What I think about the USA after a month in Italy 🇮🇹

The slower pace of life is so apparent in Italy and maybe we could learn something from it as Americans, I sure did. Hope you enjoy a peek at life in Italy with my kids and husband. 🌞
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What I think about the USA after a month in Italy 🇮🇹
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00:00 America vs Italy
04:30 Lesson 1 | Embrace Limitations
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[@albertobenelli]

I am italian, i actually live in Italy (in Prato Tuscany, next to Firenze) and man....this video almost made me cry and "miss" Italy . That is how much i love living here . Yes surely some of us will comment here that "in big cities life is different" but that is the case everywhere . But you really cathed the core , the essence of the true LUXURY of living here as opposed to US and that is VALUE OVER VOLUME . A real Italian knows that . Sure there will be cases where some us might be strongly influenced by US "consume" and "pile up" culture , but the "core" of this country remains that of QUALITY over QUANTITY . I do have lots of friends from US and some italian friends who live there now, and even though i love US, i consider myself as extremely lucky to be living here instead . The reasons (some of them) are the ones you beautifully catched . Brava Madisun .

[@silvimarc2982]

❤️

[@tewkewl]

i am an american who is close to retiring in italy. i agree. it's the life style that is important. not the items you have.

[@albertobenelli]

@@tewkewl When i was younger my father always used to tell me "remember son, everything is relative in this life" . And i never seemed to really understand what he meant . But i guess now i do (almost 50) , it means that nothing will be BIG enough or "enough" if you are not happy/serene to begin with . And it also means that sometimes having something "smaller" or "less" may seem as a huge step up if you see it from the right prespective . Basing our lives on "things" will NEVER work .

[@marcofumagalli9910]

Are you from Prato ? Is your surname Chen , Hu or Lin ?

[@aviationazzurraita1486]

prato non è invasa dai cinesi?

[@italianfoodmadefromthehear8729]

I can't believe I found this video. I lived in Southern Germany when I was in my young 20s for a total of 3 yrs. I loved life in Europe, almost stayed there. 25 years later I marry a Italian lady, we have taken long trips throughout Italy, and I have come to the same findings you have. Life in the US has become very toxic and life is to short, so I am selling my house in Houston and will move permanently to Italy.

[@teresa5007]

👍❤️🇦🇺🇭🇺

[@user-lt1jd1ye3v]

Life in Houston isn’t toxic, but it is too much driving just like all of Texas. But they didn’t build the roads that way, so what can you do?

[@ikipearl]

no matter where you go there you are .... a similar lifestyle could be adopted in U.S. .... desire dictates effort ... it would be more difficult in U.S. because it is geared towards convenience so there is always that temptation. I also like doing things because I want to instead of because I have to. Once your aware of the possibilities or desire, it really becomes a matter of choice. There is no denying it is very beautiful, but so is the Rocky Mountains in Utah. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder🙏

[@ikipearl]

​@@user-lt1jd1ye3v buy a really cool truck 😂🙏

[@Prizzy999]

Benvenuto in Italia! 😊

[@davebanko4759]

I'm an American who moved to the UK in 2006 and now moving to Italy having bought a house in Puglia. I appreciate and adopted the work/life balance, slow pace and quality over quantity lifestyle.

[@elxakiltse8773]

How did you overcome the 90 day issue? I want to do the same, but feel imprisoned by the US tax and visa system.

[@davebanko4759]

@@elxakiltse8773 That's a tricky one, and it depends on what you are trying to do. If you want to retire, as long as you have enough passive income, you can apply for a retirement visa and can stay for a year and renew year after year. There are student and work visas you can apply for. I'm a digital nomad, and Italy approved a digital nomad visa, so if you earn enough that you aren't taking an Italian job, you can get an annual visa, but it has yet to be published how to apply, so we are still waiting while our house is being renovated. Also, the 90 day rule only applies to the Schengen Zone and Albania is just across the Adriatic by ferry from Brindisi or Bari and not in the Schengen zone, so you can spend 90 days in the Schengen zone and 90 days in other countries which are not in the Schengen Zone.

[@davebanko4759]

@@elxakiltse8773 Regarding tax, while you still have to file US taxes every year, if you work in another country, unless you earn a lot of money, you are not taxed on what you earn in that other country because you will be paying local tax on it. If there is a will, there is a way! Good luck!

[@Float_Locker]

@@davebanko4759 thanks for the info very informative

[@zainulabdin1720]

Yes of course Italy Spain Greece Portugal are the best countries if you have good amount of money❤

[@ControCultura-]

I'm italian and this video made me smile. Times are changing, especially in the north we're working a lot, always in a rush. Italy is very different between different regions. But when it comes to food, when you sit at the table, sharing a good meal with your friends or family, we all unite as italians. We like to keep it simple. A plate of pasta, some good wine. Maybe we speak different dialects, eat different food, but food always brings us together from north to south, and we're very proud of it

[@TheWolfalpino]

guess where that influence came from :D

[@LucaFlo-js9en]

Aspetta ancora un po' di anni e se non ci diamo una svegliata a tavola divideremo bistecche sintetiche e Monsanto foods

[@ControCultura-]

@@LucaFlo-js9en e anche se fosse ? La nostra cucina evolve da secoli. Ed evolverà ancora, non ci vedo nulla di male

[@hu3v0s]

Forza Italia

[@renatobianchi65]

They played A LOT on stereotypes.........so that the Video gets more views. A smaller percentage of people living in ITALY (pensioners and the affluent) CAN Actually Afford the LIFESTYLE portrayed in the Video..........I know thousands of workers in the COUNTRY and NOBODY Can Afford this Rich lifestyle........

[@marcoviola6741]

honestly, this video is about Italian life from the perspective of a turist. I'm Italian and I live in Liguria: trust me, you can't take the Cinque Terre as a good example of "Italian life style". Real life anywhere else is way more chaotic, especially if you have to work for your daily bread! :D

[@ersticktdenzeitgeist]

esattamente

[@untipo.]

Ogni volta che sento un americano parlare, sembra di sentir parlare un bambino. Non hanno minimamente consapevolezza di ciò che gli sta intorno e non si fanno domande... ragionano per stereotipi e sentito dire

[@starwolf98]

always better than american lifestyle

[@ausosa]

Lo stile di vita delle piccole realtà penso sia uguale in tutt'Italia, è quando ti sposti nelle città che il ritmo cambia

[@lucanuvolari3742]

​@@ausosail problema é che non siamo in grado di gestire una città con i tempi di un piccolo paese di borgata...sarebbe l ideale riuscirci....si riduce lo stress...ci si accorge degli altri...non ci vediamo più come persone ma come servitori e serviti....venditori e compratori...certo ci sono i parcogiochi e parchi per svagarsi in famiglia...

[@malloryanthony8921]

I remember when my co-worker came back from visiting Italy and raved about it. She paused for a moment as to find the words to sum it up and then said what was so refreshing is that it was "people centred and not things centered"

[@MadisunGray]

Woah. Love that 🤩

[@PraveenSriram]

True

[@BelleLopez312]

Most immigrant families LIVING in America is *still* people centered. The Unfaithful is *things* centered due to vanity.

[@SiwaBudda]

And I met Italian lady who moved to UK and loves it even more... Just comes back for warm holidays...

[@carlobrotto7132]

then the lady is not Italian, or she's got poor culture skills....

[@MichelleBlessing]

I'm Irish I moved here 6 years ago and I will never leave ❤

[@carolynkernan939]

Where

[@ivanmisseritti1163]

Good bless you forza Irlanda e forza Italia ❤

[@joederocco9321]

cause we re the best

[@bonovoxel7527]

That's not the motto. At all. We just do it better. @@joederocco9321

[@charlesmorello5641]

A bit too much of rain, but Ireland and irish people also are beatiful.

[@md.walidhasan7760]

I travelled Italy for 12 days from Germany and I really loved and liked it. Their people are generous and friendly to strangers. Food, culture, weather, nature, work, people, everything still catch my heart. May Allah bless Italy and its people. From Bangladesh.

[@user-sv2vj1cc1r]

Grazie x le tue belle parole su gli italiani e l Italia,un grande abbraccio amico!

[@Sberleffoulchis]

Unfortunately if you live here is not like that. This is a sick country

[@ViaggiReali]

Take a tour in Amalfi, you will see unique places

[@dariovetrano632]

my friend, they were not friendly, they were trying to fool you as hard as they could

[@PoisonelleMisty4311]

That's wonderful to hear! Italy is indeed a beautiful country with rich culture and history. It's great that you had such a positive experience and encountered friendly people along the way. Your appreciation and well wishes for Italy and its people are heartfelt. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, and may you have many more amazing travel experiences in the future!

[@TheMarpalm]

While in the Navy went all over the world. Have traveled quite a bit in the following years and I can honestly and easily say that Italy was and is my favorite country. The food, the people, that landscape, the host and the architecture- and as you mentioned the pace of life. Your video brought me many fond memories and reminds me that I so need to go back and stay longer… and learn the language.

[@begumakbari9324]

You are forgetting in USA , the government and the business are just wants to make money. They don’t care about your us

[@HiThereHeyThere]

Same

[@PoisonelleMisty4311]

That's wonderful to hear! It sounds like Italy left a deep impression on you with its culinary delights, friendly people, stunning landscapes, rich history, and beautiful architecture. It's great that the video brought back fond memories and reignited your desire to revisit. Learning the language would definitely enhance your experience and allow you to immerse yourself even more in this beautiful country. Hopefully, you'll have the opportunity to go back and stay longer soon!

[@alessandra18956]

I'm Italian and yes, in some more rural and typical places everything is as you described, but if you go to big cities, especially in the North, we are closer to the US than you can think 😅 but fortunately our love for sharing food, slow living and enjoying simple things is something we are very proud of

[@BGB370]

Be careful of your future, I don’t care how good the food is. I love what the culture has to offer, but I’m afraid I’m staying in the USA. God is here.❤️🕊🕊🕊❤️🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

[@giorgiobergonzoni4833]

Sadly, the north looks like that because it followed the American model of industry and urbanisation and lost a part of its culture as a consequence

[@bcent5758]

@@BGB370- with your guns

[@gigiluigi6359]

@@giorgiobergonzoni4833 non proprio … il nord Italia a differenza del sud è sempre stato un territorio invaso . In 200 anni si è passati dagli spagnoli ai francesi e poi gli austriaci. La popolazione locale ha perso le proprie radici culturali per quel motivo (eccetto le zone di montagna ) la Lombardia soprattutto è sempre stata sfruttata solo come zona manifatturiera o di agricoltura intensiva già dai tempi di Napoleone …

[@gigiluigi6359]

@@giorgiobergonzoni4833 quindi non c’è da stupirsi che gli americani ( potenza coloniale ) abbiano sfruttato soprattutto i territori del nord già vittime da secoli di colonialismo

[@chrisgreco4249]

I visited Italy in 2004 when my son was going to college there. It was August when many people in the EU take their annual 3 week summer vacations. Many go to Italy, so it was crowded. Even so, life was good. I would go back in a heartbeat, even in August. The Italian people are very social and gregarious by nature. Everywhere my son and I went the towns and cities were busy, people out everywhere walking, socializing, shopping, dining al fresco. Eating out in Italy is an art form of daily life. No matter the cost, the simplicity, or the extravagance of the ristorante all food in Italy is prepared with great care and attention to every detail. And there is never any rush. The food in Italy is superb everywhere. Travel an hour, or two in any direction and the cuisine changes, but the quality remains consistently extraordinary. Lastly, even though Italy is populated the Italian countryside is incredibly beautiful. The Dolomite mountains reminded me of the Rockies in MT, where I lived at the time. And then there's Venice. What a unique and remarkable place. No cars - anywhere. People walk, or take water taxies. The architecture is incredible. Beautiful churches and art museums full of the masterworks works of Italian artists going back centuries.

[@BICIeCOMPUTERconGabriele]

Just one correction: 3 week vacation is just a part of the annual payed vacation that are generally given to workers in EU! I'd say that generally is 5 or 6 weeks payed vacation annually. Please note: sickness leave is NOT vacation and it's payed, also.

[@alessioartioli3323]

@@BICIeCOMPUTERconGabriele True. In Italy, depending on the job, it's usally 30 workable days per year (when your week is 5 workbale days, it menas 6 full weeks). Not counting sikness days, which are also paid and not taken off from the vaation days. May be less money, but definitely higher life quality (and still enough money to enjoy it!)

[@BICIeCOMPUTERconGabriele]

@@alessioartioli3323 exactly. Basically in every western European country they get this kind of treatment

[@EmanueleDN]

I don't think you would find the same tranquility today. Cities are increasingly degraded and violent, and homelessness is on the rise.

[@marcob4630]

"gregarious" is perfect for describing Italians!

[@Dave351]

I write as a German who has lived many years in italy. Italy like the united states is very different from north to south Northern Italy is much more industrialized and this typical Italian way of living life is getting a little lost. In the south, on the other hand, the people are much more hospitable and the climate and villages are fantastic.( among the most beautiful in the world) If you know where to go southern Italy will surprise you a lot. I vote for a slower life full of small happiness as Italians know how to do :)

[@wanrelief]

Si esatto. Mi piace la Germania, nonostante sia razzista nei confronti degli italiani. Solo chi, penso come te, ha avuto modo di vivere un po' in Italia capisce perché. Inevitabile che l ospite voglia diventare residente, poi sicuramente si dimentica la Ruhr 🤗

[@orfeoassiti6669]

Thank you, as an Italian, I had the so-called "american dream" my whole life, hoping one day to move to the US to have success and fulfill myself. But after living one year in Nevada as an exchange student, my view on the States have changed drastically. Starting from seeing people carrying guns in broad daylight, to homeless and drug addicts on the streets. I hated the enormous Walmarts, Coscos and Targets, with huge selections of mostly useless stuff, extremely unhealthy and greasy food. It seemed impossible to have something small and relatively healthy when eating out, and everything I ate seemed like an unhealthier version of other's cultures food (like greasy big pizzas, extremely sweet and salty Chinese food, tacos and tortillas so bad that everyone was joking that you'd have diarrhea after eating them). Now I realize of lucky I am being born in Italy, despite all my countries problems...

[@luigimarra4077]

fantastic and well said. too many italians in italy think life in America is great, and in fact, the place they dream of, is right under their nose, in Italy.

[@MainulWasTaken]

😊

[@JohnSkyLey]

Why do you have an issue with us carrying guns? You scared? Play some COD. We are allowed to protect ourselves and not rely on the government to save us. You think we trust the government after everything they have done. Look at what happened in Israel or the violent criminals. Guess you like being a victim

[@lucianomezzetta4332]

Hai ragione. America is wired.

[@MainulWasTaken]

There still a huge influx of Italian moving to US and the sad part is that most of them come from the southern part of Italy. Where that region needs most the people. But I hope just like you many other Italian from around the world understand that no country comes near to Italy and move, invest, donate, support communities there.

[@jimtalbott2095]

I spent six and a half years working for a large company and traveled to Italy and the Italians would come to the U.S. All the videos I watch are people being in or describing the tourist side of Italy. I spent time in the north around Milan and a town called Biella which those areas are big in manufacturing. The common Italian doesn’t live as you present, they work hard for low pay and they’re day doesn’t stop for two hours and they don’t meander into work. They love the U.S. when they are here, at least all I worked with did. The food is GREAT! and they taught my wife how to cook real Italian and learned while I was there that the Italian food here is not Italian.

[@seriejohnson698]

Love hearing what real life in Italy is like. I always wondered. You see all these small villages and beautiful beaches in vacation photos and bids and wonder, how life is on a daily basis.

[@fmls8266]

That's the busiest and most "developed" part of Italy literally, it's not how most of us lives. A southerner almost gets a cultural shock when he moves to Milan.

[@Mezamoe]

@@seriejohnson698 difficult to find a job, salaries are miserable, government is useless and inclined to corruption, while the new italians appreciate less and less beauty and culture. Apart from that, fine thanks

[@seriejohnson698]

@@Mezamoe Lol, ok I see. Not much better here in the United States…sounds like the same shit different countries. Lol

[@clockworknomad4681]

She is living in a very tourist place, top travel destination, in a house that probably cost a week as much an Italian earn in one month... that's ridiculous!!! I am italian

[@armedmariner]

In mid 80’s I spent 7 weeks teaching Italian engineers on statistical process control for our company. One young engineer asked me if I wanted to rent his grampa’s barn apartment. Hell yes! What I didn’t realize immediately was that meant I would join the family! Dinner together every night! Drinks after with a smoke. And lots of smiles and fast talking and use of hands! Haha. I slowly started to pick up phrases. But alas that 7 weeks FLEW BY far too quickly. I would love to get that back and experience it again. Exactly as it was. I love real Italians.

[@thyslop1737]

Sounded way too sweet.

[@njvalueinvestor]

You were blessed

[@corradobenin117]

Per dire la verità dalle mie parti l'uso delle mani quando si parla è considerato maleducato e ci stupiamo quando vediamo in televisione voi americani che lo fate. Avete un'idea dell'Italia come se un paesetto fosse lo specchio di una nazione, un po' come noi negli anni '50 che pensavamo che negli Stati Uniti fossero tutti cowboys.

[@aldechan]

As Italian, I'm glad you understood and appreciated our culture and way to live :)

[@ipertaro1990]

Minchia ma ci ha dato del sempliciotto di paese e la ringrazi pure?! 😂😂

[@aldechan]

@@ipertaro1990 a me non sembra abbia detto questo. E comunque vivere la vita in modo semplice, easy, non è per forza sinonimo di cosa negativa, anzi

[@laurierobinson7047]

I had breast cancer back in 2015-16 and often get asked what I learned from it or what has changed. I always say it taught me to slow down and notice the small things. I'm so glad you figured this out at a young age!

[@micahwai1922]

I was down financially for two months and really experienced the living the moment because having cash at hand makes you skip the moment .We godda slow down proactively i suppose .

[@simonemerlotti3610]

Buona fortuna e buona vita !

[@sabine824]

I'm French and I live in America. I live a slow, minimalist life style. I live in a tiny home, and I have a small basket that I shop with so I just buy what I need. I walk a lot, I love living simply and so connected to nature. It feels my soul so deeply. I don't need all the stress of the fast, more is more life. To me Less is more, and it feels very abundant. Thank you so much for this beautiful video, I wish it was longer, it was so refreshing And I do take naps, it's essential 😍

[@MadisunGray]

Yes! I love that❤️

[@sabine824]

@@gabrielatalitha I don't find it difficult because it's my flow, I can't do any other way. I feel like there is many place in America here people live very slow. Also in Europe people go fast, it really depends where you are. You make your own reality wherever you are, it doesn't depends on the outside.

[@goldsilverandiamonds]

People have choices. Choices are great. So many people complain rather than make new choices to change their lives. America is not the problem. If you're not happy make better choices. You prove you can live the way and pace you like in America. If you can do it anyone can.

[@SoccerDua]

I think it helps a lot that you weren’t RAISED in America, with American values. I feel like we Americans are brainwashed from childhood (directly and indirectly via culture) to believe that work is identity, that failure is shameful, that hypermasculinity is holy, that community isn’t as relevant.

[@sabine824]

@@SoccerDua Maybe I couldn't say but yes America is based on consumerism, always more and more. Specially where I live in CA. I was choke the first time I came here as an aupair, the size of closet, the amount of clothes, the choices of milk in the store. I love shopping at small local store where I live, so much more authentic. But it's never to late to embrace this slow lifestyle.

[@riccardoraineri3689]

I am Italian. I lived abroad and talked to a lot of people about cultural differences. I was able to define and appreciate more my own culture. Now I live in Italy and to be honest I am grateful everyday to be here ❤ Not only for cultural reasons, but ofc also for nature and even small details of houses... Everywhere is beautiful

[@user-tt4em3vv6d]

Yes!!!!!!! I’m so happy that I just landed on this video. This is exactly what my husband and I did. We made the decision to relocate to the south of Italy to truly experience and embrace slow living. It’s been six years and we are so happy with our decision that I don’t think we would be able to go back. I have to say that it was actually an easy transition from our previous hectic lifestyle. We learned to let go of all the unnecessary things and live in the moment. Something that I really love is the fresh seasonal produce and how you can only find certain fruits and veggies during certain months. Unfortunately we do not have a garden but we do have a big enough terrace to grow some small things. This new slow lifestyle has changed the way we shop, prepare, and eat our food. It has also definitely changed my perspective on life. I’m looking forward to watching more of your videos and listening to your new podcast. Happy slow living! 🤍

[@carolc1543]

I am American and moved to Puglia in March. The lifestyle is so calming and beautiful. My town is friendly and kind. I’m happier here for sure.

[@MaryBartnikowski]

where in Puglia? I want to visit and see the towns there on my way to Sicily

[@carolc1543]

@@MaryBartnikowski Polignano a Mare. Sadly I had to move back to USA due to family needs. I will return to live in Italy again.

[@silvimarc2982]

Puglia is heaven, people is gentle and caring, and land is unique

[@MaryBartnikowski]

I'll be in Sicily in March but maybe will come to Puglia first week of April. :) What town are you in?

[@carolc1543]

@@MaryBartnikowski I was in Polignani a Mare. Sadly I had to return to USA for family.

[@dougowt]

Having lived most of my life in the UK, I had a similar experience to your family. In 2017 I moved to Italy and lived on a farm, on the Adriatic coast. I learnt from my amazing Italian neighbours, that a slower pace of life with less gadgets, spending time with friends and family, enjoying simple but very tasty food was definitely a much higher quality of life to the life I had been used to in the UK. I was treated like family, we had lunch together most days, lunch was usually 2½ to 3 hours. They told me to just go and pick whatever fruit and veg I wanted and would bring me a crate of freshly picked produce every other day anyway. I tried to help them as often as I could and if they saw me working outside they would come and help, even though they had an entire farm to manage! I probably enjoyed olive picking most of all, we would have a team of 10 or 12 of us, we would start at 07:30 have a break in the olive grove at 09:30 for food and drink for 20 minutes. Lunch was 12:30 to 14:30 and if we were still working a break for food at 17:30-18:00. Once all the olives were picked and sorted, we would drive the olives to the processors that evening, as timing is important. We did 5 groves over a two month period and they also helped me with the 50 odd olive trees by the house I was staying in. I got paid 15 litres of the best olive oil for my efforts. Life does not get any better than this 💚🤍❤

[@patriciat7769]

06-26-23 United States Thank you for sharing your beautiful experience in Italy. I love how there is such a sense of community. People are connected to one another and to the land. This is how life should be.

[@lauramcclain8651]

A two hour or more lunch sounds crazy to me . Too many other things to do more internet than stuffing food on my face for several hours . I like to feel productive and not lazy .between eating half the day and sleeping for a few hours each afternoon , how do you do anything productive or even support yourself ?

[@sirlightbright]

@@lauramcclain8651that’s life in a farm, do you forget that Italy is actually a developed country? That’s a rural life style that drives people also in the city by the ting to maintain time to socialise and have proper dinner, but in the city part of Italy we have the same productivity of any European country.

[@thyslop1737]

@@lauramcclain8651 Two hour lunch does sound insane. Would have to move there to make it happen.

[@nicolaramoso3286]

> lunch was usually 2½ to 3 hours I'm Italian and I'm kinda wondering what these people do in their lives to be able to afford so much time to dedicate to lunch.

[@Sir_J4ck]

Ok. As Americans we have been on the top on the world for like 2 centuries. Italians have been there for like a millennia and then retired. When I go there I get this feeling that nothing really matters so you might as well enjoy the ride while it lasts. Being there I got the same feeling I got by hanging out with my grandma. Yeah, life is hard, it sucks at times. But have a cup of coffee, let’s chat. It’s such a beautiful day…

[@gentile7933]

America socially never has been and never will be at the top

[@Italiana911]

My Grandfather was born in Italy, then emigrated to England. I was born in England, and returned to Italy for good upon retirement. Having lived in Italy now for 9 years, it’s taught me to be far less materialistic and stressy all the time. I would never go back to my old life, and love the fact that food is local, plentiful, simple and fresh.

[@corradobenin117]

Intendi più semplice delle patate e del pesce che cucinano a Londra? Praticamente ti nutri di pasta bollita. Se c'è una cucina semplice è quella inglese praticamente non hanno nulla, sarà per questo che trovi le olive sott'olio con i canditi, ma questa non è ricercatezza è disperazione.

[@Nichilistaiconoclasta]

Surely living in Italy offers undeniable advantages in comparison with UK. On the other side you should consider that Italians generally don't have an enormous respect of nature and animals that is so deeply rooted in Britain. Furthermore Italy is one of the countries in the world where the fewest newspapers and books are sold. The result is a profound ignorance of its inhabitants. An example:They voted a fascist government in the last elections. That is like going back 80 years in one fell swoop.

[@Pomoscorzo]

I still remember the culture shock from coming to Germany as a born and raised Italian. Everyone was always in a bad mood; they didn't know how to lay back and relax and how to enjoy their lives. I was told I was lazy and spoilt. And they were not more wealthy or more learned than I or the people I knew from Italy. Looking back, I realized that I had been burdened by far too much by them and was expected to act like an adult (I was 11). In my free time, I did what I could to fill up my energies so I could keep going. Everybody else just seemed to push and push. Some suffered breakdowns in their later lives, and from others I found out that their "aims" were utterly useless, stupid and selfish. So, call me a lazy fool. I'm not ashamed of being Italian any more.

[@patriciat7769]

06-27-23 United States The Italians know what real living is, and what's really important in life: Friends and family. That's something to be proud of!🙂 Beautiful country and amazing food.

[@bluebear6570]

You know it is much colder in Germany, so you have to be constantly on the move to keep warm there. Germans may have appeared to be always inn a bad mood to you, but that´s not true at all - we are just a little less outgoindg as you guys down there.

[@Pomoscorzo]

@@bluebear6570 It was awful in the North. Now I live in Southern Germany, where people are much kinder. Come and visit the "guys down there" some day, we're just as human as you are.

[@emiliomoncher154]

Sempre fieri di essere italiani, anche coi nostri difetti, saluti dall'Italia

[@Pomoscorzo]

@@a.m.4148 Believing that Italians won't work is about as realistic as believing that in Germany trains are always punctual. 🙄

[@marisaskordili969]

I am from Greece, we have a very similar life style here, shops are closed 2-5pm every day. We enjoy the simple things 🌺🍉🍷☀🎶

[@MadisunGray]

Love it!

[@theadventuresofgaryandtamm8759]

No pizza until 7:30pm…how is that a simple thing?

[@AstraeaAntiope]

@@theadventuresofgaryandtamm8759 Try it, you will feel so relaxed. Work in the morning, take a long lunch with friends. Nap, read, rest in the afternoon. Go for a leisurely, late dinner with friends. Wander the plaza and hear the music. European cities are designed for this walkability and enjoyment. They don't spend hours of their day in traffic.

[@helgaioannidis9365]

​@@theadventuresofgaryandtamm8759you can have it before 7:30. I often make pizza for lunch at home. It's easy and yummy. I always have flour, yeast, olive oil, tomatoes, onions and oregano at home.

[@thinkforyourselfjohn3167]

That's so awesome I'm in America and it's the total opposite here. Your culture appreciates life and enjoys it. I admire that in America they live to work.

[@PoisonelleMisty4311]

After spending a month in Italy, my thoughts on the USA have definitely shifted. Firstly, I have noticed a significant difference in the pace of life between the two countries. In Italy, everything seems more relaxed and people prioritize enjoying their daily activities, whereas in the USA, there is often an emphasis on efficiency and productivity. Moreover, the food in Italy has completely spoiled me. The fresh ingredients, authentic flavors, and diverse regional cuisine have made me realize how processed and standardized American food often is. The Italian dedication to high-quality ingredients and traditional cooking methods is truly admirable. Furthermore, the sense of history and cultural heritage is palpable in Italy. Everywhere you turn, there are ancient ruins, stunning architecture, and centuries-old traditions that are deeply respected and preserved. In contrast, the USA, being a relatively young country, lacks the same depth of history and cultural richness. On the other hand, I may have missed some conveniences that we often take for granted in the USA. For instance, I found certain aspects of daily life in Italy, such as accessing reliable public transportation or efficient customer service, to be slightly more challenging. In terms of social interactions, I have observed that Italians are generally more inclined towards personal connections and forming genuine relationships. They prioritize spending quality time with loved ones and fostering close-knit communities, which contrasts with the often individualistic nature of American society. Overall, my experience in Italy has made me appreciate certain aspects of both countries. While Italy has opened my eyes to the beauty of a slower-paced, culturally rich lifestyle, the USA still offers opportunities and conveniences that cannot be overlooked.

[@maxdelpo5578]

This is the way. Take the strength of different countries to change things in our own

[@giansala7409]

Congratulations, Yours is the most realistic and accurate analysis I've read.

[@silvimarc2982]

I'm from Italy...Tuscany...looking at my contry by your eyes I notice that it's really a wonderful place where to live. Our culture, especially in northern cities, unfortunately is becoming more "american" and stressing, but in center and southern Italy slow life and the art of the enjoy the living still survives. Thanks for this video

[@PoisonelleMisty4311]

You're welcome! Italy, especially Tuscany, is indeed a beautiful place with a rich culture. It's great to hear that the slower-paced lifestyle and appreciation for the art of living still exists in the center and southern parts of the country. Every region in Italy offers its own unique charm and experiences. Enjoy and cherish the beauty of your country!

[@dimitriosvlissides5781]

@@PoisonelleMisty4311 You are all over the people's conversation giving Pythian comments ......of neutral statements ....nothing else to do.? Take it easy

[@PoisonelleMisty4311]

@@dimitriosvlissides5781 Maybe you're not used to women with brains. Why does it bother you? The world needs more passionate individuals and less pessimism. See this as a new learning opportunity. Don't you dare take my sunshine away

[@mfreeborny8591]

Sorry to hear because everything American touches it gets destroyed, there is no respect, culture and it’s all about how many cars can I owned , how many homes can I buy is all about production and the quality is so poor. To much freedom and to much of everything humans simply can not handle. No one really have no respect for this country as an American everyone seems burned out and brainwash. It’s a shame America is truly in a spiral and for failure. Enjoy your country Italy I oft en wish I would of relocated to it when I had the chance. To bad I did not ….

[@toffonardi7037]

l' Italia simile all'America?? ma cosa vi siete fumati?????

[@poliver12345]

No matter what country we live in, Italy is such an inspiration to live contentedly and well no matter where you are at in life, their ability to Balance Work and Rest Creates the Enjoyment, I live in Canada and this is inspirational! Thanks!

[@MadisunGray]

🙌🏾

[@ViaggiReali]

Take a leap over the Alps, It will be a fabulous experience

[@kelseycostello8446]

I have never written a complaint online before but.. I wish your videos were like 2 hours long 😂 these are by far better than anything out in theaters! Loved this one very inspiring and thought provoking as per usual 💕

[@MadisunGray]

Thank you friend ❤️

[@carlashreeve445]

Agree! I literally would watch her for hours. So calming & interesting!

[@darrahochoa]

Yesss!

[@vineandbranch]

YES I AGREE!!

[@crystaldawnleslie1553]

I agree we need longer videos

[@tracyaskew1651]

I lived in Italy for three years. It changed me for the better. I still go back every other year or so to visit friends and for holidays. Sicily and Florence are like my second homes.

[@simonelezzi]

I am glad you enjoied my region! In Italian culture, the philosophy of "less is more" reflects a broader cultural appreciation for understated elegance and a focus on quality over quantity. It's a guiding principle in both personal style and culinary traditions, highlighting the Italians' inclination towards refined simplicity in various aspects of our lives.

[@hillaryilinsky1009]

very nicely put.

[@corradobenin117]

Ma dove? Genova è un delirio, bellissima città, bellissimi monumenti bellissimo acquario, ma un delirio. Nei boschi dell'interno ligure dopo aver visto le immondizie abbandonate, ho pensato che forse lo sport regionale consistesse nel lanciare vecchi elettrodomestici dalle discese. Le cinque terre hanno una vocazione turistica, è come fare un quadretto della Campania dopo aver visitato la costiera Amalfitana. Sarebbe ora di essere sinceri con noi stessi, meno catastrofisti ma nemmeno nasconderci dietro luoghi comuni.

[@YourRichLifeMedia]

I love my life in the US also. I do own a house in Italy and spend summers. People assume because I love Italy that equates to hating America but I love my country. I can also admit that we there are things that we can adopt from others. Wonderful video

[@MadisunGray]

Thank you ❤️

[@njosborne5540]

@stephanie - beautiful comment.

[@michaelmayo-vb5fl]

I wanna know what's to love bout the United States lol I'm here my whole life. America is a trailer park. Wrapped in a Gucci belt

[@elizabethwilk9615]

@@michaelmayo-vb5fl for one fast medical care - try living in Eastern Europe with ambulances not fully equipped or one scan available for hundreds of thousands of people. Am convince Princess Diana could have survived yet her ambulance was not fully equipped. And yes social medicine makes you wait a month or so even if you need eye surgery. I lived it in France. I also lived that in Eastern Europe when my cousin got cancer- the only scan they had in the town was broken. We needed to drive four hours to go get a scan. You need to go and pay for a private clinic if you want fast service. The worse was no central heating in winter. Yes food is good all over if you can afford it. Long work days are hated by most and low salaries. We can’t glamorize everything. Customer service sucks in most Europe and of you are handicap don’t look for buses or streets to be easy to navigate. Yes beautiful architecture and quality food. And if you have a good job and retirement you can live well. The uSa generally has a lot of crime yet in Europe is starting and terrorism can happen anywhere - security sucks.

[@minecrafttroller1000]

@@elizabethwilk9615 a lot of the problems you just pointed out happen in the US too

[@ReynaDaily]

This video is so well made. American culture has honestly become toxic mentally and physically. Slow and intentional living is beautiful and healthy in many ways. 💜

[@MadisunGray]

❤️❤️

[@sabine824]

Agree and I feel like it's going faster, I don't even go out of the weekend anymore, it's so stressful.

[@ReynaDaily]

@@sabine824 I’m so sorry, it is hard to slow down when our environment forces us at times to speed up. Praying for you

[@sabine824]

@@ReynaDaily I don't have a life of speed up, my life is very slow, I was just sharing that the world out there is going faster.

[@ReynaDaily]

@@sabine824 I totally misread that 😅 I’m with you friend!

[@whittierlibrarybookstore3708]

"2 hours closed on a perfectly good work day" took the words right out of my mouth. My feelings, at first, at the beginning of our 2 weeks in Italy. I didn't realize how relaxed I was until our final city before departure was Rome and I almost did not want to leave the room, it was like NY city but everyone spoke Italian.

[@PoisonelleMisty4311]

It appears that the person is expressing their frustration about businesses being closed for 2 hours on what they consider to be a normal work day. However, as they spent two weeks in Italy, they began to appreciate the relaxed atmosphere of the country. They highlight their reluctance to leave their hotel room in Rome because it reminded them of New York City, but with everyone speaking Italian.

[@Goddessattractor]

This is SO SPOT ON! I spent the first part of this year in Naples. Coming back to America I felt the stark contrast in a way I never have before. I found myself jealous of the sincerity and intention in which they live life. The food was alive. When did our food become so toxic and void of life 😢 it's no wonder big pharma has become a mainstay and the norm. Our ways are making us sick, lonely and disconnected. It made me feel as if we live a gluttonous and extreme lifestyle. America is great and I love my country but I think we could turn the boat towards more of a European way of life and consumption ❤

[@kennkid9912]

A country without morality has problems. Greed is not a moral value. Materialism run amok is nothing. The US is way off what it pretends to value and be about. The hypocrisy is astounding. Italy has its issues too. Berlesconi was the Italian Trump. Their govts are extremely unstable. A nap is ok if you need one.

[@laveritaforza108]

Life in the US is designed that way ( to make you sick ). Americans are ( nearly ) bottom of the " world's Healthy List ' Leave the USA..

[@middaysun3553]

I'm Italian lived in America 10 years ago for little less than one year. Meanwhile i was in the US i realised how... how can i put it? How not human designed life is there. In few months my liver was damaged and i was buying exclusively "organic" at wholefood, 100 dollars a day in food (i have two children) and yet my body got very annoyed! When i was walking in Santa Monica (basically everyday, because being near the sea helped me to cope with my staying until the end of my children school year) i used to observe people walking their faces their behaviour, i was starting to doubt if i was in a real world or not! People looked soulless. Empty. Sorry i don't want to sound offensive, but I'm very sincere. They looked like extras in a movie set. I felt i was in another dimension. That people was alive but dead inside. The place was beautiful though. I got curious to know more about everything there food included. I made a search on internet and i found a documentary about food gmos, good farmers bad industries, it was eyes opening. Farmers are forced to use gmos otherwise they'll be boycotted but the big corporations and pushed to close the business. Also they showed the glue in the meat, they said that grains are injected with amongst other things with spider's DNA and that organic grains were seen in the american shelves for the last time in 1985 ! Hey! That was so shocking to me, i was wondering how any sane person would like to live in a place like that. You accept to be killed day by day. Nowadays if i go to US it is never more that 2 weeks. And it happened only a couple of times in 10 years. It's a long time that they undermine your health and food is not real is artificial dead stuff. You have two options, and btw even if you plant your own vegetables, the seeds are gmos, anyway the options are, destroy the evil system, rebel to it and get rid of the bad dudes or move away. If you come to Europe help us to defend our way of life because evil EU is determined to destroy also us. Very very sad

[@kennkid9912]

@@middaysun3553 Well my friend California is like that. It is a very shallow place. Overcrowded and it has no culture to speak of. The Old Mexican -Spanish somewhat diluted. The corporate system runs the world and it is hard to avoid no matter where you live.We plan on living in Mexico in retirement. Not in I taly. We live at the opposite side of the USA and we have no crime to speak of.My wife grew up in Mexico but was a US citizen. She wants to go back and frankly,I dont care. My relatives returned to Italy to visit and the ancestral village where that branch came from . NAVELLI in ABruzzi. It is as dead as a doornail. The other side came from the north. PARMA and near Genoa. Neither of them ever wanted to go back. Things are better than when they left, but despite being 100% Italian ancestry I have no desire to go to or live there. There is more to life than food. That food mania drives me up the wall.

[@laveritaforza108]

@@kennkid9912 almost all towns and villages in the country are dead or dying. The young people ( half of them weren't born ) have gone to the cities. There's a l population crisis in Europe. They will be extinct in the not so distant future. If you don't care about what you eat, the USA may work for you.

[@roadtoitaly2553]

My husband and I (both retired) lived in Sulmona in the Abruzzo region for three months last year. The plan was to determine if we would buy a home immediately or take our time. Although it was a wonderfully slow pace and we didn't rent a car to better immerse ourselves in the culture we determined it wasn't the right time for us. We've been back in the US almost a full year and I long each day for the daily walks to the store, riding the bus to other small towns and the train out to the Adriatic for a day at the sea. We trained it all the way to Germany with overnight stops in Bologna and Venice. Italy is a beautiful country that we could all take many lessons from! Thank you for taking me back if only for a few minute. Someday I long to own a home there and become a fulltime resident, someday will happen!

[@MadisunGray]

🙌🏾

[@andrewbrand200]

Thank you so much for uploading such a warming and refreshing video. I am now stuck in clinical depression and bravely battling it. Your video is really a piece of sunshine for me. I am grateful to come across this video at this time.

[@kendravandruffwatercolors]

As a 4th generation Italian American, based in Orange County I so appreciate this ❤ love the slow, simple elements and the intentionality to sit and savor life Italy brings. I went to Italy for the first time with my Dad in early 2020, and fell in love. I felt right at home. We’re working on our Italian dual citizenship this year.

[@MadisunGray]

Wow. Amazing ❤️

[@josephaugello1527]

Your in oc ca or oc florida. There are many californians that have moved to italy. Spain and Portugal. Since nearly half of ca is hispanic. Many people are used to hearing Spanish. A number have also moved to mexico and others over 150000 californians left the us last year I am thinking of italy or go to guadejara or ensenada

[@matthiasewert3587]

@@josephaugello1527 Is there an Orange County in State of New York too?

[@josephaugello1527]

@@matthiasewert3587 there is And othersen.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orange_County,_New_York

[@lislearnitalianwithsongs]

Good luck with your double citizenship, hope you get it soon! I’d like to have A double citizenship myself, yet I’m Italian since at least the 16th century (maybe Austrian before that) and my wife’s too… Buona fortuna 👍!

[@normanjohnson2548]

I was blessed to have had the opportunity to work in Napoli for more than three yrs. Loved every moment. I miss driving past vesuvio and watching it change with the seasons. The slow pace, the espresso at the local cafe. The time to eat lunch with colleagues and completely forget about work in that moment. Such simple joys, I miss living there terribly. As one saying goes, “when you come to Napoli you cry twice. Once when you get here, and once when you leave”.

[@buonopietro2]

Thank' s for yout comment. I lived in Germany but i am Neapolitan . Forza Napoli🇮🇹💙

[@Alessandro-nq3tm]

In Napoli they said "if you come to Naples you'll cry 2 times, when you arrive and when you leave" 😊

[@PoisonelleMisty4311]

It sounds like you truly had a wonderful experience living and working in Napoli. The beauty of Vesuvio and the changing seasons must have been truly captivating. The relaxed pace of life, enjoying espresso at the local café, and taking the time to have lunch with colleagues sound like cherished moments. It's understandable that you miss living there dearly. The saying you mentioned encapsulates the bittersweet feeling of leaving a place that has brought you so much joy. Napoli has clearly made a lasting impact on you.

[@patricklacaille8528]

I can’t convey how much I needed this video today! Thank you so much!

[@Uniuni266]

Thank you for this beautiful video. It spoke to me so much. I just came back from a vacation in Italy and I already miss it. I got a little emotional when you talked about a slower pace of life and how badly I want that living in a big Canadian city. The part where you mentioned just making do without also hit a nail on the head. Wishing you and your family all the best.

[@autumvaught2660]

I live in Italy and I too am an American. I couldn't agree more with every word you spoke. Sometimes I get annoyed at some of these things but your video popped up in my feed to remind me that this life I'm living here is God's gift to me. So thank you.❤

[@MadisunGray]

Yes 🙌🏾

[@carlamartirano1321]

Thank you for enhancing these aspects of my beloved land, Italy. Things in Italy are evolving and the reality is slowing changing with globalization, but we’re always proud of being Italian and all the things you’ve said are part of the Italian culture. Watching this video made me notice these aspects and made me remember how much I need to appreciate them and embrace them every day 💕💕💕 kisses from Italy 🇮🇹

[@MadisunGray]

Ciao 😘

[@luigimarra4077]

l'Italia si deve amare,

[@ViaggiReali]

Take a trip to Italy, you will taste excellent food

[@CasaArdor]

We've been living in Italy for almost 6 years now. Originally, we're from Los Angeles, but in 2017, we decided to change our lives and chase our dream of living in Italy. Fast forward to today, we recently purchased an abandoned seaside villa in Tuscany and are currently going through the process of remodeling it. It hasn't been all smooth sailing, as Italy is definitely not an easy country to navigate. However, if you go with the flow and do things the right way, it can be an incredibly rewarding place to call home. If you're interested in seeing how daily life and our remodeling journey unfold here, feel free to follow us! We'll be sharing our experiences along the way. Cheers from Tuscany! 🤗😊

[@patriciamckeon4650]

Congratulations 🏆 Great to hear of your adventure... I'm going to follow your page 💐

[@CasaArdor]

Thank you for your kind comment and we are happy to hear we have you apart of our Casa Ardor family!@@patriciamckeon4650

[@ViaggiReali]

see incomparable places in Italy

[@micktheman6]

I’ve seen many videoes about Italian life and this is probably the best I’ve seen

[@auroraescarsega456]

Oh my goodness!! My husband and I went to Rome for our honeymoon and to get a blessing from the Pope in March. We stayed there 2 weeks and people looked at us like we were insane for only staying in Rome for 2 weeks. You’re so right when Americans just want to cram as much as they can. No wonder we are so tired all the time. We noticed the same things you did. Staying in one place for 2 weeks made us get to know the people and slow down. Even when you go to a restaurant, they let you stay as long as you like. There is no rush for the bill. We also noticed how food products expire within days or weeks, not like here in America, where something will last months or years in your pantry. We also shopped every other day at the very local market. The food had a better flavor there too. You actually enjoy life more when you slow down. I just fell in love with Italy and I would love to just live there too.

[@MadisunGray]

Sounds DREAMY 😘

[@silverbirch8173]

Staying in a country for 2 weeks does not equate to living in said country . Food products expire within days? Sounds like you've never set foot in an Italian supermarket. Love the way all you people are idealizing the country 😁 Rispondi

[@carmenhanna7867]

It reminds of my country Peru, but of course Peru is in trouble now.

[@PoisonelleMisty4311]

I'm so glad to hear that you had such a wonderful experience in Rome! It sounds like slowing down and immersing yourself in the local culture really allowed you to appreciate the beauty and charm of the city. I completely agree that taking the time to connect with people and savoring the delicious food can greatly enhance the overall experience. Italy is indeed a lovely country, and it's understandable why you would be tempted to live there. Thank you for sharing your positive insights, and I hope you have the chance to return to Italy again soon!

[@oxfordcreekfarm]

Since my girls were small after lunch we have always had rest time. Now that they’re teenagers we all take naps in the afternoon. THEY asked to do rest time again after a period of not doing it. It improves our mood and health tremendously. Beautiful video!

[@MadisunGray]

That sounds amazing 🤩

[@jenniferb.7250]

We do the same!😊😊

[@bduffy1215]

Beautifully told. You are a storyteller. The simple life, fewer options equals more life.

[@potato-dt7se]

That was so precious 💕"look mama"

[@Susieque963]

I have decluttered so much in my home and life. It has made actually being able to take time to rest so much easier. I never understood how less stuff really helped the home stay cleaned, but it certainly does. It has given me so much time to rest and partake in fulfilling hobbies like gardening, reading, and going on walks. I don’t have to have the stress and thoughts in the back of my head about how much cleaning I’ll have to do if I decide to take a nap instead!

[@MadisunGray]

Yes! I believe it starts with decluttering. Your space affects us more than we think.

[@PoisonelleMisty4311]

That's great to hear! Decluttering can indeed have a significant impact on our mental and physical well-being. With fewer distractions and things to clean, it's easier to relax and make time for activities that bring joy. The freedom from stress and the ability to fully enjoy hobbies are just some of the benefits of a decluttered space. Keep up the good work!

[@Becominggina]

I am counting down the days until I get to go back. Chilling at a cafe in the evening with an espresso watching people walk around, eating good simple food.. The best. This video was wonderful! thank you

[@roby1465]

Gorgeous video and.. thanks, really, thanks for your beautiful words on my land. A hug from Italy. ❤

[@oRm61]

Grazie Gray. Italy thank you for all your kind words.

[@bildadbarreto5785]

I enjoyed living at Italy for 3 years. My husband and I love the language, culture and food! We had a good experiences with our neighbors. Our rental village was very close to Lago di Garda. We love it there ❤️💕

[@MadisunGray]

❤️❤️

[@ViaggiReali]

Take a tour in Naples, you will see unique places

[@stephaniestanley8041]

It was the happiest 12 days of my life...in Italia. ❤ This is a beautiful video essay.

[@TheFreidaCollection]

This way of living seems natural to the body and mind as well as an answer to the stresses of the USA♥️ Thank you so much!

[@serendipityoils9983]

Love all of this. I went through this mind shift as well when I went to Italy in 2014. I want to see more of Europe but I keep returning to Italy and vivere lentamente ❤

[@TrentWatkins-xr2vf]

Definitely agree of all the places I’ve been Italy would be my top choice to live. The pride they take in their public facilities and cities makes living there very enjoyable. Everyone is very polite, food, physical activity, history, proximity to other great traveling. It cannot be beat. Life expectancy is high etc.

[@ilmatanela1816]

❤

[@joannecatherinegabl1913]

Loved Italy and learned a lot. It has truly slowed me down. However, I love the USA. The beauty of being American is we do have a choice and I choose slow living and living with less.

[@MadisunGray]

Definitely. I love living in the US as well. ❤️

[@wendyduncan9084]

We moved into a very small town that has a market for veggies and plants and random things every weekend. We can walk anywhere in town and are safe to do it even after dark. I love that we had the ability to choose too.

[@yellowyosh470]

My favorite feature about my country. 😁

[@Pennyywissee]

So corrupt though. Beyond imaginable.

[@axoram]

e' giusto amare il propio paese ; ma bisogna pure valutare come migliorare la propia vita ; ho amici americani come te e hanno capito, venendo nella vecchia Europa, che in Usa lo stress e la vita troppo materiale e' una vero virus che puo' rovinarti.

[@nevalelapena]

I love this... Sometime, with content like this forget bad things and i just think I'm lucky to be here

[@laraturchetto1460]

The Italy you describe, slow paced, relaxed, always sunny and beautiful, is perfect for holidays, and no wonder everyone loves it. Try going home up that hill in a hurry with heavy rain, freshly bought groceries and two hungry kids just taken from school. When you’ll be finally at home, you’ll have enough time to feed yourself and the kids before realising that your wonderful “siesta time” is gone and in 20 minutes you’ll need to be at work again. Down the slippery hill. There’s a reason why “siesta” is a Spanish word: we don’t do it. I know nobody who sleeps during their lunchtime. We close shops in the central hours of the day because in summer is way too hot to go anywhere and during the rest of the year everybody who has kids or someone to care for (old parents, pets, …) must run here and there to collect/check upon/take out/etc., before going back to work. I know plenty of people who go to the gym in their lunchtime, and I swear I don’t live in a big fancy metropolis, it’s just a small province town. Please don’t mix up the magic of a wonderful holiday with everyday life.

[@roseromano]

Thank you, Lara. Too many people don't realize the difference between being a tourist and being a citizen or an immigrant. Italians have a saying--La vita non è una passeggiata.

[@user-ub4lg9rr9v]

time management is needed no matter where you live.

[@Rena-rc4zd]

You really sound so negative and miserable. Any American watching this understands exactly what she means. The video was about living with less and being content no matter where you live.

[@prairietn1]

After spending 10 days in Italy on vacation I understand all of this. I grew up in a small texas town with Sicilian grandparents. We had coffee in the afternoon and they grew a garden. Italy felt like home to me the pace is not necessarily slower but more intentional.

[@sallyann985]

Tons of retired folks everywhere drink coffee in the afternoon and grow a garden... How is that an Italian thing to do? Most people in Italy don't even have a yard where to grow a garden 🙄

[@prairietn1]

@@sallyann985 so you scoured the comments to say something negative about my memory of my grandparents? Bless your heart.

[@sallyann985]

@@prairietn1 nah I scoured the comments to discourage people from romanticizing a difficult country they know nothing about, which you would probably do as well if some clueless European made a similar video about the US. The grandparents part is irrelevant.

[@dmdeleau]

Able to Visit Italy for 3 weeks last summer and my wife and I both feel in love with how relaxed it is. Your video couldn't say it any better.

[@ViaggiReali]

Come to Italy, you will see incomparable places

[@itslexigee3207]

I've never subscribed to someone based on one video, but there's a first for everything. It's great to hear that other Americans are craving this pace too. Especially grocery shopping, walking more, and being outside. Incredible filmed and edited video, I can't wait to explore your channel more.

[@cesarepieri7977]

Yes Life in Italy can be beautiful just like an endless dream if you are well off financially otherwise it's the same misery as most other countries

[@ViaggiReali]

Come to Italy, you will see incomparable places

[@cesarepieri7977]

@@ViaggiReali I lived in Italy from 1991 to 2001 and then again from 2018 to 2020,in Toscana so I know how beautiful Italy is and I also know how complicated it can be, regardless as I said absolutely in my opinion one of the most beautiful countries in the world and IV lived in Australia,Greece and Spain so I have a small idea

[@ViaggiReali]

Thanks for your detailed comment@@cesarepieri7977

[@melamarcia9922]

Hai ragione !! La verità è ke qesta gente ha mangiato ma soprattuttuo ha bevuto troppo , ebbri dall alcol sono rimasti convinti di essere stati ad una festa ....🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ViaggiReali]

GIUSTO GIUSTO...HA BEVUTO TROPPO!!@@melamarcia9922

[@ChicReal]

As an American, I've come to the same realization while living abroad in Germany and Italy for several years. It put family and work balance into perspective for me, and it helped me appreciate the simple life more. I definitely miss the siestas which I was so accustomed to growing up as a child. Your vlog of Italy was well edited and narrated. Ciao Bella!❤

[@pronetowander.together]

Totally agree! We just spent 5 weeks in Italy riding bikes from Rome to Lake Como (going north to London eventually). We spent rest days doing nothing! Love the slower pace, less choices and simpler life:)

[@e.fontanot3809]

Slower pace???!? Have you ever visit Milan or Turin?

[@pinky6789]

You spent 5 weeks here as a tourist. Italian citizens work hard every day, many Italians, even on the weekend. If we did nothing, how do you think we could buy food, pay bills?

[@AndreaLai94]

As italian, you made me cry. Thank you a lot for this video.

[@user-hd8jy5pd4e]

Love ur perspective!

[@Trixie91]

Whenever I see videos about America I am always so grateful I was born in Europe, The Netherlands to be exact. I feel very safe here, work/life balance is great and it’s truly my home

[@MadisunGray]

Definitely slower pace.

[@cdub4693]

America is the greatest place to live in the world don’t be fooled by people who tell you different. They’re usually leftest rich college students that have never spent a day out of their comfort zone with their soy latte’s.

[@craftbrewer4032]

US is ranked 128 in safety, I think every European country beats it, Portugal is 5

[@daniby9894]

​@CDUB Oh, let's just drop the romantic slogans and national myths, everybodys reality is different and varies even from one neighbourhood to the other inside a same city, not to mention regionally or internationally. Wasn't the last republican presidential campaign all about making America great again? Bottom line, all countries have their perks and downsides and their issues and most people prefer the "devil they know". I have family and friends that ended up in U.S. for the past 30 years and all except one single mum really prospered in making money and landing good jobs, even having their own businesses, they own homes, put their kids through schools and college, saved up a lot, they're U.S. citizens, but in 30 years they've been there, they went to visit back home only once or twice, they rarely ever take a vacation and to their say the only thing you need in America is working suits and pajamas and the more money you make, the more you spend it. Same thing goes for this video, when an Italian mum is lucky to live, work and have a 2 hrs lunch break in a small italian town, siesta isn't on her to do list: the first thing she does is park the car in front of the school, get the bread in the bakery in front of the school, then picks up the kids from school, drives back home, cook lunch, eats, clean up and hurry back to work. Things are never as they seem... it would be too easy...

[@bronwenhook6088]

@@cdub4693 perhaps you could listen to those who have lived in several different places and drawn different conclusions to yours? There's much to admire and enjoy in the US but it is by no means the safest nor does it do well by its own citizens.

[@elifed2368]

Hello! I'm italian and this video has made me smile a lot because I live in the northeast part of Italy (+/-near Venice) and here instead we all run like mads everyday like you in the US 😂...so the fairytale you describe is not exactly how we live in the whole country, but of course there are some points in common (like the working hours with the lunch break can be 8-12/14-18 in many offices or the fact that we like simple but high quality food, every region has its own typical food culture, which is more like a religion for us😂😂 etc...) but you describe us ina positive/beautiful way so thank you ❤

[@patriciamckeon4650]

Italians Do It All Better 🏆

[@TheWolfalpino]

Just in cities and in the North.

[@strikedn]

I come from the same area (Mestre) and the things shown in this video look to me as something happening on Mars, not in Italy.

[@cooberpedy999]

Ho molto apprezzato questo video. L’autrice si è spinta più in là delle banali osservazioni che di solito fanno ì commentatori stranieri su pizza, pasta, traffico e gesticolare con le mani. Ha provato ha cogliere l’anima più profonda di una cultura diversa dalla sua cercando di capire cosa di positivo possa insegnare. Uno sguardo aperto, acuto e curioso che denota un’anima desiderosa di capire in profondità. I miei complimenti.

[@tearose3763]

Love having this reminder, slow living❤

[@pietrodomenicotaricone7665]

Thank you to have showned our coulture so magically! You are more than welcome back❤

[@markp.7165]

News Flash!!! Many people here in the US live the exact same way as you describe. You have to get out of the cities to do it but that slow paced lifestyle is literally everywhere and in almost every state. Having been to Italy but mostly to the larger cities I see them as No different than our big cities. Their busy! I grew up in a small town in western Virginia. Trust me the pace is much slower there and people have a different mindset when it comes to balancing life vs work. If that is what you desire you don't have to leave the US not that you said you wanted to. Thanks for the video.

[@thebutcherspecial]

You have any recommendations I’m so sick and tired of Miami

[@gabrielhartmann9618]

It is still not the same. Slow pace is not the only difference between the us and italy

[@rachelwasser]

This video gives me life!! When you stepped out onto that balcony and into those sunbeams, ohhh my goodness my heart! That lemon tree, the view of the water, I died! Thank you for taking us along and sharing this beauty with us. I love love love the sentiment and the culture in Italy (and many other parts of the world!) that are so different from America. I dream about experiencing it for longer stretches of time, like you did!

[@MadisunGray]

Thanks for watching ❤️

[@paulcapaccio9905]

You are so right !

[@williambrewer6346]

So True! I Love 🇮🇹 Italy!

[@simonepoggio9]

Grazie per aver scelto la Liguria!

[@Chris-vz9zm]

This! Your video captures the heart of Italy. It’s why I keep going back to this beautiful country over and over again.

[@MadisunGray]

❤️

[@nancybender7922]

All of what you are saying is so true. I just got back from a two and a half week trip there and already restless to go back. Italy becomes a part of your soul the longer you stay there. The lifestyle is so simple and just so lovely ❤

[@user-sv2vj1cc1r]

Grazie,ti aspettiamo ancora in Italia,ciaoo

[@user-tx4ht8nd9n]

Purtroppo viverci è differente. Almeno in alcune regioni o contesti.I cambiamenti imposti lavorativamente hanno modificato questo nostro modus vivendi.

[@LorenzoRinaldi13]

As an Italian, I really thank you for this video. I live close to Milan, in a very industrialized area, still I can't get rid of this Italian lifestyle you described and that you made me proud of. Hope the world could start progressively slowing down and enjoy a bit more everyday life without needing to rush all the time.

[@filippogiancola8221]

What a lovely video! I'm an italian and i had and i'm experiencing both lives you described! I think our goal is to be busy all day long but finding small piece of tranquillity on our lives... So you work really hard but not too much than you go to take a spritz, always by feet, in the meaning time you stop to buy some fresh grocery, bread, pasta, cheese, then you go home, you cook out clean and repeat... Work life balance at his best!

[@ourevergreenhome]

Oh my goodness! It’s so nice to see Sardinia being more recognised! That’s where my husband is from and all of his family are there still ! I miss it so much but your video was a welcomed delight! Thank you ❤

[@MadisunGray]

My next video will be all about Sardinia ❤️

[@valefur72]

In many towns in Italy, life is everything but slow... especially in the north east. We have also malls, Mac Donald's, KFC, and other American stores. The difference is that in the weekend you can go in one hour in a very nice place to discard all the stress of the working days. In the US you can travel for hours and you can only find another city almost identical to the previous one.

[@New-bw4kz]

Yet is the country with the most immigration.. I wonder why?

[@nadiutta]

Exactly. It depends where you go in Italy. My family is from padova and venezia and they work a lot. Also if you're there on vacation you don't feel the stress of a regular life with the stress of working every day.

[@ViaggiReali]

Come to the south of the Italian peninsula, you will eat the best food

[@Nichilistaiconoclasta]

That's a good one!

[@ivanzabala7549]

I am part Italian. I live in California. I visited Italy once, and my soul felt at home. The longing to return and stay there is never far from my mind. Great video!! 🙏

[@davidesperanza7701]

Very, very good! You have literally captured the "soul" we have in Italy. P.S. trofie are my favorite pasta.

[@maxnexus4812]

We Italians are simple, full of culture, traditions, food. Italy is beautiful in its entirety. And there will always be an ITALIAN who will give you a smile. I look forward to seeing you in Scandiano is located in EMILIA ROMAGNA. A COUNTRY OF CULTURE, AND MEDIEVAL.

[@silvimarc2982]

Emilia has the best Italian people. (Messaggio per autrice del video)

[@PoisonelleMisty4311]

It's wonderful to hear about the simplicity, culture, traditions, and delicious food that Italy has to offer. Italy's beauty is indeed captivating, and it's heartwarming to know that Italians are always ready to greet with a smile. I would love to visit Scandiano in Emilia Romagna someday, a region known for its cultural richness and medieval heritage. Thank you for sharing your excitement about your homeland!

[@toffonardi7037]

a Varese ci sarà qualcuno a darti un sorriso? vai da nero americano e poi come ti trattano hahahahahahah

[@AnnalisaJ]

Ok, Italy is more than the land of pasta… what about craftsmanship, art, history, and so much more. My family had a home near Portofino, I am from Bologna (now living in North San Diego). When you say you got to know people; this is what I miss the most as an Italian living in California is a sense of community. I enjoyed this video, thank you. ❤

[@NorthPoleSun]

Yes, the video is good at showing how Italians appreciate slow moments. But that doesn't mean we are lazy or that we aren't industrious. I feel that our country gets this unfortunate rap as being full of slow people just sleeping all day. Italy has one of the largest and most advanced manufacturing industries in the world, and produces much more than just touristy spots and good food...

[@blackkohi]

Saluti da un bolognese, so che ci stai rappresentando al meglio in territorio americano :D

[@PamelaTiede]

Please do a whole video about the joy of limitations!! I love the idea. My family is in the process of claiming our Italian citizenship through our family line. My aunt and my cousin just got back from a trip to (mostly) Sicily. I can’t wait! I totally agree with the concepts you’ve presented in this video. It was delightful!! Thank you!

[@MadisunGray]

We wanted to go to Sicily but that’s the part we canceled when we got sick.

[@PamelaTiede]

@@MadisunGray Oh dear!! I'm sorry to hear you missed out on Sicily. My kids always seem to get sick when we go on vacation. I think breaking from their normal routine throws their bodies off somehow.

[@user-ie1fu5hc4w]

I have been to Italy 5 times and will be visiting Sicily soon. It is my happy place!

[@patciava3398]

In major cities shops and offices are open non-stop from 9 .00 to 20.00, it's just in the small towns that shops close for lunch, also because in seaside resorts they are often open until 11 pm during the summer.

[@youvegotafriendinme2711]

Second time watching this and I don't do that usually, I could watch over and over and won't get fed up with it. It's just beautiful 😍. Brings so much of satisfaction just seen the views and food, streets. Italy is one place I'd like to visit some day. You're a great content creator.

[@MadisunGray]

Wow. This is so sweet Thank you 😘

[@rider4725]

First thing to say, amazing video! I will give you the perspective of an Italian which moved to Boston to study: I believe that you saw such a small part of Italy, and the concept of slow life really applies to certain areas (like Liguria where you've been, or a big part of the south). But I'd recommend you going to visit cities like Milan, where the rhythm of life is totally different, but with all the perks of being an Italian city. I would compare places like Liguria and the south more to rural areas of Texas or California. If you visit Milan, Rome, Venice, Florence, Bologna and many others, you will see how diverse Italy is. What I'm saying is that it's hard to judge the US just by visiting New York. So my tip is to explore Italy further and you love it also more. (For example, having a trip all around Sicily or Tuscany can be something you will never forget. I guarantee that!). Thanks again for the incredible video, hope you will appreciate my suggestion ☺

[@TheGreatWasian_]

Do you like Boston? I’m an American and considering moving to Boston. It’s considered the “most European city” in the USA

[@rider4725]

@@TheGreatWasian_ I definetely recommend it to you, especially coming from europe. Many other cities can be a “cultural shock” for european, and this is because of homeless people in the streets, crime and other problems. Boston is extremely safe, you don’t get to see these just cited things a lot, and Boston culture is just simply super good. The city is amazing, food is good (and I say this as an Italian) and sports are just amazing. I assure you that you will be extremely satisfied with your choice

[@TheGreatWasian_]

@@rider4725 thanks for sharing that with me. That makes me happy to hear. Hopefully I can find a good job so that I can afford to live there and hopefully I’ll find a decent place to stay as well. One thing that I’m worried about a little bit is that I’ll probably be moving alone and away from family and friends and probably even my girlfriend for a bit. Does the city feel lonely a bit or is it easy to find friends/are the people friendly and inviting?

[@rider4725]

@@TheGreatWasian_ I’d say it really comes down to your job, the type of person you are and places you attend. There are lot of opportunities for networking at Harvard, MIT and other universities, during conferences and network events. Overall I’d say Boston is a solid city for meeting people, but just make sure you take advantage of your network and don’t be afraid to engage with conversations with strangers

[@seriejohnson698]

Question: Did you live in one of the homes made into the hills? How big are they. As you get older it seems as if those home higher up would be harder to get to. Is it true that most people live in apartments or Condos. Do they have what the US call the Suburbs? Thank you😊

[@ronrobert1544]

I love this video. Thank you for making it!

[@DEFIEASYMINING]

you make my heart full of happyness, thank you so much for your words about italy, i'm italian and i live in Sardinia isle, a very special place and i think for me it's impossible to live in another place, for me Sardinia and Italy is the paradise.

[@MadisunGray]

Anyone else want to incorporate more slow living into their days? 🙋🏼‍♀

[@sisishan7544]

We do this in China too. Wish we did it in the USA. I would love a mid afternoon nap in the middle of the work day. Lunch breaks at school are 2 hrs long because you’re expected to go home, see your family and take a nap.

[@capturedbyannamarie]

When we went to Mexico they also do a siesta. It’s great!

[@sallyviehland6204]

I already do!!

[@thewovenknotcrochetthehand4721]

Yes please ❤

[@gretelkettle3838]

But how could we after guzzling so much caffeine every morning like we tend to in the US?! 😂

[@bethburleson6684]

absolutely loved this. I'm 12 weeks pregnant with #3 and 100% been slowing down and resting more, out of necessity, but God is showing me that rest is a gift from Him. how beautiful it is to rest in Him and know that He is enough.

[@MadisunGray]

Love this ❤️

[@Rena-rc4zd]

I love this video. The advice here is good anywhere you live. Less is more. Slow down. More options doesn’t mean better.

[@godisallaroundus]

I'm pretty sure this is my first time checking out your content. It's really great. We are considering slow travel. Please pray for us and keep us updated.