GIRL TO WOMANHOOD: the harsh reality to gracefully transition...

[@AngelicaJaramillo-q6f]

Holy sh*t. The carrying shame on your back and letting others win. That is the realest thing I’ve ever heard and most relatable. Four years ago I fell out with a group of girlfriends who did me wrong and I went into hermit mode. I stopped doing my hair, my makeup, stopped getting my nails done, gained 30 lbs., don’t get dressed up anymore. I’m just NOW starting to get my hair done, wear makeup, and am toying around with getting my nails again. I’m tired of hiding! I want to be seen again. So thank you for reminding me that I’m letting them win by not shining. ❤

[@riahjade0915]

This!

[@rdsunshine34741]

I feel like you're describing me... My exact reaction to a different situation but the same thing. Why am I carrying the shame!? 😅

[@defiantlypinki1107]

Adding to your “men can’t be alone” stance, this is why you should never be friends with men after a breakup or if they make it clear that they don’t want you. Being friends with him is basically having you as a placeholder to fulfill his emotional, social, and sexual “needs” until he can find the girl he really wants them from.

[@haileygamba]

Lol I have learned that as well ! I understand the reason for wanting a friendship but all of it will come to an end at some point !

[@lukelesia4562]

2:50 “you dont have to break up with someone because they did something horrific to you” Lets normalize just detaching from people that dont serve us for any reason. I feel like we do infact try to rationalize things but as Hailey said “you know what you gotta do,” wishing for the babes whos reading this to find the courage to put yourself first and leave when your heart calls you to leave. Thank you for the great content as always Hailey ❤️

[@haileygamba]

Period ! You reinforced the narrative, so so true ❤

[@ibstayfly]

Periodt

[@joifant8884]

Hailey was not playing with us this episode she has had enough of us wasting our time😂

[@autumnlove333]

As a former mean girl, I agree that it comes from self hate but it also came from my mother being my first bully. I’ve done the work to not put that hate on other people but I’m still working on the self love part but I would consider myself an amazing woman today. I say that to say give some grace to “mean girls” because someone, most likely their mother, taught them hate. People aren’t born mean and hateful it’s taught. But I love the overall message!

[@haileygamba]

100% I talked about this in previous videos!! It stems from a bully mom or older sister or person in your life

[@dearrose3275]

When she said that the heartbreak was meant to happen so I can glow up,be smarter,and be wise......I felt that frfr❤😮

[@WINTHSERIES]

Mannn the consistency is top notch rn !

[@alyssaahoward]

damn okay the content in this vid is top 5…and the passion behind your words?! love this sm

[@haileygamba]

Omg 🥹🫶🏽 I appreciate you babe

[@mindfulsuccessm]

MOVING! ON! FROM! RELATIONSHIPS! THAT! NO! LONGER! SERVE! YOU! This is so important I know many of us still struggle with letting go of friends or even family. Sometimes your family are the low vibrational people in your lives who are holding you back from achieving more. They may be the ones bringing you down and that's when your self doubt kicks in. Being aware of the energy around me is my biggest takeaway of 2023. I accepted it and moved on and luckily, I was able to attract the ones who are FOR ME. Thank you for your wisdom!

[@Lou-zr3ii]

You're the big sister I never had ❤ Thanks Hailey

[@Sallyy150]

I am watching you Hailey to break away from the toxic female stereotypes I have met in my life. I got married recently, and I found myself very anxious about "getting fat-have more responsibility- getting depressed and bitter- forget my dreams and ambitions" aka (Letting myself go), simply because every woman in my family and my partner's family became this image of a woman who neglected herself since 1880 and wear Costco pants. Yet, every time I watch you, I am reminded that their reality is not mine, and there work to do If I do not want to end up the same. Thanks a lot for your videos. Please don't stop!

[@jordaneliza3753]

Lolololol I put my Costco pants on today and was like nahhh I can’t leave the house in this ish, and changed into a long skirt.

[@emmcc]

Girl just makes a podcast at this point! I can’t keep up with all the 20 minute long vids, there’s too many!

[@vicsolimo]

Door mat and black sheep here 🙋‍♀️ I really appreciate that you share the things you have learned for those of us who may not have a female in our life who we can look up to or just want to and need to improve, but aren't sure how. You're videos have helped me a lot personally.

[@LizAdit]

I literally love you. Quote: This is the worse I am ever going to look! Girl, you spoke my mind because this is what I told myself at the beginning of this year, before I went so hard at weight loss, I dropped more than 30lbs. One month ago, I walked into an orthodontist office and girl, this is worst I am ever going to look! I broke up a toxic relationship 2019 and went into depression for almost two years. But I held on. I finished my degree and got a full time job. I hope this encourages somebody.

[@loversonly]

Proud of u!!!💕💞

[@LizAdit]

@@loversonly Thanks honey ❤️🥰

[@DiveinwithDivineDiamondyoutube]

Yes encouraging. Congratulations queen🎉

[@latoyasmythe4509]

Hands Down Hailey From The Bottom Of My Heart I Pray I Have A Friend Just Like You I Look At You Like A Big Sister Even Tho I’m 34😭🫶🏾 But The Person You Grew Up To Be Since I’m Been Following You, You Is A Example Of Of A Real Clean Polish Clean Woman Girl I Love You So Much Your Vibe Your Energy & Your Mindset Is Something Money Can Not Buy🫶🏾 You Is Pure & Real God Been With You Very Heavily This Year For Sure🥰🙏🏾

[@haileygamba]

Ugh I appreciate you very much thank you thank you 🥹💋

[@mairead354]

Girl, SAME! ❤ I'm 31 (so technically a few years older than Hailey...I think?) but I've realised that I also see her as the big sister I never had! 🥹❤

[@latoyasmythe4509]

You welcome🫶🏾💕

[@latoyasmythe4509]

@mairead354 yes🫶🏾 like really

[@lexustorres3237]

Tearing up reading this message because SAME 🩷

[@tommiephoenix]

Sheesh…preach on it!!!! As a 27 year old recovering people pleaser I can attest that this is some real ass shit!!!!! You’re really helping add to the toolkit for young folks out here trying to step into their power, Hailey. And it’s been amazing watching your growth too

[@meleika8274]

All the good things and I’m not just saying this. I have goosebumps right now because all the things Hailey is saying she’s said before but with so much more experience behind it. She’s glowing and I’m actually here. I’m at this place realizing all these things. Tapping into myself, gosh I’m grateful.

[@YarYT]

I feel like a lot of ppl like to suffer. Some ppl think they need to be in traumatic experiences to find true love when in reality u don’t have to.

[@Maryah2.0]

There’s so much I want to say but I can’t. It’ll be too long but I purely appreciate your videos. They help me out so much and you’re helping mw become I woman that I want to be and that’s a big deal! Thank you for your content. ❤

[@haileygamba]

Appreciate you ❤

[@Marmae02]

“The last laugh is elevation” WHEWWWWW!! 🥵🥊I needed this

[@genesistxo]

Hailey, you're truly a huge inspiration to so many of us out here. I am so grateful I had the opportunity to come across your channel.

[@lifestyle6142]

I’m currently 24 goin thru the biggest transformation in my life and I honestly feel your words when it comes to discipline you truly just have to walk in reality and fix your foot steps and just straight up let go! From experience I’ve tried so many things you mention an this just motivates me so much to keep working and keep goin an not give up doing right by myself so I can truly be who I am … I love you and your kinda words it truly means the world 🩷

[@BJ-fr2zv]

Hailey, I really love listening to your videos. You talk so much sense, I relate to your past and present experiences SO much, and you put into words everything I’m currently experiencing/feeling. I like listening to you while I do yoga- which btw I’m actually in the middle of doing right now and stopped mid video to comment 😂 You deserve all the flowers girl. Thank you for posting uplifting, real sh*t!

[@itskaybradley]

You posted at the perfect time!! I can’t thank you enough for the quality content!

[@theshaesthetic]

Love the consistency! But sis, you are speaking nothing but TRUTH! 👏🏽👏🏽 I feel so inspired to make a part 2 of my girlhood to womanhood video.

[@Dj-travis874]

GIRL!!!! nah, it feels crazy how aligned i feel. I literally was just thinking about how negative I was. Or how much of a bad friend I use to be. I needed to hear to let go of my shame. Thank you Hailey, seriously , your like my homegirl that tells me what I need to hear when I need to hear. I appreciate your content. I just followed you on TIKTOK 🥰🥰

[@adeline7274]

Girlll your consistency got me questioning my excuses 🔥🔥🔥

[@elithaniahuerta6180]

Pink is your color 😍😍😍 I am an o.g subscriber and I can testify that your videos have helped me so much in life the past few years especially. You’re the big sister I never had! God bless you love!💕

[@leese-anngordon4704]

Thank u Hailey, while the journey may be rough for most of us, I'm glad I've found people like u who are willing to share what u know..thank u my internet big sis, signed an awkward 25 year old

[@Xoxogirlk]

This is my favorite video. Cut throat & to the point! I love it and needed this. Thank you so much.

[@karlybeeplays]

all these videos are so perfect for this current season im in 😌 cant wait to get into it!!

[@dayb4valentines213]

Dear algorithm universe, Thank you for listening to me and my boyfriend argue these past few days and suggesting this video, that is so on par with me right now I feel like my big sister just put me in the right headspace. I am forever grateful for you sis 🫶🏼keep teaching us because the universe is definitely listening and speaking thru you ❤️🥂

[@cheiladelgado528]

this is my therapy thanks queen I’m enjoying this content

[@TheImperfectReader]

I wish I had this advice. You are the big sister I always needed.

[@NishaRae11]

Hailey, you didn’t miss. You hit every single nail. A message 🙌🏾

[@lilstarzgurlz]

My daily routine consists of watching your videos as i get ready for work and drive to work. I have improve a bit now i enjoy the process of getting ready for work i also even manage to clean a little before leaving the house. Which i never did nor did i try my best in my skin care routine in the mornings! Thank you

[@amberparedes875]

Why did I get so emotional hearing this video?!? 😭

[@haileygamba]

🥹🫶🏽

[@bdavis6450]

“Keep watching and take notes” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@AntiguaTee323]

Came across 1 video of yours and now I’m already 4 videos in deep and it’s all in divine timing as well!! Thank you! It feels nice to receive actual ‘big sister’ advice and guidance.. blessings!!! And keep on doing your thing cuz it shows and we all feel it/see it! 👑✨💗

[@emilyking3291]

I WISH you would start a podcast! Not feeling worthy enough and not being able to accept compliments hit close to home. I’m a 41 year old married mother and I love a lot of the advice you give. It’s universal and works for all ages.

[@yasminmartinez7260]

They way you are helping me stay on a positive track when it comes to me now being on my high value woman era is daily motivation. Im so glad i found this channel

[@briaj.5219]

Honey you are reading the girls today! It was very much needed.👏🏽👏🏽

[@kylajones259]

you HIT every point wit poise girlllll and I’m here for it thank you I needed this and didn’t even know I did. Thank God for God cause honeyyy he is radiating all over your life, and thank you for being the big sister I never had ❤❤❤

[@OHoneyPot]

Hailey, your understanding is impeccable. I have experienced this situation firsthand and put in the effort. It elicits such a wonderful sensation. Many women could greatly benefit from this message.

[@ebonidaneen5639]

This video was perfect the carrying shame and trying to prove yourself to ppl is my biggest issue. I'll replay ppls words like I should have said this or that. I'm working on letting it go n like you say pay them in dust and just keep leveling up. You're so wise beyond your years girls that's for giving us this content. ❤❤

[@AntigonesWay]

OMG Hailey!!! You hit the nail on the head when you said we were stifled in our childhood by being told to shut up and it was carried into my adulthood. Yikes!! It makes it so much more difficult to communicate with people and. Express myself. OMG!!! This is a place I need to do some shadow work in. Thank you for bringing this to the forefront for me. You’re such a jewel!!!🩷💕🩷💕🩷💕🩷💕🩷💕🩷💕🩷💕🩷💕🩷💕🩷💕🩷💕🩷💕🩷 Here are your flowers 🌷🌸🌷🌸🌷🌸🌷🌸🌷🌸🌷🌸🌷🌸🌷🌸🌷🌸🌷🌸🌷🌸

[@alyssaahoward]

CHEERS TO CONSISTENCY YES HAILSSS

[@AnanyaLikhi-qp5ej]

I am so proud of you.Following your footsteps queen ❤

[@Vxruxxss]

You really are that girl! I've been watching you for over 6 years and your level up game has been fire!

[@MadamsQueendom]

This vid WILL hit a Million + Views 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🫶🏼💚✨

[@haileygamba]

Pray over it ❤ amen thank you!

[@anamariabarukcic510]

i am currently on a self loving journey and your videos are my main source of inspiration. I listen to you first thing in the morning or in a gym. You went through everything I did and somehow you always talk about things that are on my mind and am struggling with them. Love you girl 🤎

[@DoughDashCrew]

This video needs to go viral!!!

[@nikkiglz]

I am loving this Hailey. Honesty is savage and I’m here for it

[@lb7151]

My last heartbreak really tuned me into myself

[@hellodannifay]

This one was fire ❤ I’m currently getting out of a long relationship with someone who was really emotionally abusive - your videos truly have helped me heal. Im going to be living on my own for the first time within a couple of weeks, it would be amazing to see if you have any tips or insights on living alone :) Thanks Hailey! ❤❤

[@hhaannnnaahh222]

Congrats on leaving ❤❤❤ look after yourself. Living alone will be an adjustment but you will get into your own routine, I'd suggest making a point of enjoying all the things you felt you couldn't do whilst living with someone else ❤❤❤

[@jessnielsen]

Divine feminine energy ✨️

[@TausalaFitiausi-z7s]

nah "if chatty Kathy has something to say than Bitch Idc" im dead yes girl. love this talk thank you Hailey.

[@nabilaxu]

only discovered your channel recently but literally binging on my morning drives! *adds all videos to IT girl playlist* love from UK 🫶🏽

[@allainamelancon7528]

I litterally love Coach Deion Sanders!!! Love this video so much. I just graduated college and I feel like I am in this new era of my life. This is perfect.

[@khalilah6686]

My little big sis did it again!! 🙏🏽👏🏽 your messages are right on time for this season of my life. Thanks for taking the time to talk to us with passion and love, I feel your sincerity!! 💜🤗

[@AshLivingSpontaneously]

I absolutely needed this. I’ve been binge watching your videos and I can confidently say you’re my new favorite content creator🥹 Thank you for sharing your wisdom, experience, and advice. I feel the love through the screen💛

[@lashmivizcaino]

I absolutely adore your energy, like the big sister I didn’t know I needed!!❤️ so grateful I found your channel, keep on keeping it REAL!!!

[@DoughDashCrew]

You know what! Fuk viral! I SAW THIS VIDEO! I needed it so much!! 🎉🎉❤❤❤

[@sav3316]

your timing is perfect. im about to turn 20 on november 17th. womanhood seems scary ngl, but ill use your tips💝

[@jessicaforevermore]

to add on, even if you don’t find another relationship in the future, growing by yourself is better than being stuck in place with someone else. don’t let others shame you for making that decision to grow.

[@ThePoshTrainer]

So many gems here and i truly believe this is because you’re a jersey girl. Do 👏🏽 not👏🏽 try👏🏽 to reason with people who are DESTINED to misunderstand you !!!! #elevation !!!!

[@pareidoliaful]

I have loved you for a long time and you posted this video just by the time I'm becoming a mother! love you. love from brazillllll

[@yasminegooden9834]

You left no crumbs! I needed this girl thank you so much. ❤️💯💪🏾

[@MadamsQueendom]

Oh Sis, YOU ATE!!!! This is Perfection!!!! Thank you! Everything was spot on 🎯 🙏🏽🫶🏼💚✨

[@imanesbestlife]

Love this Hailey. You always put out useful content 💕 I appreciate it

[@stessiee]

I’m French and I’m si glad I understand English cause your vidéo help me to become a better woman ❤

[@bryannapeaches2442]

Wtff. I literally just broke up with my boyfriend last night & this video pops up today.. if that’s not a major sign idk what is. Thanks for this Hailey this is really hard for me rn

[@BethBres]

Yessss! You’ve literally been coming out with this 🔥 I got my husband listening to you also

[@haileygamba]

Shoutout to you and hubby ❤❤

[@mpch6298]

You look gorgeous. And your video is right in all points. I have dedicated last 3 years to therapy and went through divorce, many deaths in family, I am now recovering from falling in love in guy who love bombed me and now hovers over me after we split, so I know that MENTAL GAME and mental health are the first thing, fist step to turn around. Cutting off giving them energy is the switch. And do all SILENTLY. Stop announcing. Do not explain.

[@SunniSide1]

Whew!!! This is a listen to every single week kind of video 🙌🏽🙌🏽 Thank you!!!

[@Guayabadulce20]

Thank you Hailey, that was life changing❤🤯

[@AteviaChakiraMayes]

WISHING YOU SO MUCH LOVE + ABUNDANCE 🙏🏽💓

[@Kxdmia]

3:04 Right on point! It is honestly very annoying because even if you tell them straight up, they make excuses to keep that person around 🙄

[@aeslehc7]

11:30-13:25 I needed to hear that so badly! Thank you babe 💕

[@luxtravel4970]

I've said it before and I'll say it again, this is real. All the BS cut out. This is REAL. You can tell she's speaking her truth and I absolutely love it.

[@cheril1982]

Your maturity, knowledge sharing and directness is appreciated. Also inhave said this before but you look fabulous, your confidence within is coming through 😊

[@cheril1982]

Also, I hadn't even got into the video fully when I commented and you pretty much said it too! 😅

[@RY-lx9lz]

I'm 31 and idk my self. My looks are fading and so is my motivation to believe it'll get better. 8 years and idk how to fully let go of this person. I gotta admit I've had a toxic ego and still trying to fully change that. I didn't expect to be here at this age.

[@BeulahThigpen]

I turn 18 in a few days 🙏🏿 perfect timing as always😭 literally a fairy god mother

[@audiotv4667]

Yes, there are “Beauty Standards,” but that doesn’t make them “the” standard, nor does it make it facts of what beauty looks like. There’s beauty in all colors, shapes, & sizes. I’m sure you meant well when you said this, but for others who may have taken that in a different direction, understand that society's beauty standard is false, & it’s not to feel like you have to look like the things other people deem beautiful. God created all of us different for a reason, & that includes the different shades, sizes, colors, etc. There’s no one better than the other. Although people don’t like to admit this harsh reality that one race has been put above all by their own, people make it seem as if it’s facts & it’ll never be facts. I truly dislike how people will roll over to that & make it seem as if it’s “normal” & that we all just have to “accept” it. The answer is no.

[@haileygamba]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder 💯! When I speak on these things I’m talking about societal standards.. whether right or wrong they are reality.

[@aliyahguess8967]

Amazing video hailey!! Thank you so much for making these. ✨🙏🏽

[@oooo-w2w1c]

hailey pls can we get a makeup tutorial for ur last video look ? u looked amazingg

[@melissalitus8879]

I love your vids! Such wisdom, grace and class ❤ keep them coming beauty 🎉

[@tesnimka8777]

Yess I agree closure is bullshit. I feel like people want closure to satisfy their ego that’s all really.

[@micheleedwards3402]

You read me for filth! But I needed it! Thank you!

[@TheLordsVessle]

The big sis I needed

[@BabyFaceRose]

Ugh love you I’m so glad I started watching you 🥹💙🩷 your videos and your energy just make my days so much better!!! I leave my place feeling like the baddest bitch ready to take on everything coming my way ☺️🥹🫶🏼 and am!! Thank you for your positivity , encouragement and advice xo

[@Jiminsboost]

Thank you wow because that introduction told me watch this video because Hailey is going to give you some ☕️ which she did. ❤

[@faitholateju6590]

Girl, please make longer videos❤ Appreciate your videos 😊

[@Jessie_bernard]

5:00 you advice always hit hard💕thank you

[@Azile_Nzama]

I could listen to you for hours!❤ I love your videos so much

[@lailarahiman4075]

Loved this video so much great job Hailey 💕

[@thatboujeebrokegirl7857]

Mother has spoken and now I’m mixing my bloom drink and getting ready for the gym 😅 Ilysm 🫶🏽

[@ibstayfly]

Periodt. Amen to all of it

[@BhaddieC_25]

Dang girl you got me all the way together thank you 🙏🏾

[@yourztrulyalii]

Perfect timing Hailey.