Mario's Self-Worth (Living with Sacral Agenesis and Goldenhar Syndrome)

Mario is diagnosed with Sacral Agenesis and Goldenhar Syndrome. He walks using his hands and fears that people are constantly judging him. Mario's hope is that people will talk to him about their interests instead of focusing on his differences.
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[@jessicabolinger1356]

He's so worried about ppl looking at his face, but there is absolutely nothing wrong with it.

[@jitkasuarez]

Seriously, he's a handsome young man. His anxiety about how people would receive him in this video, is so palpable--BUT what courage! He seems a lovely person and well on his way to fully embracing himself. Gotta check out his IG

[@maycasper2661]

Yeah he's way good looking

[@tracyfinch918]

Mario is awesome and a nice guy. I love the purple and green streaks 🤩💯 in his hair! So what if his ear is not fully formed. I see why he hides it.

[@enjakuro7048]

Yep. He is so handsome and his upper body strength OMG his biceps must be huge! I also really despise people who said the things that made him feel this way. Idk just keep it to yourself. People with a disability know what is wrong with them and they don't need your misplaced pity.

[@nadeen1111]

I love his "cut" after his thoughts ahaha he needs to be a director or something 🤪 But on a serious note, I remember this video when it was first released and just felt like hearing his story again. Such a charismatic young guy. 😇

[@loribaker-gould3415]

Very cool! Stay awesome, Mario!

[@MiracleAngel20]

That's exactly what I thought! He'd make a great director! Great job, Mario!

[@warrenshapiro1]

We love love love Mario in our house. He is a very funny, good guy. He loves to dance and has a great sense of humor. This is a terrific video, Mario! Great job! We feel very fortunate that we have gotten to know him through his facebook page and videos like this.

[@mandybear7063]

Shame on anyone who'd be mean to this young man! Mario is awesome. It makes me sad that he's so nervous because of the way people treat him. He's awesome! He's got awesome hair and awesome bracelets and awesome arms! He's an awesome dude. Mario deserves all the best friends he can have, and all the good things life can bring!

[@worldwed]

I would not want to arm wrestle Mario, he has the guns!

[@Best-est1]

Honestly though!!

[@maycasper2661]

Yeah, he's buff! Handsome, too!

[@bravebeard6225]

​@@maycasper2661 lol

[@morganalabeille5004]

You should look up some pics of Johnny Eck. Dude could stand upside down on a single hand.

[@sandrafoster7452]

Anyone that bullies you is a person to feel sorry for, because they're lacking character. You're a great guy. You should hold your head high and look people in the eye. Shine your light.

[@A13XLaircey]

Mario just seems like the kind of guy who'd make a really cool friend! Watching this, I'd like to be his friend!

[@veebot75]

He’ll take you to the Mushroom Kingdom

[@toddsin8611]

I find Mario to be very inspirational. He experiences the same emotional struggles I, and most others I know, do but unlike me, he is strong enough to share them with other people. I mostly keep mine inside so people won’t judge me but hope one day I can be strong and courageous like Mario to be able to share them with other people.

[@cannedcatfood]

Your hair is awesome, Mario! I hope you can feel more positivity from people than the negative ones...people who are negative are only lashing out because they are hurting inside and just trying to hurt others regardless of who they are. I had severe scoliosis growing up and people made fun of my back brace and how my back looked. But I'm 32 now and I feel I wouldn't be the person I know and love today without my diagnosis. We are stronger people because of it. Carry on Mario, you are strong and amazing!

[@IndianaJonas96]

Dude your character is wicked, you seriously come off as a really cool person and oh my gosh the strength of your arms Be proud as heck

[@abelwyn]

Mario! You asked some questions, and asked to know more about us, the viewers! I am a full time student (studying Psychology) and a Veteran. I served in the Navy. I like music, cross-stitching, and reading about new technology and medical advancements. I also struggle with loving myself, and accepting myself. I have anxiety, insomnia, depression, and I have OCD. Specifically, I have Trichotillomania, which means I pull out my hair in anxiety, as well as bite my nails and cheeks. I struggled with bullying and self-confidence from elementary, and still struggle now. I am always trying to learn more about mental illness, and how to help myself, and maybe one day, I'll help others! I wanted to say I love your hair style! I used to dye my hair the same colors in high school! I think you're a pretty fun person, and I empathize with your bullying experiences. I hope you have found closer friends, and feel more comfortable showing your full self to others!

[@shemiibrahim817]

He is such a legend! Love it Who is binge watching his videos and now leaving the comments they have been bottling up for the past like 3 yrs

[@JojoJojo-qr5ye]

I can see where Mario gets his strength - what a lovely family, God bless you all !

[@victoriap1649]

Omg I LOVE your hair Mario!! Holy heck that’s the coolest hair I’ve ever seen. I absolutely love how the colors are muted into black hair, but are still vibrant at the same time. Seriously so dope, I want the same hair lol. Anyway! I loved watching, and I’m so sorry people can be so ableist and mean and ignorant. If you’re ever in South Florida I would love to hang out and show you around

[@fumblebunny1993]

People may stare at him because they are thinking "what a good-looking guy"! That is the first thing I thought when I saw Mario in this video. Mario, thank you for introducing yourself to the world :)

[@nightyew2160]

I can relate to wanting more personal space and feeling nervous around dogs. Maybe part of it is that dogs don't respect personal space. I know you were nervous, but you did a great job in the interview.

[@andreacerulli9669]

Mario is super funny, and he likes a lot of things I do We could talk about music for few hours, such a cool guy:')

[@colleenwhitman9040]

He’s a very handsome young man! And he’s intelligent and personable. He needs to understand that as he gets older he WILL find a nice young lady to share his life with, he’ll find friends that are good and decent.

[@jz807]

Yo man, if people were as empathetic as Mario, the world would definitely be a better place

[@CaptainCrankyBeard]

start with urself

[@anactualalpaca7016]

@@CaptainCrankyBeard Likewise, Andreos.

[@rebeccabarnett2907]

​@@anactualalpaca7016 I was thinking the same thing. Their being a troll.

[@burly636]

All these people are so courageous. Mario is no a exception.

[@hellcatchuck2723]

You’re not awkward and we all love seeing your face. It’s a great face! Keep being incredible.

[@grandmakris8935]

Mario you are a handsome young man! I hope you find that you are very blessed as you are here for a reason! You are wonderful just as you are and those that have hurt you are not worth you're time! That's their loss! Don't allow them to make you feel less than! In time your inner strength and confidence will grow! Thank you for giving so many people the chance to meet you! God Bless!

[@marifortanelli6505]

I love this guy and I can relate to his feelings how he feels but he’s actually a great person and amazing so he I hope he stops being so hard on himself

[@kMac862]

You seem like such a sweet guy, Mario! I hope you and your family are doing well!

[@ashleighcarroll687]

Mario is a national treasure.

[@terrym5023]

Mario, you are VERY attractive. Anyone who disrespects you will have to deal with Karma. Which NEVER forgets..

[@margiecarol2944]

There's no such thing as Karma; that is new age religion. The only way to God is through Jesus Christ, God's only begotten Son. Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life and no man cometh unto the Father but by Him. Found in the New Testament of the Holy Bible, John 14:6.

[@terrym5023]

@@margiecarol2944 you are what's wrong with organized religion you have every right to worship and follow the tenants of any religion you please you have absolutely NO RIGHT to tell anyone else how to believe. MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS AND LIVE YOUR LIFE AS YOU SEE FIT DON'T TRY AND INFLUENCE OTHERS

[@margiecarol2944]

@@terrym5023 Jesus died and rose again on the third day to save all who come to Him in faith. But how can they know if no one tells them? Frankly, I do not want to stand before my maker on judgment day and be found lacking. So, I think that you should mind your own business. You know, some punk said something similar to Ray Comfort of Living Waters ministry when he was sharing the Gospel of Jesus Christ with some others. He said, "You should just stay out of it". YOU have no right to tell someone who is trying to tell others about the Savior, Jesus Christ, a simple story of truth and love and grace of God. You REALLY DON'T, Terry M.

[@svendontgive5615]

@@margiecarol2944 Oh man oh man...

[@vladimir8035]

@@terrym5023 Still doesn't change that karma doesn't exist.

[@caseywalton6355]

Mario your smile and quick wit are absolutely mizmerizing. I watched your interview and spent more time absorbed in your good looks and the other times were spent laughing. You are absolutely a crowd pleaser. Please let it all out. Be who you are just as I described you, others will see you that way if you just let them see who you are. You are so entertaining. So full of good energy. How can others get to know you if you don't let them. The Bible says to not hide your candle under a Bush. You are to let it shine. You dont realize how many "normal' people are far worse off then you. You have the traits of becoming a great comedian. Nobody cares about the things you dwell on especially if you just open the door and let us in. I love you. I see a beautiful man who has more going for him then he is utilizating. Don't stop. Build on your great talents and character. You've already got the good looks. Pass it around. Be a blessing to others . you've got so much going for you. Pass it forward. So many need what you have. Especially kids your age. They are lost and lonely and really have nothing going for them. Most jocks end up accomplishing zero while you become a comedy hit on Broadway. Let it let shine let it shine let it shine. Love you kid.

[@DeadSesh]

I hope you’re doing well Mario! Glad to have gotten to know you a little bit! Wish you the best

[@idontknowmuch3441]

What a beautiful Young man. I hope he finds all the happiness he deserves

[@marleenninaka1303]

Hi everyone: It's nice to see you all again on KZbin. I hope to meet you all one day. Take care and stay safe.

[@Wingalaxi]

He's very bright, witty and amusing. Very likeable. Good interview, as always.

[@kathrinemc1664]

Mario, thank you for letting us into your world. You are one good looking guy and it's no suprise that you have a lot of friends. Those that disrespect you need to look at themselves in mirror long and hard. It's not ok to disrespect anyone. I'm sorry you have to experience that. I am glad that you love yourself. You are clearly beautiful on the inside too. Love and light from Ireland 💞💫💞💫💞💫💞💫

[@venessalizabeth]

Dude, Mario is freaking cute 🥺

[@bizarreisthenewblack]

i'v been following mario on instagram since i first saw this and he always has super cool hair! seeing him and his family always puts a smile on my face, they're so nice and fun

[@toritime943]

Do you mind sharing his Instagram would love to follow him

[@bizarreisthenewblack]

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[@lightlanguage-clarityconsc5299]

You've got a great smile Mario and I really like your personality and courage to be part of this interview! I too was bullied for 5 years as a kid and it was very tough on my following years. Music, art, friends and family helped me to get over my difficulties as a bullied child. Keep up the great work and attitude!

[@toomuchtotype6079]

You the man Mario! 🙏🏼 Keep your head up bro. 💪🏼💯🙏🏼

[@susanyates8038]

Mario, you have a great face and great hair-no need to hide --you looked great on your video!

[@krispiccone]

What a very interesting and handsome guy! I’m sad that he’s had people make snide remarks but I think his parents are correct that most people are just curious. I hope he gets more comfortable in front of the camera because he is such a rock star! Love his charisma and peppy personality 🙌🏻💕

[@magnusa.tnnessen2740]

love how the tshirt matches

[@meganrose7866]

Mario, you rock! You are awesome! Keep smiling and being you! 🤘😁

[@ginaandseason2774]

Mario you were so brave to do this interview and brought tons of awareness to bullying..I promise you it will get better.

[@trolltrucker4225]

Dude your awesome. Don't worry about people judging you, you being a good person is what's important. I'd totally be your friend

[@victoriajeanleslie3116]

Ya boy got some absolute guns for arms

[@phile5437]

Hey Mario! I grew up listening to punk and ska. My favorite ska bands are Voodoo Glow Skulls, Baccone Dolce, Mad Caddies, Reel Big Fish, Snuff and Mighty Mighty Boss Tones. There's more, I can't really remember them all. I hope social interactions get better for you. There's a lot of people who would like to be friends with you, myself included!

[@itsmelive]

Also, my favorite part of the interview was him saying he wanted to hear about others. He was so connected from the first things you said about coffee and tea...I'd love to see Mario conducting interviews!

[@milypallares19]

I really like this guy I don't know why, he must be a great friend

[@christine8459]

I hope you're doing great Mario!!!!! And I'm also hoping that the world would be kinder and nicer to everyone. Keep on rocking!!!! Wishing the very best for you and your loving family❤

[@beyourself4996]

You're so brave keep your strength always on!

[@barbaralee2063]

You are so kind ! ❤

[@kaylabarnes]

You're such a cool guy Mario.

[@nyanfpv4872]

I like your hair! You're good, all good, a real cool dude. If you drop by Singapore by any chance, my family would like to give you a tour of Singapore.

[@cathrynpaterson7539]

Chris, I'm so glad that I found your interviews! We all have our struggles but learning about the REAL struggles of these young (and sometimes older people) certainly puts one's life in perspective. Hopefully, those people, who take the time to watch your interviews, are reinforcing values they already have. Unfortunately, the bad people Mario encounters will never change. I now subscribe to Rowdy Burton's page thanks to discovering your video about him yesterday.

[@lisakeller9285]

Mario, you for sure have the best hair, but that's not what really stands out...it's your great personality and sense of humor. You're stronger than you know, and not one of those "bad" people out there could hold a candle to the man that you are! Always be kind, you deserve love in this life, and thank God every day for making you just the way you are, with the nicest adoptive parents anyone could have!

[@margaretcooper797]

Mario is a great character and a very brave young man.

[@terrio5662]

God Bless you Mario, you have wonderful parents and wishing you the best for the future. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@janiceyoung7273]

I think you are grand,handsome,smart,and you have a good sense of humor.I wish you all the best in whatever you do. God Bless your HEART.

[@DugEphresh]

God bless you Mario, you are a good looking straight up phresh dude! You will make your mark on society, and I am honored to have seen you before you blew up!

[@smgibson1989]

Mario you are amazing and someone like you is a gift. People should be thanking YOU for being in their lives. Anyone “bad” doesn’t deserve your respect any way. You rock

[@P4RT4RI0]

this kid is so funny and chill. hope he's doing great. seems like a very kind soul

[@hugoboss5895]

I struggle really struggle to understand bullying to people kids especially that are a little different. This fella is another on this channel that is the coolest human being and nicest you could ever meet.

[@sharimagnetti3257]

I'm sorry you have had to deal with some horrible people I can relate I was horribly bullied when I was younger and it still effects me 25+ years later You seem like an awesome guy and you definitely have far more confidence that I did I think you have something great in store for your future. Keep being you but dont hide away because of the few horrible people show who you are and do it proudly for yourself and for the nice people you will meet in the future they wont see you if you keep hiding 😊 and that smile is too gorgeous to not share with the world!!

[@shaleamontanez4591]

And cut! Loved it the entire time.

[@jareddavidmanifold313]

He's 1 of the nicest coolest people I've ever seen on KZbin! What an awesome amazing young man.

[@smgibson1989]

All I want to do is tell Mario he is awesome! Don’t EVER let the bad people weigh you down or be worried how others think. Maybe that’s easier for me to say, but i swear Mario if i had the chance i would LOVE to friends! Don’t you dare worry for another second! The people that could be “bad” aren’t worth your time and respect any way! There are people out there who will or already want you in their lives. Someone with your personality, energy and cool hair(and more) haha is someone that will make our lives better! We need your personality in this world and touching so many. You are a gift of a person and anyone is lucky to know you , i can already tell!

[@KimZetroc]

You’ve got some spunk, Mario! Keep it up! Always be exactly you!

[@FunsweetJennifer]

Mario you have such a wonderful personality, your sense of humor is infectious. You’re Amazingly so strong and brave! You have a beautiful smile with a Golden heart and soul. 😊

[@artie2668]

God bless you and your family Mario 🙏❤️

[@jodib2895]

What a great kid!!! I loved this interview 🥰 and he’s got the best hair! 🙌🏼

[@rocknepoovey4381]

Absolute lovely soul

[@carnageasada5282]

Such a kind soul. I love the way he says "cut"

[@joanbaczek2575]

I loved when he said “an cut” he has great comedic timing. I’m shocked a dr would say he wouldn’t have resuscitated Mario.

[@sugarzombiegingercakes494]

What a wonderful man!!

[@barbaradeschamps4532]

You are rockin it, Mario❣❣ Awesome young man 💖

[@FullTimePatient37]

I learnt so much not only about different people but how to talk and react your awesome 😎😎😎😎😎

[@benmoore4529]

Mario is funny love em❤️🤟

[@laurahaton2320]

This guy is great. I love his attitude.

[@carolcoenraad6036]

I love your video channel Mario is fantastic!

[@Syrupsssss]

He’s great at expressing his needs and thoughts. He has great hair, a handsome smile, indeed a great sense of humor and like the coolest vibe ever 😎 Rock on dude you are awesome and I really enjoyed this interview! I loved the coffee/tea conversation and also about ska music- so funny!! ❤ I’m also adopted and so is my good friend. I hope he feels and sees all our love for him.

[@AureaisChannel]

I seriously can't believe that there are people bullying him frequently, it disgusts me how much lack of empathy and reason so many people have. But I am glad that platforms like SBSK exist so Mario can see all the good out there. I don't have any disability myself and I don't have close ones with one either; but I love watching this channel and learn in how many shapes and varieties of people exist, which has helped me to be more understanding. Thank you Chris!

[@AmandaYoungss]

The first thing I thought of him before I even heard him speak was that I really love his haircut and that's before I knew he was using it to cover his ear... I also thought wow, he's really good looking and that's me being honest not just saying something he wants to hear

[@davidelliott9661]

He is more normal than he thinks he is. I could barely do a Zoom interview the other day. Hes a good-looking guy. I think so many people messed with him he now has anxiety when he could be chillen. Nervous is a mental condition that can be calmed down. He needs people who aren't immature around him. I would hang out with him.

[@winnypsychologist2560]

Mario is fresh energy in the room, I love your personality, playfulness. I would definitely be your friend I was in your neighborhood. You are truly awesome, special and lovely. I wish you all the happiness in the world.

[@kevinkandra3862]

I like the “and cut” he says lol. He’s a good guy.

[@Lcurtx9059]

Mario, Love your haircut. And your bracelets. You have beautiful soul! Enjoy video to get to know you better. Thank you for participating in video.

[@kitandsons173]

Handsome, funny, loves ska, coffee, loves his Mom. Seriously, he is perfect young man!!

[@kingslandmusicproductionsi6565]

Dude the fact you the interview shows your strength never walk in fear

[@abcs3356]

We love you Mario! ❤

[@karyne826]

Mario seems the perfect friend to me 👌

[@drewtweedie7408]

Mario you're handsome AF. Sorry people have tried to get you down. Love the "cut" calls.

[@tonileavitt7994]

Such sweet person

[@LilyOfTheTower]

I would love to have an update on Mario. He's a cool guy. I'd love to hear about his interests and new favorite things in life.

[@bethparrock2637]

I think he’s great, what a sense of humor! Cut!

[@julianna1200]

What a great guy! Love his hair and shirt!!!

[@ronniemullins4690]

U freaking rock Mario... keep on keeping on and shake .. shake..shake it off

[@Boomhower89]

I love ya buddy. You seem like a super nice guy. Anxiety is horrible to live with.

[@starfishsayshello]

Omg Mario I'd love to be your friend you're such a cool dude

[@MrLink1701]

Mario is seriously cool. I love his style, and I love ska!

[@hanneb.f.1966]

To Mario. You are not that old yet, I hope your confidence and belief in yourself will grow . Believe in yourself 💖

[@albertoponcemusic]

You are awesome Mario 💪😎

[@lambo485]

Mario is amazing!....you got 2 friends here ..homie:)