Sir ....pahli baar KZbin saarthak lag raha hai.. thanks .....pp
@psjoshi20 Жыл бұрын
Really :)
@goldenmaknaejungkookiebunn9550 Жыл бұрын
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@goldenmaknaejungkookiebunn9550 Жыл бұрын
@@psjoshi20 p
@hardiktrivedi5445 Жыл бұрын
Ha ha ha ha
@mitaleesamant9681 Жыл бұрын
Ha ha ha
@afiakhan3116 Жыл бұрын
I was a housewife but at 49 I started a small home based bakery n I believe I am living my life now..thanks for the sharing.
@rushikeshbulbule8120 Жыл бұрын
Wish you great success
@deepakjena3628 Жыл бұрын
I said to my father I want to become an actor , my father told me get out of my home ...now I am not staying with my father .....
@nishanpatil72359 ай бұрын
@@deepakjena3628more power to you. Wish you a good luck
@iamnoob75939 ай бұрын
@@deepakjena3628 My mother told me to get out of home after i got job , I was also having health issues , No problem , I am thankful to my mom , It made me even stronger mentally.
@ash673929 ай бұрын
Did you become actor then?
@richardeliasjames5190 Жыл бұрын
Look for a partner who treats others the way that they want to be treated. A person who has a kind character is more likely to treat you with care and respect. A partner who is thoughtful, empathetic, and compassionate is more likely to take the time to try and understand how other people are feeling.
@abyfy Жыл бұрын
OMG you’ve taken up a huge undertaking of showing a mirror to the Society! More POWER to you 👍🏼
@sbasu5537 Жыл бұрын
People who are just not ready to change their ancient backward mindset to move forward, will not agree to your words. I am a mother of 2 beautiful girls. I worked as a teacher in a Birla school for many years. My everyday mantra to my daughters is that they must earn their own living. My elder one has already started working in an US based company. 😊
@drvineetverma2 жыл бұрын
Real truth of society and family presened very intellectually.. hats off to you sir.
@durgeshdu2 жыл бұрын
Real truth of society, hats off to you👍
@ishasharma6018 Жыл бұрын
Yes
@rishikeshpandey6484 Жыл бұрын
When my mummy said I should marry working girl, I didn't listen to her. When you explained it, I get it. Thanks.
@aesha8791 Жыл бұрын
Aap hamesha ladaki o ko kaam karne ke liye bol rahe ho. Agree. But what about house responsibilities? Middle class logo k pass 24 hrs k nokar chakar nahi rehete, aur bahot logo ko khana to kisi cook ke hath ka pasand nahi aata. In that situation what should be done? Wo 8-10 hrs ki job karke ghar pe aane k baad bhi kaam to khatam hi nahi hota. Women are changing, earning but a man still expects a glass of water in his hand as he returns from his work. When men will start working in kitchen?
@aesha8791 Жыл бұрын
@@risinggamer3011 Fair enough.:)
@tindrums Жыл бұрын
Men must know how to cook. It removes a potential threat from an argumentative wife.
@sachinsachan Жыл бұрын
Things will happen with time. You are absolutely correct
@aesha8791 Жыл бұрын
@@adityakapoor2714 I am working, earing and taking care of my home and kid really well. And I have achieved it with support of my husband. But when i see people around me, I feel bad. Aur teri aukaat kya hai mujhe batane ki mujhe kya karna chahiye ya kya nahi? apne ghar ka haal sudhar sakta hai to sudhar.
@kumarabhishek10646 ай бұрын
But didi men kaise sikhe khana banane ? Kon sikhayega 😢
@sumankundu9664 Жыл бұрын
I am coming from a Bengali middle class family, my father was WBCS officer of A grade now retired and my mother was a high school teacher of Sanskrit and political science. And I am working in a primary school as assistant teacher because I love this profession so much under govt of West Bengal. I am 34 still unmarried and facing troubles to choose life partner. I find myself similar to the character Gourav of your story because I am not IITian or similar category. Your video is making my day , sir. Many many thanks. I am from the land of Iswar Chandra Vidyasagar and Raja Rammohan Roy . Very happy to hear the names from you😊
@souradeepdas8195 Жыл бұрын
If you do not have hair or are short in height then it became double difficult to get gf
@onlinework855811 ай бұрын
Don't get married
@PULKITKAUL-great6 ай бұрын
Rammohan roy was crypto Christian
@ajaynain3295 Жыл бұрын
Aisa bhi nahi hai ki ladki shadi ke time naa kama rahi ho toh kamayegi hi nahi .I was not earning at the time of marriage but after marriage cleared exams and now I am in govt job.
@ujjwalkumar1501 Жыл бұрын
Bhai aap larke ho, shadi ke baad larki pe bahut Jimmedari aur bojh aa jata hain toh unko jyada muskil hoti hain clear karne mein. Haan phir bhi kuch job le sakti hain par tabhi jab Husband supportive tab possibility banta hain.
@rupalibawa9711 Жыл бұрын
You're definitely an exception bro. Many of friends got married with plans to clear govt exam after. Nothing. They didnt even put 1 ounce of effort into studying only used it as an excuse to avoid work.
@ajaynain3295 Жыл бұрын
@@ujjwalkumar1501 mein ladki hi hoon
@deepapanday1773 Жыл бұрын
@@ujjwalkumar1501p
@erabhinandan5935 Жыл бұрын
It is only 0.1% in society , but not majority
@ushahariharan4861 Жыл бұрын
Your words are full of wisdom. Forty years back when I got married, my grandmother advised me to keep working and earning. It helped me a lot in being level headed .
@user-kv6mc8oj7l10 ай бұрын
Gudiya and Bhudia was epic ! I salute your straightforward approach and such practical humor !
@sonaligupta1737 Жыл бұрын
One of your case is relatable to my neighbours Case 1- The boy was IITian and girl was normal btech but doing job in good company. Boy family having medical shop with one sister unmarried , girl family middle class ( Father A class officer) brother is also Iitian unmarried. There marriage was Arranged marriage. Both party equally Invested in marriage. But after one year they got divorced. Girl side Reason- The boy family asked for money every month (they were totally dependent) ( free ka pesa aa rha hai toh medical shop mai kamane ku jaye hum bi ash krnge ) . The boy give half of his salary to his parents or more sometimes. He dont save anything likeFD or mutual fund. The boy want to run his house from girl salary. He restricted girl not to buy expensive things. (Like saying pese ki barbaadi) . So the girl family give her plan to save his 75% of salary on FD and 20% keep with you. So that boy stopped giving his half salary to his family. Unfortunately plan doesn’t worked and fights was continued. Boy Reason - Girl dont cook food. (Inlaws side) and fight with them. They got divorced after one year of marriage. (No settlement happened) both working on bangluru with reputed companies.
@sagar17258 Жыл бұрын
Yes ...life mai overqualified hona bhi galat hai .. Iitian ..and engineering background have no respect now . People are fond of high salry only in pvt . But ek jagah bcom wale ne sbi po ki job crack karli , he is much good and decent . Low investment high return (govt employee). But in case of pvt high investment high return until and unless corona virus comes to lay off employees 😄
@travelkeen Жыл бұрын
No relation works on money as base
@Ritez_ Жыл бұрын
Most of the time parents are the reason.
@shaggy4896 Жыл бұрын
In this case its better for parents to sell their assets and put in fd for regular income instead of giving to their children they should enjoy their life. Let children earn and build their own empire.
@IamSoangelic Жыл бұрын
सब की लाइफ के अपने चैलेंजेस होते है
@deepakjena3628 Жыл бұрын
In India marriage has become a drama ....🤣
@sadhanabist7454 Жыл бұрын
You are so genuine and practical !! I love your honesty and unbiased attitude !!
@shubhamgupta8712 Жыл бұрын
45 lpa CTC on Microsoft is around. 1 lac per month don't fell in trap of CTC it is highly inflated by adding 4 years component of stocks in single year
@shreyaavaidya33 Жыл бұрын
Also make a video on 2 more conditions:- In laws well settled, husband earning well but wife is on career break due to motherhood and no support from family members for job in future
@scifigal1 Жыл бұрын
Yes important topic
@robinieor9 ай бұрын
Yes very necessary...I think join your job asap after baby becomes little big....or join now and keep a maid for day time....my relatives are doing same
@quizudita8 ай бұрын
@@robinieor it's RISKIER to hire babysitter these days....
@robinieor8 ай бұрын
@@quizudita hmmm I understand but that's what I m observing these days...mothers have no choice left....society sucks nowadays...
@dvsdubey40982 жыл бұрын
Your advice is absolutely considerate. Salute Sir 🙏🏽
@princeofheaven19 Жыл бұрын
One of my friend who is a khandani raees married a dentist girl who married him hoping to cash in on his riches. Soon she realized that the control is in the hand of sasur. She left him in 3 months.
@nalinipai4873 Жыл бұрын
Bful message sir...high time people realized these facts...v practical advice..everyone need to follow
@sunny1001 Жыл бұрын
Many girls earn only ₹30k but they desire a groom who earn ₹2lakh . Then what to do for that?
@aditshukla Жыл бұрын
Then they should be ready to take the responsibility of household, with necessary help from the husband. Otherwise get lost.
@blastard5539 Жыл бұрын
With time they have to settle I mean around 30 years😂
@leciel1409 Жыл бұрын
Sir Salute to you !!!Very wise words and Lesson for life.Indian parents are so negative that many times they do not appreciate whatever we do for them.Seriously Sir it’s very difficult to deal with their restricted mindset.Please make more videos for families and younger generations..Thanks 🙏
@Goodhopes111 Жыл бұрын
This is really important to understand as a youth and I must say this is the only channel which talks about one of the major issue of society. I am really thankful that You Tube has recommended me your channel Sir.
@rashgyl25 Жыл бұрын
Agreed with everything sir -- just a change recommended for boys - if you are looking for a working wife, please be ready to help in some way with housework
@nikitaduryodhan3580 Жыл бұрын
Really good advice, job is not only for money buy it teaches lot to a person. If a women does job her family supports her in household work, she gets her own identity also office meine dimag kharab karne k baad she starts loving her family more ghar pe rehke ghar k log hi kharab lagne lagte hai. Also, our life is more disciplined we become more proactive the approach of our children also changes towards there mother.... I'm working and also taking financial responsibility so both me and my husband can fulfill our dreams.
@docvnath Жыл бұрын
Quite well
@prashantchauhan1440 Жыл бұрын
Another major problem arising is related to cooking. These days girls are less interested in cooking than before.(might be due to work pressure). And by nature, boys are also less interested in cooking. Not everyone prefer to get food cooked by a cook. If both are working then anyone of bride or groom should know cooking to make life easier.
@vijayaditya2003 Жыл бұрын
Why cant you also cook if wife is working woman?!
@prashantchauhan1440 Жыл бұрын
@@aena5995 there’s nothing wrong in cooking, be it by man or a woman, its just a matter of choice, whoever is good at it should do it.
@sbasu5537 Жыл бұрын
Those who eat, must know to make the food.
@prashantchauhan1440 Жыл бұрын
@@cauliflowerhead2735 yes, its a good to have skill, makes a person independent. But a person who is not interested in cooking cant become a good cook.
@rumpa400 Жыл бұрын
Man too can cook
@truptipatel2581 Жыл бұрын
I love your lectures! Very very practical!
@VTech00018 ай бұрын
Sir kyaa video bnai hai, kitni jgh to same meri family condition btaa di aapne, kmaal observation hai aapka har topic pr, mai shehmati rkhta hu aapki baato se ladki kmane wali jarur honi chahiye no matter kitna kmaa rhii hai and agr nhi kmaa rhii to ghr ko smbhal ske itni capabilities hone chahiye, sabse khtrnak chiz jo aapne boli ki 1993 ke baad wali ladkiya nhi krngi ghr ka sara kaam sahi se, ekdum satik bool gye aap, maan gya mai aapki sense of humor ko great, keep coming those topics bahit faiyda kra rhee ho aap smaj ka, lots of love and respect from New Delhi 😊
@Gurpreet_1987 Жыл бұрын
Your videos are very informative & practical to life.. i appreciate how you making middle class aware by your life experience and knowledge
@vincentatpioneer Жыл бұрын
Trust me! Unmarried is better than married! Only money is required to be happy in life, rest is man made misconceptions. However our body will function the way it has been made. World is not best place to live 😂😂
@shanuchandra71568 ай бұрын
World is best place it depends how you are living, don't try to impose your dead beliefs on someone else.
@neetugrover93812 жыл бұрын
Amazing, so well brought out by you Your each video makes me speechless & watching you is an absolute bliss🙂
@sundaysushens8633 Жыл бұрын
Wow...this so so practical and true! Working women will have less securities💪👍...
@simpleliving3505 Жыл бұрын
You are right , I know these problems. You are telling the truth of our society
@babitapanti9233 Жыл бұрын
The way you promoting girl education and self dependency is great. Parents should also learn a huge lesson from your video.. or sabse badi baat ye bhi hai ki jinko sikhna chahiye woi nhi sunenge😂😂
@abyfy Жыл бұрын
Aapki muhim mein aapko bahut bahut shakti pradaan kare the higher power up there 😀 Binge watching since this morning. On to my 5th video!
@ashabora3932 Жыл бұрын
WoW ! What a point !! Nobody tells about these things. So true..Its reality..
@anupbid Жыл бұрын
It got me when he said "27 pe toh mera hk hai . 12 tu rakh lena". Just epic.
@anuragmk3402 Жыл бұрын
Very very informative vedio.. very helpful.. very practically told sir.. Thank you for knowledge sharing..
@shashanks1915 Жыл бұрын
A simple fact of life, look for simplicity rather than material pleasures. And score higher on the happiness index. Quality education is still very rare in India, mind you, even IITians, IIM graduates have only learnt how to be gainfully employed, but that's not helping their marriage life, because of zero experience/ knowledge about how family & marriage as institutions work.
@shoorapriyanshi21064 ай бұрын
👏👏well said
@bimalmaskara7361 Жыл бұрын
Sound and practical advise. The smart ones will listen and follow. Others may keep finding reasons not to. And will have to suffer for their poor choices.
@KhiladiTraveller Жыл бұрын
Great analysis Sir ,very true ...all men has failed after watching this video who are married😂😂
@riyaramteke8195 Жыл бұрын
Sir make video on why high earning with high education girls are not getting married, when they are from humble background.
@aishwaryas9229 Жыл бұрын
Working wife is good until baby comes around. Uske bad mommy brain doesnt want to leave the child behind and psychological consequences of missing mother and childhood neglect are immense. Most of the psychologically sick/ socially unsuccessful kids come from working mom family. Best case is to marry a smart woman who is capable of working. Later as she has kids, let the mom focus on and raise helathy kids till they are teenagers and then if needed/desired she can start her own business that can be passed down. Also girls, you will be lucky if your family lets you keep your work earnings. Sara paisa le leti hai "supportive" in-law family. Even the grocieries, bills will be paid for by your salary. Degree of freedom will depend on family to family, irrespective of your salary. Also, you will 100% feel resentment towards your husband and his family for making you work when you dont want to (esp when baby arrives). Also the ego battles will be full on. Source- I have closely seen and counselled many working women in my life. Intelligent housewifes family is better/healthier than working wife's family.
@SangoLifeSutras Жыл бұрын
Will do a detailed video on it
@shobhas6687 Жыл бұрын
Amit sir don't be discouraged by negetive comments you are doing good 👍 job
@dharmendrakumardewan9055 Жыл бұрын
Additionally background checks kii importance hai yaa nahi?...character..nature..education n where from...social standing ( confirmed thru verification as good), stability of economy...liabilities of siblings...are some other factors important
@opahuja3582 Жыл бұрын
Loan will be cleared in some years then situation will improve. If both are in service they can together clear the loan by giving more amount of instalments.
@auiiem2 жыл бұрын
Hats of to you sir, you hard hit the facts, without any fear, but you were wrong only in one aspect gudiya will always harass budiya and that too very effectively, in whatever may be the scenario😁
@tanusreechatterjee9902 Жыл бұрын
Thousands percent true sir. Really I am going to admire you. Thank you so much. You help us to be practical. Thanks.
@sharadvishwas1671 Жыл бұрын
Eye opening video Amit Sirji about marrige thinking of Society's trend
@Himanshuvish2410 ай бұрын
500% agree with your thoughts, aisa channel nahi hai dusra.
@coldFire20235 ай бұрын
80,000 kam nahi hote, apko ground realities ka kuch samajh hai ki nahi?
@sudeshnadandapat3707Ай бұрын
He wasn't talking about lower middle class
@coldFire2023Ай бұрын
@@sudeshnadandapat3707 are you sure about that
@anusuyadasgupta427110 ай бұрын
Sir, good to hear you mentioning Sri Vidyasagar & Sri Rammohan from Bengal whose thoughts were v advanced. But me a bengali feel in case of marriages we look for a good family meaning which carries good value system and is educated. Wealth comes after that for security. Our girls also we feel need to be well educated so that they are independent yet are polite and respectful due to their good background. Even if they earn more than their husbands they will still respect their husbands provided he behaves well with her. So also our boys are thought to respect their wives whether working or not as their children later will learn a lot from their mother. Wealth is a requirement and in these times it's better if both earn. It is for the husband to see that his wife does not face any insults from anyone. Once the wife really gets annoyed as she is independent she can take steps not good for the couple. So it's best all stay peacefully without any unnecessary demand. 26th Oct.
@prernasharma1307 Жыл бұрын
These videos are extremely relevant.... Brings lot of clarity in life and lot of peace of mind too..... I am glad that I earn.... Thanks a lot Mr. Sango 😊
@swatigupta2064 Жыл бұрын
Sir what you tell is v true and practical..best content
@rudramath5949 Жыл бұрын
Your advise is very practical Sirji.Biggest problem of today's generation girls is they have not learnt cooking and it's not possible for every mahila to engage in gainful occupation.But with little difficulty we can definitely search a good bride who is working.
@princeofheaven19 Жыл бұрын
Learning cooking is not so big thing and no one needs degree for cooking. My sister never knew cooking before marriage but soon became an excellent cook post marriage due to love and sense of responsibility towards husband
@rudramath5949 Жыл бұрын
@@princeofheaven19 It could be because of good sanskar given in your family.But we have seen many cases where girls never try to learn cooking even after getting married or find it difficult to learn.
@aesha8791 Жыл бұрын
Today's generation boys should learn cooking and try to become independent.
@aesha8791 Жыл бұрын
@@rudramath5949 why a woman needs to learn cooking compulsory? "She must earn and she must cook." What a hypocrisy.! Man, it ll be good for you to learn cooking and share that responsibility with your (future) wife. Your married life would be better.
@Bharatiya12321 Жыл бұрын
To bhaishab jab aaj k time pe ladkiya pese k liye ghar se nikal kar mehnat kar sakti hai , to aap aadmi log pet bharne k liye 2 wakt ka khana banana nhi seekh sakte kya ? Mtlb doglapan itna bhara hai na logo me
@AstroSips6 ай бұрын
A home and family can work better with equal division of labour. Its good if girl is working and adding to the total income of the house. What about other things. pls do make a video that if a boy wants a working girl, he should be prepare to share the household chores , taking care of children etc too. The two wheels of a marriage should be equally balanced. So a working girl should also ask before marriage whether the boy is ready to share the house hold chores or not. Nahi to ek thaka rahega aur doosra doston ke saath sharab peeta rahega. I am sorry if I am too harsh.
@jayaramanpr8159 Жыл бұрын
My daughter is married to a Marathi and after producing a child he has left my daughter in my house. I am retired without pension and I dont know what to do.
@gauravnagmoti5679 Жыл бұрын
What was reason behind separation
@AC-jg2dg Жыл бұрын
No one should expect a daughter-in-law to cook. She is not a cook, maid,/servant, caregiver/nanny.
@SangoLifeSutras Жыл бұрын
Ok. What all can be expected then
@abhinashsinghania440 Жыл бұрын
😂 then no women should expect money or any financial thing from his husband , but woman want rich husband bcoz she wants his 💸
@technicaltreasures7297 Жыл бұрын
@@abhinashsinghania440 I make 4 times the money that a iit iim guy would make in india and I'm a girl.. I don't need his money but all I want is respect and love. What's the solution then??
@technicaltreasures7297 Жыл бұрын
@@vickyAlways in tech in California
@manishdominion Жыл бұрын
@@technicaltreasures7297 then don’t get married
@IamRahul_007 Жыл бұрын
Zabardastttttt Mazza Aa Gaya, Amit Ji! 🌶️✨🌶️
@sunilchaurasia140011 ай бұрын
10:18 sir I am agree with you 🙏 But I want to let you know that in our society if girl's money earning capabilitie is more than boys then girls do not respect her husband and family of her husband ..... Sir I want to know in this situation what should we do 🙏🙏🙏
@anujachikate717 Жыл бұрын
Yes you are accurate... I am ca student. And in final stages I am not working due to study. Meri saas ko wahi lagta hai... Ki kyu layi hai gudiya.? Is chakkar me meri padhai bhi nahi ho rahi
@Pheonixia9 ай бұрын
To aapne final se pehele shadi kyu ki
@jaikumararora95415 ай бұрын
@@Pheonixia ekdum sahi kaha, ye ek new category hai, wfh toh nahi but full time study from home equivalent to wfh
@MsRekhagrover2 жыл бұрын
Superb👌👌👌👌very practical advices sir..great👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻thnxs for guiding us🙏🙏
@nainakmk9941 Жыл бұрын
If girl is independent then marriage is not important
@nainakmk9941 Жыл бұрын
@@manikyum adopt a child before 40 and thanks for ur advice
@manikyum Жыл бұрын
@@nainakmk9941 Please do not spoil that child's future for the sake of your convenience or selfishness. A young child needs a Dad while growing up, and for that matter both parents. Fatherless children grow up to have a lot of issues especially girl children, best example is the USA. You might be oblivious to this blaring truth because of the fog of feminism blinding you .I respect your decision and apologies for the earlier joke , but please don't adopt that child if you don't have a man in your life.
@mohitkumarlal26879 ай бұрын
U r error 404😂
@AKBHATNAGAR Жыл бұрын
A very practical concept for Indian parents. 👍
@divyanshijaiswal4744 Жыл бұрын
Sir can you please make a video on Age gap in marriage? Whether one should marry somebody elder to them (15 years elder)
@koursinghdesujodha3427 Жыл бұрын
Same case
@kritikabhatt7706 Жыл бұрын
15yrs is way too mch 😮
@Anamika-rr6ns8 ай бұрын
No
@shaggy52778 ай бұрын
15 yrs💀
@NeerajYadav-ed4wk2 жыл бұрын
Great Sir 🙏🏼True mirror to society
@RealRandomVideos Жыл бұрын
Sourabh ka case hai mera..20years since marriage..what u said is happening even now..
@krishnabhat1606 Жыл бұрын
Logical and practical/factual explanation
@gurnoorchadha1434 Жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right sir. Eye opener for current and previous generations.
@salildikshit6466 Жыл бұрын
Yes you are the only one close to reality... 👍
@anusapra18802 жыл бұрын
Are there so many jobs that all brides and bridegrooms are employed . Though I agree with what u saying. Practical from micro point of view but not from macro point.😁
@wajahathussain7955 Жыл бұрын
Exactly...
@shourbhisingh5849 Жыл бұрын
👍👍👍
@anjalineekharraghuvanshi4472 Жыл бұрын
Very practical channel in today, s circumstances, Thank you Sir
@Emily-bl3qx Жыл бұрын
Sir how do you judge a prospective groom or bride n parent for their nature. If they have a nature to fight or are peaceful how do we get to know. Pls guide as thus us very important. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@archanaverma8676 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful video you have done commendable job to change thinking of society
@gauravvk-ck4jw Жыл бұрын
Why can't aspirations be low ? Low aspirations wali families me sirf ladka kama ke bhi guzara kar sakta hai
@albenarana4895 Жыл бұрын
Sir you are right you are the only one
@Vijay-cz7pe Жыл бұрын
Thank you Sir for sharing such a valuable information with us.
@shende28 Жыл бұрын
I myself being doctor mbbs Joining my Md at 28years.. i m into court marriage instead use the money for house. Being buddhist and from vidharbha we have no dowry custom. But still why marry a working women you want ur wife to be with you all time and do household chores then marry a housewife. Why boys parents want everything educated, good looking earning and you want to have your daughter in law to pay her income to u. Equal share in finance responsibity is right. But as being girl who taught to focus heavily on career i prefer earning I don't know why even doctor i talk they want there wife to cook everyday how that's possible for a doctor considering working hours. I find myself so frustrated that feels being single is much better
@gauravnagmoti5679 Жыл бұрын
How much doctors earn ,can you give practical range
@nitishamishra5461 Жыл бұрын
Sir aap videos duration chote matt kariyega...aapke lambe videos worthful hai I always watched your full video.
@bbharat307 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for these life videos.I believe even there are no books written on such topics
@Thedhruvshowofficial Жыл бұрын
👍🏻 So true If u r not working you have to take care of house unpaid😀
@ajaynain3295 Жыл бұрын
I am working girl and still do all house hold work
@ShwetanshChandra Жыл бұрын
Wow. What a wonderful explanation.
@krishna_raj9331 Жыл бұрын
Summery of the story.. Working and earning woman sobat lagn kara. He missed one thing.. Don't consider your wife's salary as your salary.
@simpleliving3505 Жыл бұрын
Sir I am commenting while watching, It's too good.
@mancpalkar23035 ай бұрын
But ppl think twice about marrying girl raised by single mother, they think boy will have to take care of mother
@user-ll7rz5vu7m2 жыл бұрын
Thanks guruji very well said. To the point
@snehadubey24429 ай бұрын
Either from the Girl's side or boys side, The girl is suppose to be earning😅
@machinegun29652 ай бұрын
Whats wrong, same expected from boy.
@shrutidimble Жыл бұрын
Words of wisdom!
@shwetameshram234211 ай бұрын
sahi bat hai..job me challenges family changes se kam lgte hai after marriage, specially for girls bcz shadi k bad you are never perfect for everyone evrytime. Job gives you space and peace for womens individual personality.
@uniiigamer2290 Жыл бұрын
Very informative and practical Sir🙏🏻
@s.vijayakumari522210 ай бұрын
you are the only one .meri ladki ke liye same ise hi riste aaye hi aur abhi confusion dur hogaya .alag hi ki iit nahi grade 1 officer .par ghar nahi hi
@annuagrawal1491 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for keeping different aspects of life. I am grateful 🙏
@hitgamingtech Жыл бұрын
Shi hi to h ab m 15 hazaar hi kmati hu ghr Beth ke pr agr na earn kru to guzaara nhi. Easy ho jaati h life akeli roti me guzaara nhi
@mission2023 Жыл бұрын
sir mere ek bhaiya hai jo MNC me as a engineer job krte hai unki shadi bhi ek engineer ldki se hui fr bhi dono me divorce hui coz ghar ka kaam koi nhi krna chah rha tha ghar me maid bhi nkhre wali hi hoti aaj kal...
@indu192 Жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏🙏🙏🙏🙏 great words it's really right 👍 keep it up sir true words bless you Bhai ji 🙏🙏💐
@bunnyworld3501 Жыл бұрын
Sir i am always listen your advice and it really meaningful, But you always give example of income of a person 80k or 1 llakh per month and always give a rich society people case study example. But please think more practically about the lower class about who are in the wor professon of carpenter, welder, chef, plumber, a marketing agent, a pharmasiat, an office boy, peon, a delivery boy, a hotel steward etc... etc... etc. Who earn money in between 15 k to 25 k in month, and this category is the vast number than upper middle class and higger middle class. So please sir think their life problems and help them with understanding their case study of their life because in this time they want more consultant for grow their lives
@SA-wh9oc Жыл бұрын
Yea true they are the majority of every society but they are also most neglected........
@shubhamjoshi87629 ай бұрын
Udhar yeh issue hai bhi nahi most lower class mein dono hi kaam karte hai jaldi shadi karte hai and unke bache hi Ghar sambhal lete hai 14 15 se waha sorted hai yeh sab
@positivity20 Жыл бұрын
But sir if both husband and wife work full time, there is not much time to take care of home needs, parents, children, cooking etc.. Both of them have to work in office and share household responsibilities, even if they hire a helper.. so is it worth to live such a stressful life.. May be the middle path is one of them husband or wife should be having a job with flexible less hours like 5 to 6 hrs per day other person can have 8 to 9 hrs then it is balanced...in villages ot is like that only women work part time outside in their own field or farm
@user-jc1km1qv1m Жыл бұрын
Yahi bat h.extra paise ke chakkar me dono ki halat kharab ho jaegi physically aur mentally
@YASHTOUCH Жыл бұрын
Sir, You told that plz look girl who r doing job for marriage.its good.but some girls has tendency that she should doing job,she will ean salary,earn lot of money.but she has tendency that no single rupee will spend for own family. All salary amount only deposite to her bank account.then what is ur opinion about it?
@aartinayak1714 Жыл бұрын
Myke me paisa deke aati hai aur apne ladke se hi Uska aur uske relatives ka saara kharcha nikalvati hai. Mithu mithu baat karke. Baby baby bolke.
@nirupamasharma4389 Жыл бұрын
@@aartinayak1714maayke me dene me kya dikkat hai? Ladka bhi to apne hi ghar me paise deta hai, apne sasural walon ko deta hai kya?? Change your thinking madam!!
@sarkaribabu528 Жыл бұрын
Uncle ji apki bat me dam he aesa lgta h. I'm 21 years old and has been watching your video for 6days.....😊