Mandisa & Kuhle Dandala Define Love |

We invited ‪@The_Dandalas‬ to define their love and share lessons they learnt from one another over last 9 years! Disclaimer: You're going to need tissues for this one!
Let us know your thoughts on this episode in the comments! #DEFININGLOVE #RoadTo250K​
PLAYLIST: / mk
INTRO SONG
‪@Zamalama308‬ cover of Uthando Lwangempela by Azana produced by @LanceHebron
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CREDITS:
Producer: Dennis Ngango & Dagmar Plaatjie
Videographer: Bongani Baloyi
Editor: Dennis Ngango
Translations: Kamva Ntutuka
Location: Perch Offices
THEIR HANDLES:
@MandisaDandala
@KuhleDandala
CONNECT WITH US:
➪ Email: [e-mail]
➪ Twitter: / definingmediaza​
➪ Instagram: / definingmedia

[@DEFINING]

Thank you so much for watching this episode❤️! Let's get this special episode to 10K Likes🔥🔥 Their handles, intro song + playlist is in the description box.

[@laurreinmaritz9142]

Wow love is so real and beautiful 💛💛😭😭😭

[@mzazazimasa]

Done 5k💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

[@lethabontsoane5431]

😍

[@olwethukhowa5713]

Sicela uZola no Babalwa to come here as well

[@DEFINING]

@@olwethukhowa5713 we're not based in the same city🥺. When we are in the same space, we'll try

[@phamasaute7488]

"She is so silent, but her love is so loud" 😭♥️

[@thubelihle8522]

That was a line right there 😭😭😭

[@wisanibaloyi6049]

I felt that 😭😭

[@zenkosixaba5165]

Aibo.... That line 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@tlangieym963]

Mandisa's hair ♥️😍😍😍

[@dashatr757]

Kumnandi gang let's mark the register 😭💕📌

[@afikilemlenzana7324]

Si la 📍

[@pksimom2429]

Present!!!!

[@beautykoboekae9862]

❤❤

[@lesegoyv]

Within

[@resegofetsemalefo8827]

Sila 📍

[@RayOfLetsatsi]

People are really out here meeting the love of their lives at 14😩 Love to see it

[@PreciousDimpho]

Like.... God are you seeing this?

[@charmainet8699]

Like😭😭😭😭

[@siphokaziluzipho4197]

Hahahaha, kanti abantu banjani. What a beautiful couple.

[@lebohangsibiya1056]

"At times when I feel like God has forsaken me, I look at you and i can feel God saying "how dare you?"" Arrg man that was iconic😭😭❤

[@pksimom2429]

That line😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️

[@dennisngango3527]

This was such a special episode to film & edit. I'm so grateful that Mandisa & Kuhle trusted us to tell their story🥺🙏🏿

[@nandemngqete299]

This is so beautiful to watch ❤️🥺. Can we have Babalwa and Zola Mcaciso next 🕯💯

[@siwemz5102]

The editing is fire Dennis🔥🔥

[@funtasiakhuhlane8717]

Thank YOU 🙏

[@dennisngango3527]

@@siwemz5102 Thank you🥺🥺

[@dennisngango3527]

@@funtasiakhuhlane8717 You're welcome 🥺

[@andilemvelase7450]

Dear God, please give me someone that will instantly remind me that you have not forsaken me😭❤️ This prayer was inspired by Kuhle Amen.

[@SiyaGrowthWisdom]

Very warm episode😍❤ Moral of the story 1. Friendship is key 2. Communicate transparently 3. Put God above all

[@natashakayyyy]

i need to start going for these youth group things at church.😭

[@princess7873]

That “I still got it Kuhle angithi?” Was so adorable😭 They’re so cute!

[@VuyieNNcube]

Then he went “bruh,” I thought I was the only one who melted 🥺🥺🥺

[@Toks361]

I'm taken aback by her beauty. Wow.

[@afua9907]

She’s so beautiful 😍

[@bongibalfour1553]

I was looking for this comment. She really is.

[@HelangMedia]

Mandisa’s hair 😍😍😍. Also wow she’s such a beaut. And her beauty spots 😍😍. What a beaut. She’s gorgeous and I just needed a moment to say that

[@sabamasaya2064]

At this point, I’ve concluded that friendship TRULY is and should be the foundation of any relationship. It’s been said so many times, by different people, in different languages but it really comes down to genuinely being “bestfriends “.❤️

[@moitshepisparkles]

I totally agree with you 🎊

[@vennesamahundla]

"But are you really friends outside of the relationship?" - Kuhle, 2021.💡

[@Buhle-M]

They look so much alike🥺😍. Beautiful young couple 🥺

[@spesihlemapholoba596]

This is beautiful🥺🥺 Can we have Babalwa Ndlwana and Zola Mcaciso next?

[@boikgantshomohlala2698]

PLEASE!!!!!!

[@slindilemhlongo1030]

Please!

[@BabyGirl-nh1gm]

🕯🕯

[@yandieyayambekile]

Yes please

[@zintlenonjwangu1859]

🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️

[@sthabile_xulu]

Did he just say "I love how quite she is but her love is so loud"🥺🥺♥️I died

[@DEFINING]

🥺❤

[@KhanyisileDlamini23]

"She's so silent but her love is so loud"😭😭that was so profound.❤the fact that they started dating so young and ended up getting married is beautiful❤

[@tlangieym963]

Mandisa is straight up beautiful ♥️😍 she's my crush, then my boyfriend adopted the crush 😂😂 Girl!💯💯

[@rosemsomi3771]

"He loves to make me feel loved" Damn. 😭😭❤

[@lululekalakala6512]

This channel deserves to be on our TV screens. We can't keep watching this for free❤️ Thank you so much DEFINING for ALWAYS SHOWING us that love is real and by far the greatest gift given to us❤️❤️❤️ such a beautiful love story❤️

[@DEFINING]

Thank you 🥺❤❤

[@gertykhensani527]

Mandisa's hair 💖💖

[@sesethuimkhitha8108]

Bruhhhhh😭😍🔥

[@nontobekomncubear3179]

Hhayi Bawo it's clear to me now that I've never been in a relationship!😭😭😭 Weeee fusegi mfana abafana badlalile ngami ngeke!😩😩😩 Love is soooo beautiful!!! 😍❤️❤️

[@bongiwezaca2721]

Me and you both😭😭

[@hercrown1318]

I can never get over Mandisas beauty 😍😍

[@zanelemadiba178]

Defining is so great for reminding one that true love exists and mjolo is not the pandemic. Get you someone who blows a horn for you, po po po 🔊, I actually cannot believe that someone could actually love you from 14 all the way into adulthood. Destiny is truly a thing. 🙌🏿

[@anathimbosana6127]

Can we have Zola and Babalwa Mcaciso next? 😭😍

[@highandmightyqueen79]

yes please

[@amandabeta6257]

Please 🙏🏾🥰

[@DEFINING]

They are in Cape Town😭. When we are there again, we will try

[@sthembilethanjekwayo_za]

And Mandisa crying just had to make me khala nami....😪

[@nandiphamengu6120]

Oh but Mandisa is so gorgeous😍 This episode was everything. My fav people❤

[@mondeherstory8849]

Ey Defining 🥺. Where do I start, let me try the beninging 🥲. Mandisa and Kuhle’s story is one I’ve followed from jump! Broke my heart when they lost OmOm 💔😔 but God said he still and know that I am God. His will is painful sometimes but seeing how it’s brought them even closer to each other shows that even in the darkest of times, we can find the silver lining. May God continue to bless their union, bless them with all the wish to accomplish together and as individuals, I love them ♥️. As for the defining team 🥺, I can’t even say do the most anymore because what is it? Is it not the most? The perfect editing? The perfect display of certain narrated moments? Arg cumon somebody 👏🏽. Siyabonga 🙏🏽🙏🏽♥️♥️.

[@DEFINING]

Thank you so much🥺❤🤞🏿

[@zeruiahbensingh1247]

Losing a baby is not easy. Your strength is inspiring. ❤️

[@naturalmom1375]

I sometimes look at these 2 and I'm like " true love still exists"

[@Sino_Williams]

I love what Kuhle said about being able to set apart the romantic relationship and effectively communicating as best friends before anything 😊

[@zimmiejotile6679]

Why do some people find love and others dont? (cries in sorrow)😪😭

[@oyisilenjisane5437]

Ey Zimmie don't be sayithetha ntombi... I'm literally asking myself the same question

[@sandra_dyosini5714]

Also, Mandisa's hair? 😭😭😭😍😍😍😍😍❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@NeoMomela]

This made me cry OMG😭♥️ "my first Love, my first kiss , my first heartbreak."😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@babeszitshu]

"I love how she is silent but her love is soooo loud"😍😍. Yaaaaay bethuna😭😭

[@Bakang]

Omile’s parents 🥺🥺🥺🥺❤️

[@yandab358]

True love is so Rare. Blessed are those that found it, its so beautiful to watch people gently naturing it ❤️😭

[@DEFINING]

🥺❤

[@oratilemmusi4284]

I usually watch Episodes of couple I knownor familiar with, I wasnt sure of watching this because I didn't know this couple. But, DEFINING team, I swear this has to be THE MOST BEAUTIFUL episode I've ever watched 🥺🥺🥺❤❤❤

[@LauraBonginkosi]

Back here after another failed talking stage just to remind myself that this kind of love is possible, even for me.

[@vincihayden]

😂😂😂😂lol

[@mbalimbuli810]

Mandisa is so beautiful💓. Her beauty is breathe taking. Natural and both with make-up.

[@siyakolisistanaccount5378]

This was a very warm and loving episode. I won't lie watching defining love does make me a little bit sad because I have never experienced that type of soft and romantic love in my life. I've never even dated before. But I am happy for other people who find a soft love like that and it warms my heart to see that healthy relationships still exist.

[@zimasaziwele1493]

In Kuhle's letter talking about God's love, that " how dare you!" 😭😭😭

[@lebom2456]

That part babes 😭... Aii defining needs to start suppling us tissues, cause I can't deal 🥺

[@asandezuma3768]

Mandisa is so beautiful😍🥺🙌.

[@pksimom2429]

Kuhle speaking Xhosa 🔥 🔥

[@DEFINING]

🔥🔥🔥

[@sinovuyohaltesi3672]

Not me shedding a tear at Mandisa's letter 😢. Your love is so beautiful and pure guys ❤️

[@DEFINING]

Make sure to read the disclaimer in the description box ❤️

[@siwemz5102]

Only read it after. I sure shed a tear or two or maybe more 🥺

[@motlatjomongalo1403]

Too late😭😭😭

[@queenm2723]

I should have listened...

[@maskedgirl1992]

I didn't, now I'm like 😭

[@sabamasaya2064]

“Little did they know,I was the church-hallelujah”😂 bathong Kuhle

[@katlomolefe7946]

Its videos like these that remind me that authentic real love is out there and exists

[@khanyantshinga4052]

Hayi mahn😭😭😭. Love is so beautiful. The most beautiful part of love is that it holds space for one to be. Love holds space for our traumas past and present and the dimensions in which it holds it either pulls us together or apart. Their love story is beautiful 🥺🥺🥺. 🕯️🕯️🕯️Manifesting a love that is soft and equally as love. A love that is gentle and patient. A love that liberates me.

[@khanyantshinga4052]

...equally as loud*

[@johannafrieda7229]

I don't think I will ever get over their loss.....they truly are magical.

[@akhileayanda]

Same here. I literally cried as if I was the one going through it.

[@johannafrieda7229]

@@akhileayanda it's hard man.

[@funtasiakhuhlane8717]

Me too

[@ThatGirlTumi]

So beautiful coming back to this after they've just been blessed with their baby girl 🥺♥️

[@johannafrieda7229]

@@ThatGirlTumi God really does restore 😊

[@tondiramadwa2189]

Your love story is making me to believe that true love exists

[@DEFINING]

🥺🤞🏿

[@sesethuhotele695]

They are not perfect and because of that they are perfect. I can't even explain this.

[@anelesibanda5807]

If ever I need reminding that God has a great, beautiful, warm, soft, sure, true love for me and one day I'll have it, I'll just come here while I wait. Thank you Denis, Noma and Bongani. ❤

[@DEFINING]

You're welcome🥺❤

[@b.m709]

I’m so tired of crying guys, yho😭 everytime!!!

[@DEFINING]

Sorry😭😭

[@SuperNomathamsanqa]

What I appreciate Kuhle is stepping up to grieve with Mandy when Ommie was called to heaven. I wasn’t so lucky when my Kego left me. I am praying 🙏🏾 and wishing tons of blessings to the both of you with a dash of baby pixie 🧚‍♀️ dust. 🤍

[@kgabomolele3346]

Eish the baby thing I cried Yoh.

[@DEFINING]

❤❤

[@Kanyadee25]

I think y’all should announce 2 days before. The wait was too long. 😭😭😭😭😭

[@nondumiso8397]

Yoh..... i was ready to unsubscribe! It’s very unnecessary damn....it’s torture

[@DEFINING]

@@nondumiso8397 Sorry ❤️❤️

[@tlangieym963]

The wait also made up gather here pretty fast 🤣🤣 it was torture

[@boikgantshomohlala2698]

Toooo long😭😭😭😍 I kept on checking notifications 🤣

[@hazelbrowns1902]

Brooo

[@hilkkanakawa6196]

"I love how she's so silent but her love is so loud" bathong!!!😭

[@jennifermpanza3430]

Every time I watch one of these someone decides to chop onions ugh 😭😪

[@Lanterns09]

"Thank you for the cuddles.' 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭❤

[@simplyjaja3087]

May this serie live for long so that some of us can also feature our love STORY.🤧💖. From us To God's ears!✨🤲🏽🌎

[@sphamandlahlatshwayo396]

This series just makes me want umjolo jesu😭😭😭

[@Bohlaleinabowl]

“Halleluah” 😂❤️

[@tlangieym963]

This is my highly requested served on a silver platter 😭😭😭😭😭 Defining what are you doing to me

[@oyintandadlelana7365]

"Thank you for loving God with me" 😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@DEFINING]

❤❤❤

[@peacemathebula3597]

it's not simple this days to find someone who will give you love

[@ladye1253]

“Little did they know that I was youth”🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍😍😘😘😘

[@PreciousDimpho]

I was the church. Halleluya 😂😂

[@dineon6192]

Can you please interview Rele and Shaun🥺

[@hopemasilela5703]

Please please please 🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯

[@atp3432]

"I was church" 😭😭😭

[@TemosoChiloane]

I’m always here to remind myself how single I am. Then go on and chop onions 😭❤️ Love is very loud 🙌🏾

[@kweenlue1709]

Love is real guys🥺❤️

[@mrs_tmi4876]

I can relate to this kinda love 😄😄my hubby and I are also the bestest of friends 😘😘😘and yeah we also lost our first born😭

[@addie_kusemwa]

I hardly comment on YT videos in general but this is beautiful man. I appreciate what Defining is doing cause a lot of people need to know that love still exists and we all deserve it. Keep it up guys and imma subscribe

[@DEFINING]

Thank you🥺❤

[@pksimom2429]

Urgh! I believe in them! This LOVE IS REAL!!!!!!!! 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️

[@godsprincess1908]

Mandisa is beautiful guys😭❤

[@DEFINING]

Very 🥺❤

[@TsitsiDanai]

Hayiii people love like this ...I want this love too 😩❤

[@nombusomsomi6950]

M not crying. You are😭😭😭😭😭😭😭I loved this so much 🥺

[@OrianeVansy]

I’ve been waiting for this episode since forever 🥲❤️

[@tshinakisekhwama4584]

Im so happy 🥺💃💃. Now i can cry 🥺🥺. Watching defining makes me believe that I will also find love one day . Thank you so for making me believe in love again ♥️

[@DEFINING]

🤗❤

[@mendymakhasi8118]

My babies 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭I love youuuuu and very very PROUD OF YOU

[@thobie001]

Her letter to him😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️

[@NeneShabangu]

Ahhhh man💔, they lost their baby😭. They’re my new fav couple. I wish them well💕

[@DEFINING]

🥺🥺🥺❤

[@selinathabede5103]

yhuuu the letters! Mandisa, you make me love my husband better nyan nyan!!!

[@nokubongamangethe8179]

I'll keep telling until you guys listen to me this needs to go on tv

[@phumemthethwa9570]

When Mandisa started crying🥺🥺😭❤

[@basetsanamatsepa2315]

I chopped onions😭😭😭😭

[@Between2_worlds]

"Little did they know that I was church". Sho Kuhle😂😂 Hallelujah!

[@DEFINING]

💀😂

[@Life_of_Natasha2]

Am out here learning about love ❤😩

[@naledimbili1416]

Every time. Every time. 😭😭

[@avymags]

my loverrrsss😩🥺🥺🥺

[@DEFINING]

🥺❤

[@thabijiyane2374]

Kumandi gang gang!!!! This is absolutely beautiful, really enjoyed...Can we have Zola and Babalwa please.

[@DEFINING]

🥺❤️

[@nokhanyatsukudu9031]

Cried throughout the video. I see uthanda luka Jehovah in your relationship/marriage. God bless you guys

[@DEFINING]

❤❤❤

[@skholiwezondi986]

I love how imperfectly perfect they are for each other❤️

[@thandolwethuvilakazi6215]

The intro song and video even 😩😍

[@kefuoemaseli2502]

Re khapile... Re ba khapi serious🤞🏽

[@angelinemaredza7079]

Yhoo love from Zim...used to watch your KZbin channel guys during covid-19 pandemic in 2020 and when I saw you was struggling to remember where I had seen you from ... so much happy to have remembered...much love 😘

[@sphesihlethando289]

A love that inspires❤❤❤❤ a love that reminds that a honest love does exist 💙💜💙💜💙

[@phumemthethwa9570]

Ready to cry. KuMandi Gaaanng 🥺🥺🥺😻

[@idawakudumo]

... They are so cute , so adorable. THEY LOVE IS SO TRUE ,SO KIND AND SO CALM. BLESS EM.

[@DEFINING]

❤❤❤