Male gynecologist myths busted !

[@veesuavee]

I think it’s all about trust. Get to know the doctor before you have unsure feelings about what happens next. I have a male gynecologist and I’m 14 years old. He does not make me uncomfortable and if I was, he tells me what he’s going to do before he does it and there’s always someone in the room with. I also had to have a pelvic+bladder exam done and a male doctor had to do it because he was available at the time. He was super cool and we even cracked jokes and explained what happens during the ultrasound. It’s not all that bad.

[@kay8698]

you are way too young for that

[@veesuavee]

@@kay8698 way to young for what? 🤔

[@iconnn__]

way too young for patient care?? However I think they should make pediatric OBGYNS

[@veesuavee]

@Josephine B what does that have to do with patient care?

[@snowylove2002]

@@kay8698a lot of girls start seeing a gyno the minute they have their first cycle

[@lizzthatvegan1207]

Did no one say because of sexual trauma? I have no issue with male gynecologists but with my trauma I can barely get through a visit, even without an exam, with a woman gynecologist. It has nothing to do with the man himself. It's just the trauma I have. I hope that makes sense. It's not that I feel like a male gynecologist would do anything inappropriate, I'm just at a place in my trauma recovery where that's a bit too much.

[@David-zn2hx]

There should never be any issue with someone having a personal preference, especially when it has to do with comfort. But the idea that a female would be better at this job than a male however, is def wrong.

[@lizzthatvegan1207]

@@David-zn2hx for sure. Someone good at their job is someone good at their job. And thank you for saying that about personal preference.

[@cynthiaboyd1710]

I can relate to how you feel. Don't know if this helps you not feel alone but for me personally, I have expirience d sexual assault from both male and female, and both had more power ( it's about power and control) and I was groomed and physically abused. I have to ask myself challenge questions and those questions help ground me even though I feel a loss of control when I'm under my gynaecologists care.

[@kay8698]

@@cynthiaboyd1710 The pelvic exams are grooming women to get use to sexual assault,,,,thats the big medical system secret sshhhh

[@kay8698]

its still better to get a female gyn even with your trauma ,,a male gyn might make your trauma worse

[@SkydivingSquid]

This topic gets brought up every no and then and recently I had a discussion with several of my female colleagues who all PREFERRED male gynco's because they, in their opinion, male doctors are more attentive to their concerns and, again in the opinion, aren't as dismissive. Now, that's not a stab at female doctors by any means, but to the three women I was chatting with that was their shared opinion. That because the female gynco also has menstrual discomfort and pain, it can be easy to dismiss patient's feelings and pain as 'normal'.

[@annikadas6317]

I think I wouldn't judge a doctor on the basis of their gender. A doctor is a doctor. And I won't particularly ask for a female gynecologist because all my comfort lies with how I feel and how the doctor behaves. If he/she is a professional, has a nurse at standby and allows me to take a loved one inside with me, I have no problem with that. And Same for female gynecologist as well. Because I believe that both females and males can be predators. The chances are even. So I wouldn't go and look for a female gynecologist or ask for one. I just need a doctor who can help me out with my problems. And if I find the doctor unprofessional, I'll go to a different doctor next time, regardless of the gender

[@elliefuller3667]

The chances are not even…it’s more likely for a male to be a predator than a female.

[@annikadas6317]

@@elliefuller3667 and that statement of yours is based on no solid evidence. Female predators are simply harder to prove guilty and thus, you don't seem to understand that they are just as dangerous as the male predators. Even more dangerous actually. People will believe you with closed eyes if you accuse a male of showing predatory behaviour. But when it's a female, people try hard not to believe you even with eyes wide open

[@elliefuller3667]

@@annikadas6317 …what? How are you going to say female predators are more dangerous when male predators physically overpower their victims (which female predators can’t do, unless they’re a pedophile, but last I checked even with pedophiles there are more male than female pedos). You clearly have no idea what you’re talking about, next.

[@paperbrain5273]

Exactly what most people have to understand 👍

[@annikadas6317]

@Josephine B and the same can technically done by a female doctor too. A female doctor can also physically abuse a female patient and a male patient. Thus, there is no use in discriminating between doctors. The risk is equal.

[@callofdutyguy9]

I hear lots of women and doctors themselves say there is nothing to worry about. Very few people take the husband or BF seriously. They call the man crazy and insecure. If you are in relationship, the relationship isn’t all about just the man or the women. If the man loves his partner, I think it is reasonable and responsible to be concerned about these types of exams. Likewise, if the woman loves her man and If the situation isn’t an emergency why can’t the couple take a little time and find a doctor that is right for both of them. If these male doctors are being honest, why don’t they examen their own mothers and daughters?

[@Akhtar93]

On point.

[@vishwapsengar7340]

Yuuppp

[@The_Comment_Dude]

Exactly

[@SkydivingSquid]

The ignorance in this comment section is astounding. I feel like 99% of these comments are coming from boys (or sadly men) who have zero experience with a gyno or any idea about medicine at all..

[@mcpartridgeboy]

most of the people saying its silly and not sexual are females who have no idea about mens sexuality at all !

[@kateelario6235]

I'm a woman and I prefer male gynos. So no it's just you.

[@mohammedgamal5398]

I agree they don't even know or saw the experience

[@anupamaMall]

Male gynaecologists usually try their best to not make the patient uncomfortable. But the female ones think that they have the right to judge their patients based on marital status or give unsolicited advice like get married or have kids.

[@Bee4-Bee4]

Wait what? Why would a female doctor tell a patient to get married and have kids?!?!???

[@shamshadansari1765]

Being professional is not a guarantee of not being mischief.

[@kathitpatel2707]

Yes you are 100% right

[@kay8698]

I have a male gyn in my town, and people call him chester the molester,,he was even kicked out of a hospital for sexual misconduct

[@kathitpatel2707]

@@kay8698 report these in police station

[@danielfigueroa8686]

Same with female gynecologist

[@shamshadansari1765]

@@kathitpatel2707 need proper laws to regulate this kind of medical procedures.

[@NoOctopuss]

I just don't think a male doc can relate to or really understand what I'm going through.

[@KeineAhnung1996]

Why should a male gynecologist not be able to relate to feelings of pain, grief, anger or any other emotion you can think of? Or do you mean the physical aspects like localizing where exactly the pain is? A female gynecologist did not experience all possible symptoms of all possible conditions a patient could come to her by herself. So she has to rely on things she learned from her education or clinical experience the same way a male gynecologist has to do. To me your statement seems a bit prejudice towards one gender and in a quite negative way.

[@AnnabellaRedwood]

I've found male doctors to be way more kind and compassionate, and more gentle with pelvic exams.

[@OFM1209]

As a guy I agree. I’ve always felt male OBGYN were weirdos. Weird like morticians. I’d never allow my wife to see a dude for this, because damn….its weird. I mean why?

[@amandaseekamp-hi6io]

The fact that a woman expressed concerns about being molested during an exam and he LAUGHED about it... That gives you your reason right there. My female doctor would never laugh at my concerns like that. And another said males are not as gental. He says that's false. Calling her a liar. Another reason. He does not know what it feels like to be constantly afraid of being raped, molested, or even just sexually/physically judged all the time. Just laugh at women and call them liars... You're giving your gender in your profession a bad rep. Please quit.

[@emerster656]

he probably laughed becasue he thought doing something like that is so absurd and far out, and it shouldn't be happening by anyone with any morals.

[@LM-he7eb]

Exactly. That right there is why I loathe male gynaes. Males are generally less empathetic to women's pain outside the medical practise (E.G. Man flu), this doesn't change when they get into medical practise. It will take you years before getting a Fibroid, Cyst or/and endometriosis diagnoses with a male gynae. Because males are dismissive.

[@BiniAshokMichael]

My gynec is male. And i am so happy because male gynec is so empathetic and understanding than female. And my husband is also feel free to ask his doubt to doctor and he explains without any hurry. So please feel free to consult male gynec

[@varshitha4268]

Literally i am so shy to visit male gynecologist 😶😶😔

[@kay8698]

thats what the female docs are for

[@PrimordialNyx]

@@kay8698 and vise versa if someone is shy to go to female doctor. A doctor is a doctor. If the gender preference makes the patient feel better then that is perfectly fine.

[@jessicaarmy-animegirl9454]

My former gynaecologist is a male My new gynaecologist is male as well i had to change. Cause i moved to a different city And I’m happy

[@Akhtar93]

And hes happy too

[@PrimordialNyx]

@@Akhtar93 what doctor that has clients is not happy?

[@PrimordialNyx]

I'm glad you are happy with your gynecologist. Hope you have health and that you will be well.

[@vishwapsengar7340]

Ok

[@suchandrabasu5680]

My delivery was done by a male gyno. He was amazing 😊

[@moonlightstargem1006]

Knowing you said if there is a female nurse present i am safe. If there is no female nurse don’t trust him. I agree!!

[@PrimordialNyx]

So he's unworthy of trust because you're biased?

[@jeanetteraichel8299]

No one mentioned traumatic experiences with male doctors in general or prior bad experience with a male gyno?

[@kathitpatel2707]

True. Not just talk about traumatic experience also talk about sexual abuse and rape by male doctors

[@paperbrain5273]

This goes both ways

[@cynthiaboyd1710]

I go to a male gynaecologist. He's a good Dr, and kind human :)

[@mcpartridgeboy]

you think being kind means not beng hetrosexual ? really ? because you can be kind and be hetrosexual and if you are hetrosexual your getting turned on.

[@weirdothings8672]

Due all respect i still wonder what male gynaecologists answer when they been asked why you chose this field?

[@SkydivingSquid]

They rotate during residency and may find passion in that field, find they are very good at it, may have had an awesome rotation under their attendings, or have been offered a job. I know a few male doctors who chose pediatrics despite it being 'frowned upon', but they had such a positive experience that's what the ended up choosing. I would imagine it's the same here... though it is important to remember, medicine is often not 'beautiful'. Think of what kind of person is TYPICALLY going to see a doctor. Normally someone who has something wrong.. yes women are recommended to have annual exams, but this isn't 'porn hub'. The female reproductive system is very complicated and susceptible to many issues and different unpleasant diseases and infections... and it gets worse as you age.. ergo, you aren't always going to get 'a beautiful flower' on some 'smoking hot super model' - but instead probably gramma who has had a terrible itchy rash and smelly discharge who can't take it anymore.. THAT is the reality of work.. everyone thinks (ignorantly) oh it's a man who just wants to be a perv... no no no. Not by a looooooong shot. These are professionals who can separate medicine from anything and everything else. Their patients, though people, are seen as medical cases, and sometimes, just medical cases.. many physicians have to be reminded or trained to recognize their patients have feelings, emotions, concerns and fears.. 'the human side' of it.. that's how professional physicians can become that they entirely separate themselves from the human side (including sexual side) and focus on problem solving (medicine).

[@PrimordialNyx]

Some years ago I wanted to become a gynecologist. My mother, Cousin and aunt all had male gynecologists and since I saw them as people who helped people I love I thought it would be good to be like that person, who makes sure others' mothers, cousins, sisters, daughters etc are healthy and help them. For better or worse after highschool I went to do my apprenticeship as CNA (my highschool was vocational one so I had to do 6 months of apprenticeship in a hospital afterwards) and there I grew attached to the elderly patients and liked how the physiotherapists helped them get back to their lives after who knows what stuff (illness, accident, surgery etc). So from there I left the gynaecology route and went to physiotherapy route (2 year college atm) and aiming to help mostly elderly people with musculoskeletal problems. In short, to help people. And to keep them healthy and happy.

[@loganleroy8622]

I can tell you. In my experience, the female reproductive system is incredibly complex with a complicated interplay of various hormones that coordinate with each other just to create a normal monthly cycle. Many physicians like something called “continuity of care”. This means you get to follow your patient from the first few weeks after they become pregnant or are first trying to conceive, then you follow the pregnancy with them across the next 8-10 months, depending on when they first come to see you. Finally you get to help bring new life into the world and perform surgeries that are on the balance between life and death for the mother and child. It’s so rewarding. It’s the one area of medicine where a patient comes to see you where nothing is actually wrong with her even if she’s now got a 2.5kg baby growing in her uterus.

[@Jhghubiii]

is not permissible for a Muslim woman to see a male gynecologist if there are qualified female gynecologists available

[@liontelarisacosmina7198]

As a woman I visit male gynecologists. For me the control is a bit uncomfortable, regardless of the doctor's gender. And I don't think a doctor will be arroused 5 days per week, seeing countless female genitals looking the same and all in the same position. It would be like eating the same food every single time. Plus, most sexual predators don't even go to school.

[@dulcebanna3819]

Personally as a young female with no male experience i just find it extremely uncomfortable to have a random grown straight man (this is exclusing gay gynos) look and feeling around my vag. I respect that they are fully capable of being professional i just feel safer with women and i imagine many other women feel the same. I find it hard to understand the choice as a straight man to go into the field? I really dont mean to disrespect them but i find it hard to understand? Why not go into any other medical field except inspecting the genitals of the gender you're attracted to? I feel with lesbians i still feel comfortable because they have what i have and the same experience in the world and i feel they understand my point of view better. But a man will never really know what its like to have your vagina looked at. (TW: SA/R) Yes they also have genitals but men arent commonly sexually harrassed like most women will experience throughout their lives. I know its not all men, but men as a general catagory are much more likely to sexually assault or rape a women then vice versa. Yes it does happen but its significantly more uncommon. How does a man whose fully professional about his position not think that his clientel will likely be limited in the field? If anyone has any points or disagreements i would love to have a ~respectful~ discussion with you. Im really not trying to attack anyone and i would love to understamd the other side if anyone wants to explain to me. If you read all this, thanks, thats impressive. 👏👏👏

[@dr_baby_maker]

Inspecting genitals is almost obsolete.

[@kay8698]

@@dr_baby_maker what do you call the pelvic exam then ? thats inspecting the inside of the vagina

[@ShouvikRoy.]

@@kay8698 Pervaginal examination is contraindicated in unmarried female ,so worry about that

[@crxtube187]

First of all , it's not a male or female standing in front of you. It's a doctor who is standing there. Stop doing gender stereotyping bullshit. And also thanks for motivating me to become gynecologist and yes I am a guy.

[@ShouvikRoy.]

@cricket ki baat Yupp !!

[@PumpkinTimberWolf]

Yeah i dislike the gynecologist in general 💀 would not g o because thats is WAY to personal and i could not handle that, it disgusts m e.

[@mrandmrskadamtravelingvlogmahe]

Don't go male gynacologist .Go to female gaynaco madam

[@candyluna2929]

The gynecologist that gets aroused in their jobs must have extremely low expectations of sex and be desperate.

[@mohammedgamal5398]

It is stupid that you don't think this happens sometimes

[@hanashara1598]

Doctor I am 4 week pregnant. I feel little pain while laughing or speak loudly is it normal or any miscarriage symptoms. I can't go out to consult a doctor because of quarantine. Please reply me

[@PrimordialNyx]

Probably he didn't see the comment, but since it's been a year.. I hope your pregnancy went well and that your beautiful angel is alright and healthy

[@kay8698]

Shouldnt the doctor ask you if you want a pap smear instead of just doing it without even asking or telling me

[@Anna-io4zh]

Yes

[@Dr.Blessing]

No procedure is allowed without the consent of the patient. And a male doctor can examine a female patient only in the presence of a female nurse. And proper documentation of the procedure and consent is mandatory as well.

[@DimaEgorovRU]

If we think about it these doctors usually get seen only when there’s a problem down there I’m sure with what they’ve seen, they aren’t gonna be aroused, they are doctors and do women forget lesbians exist? Or gay man who are doctors?

[@marquaviousphillips4451]

Exactly

[@kathitpatel2707]

One women can’t penetrate inside another women’s private parts

[@suseq949]

Wrong. Most visits to obgyns are annual well visits and prenatal. Yes women have problems and pain … but doesn’t mean they have genital warts and gross discharge either. They love that their patient population is mostly young healthy women. That’s why they choose it. Young. Healthy. Women. Naked.

[@sano0311]

I dont care if its male or female. I am more worried if they can help me or not.

[@gothgirlatheart3545]

If I had no choice I would see a male gynecologist but for the most part absolutely not give me a woman any time

[@souravsarkar6490]

I wanna write many things...but the moment I wanna write something I get stuck getting ur smiles...I can't gauge if thse are sarcastic or not...but I would like to say male gynecologist I don't like and male nurses must be prohibition from getting into a female's affairs...

[@kay8698]

The pap smears hurt,, The male gyn has no idea how those paps feel

[@paperbrain5273]

Is becoming gyno a joke to you One have to do so much hard work so that people like u can teach them how to deal with patients

[@andrewnwokocha]

Cool story. Most doctors also have no idea what a kidney transplant feels like yet does that mean they wouldn’t know how to do it🙄

[@ezikechisom9321]

​@@andrewnwokochayou misunderstood the write up

[@shilpa7365]

I don’t need any Doctor be male or female gyno! I wish I don’t have to 😂😂😂

[@sukriti2833]

Why is there not even a single question from the sexual assault victim? don't you consider them patients?

[@SkydivingSquid]

SA victims have the same rights as any other patient, and every door reminds patients that they have the right to request a specific gendered doctor. Many women PREFER male gynos.. SA victims aren't always traumatized or afraid of men.. because they still understand that there is a difference between their assailant the the 6 Billion other men on earth... this isn't Grey's Anatomy.

[@RdsArts-t5n]

Yeah no one talks about that My question is those patients who harrased sexually or abbused sexually by doctors,they also went for treatment only but y it happened with them only.does the doctor wanted to ruin his 15 years hardwork,proffesion,skills,medical ethics??? Now no one talks about this situation. since u should only care about ur self after u felt uncomfortable no one repairs it The doctors always tells its their proffession and nothing wrong in it . Since no one tells bad about their business or proffesion as a "shopkeeper never tells that his products are not good go for next shop" he will these are good enough Since it is not mandatory thing to examine by males only . U have choice if u want that much experienced doctor just go for female who is well skilled and leading so that u and ur husband both feel comfortable

[@dr.abhiobg]

Who is K A ..? Adding negative comments repeatedly ..I don't know what he/ she having issue with sir.. Pointing to same que. I think this video already explained doctors are doctors .. Irrespective of gender.. No one doctor choose this field for bad works Mens r too sensible to women ..As they r with mother n sister.. I just say go to DOCTOR ..Without knowing gender ..Just know doctors qualification & experience

[@Footlightshd]

Do men appreciate their mothers/sisters Hi**/lips?

[@autumnspring3480]

Why would a male like to become a gynecologist at the first place ?

[@dr_baby_maker]

Why not ?

[@autumnspring3480]

@@dr_baby_maker yes why not.

[@thegoat5587]

To look at vagibas all day .. i think that they are all perverts .. i wouldnt trust no man who does that job !

[@kay8698]

@@thegoat5587 exactly

[@kay8698]

@@dr_baby_maker why??

[@SUCCESSFULTRADER4]

WELL ONE OF MY RELATIVE HAVE A BAD EXPERIENCE WITH MALE GYNAE SO I REQUEST EACH AND EVERY FEMALE TO VISIT FEMALE GYNAE REST UP TO YOU

[@PobitroMon]

I would definitely visit a male gynecologist BCause, they are under represented and often ignored by Patients..

[@ezikechisom9321]

It's not true anymore

[@pondfish_]

I've seen educational video where no nurse is available 👿

[@pondfish_]

@Josephine B 🤭 yeh

[@AHemanthRS]

I wanna be a doctor ......I am so interested in children ......and I am feeling so sad about those who do, not have children's and I really want to solve problems with infertility ....or ...pregnancy......that's why I really want to work on this field......................this is my interest !!.......BUT ...i am afraid of what others think about me if I work in this field.

[@paperbrain5273]

Go for it bro There are many male gyno who are far better than most female gyno If ur good in that field than no one can stop u

[@kay8698]

Why would a man choose GYN

[@RJ-iu4lj]

Money/helping people

[@uglubuglu]

Why wouldn't?

[@kathitpatel2707]

Simple to look vaginas everyday and to fulfill their sexual needs

[@suseq949]

@@kathitpatel2707 and make lots of money. :). Smart.

[@kathitpatel2707]

@@suseq949 correct 100%

[@Dallas20249]

In the 3rd grade I had a problem wetting the bed quite often and I went to the doc for it. They gave me a male doc and he did a external exam down there and I have no idea why. He then told me to not eat certain foods but it didn't help and I eventually grew out of it. But that visit was traumatic I screamed the whole time I don't know why he need to look at me down there.

[@kay8698]

he is a pervert

[@justinegratton6509]

He was a pig! Looking to get turned on

[@ezikechisom9321]

I thought think there was a need for that examination

[@jessecamacho7042]

These comments are sad. Cant believe how sexist these women are. Men can be gynos y’all just make it weird.

[@kay8698]

the male gyns make it weird

[@elliefuller3667]

I’m so SO sorry that we’re concerned for our own safety. Are you aware the percent of men that are rapists/sexual assaulters? We don’t trust men we’ve never met before, and we certainly don’t trust men when we have to remove our bras/underwear. Your comment reeks of privilege.

[@jessecamacho7042]

@@elliefuller3667 why are you labeling most men as rapist? I doubt a man would go through all that school to “assault” a women. You actually sound dum. Men can be gynecologist. Sexist old lady.

[@elliefuller3667]

@Tarak Ram Your comment makes no sense.

[@elliefuller3667]

@Tarak Ram That’s a lie 🤣 almost 99% of rape is perpetrated by men, and of that 99%, only 0.7% ends with a felony conviction. That is INSANE. Out of every 1,000 rapes, 995 perpetrators (9-10 of those perpetrators are women according to the first statistic listed, making 985-986 of those perpetrators men) are walking free. The likelihood of you knowing a man who sexually assaulted/raped a woman and is walking free is massive.

[@drdharapatel669]

Great video sir hats off to you for doing this kinda video.... 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@dipak4022]

Ar you also a gynecologist? Mam

[@sraja8742]

This time I m13 week pregnant and my placenta posterior grade zero is baby boy or girl please please tell me

[@kay8698]

read a book written by ,Jeanice Barcelo

[@kathitpatel2707]

Book name bro

[@kay8698]

@@kathitpatel2707 bro ? birth trauma the dark side of modern medicine

[@ridhigowri2521]

not unless you are ....... i didnt get the name

[@autumnspring3480]

What about female doctors treating male sexual problems ?

[@dr_baby_maker]

What about them ?

[@kathitpatel2707]

There is no case of female doctors sexually assault male patient

[@Programmer_cum_Designer]

@@kathitpatel2707 hw can u say??? Do Females not take benefits of males???

[@kathitpatel2707]

@@Programmer_cum_Designer I am saying about female doctor not all female. So please correct your English

[@suseq949]

Not as frequent. First of all very few of the urologists are female. Under 20 percent are female. And the patient population is BOTH male and female. There is not one female urologist who treats ONLY male patients.

[@gilcraftsource]

Dr. Battina, please lie to me

[@yazpiration490]

Thank you

[@bluewater9196]

Big noooooooooooooooo

[@johnsmith974]

They are all very professionell. Doctors and lyers. Period.

[@Samarthjbr]

What if female gyno is a lesbian? Ever think about that.

[@kay8698]

so what,,at least she has the same parts and she knows what it feels like to go through those exams

[@kathitpatel2707]

One Female can’t penetrate in another women’s private parts

[@kathitpatel2707]

@afro luffy we are from India. And in india there are not any lesbian doctor. So female patients are safe with female doctors

[@ShouvikRoy.]

@@kathitpatel2707 thank god this rubbish mentality is not present all over India except Delhi , Haryana and northern part of India as far as I know . Rest of India is okay with male gynecologist .

[@kathitpatel2707]

@@ShouvikRoy. so you mean to say that you are ready to send your wife, sister and mother to a male gynaecologist. And they are happy to let the male doctor see their private parts. Ok nice thought

[@kathitpatel2707]

There should always relative present with female patient

[@pinkygoswamy1347]

Such a handsome gynecologist 🙈🙈☺☺ would definitely go😀

[@flyinghigh5091]

Gross

[@zokusayian5045]

@@flyinghigh5091 why

[@PrimordialNyx]

How to write an unofficial review for a doctor lol

[@vishwapsengar7340]

😑😑

[@sraja8742]

Please sir I have two baby girl

[@kanishkasharma478]

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