It’s not about her sister. It’s about wanting to feel like her mom loves her just as much
@NowLeavingNormal Жыл бұрын
Yep. She just wants her mother to be proud of her and look at her the same way she looks at her sisters.
@amydoran9987 Жыл бұрын
It’s sister to sister jealousy.
@dramamole Жыл бұрын
Yes but it's also not fair to expect the mother to have a reaction she has no control over. The mother can, and did, be supportive, but crying at a dress is an involuntary response. And who knows what the circumstances were that day that lead to the tears. The bride was putting all of the pressure on her mother rather than just picking something she liked.
@guardtheham1233 Жыл бұрын
Facts😊
@bunjijumper5345 Жыл бұрын
Her sister is one of the most beautiful brides I ever seen, its hard when someone like that is in the family with average looking sisters.
@zabindhanji2 жыл бұрын
I am sad that Linda felt that she had to 'out do' her sister's wedding dress. It took the joy out of the experience. I'm also glad that she didn't settle for just any dress. The one that she finally chose was unique and looked beautiful on her. It flattered her figure very well.
@mistybollinger33122 жыл бұрын
How in the world do you figure that?! It made her belly look absolutely huge and showed every line!!
@kln58cub2 жыл бұрын
@@mistybollinger3312 they will order in her size so it doesn't show every line.
@saltedcarameltea43592 жыл бұрын
@@mistybollinger3312 are you expecting a dress to make her change body type altogether she has a belly and its gonna be there regardless once she gets the dress to her measurements it'll look a better fit but her stomach is her stomach and the dress looked gorgeous
@dsmith4362 жыл бұрын
I don’t think she found a dress that’s flattering at all.
@Imissneo2 жыл бұрын
Beautifully said. UK.
@auntjosie7562 жыл бұрын
That momma was squeezing out those tears to make sure it was her last shop for a dress. Its truly sad when you have to compete.
@cyflym112 жыл бұрын
I agree, they were tears of relief. I'm getting very fed up with this pressure for everyone to cry. Fgs people can be happy without blubbing all over the place.
@darshkaur56842 жыл бұрын
I found it so awkward that she wanted her mom to burst out crying lol 😂 I’m sorry the way my mom and I are shopping for dresses for the wedding is totally different. My mom has better taste than I do for sure
@katzlevyalon2 жыл бұрын
💯
@Real-housewives-Wakanda2 жыл бұрын
😂 😂 😂 The pressure was high for the mumma 😂😂😂
@natashakuzmanoska96562 жыл бұрын
Remember her mother when you think that acting is easy :D. But honestly it was the best dress.
@theraweggfiles2 жыл бұрын
This bride suffers from SEVERE insecurity to the point that she will NEVER be happy unless she gets validation and approval from those around her.
@anitahartzenberg32122 жыл бұрын
I think she will be happy for she found someone who loves her for who she is and who saw the beauty she has inside and out no matter her size
@morganminpin Жыл бұрын
I think you are right. Now that she has the dress, she'll start agonizing about the catering, the flowers, the music, the photographer, because everything about HER wedding has to be better than what her sister had. Not a comfortable or productive way to live.
@theraweggfiles Жыл бұрын
@@morganminpin It really isn't. People should live for their own happiness, not the competition to outdo others because there will always be someone who had it better no matter how good one has it.
@emmalouie1663 Жыл бұрын
Had a co-worker in her 50s and she would talk about how she disliked her sisters... her jealousy must have been a life long thing. It took me a while to figure out that her itchyness stemmed from her own insecurity. She was such an unpleasant person. Imagine being like that one's entire life an into their 50's but for no real reason. She was married, had a house, a decent life, frankly an easy job, she had a dog, had children and grandchildren but she was a pill and it was unnecessary all because of some mental issue.
@theraweggfiles Жыл бұрын
@@emmalouie1663 That's why I always say, "Live by YOUR rules and love yourself. Forget what others do or how they live and stop comparing oneself to others because things aren't always what they seem.
@poponachtschnecke2 жыл бұрын
It's really unhealthy to have a goal of topping someone else's happy moment. Don't do that.
@sharicewilliams10 ай бұрын
Its about that. She just wants to be loved like her sister
@pksmith12756 ай бұрын
Agree!!
@ChristineAustralia742 жыл бұрын
Linda's in the wrong shop..... She needs Jo and Al ❣️
@denisehall48182 жыл бұрын
too true
@annagraser50882 жыл бұрын
She probably can't afford to go to Al and Jo with that big wedding.
@mapatterson1732 жыл бұрын
Or Auntie Gok. He will make her look and feel beautiful
@catladyfromky41422 жыл бұрын
Jo and Al didn’t exist when this episode was aired. The bridal industry as a whole did not exist for plus size brides. So this was as good as she could have gotten. Now there are tons of plus size designers and shops that cater to them. In the US. Why do you think that the US doesn’t have any shops like that now? So you think that they don’t exist if there isn’t a TV show about them? LOL
@WatchingBadTV2 жыл бұрын
It's hilarious to me that they're pulling out these klienfeld's episodes with curvy brides like thats the only reason we like curvy brides boutique. It's literally Jo and Al. These consultations have NOTHING on Jo and Al
@leahclo48572 жыл бұрын
She’s got more issues than a dress can fix☹️ I hope she had a great wedding.
@L.Spencer2 жыл бұрын
Looks like they did have a nice wedding, she wore the dress, too.
@leahclo48572 жыл бұрын
@@L.Spencer that makes me very happy.
@momma89542 жыл бұрын
Here's sister's do
@marcelladillard35562 жыл бұрын
Great wedding vs great marriage
@crystal96264 ай бұрын
She’s insecure because of her weight
@SS-rd6cv2 жыл бұрын
Hats off to Christiane the consultant....she was sooo sweet and patient with her!
@ipsy7779 ай бұрын
Initially thought Linda was trying to compete with her sister but later realised she was craving her mom's and sisters' love and validation.. felt bad for her..
@introspectivekitty21672 жыл бұрын
“I want to top her!” Notice how all her attention is on out doing her sister rather then the person she is marrying. She’s going to want to have quadruplets if her sister has twins
@ssunnybunniasmr Жыл бұрын
she feels that way because her sisters were always favorited over her, for being plus sized and the middle child. i think it’s more about being loved and appreciated the way her sisters are rather than just wanting to put her sister down..
@tegsxx4020 Жыл бұрын
Fully agree. I'm plus sized and the middle child of 7, 5 of which including me are women and the fact that she was adamant her dress tops hers sister's dress screamed child for me. It wasn't about validation once she said that. Her sister also encouraged that mindset during that first appointment. My younger sister had boys and kept trying until she had a girl at child 5 when I had my only child that happened to be a girl. I'm in no way competitive so I never understood it. I hope she learns to live her life happily rather than comparing what should be her life mile stones with her sisters' and ruining those moments for herself.
@marshhen2 жыл бұрын
If I were the mother of three daughters I would stamp out any sibling rivalry. This mother just passively lets it happen. My mother never created any competition between myself and my two sisters. We got along well and always cheered each other on. Women compete with each other, without thinking about it. It is so damaging and a waste of energy. To compete with somebody you love is just insane.
@OnLifeandLove2 жыл бұрын
True but most parents don't intentionally let it happen. It would be lying for them to say they don't have a favorite child, it's just human nature. And when they do there's jealousy and rivalry.
@r.d.81722 жыл бұрын
Boys in high school always tried to generate rivalry between my sister and I, even girls too, inviting just me to their birthdays cause I wasn''t "the pretty one". I never went to those, and our friedship with my sister was always the most important thing, for us both, thanks to my parents. I'm not sure that there's always a favourite child, we're all different and parents should be able to work on appreciating the different traits in their kids. We're 3 sisters too, and teachers would always compare us, boys would say my sis was the pretty one and I wasn't, etc. and specially through teenage years parents should help their children see how that's just a stupid game and that the bond between sisters can be beautiful!!
@AkireMaru Жыл бұрын
Option 2: one is fat and the other is really fat. She was probably constantly compared to her sister by other people and this has very little to absolutely nothing to do with the mom.
@jessijaneway6660 Жыл бұрын
My sister and I are 12 years apart and different in every way possible. She hit major mile stones leagues before I ever would. Because of that mom was very vigilant to stop me from comparing myself to my sister. There's no way I could compare to her, we're two different people at different stages of our lives who want completely different things. I'm grateful she did that because now I can live along side her.
@kookycat9663 Жыл бұрын
I am the middle child of 3 girls in my family. There are 6yrs between my older sister & myself & 7yrs between myself & my younger sister. I completely understand how this bride feels. My Mum always says there is no difference between us & she loves us all the same. BUT... I always have felt like the 'outsider' as my sisters have more in common with each other & my Mum. My older sister is awesome with business & brains etc...my younger sister was born with a slight heart defect, but is ok now. She is extremely close to my Mum & is now her full time carer as Mum is now wheelchair bound. The 3 of them have the same opinions, some hobbies & interests in common, whereas I don't... I have nothing in common with them at all, other than being blood related (even my blood group is different! Lol!). So, even tho it was never intentional, & my Mum always stopped any discussion about it at all, it has always been the 3 of them & me on my own...
@lynnb-TruckCastreauJr2 жыл бұрын
As a middle child AND a plus-size woman, I was right there with Linda. The final dress was definitely the right choice for her, and she looks gorgeous.
@ponta4192 жыл бұрын
I agree the dress was really beautiful and she looked gorgeous in it !
@Pretty_Nesha Жыл бұрын
In my household it’s different. I’m the oldest but most forgotten . I have 2 younger sisters and they’re the favorites . So I definitely feel Linda’s pain .
@alyssaheike8055 Жыл бұрын
@Pretty_Nesha Oh wow. That's so different from my household but i feel you. I'm the youngest and the most forgotten lol. I've been competing all my life having the best score in school, having a prestigious job etc, but I've given up now. I know I'll never be enough. My own mother didn't want me but didn't have an abortion because of my dad. They already had a girl and boy so she didn't see a reason to have another one. I just thank God that he sent other parental figures in my life through the neighbors and I'm now on a path towards the career I want soo...yeah Sorry for the huge trauma dump lol. I just needed to let that out 😅
@NighDarke2 жыл бұрын
She definitely needs to stop trying to compete with her sisters and just do what works for her and makes her happy. Don't worry about what they are doing or what they have or what they did. Do your own thing!
@lockeandkey21 Жыл бұрын
Mom brought eye drops to the second appointment just in case 🤣 This weird ass sibling rivalry makes me seriously question if she’s getting married for the right reasons.
@eileenmcdonald1599 Жыл бұрын
I am lucky.. My sister can be a witch but is supportive of me.
@africanawang2674 Жыл бұрын
Kudos to the mum for crying successfully under pressure to. Its absurd. Love yourselves people.
@rheverend Жыл бұрын
When it came to meeting my husband, getting engaged/married, getting pregnant, etc. I never got the excited reaction from my parents. Every event was almost a “oh no” reaction from them. It really hurt. I had waited so long and been thru so much just to have them act like these milestones were not something to celebrate in my case. At some point you just stop caring what they think and prove them wrong by being unbelievably happy with your choices (as long as they are wise choices to begin with lol)
@alliechotikul1621 Жыл бұрын
hey stranger! im super proud of everything you’ve accomplished, you rock :)
@myragrapa5169 Жыл бұрын
My parents always disapproved of me dating anyone so I get it
@monongahelacats Жыл бұрын
Same. My mom never showed much emotion at all at any of my milestones.
@HelenShaghaghi11 ай бұрын
This resonated with me ... I never had the approval I wanted and after awhile you need to get it from yourself
@I.A.G9 ай бұрын
Same here
@italianlifestyle79112 жыл бұрын
A wedding should be a moment of joy and not spreading negativity around you bringing everyone down! Positive vibes and kindness are free.❤
@user-us6ce7me8k2 жыл бұрын
Agreed.
@somebody70702 жыл бұрын
What do u mean ? Was anyone negative?
@poponachtschnecke2 жыл бұрын
@@somebody7070 the bride was pretty awful for making the whole thing about conquering her sister. She could have talked about how much her union with her fiance meant to her, and what an exciting and happy transition it was shaping up to be, but instead she made it about trying to make her sister less than her.
@I.A.G9 ай бұрын
@@poponachtschnecke Exactly what I commented
@velmacoffey37632 жыл бұрын
This is sad...mom says double whammy, (middle child and plus size). They don't see her for her beauty, kindness and her accomplishments on her own. The dress she chose is stunning. Go and live your life with your man, who loves you as you are !!!
@ellenmason38332 жыл бұрын
Glad I am not the only one who noticed her mom saying that. And as a mom myself, if you know that is how your child feels, then maybe do something to counteract that rather than feed into it.
@darshkaur56842 жыл бұрын
Oh my god! i was just thinking that!
@Samantha-dv4je2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad I’m not the only one who noticed what the mom said!! That was fucked up!
@jb671210 ай бұрын
"Beauty"?????---Where???
@keving.1518Ай бұрын
Horrible mother
@RoseTPBTarot2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for showing the beautiful dress she ended up with, and not cutting off the video when she gave up at the first appointment. I hate the videos where the bride leaves empty handed
@cathybaldry7822 Жыл бұрын
The sister was spot on with her choosing the dress for all the wrong reasons. She could see that the bride was trying to out do the younger sister. I'm glad she learned something and the dress she choose is hers and not about her sister.
@trini23352 жыл бұрын
Bless her heart but she ruined her first appointment because she was competing against her sister. I’m glad she was able to find a beautiful dress but she needs to stop putting poor mom in the middle. She is blessed to have such a supportive family ♥️
@fanfiction4thewin149 Жыл бұрын
This whole situation is Moms fault. So it’s not “poor Mom” she built this competition with her kids.
@winxclubflora8446 Жыл бұрын
@@fanfiction4thewin149exactlyyyy the mom clearly shows favourtism and the “supportive” sister was attacking her the entire appointment. She needs a better family than this toxic
@mandyellis87611 ай бұрын
‘Poor mom’ is casting herself as the meat in the sandwich…she is not! The mother should have got a hold on this constant rivalry years ago and stamped it out. Likely she’s spent years fanning the flames!!
@I.A.G9 ай бұрын
@fanfiction4thewin149 you've replied to every comment stating the unhealthy nature of the bride's attitude. Are you the bride? She's toxic. That's the fact. If this was the other way round - sister competing with her bride sister getting married, I'm sure you'll be taking about jealousy, etc
@marietighe63289 ай бұрын
@@fanfiction4thewin149you don't know that. You are watching a staged REALITY show. Sometimes people are just assholes and she didn't present as a downtrodden middle child, she presented like a damn spoilt brat.
@yerintaem2 жыл бұрын
It’s sad she feels a constant competition with her sisters. She consistently says “We have to go above her” or “We need to top that” or “I want that since it was a wow dress and everyone cried when she put it on”
@shofisstar Жыл бұрын
The thing is: I think what brings out the tears is watching the bride just glow with her dress like it isn’t the dress that causes the reaction is the bride and her reaction to the dress that brings that emotion to the moment
@GoddesssAphrodite2 жыл бұрын
She focused on competing with her sister instead of enjoying the experience… that’s sad!
@marilynvallance2 жыл бұрын
Linda is so busy trying to top her sister that she can’t see the wood for the trees.
@fanfiction4thewin149 Жыл бұрын
More like wanting her mom to love her
@seeyouonthefly20242 жыл бұрын
If this is the family dynamic, I feel sorry for the groom.
@amydoran99874 ай бұрын
Me too
@MBAinternetmktg2 жыл бұрын
Sad that she's so focused on gaining an advantage over her sister. The final dress was beautiful.
@thetaoofkim51852 жыл бұрын
Brides seem to put so much pressure on themselves and their entourage to get the "right" reaction (tears)!
@Tracymmo Жыл бұрын
And that's just dress shopping. Imagine their expectations for the wedding day
@persephone3309Ай бұрын
Her "need" to top her? So does everything else top her sister too? Her venue, the costs, the groom? I can't imagine choosing my dress based on other people.
@theraweggfiles2 жыл бұрын
This bride needs to change the wedding date, find her self-esteem, and THEN come back when she is able to focus on herself and not on TOPPING anyone. She's too insecure to get married. She's gonna spend her life trying to outdo this or that person and she's gonna miss out on the moments that MAKE life worth living.
@L.Spencer2 жыл бұрын
It seems her wedding went well, she wore the dress. They married in 2012.
@itsallgood40932 жыл бұрын
Wow that's a lot of advice from just seeing a video.
@theraweggfiles2 жыл бұрын
@@itsallgood4093 It's solid advice.
@KkKk-oy6rn Жыл бұрын
Also hit the gym during that time. Helps with the confidence
@PinkieJoJo6 ай бұрын
@@KkKk-oy6rnRight. If you have such self confidence issues because of your size, change it. I know losing weight isn’t easy for some but seems so many just don’t take the effort to do so.
@girlnextdoor07034 ай бұрын
“Tears mean approval” oh boy, her husband has a lifetime of that to look forward to.
@CAS120 Жыл бұрын
I’m crying from exhaustion. This chick is too much
@debrazawlocki39756 ай бұрын
The bride is overly focused on competing with her older sister. She needs to find A DRESS instead of spending time, energy, and money to outdoing her sister. RIDICULOUS.
@Raevynwing2 жыл бұрын
If she didn't make it into a competition, she may have actually found her dream dress on her first visit. It's sad that she feels she needs to compete.
@saffronlealle4642 жыл бұрын
Linda is waaaay to competitive and has a terrible attitude. I hope she's gotten over the pettiness of wanting to outdo her sister and actually have a happy life.
@Janae20002 жыл бұрын
Well with sisters like that who needs enemies. Right off the bat insulting her like that ?? You know where she gets it from.
@omikatiwari7472 жыл бұрын
I felt the same thing. Linda had her focus on everything else but, her own happiness and what makes her happy.
@Tracymmo Жыл бұрын
Time for therapy
@Wanderlust4Life2479 ай бұрын
Okay, but her sister’s dress wasn’t even that great. Also, her mindset going into this appointment was super unhealthy. It’s not only going to make finding a dress much harder than if you just went in with a clear mind, but it’s also destructive mentally and emotionally.
@lizs70122 жыл бұрын
I went shopping for my wedding dress by myself and had a wonderful stress-free time finding the perfect dress. And it only cost $300.
@ali-jean10 ай бұрын
me too!
@jb671210 ай бұрын
Same.
@dawnwheeler264910 ай бұрын
Me too on both counts!,
@chryssesandchaos2 жыл бұрын
The first dress actually looked good on her, the one she chose is also gorgeous.
@joanbroad35282 жыл бұрын
I took a real dislike to this bride and I didn’t think much of her family either!
@maggiev77 Жыл бұрын
I am the middle child of three sisters. Each of us had our own unique style and didn't compete. It's unfortunate that Linda has insecurity issues and felt that her dress had to top the one her sister wore to her wedding. She was missing the point. It was HER wedding, one that was her chance to shine and make it her own. I loved the dress she finally chose and that she learned a lesson. Hopeful that she had a great wedding day and left her competitive insecurities behind.
@Leafygreen1232 жыл бұрын
The dress she ended up buying was lovely!
@dietotaku2 жыл бұрын
would've been a lot lovelier if it was an A-line or ballgown to actually suit her shape.
@Imissneo2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely agree with you Alison. UK.
@jb671210 ай бұрын
The-DRESS-was,-yes.
@acustomer72162 жыл бұрын
Mom needed a ziplock bag with half an onion in her purse to cut this nonsense short.
@reberi2 жыл бұрын
When the family starts crying out of desperation XD
@csandford60112 жыл бұрын
It's a good thing she came back the second time because that dress was perfect and she didn't find it the first time. Her fiance will be happy LOL have a wonderful wedding day.
@mistybollinger33122 жыл бұрын
Well you must be seeing something I'm not! I thought it looked horrible!
@maryinman122 жыл бұрын
@@mistybollinger3312 I think that the dress's. material had print that reflected positively upon the bride.
@brockreynolds8702 жыл бұрын
@@mistybollinger3312 I agree. They had NOTHING that looked good on her. Jo and Al would have fixed her up.
@mistybollinger33122 жыл бұрын
@FreyjaIris keep talking g out your ass about shit you don't know! I'm far from being a skinny girl! I'm 5ft 9 and 200lbs so let's see what else you dont know!! But thank you anyway!
@mistybollinger33122 жыл бұрын
@@brockreynolds870 yes maam they would! I wish they would open a shop in the states!!
@dorrainecrump339610 ай бұрын
So happy for that bride. Every bride deserves to feel special and beautiful.
@lunareclipse32422 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I liked the very first dress she tried on. It was very flattering on her.
@sya2862 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for Linda. That attitude comes from feeling less-than, and the family kind of rolls their eyes at it. Happy she found a dress!
@EllenReid-r5w11 ай бұрын
The “tears” thing floors me.
@4Mr.Crowley210 ай бұрын
That first dress is gorgeous. And FO to that sister. What a horrible human being. And mom grow up and act like a mother.
@mirandakonola90603 күн бұрын
Quote " My cousin said my dress was a princess, Di. top that" not cool sis.
@debbiebaker6692 Жыл бұрын
As a large woman myself, the dress she picked looked lovely on her. I hope her marriage is a wonderful time in her life. God bless
@rileyhoffman66299 ай бұрын
Christiane has so much class. Thank you for your sensitive civility.
@ktwashere56379 ай бұрын
my god this show is about human nature, not dresses
@RevLeigh552 жыл бұрын
If the bride says she likes it, for the love of God, try to be supportive.
@Jroychow Жыл бұрын
I know it was a struggle, but I'm so glad she waited for the right dress. It looked gorgeous on her!
@ladyjustice14742 жыл бұрын
This bride needs Jo and Al. They would have done a much better job of it.
@catladyfromky41422 жыл бұрын
This Big Bliss season was the second year STTTD existed. Long before Jo and Al. Long before bridal designers thought about plus size brides. Now it is much different, as you see the shop at Curvy Brides Boutique is full of them. BTW, shops in the US have those very same dresses now. No one has to go overseas to get a dress.
@jonessa8022 жыл бұрын
Nope they did good
@Sweet_Southern_Pecan6 ай бұрын
This segment actually made me sad. However, I hope the wedding was a lovely event.
@JennyMack2 жыл бұрын
that first dress was exactly what she said she wanted and it was pretty
@marygreen35292 жыл бұрын
I kinda think Linda needs some therapy. She needs to love herself as who she is.
@MLMLW2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad she was finally able to find a dress she felt beautiful wearing.
@mrtoadslove2 жыл бұрын
I thought the most flattering dress she put on was the first one.
@sesskag17 Жыл бұрын
I understand fully the middle child syndrome. For my wedding, my mom and sisters didn't seem to give a damn about what I wanted. Me and my husband went to the courthouse because I couldn't stand it anymore and they were ruining everything. But my mom just loved shopping for my baby sisters dress! Had a grand ole time, "It's her day." Even had two fucking ceremonies for her. I could go on and on.. it's a shame.
@electraking8856 Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry… It makes me angry that you’re so angry 😡 My sister in law is the middle child, and in HER case, from what I have always observed, she’s emphasizing the fact that she is the middle child, and seems to always act like she wants and needs the attention…. She is truly a wonderful person, and I love her so much❤❤ I feel badly, because my husband is the platinum child, my other sister in law is the golden child, and she sees herself as the black sheep of the family… she is sometimes left out of things , not in a vicious way at all, but it is sometimes hard for my in-laws to deal with drama … There is no fighting or harsh things said to her… she is no doubt loved, but she definitely has obvious insecurities, and this reflects in everything that she does. I hope that things will get better for you… I hope that your family will see that it hurts you, and that they should try to pay more attention to that❤❤
@eileenmcdonald1599 Жыл бұрын
You ruined it yourself. Q with your own insecurities
@Auburritos Жыл бұрын
Good lord two ceremonies for what? For what???
@evangelineiadonisi3210 Жыл бұрын
@@eileenmcdonald1599 bitch huh?!!? No she didnt??? Lmfao
@zarieeeeeeeeeeee Жыл бұрын
@@eileenmcdonald1599How?
@CherisseScott9458862 жыл бұрын
Mom... Staaahp saying it's because of her size. It's because she's needed your approval for her entire life and hasn't ever received it. "Her size gave her an extra dose of middle child syndrome." No. You did that. "She's had trouble finding the right dress because of her size." No, it's because you don't react to her. She doesn't need to beat her sister. She doesn't need a dress that's slimmer. She needs you. Your love and validation. For you to stop comparing your daughter to her older sister, for you to stop commenting about her size and start commenting about every positive trait you've ever noticed in her.
@ivynks7151Ай бұрын
this comment needs to be pinned for all the dumb idiots in the comments who are hatin on her
@dorothytenute27102 жыл бұрын
She seems a tad immature
@tamarabloch75572 жыл бұрын
Needy.
@brandywineblogger14112 жыл бұрын
Mentally immature.
@miranda13c2 жыл бұрын
This is sad and so unhealthy to have that rivalry, especially as adults! Good grief.
@ThisIsJ.Nicole Жыл бұрын
She's going into this with the wrong mindset. She wanted her mother to cry and out do her sister and that's just unhealthy. There's definitely some insecurity there. Its not what the wedding is about. You marrying someone ho loves you, that should matter more.
@ashiareid91952 жыл бұрын
I'm happy Linda found her dress but she needs to work on her insecurities and stop trying to compete with her sister...my goodness it's your wedding day, get a dress u love regardless of what others think. I hope she doesn't try to 'up' her sister when she tries to do other things.
@TG-fq6vy8 ай бұрын
That dress looked amazing on her. Truly a beautiful dress.😊
@danielledyksterhouse9832 жыл бұрын
I completely understand her point of view. Yes, she was too competitive, but even on a day that is all about you, you feel used to comparing yourself to your siblings. She probably grew up seeing those 'hallmark moments' her mom gave to another sibling, and she just desperately wanted that for herself. Should she pursue her own happiness? Yes. But did she, regardless of her age, need that approval from her mom? Yeah, that feeling doesn't go away. Proud of her that she got the attention and love she wanted
@mandawood97563 күн бұрын
If her mom hadn’t made a point all their lives to obviously favor the sister and compare them, even if she didn’t intentionally do it in a mean way, then I guarantee you that the bride would be thinner and not feel the need to get a reaction from her mother, good or bad. Doesn’t help that the sister knows it and rubs it in the bride’s face in a sly, backhanded manner. When you’re younger and are held up to your sister and told you’re not measuring up and try harder but you will always try and never achieve your goal, it’s heartbreaking. Been there, done that. My mother bent over backwards for my sister and I gave up when I was 20, trying to gain approval.
@gihanrashad32702 жыл бұрын
The first dress she tried on was the best one.
@hannahkirchner3661 Жыл бұрын
It literally has nothing to do with trying to outdo your sister. I have two older sisters that got married before me and if you asked all of us who's wedding dress was the best we would all say our own dress
@theraweggfiles Жыл бұрын
I feel bad for this bride because she's missing out on a special moment by focusing on the wrong thing.
@gaycale55632 жыл бұрын
She looks stunning in that dress! What a beautiful bride she will be.
@sarahknutson97065 ай бұрын
I feel like the true reason the mom cried is because she saw how confident her daughter was in that final dress. And that is really the secret to looking good in any dress is that the dress makes you feel confident and you look confident in that dress
@louiseander0111 ай бұрын
2:28 what did they mute/edit out that the mum said?
@michelepatsos66542 жыл бұрын
What is GOING ON in Columbus Ohio?? I haven't seen a collection of the WORST haircuts, highlights, dye jobs & busted outfits in a long time. I can't believe that someone with that haircut had to leave Ohio to find a freaking wedding dress.
@poponachtschnecke2 жыл бұрын
This is a really old episode
@monicawatson25376 ай бұрын
They all acted like they were inconvenienced by having to be there. She is crying out for that same connection. The mom probably doesnt see it but the daughters sure do. She just wants to be treated as good as the others.
@Ava_Orchid Жыл бұрын
My personal hell on Earth would be playing a board game with these people. Mom over there investing in acting classes so she can cry on cue around the 3rd try on.
@kirajlerner10 ай бұрын
OMG the bride was bonkers. I'm the least attractive of my sisters and I get feeling insecure. But to focus your wedding gown shopping on "topping" a sister? What kind of shitty attitude is that? And counterproductive, too, because that third dress during trip #1--the one everyone liked (it's at about 5:10 in the video)--was IT. Very flattering, elegant, satin gleaming and the gemstones adding some glam... but as soon as her sister says she likes it, nope, off with the gown. Didn't like the one she chose, but it's frankly a miracle she liked anything, so as long as she was happy, good for her.
@martinitime35376 ай бұрын
Mom finally acted like crying out of desperation 😂😭😂
@gilly94302 ай бұрын
She shouldn’t try to compete, she’s too insecure and not comfortable in her own skin.
@shannondavidson1886 Жыл бұрын
Linda's husband is going to have a lot of headaches over the years. Linda has paralyzing insecurities.
@bhagya19852 жыл бұрын
"It's about 500 people..." and the stylist was shocked lol.. My Indian ass laughing in the corner with almost 10 thousand guests at my reception alone hehehe
@rmdebora2 жыл бұрын
How do you know that many people?😅
@BlondeSparkles2 жыл бұрын
How???? Omg!
@denisehall48182 жыл бұрын
Did you go to Nazreena for your outfits???
@monal35442 жыл бұрын
I don't even know that many people lol
@bhagya19852 жыл бұрын
@@denisehall4818 My wedding happened in 2010, so Nazrana does not even exist then hahaha
@KelyaLovve2 жыл бұрын
I used to be a bridal stylist and I would’ve put her in an A-Line gown to show off her figure but she also needs to remember she needs to find a dress for her not her family
@caroldixon29206 ай бұрын
I am as big as this bride, so I can understand some of the issues. The truth is, she is twice as big as her sister. No matter what, she is not going to be able to "outdo" her sister. She needs to focus more on her groom and their upcoming marriage. I wish her well.
@Lilliebug012 жыл бұрын
Please people have a wedding for yourself and your mate enjoy your day
@AniWatX Жыл бұрын
She picked the right dress in the end. It looked beautiful on her whether her mother cried or not. I hope her husband absolutely loved it. X
@cherylb_882 жыл бұрын
Fit and flare is not flattering on her body type. Idk why the stylist would ever put her in that type of dress
@dandare25869 ай бұрын
Absolutely. It doesn't work for her body shape.
@Ladijay997 ай бұрын
Linda needs to stop looking for validation from her family
@c2_5lee292 жыл бұрын
Linda WANTS the tears instead of dress...!🤨🤨
@avengernemesis79902 жыл бұрын
Gosh all that competition for a wedding frock..that is really sad. Accept who you are and wear what suits you. Randy wise words that you spoke. Bridal assistant patience of a Saint. Australia
@patriciafoster334710 ай бұрын
I’m so glad she found that dress. She’s so sweet. That dress was perfect!
@lisawilliams5212 жыл бұрын
I am embarrassed for the level of petty going on here. I can’t relate or respect even the perspective .
@Niulkao Жыл бұрын
It might be my favorite episode, I love that she tried on so many different dresses, we usually only see 3 dresses and I always feel like it's not enough to make a decision. She looked stunning in most of them
@jennydebakker27032 жыл бұрын
Linda is just annoying. She’s jealous of her sister. Sad sad sad.
@DK-nh4bc6 ай бұрын
Happy that someone sees it like that. She is jealous, that is her problem. Not only goodlooking people can be mean.
@catezaida8081 Жыл бұрын
I totally understand, being a middle child myself, but glad she finally found out the secret of BEING a middle child. You don't have to compete when you are comfortable in your own person.
@jp80a68 Жыл бұрын
The only reason there is sibling rivalry is because she is fat, recognises it, and knows whatever she wears she will not look like a disney princess. If you are going to let yourself get that big, and I notice the whole family were overweight, then you need to develope the confidence to deal with it.
@pink-uv3th2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad my sister is nothing like me so we never get compared 😂
@mistybollinger33122 жыл бұрын
All those dresses and she picked that one?! It's a beautiful dress just not on her. It puts too much emphasis on her belly area and just doesn't look good at all!!
@helsnheidi8 ай бұрын
The mum was just crying with exhaustion at the end 😂
@McCarthy00002 жыл бұрын
Linda’s dress she chose was absolutely STUNNING, I’m glad she waited!!!! Does anyone know who the designer is and what the name of the dress is? I might want to research it.
@poponachtschnecke2 жыл бұрын
I tried to find something on it just for funsies, but was unsuccessful. It's more difficult since this is roughly 10 years old. Your best bet might be checking the stillwhite or preownedweddingdresses websites