TEACHING IS HARD…super tough week at school, opening up about the struggles of teaching

[@belle_thegoldiegirl]

You have to hang in there for 5 years. You grow SO MUCH between those years. I taught for 30 years and just this May I retired.Read classroom management forums. Even in year 29, I was learning about classroom management. You have to know your kids. Some kids don’t even hear positive redirection- they tune that out. SOMETIMES, you have to be firm: make a statement about behavior expectations and possible consequences and swiftly follow through as soon as the first one tries you. And they WILL test you! It’s hard to do that when you know they’ve had a hard life. But if you don’t help them understand what behaviors are acceptable and how they should respond, their entire life will be hard! We owe to our kids to show them the right way in a firm, loving way. Whew… that’s a little long! I wish you well! Hang in there! It does get better.

[@madisonleighmaryan]

Thank you for this comment!

[@belle_thegoldiegirl]

OOPS!!! 😳 I responded before the video was over! That was a great idea to start the next day off like you did! You set the tone for the day. And it sure is exhausting!! Take care of you! It will be worth it one day!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@johnlopez3996]

I agree with you. This is my 29th year in the profession and every year is different when it comes to students. Even veteran teachers get nervous during observations and I wager that many of us go home and light candles. When it comes to teaching, you have to find the perfections within the imperfections. Sometimes it just boils down to chemistry with students.

[@LottyDotty05]

I needed this. ❤

[@jazminreyna5580]

Being a teacher and more when you are teaching kids that age can be really mentally and physically consuming, you're not alone! My kids sometimes absorb all my energy and all days are different. That's the thing of being a teacher, you have to deal with problems not only in your class but the things they bring out from home, IT'S DIFFICULT. And it's okay to say it, we are humans too, we feel exhausted and we also want a five minutes break like them. I totally relate to you, better days will come, trust me 💜

[@krisg78]

Madison I just feel your heart in this video! I’m a teacher as well and I would always have people tell me “stop caring so much, you will burn out”. While that’s true to a degree, it’s also what makes a genuine teacher that kids will remember. Also the rollercoaster of bad days followed by like the best days ever is so real even 8 years into it 😄Let go and let GOD and Jesus take that wheel bc I’m done driving sometimes Lol. Keeping being you 💕

[@terpsguy2623]

I remember 5 years ago when I was in second grade and I wasn’t the best of students. I appreciate everything teachers do!

[@mdancer26]

Madison, this is a reminder that you are strong, you are awesome, and you can do this! You are such a wonderful teacher and you inspire me to be a teacher! Love your channel! 💖

[@cheyennescott2173]

First I want to say how much I adore you Madison! Second of all, I know its hard when you're getting observed like that but remember a quiet, orderly classroom means that no learning is getting done. Your principal, admin, and even future teachers like me want to see those management skills. Seeing you put out those fires is part of being a teacher. No one even your principal or whoever was observing you can ignore that fact. Keep it up! You're doing good! Also, I am not sure exactly when this is being filmed but we did just have a full moon! I know some people think it's superstitious and crazy but I am a full believer in the moon affecting moods and behaviors! We are made of water! HANG IN THERE!

[@crystalvelez8862]

I think you are so encouraging. When children struggle in areas that are hard and there teacher becomes a listening ear you are being used to encourage them. You never know which child might carry your words heavily in there heart. I have childhood memories of being so appreciative because someone said something to me that encourged me. Your awesome Ms. Cambell and an amazing teacher ❤️

[@gracewoodfarms7552]

Totally relate. High school teacher here and I’m constantly running around, tending to this and that. High school kids can be needy. Lol. And only getting to eat one thing from your lunch/sit for 5 minutes- solidarity sister. People have NO idea how draining and exhausting this profession can be. I’m so glad you shared this with us. Hugs to you!

[@bpvo2191]

I am an elementary music teacher who just came back to work after my mom died. I have been struggling for weeks to get back in a flow and know exactly what you mean about having so much planned but having to spend so much time putting out fires. I'm also a second year teacher like you! Just think about all those kids that light up when they see you! I think every teacher is struggling, in some aspect this year. We got this. We can't have nothing but picture-perfect days! We will have better days. I know this comment was all over the place, but yeah

[@EmilyinElementary]

Thank you so much for always being honest ❤️ I am currently in school for my bachelor's degree in education and recently became a substitute. There are so many little things that happen behind the scene that people don't see, teachers are more than a person in the room they can be lifesavers and can truly change a child's life in so many ways. So thank you once again for being honest, I love watching your videos and look forward to when a new video comes out! Keep up the great work and also remember to take care of yourself as well ❤️

[@kristinahess3713]

Thank you so much for this. It’s my first year and you described my exact thoughts and feelings. It’s exhausting - I’m constantly redirecting too and feel like there is never a solid good lesson! It’s super frustrating but I’m so happy to know I’m not alone♥️

[@johnlopez3996]

With parent/teacher conferences coming soon, you could give each student a list of behavioral and academic goals for him or her to work on for the next couple of works. Share that with parents to let them know as well. October is always a rough month because it is very long and there are so many tasks to complete. When teachers hear about how their students' lives are and what they have to deal with, we experience a form of secondary trauma. We are still in a pandemic and we are all in some type of recovery be it work related or home related. I am sending you a hug. Things will get better. Take care.

[@djthereplay]

Hit it John !!

[@shanhover5080]

You are an amazing teacher. You care so much for your students and I am so proud of you for staying strong. There are so many good and bad days, and its tough but you got this!!

[@laceyschmidt5783]

I love your KZbin account! I am a sophomore in college getting my degree in early childhood education! In my classes we are talking about the challenging behaviors and how to manage that. I think it is so important to be real with your students and focus on what they need rather than getting through the schedule. Also I am currently watching the bachelorette too! :)

[@chamroeunhun87]

You are the best teacher ever don’t give up girly🫶

[@briannadamico6752]

Thank you so much for sharing both sides 💖. As a teacher myself sometimes it’s hard seeing only positives online because I wonder why it’s just me who has some bad days! THANK YOU! You are doing great and care so much!

[@danielle7651]

I know it can be hard when you find out your students are dealing with difficult situations at home. The best you can do is know they can come to you with anything and be their safe space. 💜

[@daisydukes8252]

That’s what parents are for-none of your business.

[@ejo4squared01]

I was just thinking that you always seem to have it all together and never let your emotions get to you, so thank you for sharing that it’s not always easy.

[@Kk-us9qi]

Don’t worry too much about your observation. During mine I had my principal in the back sitting at my desk and one of my students was bullying another while I was across the room helping another student. She called security and wrote up the bully student incident. I was pretty embarrassed and I told her I felt bad because I didn’t know it was happening and didn’t know how long it was going on for. 😞 I got an excellent observation still. Things happen don’t worry too much about it.

[@Alexsquatrito]

Madison i just love your vlogs. I love how honest and real you are. Teaching is hard! It’s not just cute & fun lesson plans. The more I’m subbing and just in classrooms in general, the more I’m realizing that! You’re going great, we’re here for ya! ❤️ i wish more people posted videos like this when i was starting out with my degree!

[@caitlynthompson2861]

Thank you so much for showing the bad parts of teaching too! So many teachers just post the positive parts but it’s so helpful to see the real struggles that happen too! Love your vlogs!! 💕

[@mbalikhumalo6046]

I love your teaching and real talk videos. Started teaching English overseas as an English instructor coz didn't do a degree in education, but I have a BA Honours degree in English Literature and 3 years of university tutoring experience. I love love teaching BUT it's so so hard. And it just takes more from a person to become a great teacher. Love your videos!

[@hhnassar12]

Been watching ur videos & I love them so much! I’m in the process of getting my bachelors degree in language arts and I’m halfway done. I can’t wait to become a teacher and watching your videos makes me more excited to become a teacher ♥️ thank u for all that u do! You’re an amazing teacher!

[@Summerisswaggy]

That’s nice

[@brendaduran1428]

I’m going into my 3rd year of teaching & I completely get the exhaustion! I have 24 students & some days I almost feel like crying 🥲

[@waterfield1335]

Thank you for being so real and relatable! I just found you today on Instagram! You have me laughing so much with your reels! This vlog was awesome! I teach 2nd grade too and am going through so many of the same things! My teacher partner had I had to totally reset last week for the same Mid October issues you were talking about! You are not alone…and thanks to you, I know I’m not either! Thank you! Hang in there!

[@pineapplegal0304]

Girllllll! This made my day! I’m a 4th grade teacher and yesterday I got observed too while my kids were being wild haha. The fact that this happens to other teachers makes me feel SO much better😊

[@ninavanstiphout4930]

I had the exact same thing a week ago!!

[@LottyDotty05]

Chiming in. I had an administrator walk in during indoor recess and observe me while my room was in chaos. Lol 😆

[@OneCincyFarmer66]

The cheese on chips must be a 90’s baby thing!! I did that all the time. I really enjoy your videos. I am trained as a teacher, HS History, but went a different way. Now I manage grain elevators and operate locomotives. I sometimes think about going back which is always an option but I feel all your emotions. I didn’t think I would make it teaching, emotionally or financially.

[@jas_b5882]

I think your videos are so inspiring! I’ve always dreamed of being a teacher and it’s great to see what you do as a teacher

[@maitalbainkinuan1433]

I love your vlog so much!I am from Taiwan! After I saw your videos, I realized that even we have different culture, we have same struggles as a teacher! But like you said "I love what I do." Thank you so much!

[@magdalenad527]

Thanks Madison for being so real. From a middle school teacher in Austria with a fall break, I hope you survive without one :(

[@charlizepierce]

we have a trunk or treat for the whole time around our square where out city hall is, the kids love it and so does every one in town!

[@shiannejoy512]

Girl, I am going through the exact thing in my class. I need to have more of a positive mindset, because I was been addressing it with such a negative perspective

[@amyes22]

Wow girl, you’re a rockstar. Just those little clips of the “come to the carpet” routine it’s evident how antsy your babies are. I know they’re in 2nd grade and have never had a normal school year so that does not help. Like the foot tapping, the quiet noises here and there, the constant fidgety nature. It’s clear they struggle with those things bc mainly, well, home life. Tbh. I taught at a Title I school for 5 years, such high behaviors and no structure at home with those things: how to sit for a little while and actively listen, etc. Also it’s 5 years, 50% of teachers leave after 5 years. Pretty wild. But you keep rocking, your channel is growing so that’s very positive! You can do it!

[@madisonleighmaryan]

Thanks so much for this comment!

[@dstarke7315]

Madison, thank you for your video. I'm a teacher too and it was so very refreshing to hear from another teacher that (while there are many good things about it) our job can be so exhausting! I loved your explaination of how it's sometimes this exhausting because "it sometimes never stops". Thank you :) Greetings from Germany

[@Laura_94]

Thank you for this. I’m in my first few years of teaching too and everything you said was spot on. You are so valid. ❤️

[@rosarainey72]

I love watching the Bachelorette! That is one of my favorite shows! Hang in there with the teaching! You are a great teacher!

[@helenshepard5194]

I like how you showed yourself teaching the students also with the students blocked out.

[@keyaranichole2964]

I can relate so much. It’s also my second year. This year has been insane. Like you said constant redirection, constantly repeating directions, students are so far behind. It’s very draining. I love teaching but man it’s very exhausting. I’ve cried like 10 times already and it’s only October 😂 But there is comfort in hearing that other teachers are experiencing the same things.

[@madisonleighmaryan]

You’re definitely not alone!

[@shelbyboykin4789]

I’m a 5th year, first grade teacher & I feel your pain! Hoping for brighter days ahead🤗💙 P.S.~ your nachos made me make my own plate of them! 😉

[@asmaa_vlog_85]

When I get a notification that you have uploaded a video, my happy time begins 📸❣️🍊♥️🥳😘🥰🤩❤️

[@clarecastillo3858]

Madison I do trunk or treat at my school and I am a student there and It's amazing! 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

[@salwashams3757]

Thank you so much for this video. Being a first year teacher i wanted to watch this type of video because I could relate and feel that I am not alone... please share both sides of this job ....I am such a huge admirer of your channel

[@madisonleighmaryan]

Thank you so much for being here!

[@AwesomeMom1234]

This is my fourteenth year teaching. It takes ALL of my time and energy.

[@shaniabloomfield2333]

I have to make my kids police each other. Too draining to put out those fires with 30 little ones. My star student leads all the transitions. Team leaders hold their teammates accountable with quiet signals and warnings and I quietly walk around giving out stars for good behaviors. I did the same in 1st grade. Anytime you can put the burden of management on the kids, there's one less thing for you to stress about 😊

[@madisonleighmaryan]

Love that idea!

[@katiechallis6070]

I wish u where my teacher because u would be a safe person to talk to because u are really kind and caring

[@aidenwest4616]

Your videos are so awesome and inspiring me to become a teacher!!! You are pretty and your outfits are so great. Thank you for making this video, this really shows how much teachers really do. During this pandemic it might be hard! Love you Ms. Campbell.

[@madisonleighmaryan]

Thanks so much for watching!!

[@haileyfussell]

you know its been rough when this is me trying is playing ;( sending love

[@beckyswanson3478]

Observations go so much better when students think they are the ones being observed!

[@marisolmartin1329]

I just started my behavior jar today and one of my classes made good choices all day and the other did not. So hopefully the morning class will want to work hard for theirs.

[@TheAlexa1983]

I HIGHLY recommend reading Troublemakers by Carla Shalaby and looking up videos/articles of her. The book is fast and easy and it gives you so much perspective of how to “manage” behaviors, especially when you teach in a Title 1 school. It helped me sooo much! Maybe some of your colleagues would read it with you?

[@jasonrecker2078]

You should do a thing called NOISE! You write that on the dry erase board. Then if they are being loud/acting crazy you take of the E and so on and so fourth. Then if they get to the word NO they get NO resses. I don’t know about your school but we have a first resses and a second one so whatever resses you are on they don’t get the WHOLE resses! My teacher uses this and it works! Then it starts over the next day! P.S. I LOVE your videos sooo much! they are so amazing! You are so pretty too!

[@madisonleighmaryan]

That’s a great idea thanks!

[@jasonrecker2078]

@@madisonleighmaryan thanks!

[@CamCity98]

Your vlogs are amazing! Your an awesome productive!

[@zoeybrown9178]

Love your vids! I’m going to school for elementary education right now. I deeply admire your humility and honesty when speaking about the harder parts of teaching. Bringing awareness to these struggles can help so many future teachers and current teachers dealing with the same issues! 🤍🤍

[@claramammone3050]

Thank u for the amazing vid I really want to be a teacher when I am older so can u pls do a vid like all about teaching and what programs u have to do. Thank u again for this amazing vid ❤️

[@joyfulunicorn7691]

I love your videos!

[@sophiathesmurf6954]

Your eyes are so pretty! Love the colour!

[@valeriac8874]

Is I just love watching your videos I hope you see thiss and my also a fan I would love you to heartit will make me. Day

[@juliacraig5906]

Thank you for opening up about this! I hope November is a better month! Also I saw your tattoo and love it! Do schools care about teachers showing tattoos?

[@mofeuer]

i’m wondering if you tell the kids that you’re recording them even though you never show their faces? i’m just curious because i work at a preschool and this is so interesting

[@estrellarobb2036]

hi I'm neww here let me tell you something your eyes are amazing i love them so much and so are you! i cant wait to see more of your posts

[@kaliconners8186]

Can you please show your kids in your class

[@clarecastillo3858]

I want to be a Teacher when I am a Adult 😄😄

[@ejfromthea]

love your nails in this video girl

[@malloriesengmany5417]

Can you do a classroom management video?

[@louise9931]

hey just wondering do u have a TA love your videos x

[@KassieJane]

Unfortunately I am at the point where I've lost sight of the positives. There was a time when I was utterly passionate about teaching and was able to hold onto that passion through the stress and hard days. The things I loved about the job I do not get in my classroom. These kids are ridiculous and genuinely awful as a group. I don't teach anymore, I do crowd control. It is taking every part of me not to just walk out and never go back.

[@madisonleighmaryan]

You’re not alone. Hang in there. Thinking of you.

[@DrAcula138]

Did I miss it? What was your grades costume theme?

[@jenocean824]

Am I missing the lanyard link you said you had posted?

[@brookeohearn9397]

Hi i am a freshman in high school and i already have plans for becoming an elementary teacher. Can you give me some advice and knowledge about becoming a teacher and like the basic stuff??

[@l0lliezoe3x]

You're allowed candles and matches in the classroom?!

[@crazykendalynnfun5006]

Your sound like a very good second teacher

[@Samiya_ford]

2 but in 4th grade

[@RyleighIng]

Am I the only person who wants to be a teacher just to decorate

[@alexandriamares1402]

Does anyone know if she is married ?? How do husband's feel about being with a teacher and the limitless school supplies as well as odd, honest things kids say about to their teachers lol.

[@AwesomeMom1234]

My husband hates it.

[@lillianhahne1495]

I like your Channel I want to be a teacher too

[@isha8832]

I love your nails

[@mackfam9798]

what is your intro song it is good?

[@b6goat198]

What’s the chicken truck in my school

[@S.t.a.c.y]

A beber you so much I like your outfit

[@Christmasxvibes]

Hi

[@mollywynn6720]

First❤️

[@loribrown5235]

You should try meditation. That might help you feel better as well!!

[@Pippatucker_]

G.

[@daisydukes8252]

Oh my gosh…

[@equestrian_equine4346]

video idea: meet my students.?

[@HardcoreHaleyyy]

We can’t do that kind of stuff because the students and their information needs to be kept confidential (that’s why she blurs out their faces while she shows video of her teaching) 😢

[@equestrian_equine4346]

@@HardcoreHaleyyy oh ok sorry

[@School_Belle_72]

“Darktober” 🙄

[@CamCity98]

First

[@littlebluebird74.]

77 in the classroom? No.