WORKSHOP: The key to *actually* sewing your own clothes (how to plan & build a hand-sewn wardrobe)

[@theodorec1882]

Tried to think back to the earliest aesthetic I can remember being obsessed with and realized it was "wizard". Realized I never really stopped wanting to dress like a wizard. Am now off to assess the feasibility of building a wizard wardrobe

[@ljshaw8516]

I was nearly 6' at age 12 - making my own clothes was a complete necessity for me not wearing "high waters" for the rest of my life or shirts that were long sleeved for most but way too short for me. Sewing saved my life and at 60 I am still stitchin' and completely embellishing with creativeness. Hand sewing is a huge addiction and I say I am a "slave to the needle". It very relaxing, and the smallest details make my heart happy!

[@ollieollie1340]

Ahhhh go youu!!!! 😊 Thank you for the story

[@jeannievazquez5479]

Thank you for the inspiring video. I have a tub full of clothes I need to hemm, repair, size down, and / or repurpose. It's time I get to it! Your video was very thorough 😊

[@kobaltkween]

I'd add a bit on step 2. Make sure you choose styles you think look good on your body, rather than ones that look good on others you think look beautiful, or worse, the body you think you should have. I _adore_ simple draped clothes. But I am a short, heavy woman with a large chest, a short waist (as one person put it, I'm mostly leg), and lots of hip and butt. I had a seriously hourglass shape at my utmost fit, and am now more of a figure 8. To me, loosely draped clothes like that make me look awful. There are lots of decorations and such on tops I find beautiful on others that I think look ridiculous with my chest and broad shoulders. I'm also a black woman, with olive undertones to my skin. There's a whole lot of colors I love that just don't flatter my complexion. If you've lived your life mostly looking at images of beauty that exclude your body type, your skin tone, your facial features, etc., you probably have a lot of style elements you absolutely love that simply won't look the way you want on you. Try to either adjust them to fit you better or just let them go. If you haven't been lucky enough to live through an era where one of the current styles fit your body type, look at other eras. Finding your style might require letting go of some ideas and being open to new ones. Try to avoid putting all your time, effort, and energy into making something that ends up making you feel frumpy or unattractive. Oh, and start by focusing on the silhouettes you want. That should help a lot.

[@ericathefae]

This is so important!

[@nomadine85]

Yes! All. Of. This. I've been trying to combine my taste, my practical needs, my creative needs, and my short curvy self. I think the biggest takeaway from this video for me was the Duh moment I had when she divided up her different styles into rough seasonal wear.

[@michelecraig9658]

As I move into my sixties and my shape and coloring of hair and skin are changing, I know what you mean. I love those frilly, flounce things on Pinterest, but find myself mostly wearing simpler clothes. How to define what works versus the fantasy seems to be a lifelong journey. Older women are also not represented much, though it is better than it used to be.

[@taylorlouise3254]

Oh my goodness so relatable! There are so many inspirational images I have tried to emulate and ended up looking like garbage! Here's hoping for more designers, magazines, and marketing images that showcase the magnificent diversity of us all x

[@lindahyatt3935]

Well now, that's a great KZbin channel just waiting for you. This is great information, applies to most of us, and I'm totally lost in this department. One video on complexion, one on this body type (good and bad looks), one on that body type ... the list could go on. You should get busy, kobaltween!

[@habituscraeft]

I have made a tradition of returning to this video periodically, whenever I need to refine my aims and refocus my efforts. This is now my third time working through this process, and every time, I learn so much. The throughlines between each exercise are every bit as informative as the many new understandings I reach.

[@GhostCharacter]

My version of this rule: Always be learning, and when you learn to make a category of clothing, you're no longer allowed to buy that. I stopped buying dresses and skirts years ago, then stopped buying tailored shorts and trousers, then jeans. This past year I stopped buying lingerie!

[@patriciadoherty464]

Great idea!

[@AstraeaAntiope]

I like this approach. This might be the summer I stop buying skirts.

[@noemiemurciano1307]

Oh, that's such a great idea! I think I'll try to adopt the same mindset!

[@aliceb6248]

I work in a T-shirt shop as a designer and printer, so my daily wear consists of t-shirts, jeans, and comfy shoes. I don't get to wear want I want very often. I would LOOOOVE to live out my vintage-librarian-history-bounding dream, but it's not practical for every day. So a few weeks ago I decided to funnel my sewing efforts into learning how to make fun (but practical) pants I will hopefully be able to wear to work. High waisted, flare leg jeans and hardy trousers. I just made my first wearable mock up. The front fly is a bit wonky, but it's the best thing I have ever made for myself and I was so proud! Like, I *made* that! With my hands! 😲 Amazing! And for the first time I felt like making my own wardrobe was a tangible possibility.

[@JosieStev]

Could you wear a Me-made vintage apron at work? I made a few for me to wear at home and I wore one shopping and got a few compliments. It was the black with artichoke canvas.

[@lillygraygray4018]

My boyfreind is a printer and I'm a designer. I can recommend midi (knee lengh to calf lengh, not so voluminous) skirts and strechy fabrics. Maybe add a nice lace ruffle onto a tshirt or a lace detail that doesn't get in the way. I know how hot print shops can get so maybe sew a nice librarian skirt out of a lightweight cotton. I hope I could give some useful tips

[@j.nereim9055]

YES!!! When I wear something I made myself, no matter how it turns out, I wear it with a swagger I NEVER have in store-bought clothes. That is part of why I make my own clothes. I may be rocking two-piece drawstring pants, but you wouldn't know by me that they aren't the most elegantly tailored trousers ever!

[@michelleslaughter8264]

I dont know why, but you putting the “vintage librarian,” “woodland sprite,” and “summer boho” on that spectrum blew my mind! And adding the materials, AND ALSO ADDING THE COLORS. Brilliant, I dont think I would have ever thought to layer those details. Love it when detailed categories make sense 😭

[@michellewonggarcia1792]

This video is so well rounded. However, I might add the revelation of just doing one of something for the first time. I had a fear of making pants. I did a pair, albeit not perfectly, and now I have zero impulse to buy them. They have become makeable. Love the scientific approach and the results presentation. Chef's kiss.

[@santievandermerwe]

I am also afraid of making pants, though that is probably the item I really need to sew. I have a unusual body type, and I never bought a pair that fitted perfectly, even before I was plus size.

[@sarahkittle]

I’m so scared of pants too! 😂 I just have to practice and they won’t be so bad I just have no experience yet

[@shellylemons]

There’s a lot of merit to the scientific approach.

[@martinenotmartini9935]

god i am so scared of pants! they've never fit right from the rack but more importantly my thighs, at every size, just rub together so much i wear out the inner legs within weeks depending on the fabric. and of course i only ever had one pair at a time because with how fast they turned into shreds, there were no funds to alternate. i really want to have pants again (ditched them for skirts only nearly two years ago) but now the thought of having to go in and mend them that often is honestly a bit overwhelming. i've genuinely considered horse riding pants that have leather enforcements several times now...

[@Hileeara]

How? Pants make me cry. literally had an emotional outburst 2 minutes ago because the damn crotch part looks baggy and ugly no matter what I do.

[@katmusswoodwind]

Omg the moment you said "because Bernadette Banner did it"... I blushed cos it ME

[@betsyhada2936]

I’m only part-way through the video, but I have to say one thing right away. That white and blue dress is a work of art! I’ve been sewing for 54 years, and it looks like you’ve been sewing for 10 or 12! Very good attention to detail, and well-finished. And it fits you perfectly. Good job!

[@Kim-hr3zr]

You sounded very nice dear beautiful Betsy 😊

[@mgkos]

Would love a video tutorial on achieving that result with a border fabric like this one, it’s beautiful. If you know of any, would you mind sharing a link? Many thanks ☺️

[@laurenloertscher1319]

Modesty is a big one for me, as it's significant in my religion. Sewing let's me dress how I want. It gives me so much freedom.

[@KKIcons]

Mine too, although this time of year sometimes I am ready for modest shorts and t shirts in the TX heat if working outside lol.

[@Diniecita]

Same. Its hard to find when you are tall. Shorts seem to be getting shorter every year.

[@shmataboro8634]

@@Diniecita this is because butt cheeks are now considered to be a fashion accessory. 😉

[@Sewingistherapy]

This is very good. You hit on some really good points. My husband could tell you how long I've wanted to make my own clothes. But we have 5 kids. Our youngest 2 are twin boys who are not quite 4 years old yet. I'd wear a dress and lace every day if I could. But...that has to wait. T-shirts and jeans are usually what wins because when you are cooking, cleaning and cleaning up after kids all day, the nice clothes get ruined. So my recent compromise has been to focus in on making things I'll get to wear on a date night with my husband. With hopes that at some point I'll be able to wear it all day without it getting destroyed.

[@haleyspence]

Mood! I've compromised with sturdier fabrics, I'm working on making myself a bunch of shirt-dresses and day dresses that are this really comfy and sturdy broadcloth that I love. They let me feel dressed up while being really really washable.

[@RockinTheBassGuitar]

My kids made me change my time line too. They also made elastic necklines a huge no for me lol.

[@Sewingistherapy]

@@RockinTheBassGuitar so true! Also, our bodies change so much with pregnancy. Between that and nursing, I really had a hard time wanting to put all that work into something that would no longer fit after those changes.

[@robintheparttimesewer6798]

So true!! I had 3 kids in just under 4 years. There were a long string of years where I automatically sprayed stain remover on my left shoulder and back! Didn’t even look as I was sorting laundry it was faster to just assume it had been spit up on! If I couldn’t wash it I didn’t own it. For me the body changes with pregnancy continued on as I ended up with a complicated thyroid problem. With weight and motivation going up and down I don’t sew much for myself! Sewing for kids is more fun anyway and they are so easy to impress!! Not to mention all the experiments you can do. Fun cuffs with a small bit of a cool print, appliqués to hide mending. You can have a lot of creative fun with kids clothes!

[@habituscraeftig]

I recently got some patterns for fancy vintage aprons on Etsy to counter this problem. Have yet to implement, but I figure it's less than half the fabric (and likely less time, as well) for a fully embellished item that is hard-wearing, incredibly creative, and kinda gorgeous.

[@DeniseSkidmore]

Fit is big for me, and all the drafting tutorials start with ”put on well fitting undergarments”, which I can't seem to buy, so I started on the other end, I'm on draft 10 of my bra pattern, 9 is already more comfortable than anything off the rack. By the time I get back to garment making I'll have a full collection of bras and possibly corsets.

[@Kim-hr3zr]

I love your words Denise 😊

[@thebookwyrmslair6757]

I'm considering starting from here! Victoria's Secret stopped making my favorite line, and I'm down to 3 GOOD bras. I've also been trying to gather the courage for a few years now to make a corset. 😂 How has your journey gone?

[@AuntNutmeg]

​@thebookwyrmslair6757 I want, but am too scared to attempt, a corset. I'm beginning my wardrobe journey with split-side skirts so I won't gain or lose weight "out" of them, then I'll move on to capris, and we'll see how it goes from there. 😂

[@thebookwyrmslair6757]

@AuntNutmeg I feel your pain. Sadly, my favorite bra has been discontinued for a few years now, so once I work my way through those I'll have to start attempting bras and corsets even if I haven't graduated from pj pants yet! 😅

[@killamoosdraree730]

It has taken me 30 years to create 4 skirts, 2 tops, 2 dresses and 1 chemise, but all are items I cherish and love to wear and none have fallen apart in the laundry even though several pieces are severely overused and often abused. Yes, my size has changed considerably since I began my journey (32/22/32 until now 39/35/41). All of these items still fit me well because of the original loose fitting style and waist adjustability of each of the garments - I have not needed to alter any of them. TL;DR: My sewing experience goes back to hand sewing clothing for Barbie in the 1980's. During college, I decided to hand stitch a velvet skirt for a Renaissance Faire that I wanted to attend. I did not have a clue how to hem properly, but it is completely hand sewn and I still wear it at least once a year (now 30 years going strong). I made 2 skirts from patterns that turned out badly and have not been worn more than once. I copied an existing Neesh brand skirt in my wardrobe twice, one I gave to my friend. I found a dress in the local Patagonia outlet store that I found to be super comfortable that has sort of a shark bite style hemline and 1/4" shoulder tie straps about 15 years ago. I decided to copy/transform it into a tunic length top out of a fabric scrap I purchased at a local fabric store. I copied it again in a dress length 4 years ago. It is my current summer "house dress" and I love how comfortable it is (yes, I also added pockets). 9 years ago, I wanted to try my hand at sewing knit fabrics when I found the perfect red double knit cotton jersey at my local fabric store and decided to make a "t-shirt". Because I only have a regular sewing machine, I used zig zag stitch... Instead of hemming it, I decided to sort of "ruffle" some strips of jersey around the neckline and sleeves. Jersey does not ravel, so I left all the edges raw. I made it tunic length with a flare from waist to hip (tapered from the underbust outward towards the hips). 6 people asked me to make one for them and I politely declined because this is not a career for me. I recently was diagnosed with eczema (a non-contagious irritating skin condition) and determined that I could no longer allow plastic clothing to touch my skin because it always causes a flare-up. Because of this, I spent last year learning and practicing new techniques to craft more options to fill gaps created in my wardrobe from the huge polyester purge. I 100% handstitched a medieval style chemise out of cotton muslin to wear under my winter apparel where some plastic could not be avoided (my down parka for example). It was time-consuming, but I gained incredible skill with hand stitching and can now properly hem anything. Next, I 100% handstitched a full length pleated wool skirt following the pattern of several you-tube historical petticoat videos - so it has ties (wrap the back ties towards the front and tie, then wrap the front ties towards the back and tie). It is the most comfortable winter wear I have ever owned. This year, I copied my favorite swing dress in linen and plan to make 2 more in different colors to wear on their own or as a slip beneath the polyester swing dresses I already own and love but that my skin seems to absolutely loathe. I am also currently working on pattern-drafting a basic bodice block so that I can sew less casual tops that will actually fit my body and coordinate with my existing wardrobe. It's a long road with 3 failed muslins sewn and now trying to start fresh with a new perspective.

[@kaytiej8311]

Mariah, I'm only part way through but am already astounded. How can you have such wisdom and insight at your age? (I'm 60, btw.) This is exactly what I have needed to break through all the procrastination and vacillation and get a clear picture of why, what and how I want to sew my own clothes. Can't thank you enough for this extremely thoughtful, timely and in-depth practical presentation. It is obviously the result of some hard won life lessons for yourself and vast commitment of time amd effort. Wonderful.

[@ca6177]

I'm over 60 and I'm in awe too!

[@weezyb.]

Agreeing with you! I’m 67. Her well thought out plan has inspired me to slow down and rethink my choices. Funny, I do this in other areas, but when it comes to sewing I let my creativity explode - which is initially exciting - but it often ends up messy & unfinished.

[@skuperkatzmelagal]

Me, too! 65! Marveled at her ability to break it down and there were so many good points. It’s time to get sewing!

[@kaytiej8311]

@@skuperkatzmelagal I finally did! I've almost finshed an autumn pinafore for myself that I've wanted to do since last year. I used all kinds of new techniques I've learned from all these amazing young CosTubers, like Mariah, and I'm really pleased with the outcome. Ended up having to alter the pattern to fit better, but really proud of the growth I've made; even at this age. Now excited to get into it!

[@skuperkatzmelagal]

@@kaytiej8311 I’d love to see the pinafore you made! Can you post a photo of it here? I’m guessing, that you’re using the word pinafore bc you’re from a country other than the US? I believe we call it a jumper (dress) which for you may be a sweater! Anyway, I’m planning that my first project will be a (US) jumper! Love them!

[@sillybeeful]

“Look at what you’re wearing now” 🥴 ummmm my nightie 🤷🏼‍♀️ This is such a fabulously delivered and constructed video. Well done and thank you 🙏🏼🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🥃🥃

[@Ametcitra]

I've been learning to sew clothes lately, though not primarily my own. My partner is plus size and finding durable, good quality clothing for them that doesn't break within like a month or two is impossible unless you want to spend A LOT of money (which we don't have) So I armed myself with thrifted fabric and google and got to work trying to make pieces myself or repair the clothes we already have. I want to, at some point, work on my own clothes as well, but for now I am happy just making sure my dear partner has good things to wear that make them happy :)

[@vickylch]

I do the other way around. I find brand new 3x or 4x clothes on clearance in the material and fabric design I like and adjust it to my size, it's cheaper than buying the fabric

[@VultureSkins]

That’s so sweet! I hope your local thrift stores and etc will have lots of fabric and sewing implements available ^^

[@Robin-mo5vd]

That’s really sweet:)

[@lii8406]

that is so lovely, this comment really warmed my heart :')

[@peggymason7438]

@@vickylch Never thought of that!

[@adventurousmagpie4598]

This is so cohesive and thoughtful. If there hasn't been a thread on this already, I'd love to hear some of other people's 5 aesthetic guidelines. Thinking it through, I think mine are: 1. 80's Tomboy - the iconic photo of Susan Kare lounging on an office chair in jeans and Nikes, Max from Stranger things, ringer tees, classic sneakers 2. Pacific Northwest - saturated dark colours, slub knits, slouchy hats, light denim, plaid flannel 3. Maximalist femme punk - Tank Girl, the modern interpretations of Harley Quinn 4. Cali skater girl - chunky sweaters with short shorts, skater dresses with Vans, small gold jewelry 5. Bike messenger - buttons and patches, visible wear and mending, lots of black I feel like this is probably way different than most folks drawn to this video, but here we are!

[@thebookwyrmslair6757]

I'm sad more people haven't answered the call! Here's mine: 1. 80s and 90s Kid. Give me all the turquoise, neon pink, bright, saturated, happy, cool-toned tropical colors in summer! 2. Rich jewel tones for cooler weather - royal purple, cobalt, wine / magenta, burgundy, forest green, teal, silver, and black. 3. Streamlined, classic tailoring in the most vivid colors I can find. Allow the color to catch the attention - minimal embroidery or other fuss. Excellent statement earrings or gorgeous necklace with quiet complimentary earrings, but nothing else. Medium purse large enough to carry a cell phone and journal but no larger. Prettiest shoes my feet will allow - since this means sneakers or orthotic flip flops find the prettiest colors! 4. Practical pieces that FIT, are flattering and comfortable, yet don't scream mom-life. (Yes, I adore my yoga pants... but can I get back to only wearing them sporadically outside the home??) 5. Learning from history in practical ways - white and I don't mix, but that doesn't mean I can't make Morgan Donner's Chemise a la Rainbow.. or her Lisa Frank inspired Tudor kirtle! Will wearing a corset help wrangle the girls better? After decades in v-neck t-shirts and yoga pants, are people right about natural fabrics or will I miss my gym wear? I might not be a woodland sprite or Edwardian librarian, but I'll lean into mystical, magickal, fantasy in my head... so how can that reflect in my wardrobe without getting too fussy?

[@Edi-xt3rq]

I didn't adhere to the 5 categories, so I organized mine to based on seasons. Fall: Black, gray, and brown with muted colors like maroon and navy. Sweatshorts, jeans, and a jacket. I don't have a leather jacket, but I have a black windbreaker that in my mind works with this look. I like to sum it up as "if Tom Odell would wear it in a music video so would I." -Alternitavely, black with dark red and olive green. Kind of like a Barbie villain color scheme. More of an elegant look around Halloween with heeled boots and hanging earings. Winter: Snow boots that I wear out as soon as it's just chilly enough. I try to look as water-tribey as I can so I wear anything I have in blue, white, and purple. I'd like to make Katara's coat, but I already have a winter coat so it's unecessary. I try to base my looks off of Indila's love story music video. Spring (two styles): Black and white, bows, peter pan collars. Or flared pants and camo green, blue, and dusty pink. Inspiration for these are Dani from Hooky and Penny from Dr. Horrible. Summer: I call this my trash off the beach look. Colors are primarily orange, teal, and green. Baggy cargo pants or shorts depending how hot it is, pop-tab bracelets, accesories made from wood, glass, or woven string, and either huaraches or no shoes at all.

[@Edi-xt3rq]

I've enjoyed looking through your 5 trying to piece together what they would look like. My favorites I think is 80s tomboy and bike messenger, but maximalist femme punk is so creative I love it.

[@Edi-xt3rq]

​@@thebookwyrmslair6757I did that too- having opposite color schemes depending on weather. You also outlined some of the practicalities that need to come with a dream wardrobe which inspires me to tweak my own choices to better fit what I already have.

[@avivagodfrey]

My reasons span all of the above, but let's be perfectly honest: I wanted cute, pretty, modest, distinctive clothes, but they are never ever made in plus-size. I remember wanting so desperately to wear lolita fashion in college, but all the really cute loli stuff was either insanely expensive, made in tiny Asian sizes, or both. TTATT Tell you what, but I never want to buy anything black ever again, because it was almost the only color available to me when I was at my biggest.

[@thebookwyrmslair6757]

SAME.

[@1drlnd]

I recently bought a sewing machine and have been learning and practicing a lot. I was inspired to finally make the leap into making my own clothes because I'm tired of things not fitting me correctly. I struggle with my weight for both mental and physical health reasons, and not fitting into my clothes and struggling with the inconsistent sizing trying to find new clothes can be triggering for me. I want to make nice but comfortable pieces that can adjust to my body's changes. Atm I mostly where yoga pants because it's what I feel comfortable in and feel that I look good in, but I don't want to always look like I'm about to go to the gym or do housework. The two pieces I'm most focused on making right now are the coquelicot skirt and wrap pants.

[@redblaquegolden]

This is genuinely the best thing I've watched. I'm about to make this change. Also, an additional thought: gender transitions are really difficult to buy for (The sizing WILL be off) and I notice that a lot of folk when making their transitions ignore the basics. Personally, i need more longer skirts that work in the fit and flare silhouette. I need to make one in a deep chocolate brown and one more in black. I also need 3 pairs of black pants that don't make me feel too masculine (secret pants perhaps?). 2 in Denim, 1 in cotton, 1 in linen. I need to make 3 simple shirts, which I might let myself buy thrifted, if I can afford to do that. I need 3 simple blouses (black, jade, and violet). I think this will prevent me from doing the fast fashion thing, and with this as a plan, my gender transition will feel more complete. I think i can make it work. Truly, thank you for this video!

[@danacandella5416]

The cost threshold for any article of male clothing that has even a hint of style is around $100. This makes sense because of supply and demand. This is my major motivation for learning how to make my own clothes. Also knowing that what I'm wearing is one-of-a-kind gives me a special feeling that is hard to describe.

[@jordisbraun4985]

I began sewing under the advice of a very kind nun in my school. I was taller and "fatter" than the other girls and in shops they told me "in YOUR size we don't sell anything. Make a diet" And I took an old pattern of a skirt of my mother which told me the same advice like the sellers in the shops. And I changed the pattern and I looked good in this very well fitting skirt. And I made a blouse and I think so began my sewing. Today , now 60 years later, I can buy "24" (american size) everywhere but I only wear diy underwear, aprons, trousers, jackets and make curtains und tableclothes for me and a girlfriend with our "special" size. (more cm at hips, less cm waist etc. Longer skirts and longer legs at the trousers.)Changed the patterns a little bit here and a little bit other part.

[@coalsparks]

This was an incredible exercise. It helped me figure out my big block: like you I idolize Bernadette but I know my abilities are nowhere near hers and rather than make something I can’t achieve and probably wouldn’t be comfortable wearing anyway. Plus, I have a suiting and dark academia heart but a tshirt and yoga pants life. So I have identified a couple of wardrobe pieces I own that are comfy and a bit more structured and I’m going to replicate them and go dark academia on the trimmings. I think.

[@dianabakes1]

Go for it! I equate this to buying a beautiful journal but not wanting to write mundane things in it. Why shouldn't I write my grocery list in a beautiful journal? Why shouldn't you wear dark academia to your heart's content?

[@liav4102]

SnappyDragon did a pretty fabulous rendition of yoga pants in a more fancy/style

[@skengels]

yo, an oversized button up over leggings with a belt (elastic belt?!?!?) is snatched & comfy, for winter, a turtleneck underneath is very cute. I used to wear that all the time and was occasionally asked if I was a fashion designer or foreign, lol

[@Kim-hr3zr]

What a nice and lovely comment 😊

[@alewis2812]

Sewing should be joyful. If most of my joy is the planning, that is wonderful. If I NEEDED an item, I'd make it. I can take my time with the things that I want. Life is too hard to stress out about slow mindful hobbies.

[@positivelysimful1283]

I'm 54 and always wanted to make my own clothes for various reasons-- it's hard to find things that match my personality & sense of aesthetics that are good quality, I hate synthetic fabrics, I'm an artsy sort of person and love crafts, I hate what the clothing industry does to the environment, etc. But with college, then marriage, kids & work, etc. I just never got to really work on my sewing skills and could never find the time to bother. At best I would buy stuff and jazz it up with embellishments or some creative twists. Few yrs ago I got divorced, then spent a couple yrs caring for my mom in home hospice, then covid hit, I uprooted my life & moved to my little dream cottage w/my little dream garden in my little dream small town. I work from home & only need to work part time at this stage of my life. My kids are grown. I've lost 100 lbs and have not bought more than a jacket, or tshirt, or shoes when necessary and almost nothing I own fits me. Last year I was gifted a sewing machine and have really been upping my sewing skills. I am so ready to get started on that long-held dream of a mostly handmade + some thrifted/thrift flipped wardrobe. Why am I rambling about my life? I dunno, I guess I was just so thrilled to find this video. It is just the road map I needed, it is inspiring, it is perfect. I will probably revisit it a few times in the next few weeks as my plans get underway. Can't thank you enough for this great video!!!

[@akaneak]

Other KZbinrs: "This is what works for me te-he!" Mariah Pattie - "Tables! sheets! math! order!!!" I love you so much girl! your videos are the TRUTH

[@sarahmcinroy2321]

In the beginning of the pandemic I made a big ol' dopamine purchase from a cheap site and like 60% of the clothes were terribly made. I saw my closet overflow and vowed to not buy any new clothing unless necessary (bridesmaids, tactical/work wear) I've slipped up a few times but have renewed my vow. After making my first corset I was so proud (and made two more) and now I look at clothes online and don't even think 'wow I want to buy that!' but with my newfound confidence in my ability I think 'wow I want to make that!'. Honestly just making ANYTHING will help me get into that confidence again.

[@beverlycastillo4886]

I recently got promoted at work, which means I’ll be returning to the office after 3 years of working at home, wearing exclusively active wear. I had to come back to this video. Coincidently I’ve only recently begun sewing my own clothes after doing small projects and minor alterations, and I’m excited to cultivate my own style and wardrobe. Your tips are so helpful! 😊

[@dcmcgeee8688]

Can we talk about the dress she's wearing? ... Like Forever!! Perfection! XO

[@sillyjellyfish2421]

came for sewing tips and tricks, stayed for the life lesson. thanks for this video, it really made me think about stuff

[@catlova567]

This was both super inspiring and a harsh call-out to my consumer addiction. One thing I have been challenged by is the idea that my body will change over time, and that it hurts more to "loose" clothing I have made then it does to accept something I purchased no longer fits. I think that realization is forcing me to consider what I choose to sew and if it can be altered over time as my measurements change.

[@bunhelsingslegacy3549]

That's a really good point, making clothing with future alteration in mind!

[@ebunni5862]

I find that I'm more inspired to repair and alter clothing I've sewn rather than clothing I've bought. If you use large seam allowances you'll have room to let out. My skirts have multiple places for the closing hook, some days my stomach is just bigger than others.

[@AuntNutmeg]

I'm starting with a split-side skirt for just this reason! I'm having trouble with weight swings right now, so I need my wardrobe to be flexible and budget friendly.

[@aileenhampton6911]

There are several good videos on adjustable clothing. What I found interesting is that before the 1800s or so, these styles used to be extremely common for women. Their clothes were long-lasting. Women switched often to pregnancy and back and couldn't afford to have two sets of clothing for maternity and non-maternity.

[@habituscraeftig]

(Seven minutes in:) I really like the way you broke down sources of motivation. I pushed into brainstorming by quadrant, and I really went to town in the Ethics section in a way that caught me off-guard. My main motivation there wasn't just to move away from an extraction economy (exploiting resources and treating humans as resources). What I actually found myself writing about was what I wanted, instead. 1) not requiring externalia to have a high quality of life - a hardship-proofed source of abundance 2) the ability to provide loved ones with "objects of care" that can be used repeatedly, even in my absence, and might even outlast me - in other words, the ability to furnish others and their/my environment with expressions of my love 3) the ability to contribute, socially and economically, to my communities 4) my ability to someday foster these interests in others This is way more socially oriented than I had expected, and it might explain why I'm currently having a dry spell in my sewing practice. My old primary motivation (self-expression) just hasn't been driving me like it used to, and I think it may be because I didn't recognize the social element of my interest in sewing, which hasn't really been met since I moved away from my hometown in 2020 (not a great year to form new communities).

[@beth12svist]

Phew, as someone who also moved in 2020, my sympathies! I'm lucky in that circumstances actually forced me to move from what always felt like temporary homes into a town where I wanted to live for about ten years already, and where I knew I could find a community - it just took, and still takes, a while because of the circumstances. Good luck!

[@habituscraeftig]

@@beth12svist Thanks! I'm already about to move, again! Military spouse. But my Human will be retiring soon, so that longterm home is just over the horizon. No more than two moves left, if all goes as it ought.

[@JuliaSophia52]

This is the best clothing/fashion video I've seen. So thorough and organized. I've been sewing clothing since middle school (55 years) but mostly for other people and alterations for myself being only 5' tall. I'm getting ready to move back home to a large city having lived the past 15 years in a small rural town. Most of my wardrobe consists of jeans and tee shirts but that's going to change. I've been collecting fabrics, mostly thrifted along with thrifted clothing when I find them constructed in fine fabrics. I'm made myself a promise to have nothing in my closet that doesn't fit perfectly and in the style of my dreams. Thank you for this great video.

[@anieth]

You're one of the few Pinterest boards I follow. You're better organized and thoughtful in your categories. I don't have your aesthetic, but I appreciate how you've organized. PLEASE be long-winded. It's why we're here, hon. I also have a deep fantasy world and dress rather individually. It's SO nice to see someone of your age (I'm your grandma's age) who is this ahead of the game. I feel like people like you are the reason we pioneered.

[@DoloresJNurss]

Thank you for motivating me! I'm coming from a different place. I've reached an age where I've been forced to discover that clothing is not, after all, a nonperishable product. Deciding to shop for new ones I discovered that A) modern clothes are astonishingly expensive, B) even the expensive stuff is often made of polyester, C) comes from countries without unions, and D) anything my current size is chokingly bland. Nevertheless I almost surrendered because the price of fabric is also sky-high; calculating in time lost from the home business, I'd spend as much to make it as to buy it. But listening to your reasons to sew clothing, I realized that I could spend the same amount of money buying clothes that don't suit me at all, pollute the planet and exploits workers, or clothes that still communicate who I am and will always be, both in style and ethics.

[@Kim-hr3zr]

😊wow I love your words Dolores 😊

[@MandyRoeske]

This was such a good video! Ever since I was a kid my goal in life has been to make all of my own clothing (probably because my grandmother had her own business making and selling clothing). Right now I just knit but I'd like to get back into sewing after I graduate. The point you made about finding your own aesthetic was a major one I recently learned when it came to knitting. I rarely wore anything I knit until I realized I chose patterns and colors that I thought were pretty but not necessarily styles/colors I normally wear. I thought I would wear them just for the fact that I made it. Now, I've started to focus on basic patterns in colors I regularly wear.

[@lakshmivee4298]

This could be one of the most significant videos ever made on fashion, creativity and sewing! Such a delight to watch. 💜

[@Kim-hr3zr]

❤😊 your hand work is absolutely and perfect 😍 ok ✅

[@ashleynilsson8693]

This is amazing! I teach sewing classes and I want to start a class series to teach women to make their own clothes! I'm hosting in-person classes, but I plan to make video tutorials as well. I've been shopping second-hand for years, but I really want to replace some of my worn-out pieces with handmade items. I can't wait to get started!

[@Kim-hr3zr]

😊so amazing my dear, I love your comments seriously

[@DebraSchmidt-p5i]

My mother was responsible for everything I wore until I was 13. I learned a bit at school, but now in retirement I'd like to enjoy my wardrobe and to be responsible for it's existence.

[@anaisabelsantos4661]

Bernardette makes wonderfull things, look so easy in her hands.. Well so do you and so many other talented people out there. Most of us can't aspire to make something like you girls do, but we can be inspired and make what we like, with the skills we have and grow from there. I think the last time I bought clothes was 5 or 6 years ago, as I never went after trendy clothes don't go out of fashion fast, so I can have some items in my wardrobe for 5 or 30 years... In the last couple of years I made a few items and now I feel I can start replacing those pieces I don't really like any more and finally start to make what I like and can't find in stores. (I don't mind if my mother tells me the cloths I make look older than my grandmother.)

[@Kim-hr3zr]

I love your comments Ana 😊

[@lorrainemarcketta489]

Thank you for imparting your considerable wisdom. It’s rare to find someone who is able to articulate, in such a logical way, the bridging of creative thought (dreams, wants, needs) with practical real-life application. It’s wonderful, really! As an older gal, my life included 40 years of office work, so business attire was required. I loved tweed skirts, woolen jackets and classic dresses with a bit of femininity, lace on a blouse or a silk scarf. I did a lot of sewing after my children went to sleep at night - clothes for them, my sisters and myself. It was a great way to unwind, fulfill my creative needs and provide what we needed. In those days fabric was inexpensive! Fast forward, I’m retired, working on drawing every day, and basically need nothing more than jeans and tee shirts. Watching your presentation made me realize how much I miss the days of quality fabrics and classic styles. Maybe it’s time for me to perk up my wardrobe!!

[@indiabilly]

Absolutely love this, I watch you because I am drawn to getting better at sewing enough to be able to stop buying ready made items because I am 6’2” tall and nothing fits how I want and this really helped focus me- thank you xx

[@malenejensen2995]

I am 5' 9" and fed up with clothes almost always being too short and definitely being too wide. But I am so used to needing a specific size hoping it will be long enough for my body, so when I knitted to sweaters, I still choose that size... 🤷 But it will be better next time ☺️

[@marathonfortruth4768]

I’ve been sewing for 52 years. I’m now retired. I have learned that the best pieces to sew for myself are the classic pieces one wears for years . You get the most bang for the buck or for the effort. Examples: little black dresses; lined/unlined jackets; tees or blouses which are unique in design details, color or pattern which are otherwise near impossible to find in RTW. I wear jeans mostly so the sewing of tops and jackets are my focus.

[@r4dwolf]

This was wondeful, even for someone who hates shopping. A lot of my clothes are over a decade old, I even have a jacket that's over 20 years old and most of my massive wardrobe is thrifted anyway. My style hasn't really changed since I was in school, but I'm finally trying to switch to all natural fibres and a more condensed wardrobe so this was immensely helpful.

[@warwickshirewolfpack]

I used to make all my own clothes my mum had a haberdashery shop growing up. But now I buy charity shop (thrifted) and some of my clothes I've had for over 20 years (and they weren't new when I got them) I want to start sewing again but I am on a very limited budget and any fabric I like seems very expensive so I will be starting using recycled charity shop buys (curtains, cotton sheets, duvet covers)

[@Serenity_Craft]

I stopped buying clothes a year and a half ago, I have several projects started for making my own, but only a few completed. It is rewarding to make my own things, and I have discovered a love of shopping for fabrics and yarns instead of clothing. Not just sewing, but knitting my own gloves, hats and scarfs has been great. I finally truly understand the term "fits like a glove". I have even learned to tatt my own lace trim and that is fun and relaxing. The first thing I made was an 1880s petticoat skirt and it used a LOT of fabric, so now I find myself buying way more yardage than I actually need for projects. Some lessons just stick with us I guess. As a plus sized woman, I do struggle with making things fit sometimes, but I think I will try a few wrap garments and they should fluctuate with my body type.

[@liv97497]

I love this! The "shop from your closet" bit is so important.. it's easy to get caught up in aesthetics and all the new pieces you need to get in order to have that Pinterest-perfect wardrobe, but there's so much we already have that we can either repurpose or see in a new light. But I'm not gonna lie, the "stop buying clothes" is hard. I've reached a point where I only buy things that I think I'm not skilled enough yet to make, but I guess the next step is going to be a tough one😂

[@beglitchery]

My biggest impediment towards this goal (primary motivation: comfort and fit) is that it’s hard to fit things on yourself. To that end I am starting with a custom dressform. Got all the parts cut out and will be assembling this weekend. Wish me luck!

[@bunhelsingslegacy3549]

I hope that works out for you! It took me a dozen emails and text messages pluz a zoom call wih a friend who knows how to do fitting to get a princess seam bodice block mockup (#3) fitting me well. Don't be afraid to ask for help, even if it's over zoom!

[@patriciadoherty464]

Good luck and happy sewing!

[@Kim-hr3zr]

What a nice words 😊

[@aileenhampton6911]

Good strategy!

[@dailydedication2663]

This video is fantastic. It brought clarity to beginning my sewing journey and lifestyle. I took notes and watched twice. Im going to watch again. Not only did I embrace the idea of stop BUYING clothes but I also went through my closet and got rid of a lot of pieces that I would not aspire to make (fabric doesn’t thrill me, the patch pockets are not me, the fit is poor, it doesn’t fit my lifestyle, the quality is poor, etc). I was left not only with clothes that I really want to wear but also clothes that I’m inspired to make. Thanks so much for your wonderful insights.

[@clovis_the_spook]

When it comes to "Because Bernadette Banner Did It" hand stitching is definitely one for me. I admire Bernadette's gorgeous hand stitching, and how much effort and passion she clearly puts into every single piece. However, I do not have the time, or the patience to hand stitch entire garments when I could hack it with my sewing machine.

[@ebunni5862]

This is definitely a watch-many-times video. After I made a walking skirt about a yr and a half ago that's all I want to wear. I've been having issues with what I want for tops, so this video is really helpful.

[@sarahball1683]

Decided to come back and rewatch this as I sorted out and purged my own wardrobe. I'm moving soon and wanted to donate things away before I have to pack and unpack it all. I also have been working towards sewing my own wardrobe and have been struggling to figure out how to sew things that cohesively fit together. So far as I've been learning new things, I picked projects based on "Oh! That fabric/style looks cool!" which gave me a lot of unique pieces that weren't always easy to integrate into an outfit. The suggestion to draw inspiration from ones existing wardrobe style helps a lot. From it I can understand why the long-sleeve dress I made never gets worn, even in winter. I knew at the start that I preferred the flexibility of long sleeves as an over layer (sweaters/sweatshirts), but really loved how the dress style looked on others and wanted one of my own. Now, with the hindsight aid of realizing I own all of 2 base-layer long sleeves (that I barely wear) it is much clearer why that project wasn't a good fit. Meanwhile the glow-in-the-dark stars and moon skirt I made from quilting cotton--that I was sure I would be a "just for fun" project--regularly gets nearly weekly wear because I actually have plenty of tops that match nicely with a black and white pattern. As unique as it is, it actually fits well with my existing clothing. Overall, it's much easier to think of pieces to add to the whole I already have than starting from scratch. Thanks for your explanation of your own process!

[@IreneFriederike]

That moment when you described the category of "Because Bernadette Banner Did It"... yes! I totally started making my own clothes because I admired Bernadette and her walking skirt. Have I made any other Edwardian/Victorian clothes? No. Instead I found your capsule wardrobe videos and was inspired by those. The aesthetics you describe liking for the various seasons are similar to what I've found myself trying to copy. Except I've called the Spring/Fall aesthetic my dryad phase. I'd also encourage people to go look through their grandmothers' or aunts' closets / basements / attics. Some of my favorite pieces in my wardrobe are from my Abuela. Thank You for the thoughtful and inspiring video.

[@maggiehawkes1131]

Me too! After falling in love with some things I don’t think I would actually want to make myself in Bernadette’s videos, I found this channel (and the closet historian) which are way more inspiring and practical for me!

[@apcolleen]

I think the algorithm found me a new channel to watch :D thanks!

[@MelodyLovelace]

This could not have come at a better time! I'm just about to swap over my winter to summer wardrobe and this has given me a chance to really think about what I want that to look like :)

[@HopeEvey]

Totally saving this to watch again when I've got the spoons to sew :)

[@meaganhenderson5007]

I am absolutely in love with this video. It is so comprehensive and actually gives me the tools I need to think about my wardrobe-not just about what I would like to wear, but WHY I like it. After a week of watching scattered videos about “my dream wardrobe” and “finding my style,” this one is so refreshing because of how practical and realistic it is. Thank you! I think I fell in love after you said something about not immediately going on a Pinterest binge of looking at clothing but instead taking a moment to think about what I actually want. I’ve fallen victim to this so many times & I needed someone to tell me to stop.

[@Kim-hr3zr]

Nice comments 😊dear

[@brainsbeauty]

That one rule really extends to many different passions I love it 😍, when I stopped buying eyeshadow palettes and started making the eyeshadows by mixing from the ones I owned I've trained my brain to see a new release and think "how do I make that colour?" Instead of "I want to buy that colour!"

[@Kim-hr3zr]

😊very nice comments dear

[@squirrephant5368]

I am in the midst of planning a self-made wardrobe, so this video is great help for me. I can only achieve my deeply desired ideal of a perfectly fitting classically feminine natural fiber wardrobe if I make it myself. I've never liked contemporary fashion, and now that I know how nice clothing can be from my albeit flawed me-made pieces I have so far, there is no going back. And, I'll have great satisfaction from it. Its a good hobby.

[@sewathome]

This was my dream! But having 2 kids under 2 everything outside of their needs kind of went out the window. Hopefully I still love all my fabrics I bought whenever I actually get the chance to sew again 😅

[@dottydarling01]

I have four kids under 10 and am actively losing weight. I love the idea of making my own clothes. Have sewing experience, but I've not used my machine in over two years (that's a conservative guess). Practically speaking, that's not happening now. Maybe one day?

[@Rhaifha]

Totally agree with your rule! I've been wanting to sew more for my own wardrobe, and the key to doing it was genuinely to make a deal with myself to stop buying clothes in 2022. I still buy underwear (although I do want to try my hand at bras at some point) and bought a pair of jeans since that's still a bit above my skill level (and I desperately needed a new pair). But, it's really helped me focus less on the cute fast fashion clothes that are on sale and more on keeping the stuff I have in good condition and making myself new clothing. And lets be real here, the ultimate way of learning how to sew is simply by doing it. This rule was exactly the incentive I needed to actually do it since a few months ago. I mean, in the end it's more affordable than quality and well fitting clothes, you get a better fit and quality than you'd get from fast fashion, you get to be creative *and* it's better for the environment (as long as you pay attention to your fabric sourcing). What's not to love?

[@jenniferandrew3373]

This came across my feed while I'm pleating a skirt for a '50s inspired dress I'm making, while wearing a me-made linen nightgown. I decided to wean myself off of man-made fibers 2 years ago. At this point, my wardrobe is about 50% me-made from linen, cotton, wool, and silk. It's been a really great journey. Next on the list -- jeans.

[@fancyfauns4651]

when I saw my comment at 6:38 I literally screamed and ran to show my husband 😂 but srsly this is so good and thorough!! I've always had trouble defining my style to just a few aesthetics, but this is so clear and concise I can't wait to do it!! keep up the amazing work 👏

[@Kim-hr3zr]

Nice comments 😊pretty

[@ms.interpreted7110]

Definitely saving this to rewatch properly, with pen & paper

[@skirtedgalleons]

Wow, this is such an excellent video. Deep insights. I've been struggling with what I want to sew to wear everyday. Part is getting my sewing and fitting skills to the level that I need. But I've noticed themes in historical fashion plates that I go crazy for and I had just started to think, "maybe these images are trying to tell me something." And that's a theme of your video! What I want to wear in "regular" clothes, rather than cosplay (although what I want to cosplay or make in historical costuming is influenced by the following as well): my eye goes nuts for cool jewel tones, red, fuschia, and black, contrasts of color, subtle workmanship/skill details in sewing rather than explosions of embellishments (although I don't mind some frills), deceptively simple design lines executed in amazing (*cough* expensive) natural fabrics, and well-fit clothes (not tight, just correct for the specific body) rather than a loose t-shirt and baggy pants. Something that jumped out at me lately as a personal theme is what I think of as "tasteful wit." When a design has something that winks at history or subverts an expectation or just makes you smile. Bonnie Cashin did this with her dog leash skirts. Off to think more, thank you!

[@catherineleslie-faye4302]

I'm in the mend and replace phase of creating my dream wardrobe; mending what I can, and replacing what I can not (knits & underwear). I am also recutting some pieces to bring them more in line with my current body shape and the styles I want to wear. There is so much clothing already made for sale in thrift stores that I find myself buying clothing then parting out that clothing and using the materials as part of my own projects... something about a circular economic world view I think...

[@cherylrosbak4092]

I've been unconsciously doing the same thing for a few years now. Mostly I thrifted pre-pandemic, but since I don't want to risk going into stores (and with my fit issues I need to try clothes on) I've stopped buying clothes altogether. I've done a lot of mending and reconfiguring of clothes I already have, as well as increasing my sewing. Mariah, I love the way you broke down how to figure out your own style. It's an ongoing struggle for me because I love so many things! But as you were going through it I realized that my tastes aren't quite as disparate as I once thought.

[@friendoffrancis]

I totally get your woodland sprite and vintage librarian styles - those are one pinterest board for me called Scholar. It's funny how something I definitely can't pick up at a store is also appealing to so many other people I've never met.

[@michelecraig9658]

What a wonderful, thoughtful video! I have been working toward this goal most of my life. You have a new subscriber.. I find your planning stages extremely helpful as I am constantly floundering when it comes to deciding what my aesthetic actually is and allowing this, and deciding on a color palette where things can actually be worn together. One thing I have been facing, which you didn't mention, is that going into my sixties body shape, hair color, begins to change and clothing that used to look good or feel comfortable no longer does. I fond myself moving into a Tasha Tudor, folk grandma, Baba Yaga stage. I love Bernadette and Rachel and Morgan, but where are their mothers?

[@Kim-hr3zr]

You sounded very nice for your comments dear pretty Michele 😊

[@thebookwyrmslair6757]

Amen, Michele!! We need a few grand dames of the CosTube world who have embraced their inner crone and are leaning into their inner hag. 😊 (I grew my natural hair out to its espresso and silver glory... and found that I can't wear muted jewel-tones anymore. No periwinkle - I NEED cobalt more!)

[@dorisb505]

My grandmother sewed her own clothes including the lingerie. I inherited her love for fabrics but not her sewing skills. When making your own wardrobe the possibilities are endless. Lucky you.

[@marathorne6821]

This is the most thought-provoking video I have watched in a long while. Working out why we want to make our own clothes, and what it makes sense for us to make given our tastes and lifestyle, are fundamental questions. For me the process is as important as the end product - the learning, the challenge, the opportunity to be creative as well as ethical, these are the drivers, rather than simply wanting to have loads of clothes. But it's different for everyone. I had a colleague whose mantra was that the first question to ask in any situation should be "why?" And I think he had a point. Thank you for doing the research that went into this video 🙏

[@Kim-hr3zr]

Wow I love your comments dear Good morning

[@LualaDy]

I do agree with you! I have a little something to add about thrifting: I allowed thrifting for items either I couldn't make for a lack of skill, or because my focus was on other categories, but which I needed. I thought that thrifting these will leave me enough space and energy for the outfits I had planned. It didn't work. It didn't work because standard sizing simply does not fit my body, and those clothes did not make me feel happy. After hitting rock bottom and going into a sew block, not making anything, and stressing about it I ... I picked up crochet again, and now I have 2 cardigans and and almost finished swim suit! And it feels amazing! Well, all of my frozen sewing projects are crying BUT I'm extremelly happy with the results and am enjoying immensly the process. Plus, it's easier to control the fabric content and the quality of your makes, as a lot of knitwear is blended with acrylic or polyamide.

[@Mongoly8]

Wow that was amazing! Most of my wardrobe already came from thrift stores but in the last couple of years I've maybe only purchased a couple of items, that filled in the few gaps left. I've wanted to start making my own clothes for awhile. I've already made a summer skirt from a pattern I drafted myself as I couldn't find a pattern that followed what I envisioned in my head. I'm in the process of making a winter version out of fleece that is both professional enough to wear to work and comfy enough that it is perfect for curling up on the couch with my very own wearable blanket. From going through the steps of your video, my next projects will hopefully be a linen 18th c. shirt and a sleeveless robe to use after showering in the summer (my fleece one is way to hot). Its fun to see where the holes are in my wardrobe. I know that it would be nearly impossible to fill them from conventional store-bought clothing. I am so excited to make these garments for myself.

[@Kim-hr3zr]

I love your comments dear

[@thoughtgardener4492]

“If there’s something you need, try and make it your se-eh-eeeellf!!!!” Daniel Tiger I super relate to the sentiment of being intimidated to make daily wear clothing. I’ve hand sewn toddler clothes, dolls and costumes, machine sewn quilts, baby dresses and utility items. There’s a huge mental hurdle for me with making clothes I want to wear regularly. Thank you for the clear and constructive guide to getting there :)

[@izoldakombajnistka]

This video is so well made and thought through. I clicked on it expecting quick tips but it actually made me rethink my whole wardrobe. And now only sewing, but my values, the way I shop, wear my clothes and my deep motivation behind seeking novelty. Thank you for all your work, this video is great

[@Kim-hr3zr]

It’s so much well pretty, I love your comments 😊

[@cynthialindsley5117]

Just found you and it is so timely. I fall into the older generation category. I do not like shopping!!!!! Sewing for myself since Junior high. At that time I discovered sewing in home ec, that dates me. I was very small ( still am) wanted clothes like my friends, they didn't come in my size, but had gotten the skill and the passion to make my own. Sewed off and on for myself over the years, usually for events, but now and again for daily wear. Mostly my skill transferred to quilting. Over the last few years I began sewing my clothes again, but time has changed my body and fitting is very new to me. I get frustrated. Patterns used to fit, now it takes more time to make garments. As I said this is very timely, I just pulled out my summer clothes and need to make a plan. This information will be a big help in moving forward. Thank you for all the thought you pu into this content.

[@Calligraphie]

This comes at a perfect time, as I just KonMari'd my wardrobe last night. You've given me much to think about, and I am definitely saving this video for future reference! P.S. Came back to re-watch this, and you called me out AGAIN for wearing pajamas while watching, lol

[@KKIcons]

Gosh I so need to kon mari/flylady my clothes. With flylady its just one laundry basket or drawer, or closet at a time, and eventually we will get around to it all, but it might be another season by then lol.

[@eva1malene144]

@@KKIcons if you want something gradual you'll get through in a season, I used to do a project where I can't rewear a piece until I've worn all pieces in the same category (as in bottoms/tops), which forces you to rediscover favourites, and realize what you just don't like anymore/beautiful but doesn't fit you etc (also, what you need to adjust or fix before you'll use it- I put things in a fixing pile and forget about it 😳). Happy organising, whichever method you choose!

[@Kim-hr3zr]

Nice comments Kate 😊

[@littlestbroccoli]

I love seasonality in clothing, choosing darker grey or neutral wool cable sweaters in winter, while fall gets its own special brand of browns, reds and greens in muslin, waffle knits and stockings. Choosing wardrobes this way feels similar to being bound to the land for what types of food we could eat before mass production. Seasonality in all things is much more sustainable and has the added benefit of being healthy for our bodies and spirits.

[@Олеся-х6ы2ц]

Thank you for putting it together in such a systematic way! For a long time I thought that clothing is uncomfortable in general. I am very thin and very tall, so most skirts are crazy short on me. Plus I have zero bust going on, so all the fancy or low necklines look like a cosplay of a Mariana Trench. I started making my own clothes when I purchased a very expensive circle skirt with pockets. It was sitting on the waist, not going up or down, although I had to make it smaller to fit me. I realized it then, that I can actually apply formal criteria to the clothes, to make it comfortable. I can choose the length, fit, fabric and I don't need to follow the tredns I don't like. I haven't bought anything except underwear and sportswear for two years. I never imposed a restriction of buying something, it just happened. The other day I realized that every single day now I'm wearing something I either made myself, or at least fixed/changed to fit me. I honestly can go on and on about how great is not to be afraid to sit in any position or not to check if the shirt is still tucked in.

[@Kim-hr3zr]

I love your comments pretty 😊

[@azkaland]

This is exactly what I needed! I stumbled across the Wardrobe Architect blog series and barely made it to the second article, nothing wrong with it I'm just easily overwhelmed, yet need to know all the steps before I start something 😅 I had already vowed not to buy new clothes this year, partly for financial reasons and *my closet is full of clothes I dont wear* reasons. I'm a "professional seamstress" because I make a living sewing things (mostly squares and rectangles lol) but I'm determined to add tailoring and dressmaking to my skillset. I suppose that's the most important reason to make my own clothes, kinda to practice on myself first. A close second is environmentalism. It pains me that we (humans) tend to just throw away clothes that could easily be mended or repurposed- or donate clothes that just end up in the trash anyways - since fast fashion has made it cheaper to just buy a new one. I've made a few garments, and learn something each time that I could've done differently - whether it's about the fit, how I used the machine, finishing techniques, etc. P.s. "just because Bernadette Banner did it" got me 😂😂 now I'm reevaluating why an Edwardian walking skirt is on my list 😬

[@helenedussaussois4879]

I wish I could like this video twice! This is very well made and so interesting!

[@virginiadavidson7862]

I learned to sew back in the 60s, when (to quote my grandfather) "the skirts came up to where the legs quit walking"! First, Daddy said "*My* girls are not gonna look like that!"--so Mother sewed for all of us. Then Daddy got tired, watching Mother sew four of everything...and bought each of us our own sewing machine. I have found memories of the summer that we girls had four sewing machines set up in the living room, and made our wardrobes for the next school year. For many years, I made just about everything I wore. Then I figured, if I can sew for myself, I can sew for other people--and I did. When "Davidson Originals" morphed from custom sewing to custom stained glass, my clothing needs changed. Jeans and tee shirts, especially for the studio, made me lazy for everyday wear, and little by little I quit sewing for myself. Which translates into NOTHING TO WEAR! for dressy casual (not really *nothing*, but very little) and zero for fancy wear. Time to sew again. So I have begun. I've lost a few pounds and altered several skirts I've loved in the past, and made another. Scavenged a pencil skirt out of a lined wool dress that a friend gave me (all but finished the waistband last night) and planning what to make next. Your video is helpful as I assess my current needs--which are so many. Priorities are the answer to deciding what's next. It's an exciting venture! I'll be watching you again, and taking notes. Again, thanks!

[@RockinTheBassGuitar]

I'm in the middle of this transition; this is really useful. I unconsciously did some of this but didn't think it out so well (and already made some mistakes lol); so this gives me a lot of solid steps to take. Thank you!

[@Kim-hr3zr]

Wow I love your comments pretty

[@tetchedistress]

As I am disabled and not a normal size, when I find a shirt or dress in a thrift store that actually fits, I use it as a pattern. I'm not a good stitcher, but it works. I usually buy a cheaper cotton fabric as that is my personal asthetic. I love gingham. I have bought a couple of house dresses that I am so comfortable in, and once they are ready to "retire" I will be using them as patterns for my own stitchery. We live very simply, and I use this thinking in my personal life all of the time. I love blended ice coffee drinks. I make them at home. I love shifts and chemises as daily wear in summer. I make them. I love warm shawls, I make them. Though as my disability gets worse, this will have to change over time, as my ability to make is decreasing. Thank You for a lovely personal video. Take care.

[@someone3011]

This video is very timely and helpful. While I sort of wish I had seen this two years ago, it wouldn't have helped me then as I needed like a whole year to even begin to understand what my style truely is. I keep lusting after vastly different styles that just don't go together and it has been a whole journey to figure out what I should prioritize and what actually works on my body~

[@constanceinberkeleyca8685]

Hi Mariah - Just Loved your Video... Loved that U showed your 2 Sisters & their style!!! The Whys behind their Styles was really interesting too!!! I especially Love the Setting from which U're speaking!!! That Beautiful Antique Chair, with wine red Velvet fabric, next to the Fab little Antique Marble Topped Table, & the plant... I think this shows U are an Old Soul, as was I from the time I was a teen. I was quite close to my Grandparents & always loved Antiques & Vintage Clothes & Furniture! As a teen I began sewing & made the majority of my clothes. As I had a beau who was into cars, music, & fashion, my sewing allowed me to make what would have been clothes totally outside of my budget!!! In order to make a living & get away from my parents control, I joined the Air Force at age 19, which kinda ended most of my sewing efforts. Now, many years later, unfortunately I've gotten heavy. I'm back living with my Mum, as these days she needs the help. So, to be able to wear cute clothes, in a plus size, & maintain that Vintage twist, which I always enjoyed, I'm starting back to sewing again... I'm starting with some Vintage Aprons... Can't get much easier than that!!! ... No need for buttons, snaps, or zippers!!! If the Aprons go well, I'll move towards some skirts & dresses... I'll stick to the Aprons first. Thx so much for sharing!!!! FAB VIDEO!!!♡♡♡♡

[@debcarroll8192]

The timing on this video is perfect! I just retired from teaching last week. My style is quite a bit like yours (one of the reasons I love your channel), except for the summer boho category. Most people just tell me I "look like a character from a book." I always sewed some of my clothes, but now I will have the time to sew all of them, and this video gives me the perfect jumping-off point and inspiration. Thank you!

[@Kim-hr3zr]

Nice comments dear 😊

[@ritageorge8748]

After 'sewing' for others for over 50yr in NYC&CT.(&for myself) - comfort&natural is now #1 & all you say was so nice to hear&so relaxing for me to watch🤭doing nothing but coffee

[@christywilliams5636]

I’ve always wanted to make my own clothes. I’m just learning how to sew (like just learning how to thread the machine) and I have so much to learn. Thank you for a clearly thought out video.

[@patriciau6277]

With the quality of product the industry is pumping out today it should be very easy to do. Most clothing doesn’t really fit women. Buttons pop open, sleeves too short or tight, back and shoulders cut too tight. Cheap material (see through or man made). All reasons to make your own clothes and once you wear a garment that fits well………you’ll never go back.❤️

[@forsythia33]

This is so useful! I've spent the last year learning to sew at all (via various artsy projects, doll clothes, many videos, embroidery and so on, and am now really wanting to step into sewing my own clothes. I never find anything that's truly satisfying in stores. But your step by step process was super helpful - I hadn't thought about making a 'look book' to refer to, so that what I make will really be satisfying, fun, comfortable and useful for years to come. Thanks so much!

[@cascadiagrove6367]

...after arduously hunting down clothes that are 1. Natural materials 2. Functionality appropriate 3. In a color I’m willing to wear 4. Actually fit reasonably ok 5. A good (didn’t say cheap, I mean good) price. Having accomplished this, they then proceed to breakdown in less than two years. And the process starts all over again. I don’t have the “stop buying” problem. I have the “nothing is worth buying” problem. I stopped compromising on purchase a long time ago. I just go without, repair, etc. Figuring out how to make the things takes tremendous skill and thought. It’s worth it for many reasons. I’d note that fabric sourcing is still frought with shopping challenge. This video has lots of useful tips. It was fun to consider my uninhibited true style inspirations. I also want to sing the praises of a good capsule wardrobe and how this really encourages pieces that work well together. Durability is difficult to achieve with modern fabric. I get more mileage out of my mom’s handmedowns.

[@deliberatelyrandomCR]

This video is exactly what I needed for where I am in my sewing, thank you for making it, the timing is synchronicity at its finest

[@Kim-hr3zr]

😊wow you comments very nice

[@AngelaWills]

I've been looking around for videos on how to make your own wardrobe and I have to say thank you soo much for this! This has been on my heart to do for maybe fifteen years but I've never pursued it. A friend of mine who had been in fashion used to sew her own clothes somethings and she talked me out of it saying it was too hard. I have a number of reasons for wanting to sew my own wardrobe, too, including sustainability, ethics, getting clothes to fit and being creative with my outfits and personality. I also want good quality, long lasting clothes that are comfortable. I'm even more excited to get started after this video! Thanks again!

[@v-english2023]

Thank you! This is one of the very best videos I've seen in a long time! It's so incredibly helpful, thorogh and covers not just sewing, but decluttering and dealing with hobbies. You're brilliant!! It's a lifesaver for my current lifestyle decisions!! ❤

[@KenZchameleon]

I worked at Ross almost 20 years ago and since then hate paying full retail price on clothes. In the last 3 years I've pretty much only bought specialty shirts to support a cause, yoga pants, and underthings. I started knitting my own sweaters and friends gave me the jeans and shirts they no longer wear. In the last year, I started watching Bernadette and Rachel (max-ee, not makes-ee) and have taken their projects and made them my own. In the last 3 months I've made 2 knit maxi skirts, 2 Victorian-era walking skirts, made in printed cotton, a circle skirt in chambray cotton, and am now making a maxi dress in the same chambray, with another cotton skirt that's a combination of pattern pieces (not sure it will work, but I can always put the fabric aside for a different project!). All of these will be paired with t-shirts and sweaters/hoodies that I live in every day. So history-bounding-ish wardrobe. And I'm still within the business-casual requirements of my job (minus the hoodies). Thanks for the video! It's definitely going to help me going forward... and I see a purge in my future. :)

[@dianabakes1]

You did such an amazing job at articulating this process! I've been on this journey for 2 years (though I've really only been making clothes for a year) and I still get stuck in the trap of gravitating towards aesthetic rather than practicality. I also get hung up on being self conscious about what I like. I'm 35 and work in IT. I would live and breathe cottagecore if I felt like I could get away with it but I doubt I'd be taken seriously at my job (also, our dress code is casual, so it's not like I'm just a different type of dressy. I'm wearing dresses when everyone else is wearing jeans). So I'm still trying to figure out how to marry that aesthetic with practicality. I end up channeling Jessica Day a lot 😆

[@DetraDearmas]

As a person on the edge of decision, I bumped into your vid unexpectedly. I was pleasantly surprised. In my 20s I was assistant manager of a sewing factory that made highend outerwear and can do it all. my mother made my clothes at home with newspaper patterns. What am I waiting for? I don't know what I was thinking or expecting, just scolling and landing here with you. Now I have to do it! Just pull out the machine, paper and pencils, and the sketches I've been making, no excuses.

[@lincantatio7749]

this helped me so much, now i need to sit on my bottom an figure out what i actually want and use your video as a guidline. Also thank you for making your tased an example that help me as well~ p.s you look stunning in this video and p.p.s thank you so much for taking the time for doing this detaild video on this topic~

[@IndianPaintbrush1992]

13 minutes in. This is the first video of yours I’ve ever seen. I can already tell… girl, you’re gonna get me in trouble. 😂 Your aesthetic list is almost exactly the same as the one in my head. 😅