Why Does SHE Do All The Work? - ASK

[@amdo5873]

It‘s 2022/23, but some people are still living in some caves - why is this even a question? Hats off to you that you take the time to answer this ridiculous question.

[@42apprentice]

Kylie & Guy don’t ever change, your division of labour plays to your strengths & personalities & sense of fun.

[@InquisitiveBaldMan]

Just don't read too deeply into the comments. They will always have a section that's a cesspit of sh*t and villainy.

[@theharringtons2010]

Kylie has given me the confidence to start using power tools and doing my own diy projects..thanks Kylie 👍

[@MAKEDOGROW]

YAY!!!! 😍

[@junehitchcock170]

Yep Kylie has inspired me to explore woodworking!! I love my new chop saw, jig saw and my other power tools. Forget about the Neil polish etc. simply not interested! 😂

[@Neilhuny]

@@junehitchcock170 Yay! Go ladies! There is absolutely no reason to believe men are better - though it may be convenient at times. You can do what you want

[@kathybaugh3823]

I applaud both of you. You make a great team and you shouldn't have to explain your choices. Of course you are absolutely right that you play to each other's strengths and preferences. I wish I had even half of your skills and energy. Look forward to your next video. You are incredible. 👍👏👏💪

[@magicmaze1998]

Half is perfect. That means you just need somebody else for the other half;)

[@chrislarsen2684]

I find it a bit sad that you have to even explain yourself in relation to what you are doing on your property and how the work gets done and by whom....I think what you are both doing takes a huge leap of faith, strength and courage...Thank you for sharing. It opens our eyes as to the possibilities abroad and with our own homes...Rock On!!

[@michelezolezzi5114]

The subtext of a question reveals so much more about the person asking the question than the reply.

[@moiragoldsmith7052]

I appreciate your team work. You both do a grand job. Kylie is digging holes, Guy is filling holes and the armchair critics are picking holes. 🙄.

[@MAKEDOGROW]

😂😂 Love it 😍

[@Syntella]

It's hilarious to me how, others assume, one is doing more than the other. Simply because they are not the one being filmed. Well hello, these are only between 15-45 minute long videos. Obviously, the work is being distributed! 😂 I too love doing manual labor also, so I get it. You do you, people are way too jugdy. You're both amazing and I admire the hard work you guys are doing and achieving wonderful results . ❤️

[@junehess501]

Your mom sounds so much like mine did. I give her all the credit for the strong foundation that made me the woman I am today. She was a single mom with 5 kids on a cattle farm in the 60s and 70s and there was never a question if a job was “man’s work” or “woman’s work”- it was just work and it had to be done. Thank god for that lesson- it has served me well for 67 years. I can cook, sew, keep house, design, create, but also set a fence post and stretch barbed wire with a come-along if need be. I enjoy it all. God bless our mamas.

[@MAKEDOGROW]

Yay for the kickass mums .... I’m totally who I am because of her 😍

[@vickyoakes4584]

Amen to that!

[@jameyjones1595]

Kylie definitely has bigger muscles than Guy :P Thank you for being an advocate of being independant and doing things you love without the stereotyping and bias. I enjoy watching both of you, including Guy's geeky jokes :D

[@gbatty4691]

Kylie your a legend, Guy your a legend 2 😁 love watching you guys, we didn’t for one second think Kylie would let you get away with not working and vice versa, looking forward to next weekends episode 👍

[@jolleyolley1204]

You guys have a fantastic balance and a healthy and happy relationship. You have built an amazing project together and you are both very skilled at what you do. You are having so much fun and that's what's important.

[@rosaliefarese]

Kylie U and Guy are An awesome Team 👏🥰

[@carlosdelagarza8983]

Hurrah! to your egalitarian partnership - few things in life are as uplifting and rewarding as a partner who values and nurtures your contributions.

[@seriouslypagan6904]

Haters gonna hate! Ignore them, you both are amazing!

[@fishermann1102]

I am very sorry to hear that you received these unprogressive comments Kylie. I have been watching Kylie's hardwork since the beginning of your vlog. I have always admire Kylie's intelligence and practicality. Kylie, you go girl! Also it is good exercise! Kylie is fit and tan. Lol! She is gorgeous.

[@Eddi.M.]

LOL, this seems not only to be a very touchy issue, but also one that moves a lot of people...

[@mafish7962]

Team work in your home, oh and teamwork in your marriage-who would’ve thought that worked?!!!!🤣🤣🤣 Take super care guys! Laura xx🍻🍻🍻

[@Patricia-pq9xw]

I think you both do a great job and are a good team. I would not pay any attention to people that don't challenge themselves. Kylie you are a fantastic role model. Great videos guys!!

[@seriouslyjoking2]

Kylie, I am the one who like to take the photos of my husband working on one of our projects & people assume he is doing the work all by himself. That is when I ask: WHY do you think there are 2 ladders? There was one time when I was doing all the digging for some steps...as my husband has back problems, but I took a photograph of him digging. Again, the assumption was that I did not contribute except to take photos. These are people who sit back and watch everyone else....They are projecting themselves in the situation.

[@Birdfarmer862]

It is called TEAMWORK. Questions like this are called an AGENDA!

[@anoukvans2453]

Dear Kylie & Guy, you do not have to explain or defend yourselves. This is your way of living. Do it the way which works for you two. Keep on building your fantastic lives!

[@patriciasnodgrass8205]

No need to justify your lives to anyone… you both rock… I’m amazed at the quality of your work.. I often find myself wishing I could undertake such a project… love that you allow us to tag along on your adventures

[@salscycleshop3416]

You two are awesome together, and thank goodness your mother raised a "fiercely independent daughter "

[@joannecalcutt6724]

Take complaints with a grain of salt because you can’t fix stupid. Love your channel and videos.

[@vrrtg]

As a fiercely independent woman myself I am mightily proud to see Kylie doing all she does and doing it all so well. Congratulations to both of you on your beautiful relationship!

[@elizabethtoet1113]

I will never understand why some people find it necessary to mind other people's business. Kylie and Guy you have got it all sorted You both do amazing work, you are both clearly happy and content with your life. Guy you just keep churning out these fabulous videos, we all love them Kylie you do what makes you happy.

[@ElJasperino]

Sounds like a good balance! 😃

[@dianavousden9587]

This is the first video (and I have watched from the beginning) that made me "sad". You shouldn't have to explain or justify how or why you are sharing your workload. It is very obvious that you are a great team! Stay as you are - both of you! And continue doing what you so obviously enjoy. Onwards and upwards.... keep it up, certainly helps to keep me motivated.

[@joyceb5864]

It doesn't matter who does what in a partnership as long as the participants are in agreement. However, I am in total awe of Kylie's non-stop energy. I wish she could share with me! Love your videos!!

[@poolfield2]

One of my happiest days was when concrete truck arrived and the driver asked who was going lay the concrete. When I explained that I was going to do it his eyes nearly popped out of his head. I was in my late 50s and female and apparently that was rather surprising. When I finished he looked and said “fair play, most builders I deliver to wouldn’t do any better”, he said he would dine out on that story for some time to come.

[@nena4215]

Kylie forgot to yell “Ouch” when Guy pushed the massive boulder out the door! I live my life the same way, absolutely wouldn’t be with anyone who was not equal, I’ve been lucky, so lucky to have found my perfect life partner!!! Really looking forward to the Lyme adventures, it seems like amazing stuff.

[@marco.mennenga]

You're absolutely right in deviding the jobs as you like it. Look at skills, not gender. But stop working at the same moment and enjoy the moments of rest and contemplation together. As my father always said:"You're only ready if the rest is ready too. You can always pickup a broom and clean." Found your channel just recently and i'm loving it.

[@bahnsidhes]

I am very much a fiercely Independent as well. It's always amazed me when people think that I should not being doing what I'm doing? I've always hated "gendering" work. Or anything for that matter. I love working with my hands. Doing projects that I find worthy. Whether it's a typically male or typically female job doesn't matter to me. If I do it, it's because I enjoy doing it. OR I enjoy the fact that I needed no one to do it for me. I love that you have a partner that recognizes and celebrates that in you.

[@Callofdootie]

As I said on another channels video (on a similar subject): it’s great to hear that you guys are happy but sad that you have to explain yourself - people should just enjoy the content.

[@VisionaryGardener]

I love this so much. I'm a former wildland firefighter, and I so wish more people had an approach to work as you. I've always enjoyed physical, "traditionally male" work, and have had to fight through so much sexism as a result. It's ridiculous. Way to go, both of you! And, Kylie, I see and totally respect the muscles you've built doing this. 💪💕👍

[@Tigaroto]

People have too much opinion about others, that's inevitable on an internet public life in a way, but yeah... a couple knows what work for them. So focus on the content not in 'whys' and enjoy it :).

[@kerrylynnparsons9441]

Your mom gave you good messages, Kylie. I was pushed to marriage and kids as young as possible but I chose education instead. Life is funny like that! I agree about shared work based on skills and desires. Keep it up!!! 😊❤️🇨🇦👏👏👏

[@dianejones1289]

So hold on ...so if someone choses to marry and have children young that's seems as something wrong, seriously stfu, that's attacking young parents.

[@kerrylynnparsons9441]

@@dianejones1289 NO! If Someone PUSHES you to do that--THAT IS WRONG!!! Grow up.

[@paulan5989]

I love watching you work and work together. Physical labour and creative work are very rewarding and there is no reason why both partners can’t do what they enjoy and are good at! Also great to hear that Guy is learning Portuguese! LOVE you both!

[@sharon4364]

People wonder why I usually do all the yard work, even some landscaping. I LIKE it! I call on hubs when I need his brute strength. He also does all the financials, which I don't care for. He drives alot too. Works for us!

[@emmaslow]

Fascinating video - I'd love to see a fly-on-the-wall 'day in the life' of Guy showing the rhythm of a day with the project work, editing, cooking etc. Love both of your approaches.

[@sailaway1015]

Guy... you're a lucky man! Kylie, fine example of a confident woman who sees challenges and not barriers.

[@christinetrewin9717]

You are so right about the division of labour, especially when you spend all your time together. We would not have survived nearly 20 yrs of living in France if we did not do this. I hate anything admin, and hubs is not keen on ‘dirty work’ . So I do the garden,pets,kids and he does deal with the locals,banks, cars etc. it works. Keep up the good work both of you 😍😎🇫🇷

[@marisa01082012]

Kylie, your mom was ABSOLUTELY RIGHT! and you two are EQUALLY RIGHT, being happy making each other happy! In addition, it is SMART to manage tastes/preferences, skills and strengths with a view to optimizing results, excellent work by both 💯👌👍🤗🤗

[@jerrielindsey5939]

Thanks for addressing the thoughtless comments. I am inspired by your work ethic. I‘m not as good at math Kylie but I too can dig!

[@vickyoakes4584]

Our household was ran that way, and I personally feel that's the best way, non gender affiliated tasks. Everybody does everything, dishes, laundry, housekeeping, cooking, lawn maintenance etc. Makes for a better and more self sufficient rounded person. Plus everyone gets to learn something new.

[@bruceagneberg5824]

You two are delightful and a true example of marriage equality! Keep it up!!

[@fuziface]

Keep up the good work , both of you ! , Both of my Daughter's are very independant , my Youngest drive an 18 wheeler gravel truck

[@MAKEDOGROW]

OMG, that must be awesome!! 😃

[@bobyonker8642]

So nice to see a positive example of a couple who treats each other as equals and values the skills, talents, and efforts of themselves and their partner. Thanks again for sharing.

[@musicg1696]

Kylie and Guy make a dynamic team, it's wonderful to watch the progress on this channel.

[@chrisroberts5562]

There will always be people who see things through negative eyes. Your journey is great to watch and I wish you all the very best going forward.

[@jorgecoelho4051]

I'll be blunt, this speculation over people's lives is getting out of hand. Your teamwork keeps me around and it's kinda obvious... Respect.

[@SimpleLifePortugal]

You are so right! Project base videos take a lot to edit, we, too have no choice but to film over a few days and wrap our heads around story building. Thanks for sharing the struggle, we have the same with the content we produce ♡ ♥💕❤😘

[@nancibishof6462]

I find as a woman many of the tasks are achievable but it will take me longer to accomplish. There is no job that does not include some aspects that are less agreeable than others. The joy comes with the completion of the project and accomplishment of my goals. I could not afford all the improvements to my home without my labor. That labor makes the final project's contribution to my environment and life all the greater because of it. And it pushes me to tackle things I haven't a clue how to do until I research it. It broadens me as a person and provides more freedom as I am less dependent. So keep on keeping on in what you do. It works for you and harms no one else. Your home is going to be a fabulous home for you two.

[@anasilveira7739]

You have to accept some people just like to criticize everything. You're a good team, keep doing it the way you feel better because this is all about you....You have to like what you're doing, You have to do things the way you think is best for you. It doesn't matter who does what... YOU'RE DOING IT. Peace and Love ✌️♥️

[@KelpsSousa]

Don't ever change the way you do things. You are both awesome and a huge inspiration.

[@maisouijesuismajeur]

YES ❤️ This has been bothering me for so long. I cannot tell you how frustrated I got reading comments like: "wow Kylie even my husband couldn't pull this off" or "I'm a big guy and I couldn't do what you do". How are those compliments? Kylie's been doing this stuff for a while now, several days a week. Of course she's better at it than some random dude who occasionally changes a light bulb. A lot of boys are raised with that mindset of "no big deal, just try, you'll figure it out" and a lot of girls are discouraged from even approaching any kind of manual work that isn't strictly aesthetic. On a more cheerful note, it's so good to see you work with lime 😱 The ressources on the topic are so rare and specific, it's great to be able to follow the different steps as you put them into practice! I cannot wait for the next videos on your limecrete floor. A fellow lime geek 💁‍♀️

[@messedupgraphics]

YES! It’s 2022! Work is work! Keep going just as you are. It’s a pleasure to watch.

[@aquasha2799]

Of course you both work, “many hands make light work”. Your both hard workers . Your amazing 😊 keep up the excellent and non boring content

[@rylandjohnson7821]

How you organise your life is no one else's bloomin business. Please never explain yourselves again. Thank you for sharing your project with us. You are both fantastic people. BTW I live in Portugal. 32 years. Pleased you are here.

[@markt.3685]

My mother is 80 years old and she still cuts her own lawn. She is appreciative when someone takes up the mower for her, as she always as been, except when something needs to get done, she does it. I've caught her on occasion doing this and have pictures of her doing it. As the old saying goes ... life is what we make of it. Cheers and congrats!😎👍

[@jlturn]

Interesting enough, one of the primary reasons I started watching your channel and subsequently subscribing, is the fact that I see a woman doing some tasks that are typically done by men. It’s rather pleasant to see a woman willing and desiring to do whatever she wants. Keep up the good work. You’re an awesome team.

[@naturalcombinations]

You guys are going through so much hard labouring, keeping it together at the same time is a great way to make it happen! I take my hat off for you guys!

[@markduncan6690]

“Manly Work” That’s ridiculous! Just carry on…You are doing a fantastic job- both of you! Ignore the people who don’t get their hands dirty!

[@niascheiber]

🤣🤣 the ending was great!! 🏋️‍♀️ 💪

[@SaseDegete]

Whenever I'm watching your videos I never think that you get exploited and stuff, so in my opinion you have no need to be defensive. To me it's clear that you enjoy that kind of labor, as it's written on your face (most of the time :P), as it's clear that both of you do their part in this project of yours. It's not about she or he, it's just about two people that are lucky to have found each other, and that are working together to accomplish their common dream. All the best wishes :)

[@ingevansand9180]

We are so used to the role model society shows us as normal. Well... Moving abroad to begin with is not standard 😉. We should all just do what we prefer,like, are good at,... and just not care what everyone else thinks about that. It would make us all much happier! You guys are a good example!

[@veroniquemora2683]

Égal et complémentaire !! 👏👏👍

[@Tamsins_Potager]

Just want to say, THAT question has never occurred to me. 💪👏

[@junehitchcock170]

Some of us girls don’t mind getting our hands dirty and also enjoy the physical work. It is nice to see you both work as a team and always laughing. Keep it up Guy, Kylie! Love watching the progress towards perfection!

[@corinnetonelli489]

Couple after my own heart ! Wise words! I hate and Do not touch electrics ! Simply because I electrocuted myself as a child….. I love manual work! Love projects. Waiting on shifting big shingle stones from a garden round the corner to our garden, baby steps until lady is ready for me to clear it… Many barrow full so if and when I can do it… We share tasks we can do and the partner. does other tasks… I did not work full time however I had the time to dig a veg garden or shift-shingle or dig the ground for the patio… So we go into our lives doing what we can do and are good at it , we share the task load! We wash up and dry up … no dishwasher…. Water then goes on the plants…. Keep smiling we are behind you as we enjoy your venture!

[@eartecathy7378]

I have been impressed with the broad scope of work I have seen Kylie doing. That is part of what has interested me about your channel. Knowing now that you are both happy with the division of labor, makes it even more pleasant to watch you both.

[@MAKEDOGROW]

I just wish my body was able to keep up with all the physical labour my mind wants to do … I’ve definitely had to learn to slow down a little 😂 - Kylie

[@pouzi2150]

You are a modern couple, and I wish everyone would think like you. Congratulations for the hard work 👍

[@christelesquerre8417]

I'd say Kylie is often the star of your videos and any star needs a good director. Thank you for being and showing independent, strong, equal and funny people

[@WomensCareCenterFredericton]

You are an example in following your dreams facing every challenge.

[@placefor16]

Stop stereotyping people! I do a lot more work than my husband in house projects, even he is much bigger than me. Because of many reasons, some of are related to Kylie and etc. And my husband does plumbing and electric stuff and such. 2 people brings different strengths and skills and interests into their relationship. I admire you guys work and appreciate all skill sharing on KZbin!

[@suekennard5766]

You are a great team. Kylie I am with you, as a woman why should we be defined by stereotypes. We have a large garden which has seams of heavy, sticky clay which we both garden. I was surprised to hear a younger neighbour say that she can't dig the garden as it is heavy clay - I thought just give it a go, you don't have to work till you drop, you might surprise yourself with what you can achieve and the sense of satisfaction is enormous. My mother taught me the same life lessons as yours - and I grew up as a strong, independent woman and luckily met a man who gets me and like Guy loves to cook. You are a great partnership and an inspiration. 👏👏👏

[@noono19]

Fantastic video. If I may give a suggestion, and because I really want you guys to finish the house before having severe back pain, always try to make those boulders go away by themselves. 3 or 4 small logs laying on the floor and then a rope to pull the boulder across them. Think about it. One small task like this may screw up the feasibility of the entire project, and since you've come this far, and because we need your videos, no one wants that to happen! Stay strong guys.

[@debbydhill]

I understand the person who commented might have done so with all good intentions, out of caring for you Kylie. That being said, I know there is no way Guy would "make" you do anything or allow you to do it all. I enjoy your videos, banter, and as a fiercely independent person also, I totally get it.

[@Cenepk101]

I can tell easily by how peaceful you are with each other. Believe me, if one was slacking- it would come through in attitude.

[@johnsage1020]

Please don't go away i enjoy watching and learn about your part of the world. Here in the states we cement everything the pointing i find relaxing. Love you guys until next time

[@LaReynedeNeige]

A lot of viewers don't understand the amount of time it takes to edit vlogs. I've a friend who does short, no-fuss instructional vlogs on the Kia EV6, he has previous experience of shooting video, but has noted it takes much longer than he anticipated to put them together.

[@phyllismorgan1280]

Kylie you are awesome! I love watching you tackle any job that needs to be done! Stay strong!

[@shakirakhan7118]

love fiercely independant...and so great for health of the body. I share your attitudes

[@paulchadwick4907]

It doesn't matter who does what , or is seen doing what , all that matters is that your happy . You both seem to be very happy , your a great team and excellent entertainment xx ❤💯✅

[@LizelleGrobler]

Let those who wander, wander😃. You2 are perfect in all your ways. ♥️🇿🇦

[@andreacrashe9894]

*Kia ora Kylie & Guy, You two just keep on being who you are... be true to yourselves... and keep on doing what you do. Hard work is good for the soul,... no matter who does it. BTW to all the folks reading this.... Girls can do anything they put their hands too... Us gals rock.... and are extremely independent too.*

[@mariadange06]

It comes over as good teamwork and building in a shared interested is what stops stagnation in a relationship. Bon continuation 💪💪

[@curiouscat3384]

As an American, watching homesteaders buy up old abandoned Portugese farm houses, I am amazed at the number of old stone houses there. We just don't have that kind of history - most of our houses are wood or block framed. They are beautiful, the workmanship is a mystery to me and I would love to learn more. Being intellectuals I wonder if you've researched old architecture and have more to share along those lines. ?

[@autumndusk641]

Kylie takes on the earth. Guy immerses himself in an ice cold bath on camera. Seems even to me. 😆 You take care of each other by leaning on each of your strengths, and buckle down to do the more boring/unpleasant tasks as needed. I'm sure it's not always easy, but it's as healthy and supportive of a relationship as they come. People tend to interpret things through their own lens of experience/perspective, so I think it was a good question to clear up with your audience.

[@sydneyevans2637]

You two have a great dynamic. Work is work and it all has to be done. Your place is a testament to how much you've done. Looking forward to seeing the interior projects. Best of health and happiness to you both.

[@beatieswanepoel3004]

I love it that Kylie can do all those things. My dad told me there would not always be a man around to help out, so learn to do it yourself. I cannot do lots of heavy work anymore being 73, but I do am not scared to use power tools, etc. You go Kylie!

[@conchavilela2361]

Somos feministas solo para lo que conviene???? Ánimo Kylie 👏👏👏👍 yo también soy mujer, tengo una finca comprada con mucho sacrificio, mi marido y yo trabajamos a la par, yo hacía el hormigón, movía piedras y compramos cinco camiones de tierra orgánica y a con una carretilla los iba poniendo yo donde se necesitaba, trabaje en la huerta.....etc. Entre los dos y mis hijos hicimos la casita, es una felicidad trabajar aunque te canses por lo que quieres. Brava mujer... Adelante!!!!!!

[@maemangiameli4841]

I love this twelve ways till Sunday and way back again. 💯💕. Balance is key and these two have that rationale down pat! Keep up the good work guys!! Salute!!

[@Anpanman712]

Great video as always and love your dynamic! An intriguing question: Could you possibly do a quick video on what you referred to as, "crappy job", around the estate? Would love to see this part of the process as well. Cheers!

[@shirleyfoshee6656]

Don’t listen to any negative comments❣️I (if I could) would be in there doing the fun, hard work. There’s a goal in site, a beautiful home❣️❣️❣️

[@JasonGolden79]

This makes total sense and I can understand your frustration. Social normals so deeply embedded in our environments can take a long time to change.

[@solveigtorvanger3864]

People ask the most peculiar questions. Love you both, you do an amazing job both of you and love watching your videos. Love from Denmark

[@jamesgrover2005]

Hard work fascinates me, I can sit and watch it for hours 😊 keep on keeping on 💪

[@sharvii]

You’re both legends 👍🍺

[@jokeschaap3505]

I 'm happy with the fact that you give the videos a number. Please stick to that.Thank you.