Many Women Have Trouble with True Masculinity

Patreon
/ romwills
Signed copies of my books.
www.romwills.co...
If you benefit from my videos donations are greatly appreciated.
www.romwills.co...
Contact Rom
www.romwills.co...
Rom Wills
/ romwills
Rom Wills - About That Business
/ @romwillsaboutthatbusi...
Rom Wills - Deep Thought
/ @romwillsdeepthought
Visit my websites:
www.romwills.com/
www.connectpal...
nice-guys-and-p...
Twitter: @romwills1
Instagram: @romwills
Facebook: Willspublishing
Visit the Negro Manosphere
negromanospher...

[@JaDejMo87]

I feel you on the grandmother trying to mold you in the ideal man Rom. I even butted heads with my mother. It's crazy how mothers mold their sons into men they hate.

[@RomWills]

It happens too much.

[@rachelsweets]

J.D. Mosley very sad

[@JaDejMo87]

Rachel Sweets it really is.

[@JaDejMo87]

Rom Wills way too much.

[@wizeguy26]

J.D. Mosley its to save face and take any heat they have off of them to turn around and say see hes just like his father etc.

[@redaquarian8665]

If a woman DOES or SAYS ANYTHING that you "perceive" to be attempt to control you IN ANY WAY....YOU MUST CHECK HER IMMEDIATELY! You will discover her real character shortly thereafter. I learned many hard lessons from being on the Simp-side many years ago.

[@RomWills]

Good advice.

[@taronbrown8389]

C Toomer TRUE, never been on the simp side but I agree with you.

[@rachelsweets]

C Toomer Facts

[@queenofhearts2013]

Visa verse,same with guys.You have to check them as well.I get a kick out of my daughter's boyfriend.He is the most humbleest dude I know now.She wasn't raised as a pushover or to be aggressive or to think you are better than someone.But he portrayed this bs lifestyle when he met her.Lol,he doesn't down play anybody anymore in our lifetime and he is the ideal husband now. I told her it's still not genuine,he is just playing that role because he doesn't want to loose her.I still think it's just about an image to him though.But I will be glad when it's over.She needs a more mature man.She doesn't want kids nor want to be married.So that should tell you a lot.His parents continues to try and marry them off.Thank God my daughter is not hard up and desperate and has her shit together. Proud mother I am.😁

[@queenofhearts2013]

@Lis Hurd love it & i agree

[@mikmckenna6192]

Too many women are used to running simps ....and don't know how to deal with real men

[@RomWills]

Correct.

[@bakermayfield9716]

Facts

[@adrianthomas373]

I've seen it with Latin and White women heavily, as well as middle eastern women who have been westernized.

[@assaa5069]

Truth

[@RomWills]

Real talk.

[@marcb2raw]

Woman is the storm and man is the mountain.

[@RomWills]

I like that.

[@Marc_B]

Lol. They really do hate it when you stand your ground and say no. I was dating a woman for about 5 months or so and we were having a conversation about the black community, she got emotional and said I don't want to talk about it anymore and I said ok. About an hour later she tried to bring up the conversation again and I said to her we're not going to talk about this anymore because you said you didn't want to. She kept on trying and I kept shutting her down. Long story short, about a week later she tried to bring up the same conversation and I said if you bring this up again we're done and she stopped talking to me. Moral of the story is stand your ground, hold them accountable and don't fall for the manipulation.

[@RomWills]

You're right. A man always has to stand his ground.

[@andremotivation6561]

You dodged a bullet..congrats

[@coreybetamalewayne1169]

+Andre Eli Facts

[@learningisuncomfortable2322]

Sounds like she dodged a bullet too. Seems like both of y’all lack the emotional intelligence to have difficult conversations. Remember, she stopped talking to you, not the other way around.

[@coreybetamalewayne1169]

Learning Is Uncomfortable If you bring this up again were done .

[@assaa5069]

Nothing but the truth. Men need to be men. Women need to be women. Growing up that's what I saw. My father taught me how to be man and think rationally.

[@RomWills]

That's good you were taught.

[@tonysmith8071]

Samuel Akiwumi I have had better luck with African women-& Asia women- Spanish & mixture cultures lady's of other languages

[@assaa5069]

Tony Smith good. Foreign women have a different mindset.

[@thebetterman3710]

A woman do try to control what they fear, I do agree.., pull through all the shit test they pull and it'll calm them down.. ( temporarily)

[@sixowe3083]

this remind me of back when i was in school folks would try me and i physically fight em every time and my moms would be mad at me for standing up for my manhood

[@C.Douglas777]

This is 1 of the most POWERFUL videos you've ever made OG.!!! There is no such thing as gender fluidity period, MEN and WOMEN have distinctions for a reason... I said this yesterday in the comments there's too much devaluing and under-appreciation of masculinity in our community. I completely understood your frustration and your rant yesterday Rom. SALUTE FAM!

[@C.Douglas777]

King Sigma ...SALUTE

[@RomWills]

Thank you brotha.

[@C.Douglas777]

Rom Wills ... I wish you revisit this topic from time 2 time Rom, just 2 keep Brothers on the up-and-up about this bull shit going on out here!!

[@gorjusgorillawitz2459]

WHATTUP C.DOUG...SALUTE to you my man.....nuff said..you hit it on the money..

[@gorjusgorillawitz2459]

hell yeah...

[@kamoffit]

“The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the Lord thy God.” ‭‭Deuteronomy‬ ‭22:5‬ ‭KJV‬‬

[@swes9598]

I'm a fairly nice brother, but let me tell you I decked a b**** for playing games with me- funny thing is, it actually turned her on (lol). For as long as I can remember, even my MOTHER can't get away with saying some of the ridiculous things she says without being checked. Men, love yourselves enough not to tolerate disrespect from ANY woman!

[@RomWills]

Well said.

[@tonysmith8071]

S Wes good point

[@kuunami]

I'm 38 and my parents are still married. You're right though. The problem is that in my generation allowing a woman to take the lead is guaranteed failure so I'm trying to unlearn everything that I grew up with. Part of my problems today is that my mother was definitely the dominant force in the family. I just got lucky that my mother didn't abuse that dynamic as much as 90 percent of women would.

[@majestyrockmics]

At work. Real brief. Lots of women worry about the more masculine the man the more he attracts lots of women like the highschool jock that broke her heart. Threatened by it cause of insecurity. What do u think.

[@assaa5069]

majestyrockmics truth

[@RomWills]

You might have a point there.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

Manhood is key to be a man period. When you can't' be a men as men what are you than?

[@RomWills]

Correct.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

100 % accurate.

[@nupe1931]

Rom keep doing what you doing man. You bringing that WOLF back out in me. Right on time as I just turned 35. I’m glad I’m getting back to it before I get old

[@darrickbrisco5016]

U so right unc beard game tight but these women love these emotional dudes the ones who go argue with em and be a submissive punk I don’t argue with women if u ain’t go listen I roll period this single motherhood has really fucked up everything

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@useyourwords3286]

That can be problematic because you're not always going to be right 🤔

[@imstilllearning2532]

Too many men worship vagina. That’s a big problem.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

Any strong woman is intimidated by one strong men. It doesn't work both ways. She shows respected but it's also love and i'm not sure that women get that concept.

[@queenofhearts2013]

Strong people don't intimidate strong people.Sounds like someone had a strong front.Strong confident women get it,just like strong confident men.

[@careergodfather]

This is one of my favorite videos from you Uncle Rom. I posted a status about femininity and modesty on my Facebook page yesterday and women were letting me have it. This video lines up with everything I was saying yesterday.

[@RomWills]

Keep hitting them.

[@davewade6712]

when a young girl grows up in a house hold with a good father she wouldn't have a problem with it.

[@LaTrav08]

I wish more black women truly undersood and fully embraced real femininity!!

[@RomWills]

That's the key to a woman's power.

[@EliV369]

❤

[@Seven-oi8hx]

Society has divorced responsibility from authority. Which is why many men will become stoic.

[@RomWills]

seen.

[@edwardglass5358]

Yes.

[@randr6784]

Appreciate the topic. Men need to be men and women need to be women. I’ve cut back my entertainment outlet like Hulu and Netflix. Ive notice I don’t condone or watch gender fluidity television anymore. Gender roles need to be back like the old days. Stay encouraged my brother.

[@RomWills]

That's what's up.

[@ITB716]

Job 39:16 She is hardened against her young ones,( Inmasculine the boys) as though they were not hers: her labour is in vain without fear; 17Because God hath deprived her of wisdom, neither hath he imparted to her understanding. those 2 verse is your whole video subject i been saying that for years

[@blackpanther622]

Are you israel? Thats a damn good breakdown

[@thespookthatsatbythedoor3087]

"A bitch say something stupid I'm gone, I don't have to spend my time with you I'm the prize your not the prize I'm the prize, I can find another one like you you'll never find somebody like me." -Rosebudd

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@Youngboi8169]

One of my female friends told me out her mouth, “ever since yall men got a voice, yall don’t know how to be quiet!!” So I just looked at her. They run their mouth so much don’t even know their telling on themselves. They won’t us to just accept them for what and who they are and not hold them accountable for anything….because they’re WOMEN

[@ashb12]

I struggle with masculinity in men as well. A lot of men come into your life trying to “lay down the law” too soon without earning any type of respect from that woman. Women, like myself, at one point were submissive to the wrong man which caused many women to be controlled and manipulated. Unfortunately, now some women don’t want to be submissive at all because we’re afraid to lose ourselves once again. This causes us to be controlling/demanding because we want to avoid being vulnerable and ultimately stupid. We don’t realize later that bites us in the ass because men change for the better (for the most part) when they get older and mature. Now women are told to “be his peace” and we’re like whattttt lol

[@RomWills]

Thanks for sharing that perspective.

[@jajasmile4473]

bw , I go to Mexican bar once a month . Mexican women lv to be told what to do . I

[@sixowe3083]

got kicked out of so many schools and went to alternative school because i wouldnt let folks try/roast/bully me cause i was standing up for myself

[@jude9876]

Same bruh....

[@Slender-sj6gh]

That’s where the term happy wife happy life stems from when a woman dont want a to be a man and just bow down to them

[@RomWills]

Seen.

[@pchuck1439]

This hits home. I was in an argument with my girl because I said these kids out here from single family homes with no father are causing chaos. She got upset because I didn't say "some" or "most" and she felt I was talking about all people who came from single mothers. She felt like I was personally attacking her. It wasn't the case. After 5mins of going back and forth over something trivial, I put my foot down and ended the discussion. Anything that promotes masculinity and male authority is bad. I was bit surprised she thought that way. Come to think about it, I'm not.

[@RomWills]

I understand.

[@christrucker4882]

I’m dealing with the crying issue with my 5 year old son now the good thing about it is that his mom is cool with toughening him up but she’s still controlling and want to tell me when and how to do things . He’s still only 5 as well so I gotta be smart about it .

[@JTu8925]

Yea, that's the worst. They always want to coddle boys when they are young, it's the worst. I ignore little boys when they cry. I tell them to go in another room until they quiet down. Lol

[@christrucker4882]

Jay Oh nah his mom don’t like the crying either but she’s just real picky about how she wants things done .

[@JTu8925]

Auto Chris They really think they have a hold. Once the kid is older and does not fear, her wrath will only stress her. It may be worth it to sacrifice her affections towards you just to get things in order. If she always wants to have her way what makes her different than a whining child? No disrespect to your wife. I checked my sister and mom over the past year, I have no problem doing what they need, yet at the same time I have my way a lot more and don't tolerate their guilt anymore. You having a son was the first disagreement you won genetically. The boy was born over the girl. Therefore, you have the "man to son" priveledge. Instill the fear of what she can't control as a woman. Your son is watching. You are a man, born with the advantage of power. You subdued her and she bore your son. Now subdue her body, mind and spirit. God speed sir. I respect and admire you because fathers are powerful. Father, son and holy ghost.

[@RomWills]

Auto Chris, He has a good father in you.

[@christrucker4882]

Rom Wills thanks rom

[@BurninVinyl]

Sometimes you have to check out with who she hangs out, what type of female friends. As Rosebudd I think said it, "You make friends not viceversa"

[@RomWills]

Wisdom.

[@tonysmith8071]

BurninVinyl I agree-always see the company she keeps

[@dabiggcrunk]

K

[@lyeffmuhammad]

My opinion on the situation is that when it comes to masculinity particularly Black masculinity, this present civilization is scared to death of it. So many are used to seeing an compliant Blackman that is afraid to be a man, because during transatlantic slavery black masculinity was in essence outlawed and prohibited. This is not to say that during those times their were not black men being men, because there most certainly were many at that time. Its just that many of these black women have the mind of those who sought to subdue and erraticate black masculinity, because black masculinity was and is a threat to this current power structure.This is said with a reference to Frances Cres Welsings book titled, "The Isis Papers", which speaks about genetic annihilation. With that being said, when they see a Blackman being a man they act on autopilot to extinguish our masculinity. But as you have said my brotha, when they see you ain't going for it they either stay away from you or get in line. They'll complain but they will respect it. I for one never debate my authority as a man with any woman. I naturally assume the position of authority with any woman. Even with my mother, respect is given but in areas of masculinity it isn't even a discussion. I can thank my father for that! Great topic as always my brotha!

[@dharaneedharandme020]

It personaly happened to me my mom try to make me a very soft guy I feeled it and moved away from her

[@pacthesharwell3598]

You are like, the only black man on earth. That's seperated with his baby's mothers, and can see his children opon request...

[@RomWills]

We have joint custody. I don't have to request. I just tell her I'm on my way to get them and they spend more time with me.

[@NateTheNoble]

These are the videos that are truly golden

[@RomWills]

Thank you brotha.

[@kofimitchell5167]

Women is god's gift! Men is god's son!!

[@x97s]

Facts

[@AndrewJohnson-bj3hp]

Goes for a lot of young black women in the UK too. We are a quite reserved country which makes bold behavior more noticeable. I'm kinda in that situation now. Its "bossy queen" at work. She talks, but keeps it short. And it seems she can't be in my presence for long. She's OK, but every time we talk there's a tension like she's on her guard. I am just not gonna talk much to her anymore. I could be wrong, but we cant be platonic friends. With her "Army commander" personality and my masculinity, Its either we are just acquaintances or hooking up for a fling.

[@RomWills]

The energies are clashing.

[@Alchemygem]

Yup thats the main reason i watch so many diff videos then I hide for a while cuz I had no father.. Idk what to do sometimes.. Thanks to youtube and google im just not learning shit I shoulda been knew

[@slugstevens6923]

burnt DNA don't feel bad G ...some of us who had a father present still don't know shit cuz the father didnt know shit. What Rom is speaking on has been goin on for decades.

[@RomWills]

Yeah this has been going on for awhile.

[@contrariantruths7020]

One of the things i started doing when i was younger and dating was to lay the foundation first. I would tell a woman, "You and may get along under certain conditions. But, if you think and try to manipulate and control me, you will lose, and i will CERTAINLY see to it that you will......" Having said that, it let me know whether they were gonna stay or go, and i was prepared for either

[@RomWills]

Seen.

[@tevinheath3997]

13:15...Economic crash what about a Pandemic lol, Uncle Rom foresaw the future! Look at the present it's happening right now in end of 2020 - early 2021. So salute to the brothers protecting and guiding us men!

[@mimia103]

I find this interesting. I was told by a black man that I'm too soft, they need me to be stronger. I'm educated, live a healthy lifestyle and have a good job, but I am definitely into a man who allows me to be a woman. When I date, I show a man my femininity, and all I ever hear them say is you need to be stronger. I just don't get, I want a man to lead me, not me leading him.

[@RomWills]

You need to leave those males, they are not men, alone. If a man can't handle a woman being soft that means they are not men.

[@richk320]

Evaluate the type of people you choose.

[@mimia103]

I do, hence the reason why I'm still single. But I hear this a lot from men with different backgrounds... Its just interesting

[@wizeguy26]

Too soft? Feminine women are a blessing after battling the world.

[@tonysmith8071]

Michelle Alfred he was raised by a single mother- maybe_ some guys from the hood- got a mindset they are not use to lady's acting like females

[@sagetscippio8878]

Damn good video, Rom. I'm in a current position that I'm being alienated from my children. They're 2k miles away with their grandmother that hates me. For no reason other than the facts she feels "i stole her daughter from her 11 years ago" by bringing her from Atlanta to California and starting a family with her. The mother is very narcissistic. She has no class. And she's very spiteful to me. Now she has my kids and won't allow me to speak to them. She (my wife's mother) is a widow who couldn't keep her own husband. Now she's trying to raise my 4 kids. My resources are limited due to the fact I had a couple brain surgeries and am an epileptic. I'm living on Social security insurance money. I can't afford to get a place right now in order to get them back to me. So she knows this and is using this as an advantage. She never had a relationship with my kids bow all of a sudden they are in her custody. After 10 years she never once came to VISIT her grandkids in California. Now she feels entitled to them. It's been almost a year since I last saw them and it's eating me up everyday. This woman is very weak. And cannot in any way raise my sons OR daughters. She did a horrible job at raising her own 2 daughters. My wife's the oldest and is used as the scapegoat. While her second (youngest daughter) is held on a pedestal. A lot of what you said in here registered with me. I'm going to marinate on this as I plan my next move!

[@RomWills]

Seek out Father's right's organizations.

[@sagetscippio8878]

Rom Wills been searching child alienating channels. Now I think it's time to take another step further, thanks, Rom... if you only knew the bs I've had to endure over my wife and her mother. Gonna check out the fathers right associations like u said, because this is becoming a heavy butter on my mind. So much that I take meds to cope with it now.

[@laquandrahouston8682]

Well Thank you sir @Rom Wills

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@anwardunbar3491]

Or the father didn't know what he was doing himself.

[@therealcoachross]

We need more Men speaking on masculinity! This is a very important topic for our society. Thank you Brotha Rom!

[@The_Equalizer23]

This vid deserves a 5 👍🏾 option to select. On Rom's vid he uploaded yesterday. I briefly commented about our dysfunctional cultural state. And why many cultures throughout history. Implemented arranged marriages and clear gender roles. The misinformed commenter stated that arranged marriages and clear gender roles were the reasons of our current dysfunctional state. I'd bet $$$ he/she is black. It's so simple to see and understand (Superior Men are well adjusted, well balanced men. Who live by codes, are disciplined, and are FAIR amongst other attributes.). BUT, common sense isn't common. And the herd mentality is STRONG... Running off a cliff smh!

[@RomWills]

Powerful comment as always.

[@Howhughes2013]

It is deep but it's natural. If you want to study human behavior and where we are going look at social animals behaviors. This was the issue with a woman I dated. To be honest I even started to wonder if she even liked being a woman, but that's something I am still struggling with to this day. I am all for women being ambitious, but let a man be a man. Hell even female lions are starting to do a lot of the work men usually do.

[@gerryg8572]

That’s why I’m in my sons life so I can teach him how to be a man

[@RomWills]

Salute! My primary thing out here is raising my sons.

[@waBlackout-wa]

Everywhere is a Matriarchy just done in different nuances way covert power. Or back door power.

[@waBlackout-wa]

Mans the head, the woman's a neck, a neck can turn a head.

[@sivart27886]

I like how broke down the spirituality of the sperm and the eggs. That's some deep shit. Especially the way you explained it; it makes sense. My father wasn't much in my life and I didn't have any older brothers or cousins to explain women nature or dating to me. That's the reason why I'm here. I wish I would of learned this stuff at a younger age; maybe I would have had my share of women and had some kids by now. I haven't had a chance to look at all your older videos, but I hope you continue to break down dating, male and female nature on a deep and spiritual way. I would like to see more videos like this or know where I can find more. Peace and spiritual blessings.

[@FlowPaigeRyan]

It’s to hard trying to be the mother and the father. There are fundamental things that children need from a man and from a woman. While I know that some of us single mom don’t have a stable support system, I’m so glad that I do to help pick up where I fall short. Especially strong male figures in their lives

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@thespadestable]

@paige ryan - But there lays the problem, you are trying to be something that you'll never be, and that's a father. If you was to talk to as many single fathers as you could, you'll never hear them say they are trying to play dual roles, because they've never been a woman. Women have a hard time understanding male behavior, let alone successfully emulate them.

[@FlowPaigeRyan]

Jack Spade I don’t think I’ve tried to be a “father” per say.. however I have tried to make up for the inconsistency in their fathers behavior.. taking all the blame for his absence... making up excuses as to why he’s not around more. Trying to console me daughter when she asked about him without anger or crying because my heart is breaking. Trying to figure out what it is that she and my son need specifically from him. but I do understand I’m not a man. I don’t understand how a man thinks. I’m a daddies girl with children and that’s the only perception I have personal experience in. And my father has always and still is prevalent in our lives. I completely fall short because I’m not a man or a father. What I can say is I’m not sure all single moms are trying to be a man .. it’s that’s everything falls on mother. There’s no tag team effort. Everything is left for the mom to deal with. But fortunately for me, I have strong males in my life, that help and intercede with my son a daughter.

[@thespadestable]

@paige ryan _ I don't recall saying "all" in my response. There is only one "all" when it comes to humanity and that is: Everyone who achieves live birth, will eventually die. Be it a few seconds after achieving live birth all the way up to 100+ years after live birth. After that everything else is debatable.

[@thespadestable]

@Godfrey C - paige ryan's comments are typical of most women. They -want- demand the ability to practice autonomy. They demand to be the shot callers of everything, but when things don't pan out the way they want, then they demand others to come in and fix things. What we never get on these social media panels it the whole story, notably the father's side of the situation. It's always, "I'm a woman/mother, and I was a victim". Even when these women are 100% at fault, before they've finished telling their story, it's left open that even though it was 100% their fault, not all of it should rest on their shoulders. But then these are the same ones who complain that there are too many sorry ass Black men walking around, when it was a Black mother who indoctrinated them to think and carry themselves in a manner which emulates that of women. So are they admitting that they as women are screwed up themselves?

[@RobsterCWell]

You should check out the "Stay in your Lane Insurance" video on KZbin. Funny but also true.

[@RomWills]

That was a funny one.

[@netheruekis88]

Dope Man U on that real masculine shit salute...would you do a video on masculinity and femininity it seems a lot of people are lost

[@RomWills]

I can do another one.

[@netheruekis88]

Rom Wills didn’t know u had one u got so many vids mybad

[@loverboyjmac]

My God Rom you hit the nail on the head with this one. Women want to try to run everything in the house and to control everything in the house too

[@RomWills]

Some do.

[@laquandrahouston8682]

The irony is when a man chooses to be a punk instead of a man. A man should know how to put his woman in check meaning tell her I won’t tolerate the bs.. she can’t take his masculinity from him and I say this in the most respectful way, yes he can check his woman without putting hid hands on her or degrading her as a bitch whore etc. I can write a book right now but if he allows w her to talk to him like ..”she’s the man” he didn’t have the position in the first place it’s his insecurity A real woman will know and accept him and treat him exactly how he allows there’s no power struggle You stop playing your role No one wins but I will move the hell on. There is nothing wrong with being a stronger minded individual who will not continue to allow a husband to be what he’s better at because of the way he was raised, it’s just disrespectful bitterness Yes men become bitter jealous and have grown up in a household where the woman mother wife allowed her man if his father to be a no good SOB. I’m not trying to be controlled but I only will be with a man who is a man. If a man wants to show he can be a bigger bitch he’s weak and I don’t want any parts of it. Sorry you gave up and fighting for your manhood is going to Go beyond our home our relationship your manhood will continue to be tested but don’t call your high maintenance controlling want to be as you say a man ...wife who you have placed in that position. I love the femininity vs feminist movement 💄🧜🏾‍♀️

[@RomWills]

Well said.

[@rudeboiidondada6717]

Dead on Ank, instead of embracing masculinity as they're designed to do.. they're now threatened by, therefore they challenge it.

[@RomWills]

Exactly.

[@supremevision631]

Real talk

[@PresterMike]

Discovered you today og thank you for the knowledge! Subscribed

[@RomWills]

Welcome aboard fam.

[@KXGWeekly]

This video need to resurface

[@fredwashington5721]

Mr. Wills. I've been thinkin the same exact thing yo. Like we're not supposed to stand up to them. But point out all our stuff.

[@RomWills]

Exactly.

[@fredwashington5721]

And, when they have no questions, they have nothing to say. What's your thoughts on that?

[@OutcastAkaParia]

Damn unc you just broke my whole life down. I’m happy I found you because you definitely helped me on journey. 💪🏾

[@romellogene1734]

Rom, do you thinks this applies to all women are just African American women's?

[@RomWills]

Sistas are just up front about it. It's global though.

[@BurninVinyl]

You know Uncle Rom, I asked few guys in their early 20s ok about chicks. They all go crazy about doing one night stand cause doing "longer stuff" is too much work. What do you think about it?

[@RomWills]

They'll learn.

[@LV81991]

Truth sir.

[@Lonersquare]

Very Interesting Video Regarding Masculinity, Brother Wills. It is really tragic that most Women today fail to realize that the Lack Of Femininity, Mutual Consideration, & Discipline is what actually turn off their Ideal Types Of Men, and ultimately drives them away. The Part About Fatherhood hits hard, too. 💯💯💯💯

[@RomWills]

Good observations.

[@kingleo393]

Black women stay trying to shape me into the idea man this why I don’t date or deal with them every other race of women don’t do that when I date them go figure 🤦🏽‍♂️ I had to cut my own mama off cause she tried to shape me into the idea man smh

[@dtharlem5801]

That's in the scriptures

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@papabatsy]

My heart goes out to the black community

[@tedsmith878]

Daddy issues ....

[@tiocrawford8489]

Mr. Rom you said a mouth full of truth.

[@pacthesharwell3598]

Wow, my father the my mentor my everthing. Who payed his child support in one lump sum. Thes was the in 1982, have difficulties seeing my sister and i...

[@seraphinasb988]

Glad somebody talked about it!

[@DOGONSTARFilms]

Real talk! Powerful message brother. Give thanks!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@BD-gd9fe]

This video has aged so well

[@MsJoyce31202]

Some are too strict. A man and wife can be too strict..I understand why because you need boundaries for your children. But that has to END. At some point you need to let go.. Don't be so clingy, parents that you can't let go. Now in the case of women who can't let go, that's the risk you play for giving the wrong person your heart. Men and women give their heart too wrong people and then get left.. No one seems to know how to meet the right people. And no one seems to know how to break up. They also play both ends against the middle with these multiple relationships. People are just fooling around. Their language proves it. (I fucked with this one....). Why these terms unless you are just living your life in the moment. Quite a few men and women do this. Its not okay either for neither one of them.

[@sondramyles1120]

Thanks for sharing.

[@msqueenlyminded7579]

I agree

[@gorjusgorillawitz2459]

glad you followed up with...NICE FLOW...fellas gotta know...its funny this could be on all your sites...this covers the whole spectrum in one swing...fellas...MEN...a man(by your ways and actions... not your mouth).....actually dictates(YOUR money..YOUR sex...YOUR culture....as ROM said stabilizes...MY GOODNESS...WHATTUP ROM....cant say PREACH because if these actually stop and listen they will see that MUTHAFUCKIN SPARK your speakin on..inside... WHATTUP ROM....again as you stated "EVERYTHING IS CONNECTED".....WHATTTUP ROM....ANOTHER DOPE ASS VIDEO....

[@RomWills]

That's fam.

[@chadyenko]

This is a really good video, great thoughts. But how to counteract these things, and maintain and grow in spite of it.

[@RomWills]

Check out my general archives.

[@Josco31]

Preach!

[@darrenhawkins9040]

What's up Big Rom, I don't get it how can a female in her right mind even won't to exchanging position but I figured it out I notice a lot of guys just to keep the female he want he'll backup and let her gain authority over him and a lot of it start at home my father didn't mess around and it rub off on me my mother called me daddy because I act like an old man when I was a youngster so that's why female's can't approve my behavior because she's use to bullshit and I want Let it fly if my mother allowed my father to be who he was what's wrong with these female's today.

[@RomWills]

Good points.

[@globalnomad1221]

thank you for standing up in truth

[@RomWills]

I had to.

[@tstyles9690]

Interesting Topic. Mu male co worker's Wife is a Fitness Trainer, she's Toned and looks Masculine. He's not as Masculine as most Men. Until him I never met a Man that loves Masculine Women. What do you make of this Union brother Rom?

[@RomWills]

It's about the polarity. One person needs to have more masculine energy while the other needs to be more feminine. Has nothing to do with biological gender.

[@captainmartin1219]

Love your videos bro,but can you turn up the sound a little bit. Maybe my hearing is bad or something because I had to use a speaker to hear you

[@RomWills]

I'll play around with the phone mic.

[@MrRiyen2010]

Excellent content brother. Pure knowledge

[@BenjiiJackson]

this 1000

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@terrycollinsify]

FACTS Rom 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

[@lughlamhfada3708]

Very well done, thank you

[@thatguyfromthe6eh649]

Excellent Video Brother Rom💯✊

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@dkid1495]

Shouts out for these facts

[@j.rmeadows1689]

Real talk

[@goldb25]

Preachin!

[@Kyofitnesscoaching]

Great video uncle as always!

[@RomWills]

Thanks nephew.

[@taronbrown8389]

TRUE

[@90syungin51]

16:46 Uncle Rom went back to that OG OG🔥

[@megatron5047]

Uncle Rom.your the best.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@RamellMedia]

👍

[@Regularly_irregular13]

🎯

[@esotericsunshine6602]

11:01💗