The reason is very simple, you fall in love with that woman, and she happens to be a Chinese.
@hemanshuchudasama35353 жыл бұрын
Nah man they're easy for whites 🤣🤣
@grashew43234 жыл бұрын
It’s refreshing to hear your candid views of mixed marriage. I also married a foreigner, so I can relate to most your concerns & lifestyle differences, but we’ve been together for 30 years now, so it’s working out great for us :) Thanks for sharing !!!
I am a Chines woman and my boyfriend is an American guy. We have different habits. He likes skiing, car racing but I like watching movies, hiking, etc. He likes greasy and fatty food but I like Chinese food. He likes football a lot but I am more a fan of soccer.He does not know too much about China , either. But we have a strong connection. We always do things that both of us enjoy doing. For the food part, I always cook Chinese American food when we eat together. Overall our relationship is sweet. ❤️
@hemanshuchudasama35353 жыл бұрын
He is gonna use you and then adios amigos you idiot
@georgelarris36614 жыл бұрын
最喜欢MIKE老师这种边走边侃还特别逻辑清晰的视频。祝福!
@wenhui9004 жыл бұрын
My husband and I have been married for 16 years and we are still together! Two kids together. American husband and Chinese wife :)
Apollo leo 那是你低估人类理解能力的差异,觉得讲同一个语言就通了。 讲不通的人,说同一个语言也不通。愿意理解你的人,body language也愿意去了解。
@jonathangardner23074 жыл бұрын
你好麦克老师,你们的宝宝好可愛,祝你们幸福长长久久
@Dafudagui4 жыл бұрын
麥克的太太,一定很漂亮。因為寶寶帥氣又可愛!
@xiulili91494 жыл бұрын
宝宝好可爱哦!祝麦克老师家庭幸福 !开心快乐每一天!
@湯媚媚4 жыл бұрын
我喜歡你用英文跟中文並用地上課的,這使我學習上方便的
@xianr654 жыл бұрын
不分國界衹要找到自己心動的,可以永遠都在一起的才是完美幸福的人生
@chanherman77314 жыл бұрын
Congratulations, Teacher Mike. Enjoy your life in China, I hope everything goes well for your family.
@liuyizhen89514 жыл бұрын
Wonderful story,Mike 老师。我在爱尔兰,我老公是爱尔兰人,我觉得你说的很对,只要两个人相爱,哪个国家真的不重要。祝你们全家幸福!我的儿子已经17岁了,看到你的baby想起他小时候的样子。Enjoy the baby now. He will grow up very quickly. Best of Luck!
@yanruiwang76694 жыл бұрын
OMG! Currently, I have the same concerns as you mentioned! It's really a dilemma for me now and in the past two years in Aus. I try to prevent myself from overthinking this issue by focusing on my English study; however, this stress (pressure) is still there.
@travisthompson5552 жыл бұрын
Haha my wife is also from hubei, doesn't like to be recorded, and pretty much everything else you described lol. I'm also conservative and super happy about our decision. Been married for almost 8 years with three wonderful children. Good luck in Shanghai, hope everything works out safely for you and your family. Her parents helped with our first two kids while we were in China. That was so great!
@sybuzakwun56394 жыл бұрын
You are great to share your experience👍👍
@jbaobao37904 жыл бұрын
I watched this video few months ago. I do not know why, but I had the feeling that I would like to watch it again. fantastic video, very meaningful.
@everygoodthing88214 жыл бұрын
敘述的觀點好中肯👍🏼
@MK-mp1yz4 жыл бұрын
看了迈克老师的小故事,觉得他是一個平易近人的外国人,很好,会继续关注你的。
@melmelonie11124 жыл бұрын
I never thought to marry “Lao wai” either, until I met my husband.☺️
@zhenchuanzhao57023 жыл бұрын
讲的很好很真诚,希望你们一家永远健康幸福。
@daisyliem96404 жыл бұрын
I can tell that you changed your mind because you have the sense of learning and observing. And for people who like to learn and observe, they get to have more understanding about certain things, and become more "matured" in their thoughts. I have seen lots of people who think they are the superior and just cannot accept the differences and the values of other cultures. Too bad that they never even bother to come out from their "shells". Good to see people like you who are willing to share the valuable experience.👍
@莊佩琪-z6w4 жыл бұрын
希望你們永遠幸福下去
@kzyah54844 жыл бұрын
你兒子太可愛了!好幸福呀!
@crystalguo79664 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing, I'm in love with an American migrant too, its helpful to understand ur perspective.
@NotoriousMinded4 жыл бұрын
It is not the nationality, it’s really is the person who you love.
@kamsimyip49662 жыл бұрын
Yes, it's true. A Malaysian married a German guy for 20 years. 大家加油,互相理解,互相尊重。
@vz84433 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate your disclaimer on generalization at 1:39. I've seen many other KZbin videos turned into a 20min of stereotypes & over-generalization. Your video here is really unique
@clairzhou11664 жыл бұрын
I married with an American guy. We have so many differences. However, he is a hardworking, dependable man which is what l value most. Right now, we have a happy life
@tsz14224 жыл бұрын
Hq Zhou He married you because you are easy. Everyone knows that we prefer to marry someone of our own kind. He is a loser and can’t find a Caucasian mate. That why he chose you.
@tsz14224 жыл бұрын
Hq Zhou Sorry. That might hurt your feelings but it is indeed truth
@clairzhou11664 жыл бұрын
Vice versa, it is likely that l cannot find a Chinese man to get married since l am a single mom with one kid. Chinese men are very picky:they want beautiful, young, unmarried girls. Women like me never have chance to get married again.
@pinghuang88134 жыл бұрын
麥克老師,很喜歡你這個美國人。善良真誠!
@vickyzhao-silvestro593 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story. I felt the same when I first moved to the U.S. about marrying an american man. Then all the reasons don’t matter anymore after I met my husband. People are people no matter where you are from.
All your points are so honest, it's all about everyone's experience, glad you and your wife found each other, stay in happy marriage.
@SuccessforLifester2 жыл бұрын
YT just recommended this to me. I have previously watched your quarantined videos
@stefanchen24194 жыл бұрын
Sometimes you have to get in it so that you can know the real situation. I do think people in China and in the US have a lot of differences, but meanwhile they also have a lot in common. Unlike some peple in China, I think you show the great respect of women and you are quite patient with your wife and her parents.
@learning28004 жыл бұрын
Excellent and so informative and honest, just found your channel, will certainly watch all, thanks
@pinkstone98484 жыл бұрын
I’m glad that there’s a lot of the same values between our countries in people
@bluebird25522 жыл бұрын
谢谢麦克老师这么多实诚的视频分享,看了让人觉得很温馨,希望你安然解封
@jcgoobee4 жыл бұрын
Hi Mike, I bumped into your video randomly while working from home (dealing with the shelter-in-place in Cali). What an awesome video, and I really like your honesty and speak what's in your mind. I can tell that you're going to have a good marriage as your mindset is, believe it or not, close to Chinese culture, such as willing to adapt, faithfulness and the like. Your kid is cute too! Take care and keep the videos going. Take care!
it not a big problem if two people love each other and try to understand their cultural and custom. it is not hard as we thought, just to open mind. bless you and your family Teacher Mike.
@oo777774 жыл бұрын
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@SweetieYun2 жыл бұрын
It’s all about attitudes. Mike is an exception. He chose to break the stereotype, embrace different culture and be truthful to himself. Unfortunately a lot of Americans can’t do that . I don’t recommend Chinese girls marry American guys. There’re not many American guys like Mike.
@clairzhou11664 жыл бұрын
I feel like your being a friend. You are honest, friendly to your audiences.
@cathylam3443 жыл бұрын
你的中文非常好,不會有言語barrier!
@franciskswong31593 жыл бұрын
I feel so happy to listen to your this piece of video. People have different opinion, sometimes even bitterness, just because they don't understand others. Only if you open your mind and are ready to meet and mingle, then you will found all people, no matter which country are they from, they are basically not too much different from you. we all love our family. There is really more commons than differences. Only if politicians and medias are less aggressive, the world will be more harmonic and livable.
@altez64834 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. All cultures are different but the core human needs and feelings are the same. I wish you and your family all the best.
@张英-i9t4 жыл бұрын
这样的美国男人真好👍
@loredragon74734 жыл бұрын
三观正的老外很少了
@nathanilemiller77504 жыл бұрын
Lore Dragon 噢!你以為自己是什麼?你很三觀正常嗎
@李振华-c3l4 жыл бұрын
@@nathanilemiller7750 他是对的,
@jindanwang23984 жыл бұрын
I like how you talked about the generalization part at the beginning, which avoided my judging comments hahaha.
@flyingkiki10114 жыл бұрын
好可爱的宝宝!谢谢麦克老师对武汉的加油!
@SN-lj8yq3 жыл бұрын
麦克老师讲的非常客观,非常真实,严重赞同
@chowterry37094 жыл бұрын
Thank you teacher Mike🙏🏻🙏🏻Your baby is so cute🥰🥰🥰Love to see your channel💕💕
@Carol-bg7yi4 жыл бұрын
麦克老师,您真棒!我在无意间发现您的视频。来自新西兰🇳🇿的我,在此深深的祝福您们幸福快乐。
@sophiax6874 жыл бұрын
Wow, you really understand Chinese culture, God bless you and your family
@欧阳路遥3 жыл бұрын
最近看了许多麦克老师的视频, 超级棒, 越来越喜欢。 You are killing it!
@kfrank85214 жыл бұрын
I am Taiwanese. My wife is Filipino. We met in Taiwan when she worked in here 16 years ago. I have the same feeling with you. I was worry too much but now I am so happy to live with my wife.
@yzx89384 жыл бұрын
上善若水 也可以加的
@SunnySunTarot9999 Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry about this. I was cry saw your heart voice. R.I.P. send love and light to you and your brother....it's really so hard. we all here with you teacher Mike
@cindyhewatt34064 жыл бұрын
Oh no we didn’t get to see your wife....but your baby is absolutely adorable! By the way, I love everything about what you say about marriage, I think both you and your wife are lucky to have each other. Beautiful family!