Manifesting & Executing YOUR SELFISH ERA .. (get everything you want and desire)

[@eliciagoguen]

It's the timing for me..... I'm so glad we're all on this energy right now as we grow into our highest selves as woman (or men) 💗🦋

[@QueenV90z]

Yasssssss

[@aaliyahh9036]

exactly

[@MC-pn5ed]

Roar lol

[@ibstayfly]

Exactly Facts

[@Msqueen_d]

Same here she gets my mind together ❤

[@Lorriluxxe]

My vibe right now is living a soft life! People pleasing is so detrimental to us on a higher level, and saying NO has free’d me from overextending myself and allowed me to actually maintain boundaries. Especially as a new mama, a soft life is non negotiable 🙌🏽

[@TheSecretLifeofKam]

To the girls in relationships, your world shouldn’t revolve around your partner. Your partner should be an accessory, always put yourself first!!!

[@justinethomas5020]

My thoughts exactly

[@quaronmeakens4269]

😅😂😂😂😂dont let these women ruin your relationship..

[@djlivvy46]

​@@quaronmeakens4269- so you don't think women in relationships should value themselves?

[@AbiMontero-rr6wb]

My loves I couldn't agree more she blessing us by not going through heartbreaks even situations hip which lead to failure nowadays celebrities are divorcing and getting exposed being invested to your partner Is like blind spot to call clergy and annoying I saw ones of greatest Hollywood gold era Tubi films called Possed 1970a women goes madly in love with her man gers celgywith he doesn't like and dumps her then she looses her mind

[@SimplyBeautiful516]

I know at 58 years old I’m not part of your main demographic, but I find myself coming back to listen to you because there’s wisdom here that still applies to me even at my age and in a 38 year marriage.

[@misspotential]

I always say to myself when I get overwhelmed “Save some you, for yourself”

[@lovablemya]

I love that 😍

[@sophieclark9940]

i just deleted all my social media recognizing how much i spend consumed in other peoples lives and opinions and, for the first time i wanna see how amazing i could feel to be able to fully focus on me and my life and what incredible changes will happen. this video suprisingly is all so relevant to what i needed to hear in my situation thankyou my love!

[@adelinebultot7595]

Omg this!! I deleted in March for the same reasons and more! Appreciating life more bit by bit. I barely wonder what people are up to. Rooting for us✨

[@Msqueen_d]

Sis I am thinking about it

[@jasminesturn]

I did this too!!! Best decision of my life. SELFISH ERA LETS GO

[@alleana642]

Recently left a situation that was no longer serving me. Focusing all my energy on me! Thanks for this video 💕

[@hanavaughan6956]

Also to note, I’ve been drinking insane smoothies everyday jam packed with nutrition and because of that, all my skin inflammation and complexion has completely had a breakthrough. I’ve been experimenting with drinking a bag of spinach everyday along with my normal routine of working out… and I SWEAR, my skin has NEVER looked better. I tend to even break out a couple weeks before my period due to the hormones, but now… it’s completely non existent. All to my point, taking care of yourself really pays off and boosts your confidence in yourself and your abilities to really take CARE of your self ♥️ Just like Hailey said, seeing how your body works in different ways like never before… it’s truly empowering. Wholesome living is it 👏🏼

[@anxiousbaddie444]

omg what!! I struggle with hormonal breakouts too before and during my period, care to share a general overview of the ingredients you use

[@juhlizza]

I would love to know your recipe too! Please share w/ the class 😭🤣

[@michoum115]

Please do share and congratulations 🍾!

[@FullyLovingYourself]

Even being in a relationship, I’m selfish with me at times. I was this way before we met and in order to keep my sanity I have to stay that way.

[@sagebryant7603]

My mom doesn't understand this simple concept, and I'm the first of my three sisters who has come to the realization that I am the only one responsible for taking care of myself which means I have to make myself and my son my focus. My mom think that's insane and constantly shames me for not making her my focus. Meaning making her my focus with my money, my time, my energy......and I have just realized that is not at all how I should live my life. She needs to be her protority and I have to be mine. Not meaning that I can't ever give, but I have to first get myself to a place where I have overflow to give from.

[@cindylee1194]

It really is so funnyyyy when “friends” start changing their tune by you setting boundaries 😌🤭✨

[@cauha12]

The only people that get upset by you having boundaries are the ones that benefited of you having none!

[@natashakarim2130]

my relationship of 2 years just ended today, about 2 hours after you uploaded this video. I don't know what the future holds, but watching this has, for the first time, made me feel excited to encounter my future on my own terms. thank you Hailey

[@Halliebery]

I resonate with you🙏🏼❤️

[@AmberBrooklyn24]

Good luck on your new journey 💕

[@mellowrose427]

This is my absolute cycle right now and I’m here for it

[@africanjawn0139]

This is the video that I fucking needed. I’m literally writing notes down as you speak. I’ve put people ahead of myself for too long and that’s why I’m in a bad space right now. I’m breaking out of that space TODAY.

[@aurelie1167]

Proud of uuu, u can do it!!❤️

[@theartvibesspecialist2091]

I'm married and I agree that you have to prioritize your fitness and it does feel very foreign at first leaving everyone home to handle my business but it was a must. I started with walking to now going to the gym and meeting my trainer everyday. I feel much more balanced now!

[@pokie6150]

You don't have any clue but this is the video I need to watch rn. I'm going through a lot and you popped up like a fairy Godmother giving me the light to cross my path.

[@Halliebery]

Literally

[@joseegaudet6109]

Just got followed by a mentally unstable person while my partner was driving 911 called and all.. love not being able to go home after a walk trying to better myself 🥲 watching this is definitely going to help me destress I know it. Thank you for the distraction🥰

[@carafrey3534]

I just got a new gym membership today and got up early to workout with my coworkers! Also taking green powder, multi vitamins and juice. I need to get better about eating out though 😬 one step at a time

[@itsjenscott6320]

This is the 2022 energy ✨

[@aliciaaltom6652]

Been here sis! Yesssss!!!!! New house, new car, new dog, new job, working on a new body. Got off fb. Hustling. Manifesting. Going in. Getting bougie.. the eclipse, blood/super moon, retrograde is like Bing bang boom! 💥💫 let's get it! Fairly new subscriber but obsessed with your videos. So sweet and honest. Keep it up babe!

[@kristinaalexa21]

this literally COULD NOT HAVE COME at a better time

[@raqueltheoneandonly3084]

I've been living a selfish journey for over 40 years. In my 20s I realized that no one really cared if I was happy or sad. Yes, I've nurtured people and been selfless in my teenage years. But the journey took a sharp right. The selfish life is not easy. Emotionally your mind and heart goes through life's roller-coaster alone. It's a version of lonely that you've chosen. So it cripples your ability to cope with change. Be careful that selfishness doesn't stop you from being able let go and grow. Changing is what is the root of life!

[@carmencatalina9086]

I need to take care of me more so I can take care of the ones I love more and be more cautious of signs and situations that make me feel like shit. And thank for this video and take care of my health and eat more healthy and drink more healthier stuff and just take it day at a time. Thanks for this content. Very inspiring you come long way.

[@judymarfo]

Self focused all year

[@LS-wk6yp]

Turned 21 today and this is a great time to start my “selfish era"💓

[@itsbriiiyahhh]

Omgsh this was definitely the sign I needed! I am ready to focus on me and take care of me and I am finally going after my goals! After being married with kids, I started neglecting myself but this video came just in time. Thanks Hailey for always being encouraging! ❤️

[@jenni230]

This natural look is gorgeous on you!! You look bomb

[@lavenderaluoch7104]

The love I have for this lady ☺️. Thanks for making me love myself more ❤️. Am forever grateful

[@carlabbutler7]

Thank you so much for this video! I'm a single parent in my mid-30s and starting to really embrace my singleness and peace of mind. I appreciate you giving us this reminder that's it perfectly fine to be selfish. All my love ❤️🤍❤️🤍

[@kilo_charlie0226]

Going through a perpetual divorce for the last year. He didn’t want to be involved with the holidays for the sake of our two young boys last year and I sure as heck won’t go out my way anymore than he did last year for us. He doesn’t stop the show and won’t steal our joy! I’ve been living alone for the longest time ever now and it truly took a year for me to accept it and get comfortable with it. Everything is on my time or kids time and that’s it. I’m focusing on making our new apt feel cozy, started getting makeup for the first time in 5-6 years, looking at my nail situation again and came across KISS and imPress nails (I bite them and have had fake nails once in my life and I’m 29!), I’m expanding my wardrobe to fit my style now and not others, and I’m just focusing on me and my boys…period!

[@AbigayleDianne]

I’ve been watching your videos for maybe three or four weeks now at max, and I have found myself binge watching all of your videos I can possibly watch because you have somehow reignited something in me that I thought died a very long time ago. Not to be dramatic, I’m just being honest with you. I don’t know if you’ll ever even see this comment or respond to it or anything, but please keep doing what you’re doing. There are girls in their early 20s everywhere just like me who need to hear every single thing you say in your videos.

[@realsarahmalen]

being self-ful has been the best decison i've made, loved this video x

[@ajs9613]

As a girl in a relationship… I needed that. 😩 I was wondering if you could do a whole video on how to keep yourself when you’re in a relationship? I’ve really let myself go and really forgotten who tf I am. Thank you so much for being the big sis I never had Hailey 🤍

[@katiealicemae2272]

SAAAAMEEEE! I don’t even see myself when I look in the mirror!

[@Skinandbrowsco]

Same me a few months ago. I simply started I am affirmations KZbin has a few for women. I started shaving and keeping up. Also doing my hair and makeup for work and when I go out. I got a really good luxury perfume and it definitely keeps. Another thing is food! Eat healthier and drink more water. If you feel good you look good ❤️ Hope this helps 🦋

[@ajs9613]

@@katiealicemae2272 for real! I don’t even recognise ME anymore! It’s crazy how you can lose yourself in love without even noticing!!!

[@ajs9613]

@@Skinandbrowsco ahhh girl thank you so much for this!!! Started meditating and gone back to the gym, put myself on a fitness plan and I’m trying to find the things I like because I just feel like I don’t even know me anymore!! Crazy! Thank you beautiful 🤍🙏

[@kelsey463]

I was recently in a bad place, going through a breakup- was cheated on & had a close family member pass away in the space of two weeks. I’ve started the gym and I’m going to step into this selfish era with you because of this video!! Please post more about spending time alone please✨ First time I’ve been single in years and it’s starting to feel great because of your advice 🤍

[@CANDYbiaatch]

I would love a video on the “soft” life too ! Always love your videos 💖

[@amie3365]

Thanks once again Hailey! I just ended an eleven year long toxic friendship and I feel so free right now!... During lockdown I realised how they made me feel and how they basically bullied me and was constantly bringing down my energy and how I had to get them out of my life. If you think there's a friendship/relationship in your life that you need to end take this as a sign to just do it! Cut them off, remove them from your socials, its as simple as that. This video reminded me of how good of a decision I made 😊❤

[@beautifulblessing3476]

HELL YES!!! BEING SELFISH IS NOT A BAD THING LADIES🤷🏾‍♀️💋❤️❤️

[@kaila8175]

Girlllll.... I love watching your videos I feel like I'm hearing myself talk to my friends about people who take energy and do not bring anything. So happy to have found your channel, you are a light in this world!

[@luluamazr]

I know everyone doesn’t have the same beliefs but hailey girl the clock hit 2:22 as soon as I saw this notification. Clearly this video was meant for me 😭❤️ love you self care queen

[@heyitssamantha]

Girl 3:33 for me

[@anxiousbaddie444]

its a sign babes ✨🔮💫

[@luluamazr]

@@heyitssamantha love it ❤️

[@luluamazr]

@@anxiousbaddie444 yesss ✨

[@petrificustotalus9307]

She’s the queen of pep talks, I’ll give you that

[@alexandriamallow7250]

This video made me quit my TOXIC job. THANKS GIRL 💕this is my season of being selfish

[@axk589]

I think this is a sign to quit my job too😭

[@alexbolling1451]

Real, raw and relatable. Love you so much Hailey and so thankful you use your platform to be vulnerable and help other women and men! Definitely overdue for me to step foot in my selfish era and leave behind things that don't serve me. Thanks Hailey!

[@BlancheTecson]

ever since i've started to create some boundaries and believing in myself, I feel so much better and confident with myself. Things are slowly starting to come together and it feels great!!

[@sarahd.9023]

You are literally helping me thru one of the hardest times on my life & I thank you !!

[@jazmineavila2364]

I’m not even 5 minutes in and I already know this video was meant to be on my feed today🥹🤍I’ve been trying to end generational trauma and cut out anyone who is truly toxic or harmful to my health. Wether it’s mental, emotional or physical.

[@miamiaaa]

yesss it is our time to be super selfish 💯❤️

[@jiejoudom5521]

Hailey made a lot of sense in this video. I love how you talked about balancing selflessness and sacrifices made for friends or family members

[@amantlemaithamako4770]

I could listen to you talk all day. I spend a lot of time watching your videos and I like to get the "harsh truth" sometimes but you project it so gently. Thank you so much , you are helping a lot of us!! Me me me me me me me me me me

[@SR-mv2mf]

I need to hear this like every time i go off track. This is my realignment message

[@linabluenavy8977]

You speak to me ...I remember when you try to work out and never been consistent...which is me now...thanks so much for this video. You did motivate me so much !!!

[@funnygirlever]

Wow the more I listen to you the more I love you and your work. Your so underrated. Like your vibe and energy is peaceful and fresh of breath air. Like some KZbin, coaches, individuals, may say and give advice but their energy skill feel negative and hate. Your vibe and energy is not that. Thank you I needed to hear this and I will repeat it too. 💛

[@vaidehipandey6863]

The vibes and the healthy era you have in your video just love it gurlllll, I feel so chill, relaxed, happy, and motivated after watching your video's thank you so muchhh for making them I'm really grateful to you🌷💗 Sending loveeeee....

[@krism1077]

I´m in my selfish era right now. Needed this wisdom. BTW, you look great, you radiate confidence and I love that for you. Take care!

[@mrsrobot1829]

I came by your video's a week ago and I am in love with your vibe. You are like the big sister I never had, but really needed. Thank you for this!

[@SuriyaDaphne]

Looking beautiful 😍 being selfish is so important thank you 😍😭🙌🏾

[@AlwaysAshley]

YESSS! Putting in boundaries around toxic people or even boundaries in general was the best thing I ever did in my life. It’s all GROWING and GLOWING from here!! 🤎🤎

[@mpruitt5863]

I swear it’s like your a long distance friend that always gives the best advice. Thank you for being you and for letting us learn with your experiences💕

[@vanessar307]

“I’m not faking it til I make it with my boundaries” lol fr fr girl

[@moniquegatewood6558]

Hailey, this is perfect! Thank you for the reminder to enjoy ourselves 🤎

[@cammmmm2942]

I’m so thankful for you..I’ve been telling myself all these things for the past few months especially the last 2 weeks NOW this video pops up and you saying everything over..this is definitely a sign from god…THANK YOU 🙏🙏

[@kelley9133]

Girl you a queen, you hype me up so damn much. Always coming through with the most solid and genuine talk. I appreciate you !!

[@bintou1796]

Hailey, I truly appreciate your videos! Every topic helps me out in some way especially this one!!! Thank for u for being the big sis I always wished for. Love u babe💜💜

[@FranciaMichelle]

I feel like I spent my whole life helping others, going outta my way for people. Yeah, people were "nice" to me but really people just kept me around because I made them feel better about themselves. But when I needed help.....those same people? They deserted me. And during a global pandemic. I learned SO much in these past few years. Still going through shit but now....I'm pouring back into myself. I stopped doing things I loved. Imma go back to what I did as a child. I'm so glad I love myself and love being alone. Truly my own best friends. Learning to be nicer to her now. I'm proud of you and all of yall. Edit: And I pulled away from "friends", something happened where it made me feel like "maybe I can talk to them again." The universe snatched my ass up and said "Go ova dere!" :') I'm better now for it.

[@hanavaughan6956]

Yay Hails!!!!👏🏼👏🏼♥️ listening to this while I’m doing my cardio and I’m throughly listening along…

[@thehealtrix]

God defenitly spoke through u on this video 🥺 Like you just read tf outta me but I DEEPLY needed to hear it! I also know where I wanna go w/ my content creation now...thank you. P.S. your setup is gorgeous & the flower in the camera is genius ✨

[@jessicapaul569]

Watching you literally inspires me so much dude❤️seriously so blessed to have come across you

[@ItsCharlotteDuuh]

Thank you so much for this video Hailey!! Like you said “today is the day! It is TIME to step into our selfish era” 💗💗

[@midasbeauty]

Thank you so much, your videos have really changed my life as well as making me take action in my life as well. I'm glad I discovered your page at 20. God bless you!!😊🙌

[@Nifaratheicon]

I’ve been rewatching all of your old manifestation videos over and over and I literally manifested you posting a new one too lmao💕

[@Nifaratheicon]

Hailey I cannot tell you how much I rely on your manifestation videos girl

[@ashleyf337]

I really appreciate and am so greatful for you Hailey and your videos. You have the natural vibe of helping others care for themselves and that is something we need more of. Im on my selfish journey and I'm loving it. ❤️ Please start a podcast-Love Ash

[@Miriancuaya]

Hearing this at a perfect timing. I feel like I’ve been working with being more selfish these past months, and I feel like I was doing good, but at times I feel myself gravitating back, but I try to realize it and continue to work on it. I know it takes time, therefore, I try to give myself credit for what I have done and continue from there. It’s okay. Thanks for the video 🥰

[@mlkeller94]

DEFINITELY FEEL LIKE YOU'RE TALKING TO ME HAILEY! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO!

[@Ravynrca]

NEEDED TO SEE THIS 🙌🏼

[@monicadaleyza9073]

I wish there wasn’t an echo in this sit down videos. They are really helping me out! They are taking me to a more positive mindset. I just wished the audio was better.

[@haileygamba]

Sorry! the newer content has a mic now so the audio is significantly better

[@zachspalace2108]

I needed this I felt like I’ve been neglecting myself lately this helped🥺❤️ very inspirational

[@asianegri8057]

I love your videos, I think you're gorgeous and i wish i could be like you in the future Honestly you such a great person ❤️❤️❤️

[@graciew5243]

You inspire me so much to focus on myself and actually take care of myself 💖💖

[@nyethebrat]

hailey you are on the roll with this content girl! taking more notes! 📝

[@LyssaTheMuse]

lol you literally hit the spot every single time 👏🏾💕

[@TheeOriginalLolo]

I’m happy you stressed that being fit does not equate to be skinny. You can be healthy and big too just like you can be skinny and unhealthy! You know your body best and as long as you feel stronger and you’re eating was good for/to you, that’s the goal! I love following fitness influencers of all shapes and sizes because it shows that not everyone is in the gym to look skinny but to be a version of healthy that serves them best, which is not always the beauty standard!

[@aohamer]

I just love seeing your glow up! Your advice is spot on for this people-pleaser. 🤦🏾‍♀️Looking forward to your soft life video too. Keep shining 👑

[@evelynarias251]

The buying yourself flowers thing took me out. I recently have been thinking about buying myself flowers 💐 I have a whole empty vase that I took out in case I find cute ones 😂

[@miimii2228]

Uhhh the thing about present vs future is such facts, great video

[@GabrielleSWalker]

That Intro was just 🥹😍😍 so beautiful

[@lovemialynn]

Just hopped on the treadmill and was looking for something to watch! I am actually looking forward to my workout now! ❤️❤️

[@ryanamari2233]

I definitely want a video on the soft life …I’ve also recently heard of a slow life ….

[@corinejimenez8460]

I resonate with this so much! I truly truly am I’m this phase in my life and it’s nice to hear that I’m not alone !

[@Mayaamonroe]

A year later & I still have to double back . Love your videos they help me so much 😩❤️

[@alyssayu1979]

she's an iconnnn

[@MC-pn5ed]

I hear you about working out ...it helps with my mental health too

[@letti799]

Notification gang. 🔥 Can't wait to watch!

[@Thebodyprofessional]

I really needed this ! You just inspired me so much! I have to step into my selfish era ! ❤Thanks so much!

[@ruthannevaneeden4024]

great timing 💕 sending love to everyone seeing this - you deserve the world babyyy mwahs

[@maiagaskell4216]

This video has literally come at the right time for me! Thank you so much Hailey!! 💕

[@aminawalyam1356]

Definitely a soft life video!

[@angelmonroefineazz2827]

Sweetie you said this and I’m glad you did success leaves clues. And I got em from you. 🤞🏾💕🐐

[@RoseMiah9191]

Beauty- you are inspirational on another level. I love your videos they set me into the right mindset. Thank you so much! 👸🏽 i‘m looking forward to every single one of your video!

[@laurenwagner6235]

We literally have the same mindset like everything you say I’m just thinking “preach girl”

[@latoyasmythe4509]

Good Afternoon Hailey🥰 Yes Hailey This Is What I’m On Thank You♥️🎀✨