Wedding Workers, What Wedding Was So Bad That You Knew They Would Divorce ? | Viewer Edition

[@jackdawjohnson7436]

11:28 I think of prenups like this; when you marry someone, it’s because you absolutely love them and want to spend your life with that person, but people change and you may find yourself in the difficult situation where the person you fell head over heels for doesn’t exist. Maybe you’re the one who changed, your priorities have shifted and it’s in the best interest of everyone to go your separate ways. A prenup makes that decision easier for everyone involved, turning what could be a horrible, nightmarish headache into something manageable and potentially protecting whatever relationship may exist between you.

[@CatsOverBrats]

I had a friend who was out partying and ran into an ex boyfriend. They got to talking and both of them were single. They ended up together that night and she became pregnant. It turned out he wasn't single. He had lied. When she contacted him to tell him about the pregnancy, he told her the truth. He then went home to his girlfriend, spun the truth in his favor, asked her to marry him and decided to knock her up too. They both kept sending texts to my friend about getting rid of the child because he would only be there for his real child. Wedding came around and when it was time for cake cutting, they found him outside hitting on some random women that had walked past the party. Later in the evening the bride was crying to some of her guests, telling them: "I don't think this will last." Those guests were also friends of my friend so they told her about the disaster of a wedding. They rushed everything all because he was a jerk cheating on his girlfriend and knocking up another woman. My friend ended up a single mother but at least here in Denmark childcare doesn't cost an entire paycheck so she managed fine on her own.

[@dragons_breath.]

Timestamps: 0:07 story 1 (cake smashing) Yeah, no. There is a time and a place. 3:10 story 2 (I'm not sure, I'll come back in a second) 4:48 story 3 *!!!!TW! SELF TERMINATION!!!* be careful. (A bad bride) 6:53 story 4 !!!!TW! CHILD ABUSE AND R***!!!! be careful. (Very, very bad groom) 7:44 story 5 (marriage without love) 9:17 story 6 (marriage without love) 9:59 story 7 (failing marriage) 10:44 story 8 (trust issues) 12:05 story 9 (bad, abusive bride) 12:49 story 10 (on and off relationship that failed) 13:35 story 11 (a lot of fighting) 14:16 story 12 (marriage without love, bad planning) 14:48 story 13 (one side controlling everything) 15:15 story 14 (failed marriage) 15:43 story 15 (bad (ex) husband) 16:45 story 16 (uh? Traditional debates?) 17:07 story 17 (also debatable traditions)

[@lasagnad5182]

You aren't getting enough credit for this

[@asskicker4000]

Thanks after the first two I was thinking title had nothing to do with the content

[@GMAMEC]

Can I adopt you? Inheritance and praise are included in the package.

[@dragons_breath.]

@GMAMEC Sorry, adoption includes 2 extremely chaotic beings and a package of mental issues that hasn't been opened in a while.

[@allyncreates]

​@@GMAMECit a package deal man. I don't think you are prepared for it.

[@MrErik052005]

My fiancé is 24 years older than me. We have been together over 7 years. He is a doctor and has a lot of money saved up for retirement. I’m the one who wants to get married. He made it clear there would be a prenup. While it’s not my fantasy and I hate the idea of it, I have to remind myself, he has a lot of money he worked hard for. I have to be an adult. He made sure I’ll be taken cared of in his Will. I have no intention of leaving him. But I’ve learned, you shouldn’t relay on someone to “take care of you”. Bc things happen. He could end up with a life long medical issue that eats all his savings. Point is, don’t rely on someone for money.

[@klikkolee]

on the prenup thing: my life is full of times where I came to trust someone after knowing them for a long time, only to have the rug pulled from under me. That has given me a lot of trust issues, and I have no doubt that I might get as far as marrying someone before that rug pull happens. And for me, the big motivation for a prenup would be that I think divorce law in so many places has a childish idea of fairness. I've seen so many stories of people losing things that were only ever theirs and not ever the partner's. I see that as a severe injustice and want to make sure it can't happen to me.

[@gokuxsephiroth4505]

I'm fine with the idea of a prenup too - my fiance makes so much more than I do, but he's a kind man who shares readily, and I don't think we'll ever break up, so to me, a prenup would be nonexistent. i wouldn't mind if he wanted one.

[@emmacallery1789]

There is always a prenup, either the one you write or the one the state has “pre-written”.

[@kalystaleona]

I think a pre-nup can be extremely good and responsible choice. When in a healthy relationship agreeing to a plan for post relationship while level headed can prevent some challenges. Then should the relationship end and emotions are high, the level-headed plan can help keep things from getting out of hand just because of emotions. Most people are not emotionally mature enough to even consider this.

[@Neonsilver13]

Story 1, cake smashing can also be quite dangerous becaouse sometimes there are things contained in the cake that aren't soft and are just there for the structure of the cake. People have lost eyes because of that.

[@macylouwho1187]

I got married at 19 to my high school sweetheart. I’m now mid forties and still happily married to that man. He is the love of my life and if he dies first I’ll probably die of a broken heart soon afterward. It really depends on the people in question whether or not young marriage can work out. In our case-we fell more in love than we were when it was new and exciting. Our kids are grown now and gag and groan over us fawning on each other and getting kissy faced 😂. We hold hands everywhere that we go. We are a success story. So there’s at least one out there at this point in time, and likely many others we don’t know about.

[@theshinypeliper8813]

There can’t be exceptions because there isn’t really a rule of when you’re ready to marry. My mom and dad got engaged after a few months of dating and they’re still married over 25 years later.

[@Logitah]

My mum and dad started dating when they were on their teens. After 50 years of being together (40 of them married) they still goof off with each other like teenagers. 😂❤

[@theshinypeliper8813]

That’s so cute!!!@@Logitah

[@weirdredpanda]

I know a couple who married when he was 18 and she was 17. They're still together 60+ years later.

[@player400_official]

4:40 Thanks for the heads up, I hate having such content thrown into my face without warning. Skipped :)

[@Freakz0id]

Being a Pansexual too, I personally don’t think I’d want to get married. But I would love to have a partnership for life 😊

[@miguelconamor6687]

Pans rise up!💖💛💙

[@alec5803]

I have been questioning marriage for a while now.

[@cfredtmbg]

I’m married, pan, and poly. I’m lucky to have an amazing supportive and trusting partner, but it can so easily go wrong for a lot of people.

[@un-kyejohn2968]

You like pans🤨

[@EarleTKG]

@@un-kyejohn2968you have a problem with people loving their utensils?

[@Konstantin357]

About prenup. This is not necessarily about trust. Relationship just can go wrong without anyones intention or desire. So in a way, prenup is form of trust, like "we care about each other, even if those relationship will not work".

[@colinmoore7460]

2:00 Hey, some of those wedding cakes aint cheap either!

[@sarahreaume6659]

Story 1 I’m glad the friend said no to that there’s a time and place to do it

[@joannewilson1162]

My husband’s cousin married a guy that was a lot older than her, but it didn’t really matter because he treated her like a queen. She didn’t work and his Social Security checks paid for the rent and the groceries, etc. Unfortunately guy got diagnosed with cancer and passed away in March 2017. She needed a place to live and needed someone to pay the bills because she wasn’t working and so she latched onto the first guy that showed her interest. Ended up marrying this guy in November 2017 and at the reception he was hitting on her best friend. Best friends husband found out about it and threatened him and told him that if this wasn’t his wife’s best friends wedding, he would do some thing violent to the guy. Anyway fast forward to 2021 and she has a guy thrown in jail for drunk driving because he was a raging alcoholic and she was already working on husband number three. She is not the most likable person and she’s made some other choices that I’m not gonna get into cause this isn’t the thread but we all knew that the marriage to the first guy after becoming a widow, was not gonna last. Not when he was hitting on her best friend the night he got married…

[@BTS-4eva]

My brother was a wedding photographer and heres the story he told me The wedding was amazing and when the bride went to go talk with her family the sister in law was drunk and was kissing the groom,turns out they were secretly having an affair..they divorced shortly after

[@TheCell-vx3pk]

After Story 8: From all the marriages I know of in my life (13 that I actually Know off, not just suspect, and only people I know personally), Three didn't last. That's almost 25%! And who knows how many of those are marriages that were rushed? If you are not ready, but you think you are, you might just end up with a 'normal' breakup. And many of the 'normal' breakups I know off turned dirty!

[@MIGUELSanchez-of6nj]

13:17 is it bad that I know Cory and Topanga not from Boy meets World but its sequel Girl meets World

[@April_2007]

2:54 the only time I’ve seen cake smashing go well was on TV, 911 Lonestar TK and Carlos and that’s because it was face only and TK did it right back and enjoyed it. I love Tarlos ❤

[@MariaEduarda-ng1th]

Calling your partner "Madam Fact"is so cute

[@lnsflare1]

The thing about trusting your partner is that untrustworthy people often have a lifetime of experience tricking people into trusting them. And that's not even getting into the variety of reasons that someone could experience sudden personality changes.

[@Acerthorn]

11:24 That's why, whenever I meet a new woman, one of the first things I always ask her about is whether she wants to be married or is content just staying boyfriend/girlfriend in the eyes of the law while we call ourselves "husband and wife" to everyone else. If she asks for the former, I then immediately ask if she would be okay with me having a prenup to protect myself. This is something I always make sure to nip in the bud as early as possible (like ... third or second date, possibly even first date if I can manage to squeeze it in). At that point, trust has not been established yet, so there's no expectations that we "should trust" each other, and no trust is being betrayed.

[@klikkolee]

did you mean the former? Because bringing up prenups makes more sense if they say they want to be married than if they say they don't feel the need

[@teresabillings8378]

Nope. If a guy asked me about weddings and marriage after only 3 dates, I'd ghost him in a hot minute. It's a freaking date, not a commitment.

[@Acerthorn]

@@klikkolee Yeah that's what I meant. My bad.

[@Acerthorn]

@@teresabillings8378 That's your preference and you have a right to it. I personally feel it is necessary that we establish as early as possible that we have the same long-term goals in mind. Otherwise, we risk wasting each others' time. I've seen plenty of women complain online about a guy "stringing her along" for 18 whole months before finally admitting to her that he wasn't looking for anything serious. I believe it's essential to establish at the outset that we have the same long term goals, so we don't end up like that chick.

[@Vosia71]

Anytime someone mentions cake smashing I can't help but think of that warning post I seen where someone lost a eye and get really uncomfortable. The baker used wooden skewers to hold the cake up and when she was shoved into the cake one went into her eye.

[@kayleslielouise1180]

New fear unlocked 😅

[@balanceboy3089]

Marriage is a legal agreement, not some sacred holy binding that can't be broken. Treat it as such and you'll have an easier time understanding how these stories happen.

[@360entertainment2]

As someone who’s been in at least 2 relationships where marriage was forced, with only one ending in a marriage followed by divorce, please make sure the person you’re going through this with is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. I was thankfully smart enough to get out of the second relationship without marriage but that first one still counts as one of my biggest regrets!

[@TellyKNetic]

One wedding I went to, I'm surprised that they're still together. Bride and Groom had three kids together pre-marriage. They decide to make it official. Bride is TWO AND A HALF HOURS late to her own wedding. Guests were leaving in droves and confusion, despite Mother of the Bride waving her phone around saying, "She's on her way! She's on her way! Just a little longer, and she'll be here!" The only reason I stuck around was because one of the other guests was a good friend of mine that I hadn't seen in a while, and I wanted to catch up in person. Never did find out why Bride was so late, but she and the Groom are still together, and it's been nearly eight years.

[@andreimircea2254]

10:44 Honestly, if there is something I’ve noticed from my parents is that love is a bitch that messes with your EVERYTHING. That is why, if I ever get married I want a prenup, because while I trust my future spouse, I don’t trust my heart or anyone’s to make the best decisions for themselves. If I miss more red flags that one can count I want a safe GTFO card, so my mistake won’t cost me so much. If I make the right choice then I know that my partner is down to earth if they agree with it because it means that while we want to love each other and be together forever, we know that that isn’t always the case and safety nests are important.

[@lilagonzales1145]

Hi Mainly facts! Was listening to story 1 and was like wow this wedding sounds a lot like my college friend’s wedding down to the little Lego figurine details. Come to figure out it is my story! It’s been about nearly two years now and my dear nerdy friend and her equally nerdy hubby are still together!

[@Acerthorn]

Hey Mainly, what's the game you're playing in the background?

[@carbonated_geek]

Everyone, get a pre-nup. They didn't see divorce because the pre-nup, they saw divorce because marriage has two outcomes: death or divorce.

[@dragons_breath.]

Hellooooo! Hope everyone is having an amazing day!

[@Icalasari]

4:47 - Can you please say the time code for people listening on a podcast service?

[@123jazz2007]

1st story seemed like the complete opposite of what the video is all about.

[@Robert10075]

I’m just glad to find a not lazy AI voice

[@totallyspies01]

there's not a lot of wedding workers telling the stories... at least as far as I can tell

[@squishyspellcaster]

Big Thanks for the trigger warnings👍🏻

[@PikachuLittle]

I view a prenup like I view insurance. You never want to have to use it, but it’s better to have it and not need it then need it and not have it.

[@AM-sj5vr]

W inmates in story 4

[@andreachristensen5383]

If your intentions are pure then a prenup is just a piece of paper, if you take offense and don't wanna sign then obviously your intentions are not pure

[@gokuxsephiroth4505]

I agree. My fiance makes more than I do, but what he has, he shares. A prenup would be non-existent as far as I'm concerned, because if I wanted something, I could just ask

[@fleurpouvior2967]

I'm not a fan of most cake smashing in weddings, but my BIL just smeared a small bit of icing near my sisters mouth. Sis wasn't completely pleased, but did laugh about it, and hair, makeup, and dress were preserved. She got him back with a small frosting smear on his cheek right after. It's what I consider done well. The family bets at the wedding were on if my sis woild have twins, or tripplets, given both run in both bride and grooms family. She had one girl. as for prenups, I want one with my SO, not because I don't trust him, but because we both have had toxic marriages with messy divorces. I want a prenup to protect him, and ensure we stay together because we want to and not because we're scared of losing everything in a divorce.

[@ivorynk752]

That first couple is great, doesn't really fit the pronpt

[@BillWalker-x9z]

Love star wars

[@PeriwinklePig]

...the groom had a face like Luigi [in] the beta game over screen from Luigi's Mansion" Asdfghjk this description made me chuckle, despite the grim subject matter.

[@zoe9190]

4. Majority of the time, not a fan of most of most of the people in jail cos of what they did, but do appreciate that most of them agree that sexual abuse against kids and its fair game to end the perp.

[@Musicismytherapy-um5qv]

8:46 My cousin thought the same thing but she got married to a really good guy and their happy together

[@kiatequila424]

The one who r his wife's 12 year old daughter. One time I was with one of my nanny family's, we took the kids to swim class. The swim couch was the same way, he clealry liked kids. You could see it in his face. He was married and had 8 little girls in his pool. He made one of them dance so weird, like 6 times. Idk how the parents didn't notice.

[@parkerabbott2189]

I figured I would throw my hat in the ring on prenups (if nothing more than because engament boosts your videos 😊) and say that for me, it doesn't have much to do with trust. When I was around 14, my dad hit his head pretty hard. He was an ass before, but after the accident the little filter he had went away. It took a toll on my mom, and his was relatively minor. I'd like to think that a brain tumor, a major injury, or something else horribly unexpected wouldn't happen, but I don't know. What I do know is I love my partner enough to want to protect him. If I become someone who mistreats him or even if he's just unhappy, I want him to be free to leave. I tend to, therefore, view prenups as an act more rooted in protection and love than lack of trust. That being said, the way they're currently viewed, I can totally see how most people who get them maybe don't have the strongest footing relationship wise.

[@mateeeeeo]

oh hell yeah I love these wedding videos

[@ZeoViolet]

That child R-ist is going to end up terminated at some point. There's going to be a time when the guards look the other way. Child R-ists in any prison will usually be beaten to death if the other inmates get a chance to do it. Even in prisons, they're absolute scum. Most of the other prisoners, no matter how bad, have families too, you know? Who wants to tolerate the idea of a person like that touching your child?

[@cnervip]

my best best friend disappeared after the photo, but with his now wife to came visit me (was sick), but in the end got better so went to the wedding and we spend the rest of the time outside smoking weed with our friends, but with wifes and girlfriends, that's how you do it

[@lady_mash23clark34]

Yeah i never would do a prenup but when i left my wife she said if my cat wasnt registered to me with the local mental health office as a necessity she would be gone.

[@howlercorp6431]

Man I can't imagine spending that much on a wedding. Me and the wife agreed and went to a friend. Just the two of us. 2 close friends for witness. And the officiate. Me and wife just took the money we would have used and went to Disney for a week then universal. Bought picture packages, did some green screen stuff at universal in Diagon alley. Was the best decision We made. Didn't tell anyone else we did that. Lol only her mom knew... Funnilyenough. She was just surprised that her daughter wasn't a lesbian lol.

[@birdgod5584]

The first two sound good

[@jennybolt8420]

I will soon be 61 year old female I have been married twice to veterans and I took care of both of them until they passed. The only thing I really want and I asked God for daily is that I have somebody for a partnership for the rest of my life amen

[@graysonoliver2632]

There is a lot of warnings in this video. Makes me tense. 😮

[@beepboop27]

I mean divorced now anyway but still 1000000% happy we eloped xD

[@SenseiRaisen]

at least kick with the oposite of how "not to screw up". Also 2nd wedding sounds AWESOME. My gf want a similar wedding too. Only she wants to cosplay my favorite Eroge character (she did years ago, and show me photo ... and .... let's not only the sun rised that day). But in exchange she wants me to dress up as her favorites male characters from World of Warcraft or the stock admiral outfit from Azur Lane too since those are the games she play too. Honestly, if she wanted me to dress up as an orc from WoW, i wouldn't even object at all and do it with gusto. AND YEAH!! i agree. I'm 34 and i didn't get marry or anything. My Gf 28 and same. We set up we want to get marry at some point but we're fully aware of what that will means and even have kids too. We want of course but things will had to fall right into places.

[@theviking1359]

I can understand sleeping off pain j/s And a good reason to get married is tax breaks… lol

[@alec5803]

If I'm going to get high at my future wedding. It going to be with the groom/ bride/ they or them.

[@CathySW]

I don't understand the last one. What is wrong with kissing your mother?

[@goldenfangryushenron]

It's the part where the last OP's husband and his mother shared a mouth-to-mouth kiss. That was what put her off. Some people aren't comfortable with that - let alone with seeing it. In some traditions, it may be normal, but not everyone has that kind of family. I can confirm I don't by any means. Not once in my life have I ever kissed my mother - either on the cheek OR on the lips. I'm just not that kind of child (I'm 23) and even if I were, I would never give lip kisses to my mother, because - and this is how I personally feel about it - I find that gross. The only people I will ever kiss on the lips are either a romantic partner or spouse. No. One. Else.

[@CathySW]

@@goldenfangryushenron Oh I didn't hear that bit. That'd probably make me uncomfortable too

[@goldenfangryushenron]

I hear ya...@@CathySW

[@loqutisborg5416]

"Long story short". TOO LATE.

[@JRAUSports]

I like divorce

[@GMAMEC]

Love, love, love you, but smashing cake in someone’s face has never been funny or cute. Even if it is consensual. Why would anyone want to witness this at a wedding? If you are happy for the couple, you want to witness love and respect. There’s a reason why divorce statistics correlate with smashing cake in your spouse’s face.

[@AreJayCee]

Too be honest cake in the face is never funny and went out with silent movies

[@joannewilson1162]

Story for? That guy does not need to be in solitary confinement. Put them in the general population. or just lock him in a room with a couple of inmates and go take a cigarette break…Save the taxpayers some money…

[@wolfskinchanger]

Please stop making the outro so much louder than the main video; that sudden jump in volume would kill my ears if I were listening through headphones.

[@bwestacado9643]

The constant lame ass content warnings is really annoying. Put it in the comments or description if it's a must, but quit pooping up after every video to give a lame ass warning about the next story. If people are so weak they need them, they need to ve encouraged to take a break from the internet, not placated

[@mattschehr163]

just say rape not R

[@mattschehr163]

stop telling us to skip stories just because it's disturbing