Make Your Filipina Work For It: don't make things too easy for her when dating in the Philippines

[@SmartGirlPhilippines]

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[@philippinesfunwithjlb7193]

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[@mudfreakjaing5108]

Great video, good advice. I’ve using all these tactics for a while now, relationship is way better.

[@CC-mp5jc]

i thought i had things figured out and she taught me several lessons in this video. Protect this girl at all costs

[@ProfessorCopperfield]

Mandatory viewing upon arrival to the Philippines 😂

[@rolandmueller7218]

The #1 rule is to not rush into a relationship.

[@TheFox808]

Great advice, 100% agree. Reminds me of something I said to a (male) coworker a few years ago here in the west. I'd just taken a girl out on a first date the previous night and my work colleague asked where I took her. I said I took her to a local cheap Chinese restaurant. He asked why I didn't take her to a nice place. I said "she hasn't earned it yet". He was genuinely shocked and confused.

[@KarlaKämmerer]

Men treating women just like pets like you do are the worst. You have no idea about a partnership at eye level. You probably can't get women like that and have to buy them. Pathetic!

[@patrickdeloddere2783]

The best advice i received concerning women. These apply to all women across the world

[@donmorris4399]

You're not supposed to take her to the west. That's the #1 rule

[@Gareth-c1d]

My wife been here 14years her older sisters both been here much longer.best thing for them and family

[@Gareth-c1d]

@AstrospiritualAtheist the smart ones marry&come west here they own there house ,car &,all that goes with it.PLus we help young ones there.

[@tilapiadave3234]

@AstrospiritualAtheist Maybe yes , maybe no ,, they will claim the temptation was overwhelming

[@joelb099]

Amen, u don’t take her to your hometown to live in the US, until u know her very very well…

[@tilapiadave3234]

@AstrospiritualAtheist Which brings it back to why you are completely wrong. Humans react to their surroundings and opportunities , if you stay with her in the Philippines her environment hasn't changed therefore she is less likely to change. If you require more education I am happy to offer that at a reasonable hourly rate.

[@asp48hours46]

This is very good advice, have been with my filipino girlfriend for 7 years and I reward her efforrt and encourage her family to make better decisions and I find they respect me much more than if I just give them money.

[@CC-mp5jc]

I never thought of having her fit my schedule too, makes sense, please protect this girl

[@stevesilver7437]

For sure if she is not working and she really wants you. She must always adjust to your schedule 😊 plus only give small amounts at a time. They will spend whatever is in front of them!😮

[@jamesrecknor6752]

I needed to hear this four years, three women, and at least two million pesos sooner. Great advice.

[@darrylrussell7717]

Same

[@albertwoods3921]

You got right to the point and hit all the markers most of these things. I learned the hard way. But I live in the states and the girl I met lived in the states. And in the endshe ended up with another guy and we broke even. Lesson learned, thanks for the video. To the point.

[@markkillingsworth6044]

Fantastic advice, thank you so much. I would have probably made all the wrong decisions, not realizing I was heading for a train wreck.

[@chrisinla24]

Best video ever. Thank you.

[@Luceparker4396]

Well done. You put emotion into your presentation. Good accent too and lovely dress

[@garykuech50]

Listen Carefully Fellas.. Sooo True... You give and she has no idea what universe this magic stuff comes from.. But she'll have her arms wide open to take what you give, and smile looong time.. Till the next thing pops into her head..

[@sarge3925]

I agree with you and I like watching your videos. Lots of good advice! Just a quick note: My LDR Filipina needed money and she wanted me to give it to her so she didn't have to work at McDonald's. I told her if she worked at McD's I would give her some to help her out and she would be that much better off with the money she earned at work.

[@FekalistaGrzybowory-lz8lh]

Are you sure that she didn't lied to you?? McDonald's isn't popular in Phillipines as much as elsewhere. The Pinoys prefere Jollibee.

[@eLcazad0r2k8]

McDo is very popular here in QC

[@pa4765]

Good advice. Thank you. God Bless you.

[@terryashley4674]

This is so good, Irish. Thank you.

[@Michail-z7p]

YOU ARE A REAL GOLDEN LADY! HOW RIGHT YOU ARE! I WAS A VICTIM OF A REAL BAD FILIPINA WHO WAS THE BIGGEST LIAR I HAVE EVER MET IN MY ENTIRE LIFE. THEY ALWAYS ASK FOR MONEY FOR THIS OR THAT. YOU ARE A VERY INTELLIGENT, REASONABLE AND HONEST LADY. THANK YOU SO MUCH!

[@FrankAsmusJenen]

Thank you for your good advices.

[@Pilbara_Trucking]

Thank you for your tips Irish. You are correct on every point, fortunately I have realised this and starting to put my foot down.

[@leoyoutube28]

Good advice 💯

[@frysuber3014]

I wish I knew this about 3 years ago…. I agree with what you said… 😊. 100 percent…..❤

[@LordSkella]

You’re dropping straight up facts here

[@HotNerd1980]

You just described what just happened to me

[@coffeebotography]

Good advice😊

[@beachcomber4785]

'...you have to show some effort, for them to fill your cavity!😂' Priceless!! Brilliant 'dental' advice!!😅😂

[@AZ_Bill]

This certainly reinforces lessons that I learned the old fashioned way. 😂

[@caytrainer]

Very good video. Good advice. Keep up the good work.

[@peterMcnerney-kd4ze]

Thanks so mjuch Irish for your wise and HONEST insights.

[@happycamper5900]

Excellent advice.

[@bradleyb.425]

Irish, you're BRILLIANT!!!!

[@douglasstewart1027]

This was very good advice. Thank you

[@pauljones8289]

Thank you so much I been dating this 26 year old Filipino from the province for about one year. I’m 59 and retired. She doesn’t have any children and she been trying hard to become a teacher. I help with transportation and food for her and some food for her family. But i haven’t bought her a new phone or help play for her bills. We are going to talk more about your relationship when I get there in December this year 🙏🙏🙏pray it goes well

[@FekalistaGrzybowory-lz8lh]

Hoping that she's genuine Filipina, not a liar and scammer

[@nate61]

Very wise advice Irish and truly good indeed

[@JohnS-zq8ks]

Well said Irish! Great channel! 👌

[@roygolden2628]

Very good advice

[@mrhouse3826]

My LDR is a self employed care giver and moves from job to job with varying salaries, usually 500-900 PHP per day. I told her that as long as she is earning money that I would guarantee her income up to 1000 PHP per day. So if she earned just 500 a day I would top her up 3500 a week, 900 a day I would top her up 700 a week. Works for us.

[@stevesilver7437]

Keep her working is the most important 😊

[@stanjohnson7849]

Great Job Irish 🤗

[@LRDUSA]

Great video.👍

[@cadrian777ADY]

nice girl...trues thinks...salamat po

[@Ecliptite2]

I’m probably never going to go to the Philippines but I like watching your videos because you have a really cute accent. The information you give in your videos seems pretty good too.

[@nate61]

Thanks!

[@SmartGirlPhilippines]

Thanks so much! You're awesome.

[@nate61]

@@SmartGirlPhilippines so are you and your Maganda Filipinas ❤️

[@ronaldgordon2374]

Great advice. Thanks!

[@kikoperez8590]

Thanks for your tips, they are very useful. ❤❤❤

[@AnswersFromGod_com]

Wow, you really are an intelligent Filipina.

[@johnsims3909]

Great example of a great filipinas

[@Flights-gq8po]

Great Job Girl. Very well organized as many others I have seen from you. The only suggestion I could make is if you can find photos that are related to what you are saying.

[@davidheiens3099]

Thank you

[@nsxfever9513]

Seems like great advice. Thanks for sharing. I subscribed to your channel 👍

[@dunementat2191]

Nice advice, subscribed.

[@Mikesadventures-m2q]

You very smart girl!!!

[@SuperKanuuna]

Good one!

[@Nordic_Sky]

I went through much of this with my Thai girlfriend (now my wife). The key is to go slow and never give her more than the value she has given you up to that point. If you don't "get ahead" in paying her, you won't be in trouble if she leaves all of a sudden.

[@arnoldustwumasi1253]

Yes correct this for All women actually

[@Loigis]

Good advice thank you

[@glockasauruswrex6362]

Golden advice, Irish! Love your insights, your smile n ur channel! We need to be reminded cos the Filipinas blow our minds! So feminine n pretty, we tend to lose control a bit. So, good advise to keep ur cool, step back n control yourself. It might take a few trips cos man, they are bomb guys. You will get attention form girls that here in the US would walk right by you...not there. Keep the videos coming Irish!!😁

[@sentinel80]

With 20 years experience of the phils I would never do any of those things. I don’t mind helping some people through time but only those in need and only whatever budget I’ve planned. Never a single Filipina just because she’s pretty.

[@samw.6158]

Like someone telling me of financial issues or love bombs me I mainly say that's unfortunate and I can't tell someone I've never met I love them. That's when they know your different lol

[@joelb099]

A few weeks later..she was gone” snaps fingers” sayy yaw”….lol

[@davidbraxton6600]

GOOD INFORMATION IRISH ❤ NEW SUBCRIBER 😊

[@teklife]

i wish i had seen your video years ago. i loved my filipina so much, and i gave her some thoughtful gifts, although i never thought i was spoiling her, she gave them all away to her family, which hurt me a bit as i bought them for HER to have the things i bought for HER, and other things like paying for everything and not having her contribute at all, she never valued it i guess. i never made much money, just a lowly cook grinding away every day for years. it took a lot of years of hard work to earn every cent i've made. she left me when i asked her to sign a lease for my protection on a house i was buying for us to live in. she said to me, "fuck this relationship, you don't love me, you don't trust me. this is just a business relationship now" and she left. i later found out she had another (secret) pinoy bf. speaking of secret, she loved to reply to me with, "SECRET" so much. 😞

[@Bilhli2975]

is very good video i like it

[@firstjohn3123]

As a rule for all people. They value the most what they've worked hardest to get....

[@WineSippingCowboy]

Right ✅ Example because Filipinas often cook at home. One challenge I presented to a Filipina: cook vegan meals which taste 😋 good 👍. Filipinas I met here in the USA 🇺🇸 and Canada 🇨🇦 have a bigger advantage than those in The Philippines 🇵🇭: exposure to more vegan recipes due to large inmigrant populations. I still have not Filipinas in The Philippines who can cook such meals I described. Lack of exposure is a big problem there. 2nd The Philippines 🇵🇭 is known more for meat 🍖 dishes. I include fish 🐟 as meat .

[@nemoanon5615]

Beautiful, young woman and an old man.Sounds like romance novel! What could possibly go wrong?!!

[@Wuestenwiesel]

Asking is not for free, because there is always a bank account in our head and we count the times we are asked. If they ask for much or more, we give less or end giving. At least the ones with options

[@sizwemnyandu8400]

You're really a smart girl 😂

[@travistee3826]

Been in Cebu the past 7 months. I wish I had this common sense advice when I arrived. I'm pretty careful with money, but the trap is that you get blindsided by a beautiful girl. I feel I'm about to move on now since she is currently moody since I said no to the iPhone 13 Pro Max only 2 days ago. I initially helped the family because they were supposedly going to be evicted from the land they have been living on the past 30 years. I haven't given any more, but the father has since asked for a scooter, pigs and financing for his mango spraying. Two weeks ago the niece had a fever and needed to go to hospital, that cost 6000 Peso, which I gladly helped with. But in hindsight, paying for half of anything other than an emergency is sound advice. I do recommend saying no a few times and gauge the reaction, it tells you a lot about people. Amping

[@Eugeniusvlog]

I disagree with you on a couple of points. No don’t ever send even half the money to their family because they’ll double whatever they need and they’ll get 100% whatever you do they’ve got response to get the money they want and if you’re 20 or 30 years older than her, don’t bring her to the United States for a couple of years. Make sure she really is yours.

[@stevesilver7437]

Yes they talk as a team against the foreigners 😮

[@karelvanreenen8205]

I think it is good advice to all men everywhere as the ladies in the west is spoil too much. Time to let them work alsoa bit harder

[@Legion1811]

Is this video for “Dexcel and Jim Philippines”, Jim needs to see this.

[@stevesilver7437]

OMG yes! It’s like he has a bag over his head 😮😮😮😮

[@davidmorrow6409]

I’m an idiot !!!! Sounds exactly like me

[@eamonkelly36]

Look guys most of us are atm machines whether we like or not at first its great u over time u time you just can see the parents come first brothers then kids the dog and then u of shesays she lovez u but in reality is just facade wake before its too late sanity prevailed😅😅

[@stevemartinovich]

For her to stay legally in the US, she must stay with him for 2 years. If she leaves him before that, he can notify immigration and she will then be classified as being here illegally, subject to deportation without any trial. Happened to a buddy of mine. She was kicked out of the US.

[@furbusms]

Unfortunately I've made that mistake already I told her she doesn't have to work and I send 100 of dollars a month. I tried to get her to work but she kept getting sick, I know probably just doesn't want to work but I've fallen in love with the possibility of her promises. 5 years ldr and counting no meeting 😂

[@stevesilver7437]

Sounds like she has more guys than just you! 5 years

[@christopherb7308]

Ya, learned this the hard way. So much ungratefulness with many filipinas

[@HunkyMan777]

He is FOOL. She can buy her own things

[@BernandoTurner]

Id be A Sucker for A Filipina Nurse... They are the Best Nurses in the World.😀

[@CaptainJackSparrow110]

The only thing you omit is that these Westerners are usually over 60 years old and they are quite aware they have an expiration date and not much time to create a stable relationship.

[@lonetreehangman]

Thank you for your information. I've decided to avoid the Phillipines. My hope was to ffind a woman who would be greatful for an opportunity at a better life, and to be treated well. But you've showed me that she isn't any different than anywhere else. Or might even be a little bit worse. I appreciate the heads up. What you descrivbe are manipulative, gold digging worthless women, not just psychological quirks.

[@angryktulhu]

lol welcome to reality, better later than never. They’re the same parasites everywhere. They just cost less in such countries

[@ChipNov1998]

Some good advice. If I were to go to PI to find a young wife, I am pretty sure I would be moving there. I know Catholicism is a big part of Filipino culture and since my Catholic faith is very important to me I have an idea that that is where I would go to find a good woman. Am I way off in thinking this?

[@joelb099]

I bet many filipinas are angry at these types of videos..where you are protecting the foreigners from getting taken advantage of by a beautiful Filipina….oh, well they will get over it….lol

[@rayr69]

hahahahah! So Funny! But it's TRUE! ✌

[@user-rl3iv2jk9q]

11 Nov . 2024 Thank you for your presentation .

[@chrisbunka]

Can we also tell we like the way she works it

[@sizwemnyandu8400]

If she doesn't invest anything into the relationship it will be easy for her to just walk away every time the going gets tough

[@harima36]

Just remember… It’s like dealing with cats… or children! 🎉

[@Dodo-f6j1y]

I could have saved 850,000P ($15,000) had I known all of this back in 2009 and maybe have saved my pride and my baby 😔

[@Thatguywiththeface]

I messed up

[@markeverson5849]

Sweetheart thank you! I have a question! Is it nearly impossible for the average poor Philippines woman to get a passport to come and visit me in the USA if I buy her the tickets round-trip, and give her a little extra for food and board while traveling! ? because it seems nearly impossible and very very expensive for her ,us? and there's no guarantee they're going to give a Visa and or passport to her to come and visit me here before I come to the Philippines? please help me with advice it seems nearly impossible and heartbreaking I'm not a rich American

[@markeverson5849]

My friend you are so smart and talented I hope to be able to come to the Philippines but I'm not a rich American and everything seems to be geared towards the rich expat and not the average real person do you have any advice on the cheapest ways to bring my girlfriend over to visit me and for me to travel to the Philippines and get the best prices on airfare and etcetera

[@davidhall3747]

To be considered rich in the U.S. you would need 2.6 Million dollars in cash. Probably none of the expats traveling or living in the Philippines have that kind of money. They might be rich in Philippine currency- but definitely not in U. S. Currency.

[@donrice3464]

I'm paying for a hotel room

[@DrDlane]

This all seems like basic common sense to me. But i guess there are people who need to learn common sense. In that regard, great job, Irish. I would suggest that you not consider a fiancé visa or marriage until you have lived with her at least one year, preferably 18 months. Less than one percent of the scammers would be able to "keep up appearances" for that long. I've seen this work over and over for other guys. The filipina will always tip her hand if she's a scammer. They just don't have patience. They want to make their score and move on to the next victim. The longer they stay with you, the less money they can make. Unless you are letting her suck your bank account dry just because you are living together. Never make her life easy. Never buy her things. Never spend big money on her. Make her prove herself, her loyalty, and her fidelity. I'm not saying keep her down or mistreat her. Just as Irish said, make her have skin in the game. The more the better. If she is fully invested, she's not going to want to leave. If you buy a car or scooter, put it in your name. Don't buy property together unless you arrange for you to control the property. If you build a house, put it in your name or your trust. I could go on and on, but like i said, it's basic common sense. Use it and you will be just fine. Best regards.

[@OneManLikeNoOneElse]

I’m lucky in the Philippines. My girl is a good one and half my age! But, I want a more attractive one! Sad that I am not satisfied with my first Filipina girlfriend. She’s the first girlfriend in 25 yrs! I think I can do better but she is genuine and kind but not very smart or attractive province girl😢💔

[@protegelin]

I will wear protection & pay for my hotel room. Finish the deed and good bye.

[@stephencoleman3578]

I dated a Filipina and on the 4th date she wanted to have my baby. Oh no no no no, I broke up with her that same evening.

[@pete546]

any mention of money in the early stages is death to the relationship.....simply say a good girl does not ask for money....or hints about it....

[@anubis8680]

hehehe 4:22 I see what you did there..

[@mrMacGoover]

I would be more interested in helping her family start a small cheap business so they can support themselves rather than just giving them constant handouts.