’s never going to change until she can learn to love herself, move on from her past of being bullied and just be content with who she is. Unfortunately, social media fame only exacerbates this kind of behavior, in my opinion.
@AC-vf4vz2 жыл бұрын
Yes.
@YouTubeHandleEtc.2 жыл бұрын
She absolutely does, I remember seeing her vines and it always bothered me that almost every vine she made was about how she was fat and gross or a somehow pathetic person and would think to myself, "This isn't really a joke to her", that she wanted validation from her fans cos she really disliked herself. I felt quite bad for her at first, less so now.
@Listening_Books123452 жыл бұрын
I had never even heard of the Vlog Squad or Gabbie bf she was already imploding, but clips from those old vids are really painful at times. Even if the skits were planned and she was aware of all the shit they were going to say, being the butt of the joke day after day could be hurtful to even self-confident ppl. And not to take any of the responsibility off her, I think the vlog squad experience really messed up her relationship with KZbin and social media in general. It gave her a skewed view of how to be successful, with a dash of serious victim complex over how she was treated in her earlier career. Her own insecurities and ego took it from there.
@2-d_in_a_bag2 жыл бұрын
and none of that external validation means anything real unless you believe it too. i always detected hostility in gabbie, even if i was never a follower or just. generally very involved in the youtube celeb scene.
@luvfilippaxoxo2 жыл бұрын
Agreed, she seems to have a HUGE problem with accepting at when she’s at fault (even if its something super small). Which from my experience (as someone who was like that too before) is that; If you can’t accept that you yourself can do something wrong, without ur entire self confidence being destroyed. The u never had self confidence to begin with, only an ego. Which is why people like her can never admit when they aren’t the victim for once. Because their entire “confidence” would be gone in a split second since it was never real to begin with. Which is further proof she probably does not like herself. I used to be like that too (a VERY MUCH milder version without a huge platform tho might i add-) and it is really true that when i started to like myself and accepting myself i also became a better person and could accept my many flaws and work on them. Someone who doesn’t like themselves, cannot. So i 10000% agree with you.
@vixtor7131 Жыл бұрын
1:03:40 if I was Bo burnham and saw one of my first emotional, raw and deepest song being used this way, I would probably cry and move out to mars.
@ibanez8563 жыл бұрын
I randomly clicked on this to see how a public figure I have never heard of ended the career I knew nothing about. Surprisingly entertaining
@NatalionCygirl3 жыл бұрын
Same honestly XD
@disappear_here823 жыл бұрын
Agreed.. I've been watching these all day.. I haven't heard of any of them till now...
@thanos71103 жыл бұрын
Me too. Never heard of her
@Juicelee777ssj3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I have never heard of almost none of the people that she does these deep dives on. These people are absolutely fascinating and terribly broken.
@ericanoel543 жыл бұрын
Same
@puppyhowler2 жыл бұрын
"my book sold well! it was a new york times best seller!!!" who's gonna tell gabby that literally, EVERY BOOK is a new york times best seller?
@brainrich13582 жыл бұрын
She probably bought a bunch of copies to make it seem like a best seller
@takeyourheart12 жыл бұрын
Yeah it seems like literally every book that comes out is a NYT best seller so that title doesn’t mean anything.
@kait74042 жыл бұрын
Was gonna say every single person that has a book says it’s a New York best seller like how many came there be damn?
@len0_0692 жыл бұрын
dammit now I don t have an argument to make my dad buy me books :(
@Lexicoley18262 жыл бұрын
I mean I’m not a Gabbie fan by any stretch of the imagination, but I’d be pretty damn stoked to have a NY Times best selling book under my belt, honestly. Just because it’s a “meaningless/useless title” doesn’t automatically mean it’s something an author wouldn’t or shouldn’t be proud of.
@gordonramslay99553 жыл бұрын
Joey politely explaining why he doesn’t like Hannah while smiling is the most passive aggressive thing I’ve seen and I love it.
@iknowexactlywhoyouare87013 жыл бұрын
passive aggressiveness is so stupid
@-littlemisslugubrious-30333 жыл бұрын
@@iknowexactlywhoyouare8701 it's fun tho.
@breadofloaf85353 жыл бұрын
@@iknowexactlywhoyouare8701 ok
@dreamywhales3 жыл бұрын
Thats not passive agressive, passive agressive would be pretending not to be annoyed while obviously being annoyed. He was being honest
@annieprice59943 жыл бұрын
Grow up Gordon !
@artmusicloveandwords Жыл бұрын
The one thing that breaks my heart the most is for Jessie. She just has had enough, you know she tiiiiiirrd tired. It’s unreal how much she’s had to deal with from Gabbi. 😢
@kcearthkid27002 жыл бұрын
The irony of her calling others a "narcissistic abuser" when she's a textbook example of one...is exhausting
@Sappho_The_Kitten_Tamer2 жыл бұрын
@@Kaiser_MHA as someone with both Bipolar and BPD, I do not claim her 😅 she makes us look even worse then we’re already seen as
@boxcutter42 жыл бұрын
@@Kaiser_MHA People throw serious disorders like NPD and ASPD around like it’s nothing and it‘s actually insane and infuriating
@timat22332 жыл бұрын
@@Kaiser_MHA i absolutely agree. as someone with bpd i almost instantaneously realised that her behaviour and experience is very very similar to someone that may be suffering from bpd
@laurarules36422 жыл бұрын
@@Kaiser_MHA People use the word narcissist far too much online to the point its become redundant and meaningless. Its like when feminists constantly say misogyny , toxic masculinity or proudly declare themselves stunning and brave. When you say something over and over to the point its exhausting it just becomes worthless. You can't always drill false facts into peoples minds just by saying them over and over
@saltpilled2 жыл бұрын
its projection, obviously. narcs refuse to accept that theyre narcs, so they project
@Placker81023 жыл бұрын
Its hard for me to feel sorry for rich people when they don't make as much money as they are used to
@kelsynicole91353 жыл бұрын
Same lmao. I have a hard time feeling empathy for the 1%
@ewetn13 жыл бұрын
It's also a big slap in the face to those who are supporting her. She feels entitled to their consistent unwavering support, yet it doesn't matter to her. It's not enough-- like when 700,000 views is an "attack" the bc it's not 12M she expected-- and yet she feels deeply, unquestionably entitled to it at a minimum. That's a slap in the face if you're one of those 700,000. Hey Gabby, learn to manage your expectations.
@sltslt243 жыл бұрын
Especially when they got famous from copying others
@ladylover11343 жыл бұрын
i feel sorry because money is probably the only thing rich people have if they're willing to throw away so many things that the average person would hold dear
@maebandy3 жыл бұрын
I think the whole industry, hell society encourages people making money to spend it in ways that seem necessary and then you have a life budget that requires that same income to sustain. You have to fire your three assistants, who are your friends, meanwhile your financial advisor has been siphoning money. Even plebs such as us have pressure to get a better phone or 'dress' for the job we want. It takes maturity of a rare sort to ignore that. Not likely possible for someone so hinged on attention.
@Bongobongobongobongo3 жыл бұрын
"Men should be able to communicate their boundaries to women just as much as women should be able to communicate their boundaries to men" YESSS PREACH. NOBODY is talking about this 😒
@snarlajeen59013 жыл бұрын
yes yes yes!
@sarahfromtheneverland90013 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!
@can-ws8hn3 жыл бұрын
@Stud Bomb So, we just going to generalize?
@themissydeyo3 жыл бұрын
I feel like a fair amount of people are now. Not enough, but there are some great people out there really trying to fight for this. We need more. But there are more people talking about this than ever before, and that's a start! Today I've watched 3 KZbin videos and all 3 mentioned this. But we need more people discussing this, for sure.
@themissydeyo3 жыл бұрын
I feel like a fair amount of people are now. Not enough, but there are some great people out there really trying to fight for this. We need more. But there are more people talking about this than ever before, and that's a start! Today I've watched 3 KZbin videos and all 3 mentioned this. But we need more people discussing this.
@pixiedust199911 ай бұрын
Gabbie read one psychology book and was like let me inflect it on the world
@defneguven87644 ай бұрын
Funny thing is, if I recall correctly, she said she was a psychology major? Which makes her ignorance that much more ironic
@YipYipAppa_3 жыл бұрын
Joji really is built different for making a successful transition into music
@lenorem80003 жыл бұрын
I think is because his online persona was obviously a character and very detached from himself, where Gabbie's whole internet presence was always herself. Also, Joji was willing to distance himself from the image of Filthy Frank and move on, where Gabbie is incapable of moving on from anything
@bellap.46233 жыл бұрын
@@lenorem8000 exactly, filthy frank was a character and most people understand that.
@elliejelly88153 жыл бұрын
@@bellap.4623 I’m honestly pretty sure he stopped doing filthy frank partially due to ppl who didn’t realize it was a joke. You gotta respect him for 1, prioritizing his mental health and 2, distancing himself from the really toxic culture he accidentally created
@claravalente40343 жыл бұрын
Bro and Shawn Mendes was a viner??????? Like I keep forgetting that he was on magcon, the both of them + Troye had amazing transitions
@brrosskiee3 жыл бұрын
ksi be like: (-_-)
@objectivelybiased3 жыл бұрын
"Shes not my type." No one: Gabbie: he dEHumAnIzEd mE
@xmorbidminxxx57803 жыл бұрын
Seriously, that shit made me SICK. If some dude had approached her in the same way, asking her WHY WOULDNT YOU SMASH ME, she would be claiming she was harassed or some dumb shit. I cannot STAND her lol
@dongsicheng1703 жыл бұрын
I was like “did we watch the same video? “🤨
@TheCloud7853 жыл бұрын
@@xmorbidminxxx5780 "A time I was sexually harassed!"
@xmorbidminxxx57803 жыл бұрын
@@TheCloud785 EXACTLY lol
@nineteen963 жыл бұрын
💀💀💀 honestly
@alix46783 жыл бұрын
“She won’t let me talk and that is literally manipulation.” “She is gaslighting me!” Duuuuude, STOP using these terms like you’re a therapist. Every other sentence, man. Get a grip. Also, the fact that she kept going at Jessi saying the situation wouldn’t end until Jessi publicly apologized to her was 100% harassment. I can’t imagine not being able to rid someone of my life in the situation their both in. So much unnecessary stress. Just a waste of time and emotion. I also can’t imagine how exhausted Gabbi is mentally having so much hatred towards everyone that she just won’t let go of. It’s crazy
@annapheby50863 жыл бұрын
It’s not only harassment it’s fucking blackmail, she’s the scary one
@MyGreenCrystals3 жыл бұрын
The terms she was throwing around made it sooooo frustrating to listen to their conversation. She keeps diagnosing people left and right. She’s the biggest projector
@Olivetree803 жыл бұрын
She's projecting so hard
@mybrainbroke52793 жыл бұрын
gabbie literally says a subtweet is narcissistic abuse like...no? no it just is not? gabbie thinks anything that isn't adoring praise is narcissistic abuse or gaslighting it's ridiculous
@vdaddy76823 жыл бұрын
@@mybrainbroke5279 that’s how narcissists work they project it onto everyone so they don’t look in the mirror
@ophelias4172 Жыл бұрын
I’m just surprised gabby hasn’t been sued or arrested for harassment. Hopefully, she’s left all the people she hurt alone now because I’m fairly certain if she doesn’t there are going to be legal consequences.
@dani019493 жыл бұрын
I hate, hate, hate her irresponsible use of ADHD. Simone Biles has ADHD and she's really a good example on how to fight for yourself, not this GH person. We need more Simones and less GHs.
@itsme-nt2lj3 жыл бұрын
Olympic athletes like to take medically prescribed amphetamines, the same, as they all have asthma
@dani019493 жыл бұрын
@@itsme-nt2lj FYI, ADHD medications are not amphetamines.
@d6mafia133 жыл бұрын
Multiple ADHD meds are in fact, amphetamines. Ex. Adderall, vyvanse, ritalin, ect
@katc19493 жыл бұрын
@@dani01949 ummmmm what? Most are in fact amphetamine. The main ingredient in Adderall is Amphetamine Salts...
@DizneyRN3 жыл бұрын
@@dani01949 Do you mean they are not equal to Methamphetamine? As in the illicit street drug? There are non-stimulant ADHD meds but most of them are within the amphetamine "family" of drugs.
@Alyzzardo3 жыл бұрын
A room full of men handing a woman diet pills actually infuriated me.
@raythe_first9693 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for her that so many people made fun of her... but that's it
@kittymervine61153 жыл бұрын
also it taught her that being the butt of a joke, made her "accepted" by the "big kids". She needed to get help then. Also, a decent therapist would be "Look YOUR problem started way back then..." and also "YOU can not control others, you can only control YOUR reaction to them."
@24kstar3 жыл бұрын
That was horrific. Sick people to have treated her that way.
@laurend98293 жыл бұрын
I seriously hate David Dobrick and his Pennywise clown laugh.
@kalnyx50693 жыл бұрын
Yea I used to feel bad for her, but she's turned into them if not worse
@lizagachas79383 жыл бұрын
as a person with ADHD, this is disgusting, Gabbie Hanna is using a condition as a way to mask the way she treats others, and the way she treats her viewers. People with ADHD don't act this way, people with this condition don't assault others.
@thextremekittenmdj3 жыл бұрын
yeah I hate her for that. adhd makes my daily life so hard but I try to overcome it, while she's just sitting there using it as an excuse for being a jerk.
@Cognitoman3 жыл бұрын
I have pretty bad adhd, it’s a gift and a curse at the same time
@Eternally_Moon3 жыл бұрын
@@Cognitoman In what way is it a gift??
@yosemitesam95763 жыл бұрын
You really can hyperfocus on the things you love, it basically can make you throw yourself into something in ways normal people simply cannot.
@holagataeang3 жыл бұрын
ADD is what adults have. Only Children get diagnosed with ADHD. :) I too have ADD and my son has ADHD. And yes. Its super fucked up of her to do that and further stigmatize the disorder and everyone diagnosed with it. Ugh!!
@maldita97 Жыл бұрын
I love how you talk about these people like humans with real emotions (because they are). Like no matter how trashy of a human being they are, you never stoop down to that level and you address them like a decent human being. You never bully them or call them names like I just did lmfao. You address their insecurities and that like the rest of us they're complex and... They might just need help. Like maybe they're going through certain mental and personal issues. You point out their mistakes in the nicest way possible so people could understand and they could maybe actually get help. You call out bullying without bullying anyone. Most commentary or tea channels I watch, they always just degrade and bully these people which I think can be really dangerous. I've only discovered your channel literally today and I'm already binge-watching your videos although I don't even know more than half of the people you talked about.
@Rowalps3 жыл бұрын
i've never watched any of Gabbie Hanna's content, but all these clips of her aggressively yelling and angry rants triggers my fight/flight response
@roryslaine78963 жыл бұрын
Same. It's extremely aggravating isn't it?
@AncalimaArashi3 жыл бұрын
Yup, I had to jump some of her ranting and raving cause it was so uncomfortable. I can't handle aggressively yelling men or women frankly.
@sillyd0g3 жыл бұрын
that video she took of her driving where she's like "i do want attention...... PLEASE" gives me so much fucking anxiety bc the two things that freak me out the most are people having random outbursts and people who don't look at the fucking road when they drive
@wilmagregg31313 жыл бұрын
imagine the sterotypical spoiled popular mean girl cry bully and congradulations you know now everything about gabbi hanna
@el50013 жыл бұрын
It's so absurd I can't react any other way than laughing
@lenabeans2 жыл бұрын
Gabbie: "bc you should have never made that private conversation public!!" Also Gabbie: shares peoples personal and confidential info online over and over
@Triforcefilms3 жыл бұрын
"It seems when people realized she had no musical talent, it really effected her music career" .... sentences that only apply to KZbinrs;-)
@LuciferXFallen2903 жыл бұрын
Affected
@Triforcefilms3 жыл бұрын
@@LuciferXFallen290 your mission to correct all the grammar and spelling in the KZbin comments is commendable, if a bit of an uphill battle.... I wish you the best of luck🙄
@LuciferXFallen2903 жыл бұрын
@@Triforcefilms look I am tired of people saying effected when they mean affected. How the hell do you get those two mixed up?
@LuciferXFallen2903 жыл бұрын
@@Triforcefilms it does make a difference because you are encouraging bad grammar
@Triforcefilms3 жыл бұрын
@@LuciferXFallen290 Pedantic. Did you look it up? I'm Encouraging you to learn what's the difference between something relevant to mention, and something unimportant in the communication process. Nobody CARES about grammar in the KZbin comments! This isn't college English literature 101. If you understand the words I'm saying, the rest is meaningless pedantry. If anything, you're impeding communication at this point. Without question you knew what I was saying. You wanna have meaningful connections? Converse about interesting and poignant things? Learn and grow through topical debate and find new ways of thinking? Drop the super specific o.c.d. grammar ticks. Gain perspective. Especially in the fricken KZbin comments where most people cant even spell their names.
@4thDan Жыл бұрын
Rachel’s review all through was VERY comprehensive and explanatory! She even pulled examples of what direction some of those poems should have taken.
@vanessamcastellon3 жыл бұрын
Wow.. those clips from David’s old vlogs made my jaw drop. I can’t imagine the mental toll from having people say such terrible things about you even if they were jokes. I don’t support Gabbie but I do feel for her in that aspect, I can only imagine how that affected her self worth
@Davi-sprt2 жыл бұрын
I agree, people can get so lost in this world after being weighed down by it.
@martymcfly420mph62 жыл бұрын
Yeah that was pretty messed up. I never knew this Gabbie character but she was actually pretty hot back then with long hair, yet they were making her feel like some wildabeast.
@nopi-p2 жыл бұрын
I think that's why I never got into the Dobrik craze, it felt like watching content made for bullies by bullies
@suziecreamcheese2112 жыл бұрын
Her self worth is like the economy today, highly inflated.
@raegannefulwood26142 жыл бұрын
My sister listens to all his new podcasts and honestly him now still makes me feel weird. listening to some of the things he says just doesn't sit right in my mind
@Emma-zc5jm3 жыл бұрын
Her using "you guys want me to be crazy so I'll be crazy" is such a bullshit cop-out too. You don't act that way online unless there's something deeply wrong.
@chi-hannguyen57063 жыл бұрын
Fr. She really said "lemme use self-fulfilling prophecy, that'll show them", but no Gabbie, that's just how you really are.
@MegaBlair0073 жыл бұрын
That's classic narcissism: "oh everyone is calling me a villain, i guess i'll go ahead and be one. Is this what y'all wanted? Look what y'all made me do"
@gablison3 жыл бұрын
It's up to you to act as how you want to be treated, it's not up to other people to treat you the way you want to be treated if you haven't shown that you deserve to be treated that way.
@Emma-zc5jm3 жыл бұрын
@@gablison EXACTLY
@foreverNwonder3 жыл бұрын
The whole “I’ll be the bad guy” rant GH went on seems to me like a bastardization of Angelina Jolie’s speech in ‘Girl, Interrupted’.
@chundychang2 жыл бұрын
As unfunny as Gabbie herself is, that one vine of Alx James being like "whoever told you you should be a singer is not your friend" got a big snort out of me.
@leslie12612 жыл бұрын
Wattabug ✌🏼
@King15592 жыл бұрын
And the irony that she did try to be a singer after all
@GrainneMhaol2 жыл бұрын
She's not untalented and showed massive improvement when she started listening to people like Tristian Paredes, who coincidentally tried to coach James Charles too. Unfortunately, like the latter, her narcissism is her downfall. She continues to self-sabotage and somehow feel vindicated. She's ruining her life and will always feel like the victim
@tubester45672 жыл бұрын
LOL at the "journalist"(who wrote the story on Gabby Hanna referenced in this video) saying criticism of women is misogynistic, and men dont get criticized or destroyed. Hello!! Has she heard of cancel culture?? Where 99% of the victims are MEN!!! Not just KZbin, but across media, sport, entertainment, politics, 99% of people cancelled and silenced are men.
@Sappho_The_Kitten_Tamer2 жыл бұрын
@@GrainneMhaol she doesn’t know how to sing, and that’s perfectly fine. She just needs to stop acting like she’s the shit tho when she clearly isn’t.
@blacksheep1924 Жыл бұрын
I hate being involved in drama, but I sure love hearing about it.
@blacksheep1924 Жыл бұрын
@@Fidel.Costco exactly
@polxrize75762 жыл бұрын
it’s so interesting how nearly ALL of her conflicts are with women and queer men. she does everything in her power to bring down these people and dismiss their opinion but as soon as it’s a man (Kurtis L.), “everyone deserves to be heard” “his experience is valid”… truly disgusting
@rawrxddaily2 жыл бұрын
Other than Ricegum, but he’s a POC, so I truly think she only rides for and respects white men.
@mavvvee39312 жыл бұрын
Or david bobbie, he literally belittled her in front of all of their “friends” yet she never clapped back at him
@alextric28122 жыл бұрын
I’m not sure you can say that when she’s had issues with ricegum and dom. Her issues touch all genders and sexualities it seems so
@ginao68102 жыл бұрын
I think you’re right. Yes she has had conflict with a few straight men, but she still seems to have different rules of engagement for straight dudes, and women & queer folk. Internalised misogyny is a bitch
@PyxeledGenesis2 жыл бұрын
@@alextric2812 Fair point, but at the same time, there have been far less straight men than women and queer people who Gabbie started drama with. Anyone can be a target, but she clearly has some bias.
@primroseprom3 жыл бұрын
“Everyone has a voice and everybody deserves to be heard.” Until that person is Rachel Oates. Then Gabbie not only doesn’t listen to the criticism Rachel’s given, but she then goes on to harass Rachel, misrepresent Rachel’s critiques, and sics what’s left of her fans on her in an attempt to bully her off of her platforms. It’s my firm belief that the only reason Gabbie heard out Curtis and not Rachel was because Curtis was trying to discredit Jessi. And even if Jessi was Gabbie’s friend as the time, so long as Curtis wasn’t coming for Gabbie specifically, she couldn’t give a shit.
@ollympian_art3 жыл бұрын
"Everyone has a voice and everyone deserves to be heard" until that voice has something bad to say about Gabbie Hanna, basically.
@Roadent12413 жыл бұрын
And SHE ASKED for Rachel's words. ¬_¬ Don't yell at someone for something you asked for!! Who do you THINK will be seen as the bad guy??? Why is Gabbi like this? ¬_¬
@imaniblack52913 жыл бұрын
Literally and it’s not like Rachel was bullying gabbie it was literally constructive criticism
@melr.67383 жыл бұрын
Because Curtis is a man and she obviously has a lot of internalised misogyny. She always comes for women more aggressively and always seeks male validation :/
@primroseprom3 жыл бұрын
@@imaniblack5291 Gabbie (and Jimmy Snow, a commentator who, according to him, used to be incredibly close friends with Rachel until he chose Gabbie over her) accuses Rachel of not being constructive with her criticism and even if that were true, which it’s not, constructive criticism isn’t something Gabbie is entitled to.
@Ellbat3 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad the algorithm is pushing your content more, your videos are always so well researched and thought-out
@cruelworldhappymind3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much bb 🥺💜 trying my best, really appreciate you noticing!
@snakes73033 жыл бұрын
I agree, Im really glad this popped into my recommendations because damn
@danameyy3 жыл бұрын
yesss!! I only just discovered your channel a month ago and I watch your videos all the time to keep me entertained at work ❤️
@titajanetgil3 жыл бұрын
Hello 😊
@magicmike41693 жыл бұрын
How is it well researched when she only shows 1 side of the story while claiming to be "unbiased". She also calls Gabbie a trend follower, while also saying she only appeals to a niche crowd. This video is filled with contradictions and should not be considered thought-out if it shows recent events surrounding this situations where showing Gabbie's side would be easy.
@virgofairy88 Жыл бұрын
Wow. Gabbie is truly a real life Icarus. Hope we can get a part 2 after her manic episode incident back in September-there was a lot of coverage and I think we all would like to hear what you think. Great video as always. ❤
@annieothername3 жыл бұрын
This is a side note I guess, but the more I learn about David Dobrik, the more weirded out I am. They just taunt Gabbie even though she makes it clear she is unstable and has major insecurities around her body image. I mean, she lets full out strangers know…and yet her “friends” post it online and remain secure in their KZbin position. I can see why Gabbie replays those strategies, it works for David and that’s seriously scary
@gacktist003 жыл бұрын
yeah I never watched vlog squad videos, and these clips makes me sooo upset!! I only heard people praise them back then(when Trisha drama with Jason).. why..? why people even liked them??
@bluevio26733 жыл бұрын
@@gacktist00 exactly!! I dont like gabbie but no one deserves to be taunted about their body image, that is so sad.
@areli62953 жыл бұрын
It's crazy to think that when I was a fan of David that I thought it was a funny joke that they all were in on,,,
@RoyalRoses3 жыл бұрын
But AGAIN, Thats THE ONLY BEHAVIOR SHE SAID DOESN'T BOTHER HER. She said she WON'T condemn it because she doesn't care!!!! When everyone wanted her to talk about the vlog squad, she said no because none of that hurt her!! Then calls JESSIE HER ABUSER?? What!?!?! SHE'S UNREAL. She doesn't care that her friends bullied her because she is a bully and bullies her OWN friends. Why would a narc condemn behavior she actively engages in?
@RoyalRoses3 жыл бұрын
@@gacktist00 UM... GABBIE HERSELF STOOD UP FOR THEM. What!?!
@lorizeppelina22863 жыл бұрын
I especially liked the "Dying Channel" section for showing the fundamental way she misunderstood what was going on with the decline in views- your explanation of her change of genres, and then the stark contrast of her diatribe of her "shadow banning" and how she put all this time and money into what was basically a failed business strategy, but then her reaction amounting to HOW DARE EVERYONE NOT LOVE HER. So incongruous!
@oomay19253 жыл бұрын
The way David Drobrik would just straight up insult his "friends" for his KZbin content is truly disgusting. I hope he keeps getting called out. It's not okay.
@SirDeanYawl3 жыл бұрын
yeah he’s a complete psychopath, chills me to bone.
@kat32173 жыл бұрын
Yeah Wtaf he was really mean. I’ve never liked gabby but holy shit that was awful
@Jusmeh3 жыл бұрын
How does one makes millions without hurting anyone, in fact helping them???? Please someone figure this out I've tried to but I'm just not smart enough. Serious ❓❓❓
@kokichibestboi3 жыл бұрын
@@Jusmeh you don't
@HH-bj8nt3 жыл бұрын
Gabbie really needs to address THAT
@budwhite9591 Жыл бұрын
I forget where the quote came from but it goes something like: “ social media has given people a platform to say things, that would usually have gotten them a punch to the face “
@melanietimms95853 жыл бұрын
This is the part that really gets me - if she made a video about how poorly she was treated by the vlog squad I don't think there's any objective person who'd disagree. Heck, I don't like her at all anymore but she really was the one being hurt in those situations and it was disgusting. Yet she's latched onto all of these other incidents with people who really never did anything to her and it's just.. wild honestly. Very interesting the way her mind works that she genuinely believes what she's saying.
@edaspeaks3 жыл бұрын
She wants to be the oppressor to feel like she belongs with the winning side as a way to cope with her insecurities and dangerously low self-esteem. She might actually commit suicide before addressing her shortcomings and facing her true self to embrace her real identity.
@shortstackgames3 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I was thinking. Everyone was literally taking advantage of her very apparent (and publicly known bc of her vids) insecurities to have something to post. Ngl, I genuinely despise Gabbie, but it was awful the way she's treated
@melissaa23693 жыл бұрын
Creepshow art alleges in a voice note to her former friend, Camelia, that Gabbie did make a David Dobrik video. I'd be so interested to see it.
@am-zj4mq3 жыл бұрын
@@melissaa2369 I wouldn’t believe anything creepshow says, she’s a creep just like her username.
@am-zj4mq3 жыл бұрын
@@melissaa2369 I wouldn’t believe anything she says, she’s a creep just as her username says.
@wonderlust13083 жыл бұрын
Regarding her poetry book and Rachel Oates around the 50 minute mark: if Gabbie only takes criticism from intellectual and professional artists with successful careers, why does she care so much and hold a grudge on the opinions of people who don’t fall under that category? If she doesn’t care or respect their opinion, why is she talking about it?
@ANME1rocker3 жыл бұрын
It's funny that Jimmy Snow said he "only takes criticism from professionals" in his now deleted "non-apology" video. No wonder he sided with Gabbie instead of Rachel.
@trashketchup14973 жыл бұрын
And if she “didn’t care about her opinion” then why did she send her the book and ask her to review it lmaooo 🤦♀️🤦♀️
@Coolgravy3 жыл бұрын
@@ANME1rocker Jimmy Snow as in Mr. Atheist?? I haven't watched his stuff (or Atheist content really) regularly in about a year. Wouldn't have pinned him as someone who would side with Gabbie. I guess we don't really know who we watch, eh?
@karlat78803 жыл бұрын
It’s her reactions to everyone that really cause her downfall IMO. Everyone is flawed, but you can generally recover by humbly acknowledging and sincere apologies
@cruelworldhappymind3 жыл бұрын
I completely agree
@OpqHMg3 жыл бұрын
Yeah pretty sure the public abuse of smaller creators and r-pe apologism play a role too
@joyous22483 жыл бұрын
Not as flawed as the obligatory hysterical jealous woman like you. Your cycle is 28 days out of the month, you should not have the right to vote anymore.
@sweetstreetjustice3 жыл бұрын
@@joyous2248 Hi, Gabbie!
@joyous22483 жыл бұрын
@@sweetstreetjustice stay out of women's business.
@sorv_gvl Жыл бұрын
I used to watch her for a short time in middle and the beginning of high school, and you're completely correct in saying her pinning anyone she doesn't like as a "narcissistic abuser" is and was extremely harmful. Her storytimes always claimed the unnamed other was an abuser, and that skewed my view of what abuse was to the point that some things that were actual abuse didn't come off as such, and vice versa. Throwing around words like that is so, so harmful and I'm glad I stopped watching her a long time ago.
@roses.91812 жыл бұрын
Gabbie: **stubs her toe** Gabbie: "The table literally attacked me today. It just jumped up and assaulted me. The table is a narcissistic abuser because it denies to me that it hurt me even though I called the table out on it"
@briannalaberge2 жыл бұрын
that’s so funny and the perfect way to describe how she perceives situations
@brandenclark14852 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry but what the fuck is this stupid analogy?
@brandenclark14852 жыл бұрын
@@Lavenderlove-y6u you're so delusional on so many levels
@Loomzy2 жыл бұрын
Whats funny is this sounds exactly what she would say in real life lmfao💀
@brandenclark14852 жыл бұрын
@@Loomzy no, it doesn't
@VintagePonytail3 жыл бұрын
What's wild is that Gabbie's defense is she wasn't aware Jessi was pregnant. As if there weren't hundreds of people for weeks commenting under her social media referring to the fact that Jessi is pregnant. She knew she was pregnant and she still released the series.
@Andesz2x43 жыл бұрын
imo it shouldn't matter if someone is pregnant or not.
@sabs54413 жыл бұрын
@@Andesz2x4 Curious: Did GH spew that shit about JS being pregnant not mattering on her Patreon? That seems to be the new battle cry of her stans., lately. Also, JS being pregnant does matter for the record, stress, especially excessive stress, can hurt the baby, FFS.
@Andesz2x43 жыл бұрын
@@sabs5441 I'm not a gh Stan, I only follow the drama vids made about her. I'm just kinda sick of pregnant people acting like they're more important because they are carrying a baby
@pearline46843 жыл бұрын
@@Andesz2x4 do you think they are more important or maybe they just beed more care because their body is producing a human child that can easily be damaged because of stress or other factors mentally and physically.
@kataklysmus74603 жыл бұрын
@@Andesz2x4 when someone is pregnant they're more vulnerable, mentally and physically (not to mention mental issues can lead to physical health worsening so that's a double combo) and their health is tied to their baby. it's not about them being more valuable but more fragile too
@TheRealAsteria3 жыл бұрын
“It feels like I’m always dishing out apologies, and I’ve never once received one, and that to me feels a little chaotic.” That’s because apologies are not transactional; it’s not a two-way street. When you owe someone and apology, they owe you nothing in return. Any turmoil that results from that is self-inflicted.
@kylemiller24143 жыл бұрын
Apologies are self motivated. Clearly she thought it was a group problem so everyone should take responsibility and follow her lead. But spite is more important to some than burying hatchets. Which she proved by continuing to talk on it publicly after it was dull and inert.
@recoveringintrovert7173 жыл бұрын
This is something Trisha Paytas doesn't understand either
@Fot1133 жыл бұрын
This
@PoptartParasol3 жыл бұрын
You apologize mostly for yourself, as closure and admittance that you did something wrong and to give closure to the people you have hurt. But like you said, for her it seems like it should be transactional. In a way, I understand why some people would be annoyed when others have not said sorry for the wrongs they have done towards you. (Which is probably what she meant) But that's honestly on them and you need to figure out how to move forward from that and better yourself despite it and not just keep harrassing people as a result.
@dianas75493 жыл бұрын
I always say, "A true apology is one you make, because you truly feel bad for what you did, and you never expect anything back."
@mincentprice1041 Жыл бұрын
Just found your channel and I subbed You handled this very tastefully, and without trying to attack Gabbie. About 5 years ago she did several videos ranting and trying to get a rental car agent fired for charging her the extra money she agreed to in her contract, related to the return of the car after a trip home for the holidays. She lost it on the next 3 videos, and was spewing such hate for this poor employee - I never watched again. I went to her channel to forget about the world and laugh for a few minutes. Graveyard Girl did the same thing. Their channels became their therapist and the comments started to get mean. We're all human - but you can't make content out of your mental breakdown and not ruin your successful career. A 6 month hiatus to recover and re-invent their channels, would have made all the difference. Cheers!!
@rebeccageorgesisto89652 жыл бұрын
50-year-old writer and media junkie here who finds it necessary to weigh in. My two daughters, ages 24 and 21, first introduced me to your videos. I am beyond impressed with your research, writing, and presence. I subscribe to hundreds of content producers but you are the only one whose content produces a notification/bell ring. You’re a class act and lovely person. Keep doing what you do (please) because media needs people like you. Lastly, I see this was posted several months ago and you are likely elbows deep in motherhood. I wish you all the very best.
@aloeleaf Жыл бұрын
You are lovely!
@rebeccageorgesisto8965 Жыл бұрын
@@aloeleaf I mean every word. Now retired, if you ever need a volunteer (ie, free) researcher who is both an information junkie and has 25+ years experience in this area-to work in the shadows-you know where to find me. The more random and bizarre the topic, the happier I am!
@alim.9801 Жыл бұрын
This is such a sweet comment, I love it 💜 hope you're doing well too!!
@Rose-ry6gm Жыл бұрын
This is one of the most wholesome comments I’ve seen on yt
@novalinnhe Жыл бұрын
This comment is so sweet! I hope you are doing well too, wherever you are in the world
@KyraBowlby3 жыл бұрын
PSA everyone: please please please stop using mental health as an excuse to treat people around you like crap. 💖 people genuinely struggle and are afraid to speak out about their struggles. Respect is key 💜
@sofiapatrao27963 жыл бұрын
THIS THIS! It also harms those who have this illnesses by other peoples Notion of it!
@lucyla99473 жыл бұрын
Exactly there's a difference between saying that your mental health may have played a role in your decisions but that doesn't make it okay and apologizing, and just saying it's not my fault I have (insert mental health condition here). One is the better route the other is just wrong.
@UncomfortableShoes3 жыл бұрын
Agreed. I suffered from severe depression for years and it got so bad I was contemplating and planning my suicide. I never treated people like crap. How I treated people and my mental health were separate issues.
@KyraBowlby3 жыл бұрын
UncomfortablePanda I relate 🤍 I hope you realize how important you are and I hope you know that so many more people care about you then you realize. 🤍
@UncomfortableShoes3 жыл бұрын
@@KyraBowlby Thank you! This was over a decade ago. Now I’m married and have two beautiful kids. Total 180 in life. I still look back on that time in my life and realize if I’d gone through with it, I’d have missed out on all this. So grateful I didn’t.
@hs.16533 жыл бұрын
Gabbie ruined her career because she became exhausting to watch. She scared away every casual viewer she had by spiralling and making non-stop videos about drama.
@ameilioracryptos52983 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@annaaa76713 жыл бұрын
Yes honestly her constant screaming is so upsetting
@up4rent3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@txkj73 жыл бұрын
she is also so hyperactive in an aggressive way when she expresses herself. it looks childish
@plansforus Жыл бұрын
Never came across your channel until today and I have never seen a better, more detailed, obviously researched and informed video on a subject without attacking or being malicious. You are a wonderful, intelligent speaker and I’m excited to subscribe and see what other topics you’ve delved into! 😊
@deepSea__3 жыл бұрын
The phone call also upsets me because when Gabbie says Jessi can’t make an accusation without showing proof to her, but throughout the ENTIRE conversation, Gabbie did make accusations and when Jessi asked for proof, Gabbie said she couldn’t show Jessi the proof
@brooklynnbailey43563 жыл бұрын
Right!? She just kept saying she didn’t remember and kept bringing up her “memory issues” and mental health issues as an excuse for things she said and did and didn’t want to admit to
@ninacael2 жыл бұрын
gabbie's downfall is and always will be her pathological need to have the last word, even when she's DEAD wrong. her incessant need to hash things out and revisit them is what brought so much attention to issues that could have been resolved with a sincere apology and respectful silence and she could have saved her career. look at her now - no sane successful person, influencer or partner or brand will want to work or associate with her ever again.
@zackjohn17173 жыл бұрын
Gabbie literally was gaslighting Jessie because she feels like she can bully her into making an apology video trying to force her to lie in order to clear her name and when she says no she threatens defamation and “torturous interference” lawsuits. She’s seriously out of touch with reality and the definition of a narcissist.
@Doctor-Infinite3 жыл бұрын
@@null6955 Hi Gabbie Hanna Edit: Holy Crap she deleted her comment I frickn can’t XD
@fuzzace60443 жыл бұрын
How? Please explain :)
@christinprinzhorn38333 жыл бұрын
@@Doctor-Infinite what did she say?
@user-pt3uu4wq3i3 жыл бұрын
Also why does gabbie talk so damn fast? How do you have a real conversation with someone who talks like that and adds all the therapist lingo when clearly they aren't qualified to do so?
@mivlittle55123 жыл бұрын
@@Doctor-Infinite what did she say?!??
@rachelsester4304 Жыл бұрын
I've never seen someone talk about internet tea in such a calm way. Thank you for always remaining respectful.
@sugarbunny6662 жыл бұрын
It’s so gross to see her throw around words like abuse and narcissist, I was raised be a narcissist sociopath and abused myself and it’s not a label to be used lightly
@spOOkytimes2 жыл бұрын
Sorry you went through that. I am also a survivor and this video was hard to watch because the clips of Gabbie talking to people were extremely triggering. This is exactly how I was treated and talked to for most of my life and it is not okay. I completely believe the people who are saying she is harassing them and scaring them. It's scary knowing someone like this, because you will never get through to them. When you try to cut ties, they punish you relentlessly and harass you.
@niklasmolen47532 жыл бұрын
The little I have seen and know is that she is part of a group / type of KZbinr who is very selfish and has an unhealthy need for attention. They all seem to have mental problems, because their behavior is far from normal and nothing a normal person does.
@ShortStuffMegs212 жыл бұрын
That's one of my biggest issues with her. She just constantly threw out buzzwords at people to try to make them "awful people" while completely ignoring her own actions. She's just a gross person.
@ShortStuffMegs212 жыл бұрын
@@Kaiser_MHA Yes!!!! Completely devaluing words and using them like adjectives for any bad behavior.
@savionmcqueen89442 жыл бұрын
@@spOOkytimes yeah i also grew up with that, and it's nice to see that people do notice these behaviors and red flags and dislike her. A lot of my life I grew up thinking it was my fault or it was only me who noticed these traits, but seeing everyone's reactions to how she is really makes me feel validated.
@lizzfrmhon3 жыл бұрын
I notice several recurring themes here: -People wanting gabby to leave them alone but she continues to harass and rehash -Gabby doing awful stuff then excusing her behavior one way or another and then wondering why people don’t like her anymore - people mentioning that Gabby is insecure so acts out and blows things out of proportion
@yyg46323 жыл бұрын
agreeedd. especially the 3rd one
@lynnkayee10153 жыл бұрын
Gabbie 100% feels like that type of girl whose sleepovers ended with the other kids calling their parents in the middle of the night just begging to be rescued...I mean picked up.
@jessicamessicaYT3 жыл бұрын
💯💯
@thunnusobesus92703 жыл бұрын
@tasha bourbonnas not at YOUR sleepovers tho right? 😂
@ARedMagicMarker3 жыл бұрын
We've all known a girl like that. o_o
@cecilia49473 жыл бұрын
she'd also be like "if you don't do (whatever) you will have to leave my house"
@europianbob3 жыл бұрын
I use to be that girl. It was only because the parent was abusive to my friend!