I Left My Husband & Kids For a week | DIY self care for women + Dealing with grief ...

[@jennydimman]

I love that you and Brandon have a healthy relationship with good communication🥰 When my mum died, I started writing letters, that I later burned so the smoke would “go to her”, I don’t know. It felt like a way to process it, and I think it helped me💜 All the love to you, and your family💜

[@controlmonkeys]

We all definitely process grief differently. When my grandma passed my friend picked me up and dyed my hair and just did anything and everything to keep my mind off it. I'm glad you went ahead and kept blogging. I love you so much and I'm so very sorry for what you and your family is going through. All my love and thoughts and prayers are going out to you all. And of course I'm here for you loves!!!!!!

[@jaxborton]

We all process and grieve differently. Heck we process and grieve each event differently than we did the time before. Prayers, positive vibes sent your way. My heart goes out to you and your family. 💜

[@ashhoneey]

I love that! Maintaining a healthy bond with your kids, husband and yourself gets pretty overwhelming. 😴 I’m showing my boyfriend this video so we could try it out! Thanks for idea babygirl 💗💗😊

[@kimglover6111]

I LOVE that you guys are comfortable enough with each other to do the break thing. I think it's super super helpful for your relationship and your well being. I'm home ALL day EVERY day with 2 kids and sometimes my mans if he's laid off. And it gets STUFFY. Sometimes we do it just in different parts of the house if we can't actually get out.and it doesn't mean we dont love each other..it's exactly what you said...I also NEED to recharge..alone..bc sometimes you get lost in taking care of kids or your job and don't want that to define who you are inside. Great video 😍❤️ Also..so sorry to see about your uncle 😢

[@eznanabelmama]

Grief is like a too large ball inside a too small box. Over time the box gets bigger, but the ball stays the same. I understand that this may sound empty now but I know from losing many people, including my dad, that time is the best for healing grief. Feel your feelings as they come. Make time and space for them. It will never go away, but it will get easier to carry that ball inside its box. Much Love, Goddess. ❤

[@theradpineapple5896]

Thank you for being more vulnerable and open with us. Everything you said about your uncle and dad is exactly how I felt watching my mom fight cancer and lose last year. I will tell you it gets easier but it’ll always sit with you. Grief is hard just surround yourself with positivity. Love and light to your family and you ❤

[@meganfranklin7348]

Sending you and your family much love. Grief is such a weird thing and losing someone is so hard. Ty for sharing with us. 🖤🖤

[@missspiderbaby]

I know how you feel girl. My Uncle/Godfather and my Grandpa on my Dad's side both passed away within a month of each other. While it did hit me pretty good it really bothered me because these two men were my Dad's best friends. He did everything with them. After they passed my Dad told me it wasn't until they were gone that he realized how few close friends he really had. Hearing how lost my Dad felt made it so much worse on me. I worried so much about my Dad's mental health. My Dad was never a very emotional guy until I saw him grieving the loss of these two men from his life. I also wanted to tell you I absolutely love this break idea. I am going to talk to my husband about doing this. I think it would be a major recharge for myself. Thank you for sharing all this and sending you much love. 💖

[@mariaagloriaa]

I appreciate this comment so much, thank you so much Shannon 🖤

[@oliviareitmann]

I greatly admire your relationship with Brandon and how open you are with each other. Thank you for sharing (even though you didn’t need to), I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope you and your family all recover soon and know your uncle is in a better place.

[@CaityCat05]

I lost my Dad earlier this year-grief is so weird and no one processes it the same so just do you and how you do! There are days I am fine, and days I absolutely fall apart. I’ve lost people I love before, but this is the first time it was one of my parents. You have to feel it and go through it: there’s no avoiding it. Sending you hugs.

[@missescole]

You deserved every bit of relaxation. I appreciate the realness. Stay strong, thank you mama

[@IrbyOCD]

Thank you for sharing. We all go through tough times that we just need a little special someone to talk to, talk therapy is so beneficial to positive mental health. I’m glad you consider us that person. Being with your kids is the best thing because of their pure innocence and Brandon because he gets you. I hope your uncle finds the peace he deserves and your father and brother’s lean on each other for the support to get them through this. Prayers

[@alyciasummers6762]

As someone who has had to live with grief from a very young age, I understand what you mean by the one who is dying is at peace, but it’s the ones that are left behind that are left in shambles. It’s been almost 20 years since I heard my moms voice or saw her and I live with that everyday. However, just like you said I am grateful that she brought me into this world and raised me the best she could for 8 years and today all I can do is be grateful that she was ever here in the first place, so that I could live my best life, even if it was without her! MG you are strong and so loving, and I’m so sorry this is happening to your family, but thank you for being so honest and opening up about it! Love you BBG and just keep your head up and smiling because you deserve every bit of happiness and love! 💕💜🥰

[@loverofsleep]

I love the idea of a quarterly recharge. As someone who needs to recharge alone it sounds perfect. Thank you for being so open and honest with us. I am sending prayers, good vibes and love to you and your family during this difficult time. And I so very much appreciate you making such an effort to be more vulnerable with us🖤

[@itsrainilaila]

Maria, you are like my big sister and seeing you in this state, being vulnerable, truly shows how strong you are. I am so sorry that all of this is happening. We send you love 💜💜💜

[@jenniferjones6559]

Having just lost my momma, I felt everything you were holding/expressing about your uncle and your dad. Much love to you and your family

[@sabrinakay4100]

I’m so sorry about your mom 😢 I also recently lost my mom, little sister and grandma. I hope you’re doing okay

[@amandab6472]

Sending love & support to you and your family. Grief is a very difficult thing to process. Thank you for sharing this personal, emotional video with all of us. I love that you were strong enough to share this. I hope you and your family start to heal from your grief soon.

[@mariaagloriaa]

Thank you bbg 🥰🫶🏽

[@crystallake3924]

I was the same way when my uncle passed. We weren't very close, but seeing my grandma (his mom), his kids (my cousins), my mom, my aunts, my other uncle, his best friend etc all break down is what REALLY got to me. Seeing my family hurt like that is what hurt me the most. Sending you all the love, mama

[@annemariemcfarland392]

Brandon and your's relationship is so beautiful! I'm so sorry, praying for you and your family. Thank you for sharing such a personal situation. You are amazing, being so vulnerable and sharing with your community show such strength and trust thank you.

[@aabisbee23]

I really appreciate this video I recently lost my uncle suddenly so I can relate to this. It’s hard to see your parents in pain but at least they have us. Thank you so much for opening up and being vulnerable helps me feel a little less alone.

[@rheawinter5614]

I literally just did this last weekend, I had an at home spa night and it was ammmaaaazzzzziiiiinnnnnggggg! We are here for you girl🖤❤️🖤

[@RebeccaCoup86]

Sweet baby girl I am so sorry! I’m glad you did not trash the vlog. Thank you for sharing your beautiful life with us. I lost my mom when my daughter was 3 months old, and it been 7.5 years and I still have not fully recovered. I feel your pain… just know you do have a lot of people who care ♥️ on another note I love this idea. All mom and dads should have a break… I wanna try this… also Brandon our Baby G. Needs a do over 😊. Thank you for always being you!!!!

[@AbstractlyMe83]

There’s a hotel by me that has jacuzzi rooms, and when I had the money, I’d go there and just spend the night. I left work once because it was a horrible day, one customer yelling at me after another, so I left work, went to the hotel, turned the air conditioner up ALL the way, and sat in that jacuzzi to decompress. This is so healthy to get away and take care of yourself, and we stan

[@gracecaruso4280]

I get the part about not being close but it just hitting hard anyway. When my grandma passed away I was upset because she had been having a lot of health issues for a while, and I was more in shock than grief, when i got to the hospital my Dad was already there (It was his mum) and I walked in and when I heard him crying it completely broke me. I'm sorry for your loss and I hope the grieving process is as smooth as possible for your family and yourself. Love you MG and thankyou for just being you 🤍🤎❤

[@loristewart9630]

U did a great job with this & good for u for keeping up with ur goal of being more vulnerable. This is why people love u & look up to u so much!

[@tracyison2289]

Thank you for sharing this!! Everyone needs a “time out” 🖤🖤

[@rachaellaine91]

Thinking of you and your family. Everyone grieves in different ways and at different times. Give yourself grace and time to process. Glad you are taking time for yourself to do a little self care also while keeping your family close in your thoughts. 💕

[@stephaniechilton5785]

It was nice to see this side of you. We all grieve differently. With so much going on in the world today, it seems like it's never ending. One of the hardest things for me was seeing a man that through my whole life had been a pilar of strength my whole life was devastating. My condolences your family, and my heart goes out to you. Also, it's amazing to see an example of a healthy relationship....Congrats on the wedding!

[@bethwigal6412]

I think it is great you are putting yourself out there.... since you are our big sister - your lil sisters need to see that it is ok to feel this way. Thank you sis

[@captain_k2500]

1) when your hotel room is nicer than where i live, and i LOVE that wallpaper 20 I'm sorry for what your going through with your uncle. it sucks that it happened at all, let alone during your break. just know that you are a strong woman and you can get through this, whatever happens. sending lots of love and virtual hugs to you and your family ❤.

[@taylorearmstrong787]

Thank you for sharing some of your life with us, the good and the bad, I’m praying for healing for your family. Thank you truly for all you do. Stay strong Love ❤️

[@TxAggieJen]

Thank you for sharing that vulnerable side of yourself. It's nice to see the real side of KZbin artists and not just their polished material. Helps to show you are human, just like the rest of us, and keep it real. 💕

[@stelladoestrix4960]

I actually really love the idea of having a break from each other every couple of months. My partner and I dont have kids, but we both work a lot, and have a lot going on, and some times it can be overwhelming and we just need space. Particularly myself - I am neurodivergent, and introverted and having a lot of alone time to recharge is important to me to be able to be a human.

[@jennifergann3286]

Love the openness and vulnerability you show. Thank you for including us in your journey.

[@bunnieHTD]

Just keep your head up, Gloria, and remember whatever happens next happens for a reason. Saying prayers for you and your family.

[@6buglove]

thank you for always being real… we love you

[@Nicolee1973]

I think you guys taking time for yourselves is so healthy. I am so sorry for what you and your family are going through right now. ❤️

[@kimberlylozano511]

I have been watching your videos from day one. How I came about watching you is Brandon always mentioned you on his channel and he would tell us about your new channel. I’m a bit older(52 female) but I love your content. I laugh with you and really take your recommendations to heart. That being said, I am very sorry for all that is going with you and your family. Just know, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you so very much for sharing. It’s nice to know that we all experience the same things in life. You’re amazing and again, thank you for sharing. I hope you and your family are dealing with everything as best as you can. Much love from Houston, TX. Hang in there. You are loved more than you know.

[@tinamejia-menah8253]

I am so SOOOOO sorry for your loss baby girl. Sending you prayers for you and your family 🤍

[@Onrysquaw]

My thougts are with you. So sorry you are having to grieve. Take your time and Thank you for being real and sharing this journey with all of us❣

[@morriganliban]

my thoughts, prayers and love going out to you and your family. Wrapping you in so much love and warmth.

[@heatherjo1485]

My uncle recently passed on Father’s Day, my aunt thought he was napping and went to wake him and he was gone. Do to family drama I hadn’t seen him in awhile and for that it breaks my heart, but knowing he’s home and with his family again helps. Sending my love and prayers to you and your family ❤️

[@mahaylamonk1685]

i really admire you both for loving each other enough and being mature enough to give each other the breaks you both need and deserve. i honestly feel like doing this should be considered self care. it’s not selfish and it’s not wrong. like at all. it would be selfish and wrong to do the fucking opposite. could you even imagine NOT giving your partner time for themselves or discouraging them from doing self care? i could never. if more people understood this, i feel like relationships in general would be much happier and healthier. props to you both. like seriously. i love you guys! keep up the good work. THIS is the kind of content we need. ❤️

[@tasha4052]

Sending you & your family lots of love & hugs!! 🖤🖤 Side note: it was so cute to hear you say you were ready to be with your kids & your "husband", knowing yall are actually married now!! I loved it! 🖤💜

[@beachplease9359]

Loved your openness and honesty in this videos. Prayers for you and your family 🖤

[@jenniferstrole3601]

Sending you and your family hugs and prayers. I'm so sorry for your loss. You don't owe us an explanation. Take care of your dad and your family, because we will be here for you when you process everything ❤️

[@Juliana-hn3bo]

I felt this way when my great grandpa died, I hardly ever saw him and the last time I saw him was years and years ago when I was a little kid, but the idea of him just being gone was what got to me, we all grieve in different ways, and all of them are valid. ❤️

[@impressiveamountsofchaos4605]

Big virtual hugs being sent from Indiana. I lost a very close cousin shortly before covid shutdowns and I went to the funeral alone instead of taking my husband. When I got home, my husband saw how much it wrecked me and told me that he should have been there and that I wouldn't be going to these alone anymore. Thank you for sharing your life with us.

[@lillady2904]

In my opinion.. this is such a healthy alternative! Space .. recharge .. rest…it’s necessary.. and I’m so sorry about your uncle 💜

[@mongee4491]

I’m sorry about your uncle. Everyone copes & deals with grief differently 😔 remember using my Tia which I wasn’t sure close to her but she was family. It was so difficult especially seeing how much it impacted the rest of my family. Sending you & your loved ones a lot of love.

[@barbihowell2075]

Things happen for a reason and you have to be there for your Daddy. It’s coming up to a year my mom died and I believe she went the way she wanted and her last wish was granted. I have regrets because I was not there In her last days but I think that is what she was planning all along. I was her caregiver and even though it was tough on me it was tougher on her and it was her way of giving me that break. I just had to make sure all her wishes were carried out. Thoughts and Prayers for your family at this time. Be strong for your daddy. Thank you for being open, honest and for sharing such a personal matter..May God bless and comfort your Uncle and your family. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@annienorris939]

Sending you and your family love and peace. It takes a lot to open up...so proud

[@AbstractlyMe83]

I’m so sorry about your uncle, and I’m sending good vibes to you and your family 💜 we went through that with my one uncle, and he was very at peace with death, but seeing my dad lose his younger brother, and now he’s the baby of the family, it hurts. I wasn’t really close to my uncle either because of some family drama, but in the end, we all made peace. I’m sorry you and your family are going through it, and I hope you all can lean on one another in this difficult time 💜

[@Kiara-yn6hh]

Maria, Unfortunately I know how you feel. Last October my Tio died…he was my Papi’s only brother and best friend. I was in another state and didn’t get to say goodbye. I was close to him so that is the difference between our relationships. He was another dad to me and I miss him so much. I was driving home from work when I got the call and I had to pull over from the shock and grief that overcame me. I drove home (6 hours) the day after and it was a sight to see my Papi who never shows his hurt, cry. To this day it makes me sad knowing he’s drinking his cervezas or watching a soccer game without my tio. I love your videos and appreciate you being so honest with us. Thank you! God bless ❤

[@jamielee2490]

I wish I could give you the biggest hug… I think we all needed this video. I’m 32 and Next week I am traveling for work and I’ve never been alone for more than 48 hours before. I will be gone for 5 days and now I’m looking so forward to some self care. I’m sorry your family is going through this🖤🖤

[@staceyslife132]

So sorry to hear about your uncle Maria , even if you weren’t super close , it’s never easy losing a family member or watching your family go through it.

[@emilyd8959]

I was very similar to this when my uncle passed. He was a heavy alcoholic and he had a very bad heart. And the day after his birthday we found out he passed. He drank so much he had a heart attack and passed. It affected my family pretty hard. Seeing my dad, his other brother, my grandma, grandpa, his sister, and all my cousins it hurt so much. Like I completely agree with you, death is weird. One day your out having fun then the next you are just lying there, cold, and never moving again. Death is such a weird concept. And even sometimes I still feel like my uncle is going to come home and just start one of his drunk fights again. The last time I saw him is when he has a drunk fight with his sister and my dad and it got so bad he had to move away and went to go live on top of the bar he was working at. His boss was the one that found him dead. So I completely understand what you are going through. Sending much love to your family. And please don’t feel pressured to post or film if you truly aren’t feeling well enough. We all understand. Grief takes awhile, don’t try and rush it. Maria you are literally like my internet big sister, whenever I’m feeling insecure I watch your videos and they help so much. And seeing you like this just shows how strong you really am. Sending hugs and love to you and your family.💜💜💜

[@Carlee_eliz]

SLAAYYYYY BESTIE 🤪🤪😏😏

[@Carlee_eliz]

I’m sorry…. 😑

[@tammyrussell9514]

Oh Baby Girl, I am praying for you and your family. I love you so very much and just take things day by day. God is in control. I know how you feel worrying about your family. When my husband passed in April and they were still doing CPR in him I knew he was already with Jesus. I got on my knees and prayed so hard for my kids, my grandkids, my mother in law and his sister and her son, because I was more worried about their pain than mine. Honey, between you Brandon, your babies, and your loved ones cherish every moment because you never know when your life will change forever. Love with all of your heart, soul, and mind. I hope healing from this will grow you even more I've watched you grow so much in the past few years. Do not allow this to be a stumbling block for you but use it as a blessing that God is giving you growth, strength, and empathy for all of those around you. All my love to you, Brandon, your kiddos and family.

[@danabuscher2090]

Sending a prayer up for your Uncle and all the Family, it's a rough time BBG, give your self some Grace, Patience, Love and hold those babies close and the Hubby. Your lifeline Always. Sending all my love💜🖤💛🤍🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@briannadelgado713]

Sending you love and prayers. Granting you and your family peace. I lost my uncle a couple weeks ago and it hit me harder than I thought. Death is kinda scary or more like hard to comprehend. It's just hard to process but we love you and hope you are doing better.

[@juliechildress8905]

Sending you and your family positive vibes. Losing a loved one isn't easy but a part of the cycle of life.

[@crashmusketeer306]

Life is what happens when we make other plans. Sending all the love to you and your family.

[@lesleymartinez]

Sending you love to you and your family. Let yourself grieve. Thank you for sharing these moments. ❤️

[@jenmurtaugh2004]

I am so sorry - I know you probably have heard this so many times - your viewers are here for you - no matter what♥️

[@mandamakes.c]

Thank you. I know it was your resolution to be more open and vulnerable, but you are allowed to keep things private. So thank you for sharing that vulnerable time with us. I am sorry that you all had to go through that 💛💕

[@AllTheButtons87]

I don't blame you for not wanting to be alone when losing someone 💕

[@samanthawheeler4190]

I think everyone should normalize taking breaks to focus on themselves. Self care is so important, and it doesn't mean you're a bad mom/dad, bad friend, or bad spouse.. It means that you are HUMAN! 🖤🖤

[@sierra_lynn88]

Much love to you and your family right now. I know that kind of grief all too well. I'm so sorry you have to deal with it. I love how vulnerable you are with us I'm sure it was not easy. I also love this idea of a break to recharge, definitely wish I could do this lol

[@summerholt112]

Thoughts and love sent your way for you and your family. It’s been a very long time since I’ve lost anyone and I can’t say I’ve lost anyone I was close to, at least to death. I hope everyone can celebrate the life of your uncle and heal as he is transitioning through this time 💛

[@Faith44710]

You guys are so amazing,I love your family!💗

[@see6797]

Prayers for you and your family. I often think about something happening to my mom and how every year I get older is another year she gets older. I know it’s a life lesson but it’s one of the most hardest lesson.

[@AccountNoLongerExists111]

I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your journey.

[@mackenzienoke8765]

I hope everything goes well in your grieving process and whatever makes you feel okay Is okay. My heart goes out to y'all. God bless❤️ hope it gets easier girly.

[@ashleygrotenhuis8140]

Sending lots of love, thoughts, and prayers to your family. Thank you for sharing with us ❤❤❤

[@RandiLeighSkinner]

It was awesome to have a more personal experience with you! Sending so much love to your family

[@moniecmac]

Thank you for sharing this time with us. We appreciate you so much. Many blessings on you and your family 💝

[@ohellzbellz4745]

Thank you for sharing, it’s not easy to experience these things but I think it’s important that have visibility of these things so it’s maybe not as alien (if possible) when we have to go through them. Also thanks for showing it’s important to take time for self care not as a special treat but as past of the standard routine xx

[@irenemorales672]

I lost my stepdad 6 months ago & handled everything for my mom. While doing this, I fell & broke my ankle. Since then, I have spurts of anxiety. I know I need a break!! Good for you to get this time🧡 condolences to you and your family

[@gabca4135]

I do this every 3 months as well. It’s always around the time I start to feel overwhelmed with life and just need to detach!

[@babet504]

MG I will be keeping you and your family in my prayers. I love you BBG

[@amberspade15]

thinking of you💗 prayers for you and your family💗

[@GoldenFox18]

Sending much warmth and hugs in this difficult time. ❤️

[@mistybeasley8122]

Bless your heart sweetie... Prayers for you and your family 🙏🙏🙏

[@caitycameron]

I’ve never watched someone’s health diminish until my grandma passed away last year. She was very tired and didn’t have a lot of energy to see my kids. It was heart breaking I don’t cry either but while my parents watched my babies I would go up and sit with her and try my hardest not to cry. She was my best friend I called her every day and her cancer diagnosis was so sudden. She was perfectly healthy and then had some stomach pain I was in Indiana and she was in Washington state. Got the call from my mom that she was in the hospital with stage 4 pancreatic cancer that had metastasized and she had the option of chemo but it would be very aggressive. She ended up passing I think 2 weeks later. By the very end I wasn’t allowed to see her anymore because my family was trying to protect me still even at 25 and it to this day is one of the hardest things I’ve gone through. Second only to my baby who was younger than 1 getting food and being unresponsive from high fever for 2 days. (He’s good now) my heart goes out to you and your family

[@vickiekhuzeykin3487]

Sending prayers and love to you and your family hun. Hugs to you.🖤💜🖤💛🤍

[@janesundstrom2035]

So sorry for your loss ❤

[@victoriamichelle1986]

Praying for you and your family. Take care of yourself! 💗🙏

[@mongee4491]

Love this video & I’m not a mom but definitely would take this advice on taking a break ever so often.

[@RoRoScriv]

I'm sorry 😞 for your pain. Prayers to you and your family for peace.

[@ThePocahontas]

Yes! Self care is very important! 🙏💜

[@tracyscott1629]

Im so sorry for what you're going through...be thankful that you are able to be there to see him and be there for your family. My bio dad passed last October. He was in Arkansas and I am in Va, and his best friends were in charge of his care and would not let me contact or see him bcuz they're greedy. Stay as strong as you are now, your dad & brothers are lucky to have you💜

[@danicatyrer7673]

Thank you for sharing this and being vulnerable and real with us ❤️❤️❤️

[@LaGrenouille09]

So many prayers for comfort for you and your family. As you said, death and grief are weird. Everyone handled it differently, and that’s okay. While we all appreciate your honesty and vulnerability, I hope you didn’t feel obligated or pressured to open up to your fans. We love you, we love Brandon, but I hope you both know that we love and appreciate you no matter what ❤️

[@violetmisener8135]

Sending so much love your way baby girl. Sorry to hear your family is going through this

[@iamthewalrus794]

You and your family are in my thoughts 💜sending you all so much love from Maryland

[@dylan021210]

You do want is best for you and your family. So sorry for you what your family is going through🙏. Now about the rice water mask, all I could think about was horchata.

[@jojogreen_mua]

Ur an incredible amazing person hun. Just wanted to let u know that 💕 love ur videos please know I send u both prayers ur way 💋

[@serenideehope]

I completely relate to the grieving thing. Yesterday was my sister's birthday. She would have been 32. I lost her almost 3 yrs ago from an overdose. It hit me so hard. It hit my dad hard too. I wish I could have been with him but he lives in California and I live in Washington. Anyways, all this to say, take as many breaks and love on yourself as much as you need. I'm sending love and prayers to you and your family. ❤

[@bethatkins8029]

from me and mine to you and yours our prayers are with you and yours..... love you bunches!