"The 4 REASONS You're SINGLE & Can't Find LOVE" | Marisa Peer

[@abuhuraira3685]

Love is not something you go out and look for Love finds you And when it does Ready or not It'll be the best thing to ever happen to you

[@acessemanez9147]

💕 wow

[@whatrtheodds]

This is a🌼 fantasy lie🌼, I was single for 5 years, hard worker, fit, kind, smart... Not till I started to work on finding someone did it happen. Love does NOT just find you. Now I'm wondering why people say that just because it's their experience. Not like that for everyone.

[@meshezza]

@@whatrtheodds totally agree! Been single for three years... no love has knocked on my door!

[@latabernadelduende]

@@whatrtheodds love your comment! that's true each one of us has its own experience with love ❤️

[@leticiapalomimo6704]

I agree with u. Thanks.

[@ChiChi-td9qm]

I am worthy I am lovable IAM beautiful and unique I am stunning IAM wonderful I am amazing

[@MarisaPeer]

Beautiful (Kim - Marisa Peer Team) 🌸

[@msfifi8669]

it’s so liberating when you love yourself , prioritise your needs and stop trying to take responsibility for every adult around you/family it’s actually exhausting. I am much much happier since I started taking your advice into practice. Thank you ❤

[@Melanie9292]

Always helpful information Marisa. I've been single for 16 years. I want to be in a nourish relationship that brings joy and support to our lives. Thanks a lot and keep on helping us with emotions and self help tools. Love you and greetings from Spain, Galicia.

[@jillmariaplatteaux6083]

Hola Melanie. Yo tambien tantos años..relaciones traumaticos con hombres que no pueden dar amor. Me da pena para ellos. Lloré 9 meses ahora para alguién quen es un narcisto. No entiendo todavia qua ha pasado.. ahora enfoco en mi en mi récuperacion.. en mis retos en mis hobbies.. quiza un dia...

[@InLoveWithItSo]

I'm so grateful of KZbin, to have chance to meet Marisa's incredibly icredible speechs! Thank you, you inspire me each and everyday!

[@chrisamon3714]

Hello

[@iamthatiam44444]

Last relationship I was in I decided when he dies that's it for me, I want my freedom to do as I please and not have to answer to anyone! 17 years on I'm still single and I love it!😇🥰 🥳 the growth I have managed in those years is incredibly intense.

[@patriciax3677]

You go woman. 😀

[@boostmobile9249]

This person is CORDIAL, COURTEOUS, & INTERESTING & WORTHY OF SUPPORT, Daily .

[@gertrudewest4535]

I love your videos...what a beautiful way to start my morning. Marissa, you’re helping me to change my life. I am not looking for a human partner ( I really love being by myself because of my pets and wildlife rescue), but as I give myself permission to love myself I am reconnecting with pure joy and spreading it around.

[@chantalelzingaofficial]

Love your singleness first. I see so many people that can't even handle the relationship with themselves and than looking for a partner to fulfill their needs and emptiness, they most likely choose someone who is also a mess and than they have the relationship that is a mess and they blame everything on their partner. Stop looking for someone else to fulfill you. Being single doesn't mean you're alone...

[@helios5561]

Thundercats oh !!!

[@1ACL]

It's possible to not be partnered and be happy. Not everyone wants to be married. I feel this video actually reinforces negative feelings in people.

[@averagejane09]

So grateful for you Marissa. We need to be taught the art of conversation and friendship earlier on. I wish I could have been exposed to this as a young woman. It is so daunting to now undo years of being wired to not feel loveable. It is like swimming upstream. Expecially when you think you are finally getting it and something happens to put you back at square one. Takes even more strength to fight letting yourself slide back into old beliefs. This is when I reach for Marissa to keep me from going backwards. The world needs more Marissa.

[@dianeedwards9992]

Love Marisa's work, but she talks about being lovable even when you're not perfect but then has clips of perfect couples playing in the background!!!!!

[@TheConservativeHippie]

That’s exactly what I thought

[@missair222]

I just turned 44 and have been single for about 8 years and I’m really struggling with feeling unworthy. Exactly all these things Marissa is saying - I’m not enough, I’m not interesting enough. I am absolutely scared of being rejected and it’s hard to imagine any man truly loving me. My family is not wealthy and I feel inadequate or feel guilty that a man will just think he is losing out it that he could do better. It’s awful and I’ve tried to listen to hypnosis for years to help me.

[@kaym.p.9805]

Turn every one of those negatives into positive and watch how things will turn around I’m not struggling I’m worthy I am enough Etc etc. smile every time you say it Just love “you”

[@jolantabona3050]

But you're so pretty ❤

[@lonjemariesfashions5117]

When you understand mostly accept how does God see me? It changes EVERYTHING!

[@helenasanmo9818]

Just decide to love you. You are someone's dream. Work on yourself and how you talk to yourself

[@MarisaPeer]

Amazing (Kim - Marisa Peer Team) 🌸

[@jackiepark4673]

Well I was in 2 long relationships,and they had their good times but overall they where emotionally draining,I bought my 2 sons up on my own and the love and joy we shared enriched our lives.no bossy husband or partner trying to please them all the time,making our own decisions and doing what we wanted whenever .I realized the beliefs that you need a man is far from true learning to be free in your own soul is beautiful and far more enriching than being tied to any man.

[@juliettesleeve6763]

I agree with you Jackie I'm doing same thing as you Being tied to bossy partner of which most men are Is exhausting and listening to there nonsense everyday is also stressful I love making my own rules and doing what I want to do is so much more interesting and fun However when we where young we where molded into this marriage by our parents and society Its just illusion That all it is Its a fake from start However there are some women who still fall for this unless they have they cant function There not independent not intelligent to make there own life's They will be wearing aprons and asking for twenty dollars to buy a dress omg what a life but you change it they where molded into this from beginning of time Only the smart ones run make there own lives

[@malcolmnicoll1165]

Even if I never find another love, just listening to Marisa’s talk lifted my spirits. I feel like a giant burden has been taken away. If you don’t love yourself, what’s the use of someone else loving you?

[@dorcasvivian8240]

I agree with you on this

[@EvaMariposa]

"Appliances are not gifts! " Words of pure wisdom... In 10 yrs of marriage I got an ironing board, a blender and a vacuum cleaner ... Guess that's what led to my divorce 😂

[@groove1486]

You are describing my marriage....I also got a pink can opener (did not need another one and pink is not my fav color, on top of it)....finally I understand why I got divorced, small kitchen appliances! 😄🤣

[@cutesong2608]

Dont worry. You are great

[@gudrunerlingsdottir4590]

I appreciate Marisa's work sooo much - that she share her wisdom with us ! The only thing that bothers me watching this - talking about averaged people - is here we only see thin good looking people - it doesn't match with the content ....

[@LateshaRenee]

I'm soooo happy I discovered this woman. I absolutely LOVE how she makes everything so simple. Thank you for your wisdom ❤

[@MarisaPeer]

Thanks for the lovely feedback Latesha, Marisa will be delighted :) Marisa Peer Team

[@norayolanda1394]

Thank you Marisa, I believe this is life changing - I felt better just listening because it makes so much sense.

[@MarisaPeer]

So glad you've enjoyed this video Nora xx Marisa Peer Team

[@shelleydavis5231]

Oh Marissa.. you touch on all the right points that makes us think we are unlovable, thank you for talking about this, so many suffer in silence around this

[@LejlaEnigma91-oy1mj]

Thank you so much,you Are Amazing ,i needed this ..i suffered alot Because of my mother saying mean things to me..self love is important but many people go in life with broken spirit and is not so easy to get back to normal after but there is a healing ,more to life

[@helios5561]

Kiss y love beautiful @Silvana silva 😘😘😘😘😘😘

[@abhijitc251083]

I am not going back where I wasnt valued. Thank you Ms Peer.

[@KendraLock]

So lucky to be happily married for eighteen yeears and know first hand what Marisa says is true. Love yourself first. Be and fall in love with your life and the right person will come along. Excellent video and advice for those looking for love.

[@chrisamon3714]

Hello nice comment

[@rubyg2004]

I would like to fall in love with someone that loves me. I noticed that I reject those that show too much love and admiration towards me. I push them away because suddenly they aren't attractive to me anymore. Then I end up falling for those that show less love towards me. They end up hurting me or cheating on me. I've been struggling with this for years and I just cant figure out why. I can't force myself to love someone that's good for me. I wish I can fix this about me 😔

[@jennahaze6835]

because you have unrealistic expectations

[@8hiba]

Wouldn't it be wonderful if my future partner also watched it, especially the last part. 😂 She explains everything so nicely.

[@nathalie5238]

When you love yourself so why do people still leave you? I know it is not me , I saw his flaws what even made him more lovable to me ... out of nowhere he left after he was so into me to start with 😔

[@larisacorrea423]

Because he was not compatible to you - you dodged a bullet Thank god and move on-you deserve better Authentic Real Genuine

[@lonjemariesfashions5117]

He left NOT because of you. He just wasn’t the ‘one’. You can’t change a person leaving you you can only control the way you talk and see yourself. He fumbled the ball, it’s his loss. Celebrate he just moved out of the way for the gentleman that God has for you!

[@somai_1]

Omg. When I had a boyfriend years ago I felt something must be wrong with him if he loves me.

[@elainebraindrain3174]

I love what you said "if you believe you are lovable you will receive love" it may not be a partner it could be friends associates, neighbors, Etc be happy that you are loved by others! Thank u for this truth. 🥰

[@MarisaPeer]

Pleasure! ❤️ Marisa Peer Team

[@hejira4153]

Thank you Marissa x Your scars make you loveable - thank you. Love to everyone listening x

[@irishcloverleafshamrock2476]

I am lovable worthy of love I am beautiful love I deserve love no matter what

[@MarisaPeer]

True! Keep reminding yourself that and don't let other people say otherwise. You are lovable and worthy of loving! 💖

[@nancybennett1375]

I love my self so much . But love always passes me by . I have my children but never been in love ever . I am 43 years old.

[@elsamarinamartinez908]

I am so grateful 🙏 for this platform and for us to be able to watch these amazing videos from educated, passionate and dedicated professionals with huge hearts. Thank you Marisa for all of you content, meditations, hypnosis and RTT !! My life has been transformed everytime I watch one of your videos. Thank you also for teaming up with other amazing 👏 and educated professionals who also bring great positive change to this world. Thank you for your wisdom and for sharing Your personal stories and how you have applied your work to your life as well. Thank you.

[@ryulee458]

I'm so glad that my nurse gave me your KZbin channel she explains so much to me of why I felt the way I did she was an angel sent by God

[@MarisaPeer]

❤️

[@tamarawest6203]

I have learnt self love and self acceptance over the past few years and have never felt so happy within myself and with my life. When you love yourself you treat yourself with great kindness and respect while also having a constant flow of love toward yourself, regardless of what is happening outside of you. Finding the IDEAL partner has been FAR more difficult than learning to love myself. Dating is the most tiresome chore I've ever had to do and unfortunately will have to continue to do. Compatibility and a shared vision are extremely important in a relationship, not just feelings of romantic love. Being with the right partner rather than the wrong partner is an expression of self love.

[@boostmobile9249]

We all need friends to look after each other 😉😉🤣😉🤣😉 for real

[@marygrace3343]

Wow this spoke volumes. I’ve been single for 3 years since my last relationship. It’s hard to find. I believe my first boyfriend was my first love. I have never found anyone like him and I always think about and compare to the guys I’ve been dating that my first love treated me like a queen. However he was bipolar and too flighty in the end. I will miss him. I know I will find my next love. Whether that’s in the next 1,3 or 3 years

[@lollercopterz100]

Thank you. I am enough

[@susanfarren7065]

Just a thought... if there’s a presentation about not having to be beautiful and perfect, don’t have b roll video filled with perfect sexy models which is the opposite of the message being given.

[@Lev_Kornowska]

I love this video. You mentioned everything I came to understand when I had a good look at myself and my life when I was diagnosed with an inoperable tumour. I did a complete overhaul of my thinking patterns and even wrote a 360 pages book about it. It took me 49 years to understand that all I ever needed was myself and that I am perfectly imperfect the way I am. I also want others to understand this sooner!

[@MarisaPeer]

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[@ayorkii]

I kind of like her ... she sounds so wise.

[@Antonina81]

You are The Best Marisa! You bring me up every time. I am thinking a lot of every your word. And you are right! My problems are matching with every thing you are talking about. Live happly 120 years! God bless you!

[@robertsellers2846]

Oh my word I’m so glad I stumbled across this lady ! It’s all starting to make perfect sense , I’ve a depressed mind that needs reprogramming and a big wall that needs knocking down that I’ve built up around me . a lot of hard work , determination and a big challenge ahead . Looking forward to putting these tips and advice to the test . Let the fun begin Thank you Marisa

[@MarisaPeer]

You've got this ❤️

[@lonjemariesfashions5117]

Thank you! I love your videos I am always referring someone to you you’re beautiful and I love your voice thank you for what you do! MOST people love your work, The very small percentage of people who don’t they are entitled to their opinion ,and I know you don’t let it bother you because it shouldn’t ,everybody’s not supposed to like your work. You have helped thousands if not millions of people keep on doing what you’re doing the World need you

[@biancapal1800]

Oh my gosh you are so wonderful "Domestic appliances are not gifts for Christmasses or birthdays'. Can I get that printed on a T-Shirt? Seriously Marisa, I love this video, you are such an inspiration. I just know that 2021 will be the year I finally find love.

[@cherylmason8177]

Thank you Marisa! You are great and so talented! You have no idea how much listening to your videos have helped me and in such a short time! Please keep them coming! 😊😘

[@janna7777]

You are making real points and focus on essential things.IT'S WONDERFUL❤and real pleasure to listen to you❤

[@MarisaPeer]

Hi there! Thank you so much for your kind words towards Marisa, I will be sure to pass them on (Kim - Marisa Peer Team) 🌺

[@Jesuslovesus599]

I love Marissa and her voice is so soothing

[@RJ-lr8ir]

“If you recycle that card, I’m going to recycle you” 😂😂 idk why but that made me crack up

[@kalznam683]

I love hearing your messages it just makes so much sense...thankyou so much.

[@Warp_Portal]

wise words, it's really an unnatural mindset that holds people back. Thank you.

[@TheSjumc]

Thank you Marisa. I always feel better after watching your videos! 🙏💜

[@uglaegilsdottir]

Preach it, Sister!

[@chrisamon3714]

Hello

[@jwon5614]

Or you want people who are either emotionally or physically unavailable

[@ahoyair]

Thanks for changing lives. I just found out he cheated and of course lied in my face. Finally, all the truth to the questions I had in December came to me. It is a closure. Someone hurt you like this, what can you do? Really, not much, but I move on. The only way is to move on. I believe my next man is around the corner. For now, I need to do my own things, smash my goals. By the way, that guy cheated on me I met him on online app.

[@MarisaPeer]

I'm so sorry to hear this, but really encouraged that you have a mindset to move on and focus on yourself and your own goals. Wishing you the very best xx Marisa Peer Team

[@ghofranechetouanetara1548]

Me because I love strongly myself and appreciate it, I don't need anyone else's love, I am satisfied

[@MarisaPeer]

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[@svilenaninetta9838]

The most beautiful voice in the world. Thank you🖤 🌹

[@TrishDietlessLife]

Marisa you are brilliant. Thank you so much for this wonderful video...Much love.💞🤗

[@patriciax3677]

Nothing wrong w being single. It sure beats being married to th wrong person. And feminism helped me b comfortable living w my guy for 24 years before we married. We’ve been together 40+ good years now. I strongly believe feminist ideas helped us have a healthier relationship. We work at not taking each other for granted and being respectful to each other. Plus a sense of humor helps too.

[@nina29600]

I specifically told my husband not to get me stuffed toys or roses for my birthday and he got me both... I’m still angry one month later.

[@aluda1417]

You are really pretty 🌺your voice is soothing

[@4theloveofit625]

Gorgeous in blue 😍😍 and of course the message is 👌👌

[@patsyporter1266]

you gave me a much needed chuckle how lovely thank you Marisax

[@chandlerchandelier]

Thank you, Marisa, for posting these insightful, helpful videos. I would like to ask you to make a video about jobs, careers, and navigating a job that I do not like. I have listened to you advise on using colorful, exciting language to tell my brain what I want, telling my brain I want this job, I have chosen this job; however, how does one know when a job just isn't right? I have heard you speak about how you once studied to be a child psychiatrist, but didn't like it, so you became an aerobics instructor in L.A. for Jane Fonda. How did you make that change? Did you feel guilt for changing your job? How did you know you could make that change? For some reason I feel obligated to stay in my current job because I'll be a quitter and a failure if I don't, but I am uninterested in the job. It depletes my energy. I actually hate the job even though I've told my mind I love it and I chose it.

[@MarisaPeer]

Hi, thank you so much for your suggestions. I will make sure that I pass these on to Marisa and the team 🌸 (Kim - Marisa Peer Team)

[@samanthavindel1588]

Marisa you make me feel alive

[@jennyjohno9566]

My good friend has introduced me to Marisa’s therapy’s and wow am I grateful ❤️🙌🏼

[@MarisaPeer]

🥰

[@makpalsuleimanova2928]

I love you, Marisa ❤. Feel soon delighted after your videos. 😘😘😘

[@SonyeoMargit]

They love me, I cant love them back. And I will prolly never know what love is because theyr so what inagetantion love will fade away before I even get to know that word or smry like that. But I do what love is for few. I would never harm them.

[@ninor.9875]

That's what I had been thinking unconsciously during whole my childhood

[@lporquai9048]

Me too

[@alexiahart9034]

Where are the flawed people in the videos?

[@footlongsubzero1128]

Thank you so much Marisa, much love from Melbourne Australia

[@johncrilly3126]

her voice is so soothing!!!

[@susantompkins4254]

I don’t find a man that I’m attracted to and I don’t know why, I wish I could I don’t know what I’m doing wrong x

[@thefarmersdaughter8235]

Not even men in a magazine?

[@susantompkins4254]

@@thefarmersdaughter8235 no ....I think I'm worried of getting hurt again I can catch them but I can't keep them 🤔

[@thefarmersdaughter8235]

@@susantompkins4254 Try to not get serious about them until you know what they want. Don't sleep with them for sometime. Just be friends. Have fun.

[@susantompkins4254]

@@thefarmersdaughter8235 yes your right iam chatting with someone and we do seem to be getting along but time will tell and thank you 😊

[@janenicholson1654]

Thank you so much for this; your video has come at a much needed time. It very much resonates that you don't have to be a size 2 to find love and that condition was brain washed into me as a child. I don't want to meet anyone on a dating site because I go on chemistry and I can't see that through a computer screen or phone. Thanks so much XX

[@MarisaPeer]

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[@faisalhaiderkhan9427]

If u look for the love,u won't find it usually...Be the love ur self..

[@nazaninhoushmast4390]

I can't begin to express my gratitude for every word you kindly shared. Many thanks. Is there a way to get an appointment for one to one sessions if it would be possible, please?

[@naileaolivas2788]

I cried really

[@chrisamon3714]

Hello olivas

[@naileaolivas2788]

@@chrisamon3714 hello

[@chrisamon3714]

How are you doing?

[@dorcasvivian8240]

Thank you Marisa for enlightening this topic for me personally

[@chrisamon3714]

Hello nice comment

[@dorcasvivian8240]

@@chrisamon3714 Hey and thank you

[@chrisamon3714]

@@dorcasvivian8240 how are you doing??

[@MarisaPeer]

💖 Marisa Peer Team

[@mads6847]

What about when you state your expectations or needs and they don't care/ don't take them into account?😔

[@lonjemariesfashions5117]

Just maybe there’s a reason not an excuse why they are hesitant or can’t. It’s about communication ,if that doesn’t work ,or they make absolutely no effort , or explanation why they can’t, they MAY not be the one for you.

[@hejira4153]

Not the one for you, have been there too. Honour your needs xxx

[@swisselle]

... and all we see in the visuals are perfect people kissing each other. but it's not about how you look, or is it? while listening to what you say I see something different and as a visual person I save the words with the pictures I see at the same time.

[@humanvildan24]

But how can i find that one who loves me. I feel like there are no occasions. And yes i feel like i am not loveable

[@lonjemariesfashions5117]

FEELINGS ARENT FACTS! When you change a belief,you change everything. Change the way you see yourself .

[@humanvildan24]

@@lonjemariesfashions5117 i will try it. But will i than really find someone???

[@lonjemariesfashions5117]

@@humanvildan24 ONLY if you BELIEVE! He will find YOU! A gentleman is looking for EXACTLY what you’re offering!

[@humanvildan24]

@@lonjemariesfashions5117 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@-H4mburger-]

And yet the pictures we are seeing through while listening to this are supermodels....😳

[@Newgrist]

Very good content. It helps me to believe that I am lovable and worthy of love because God loves me.

[@tanmoybiprodas1148]

8:10 - 11:30 12:50-14:00 18:00-19:30 22:45 - 24:40 25:30- 28:45 30:20- 31:56 32:00- 37:00 38:00 - 43:45 -47:50 49:00 -

[@annharrison3905]

I was unhappily married for 20 yrs, divorced for 20 yrs despite being in Dating agencies on and off, Now I am 70 yrs Old, and left on the shelf, I only seem to attract men who want "Friends with Benefits", Just ended a short-term "situationship" I wanted a relationship, he didn't! I felt too much of myself to let it continue.

[@lightsourcer1703]

Good for you!!!

[@anacristinaguillenperez9301]

Amazing chat, you´re great, thanks a lot of all of your useful advices, feeling grateful for you speech today ;-)

[@minamartina254]

What if we think that others are not enough for us? When you always find something wrong in potential partners? 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@MarisaPeer]

Hi Mina, it's great to have standards and to know what you like in a relationship, but remember that we are all flawed people and nobody will ever be perfect. Marisa Peer Team x

[@lydiaqny]

I love myself so much and I am for sure very loveable if I let you mix in this with me but I don't. I think that I can't love someone as much as I do myself so that why I am alone.

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Lydia Q,you deserve better 🙏🙏🙏

[@johnmjones1604]

you are telling my life story

[@marilyncole3560]

Great color blue on you just terrific 😊❤️

[@susantompkins4254]

I think I look all right but I think that I’m too fat I’m trying to get out of thinking that x

[@susantompkins4254]

@@SureshKumar-ix7ce 🤣🤣🤣thank you

[@goddesstopaz544]

Can anybody list down the points?

[@sorayanemati7974]

Hi marisa, I had a kind of cancer that made half of my face paralyzed, do you still think that I'm loveable and I can get married?

[@iKylie]

Thank you...

[@Jay-ef2ii]

Some one will love you for you, only. June 17, 2021.

[@denadiaz9291]

How is it possible to believe that stuff about yourself if you never have??

[@1ACL]

Its like one long negative mantra, actually.

[@PriyankaGupta-ew1li]

Marisa you make me feel Amazing about myself ❤🤗🌠Thankyou for that🤗

[@victoriamonteiro1998]

Wonderful 👏👏👏always so straight and serious 🥰👌I just❤ thanks to shares your powerful advices 😘🇨🇵

[@annakostova1671]

Your video came out 44 minutes before I looked at it, and I had dreams of engagement rings all night long, what is that supposed to mean (but also Brasil...)

[@deega1234]

maybe it is as is...

[@SoulSpaUniversity]

Does anyone else love what she wears