Maid Of Honour Wants To Wear Pantsuit To Wedding! | Say Yes To The Dress: Bridesmaids

[@SayYestotheDress]

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[@carrollkuemper]

Dejuan rocked this episode. She did what her sister wanted because she loves and supports her.

[@TotallyNot_maya-f2p]

" YeS yOu ArE" * everyone looks around * " Im just kidding 😁" * Everyone looks around *

[@jocelynohalloran3550]

Love the twin bond that they have. Loved that Dujuan wanted to please her sister. Seen this ep a few times and still always watch it when it come up❤

[@momD612]

Ok, the girlfriend just needs to shut up. She has absolutely no say in this. 😠

[@avthenas]

exactly!!

[@sisterblooms]

The sister’s girlfriend should know her place this isn’t about her. It’s the bride’s day and her wishes must be respected, period!

[@nicolefox777]

She does know her place and it’s to stand up for her partner. It’s fine to have open conversations about issues with family. That’s how people grow

[@kierraramsey4843]

Dejuan is the best sister ever, ps i think she would so cute with finger waves with tht dress

[@valhallamcgaughey3720]

DeJuan about gave me a heart attack with that YES YOU ARE. Her twin was so shocked, like she had misunderstood their whole life together. Wow. I do love how both twins support each other. DeJuan is willing to wear a dress to make her sister happy and Bride is willing to find a dress that makes DeJuan (and the other bridesmaid) feel comfortable.

[@Nykki72]

I remember this episode. I really didn’t like the MOH girlfriend. She had no place in stating her opinions. If she loved her sister, she can suck it up for one day.

[@kimmiestar13]

The twin sister is so uncomfortable in the dresses and is trying very hard cover her discomfort with humour. Fake smiles and forced laughter all to make the bride and store staff happy.

[@jaxscales6158]

I would never tell my bride’s maids that they had to wear what *I* wanted them to wear

[@dy9278]

The Sister is a good sport.

[@jeniferclemente1252]

The title is misleading cuz it’s not the bride’s sister that wanted to wear a pantsuit that badly. She wanted to just support her sister’s vision for her wedding day. The gf was the one trying to force the pantsuit idea out to her. She should’ve kept her mouth shut if she wasn’t gonna be there for the bride to just try to make it about her sister. I did like the fact that the sister still stuck up for the bride’s vision and chose to put up with wearing a dress for her on her special day. 🙂

[@user-cc5od3zk4p]

The gf has no right to an opinion. She shouldn’t even be there.

[@LauraTas-u9l]

I loved the love between the sisters.

[@momcat5213able]

I wore a lime green satin full-length dress for a friend's wedding. I hate lime green and satin, but I sucked it up for my friend. It was her wedding. Fortunately, she provided fabric and a pattern, so my mom, who was an excellent seamstress, made it for me. I purchased fabric to line it, which made all the difference. Never wore the dress again. In fact, it became a multitude of fancy Barbie dresses for my nieces and their friends, so it didn't go to waste.

[@ignitethefuse542]

this comment section is NOT passing the vibe check… i usually am team bride but i would much rather allow my maid of honor/sister to wear a pantsuit so that she can feel comfortable in her body AND have a fun time celebrating me rather than being insecure and uncomfortable the whole night and looking back on the event w sadness

[@StormyOdd-gk7iv]

Thank you, exactly!

[@brookelynnwu8016]

I agree. Makes me sad, there are very many cute pantsuits. Especially since they just came back in style. You see Margot Robbie wearing nice ones all the time.

[@valhallamcgaughey3720]

I think the bride wanted to find a dress her twin was comfortable in, and they did! She wouldn’t force her to wear something she was not at all comfortable in. The girlfriend assumed she couldn’t be comfortable AT ALL in ANYTHING other than a pantsuit. Even though DeJuan likes pants suits more, she seemed perfectly willing to try on dresses until they found one she was comfortable in. Obviously she didn’t like the first few dresses so that’s why they did not go with the first dresses.

[@valhallamcgaughey3720]

PS, I am surprised they had 0 pantsuits because there are cute ones that some people love for their wedding, so I’m not hating on pantsuits. Just not for this bride. I assume that she would happily wear a pantsuit in DeJuan’s wedding if that’s what DeJuan wanted. These twins love each other and respect their different styles.

[@ShelleyPayne-sw5iz]

Flip that, the bridesmaid is there for the bride and should want the bride to be happy which is exactly what she did. It’s the bride’s day. It’s not like she was asking her for something ridiculous. Wearing a dress is not that big of a deal. I love the way the sister bridesmaid handled it.

[@_melody_8]

I’m glad that, where I come from, it’s not customary for the bride to decide what bridesmaids wear. If a bride were to force me into wearing something that doesn’t suit me at all and makes me feel uncomfortable all day, I’d rather step down as a bridesmaid. Clearly, this wasn’t a big issue in this case, but in general, I don’t understand why the bride gets to decide not only on her own dress but also on what the guests wear. It should be enough to coordinate the colors and keep it cohesive, if that is important to the couple. But forcing someone to wear something unflattering for an entire day just isn’t fair.

[@PyrielQuinn]

Simple, it’s her wedding and when it’s someone else’s turn they get to decide. Wearing something you don’t like for those you love for a day is another way to show your love and support. And finally the bride can guarantee her vision is realised. Weddings are about 2 individuals and their collective of friends/family.

[@oliviachetcuti225]

Just out of curiosity, where do you come from? I love to hear about different countries traditions and customs.

[@nicolewilliams403]

It's not about the twin sister or the girlfriend, it's about the bride

[@tpartisupporter]

especially when they show up looking like slobs.

[@Caramel50]

The girlfriend should have not involved her thoughts. This was between the bride and her sister. She will definitely cause future drama.

[@JustAnotherPerson4U]

If you're a bridesmaid or maid of honour, you shouldn't have to 'suck it in for a day.' You should be happy to do it. Whilst yes the bride should have the ultimate say so. It's far better and nicer if you can find an outfit or style that everyone likes or likes enough that they're happy wearing it even if it isn't a personal fave. If there's a maid of honour who would prefer a pantsuit. I don't see what's wrong with exploring that option. It doesn't mean you will end up with a pantsuit by the end. But by looking into it, you can say you've explored it. Whilst the wedding is about the bride and groom. You chose the bridesmaids for them as people presumably. It's ok to think of their comfort and style a little as well. I do sort of agree with other people that maybe the girlfriend shoild've stayed behind during the appointment, because frankly she's not wearing any of the dresses. And her opinions may come from a place of love and concern for her partner, but it can come across as adversarial in this situation. However, they all managed to work it out in the end. And everyone was happy so not hard feelings lingered.

[@FullTimePatient37]

What about jumpsuits!

[@theemoturtle2019]

As someone who has a Non-binary best friend, I have this same dilemma. My friend wants to wear a pants suit to my wedding and I am determined to make that happen. I just need to find a way to find a suit that doesn't look out of place with the rest of my bridesmaids and doesn't look prom 😂

[@ecb7408]

If you don't find one, you might be able to just buy good fabric that goes along with the theme and have it be made. Or maybe alter a dress into a jumpsuit.

[@theemoturtle2019]

@@ecb7408 i might have to go with the 1st option, but i do like the jumpsuit idea! i just want all my brides maids to be comfortable! Id hate myself if my friends look at photos of my wedding day and hear them say how much they hated how they looked/ felt! yes its my day, and I know what i want, but i also know that I prefer my friends to be happy! if my person of honor wants to wear a suit, they will get said suit! but i will run by the jumpsuit idea! that might actually be easier and less expensive!

[@oliviachetcuti225]

@@theemoturtle2019 Good on you! You sound like a very kind, caring and considerate person. I hope you and your bridal party find what you’re looking for. All the very best for your wedding day & for your future. With love from Australia. 🇦🇺🐨🦘

[@squidgymallow]

Would you tell a man to wear it. Really why can't they respect her too. They knew what she was comfortable with before asking her.

[@y0urm0m000]

If I ever get married I won't have any bridesmaids. Just a short and sweet ceremony.

[@wendygreene2316]

Wear what the bride wants. Period.

[@katertot4643]

This episode hasn't aged well. Get super lesbians pants suits that match dresses. Lori, get hundreds of pant suits to accommodate all types of people, it's not that hard. What kind of "vision" involves putting this woman in a dress. Who wants to look back on pictures like that. You'll only get the feeling you made someone conform to something they are not.

[@Tquin55]

Wow! People are so hung up over clothing. At my daughter’s wedding she had 2 guys and 2 girls stand with her. There was a color scheme and they chose what they wanted to wear. The day is not about the clothing.

[@ChristaLina1]

Lawd have Mercy 🙄

[@girlfriday1608]

The girlfriend should have stayed home

[@Boaquena]

I think the bride is incredibly selfish. She cares more about how things look than the comfort of her sister. The consultant is awful. Terrible people. I can finish watching this cruelty.

[@captainrachel]

ugh. Dejuan, leave your confrontational girlfriend at home next time.

[@tracywalkerPossumQueen]

The girlfriend has absolutely NO SAY in any of this. She's a Plus 1 - not a member of the wedding party or the planner or anything. She's going to be a guest at the wedding, and is at the shopping appointment as a courtesy to the Maid of Honor/sister - that's it. Sit down and be quiet, rude girlfriend, and be respectful of the bride. Maybe worry about getting a decent haircut...

[@nancydecker4868]

It's her wedding. The girlfriend should butt out

[@marcellawhalen3776]

Why did they keep putting her in strapless dresses. THAT is what really made her uncomfortable. Could they have had a pantsuit with extra wide legs. The illusion of a dress.

[@debbiesb7543]

Traci is causing trouble and want to be in charge. The bride and her sis clearly have a great relationship so there's no need for her to get involved.

[@kccollinshummel6663]

The sisters could work this out. The gf needed to go away or just shut it! She's pushy and obnoxious.

[@anaderol5408]

😂😂😂 40 years from now the twins will still be close …the opinionated girlfriend may just be a distant memory.

[@robertadoue8374]

The decision on what the bridesmaids should be wearing is 1000% the brides. End of story!! Her sister should realize that and the girlfriend of her sister should keep her mouth shut! She doesn’t have a horse in this race!!

[@RedxRiot]

Imagine dropping hundreds of dollars on a garment you don’t even like to wear for a few hours for one day.

[@elizabethcompton738]

The sister's girlfriend needed to keep her mouth shut.

[@nicolefox777]

It’s unfortunate the bride was so dead set on her sister wearing a dress. Kuddos for the partner of sticking up for her and having a conversation about it.

[@musiclove4635]

The bride has a vision of "her" wedding not her sister's. It's about what the bride wants, it is her day after all. Geesh.

[@MarieWoodward-fs8pq]

Dejuan's girlfriend shouldn't have said a word!!! It is the BRIDE'S wedding after all. Next time leave her at home. I would've been irritated

[@blacksailsfan4life]

the consultant reminds me of vanessa bayer

[@marinaayar8376]

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