MAN ASSAULTS GAY COUPLE ON OUR CRUISE SHIP!?!

[@rickthibodeau9172]

Kudos to the Bartender who recognized the issue and acted swiftly. And kudos to Celebrity for being so inclusive and having a firm stance.

[@jamiewillhite6355]

This makes my heart sad. Life is meant to be happy and no one has the right to judge others. We need more love and compassion in this world. Thanks guys for being my friends.

[@JJCruise]

Jamie we are so happy to read your comment as we do need more love in this world. ❤️

[@KimBrooks4]

I’m on this cruise and had no idea this happened. This is disgusting behavior. Nice to hear Celebrity handled it quickly! Love seeing you guys around the ship!

[@JJCruise]

It’s been good to see you and so many others onboard this Awesome Ship!! 🤗

[@grandisbooks9698]

@@JJCruise - we were on the ship from April 8-15. No issues like that, but my friend was so animated playing blackjack next to his wife that the dealer, Oscar, told him that domestic abuse was not tolerated. We suspect he was kidding, of course. Please let me know if you have access to Luminae - would be cool to pass on a post cruise message to waiters Sanjeev, Jackson, and Marius - they were incredible.

[@TravelingStageManager]

What's most important is you and the other couple, as well as anyone else onboard feels SAFE! It's so easy to let hateful actions make us afraid to be ourselves and express our love in public. The current state of affairs across the country of all the anti-LGBTQIA++ laws and rhetoric going around really does have consequences. It gives hateful people the feeling it's OK to do what they do. Thankfully Security and the crew knew this was not OK and handled it quickly and discreetly. Thanks for sharing.

[@melodiejones7100]

I'm not gay, but I travel with a girlfriend and I know at times people have assumed we're a couple. I don't care but it is nice to know that there are cruise lines that will take these situations seriously. Glad they made the guy cool his heels in his cabin for a week!

[@imobannon]

I'm happy you guys found love. The more happy people there are, the better off we all are. (Obviously that guy isn't happy.)

[@JJCruise]

Thanks Isaac! 🤗

[@maryroberts2099]

I'm so sorry . Please know that there are lots of people who love and support you and your community ❤

[@JJCruise]

Thanks Mary! 🤗

[@deo0018]

I agree that this was a sad situation. But did you tell the couple when you talked to them that what they had done (block the view during the show and refuse to move when they were made aware that they were blocking someone’s view of the show) was bad behavior on their part? They needed to take some ownership of poor behavior before things escalated to the inappropriate level.

[@brt5273]

Agreed. It shouldn't just be a rainbow victory lap.

[@Steve_in_NJ]

NOBODY deserves to be shoved no matter who's at fault! That's just assault and that's probably why the culprit was put off the ship as a result!

[@MichelleAlexandria-EM]

If this happened on Carnival it’d be all over the Cruise Internet. Cudos to Celebrity for quickly handling this issue before it got out of control and extra props to the Bartender for instantly recognizing a potential problem.

[@JJCruise]

Yes! All the props to the Bartenders and Security on Celebrity! 👏🏽

[@zaraneves3345]

Pretty sure carnival is regarded as the ghetto cruise line. JJ’s experience happened on celebrity which generally has a good reputation so it is way more surprising.

[@johnfellows7850]

@@zaraneves3345 This is a very disappointing comment. Does "ghetto" cruise line mean "trailer trash" or a racially diverse set of cruisers? Bigots of whatever stripe should never be welcomed anywhere. With 200+ nights on Carnival I can say that the racial diversity on Carnival is a good thing. You might try it sometime. Maybe it will open your eyes. In any event, Carnival also has excellent on board security.

[@Steve_in_NJ]

@@johnfellows7850 I think the term "ghetto" isn't always used as a racial term, it's another way of saying "trailer trash" or "Walmart Shopper".

[@ST52655]

@@johnfellows7850💯

[@chrisscarfo1149]

Reminds me of when when my wife and I first came out to her Dad, he wanted to get his gun and come after me! I was so scared but his friends came over and talked to him. But for awhile I was really frightened. He did eventually come around but he never truly accepted us as a couple and felt we ruined his life. He is gone now. I forgave him because I wanted my wife to have a relationship with him. Unfortunately what happened on your cruise happens everyday. Love your shows!

[@JJCruise]

Chris, thanks for sharing your story. Unfortunately, it is way to common if a story but we are so happy you were able to forgive him. That is a huge step to take and a hard one. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🩷🩵🤎🖤🤍🫶

[@zivagoldman2001]

You are the bigger person to forgive. I'm sorry you had to go through that. It is a shame that he thought your love would ruin his life. He probably missed out on so much joy!

[@jn3084]

He showed his tendency to be violent so yes, lock him up. No one has the right to demean any one else's lifestyle. You two are awesome. We love you!

[@beverlyheitzman1609]

You two are a class act and don’t ever forget it. Glad you are enjoying and feeling comfortable on celebrity. Thanks for always giving a great update if your experiences good or bad. You two are the best 🎉😊

[@debradegraaf310]

Great video and love the balance of your reporting. Never been on that ship but possibly the bar staff should just alert the passengers that there is a show on the go and be aware that they may be blocking someone’s view. Would avoid irritation and prevent a heated situation. However, completely unacceptable for anyone to be abusive to anyone. Guess that guy will not be allowed to cruise Celebrity again.

[@CruisingTipsDotCom]

The saddest -- yet truest -- words you said is "there's hate everywhere in the world." Doing my first Celebrity cruise in June (the Summit, out of Brooklyn) and really looking forward to it. As a solo gay traveler, I'll admit there are times when I've felt... wary on cruise ships. I've never had a full-on incident (thank God), but I've heard the whispers... the ones that any minority recognizes instantly. The ones that send shivers up your spine and find you thnking, "Hmmm, maybe I should leave this space for another." Love hearing how Celebrity handled this situation. (Side note: It sorta sounds as if the bar in Eden is really badly designed. If people can't stand at a bar without blocking someone's view, that's problematic. Sure, maybe a person COULD wait for the show to be over. But that's why the bar is there... to serve people drinks.) On Mardi Gras, there's an atrium bar that's just off the atrium space in which they put on big shows. During one such show, there was an incredibly loud group of people in that bar. It felt so disrespectful of the audience and the performers.

[@edquier40]

My first cruise was on Summit! 2012!

[@andreas4268]

I am so glad to hear Celebrity had a swift response to this incident. It helps to put everyone at ease immediately and that is important for all to see. It settles things much faster when people know it is taken seriously. Keep cruising JJ cruise and hope to see you one day on my journeys at sea! Peace ☮️ ❤😊

[@ivysylvan]

Exact opposite, actually. I was on a sailing on the NCL Prima with my wife. After a fantastic dinner at Le Bistro, since we were both feeling cute and didn't want the night to end, we went for a walk around the promenade deck. It was a full moon, gorgeous waves, so we did a little dance and a twirl, not realizing there were people around. We got a chorus of "Awwwwwww" and, me being the anxious little bug I am, we scurried back inside :D

[@sarahmurphy6733]

I still believe you are only getting one side of the story... however, you are right... there is no room for hate. I do have a question, why was the bar open if it was going to disturb the view of the performance? I would think they would shut it down if it would cause a problem. Anyway, thanks for post!

[@JJCruise]

This is considered a “lounge” show so it’s typical for these style of shows to have the bar open. That said, we think it may be a good idea to challenge that norm and close the bar during these shows in the future. ☺️

[@shanekelley3055]

Hey guys...thank you for sharing this story! I am thankful to say that our experience has been extremely positive concerning this topic on all of our past cruises. In fact, we have always been overwhelmed at how excepting fellow passengers are and how open they are to interact with us. Our belief is that people who enjoy cruising, also enjoy and are comfortable with, meeting new people and experiencing life different from their own at home. Choosing to vacation on a cruise ship, which is like a small town, with complete strangers for a week or longer, is a bold statement in itself, that you are okay with that. This is why we love cruising so much. I'm saddened, and even a bit angered, that this situation occurred in this day and age, but pleased to hear that the crew of Celebrity Apex reacted swiftly and without prejudice, as we will be cruising on Apex in the near future. Take care guys...we look forward to seeing you again! Shane and Fernando

[@davidhinks8384]

Hey JJ, we've only cruised five times across three lines - the first being on Celebrity Eclipse. We've never experienced anything but the great cruise spirit and enjoyed chatting to so many interesting, diverse and fun people. Such disgusting behaviour (yep there's a 'u' I'm a Brit) would upset us and cannot believe this couple were subjected to such a hateful tirade even if they were being selfish by not moving away from blocking the view. I trust a ban would be imposed on any offender found guilty of a hate crime. Cheers Guys, I love your channel.

[@Laurie911]

I just got off Celebrity today and I was absolutely disgusted by a guest lecturer called Dr Diane and her completely sexist and antiquated lecture. I was so offended I talked to the Cruise Director who said he was in agreement that the things I told him she said were inappropriate but they continued to repeat it on the TV. Apparently the Cruise Director thought he would just pacify me. I will be making a formal complaint to Corporate when we return home.

[@JJCruise]

It’s always good to make your voice heard as we’ve seen Celebrity make changes from voices like yours. 👏🏽

[@EvinMA]

Who the heck is “Dr. Diane”?🤷🏻‍♀️

[@Laurie911]

@@EvinMA Some old lady psychologist who probably got her degree in the 60’s that was giving lectures. They had 4 different lecturers on the ship.

[@johnfellows7850]

I'm curious. What did Dr. Diane say that was sexist? If she was educated in the 60s I would suspect she might be a Feminist. If that is now considered sexist, it's a great leap forward.

[@dogcrazy25]

Don't condone violence or hate speech. The couple did exhibit bad etiquette and should learn to share the ship and learn some manners. Sounds like they acted entitled.

[@sheenaperez1882]

True... I agree and it's the samething I said. I don't condone what was said but the couple wasn't right either.

[@Pandbswideworldofports]

We love Celebrity Cruise Line! It’s a shame that people behave that way and can’t just live and let live. Keep the great videos coming guys!

[@randijaffe-7665]

Hi guys!! We are friends of Joyce and Jon and have been following your channel- love it! Hope this guy gets what he deserves! I don’t go for any hate- being religion, sexuality etc!! I spent my early years in a multicultural elementary school and saw so much separation that it upset me. Please add your venture on your channel for those not instagramers! Bon voyage!

[@JJCruise]

Thanks for watching! ☺️

[@mariefraher8725]

I was on an RC cruise out of Barcelona. At the very start of the cruise, the captain came on the speakers and announced how many people were on board and how many nationalities etc. He wished everyone a happy cruise; however, he stated that ANY misbehavior...foul words, etc would not be tolerated. It made an impression!

[@aeroAdvocate]

And what does he want to do against "foul words" except refusing service? It's getting ridiculous, just like flying.

[@lw3158]

@@aeroAdvocate sounds to me that the captain is just reminding people to be respectful of one another, nothing ridiculous about that.

[@juanitafurtado8805]

It is good to know that the cruise line handled the situation without delay. appreciate that you two can "go there" with grace and in a tasteful way.

[@MaddieOlson1993]

Well done you guys!

[@deliacall4826]

Thank you for the way you presented this situation to your followers. I appreciate your reviews and topics. Always so smart, relevant, and positive. Love you guys.

[@darleneeastburn7639]

Shocked to hear this story… thought we were past this … ❤

[@mgzayas]

I know that Celebrity Cruises and Royal Caribbean are very inclusive companies. And I am very happy Security acted fast and properly. thank you for the many videos...Happy sailings.....

[@debbief2882]

I'm glad to hear the cruise line was so quick to address this.

[@JJCruise]

Us too! 👏🏽

[@ricknolte6846]

So glad to hear this about Celebrity. I am sailing from Barcelona in 10 days and as a solo gay passenger I have concerns with this type of thing. Safe travels guys wherever you may go.

[@douglasbray3563]

What another person's gender, religion, politics, or sexual orientation may happen to be doesn't matter in the end we are all people and everyone lives on the same planet together and why make your life more complicated because of hate. Live and let live and everyone will be much happier.

[@deniselawrie3570]

Makes me so sad to hear this. You’re right, hate is everywhere, I prefer happiness and love to all!

[@henryjosephr.7736]

I have been on a few cruises solo and have never seen or heard of anything like this before 😮 Everyone should just go and have a good time and try to get along with each other no matter where you come from 😊 plus maybe one day I can enjoy a cruise with that special someone/guy 🎉🎉🎉

[@carolmccardell1135]

I am so glad to hear Celebrity cruise lines takes care of their same sex couples. My daughters are newly married and in their early 20’s. They love cruising so we are always looking for safe spaces for them. In future posts do you have any stories good or bad about Caribbean ports? Or other ports we always want to know where they will be welcome.

[@JJCruise]

Yes! There are certain Caribbean islands that still criminalize homosexuality. Jamaica, Belize, Barbados and a few others are examples. Definitely check travel advisories for LGBTQ+ prior to disembarking and also travel safely. ☺️

[@shade0762]

I really dislike the way Celebrity has that space set up. With that said the poor behavior of the gay couple does not excuse the actual criminal behavior of the man who reacted. Celebrity is my favorite... 🎉❤ I am glad they stood up to the man 🎉

[@maryjoambrozia4180]

This made me sad. Love is love

[@randydetrick]

Sailing on the Beyond in June and happy to hear that celebrity did the right thing. Can’t wait to see the shows in Eden.

[@sherrieyanez9130]

Good for Celebrity! Loved meeting you guys on the Celebration transalantic cruise!

[@lindaroney4820]

HEY GUYS!!! Listen, I don't have to agree with your lifestyle, but I respect everyone. I have many gay and lesbian friends and I would lay my life for them. It is not for me to judge, but everyone is a human being that deserves respect. I love watching you and everything you say. Keep up the good work and the positivity!!!

[@abigailgerlach5443]

I've heard from numerous people that this venue is awkward in terms of floor space. Both parties are, to some extent, to blame for their actions. But, hatred, anger, and violence is almost always made worse by alcohol, frustration and stupidity. Too bad some can't be thrown overboard. (Or do I mean walking the plank?🤷)

[@christineshields1714]

This is sad on so many levels. Thank you for the set-up of this story. I wonder, if the couple that was attacked had simply said "I am so sorry. We didn't mean to block your view." and simply moved out of the way the whole incident might have been avoided? This is just good old common courtesy. That being said, I am not justifying the attacker's behavior in any way. The behavior of the "attacker" is beyond appalling and should not be tolerated regardless of the circumstances. No matter what the situation, no one should ever lay hands on another person or escalate the situation with verbal slurs of any kind (homophobic, racial, sexual, religious, or otherwise). I applaud Celebrity for how they handled this situation. Many of the cruise lines are making it clear there is a zero-tolerance policy for behavior such as this.

[@debbied8983]

No room for haters anywhere! I hope they get banned.

[@JJCruise]

We believe that will occur, but will have no idea if it does or not. We can hope. 🙏🏼

[@cydneystephen2814]

Hey JJ Cruise. Ok in Eden. A lovely space. Wow. Very unfortunate. But when there is inappropriate behavior, it’s usually from other passengers not crew or staff.

[@alanhill2175]

Rude and unacceptable behavior was the trigger and that triggered the guy who's view was blocked. Unfortunately for all concerned it triggered his homophobic side. He was in the right until he went too far. Don't lose sight of that. I am impressed with security's response.

[@sheenaperez1882]

I agree

[@lw3158]

@Alan Hill "Unfortunately for all concerned it triggered his homophobic side". And it also apprently triggered his violent side.

[@danielbobberson9849]

thanks for the reporting the story. I am glad it is not typical event on Celebrity. Yes can happen anywhere. That said I have heard some complain about the logistics of that space on the ships....an open bar with people going back and forth etc. I think people block people routinely. I guess Celebrity must in general get good feedback on having the shows there.

[@RevPeterTrabaris]

Well, I am new to your channel and I am looking forward to seeing all of your video's. I love cruising, even though I have only been on one cruise. And it was a Celebrity cruise. This was back in 2011 and it was a seven night cruise from San Juan, Puerto Rico to Barbados and back. I fell in love with cruising then, and tried to find a way to book onto their next cruise, and onto the repositioning cruise immediately after that. Unfortunately, I couldn't make it happen. I am so jealous of the cruise you are on, and wish I were with you two. By the way, that cruise was on the Celebrity Summit. I had no bad experiences on that cruise. As a gay man myself, I felt completely welcomed and included just as you are describing. I so pray that I will be able to cruise again. If not, I can at least follow along vicariously through your sails. Peace and Thank You!

[@ragdadtx1835]

I almost exclusively sail with Celebrity, and as a Gay man, I'm so glad that the line did the right thing. I have watched a number of your videos now, and I must say, you guys are DRAMA MAGNETS...lol. Happy Sailing!

[@cassiehyre4903]

It is great to hear how Celebrity handled the situation. Do hope the guys do check on their behaviour and manners too as well as the guy to assault the guys and show such hate. We are all human and need to be kinder to each other and accept all.

[@lauraguerrero2190]

Will watch on the replay as I am teaching on Wednesday

[@christiandiablo9499]

Those 2 gay guys were really rude. You’re right. I, too, would have called them out. And if they said “no” I would have probably argued my point further, to demonstrate further to them how rude they are. The act was flat out disrespectful and rude to other guests. However, i would never assault anyone over a difference of opinion (that’s a meathead reaction and hate speech has no business EVER being used.) t seems like the assaulting party were looking to empower their hate through actions. That’s very sad. While i think putting the guy in this stateroom for the entire cruise is over the top punishment, i do think he deserved a day in his room to rethink his actions. And as an aside: i am a gay man.

[@grigsbywhite3309]

My husband and I have only sailed Celebrity Cruise Line and have never felt or seen this type of behavior on any of our cruises. I am so glad to hear that security was taking this seriously and everyone in this situation was safe. Thinking back I really don’t remember seeing security around the ship (even though I know they are there) other than when we are in port getting off and back on the ship. Another reason to enjoy sailing Celebrity.

[@JJCruise]

Yes! We are so happy this happened on Celebrity as we felt Celebrity did right by the victims on every way!

[@travelingwithmsgwen]

It saddens me to hear about this sort of hateful, hurtful behavior. I hope this guy has to spend the entire cruise in his cabin. Or, they will send him home at the first opportunity. Enjoy the rest of your cruise. Peace and blessings, Ms. Gwen...❤

[@jeffeisenberg4743]

Thats an awful situation, terrible.what celebrity has to do is redesign that room, or remove the bar and put it in the back behind the audience so this awful altercation doesnt happen. Best jeff and sandy brooklyn. Going on our firdt celebrity cruise this monday may 15 on the summit to marthas vineyard bermuda and charlston s.c. our 5th wedding anniversary. Keep on truckin j.j. cruise

[@larry4111]

This really saddens me. I don't know how common it is but the good news is, at least from 19 cruises in 2 years, I have wracked my brain trying to come up with examples of this on my cruises and I cannot think of any! I'm sure it happens but, thankfully, I haven't seen it.

[@midwestkatie4]

A very drunk Aussie group shouted and talked all through a program my kids practiced for all week with the kids club on Carnival. My husband asked them to be quiet but one of them grabbed him by the tie and tried to pull him out of his seat. Security came flying in but it ruined Carnival for us.

[@JJCruise]

So sorry that happened to you! It’s unfortunate when incidents like this occur, but as long as security handles it swiftly and seriously - we understand that is where some cruise lines can go wrong with their response.

[@DeBarbadaes]

so sorry to hear this, they are lucky this girl and her hubby were not there, we would have let them have it. My son and our son-in-law are our favorite people in the world and we have no tolerance for hate.

[@DCLayclerk]

Let them have it? You do realize you would’ve been arrested for assault, too, right?

[@DeBarbadaes]

@@DCLayclerk where did I say assault them? "let them have it" means to speak out. Who asked for your opinion anyway? UGH!

[@loriminard6460]

You guys are great keep up all the stories !

[@billyknock5011]

I am glad Celebrity handled it so well. That bar location should be moved. My neighbors only use Celebrity when they cruise. You two are a real hoot. Thanks for sharing. Do you ever host a travel cruise?

[@amyhadley6021]

Ugh! This story makes me sad. There is so much hate, but I am glad it was handled quickly.

[@deborahhunt253]

This makes me so sad. You say “people like us” but you’re just two human beings trying to live a kind peaceful life and there shouldn’t be any differentiation. I’m very glad Celebrity stepped up and did the right thing. I love your channel and I hope that your generation can make our world a better place for everyone.

[@erinjnp09]

Glad the cruise line was quick to intervene ! Violence is not acceptable, and nobody deserves to be disrespected like that . Love and kindness is the answer.. Even when people have different opinions, there’s absolutely no reason for being unkind or mean !!!

[@kerryfirkin7574]

I am so lucky never had any hate like that Celebrity cruises ships made me and my Sister feel so special we just got back from a Pacific cruise o the Celebrity Eclipse what a beauitiful ship the shows were out of this world It is sad to think there iiis still a lot of hate like this

[@frankm4277]

Thank you for reporting incidents on the Celebrity you are on, We will be on a Celebrity this July. Thank you J & J.

[@JJCruise]

Celebrity Cruises is our favorite for LGBTQ+ Inclusion - have a wonderful cruise in July!

[@Ameslan1]

For clarification, was it the homophobe who was blocking the gay couple watching the show or was it the gay couple blocking the homophobe's view of the show? I do not care if a person is straight or gay but if the person is blocking view of the show and the person refuses to move out of the way when asked to move, then that is my problem with the situation. Like you said.. just wait until the show is over to get a drink or be mindful of a line of people or people watching the show if they are watching it. There is no excuse for hate speech and homophobic slurs! I am glad Celebrity Cruise Security was quick to handle this.

[@lej1105]

There is no excuse for bad behavior like this. The man could have done a million other things instead of being such a hate filled person. I hope the rest of the cruise is smooth for you and the people attacked.

[@JJCruise]

Thanks! We completely agree there is never an excuse for hate. 👏🏽

[@yakarobed]

This just makes me sad. No matter what the couple did, responding with hate is so wrong. I'm glad the crew handled it the way they did. Thirty-five days until my first Celebrity cruise to Alaska.

[@muyskacat3840]

That’s an extraordinary experience to go through. In all my years of cruising, I’ve never heard of anything like that happening to a same-sex couple or single LGBTQ individual. Rarely have I ever heard of any derogatory comments or actions towards individuals on land or sea. With that said, One has to be aware of their surroundings, and be considerate of other individuals as well. Perhaps the aggressive passenger had way too much to drink. I have seen people who have been over served then act out in ways they normally would not.

[@Thecruisingrancher]

Definitely not condoning the behavior, but sounds like bar could have been better planned for viewers. What are your thoughts?

[@jancatperson8329]

Very glad I have never witnessed or experienced anything like this. The cruise line did the right thing confining the attacker to his stateroom. I hope that at the very least he is booted off the ship at your next port.

[@Steven-er2bt]

Colleen and I are grateful that Celebrity acted quickly and correctly based on your account of the situation! On a separate note, we have a question: If someone does a Celebrity Move-up or an onboard upgrade, does either earn Captain's Club points at the new, higher cabin / suite level? We have received conflicting information and suspect policies have changed.

[@bethsimpson1916]

Hi guys from Canada 🇨🇦. We're loyal Celebrity cruisers and as such I was so pleased that security was right there to remove this disgusting passenger. However I can never get over the behaviour some people feel justified in displaying. People are there to enjoy themselves and not be on the receiving end of this nor have to witness this. I hope your trip continues without having this happen again. The Apex is a beautiful ship and we'll be back on her in September for a 12 day British isles trip. Don't eat all the goodies at Cafe il Baccio! 😂

[@JJCruise]

Thanks Beth! We believe the passengers have been taken off in Ireland. We should be good from here ☺️

[@dhis888]

it's really ashame, had the two gentlemen used a little common courtesy the ugly mess could have been avoided.

[@kayc421]

I went on a cruise with some friends (carnival) and one of my friends just happens to be trans. She was harassed, stared at, and haggled her entire cruise. She said she will never cruise again. I'm hoping she'll reconsider and join us on the ICON next year because the Carnival crowd can be a bit ghetto, but the RCL crowd tends to have more class, especially on their more expensive ships.

[@dunder2006]

Great Report. First, so glad to hear Celebrity and their security were there so fast and that they made the guy stay in his cabin. Otherwise everyone on the ship would have been on edge. Also great reporting...you are very clear you didn't hear or see everything and needed more info. Even if the gay guys were wrong for getting in front of folks (happens a lot on ships) there was no reason to have such a confrontation or spew the hate. Let's keep Celebrity gay friendly and also, the gays friendly on Celebrity cruises!! :)

[@AlexHernandez-yb9rx]

I’m sorry that anyone had to deal with that. To me, I feel-it doesn’t matter your race, religion, beliefs, etc-everyone just needs to respect each other. I don’t see any reason for people to HATE, treat each other with hate, and if everyone would just show love as God loves us all. There’s absolutely no reason for the hate.

[@OnaCruisewithWilandStephen]

As a gay cursing couple, thank you for sharing this positive outcome and the actions taken by Celebrity. We sail with Celebrity this coming summer!

[@dtocks123]

Imagine being so narrow minded that if someone does something to upset you, the first thing you have to do is lash out with violence and hate. It just seems that is something that person was just waiting to do, and that couple just happened to be there when his ignorance was finally released.

[@2chuck]

Sorry you guys had to witness that. I haven't been on a Cruise for about 12yrs, but I did take 14 cruises before that and I've never seen any altercation, hatred or even words taken in vain on any cruise I was on, but of course that's before our Country has been somewhat divided by Politics. I've never seen anyone even inebriated on a Cruise back then and I've taken at least 6 Carnival Cruises, all either midweek or full week. I've even thought how happy everyone was to be there on my cruises. I'm guess now it still resembles our Society in General which has changed since I Cruised. It seems that no one is taught the Golden Rule anymore.

[@PJL7095]

Well… my answer to anyone who physically assaults another passenger while on a cruise ship would be to toss the person overboard with a life preserver. Unbelievable!

[@stefaniestoler5068]

This makes me very sad. We should all spread love not hate. While I may not personally agree with someone’s sexual orientation I will and always do show respect and love as that is what we are all called to do. I pray for everyone involved and for the person who instigated this level of hate that his heart would be changed. Unfortunately it is not likely. In any case I applaud Celebrity and their swift action. We all need to feel safe and loved no matter what.

[@Supermoni22]

I’m also a disabled veteran and I’m glad that Celebrity is all inclusive to all.

[@marshacallahan3348]

I'm glad to hear that Celebrity treats its guests better now. Many years ago I had totally negative experiences on my Celebrity cruise which is why I never cruised with them again. A single African American woman who was often ignored, passed over for service, etc.

[@erinjnp09]

😢

[@lindavaldez3047]

Comments that were made, uncalled for. But I think they need to fix the configuration of the bar so no one is getting mad about someone being in their view line.

[@cyndid7555]

It's so sad that people can't let people be themselves. Operative word?? PEOPLE!! We're all people!! My dad taught me that my job as a human on this planet is to look for the good in everyone I meet. None of us asked to be born. How boring would it be if we were all the same? No one likes everyone, but, if you must, just leave others alone, for goodness sake!! Live & let live, let it be...whatever phrase you like, but just leave people alone if you don't care to take the time to know them. There is no place for being nasty to others, especially those you don't know. Brings to light another lesson...if you can't say something nice, don't say anything. People fear what they don't understand. Take time to get to know people from all walks of life...your life will be so much richer!! J & J, we love you out here, & feel really bad for those that don't enrich their lives by learning & meeting people different than themselves, cuz they would find, we really aren't so different after all. I often say, straight parents make gay children...you'd be surprised how many don't know that! You 2 are a great example for the LGBTQIA+ nation...you show how life should be for all...joyful, happy & fun!!!! Thanks for sharing & allowing yourselves to be a platform for equality for everyone. Let's cruise!!

[@csh43166]

Was the couple's behavior rude? Probably. Did it justify hate and assault? Absolutely not... Kudos to Celebrity security and cruise line!!

[@KnowoneHFRC]

Of course I don't know the story but right away I think back to a story from my youth... I am personally not gay but some kids used to think that I was and one of them who used to tease me relentlessly actually wound up coming out soon after high school and when I saw him in New York City one evening, he actually apologized to me ! It was a very surreal experience! Anyhow it bothers me to think that such things are still happening especially when my son's generation seems to get it. My son was actually surprised when I told him a bunch of years back that kids used to get made fun of for being gay back in the 80s. His response was, "why? That's ridiculous!"

[@JJCruise]

We also agree that the new generations are teaching all of us some valuable lessons when it comes to acceptance and inclusion. ❤️

[@GG-dq6fj]

My hubs and I sailed transatlantic on Apex in November last year. We had an amazing time but as the trip was terminating in Ft Lauderdale there were a LOT of Floridians onboard. On several occasions we were blanked or ignored at dinner etc. No biggie but I would avoid any cruise now heading to Florida because of this. The drinks service in Eden was abysmal - we often sat at the bar to watch shows knowing people would be coming to the bar for drinks. It's a bar !! We have booked again with Celebrity heading from Lisbon to South America - can't wait and as you say the LGBTQ+ community is well looked after. Well done Celebrity.

[@marianstew54]

why was the bar open during a show where customers would be blocking the view?

[@JJCruise]

This is considered a “lounge” show so it’s typical for these style of shows to have the bar open. That said, we think it may be a good idea to challenge that norm and close the bar during these shows in the future. 😅

[@horaciocervantez8213]

Hate should never be allowed. Comments by hateful people should never be allowed. Physical contact from hate or anger should never be allowed. I'm glad this was noticed and taken care of. Though, the blame lies with Celebrity. They should have never placed a bar in a position that would have blocked other peoples views if guest choose to get a drink at that bar. Saying that they could have, or should have gone to another bar t get their drink is ridiculous. If there were guests whom were watching the show and decided to get their drinks at the same bar, would the opinion be the same. I am sure the guests whom had those seats that could have potentially been blocked by bar guests, knew that was a possibility and they took that risk when they sat down. They could have gone earlier and gotten better seats that would have not been obstructed. BTW, I am part of the LGBTQ+ community so this is not against you two in ANY way. I'm just expressing the reality.

[@karendee3206]

Oh My God Guys. We are a group of 60 (Woodstock Generation) People from Jensen Beach , Florida. Im the groujp leader and am shocked at the attitude of peope who cannot accept other life styles. We sail as a group from our condo community every 2 years and always look forward to the blessing that we have of health to enjoy cruising and our lifestgyle. It is beyond me that others so ANTI ENVERYTRHING. Leave it at the docks folks..we are here to enjoy life! Our nexct adventure..Apec March 2, 2024!

[@Malember]

I have always disliked how much abuse, hate and intolerance is expressed - especially when on a vacation. Almost as if some switch is flipped when travelling. A person's military service, gender, religion, politics, or sexual orientation is their choice. (I was screamed at not to long ago when I wore my old field jacket out on an errand, so yes it still happens.) Do no harm, live and let live, should be all that is needed. Sadly, such is not the case.

[@deemariedubois4916]

From the 70s I really thought homophobia and racism was on the way out. I never thought in 2023 we would still be dealing with this. Being accepting brings good into the world, using hate brings hate into the world. Why so many are choosing to spread hate baffles me, I truly don’t understand it. One of my grandsons who just turned 18, was called a f***** while just walking down the street. Yes he’s gay and was wearing a Pride shirt but what was the purpose for yelling at him calling him a slur? Did it make the man who yelled it feel good? How can being hateful make anyone feel good? I’m glad the cruise ship handled this so quickly and professionally.

[@ruthkringle1353]

I’m a larger lady. I stepped onto an elevator and the lady behind me said “don’t squish me”. Seriously why would I do that? I wasn’t touching her.

[@SuperGoatTV]

I was born in Brazil and when I was about 13 I was visiting my sister and she signed me up for a teen center type of Day Camp where they would have arcade games and basketball court and other activities including some excursions to local Springs and things of that nature, basically you get to spend the day with other teens your age. Some of the kids who had formed a clique were kind of picking on me for having a bit of an accent and then not understanding much about Brazil and saying things like I thought everyone in your country lived in the jungle because they might have heard something about the Amazon jungle in school at some point. Their bullying was getting out of hand until I basically addressed it in front of everyone and asked why they were treating me this way, was it because I'm different because they don't understand my history or my past or where I came from? Maybe because I have an accent and I don't sound the same as they did. Why should any of that matter? Why not just ask me instead of making assumptions or treating me badly instead of trying to get to know me. And I literally asked what I had done to any of them to justify them treating me that way? I asked them all have I said anything to you or about you that you found disrespectful, hurtful, or offensive? Have I done anything other than extend my hand in friendship and make an effort to try to get to know each one of you. If me trying to make friends is offensive to you, what is my alternative? Two counselors were standing by watching this interaction to make sure it didn't escalate, and at least I can say that the kids stopped, looked at each other, and they actually said, "You know what? That's fair you didn't do or say anything against us and we should have at least given you the chance and try to get to know you before judging you just because we don't know anything about you" The backstory is quite a few of the kids were repeat attendees meaning they knew each other from previous years and I was kind of the odd new kid on the block as this was the first time I was attending this day camp. But they actually approached me and shook my hand and they apologized and we started a game of Nerf Hockey is the best way I can describe it with a sof ball and soft tip hockey sticks. After that we all sat down to have an afternoon snack and got to talk and they asked some questions about me and where I was from and from that point on they didn't mistreat me or try to bully me anymore I guess you could say we became friends at least for the duration of the camp. So that's my story...

[@99999myk]

I'm gay and never had any anti-gay insults. I did get attitude at Starbucks so this cruise, I"m taking Starbuck instant dark roast. Hope I'm allowed to bring it.

[@KateD]

Great to know that Celebrity handled the situation so swiftly and seriously. There is no room for that sort of behaviour. Ever. As an aside and in the spirit of education, "differently abled" is considered an ablest term. I understand you had the best of intentions toward inclusivity although the term used promotes the opposite. The correct word is disabled. I thought you'd like to know for future videos. ❤

[@dees3179]

Opinion is split on that one, very much depends where you live, I’ve been told both by different groups from different places.

[@KateD]

It's definitely incorrect in North America though - which is where this channel is.

[@MrJaysVentVideos]

In recent years I must say that neither my husband or I have had anything like that happen- but I still do worry because we are going to the Med and visiting different countries. We are smart travelers, we can pass for straight and keep our sexuality within our circle. So I hope he will be barred from cruising on any and all cruise ships- This type of behavior has no place on vacations-

[@loishealey8866]

I missed this. Sorry to hear this happened. But I agree Celebrity does the right thing. We had an excursion problem this cruise…Celebrity did the right thing. We are forever loyal cruisers! We love Celebrity!❤

[@angelaspaul]

I actually had a homosexual man tell me that i had to leave a bar because I was not homosexual and it was LGBTQ meetup hour. The bartender ended up asking him to leave but I felt like it was pretty rude.