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[@FollowPickMeekPodcast]

11:47 my mama is 59 and she thinks she’s sexy. Shes definitely one of those women who listen to her friends, and all her old hoe friends have encourage her not to be a grandmother and to dress more sexy. It’s very strange for me b/c my mother spent majority of my life dressing modest and conservative. Now she out here in see through pants. I WOULDNT WEAR SEE THROUGH PANTS AT 29. That generation is absolutely failed us. My mom still out here looking for a six figure man. Even when I tell her she depreciated I’m value, she be ready go fight and argue. But the reality of this is those men in her age bracket be in my face. Don’t listen to the delusion ladies. Snatch up the best man you can at your highest value. B/c it only gets worse.

[@djvnkc]

You are very correct most women in this age are not doing better internally. I don’t find many women attractive in this age bracket and I’m in that age bracket.

[@queenkyla9829]

Wow..

[@Lyfeastrey]

Literally tried to tell a woman who is 24 this yesterday. Time is not a woman’s friend.

[@mr.simmtheprofessor2919]

You speak nothing but facts

[@mr.simmtheprofessor2919]

@@djvnkc the only time a woman can be attractive in this age bracket is she’s been your loyal wife for 25-30 years and you got her at her best and you two have grown to respect and love each other to the utmost. Other than that…Grandma sit down!!

[@blacksilverchair3315]

"That's not what I get in my DMs" Ladies listen. Because there are a ton of men in your DM doesn't mean they want you for the same outcomes you want. 99.99% of men in your DMs just want to get the 🐈 and bounce. A man will overlook everything negative about you just to get the 🐈. Doesn't mean they want to marry or be in a lasting relationship with you. Men will holler at even a cockroach if it had a 🐈. You're not special because you have men in your DMs. Stop confusing DMs with marriage proposals.

[@CBPfilm]

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿, indeed

[@Begginerphotograffer]

its alot of transgender men on there too catfishing like a mofo! cant fool me i got a beautiful fat girl that love my skinny a$$.

[@Wanderer25]

On behalf of the 99.9% of men, I endorse this statement.

[@ddavis8988]

I've seen my female friends DMs and there are actual marriage proposals and money being thrown up. Not just sex talk. I have a female friend right now who a guy just sent her airline tickets to Chi and has a hotel for a week. Older gentlemen with some health issues. She went and they didn't even get into it all the way. Some kissing and touching, but no sex. And no I didn't take her word for it, she showed me the texts and he confirmed that they didn't do anything. He's trying to move her and her kids up there and take care of them. Dude literally sent her financial plan of how he's gonna do it. He wasn't just talking. He's serious. The 1 thing he can't give her is a regularly active sex life. And for the guys that know when women creep up to 40 their sex drive gets stronger. So while most are just trying to get sex, I've seen more than a few guys trying to lock these chics down.

[@blacksilverchair3315]

@@ddavis8988 Lol. Marriage proposals via DMs. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Your above essay is exactly what I said in my previous statement. 99.99% of men in the DMs are not looking for the same outcomes these females want.

[@mr.simmtheprofessor2919]

I’m a 41 year old BM, who is an engineer, own two homes, one in California and one in Texas. Im in great shape, have never been told I’m unattractive and literally have my pick of the litter when it comes to women I want. It’s like the roles reverse and I have no plans on settling down now that I’ve made it and have what most women seek, similar to women in their 20s. I think it’s disingenuous for women to ask men to settle with them when they’ve made it, when those same women wouldn’t settle when they had it.

[@TashaAlexandrea]

I think it’s disingenuous that you are a predator

[@shenquejames7598]

I agree with you. But the road runs both ways a man that cannot get these women b4 shouldn't even look at these women once they've made it. The problem is many men normally give in and accept this same women that rejected them. All while leaving the women that would have dated them by the wayside. I wish more men would take this approach maybe it would change things.

[@impudentdomain]

I understand what you are saying, no one was there with you to help you through your struggles, so now at the finish line they want to just pick up the ball. But all that will give you is a liability and a chance to lose half your stuff.

[@mr.simmtheprofessor2919]

@@shenquejames7598 I’ve never had a problem getting a woman before or after, I just have no use for one in my space

[@mr.simmtheprofessor2919]

@@TashaAlexandrea how so?? I haven’t pursued a woman in a long while. I just don’t have a use for a woman invading my space

[@amjeffre]

Let them try, let them fail? That’s why KS yells Die Alone. It’s not mean, it’s honest. If I’m trying and I realize it’s not working I’m going to CHANGE before I fail. If I see my sisters trying and not succeeding I’m not going to let them fail without attempting to correct them. We have to be honest with each other if we want to repair black relationships and families. Good conversation.

[@wnttalk]

Thank you so much🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@truestdude]

Respect

[@chitownbob9714]

I agree. Its a kindness. So much better than going back to her friends who KNOW she can't get a HVM man, yet ENCOURAGE her to try KNOWING she WILL FAIL. Hats off to KS!

[@divinestrength1774]

🙂

[@7thheaven-finalfantasy-hip717]

I was thinking the same thing, why let them try to fail ?

[@tnewsome9121]

"Marriage is overrated" - Baby Momma & Daddies. "Being skinny is overrated" - Fat People.

[@carsonc29]

right..thats how it be LOL

[@bplayerr1]

👏💥👏💥👏💥

[@mari0c0leman]

She is getting big.

[@neohermitist]

Married 27 years here, marriage is indeed overrated.

[@whatisantilogic138]

One if the biggest problems is older women realizing they made mistakes at 40 and not telling younger women to avoid those mistakes. 40 year old women are still competing with 20 year old girls for the same men so they never really tell them how they can avoid the mistakes they made. That's why you got 50+ women taking thirst trap pics and thinking they still have the same appeal as when they were 20. We have too many 40+ women still living in the Cinderella fantasy delusion and thinking they can beat the odds and hit a buzzer beater and get that top 10% man.

[@tam6011]

Funny women say the same about men. Everyone is delusional. Best thing is live your best delusional life is you chose to

[@hartfantom]

Your comment was a buzzer beater. Simply hit the mark at the right time

[@bennyanthro4891]

Facts. Women not holding women accountable is the worst💯💯

[@suave_d]

Very profound post.

[@The_GreatBambino]

That’s real sh*t. This raises the question, “why do women compete with other women and men don’t compete with other men”

[@DigitalSwagg]

When my ex divorced me it was truly a blessing unbeknownst to me at the time. I doubled my income, paid off my house and I'm looking forward to retiring next year and since I work in healthcare I'm surrounded by a plethora of single women. Although I'm 51 yo I'm often told I look like I'm in my mid 30's. It's truly sad seeing women in their 40's and 50's still out here single competing with the younger ladies I only date. I tried dating older women but the ones I've dealt with have their own agenda and try to run the relationship vs relaxing in their feminine. Traveling internationally has really opened my eyes up to the cultural differences such as Asian and Latin America ladies love, cherish, respect and need their men vs western women feel men are optional and easily replaceable. Currently scouting retirement location in Brazil, Thailand, Dominican Republic and Colombia.

[@shazzar756]

I love this for You, Congrats. As one going through a divorce now, looking forward to get to where you are, Salut ✊🏿

[@5822huron]

But why did she divorce you?

[@shazzar756]

@@5822huron Divorcing her for being a negligent mom and wife, can't party more than being a wife and mother

[@fronttowardenemy7972]

Fam you winning! If you can pull off Thailand you can beat the cost of living and western feminism that is slowly creeping into the other countries you listed.....good luck brother and salute!

[@AuntieKno]

@@fronttowardenemy7972 you have to have a retirement. You can not receive any type of income living in Thailand. You can also not ever fully live in Thailand only stay 3 months at a time . Although you will enjoy the pleasure of a woman that will cater to you also understand most of these women have been groomed into prostitution so although you will be attended too for the 3 months you are there until you have to go back but just understand she will be entertaining others and keep yourself getting tested . All power to you , hopefully you can find a sweet brown woman that can give you what you deserve. This is not hating just giving some Thailand advice incase you didn’t know ☺️

[@fincfinc8545]

"The definition of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting a different results"

[@eq2092]

My goodness men are literally telling her what they want. She even acknowledges what men want and is actively disregarding it. SMH

[@roneilwilliamson6371]

When She said, “we work for what we want and we are not working for you.” That part sunk in …. Wow 😯. #mgtow

[@MissOshunPossible]

That's how you see everyone? As a group? And nomatter what that individual offers based on Thier work and unique experience you judge them by the notion attached to the group you assign in? But you're shocked at someone saying "....we don't work for you"??? You're a pot and the people you hate is the kettle, made for each other. For you to insinuate all women or black women agree with this is abominable at this point. You tag yourself mgtow as if that's a badge of honor because you want someone to know you weren't forced out of the dating/ marriage pool rather you chose to take yourself out because I guess there's no women available despite reality. Seeking attention for your dysfunction. Don't come to convos about marriage minded people good or bad if you are not apart of that group who seeks it. Same thing goes for chicks like you. Truth is there's always been disagreeable women. But the truth also is there's always been better women too. The question is, do you qualify within yourself first. Too many of you mgtow labelers screwed thier own relationships up and because they have a habit of doing that everywhere they go they can't see themselves to fix anything, so they assume it's "everyone else" and then have no options but to be MGTOW. Stop it. You look silly. If you don't date okay cool. But why is that now my business to know? Because you think all women are monsters? That don't even make sense unless all men are monsters too. Grow up Sir....And I call you "Sir" on principle not because you're garnering any respect with your hypocrisy.

[@kennethsmith6367]

I noticed women weren’t putting in any effort for the relationships they were saying they wanted. That’s one of the reasons I went MGTOW. One of many.😎

[@MissOshunPossible]

@@kennethsmith6367 No you noticed in the relationships you were in who was putting in effort. Stay your immature butt in MGTOW good riddance 💅🏾

[@laroiceturner9059]

Kevin isn't saying _any_ woman has to die alone, he is saying they need to adjust their expectations for the kind and caliber of man they believe they qualify for.

[@deandreray3500]

Facts he has never said that females just don’t like the truth

[@morissafloyd4367]

But they still may die alone because typically men die first

[@extremeresponsibility4325]

@@morissafloyd4367 that misses the point

[@sevinbamuels6560]

@@morissafloyd4367 Dying alone has nothing to do with who dies first.. OMG! Women today are so dense. Dying alone means going thru 35 -50 years with out a spouse.

[@morissafloyd4367]

@@extremeresponsibility4325 most ppl whom are single are not lonely. I don’t know where this notion came from. You can be married and still be lonely. There’s no ideal situation.

[@thaxtonwaters8561]

If women understood "their looks" is only the entrance to Relationships, the Value begins after.

[@deconteeko7446]

No woman in my life has ever told me if I want something I should just dream it up. They have told me to work hard and smart for the things I want. Nothing just drops in your lap.

[@kennethreynolds7660]

...amazing interview and conversation. Now, this is a real sista. She speaks her mind and from her heart. You can hear and feel her sincerity. I wish we had more like her in the content space👍🌹.

[@sten9life979]

This is a great video. I appreciate this woman for having this conversation in a genuine manner. This really shows the problem with modern day women especially in regards to having delusional expectations or "living in La La Land" when it comes to relationships. The worst part about it is that women lose in the end and become miserable. I think we need to have more geniune conversations in regards to this topic instead having "gender wars".

[@richardrobinson7429]

This is why I like these conversations when it's not to many people in a group. You can get peoples thoughts clearly and it's not arguementive

[@boldengamerz7437]

If there is one thing I learned from more liberal vs more conservative people arguing is that when they get into it they never go to far

[@abstraqtphilosophy7357]

Couldn't it be that most black people don't know how to have conversations in groups without noisy arguments?

[@UnexpectedWonder]

Exactly! Vulnerable, 1-on-1 Convos.

[@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993]

Only two people on every KS episode

[@HaydenDavidson6]

Aka Fresh & Fit. But F&F serves a purpose of attracting men to tune in and get started questioning what's going on in the dating market these days.

[@chicagorilla6814]

If these walls could talk

[@Llama_vet]

Oh you nasty 🥴 try to make em sing rilla?! 🤪😜

[@chicagorilla6814]

@@Llama_vet Kung Fu Kenny is da troof

[@johnbreitmeier3268]

Rilla, she is talking herself into enough of a hole in the comments section, undoing everything she just said she learned. The walls and you need not say a word. Peace.

[@chicagorilla6814]

@@johnbreitmeier3268 Huh?

[@proudtobeasimp7259]

That was a Mike Tyson uppercut

[@aaronjohnson6622]

Honestly, this was one of the more refreshing man woman discussions I've seen in quite some time. This woman has sense and she's more honest than most I've seen.

[@codaelleven11]

First off , interviewer is a pro. Secondly, this woman is a unicorn. So thankful to hear those words coming from her. I only hope other women listen to her grace, humility and wisdom and men take notice. She’s real talk .What a breath of fresh air. Mad respect to her for being so honest and real.

[@myerst52]

She's far from a unicorn

[@michael43567]

She's a 39 year old single mother. She's not a unicorn, she's just been hit with reality.

[@mouseutopiadystopia24601]

Chameleon

[@acct4600]

this this n*gga say a 40 year old single mom is a unicorn? lol smh

[@Grandmsm1]

This is by far, my favorite episode. This is what all modern women need to watch, understand and accept, so we can move on to fix the other issues we have. This really made my day; it proves there is still hope for us. Thank you for this. Exceptional content.👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@wnttalk]

#KeepHopeAlive ✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿

[@Krumbs84]

She's a chameleon. All that was said is to reel you in and once you fall for it, she switches up. Rewatch the part where she spoke about what Kevin Samuels said to her. That part spoke volumes

[@abstraqtphilosophy7357]

Don't believe everything this lady said. She's known for being a chameleon

[@abstraqtphilosophy7357]

If you wanna see her in her true self, just mention the name Ameera to her and all hell will break loose

[@robbyg4777]

Ive been married 26 yrs. If singles go into marriage with no flexibility it is doomed to fail...and im not talking about finances. Im seeing a lot of singles who seem to have no flexibility. What i think is this.....the longer you are single the harder it becomes to compromise with someone else regarding how you live. I make really good money and from my perspective there is soooooooooo much to a marriage that I advise most to turn and run the other way. On the other hand if you dont mind the unexpected.....GO FOR IT. Lol

[@sheikh1906]

It's not that they HAVE to die alone, it's that they are CHOOSING to die alone because they are unwilling to "settle" for the men that they qualify for.

[@harveyhankerson8359]

Oh some will. Die alone. 65% of black woman are single. And lonely. My next door neighbor. Very very pretty female. Model good looks.. and she still doesn’t have a man. !! True story !!

[@auburntiger8]

t's funny how Black women are expected to just take anything.

[@kennethjones36]

I really love this channel. Decent, respectful and much needed conversations. I really want to get in this podcast game and make a difference for our people. My wife and I have been together for 22 years and married for 18 (next month). I think I can give some good advice from the other side of the spectrum. No, I am not a relationship expert or a therapist. I'm just an average man who wants to help my Brothers and Sisters.

[@michael43567]

look at how drastic things have to get for some women to finally see reality

[@waynegoldmanjr1708]

Best one yet. You walked her towards the light, she tried to cap, you kept on going unphased, then she had her aha moment and couldn’t even fight it after that. Kudos to both of you. MASTERFUL job interviewing. ✊🏿✊🏿

[@lowellgelin2063]

I'm glad you caught that brother. She attempted to cap for real. Great observation.

[@waynegoldmanjr1708]

@@lowellgelin2063 she tried… my boy was like “nahhh, keep following me. I got something to show you over here.” Lol

[@malarki5]

Maybe Courtney is still developing. And may be she is not combative. Did you consider any of that?

[@waynegoldmanjr1708]

@@malarki5 She 100% is still developing, and I appreciate that, but it doesnt change what I said. I watch her on Lapeef every week. Ive seen her fight tooth and nail on there for stuff comparable to the topics in this video. The difference is the atmosphere of the shows. Usually defiance is met with aggression on the other show and it changes everything. On here he breezed right thru it and stayed on track and eventually she got it. Nothing wrong with that. Change/understanding requires conflict

[@malarki5]

@@waynegoldmanjr1708 with respect, brother l have no idea how old you are but Courtney Michelle is not your disobedient child! Please cease patronizing her!

[@deaundrecummings3469]

One thing about Courtney is she doesn’t like when you speak on the negative things that women/ mothers do, or speak on holding them accountable. It’s like she agrees with holding them accountable but do it nicely and don’t say exactly what it is that we’re doing wrong

[@carnellgalloway9314]

Yaap‼️

[@a.wilkerson2nd334]

I've noticed that too

[@lowellgelin2063]

This is so well written that all I can do right now is sit down and say damn. Because this describes Courtney to the TEE!!

[@elcapitan9776]

Facts. Especially the recent video where the panel is speaking on the Will/Jada incident. Refusing to call her out for being a heaux

[@truthsyrum4859]

Mannnn this is my issue with her, she say one thing here but on lapeef network she switches her stance… holding women accountable is just that holding them accountable however it’s said

[@theovercomer326]

This episode was so good!! Her honesty was a breath of fresh air

[@simonlawrence1234]

This conversation really is powerful, makes you think about a lot of things. This guy really broke it down. This is definitely the next Kevin Samuels.

[@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13]

Two completely different approaches.

[@TheloniousP]

I was having a conversation with my father the other day... He left when I was 5 and it really devestated me and it still bothers me that he chose another life outside of our family.. He lives with a woman now that he's been with for over 30 years... She's about to die from complications with cancer. He asked me the other day, "I never thought about this point in my life until now... What and where am I going to go?“ I think we all come to this point in our lives and it shocks us... And Alot of us are living as if we have unlimited time to" find someone" but those options are limited and should be RESPECTED. Relationships aren't like ordering a number 2 from Wendy's. Relationships are like gardens that you must tend to with consistency and care because they can disappear and depending on where you are in life... May be among your last. This is why the die alone thing should be taken so seriously. Someone gotta wipe your ass one day... Make sure they cherish you and love you before its too late.

[@hanskdavis]

your father is a man... and men that don't have direction find/create a new direction. he's not "lost" and will be just fine... unless he's lost bc her can't function daily without a woman; that's needy.

[@TheloniousP]

@@hanskdavis of course not.. .but that wasnt really my point. my point was that we need each other alot more than we want to admit and one day we'll REALLY need one another and daily we're encouraged to be more individualistic.

[@kenyattathompson6685]

Any therapy

[@drehardin]

Well Said.

[@jwalk937]

I wish her all the luck I married my black queen/ single mother who submitted to me and assisted in her financial capacity on our justice of the peice wedding as well as our 16 year anniversary gift. The purchase of our triplex that we live in rent free with our two kids. She caters to me and we collectively make 6 figures its a partnership with solidified roles. You don't have to die alone just be realistic.

[@drehardin]

THIS ! ! ! Realistic, Respectful and willing to Compromise.

[@tonileolion9702]

❤❤❤

[@FamilyValuesTV]

Courtney I understand it can be hard accepting certain realities but if you take that instead of hiding away or getting bitter but turn it into humility. Start trying to make up for what you lack and God will bless you with a man that is perfect for you. The work doesn't end after the wedding either it's only begun. I say this from experience. I was a single mother of 2 granted I was younger but still I had a moment of reality right before I met my husband that men don't want me other than for fun. It hurt my ego at first but it made me humble and God blessed me with a man I don't deserve. I work everyday to make his decision to choose me worth his while. Get in the gym, take your vitamins, take some collagen peptides, take care of yourself, glean from feminine wives even if they're younger than you, be open and you will get what you need for you and your daughter. ❤️🙏🏽

[@adulttalks3348]

Whewww deep

[@demetriuslewis8333]

I love this interaction. Ms Courtney Michael,Thanks for your honesty. I hope the sisters overstand where ur coming from. Good questions lead to good answers!

[@simonkalibwani5832]

Let her try, let her fail is actually bad adivice. Fools learn from their own mistakes. The wise see the mistakes of others and change course.

[@suave_d]

I agree. I've listened to Courtney before, and I'm surprised that she would make such a suggestion. This is why logical, masculine men should be giving women advice, not women, unless it's a traditional, feminine, and logical woman (which is in the minority).

[@bobbybigfellow8516]

It's not bad advice in her mind because subconsciously she knows she can still blame us if everything goes wrong doing it her way. We understand that if we disregard direct input from knowledgeable people, the results are on us. They always have that underlying it'll be someone else's fault mentality.

[@KOLAkola]

Wisdom comes with age son

[@roshkapel]

Everyone is a fool to what they do not know .. learning is whats important

[@truegrit9202]

Sounds like beta male nonsense. Anyone Afraid to make a mistake are just cowards.

[@mr.j9103]

The part about people not wanting relationships is something I’ve been saying for years. The way people romanticize relationships as this thing where it’s all about one person proves it. Relationships require you to constantly work on yourself if not for anyones sake, for your partner. But like you said people only want the aesthetic and some have deluded themselves into thinking that the delusion is real.

[@wnttalk]

💯💯

[@dondattaford5593]

Relationship are not supposed to be based solely on income and now at this moment in time we have a huge loss in quality women they have no faith in the men and it's mainly misguided

[@DauntlessDeonte5991]

You work on yourself before you get in a relationship…. Until you find a situation that fits what’s good for you.

[@jonjones7137]

I still think this woman is delusional

[@boldengamerz7437]

Facts man

[@georgeamaechi4739]

Great interview, the way you was able to help her with self reflection was really good. Yet, she did make a good point about men who talk about and tell women about the WALL they hit as the get older. I am a man and I have too noticed some men who ain't got no ambition, no drive and basically nothing going for them trying to use the concept of the WALL to convince women to settle for them🤷🏾‍♂️...also about women submitting to men and men using bible quotes to support this. That's cool but again I see the same medíocre men telling women to submit to them when they haven't got their finances in order, they want to lead but they're going to lead themselves as well as the woman into chaos, again he hasn't got drive nor ambition..How can such a man ask for respect and submission when their actions does not warrant it 🤷🏾‍♂️ p.s. does white men spend time thinking or trying to get their white counter-parts to submit to them. Aint Respect Earned

[@ironmaiden3812]

When a woman “hits the wall” that means that she has reached the point in her life where not only is her physical appearance beginning to deteriorate but her fertility windows have all but closed meaning that this woman is becoming an increasingly undesirable choice for a potential mate. This usually happens to women in their late 20s to mid-30s and, if the woman in question happens to be single, hitting the wall makes it increasingly more difficult for her to find a man to date or for marriage. Ladies remember a new group of 18 year old females on market every year, they want the same man you do.

[@cherylcobia9623]

No they dont

[@taridean]

@@cherylcobia9623 they do. Ask who's flying out (or as they say flewed out) these young IG so called baddies to exotic places. It's not fresh out of college guys in their 20s.

[@Novem3ber11]

This is a FLAT OUT LIE.. BLACK WOMEN AGE GRACEFULLY. THERE'S SO MANY GOOD LOOKING BLACK WOMEN IN THEIR 50S...WHO IN THE HLL... WHAT........ IM 36 AND I KNOW I AIN'T HIT NOUN WALL. STILL LOOK LIKE IM IN MY 20S...

[@lavonesolomon9881]

Are you serious ? Women hit a wall in their late 20s to mid 30s ? Ridiculous ! The man that a woman desires in her 30s , in most instance s in not the same man that a 18 yr old would want. Just because a a 30 plus man thinks more of hisself than he should does not mean he will be able to keep up ,date or marry a 18, 19, 20.

[@Novem3ber11]

And a lot of y'all had a lot to say about R Kelly. What grown man is looking for a 19 20 year old. Sounds predatory and hypocritical to me. As a grown man you should want a grown woman.

[@JevonMyles]

This whole interview was great because she's really aware of the things plaguing her and her fellow woman. But the most important thing she stated was at 25:18 when she admits that women don't really want to be in a relationship, and they're in it just for validation. But now social media fulfills that validation, so now having a relationship is pointless to them anymore.

[@agrooartemyz8665]

Hm interessting

[@kennethsmith6367]

They want to be in a relationship when they get older and don’t want to work anymore. That’s why they’re willing to date down, but trying to marry up.

[@tobaby19]

I agree it interesting. The whole idea of what do women want? In the entirety of human existence I don’t think the what has ever changed. What I do think has changed is the idea that you have to be married to get it. Speaking as someone who is married for 17 yrs, I can see how women in their 20s and above goals aren’t marriage centered.

[@jonc2218]

And, you can tell it really bothered her and saddened her.

[@axxelfoley3304]

Let me get this straight a women will engage in sexual activities have a guys child/children giving up her body sexually with different men at times but find making her man a plate a issue and beneath her in submitting needs to be evaluated therapy is needed

[@torachan23]

Misandry is real. Doing anything nice for a man is simply unfathomable to the modern woman

[@ogralph803onig6]

We living in the Bizarro community

[@Cahluvca]

Modern feminism = SELFISHNESS

[@valeece5431]

Yea the logic of some of these women is definitely wild

[@novaseven57]

🤦‍♀️ women don’t have an issue making a plate or many don’t if they don’t valued less and her partner reciprocate her effort as much . Being in an equal relationship.

[@HowWillSmithBrokeTheInternetTM]

#oneslap ...I APPRECIATE THIS PRODUCTION OF A VIDEO! This is so POWERFUL that I have to watch it again! Courtney Michelle is so open and honest about the topic of discussion, and even when it got hard for her to face certain realizations, she still stood up to it and talked it out. I ADMIRE HER OPENESS AND BRAVERY to exemplify what needs to be said, heard, and dealt with to move us forward in a positive manner for realignment. Thank You Courtney for being so honest and true to self! I AM Northstar*

[@lobecosc]

Now this interview here was awesome to listen to. Very interesting. Keep this kind of interviews coming. Great job.

[@KiddKhao5]

That realization on her face as she ponders her life’s outcome is great

[@blaqtitan3368]

This Gender War is getting old.

[@italkshyt14]

You’re right. Tell that to uncooperative BW.

[@H1GHD3FF]

It's just started

[@johnbreitmeier3268]

@@H1GHD3FF This gender war has been going on for over a hundred years. It is not going to miraculously turn around overnight. The is a lot of bad momentum. BUT the only way it ever turns around is if we stand our ground and try. Kevin Samuels and this guy are at least trying. It is WAY too early for big results. It was time we fought back.

[@Slow-Rolling]

Nobody was saying that when Black men were getting bashed in the 80/90/2000’s🤔

[@blaqtitan3368]

@@johnbreitmeier3268 I concur we must not accept the BS.

[@samuelakorede9438]

The precedent argument is so true! Spot on break down. Great conversation!

[@TheSuperChannel]

i could almost cry, while simultaneously saying, WOW, at hearing her utter what I have experienced, to be true. And, the purposeful disodense in the question, "Why even bother telling our women about the delusion, ( without the future thought to the survival, the thriving of ADOS people in relationship and future of family, especial if only 1/2 of the "partnership" is being asked to fulfill ALL of its obligations only. its not the most efficient thing and always saying its only YOU, can not possible be the answer. Victim verses accountability story. Are you daring enough, to retell the "STORY" ( I.E. excuse) ...from a perspective of being accountable for everything.

[@EnkiseEvolution]

Brother I have often spoken about how much I love your content, but let me say that it just dawned on me what a perceptive interviewer and listener you are. This point cannot be understated especially when interviewing women as you do. I love always checking in and seeing the new growth. Please keep continuing on your grind, men of all races need voices like yourself and KS to further these conversations to wake women up from their societal brainwashing.

[@pathip_]

Yep Societal Brainwashing , perfectly said! Indeed, women need to wake up and heal for real.

[@timboslice9905]

Facts

[@djstevon2]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@TMRRadio]

This is why I respect Courtney. The honesty and the genuine conversation. This was a FIRE episode! Especially the portion about submission. KS touched on this brainwashing/indoctrination done to our women in regard to their role in relationships. If you asked the vast majority of Black women they would directly tell you they want their men to lead the relationship but then turn around and refuse to be led almost subconsciously self-sabotaging. Ladies, submission is not a bad word but it does require trust! Do you trust the man you are with to lead you? If the answer is no....why on Earth are you with him?

[@abstraqtphilosophy7357]

Ohh Lord! Shame you can't spot a chameleon when you see one. She's got you bamboozled

[@taylabeauty]

I just got out of a 3 yr long distance relationship. So, being long distance was a challenge, but we both were in. It got hard when the Pandemic hit. We both have 1 of our kids that is a challenge. He actually, had 3 of his(2 biological, 1 step) that he had strained relationship with even manipulative. I had one. So, my thought was how do we get them all(especially his youngest)on track. He flipped out. Telling me they are nothing alike started talking shit. I felt terrible at how he was talking and I started not to trust him. My mistake was trying to work with him having that thought to lead our family fairly and right. Clearly, I was mistaken. He basically wanted me to rent my house and only be bothered with his kids & grandkids. I have 2. One of which was still in high school making high honor with aspirations of being a doctor. My other went to college and we realized there were mental health issues that came about. Neither of mine are criminals, disrespectful or unruly. So, now that I have a man I have to limit my interactions or they can't visit me. Nooooo. That was a deal breaker. So. I have always told him that I'll be submissive as long as you lead us in the right direction. I was until then. He didn't want to listen to me or help to correct the situation. That was a problem to me. He hit the mark on everything else basically.....basically. but missed entirely on splitting me from mine and expect me to be grandma and step mom to his. Deal with 3 that didn't care for me(atleast by their unfriendly interactions over phone or in person, youngest mental issues/parenting issues) ex wife that didnt want to go away nor did he check her/set boundaries....Smh. Who does that.....not me.

[@StoVol70]

Thank you!

[@malarki5]

Well said!

[@AroundTheWayGirl88]

Exactly! Submission is a response.

[@tamcole8533]

This is my first time hearing of this channel. Well done, sir. This conversation was very good, especially the guy’s responses and input.

[@UnexpectedWonder]

Thank y'all for this Mature Discussion. This was a breath of fresh air. This is the best I've ever heard Ms. Courtney speak. I have newfound Respect for her. She's speaking of her Age and Experience. There are many Men myself included who would consider marrying an Older, more Mature Women. Sure I'd Love Kids of my own, but the Older I get it's less imperative, especially with the way a lot of Young Women are today. They're not Ready to be truly be Moms. If a Woman already has a child, then I'm paying close Attention to how she mothers the Kid. Yes, I've almost dated Single Moms. It's similar to if she doesn't have Kids. How would she potentially be a Mom and WIfe? No, it's not over after "The Wall". The issue is many Women become set in their ways. I and many Men, especially Black Men have experienced this whether Black Women or other groups of Women. These Women refuse to "settle" and listen to their Men. It's a Power Struggle, and no Real, Masculine Man desires that fight with his Woman, let alone his actual Wife. Masculine Men desire Femininity. I will say the thousandth time.

[@theezenriarinze9203]

I don't see how you can hate from outside the club, you can't even get in- Chris Brown

[@jsanders9975]

😂😂😂

[@EastSideRudeBoy]

Underrated comment tbh lmfao

[@tailoredbynature6984]

Marriage is about duty and responsibility, and when those obligations are fulfilled, the byproduct is interpreted as "love" (Duty and responsibility are "external", therefore they can be measured and improved on by both parties involved). Conversely, feelings and emotions are "internal" (self-serving, self-loathing, and selfish). Which cannot be measured, improved-on or shared by either parties involved, for the betterment of the relationship. Furthermore, feelings, emotions, love, and happiness are all "internal" experiences derived from "external" actions. In closing, committing to our duties and responsibilities within a marriage, reinforced its foundation, and overall structure to withstand the challenges of life.

[@johncapo2843]

word

[@oaklandtraphouse]

It's a religious procedure that's what it is

[@neutrino78x]

fuck anyone who thinks a woman's "duty" is to stay in the kitchen and not be able to work and better herself as well.

[@maryo8511]

Great insight and truth. Thank you.

[@MiMenteOnLine]

It was interesting to hear that part about the leadership in the relationship and the problem some people have with the meaning of being submissive. So, having some years of experience working as a manager on different types of businesses, every time I enter a new job I always found at least one employee with a problem with some changes for the way to do our job. So after some debate, if the person don't seem to understand the logic I ended up telling them this, "if something goes wrong after following my instructions, don't get so frustrated because I, as a manager, am going to be person that assume the responsibility and the one giving explanations and giving some answers and/or apologies to our costumers, or to whatever person above us in the company hierarchy. You were only following orders and doing your job as expected" So, this, apply to a relationship and family could result in a dynamic where the leader can listen to the other person opinions, but ultimately the one that takes the decision and assumes the responsibility to repare the consequences, if there's something that needs it, and the others person would be still there by his side to help to repair but is not the one to take the blame. BUT at the same time, we are talking about a relationship where 2 of them chose each other, so it's supposed they trust each other that, one is going to be the best decision maker and the other one the best for helping with "the job".

[@quotivation47]

These interviews are GOLD. They are so needed.

[@jwalk937]

As a father I show and tell my daughters that just as much as you want and I want you to be successful/ self sufficient you should work just as hard even harder to find your mate.

[@bplayerr1]

As a daughter dad, I feel ya! One of the few things about the manosphere I dont agree w is telling women to be completely dependent men. That leads to really shitry situations. Your message is spot on.

[@petermomo5119]

I told my girl she doesn't want men she just want a wedding,, that blew her mind.. We allowed the celebrities to come into our minds. Many women don't need a man because she loves the stage, glamor and lights of this new celebrated world.

[@johncapo2843]

wedding is fun / like christmas / lets party marriage is work, who wants that....not blk women that is why they divorce within 5 years of marriage at a 80 percent clip SAD

[@maxxbarzz]

I used to say as kids, women dreamed of wedding, marriage, family bt they never have a face to that man and when meet a guy they insert his face into that fantasy to fit their dream. So throughout life they have many faces inserted into that dream. Men, on the other hand, only start thinking abt wedding, marriage and family when they met that woman they see them having all that with.

[@petermomo5119]

Facts!

[@Cahluvca]

People dont know how to live a life of reality anymore...too concerned with folks outside of thier tax bracket.

[@semwen737]

Great interview! Very productive conversation!

[@JaniceHylton]

Somwone sent me this video for me to listen and review on my channel and I Absolutely enjoyed listening to this interview. I agree wholeheartedly with the content.

[@JamenLS]

Best one yet. Women, well some are getting it. My gf is similar to her. She realized the failures of feminism and wants a leader and nit a partner. I'm so appreciative

[@mallburk1191]

Keep a close eye on her actions. Women know how to play the game to get to the alter. I know many brothers that had the game switched on them after marriage.

[@malarki5]

@@mallburk1191 dude, get off Courtney Michelle's back!

[@U4ia28]

Settling is never a one way street. Once a woman feels like she’s “settling” for what she sees as a lesser man that man is automatically settling for that woman if he chooses to stay. He’s settling for a woman who doesn’t see him as her first choice. Settling isn’t uniquely just a woman thing. Also by default of women wanting men who are better than them to lead them. So by default THEY ARE LESS THAN THEM! THEY ARENT HIS EQUAL IN ANY WAY! That’s the whole point of the man leading. What women don’t understand is that they can’t pursue success like men, reach the upper echelons of success and then expect to be able to be hypergamous and average women need to understand that not all women are 10s and thus can’t date in the same way that successful 10s do. The more successful a woman is, the smaller her dating pool is going to be within the parameters of hypergamy. If a woman is going to achieve career success like a man she’s going to be relegated towards dating down like a man and women refuse to adapt to this fact. Most of all women need to regain their humility and gain some practicality.

[@bhillboy37]

Wow...really great thought.

[@drehardin]

VERY good point. If she "feels" like she settled for you.... .... She'll treat you like she settled for you.

[@TheTwonne1]

Great dialog. My first time seeing this channel. I'll definitely check out more episodes.

[@lhbnlb]

Yooooooo. With all due respect this is ONE OF YOUR BEST EPISODES....Courtney has been though and seen life and is able to process information in a way that past guests have not...KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK KING

[@sallyhemings2295]

Kevin is right about her getting married. She strong in her beliefs but where’s her BOAZ? No ring 💍.

[@kingtee1607]

Exactly! It's because she is a fake, a chameleon.

[@Jamfar777]

Ruth was childless, she is not.

[@therealericaerica]

Ruth had a child after she married Boaz.

[@Jamfar777]

@@therealericaerica Exactly. After. She was childless before. If she wasn't there would have been no reason to have kinsman redeemer, as her husband who died would have had a heir and lineage

[@KeepitfunkyIRL]

Powerful, this sister have a great heart. Don’t let her views on the Podcast fool you. Mister LoGic approve this message

[@RJ-ph5zg]

See, they tried to say that you don’t give props.

[@LPMagic7]

You and Courtney are my favorite panelists on the Podcast LoGic

[@dredey1971]

Get rid of Kay's character on LaPeef please.

[@Jaywilly24]

Keep that pressure on Kaylas neck Mr. Logic. Don't let her off the hook. Lol

[@nickgeoz8059]

My boy Logic!!

[@skycontrolproductions]

that last question and answer ....man no lies detected this whole interview....great content and edit !!!!

[@wnttalk]

thank you🙏🏿

[@ukdayo]

Probably one of the most important conversations that more sisters should share amongst each other. Sisters, please share with each other. Help each other out please

[@ihateevilpeople4298]

Out of all the women on the Lapeer show, Courtney stands out with her beauty, intelligence, realistic conversations and she's got something those other women don't have.

[@patriciacoley3801]

Hmmm 🤔 Maybe a little more humility? The ability to listen ? She has time to develop into the kind of lady a good man , who also made the mistakes she’s made (has a baby momma or 2) could choose to be happy with! ❤️

[@patrickedmond7190]

Nah island girl Q has got kaye court & MOS DEF kayla hands down🙌

[@abstraqtphilosophy7357]

@Ihateevilpeople stop the 🧢. Islandgyal Q moonwalks all over Courtney and the other ladies on the panel in those qualities you mentioned. And don't let Ameera walk in the room if you don't want Courtney to run mad

[@mosaictwin]

I totally agree! She’s not perfect but who is?! I believe she allows us to see her at her best and at her worst and that’s REAL! She’s not about giving the correct answers but honest answers which allows us all to she who she is. We can all learn together. She seems like someone who might react in the moment but learn from it after which is ok. 🙂 I really like her! She brings the lapeef network to life in my opinion. It wouldn’t be the same without her! ☺️🙌🏽

[@ogpirons]

Unless Ameera is on the panel, then Courtney will switch up.

[@timk2447]

14:43 I think this too needs to be talked about. There's a difference between entirely depending on someone for your well-being, and being with someone to work together. Ladies have for a while now said things like I can do ABC by myself I don't need a man , instead of realizing that 2 people bringing home 40k are better than one person bringing 50k . It's like money and education have become a reason not to need people, instead of being a platform to bear more fruit as a couple I think that the messaging there needs to change, now that women don't need men for sustenance, they have to evaluate the value proposition of marriage altogether . Orr just buy a dog ...😅

[@tam6011]

But men don’t need a woman and men don’t need a man. You don’t need to have a kid. You want someone. You buy a chef, a bride, a kid, and everything. Sure the source is a man or woman but it’s not your seed persay.

[@lowellgelin2063]

Well said @Tim K

[@kreativeforce532]

stupidity is popular amongst us and women gravitate to whats popular. its stupid to brag about or be satisfied with mere sustinance level income. Thats the issue. During the 1920s there were 2 or 3 classes of white people, and black people had 12 self identified classes which included income but were not defined primarily by income. We need to ger back to the art of self analysis and self definition. I bet we still have 12 or more classes and arent aware of it because we're superimposing white peoples 3 classes on ourselves.

[@redrum623az]

@@kreativeforce532 interesting, I wasn't aware we had those many classes and if you don't mind, what were these classes? 👀

[@impudentdomain]

If a woman says she don't need a man, then men need to just ignore her. We need each other and no one, a man especially, wants to feel uneeded.

[@andersoncorbin8085]

This was great back and forth. She was real and gave well thought out answers

[@JohnMiller123]

Courtney is delightfully engaging. This is my first time listening to this very competent interviewer. I thank him for the wonderful job he has done here. Courtney does NOT appear to want to be a wife. Like other modern women, she wants a "relationship" without the responsibilities. Women who use the word "willing" when discussing submission don't want the career of being a wife. They much prefer the job/career of being an employee. They see the latter (rightly or wrongly) as requiring less time, emotional investment, and constraints on their "freedom".

[@missmarymary6506]

And Why would any woman want less stress and more freedom...

[@alexisc7565]

I mean...a job IS less restrictive of freedom lol

[@dasmith1207]

So by "wanting it all" and not having it, that sets the precedent of "piss - poor" leadership which is not delighting.

[@jasonsmart469]

Sad but true

[@JohnMiller123]

@@missmarymary6506 Why? It depends on the outcome she seeks, doesn't it? "Freedom" is a grossly misunderstood concept. It is an ideal. It can also be a slippery slope leading to a rabbit hole. We all find a way to do those things we want to do. And rational people don't avoid or complain of the required sacrifices (work) to get the outcomes they seek.

[@truthseekingfreethinker5214]

It was a hard realization to come to, that women, in their younger years, seem to play with their lives when it comes to relationships by the decisions that they make and then think a man is just suppose to accept all that they have done and to top it all off their excuse was usually that they were just young and dumb. The juvenile that got sentenced to 30 years for murder was young and dumb as well, but he still has to deal with those consequences.

[@5822huron]

For life

[@beechris1815]

Big time

[@ulquiorra3104]

Faxxx. But "im the exception".....ok 😒😒😒

[@HumbleHurricane]

I actively seek and listen to conversations, interviews, and dialogs that are beneficial in moving the progression of people forward. With that being said, it's rare that I find a conversation as powerful as this one was. I salute you for this my guy. Absolutely stellar.🔥💯

[@wnttalk]

Thank you brother!

[@SomeDude......]

This "WOMAN" needs to be and deserves to be protected and respected.. ladies listen to her ..she's very honest and transparent to the point she will cry! she's DOPE! THIS SHOW IS DOPE!

[@anthonyblakejr8442]

@@mrbantumusic 💀💀

[@SomeDude......]

@@mrbantumusic Get a J-O-B.. lol

[@MrN3RD23]

Love this interview the die alone statement sounds terrible but it’s very real I had to change my ways as a man to lead by example and set the tone of the relationship after in realized I played a huge part in two failed marriages Age (21) lasted1 year and age (27) lasted 4 I played alot of games and wasn’t ready to be committed but of course kids were involved so I learned from all my mistakes and challenged myself more than anyone to change I don’t believe marriage is overrated i just wasn’t ready and wasn’t man enough to say so

[@thabalance7480]

When I tell other guys that it took 10 years for me to be sure that the woman I asked to marry me was the right one they get it. Women hear that different in inject the "nope i wouldn't have" attitude. Then I explain that the whole time I was watching her and putting her through the paces, I was also growing myself paying attention the the tests she was giving me. It was and is never a one way street. We were sensible. None of this bullshit you see today. We were really building the relationship, mending what was broken and growing professionally together. There were important messages that we did not get when we were young unfortunately that we are now trying to explain to some of these younger folks. I love that you had reflected on what your failures were and what responsibility you had to the marriage that you failed in. That's part of the growth process. Marriage is not overrated at all. Marriage is not the problem.

[@yardleyhbk]

Damn my nigga u was wildin' lol 😆 but glad u take accountability. I'm following the same path too. Us men got to lead by example

[@MrN3RD23]

@@yardleyhbk haha yes I was reckless but better late than never haha

[@desertdetroiter428]

Accountability!👍🏿

[@ledonahentley4488]

Thank you for being honest.

[@dcuthbertson5778]

39 and a child. Yeah, that’s a lot. She’s getting there. However she can find someone. It’s just not gonna be the man she wants. Guys need to cut the BS. Hell, somebody took my ex wife and has been with her for 8 years. Now he’s sorry as hell but they still together. Lmaoooo 🤣. Her to My son: I’m leaving his sorry ass… Me: “nah… tell your momma to stay with him. They’ll be ok.”

[@KhemistryIBMOR]

My words exactly.

[@rjd1126]

Yo big facts

[@Cahluvca]

We all know America is a pushover society for women but the pushback on unrealistic standards with no results is long overdue

[@ramonalisa4187]

I appreciated the honesty here. This was a great convo... I used to buy into the whole feminism///don't need a man///prioritize && value everything but a man until LATER (whenever "later" is)... all of that stuff is lies and I refuse to buy into it anymore. Black women bought into feminism too heavily... to the extent that we left our men behind in the process and devalued them. Conversations like this need to be facilitated, especially by people with large platforms, so that more black people can start talking about this stuff.... and eventually, we can truly start healing as a community. Favorite quote from this video: "Our generation is more fixated on the aesthetic of love than the reality of it"...... that's deep!!

[@InsuranceSpecialist]

This was so good and honest. Definitely cordial and needed, new subscriber. Btw, however this woman got this way she has grown from wherever she started. She's actually listening and very conversational = rare

[@EyeAmJustJules]

People die alone all the time - it’s whether you’re OK with it. My grandfather died alone after nearly 90 years, but outlived his wife who died with him holding her hand after over 50 years of marriage. He never remarried and was happy with his family - marriage, kids, grand and great grand kids.

[@070911021302]

Do women want to die alone???

[@5822huron]

But he had a partner. You are missing the point

[@servmlrcc]

That's not the point. Your grandparents were married. We are talking about women that die never being married or experienced a long term serious relationship

[@sevinbamuels6560]

Your grandfather did THE Exact opposite of dying alone. Dying alone had not actually about dying. It's about going 35 to 60 years having to take care of your self and then dying.

[@ugaais]

Not what the term means…my Grandmother passed at 93 after my Grandfather passed..but they were married 66 years had a great family and life…that’s what these woman will lose

[@sheridontrepagnieriv7897]

It’s not that no man wants you. It’s that the men you really want have options and choose the best deal for them.

[@ratswagger]

This was an awesome interview! I love how she was truthful and realistic in her answers. She realizes that if women really wanted to get married that they will do what is necessary. Women nowadays have a hard time giving up their independence for interdependence.

[@roshglock]

Wow! Great conversation. Needs more views.

[@andraesmith4496]

This was a great episode. Even as a married man. It let's me want to improve things in my house hold and make things better for my wife and kids . Courtney you are amazing women and you will definitely make a man extremely happy and blessed to call you his wife.

[@icsa]

Sir, you are the BWW (Black Woman Whisperer). You have a great facility for getting Black women to reveal themselves when they never intended to - all while having them acknowledge the value in doing so aka the "Aha!" moment. Kudos

[@drich2579]

Great video as always…It’s mind boggling how in 3 days you get 87k views and nearly 2k comments on this particular video but only have 23k of followers, that’s crazy! You are a great content creator and I look forward to all of your vids…hopefully the masses catch on and start pressing that subscribe button sooner than later! 🤞🏾

[@EricBrockman21229]

This is the most truthful intellectual conversation I’ve ever heard. Just awesome, she’s very thoughtful and deliberate in her responses to your questions. Unfortunately, she’s very raw! Nice

[@wnttalk]

Thank you so much brother

[@EricBrockman21229]

@@wnttalk you are doing awesome work! Thanks for filling the whole Kevin left in his death!

[@EricBrockman21229]

@@wnttalk forgive the error I meant rare not raw lol

[@TalismanSarkozy9814]

She just proved that women would rather be in the streets homeless than get with average men. The disease is deep

[@tam6011]

Who is homeless? It’s more homeless black men than black women. At this point it’s to many free skills that neither should be homeless

[@kevinmokumobi9684]

@@tam6011 ok what's the point of that defection? Women won't accept average men when they make a certain amount.

[@tam6011]

@@kevinmokumobi9684 Why should anyone accept anyone when they dont have to. We also have to get out of the mindset the 45k to 50k for anybody.

[@TalismanSarkozy9814]

@@tam6011 This shows how triggered you are. What was meant was that you would rather go through the worst than deal with the men on your level. About homelessness, stay tuned, you will soon start seeing homeless women

[@TalismanSarkozy9814]

@@tam6011 most of ya'll don't even make what the average man makes. Get off the high horses.

[@skylimits313who9]

KS was saying that other women will not listen to you because you are not married. He was saying that you are preaching this but other women don't take you seriously because you are unmarried.

[@89426]

♟️ Check and mate.

[@mrs.catvalez7108]

NEITHER IS KS...TWICED DIVORCED. FAILURE..

[@patriciacoley3801]

But she WAS married once, right?

[@skylimits313who9]

@@patriciacoley3801 IDK your guess would be better than any

[@deebow8927]

@@mrs.catvalez7108 that would matter maybe if he was a marriage counselor which he doesn’t claim to be. Fact is, he’s surrounded by HVM and knows what HVM want from women. His failed marriages have NOTHING to do with that.

[@mazi-uk]

this was a beautiful rich filled conversation!. keep rocking Courtney

[@Maryland-Man-Son]

I just got so high and stumbled across this 😶‍🌫️ I was super focused and every bar hit like a drum 😂

[@boldengamerz7437]

Respect to Courtney Michelle takes a lot to self reflect and acknowledge one’s mistakes in life especially when trying prevent those mistakes for your children great convo as ever my guy WeNeedToTalk

[@wnttalk]

Thank you brotha✊🏿

[@gregorylagrange]

Well, here she's by herself, so she may come across like she's reflecting. But if you've seen her back on the Lapeef show when she's around those other women, (especially Kayla) you might think differently.

[@boldengamerz7437]

@@gregorylagrange the main mistakes I am referring to are the ones in her dating life and with her child’s father if talking about this chameleon stuff personally I don’t really care especially in a country that is modern and people are having to learn

[@0BV1ANGEL1CA]

@BoldenGamerZ All that's nice, but it still won't change her outcome. The truth is nothing will change her biological limitations. As an older woman, the guy she wants is simply no longer in her orbit. It's over.

[@boldengamerz7437]

@@0BV1ANGEL1CA hey we can argue that all that all day but only one who can decide that is they guy and men that she entertains

[@lsporter88]

This was the most productive one yet in my humble opinion. I shared this everywhere. She's my new favorite. Excellent conversation.

[@johncapo2843]

REALLY ? watch this then. this the smartest guy to date kzbin.info/www/bejne/aJXPlYp_q9V2fLs

[@tontontouzo]

Yo…. I gotta give it up for your conversation skills. The way you articulate and give analogies that aren’t offensive and is digestible is super impressive. (Takes notes📝 )

[@wnttalk]

🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@lemanwalker243]

I love this video from beginning to end very true topics keep it up

[@thomassingleton3642]

It’s something attractive and magical about a women when she starts to genuinely get it/ understand what’s being asked or said. Now implement that understanding with the same humble energy and you’ll increase the chances and aligned yourself to attain the results your looking for. We’re still rooting for you black woman. - Black man

[@carpediem4512]

Did you not realise at the end she kept saying “my son” repeatedly. Pop, lock and drop it? WTF? I’m definitely not rooting for these deluded bytches.

[@flatout1017]

Exactly. Woman that genuinely understand the way men think is attractive! Us men are use to “Nobody caring about us and our problems” but when one woman at least tries to understand that means a lot.

[@TashaAlexandrea]

Seek therapy for your issues. Women are not here to be your emotional dumping ground. You also need to listen and understand what women are asking of YOU.

[@flatout1017]

@@TashaAlexandrea why are you so emotional, I was raised in a house of woman so I very much understand woman. Most of you'll dont understand a man because most of you'll never had a decent one around.

[@TashaAlexandrea]

@@flatout1017 who’s emotional? Just adding points to the dialogue. Men wanna hold us accountable, I’m doing the same for men 😉

[@matthewgaines10]

You can understand things intellectually yet not not be able to apply them practically. What KS was trying to say is lead by example. I often ignore what people say and watch what they actually do. There lies their actual priorities, beliefs, and motivations. What people say is often just talk. The things you do matter more than the things say. She did say something that is profoundly sincere about the reasons why women don't want to do the work to be wives. If they can get the validation elsewhere, they will with less effort.

[@richpower07]

I agree. That's exactly what KS was saying to her. He's said it on his platform before. One way to get these modern women to begin to change their mindset is for them to see more examples of Black women becoming wives. I was scrolling the comments to see if anybody else understood what he was saying. It wasn't some difficult riddle to figure out.

[@MissOshunPossible]

@@richpower07 real women aren't overly in these spaces commenting.

[@MissOshunPossible]

@Matthew Gaines , if men are the gatekeepers of marriage and most men can't afford marriage for real why tell the women just get married as if it's thier decision? It's like, you know people will have issues over money but you want to create divorce by urging the women to get married over urging the men to be marriageable and get married to the chick cooking for and sucking them. There's more than 15% of women in stable relationships with black men living as a married couple while not actually being that. Plenty men have good women but they can't afford it or they afraid of marriage. Therefore it don't matter what women do. If the men aren't right marriage rates still gonna be what it is now. So come on with the sensationalizing talk about just get married. Life isn't two colors. Speak to the root issue which is not women. Women are a bi-product of men's choices.

[@matthewgaines10]

@@MissOshunPossible And you somehow are the arbiter of what constitutes a real woman? Or are you saying you aren't a real woman, thus you are here? Please clarify. My understanding is there plenty of men who can afford to marry but women who come in these space all proclaim they need men who make "six figures or more" to be satisfied. Worse yet, they are looking for not only six figures but a man with a minimum level of education. Heaven forbid an electrican making $120,000 a year or more wouldn't do. A two income household can survive fine with a man and woman making average incomes. What has become apparent is people, particularly women's appetites have become insatiable. A man has to be smart, educated, high earning, look like Denzel Washington, as tall as Shaq, and equipped like John Holmes before he is considered marriagable in the eyes of women. That man isn't going to settle for some average female. With those stats, he has all the world as his playground. He would be best served by keeping things loose and not committing because he will have an endless stream of bed warmers. The problem with BW in particular is 80% of you all want the same 1%-2% guy. That guy is only interested in the top 5%-10% of women and there's more of you women who are on the top in looks that there are of him who hit both the financial and genetic lottery. That guy is as good as out of reach. While women are inflexible holdouts waiting for Mr. Perfect, suitable men observe this game and just shake their heads. They don't want to be "settled" for or a 2nd choice so they adopt similar tactics as top men, just with less options and avoid marriage too. Ladies, you have created the market you have. BM in 2022 make more, adjusted for inflation, than they did in 1965 when they were 80% married. They are 30% married today and those men have changed alot less than BW did. You keep telling yourself what you want to believe but the data doesn't support your beliefs.

[@MissOshunPossible]

@@matthewgaines10 When you attempt to be passive aggressive, quote the entire sentence. It's easy just copy and paste Sir... I said "overly" in these comment sections. With that being said, there's no need to go back and forth over your opinion while I gave you an inevitable fact that men control marriage and if the men are not financially fit, (40k) we can expect what we have. Do not try to be cute Sir. It is what it is. Defending the curse won't help you or your kind.

[@theclerk347]

Very good segment. Great Job!

[@mariobarnes5]

I loved that she was honest and became aware of somethings as she talked about it

[@greeneyes7392]

Im only 13mins in , but this guy is very articulate and aware of the issues. This female , seems well manners , but well represents SIGN language

[@id.icebergslim]

Facts

[@silentlamont]

They know how to interview well. They have mastered using a lot of complicated words complicated words and speaking softly in these interviews but this is not how they act in real life

[@sandik7992]

Sign language? Is that something other than how the hearing impaired speak?

[@greeneyes7392]

@@sandik7992 lol- KEVIN SAMUELS coined it: Shame Insults Guilt Need to be right SIGN language is a red flag for the modern woman

[@sandik7992]

@@greeneyes7392 oh wow. That's a good one and something to think about ,Thanks

[@therico5377]

Its not impossible for women in Courtney's situation (older single mother) to be in a meaningful relationship, but compromises will need to be made. Potential avenues for relationships: 1) An high-earning older dude (60+) who wants companionship until the Lord calls him home 2) A man closer to her age who is maybe an average earner and is a single parent himself 3) Be a concubine to a high value/high earning man in his prime.

[@KeepinItOneHunnnid]

4) A higher-earning man of a similar age who falls *well* below most women's physical standard.

[@therico5377]

@@KeepinItOneHunnnid a high-earning man still has options to get younger, childless women, even if he isn’t considered ‘attractive’.

[@KeepinItOneHunnnid]

@@therico5377, I hear you bruh, but I'm talking about men who are well below the standard most women want and maybe don't earn enough to make up for it even though they earn well. Think Welvin da Great on $90k a year.

[@rosenoir4865]

I chose option 1. We applied for my passport for our honeymoon later this year.

[@therico5377]

@@rosenoir4865 Nice

[@bandiddid8583]

The views are sky rocketing. Good job Courtney and Host

[@jeromehenry6629]

Best episode thus far!!! Shout out to Courtney for keeping it real on this one 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@RetrogradeBeats]

Men understand the wall is undefeated but as men we also know female nature points to outliers because they are supposed to be inspirational so they cant help but to still hold on to the hope as if it didn’t exist.

[@wnttalk]

Excellent point!

[@RetrogradeBeats]

@@wnttalk thanks love the channel btw

[@Tyk3l55]

Man this was a profound comment. I alwayd wondered that and this completely explained it.

[@RetrogradeBeats]

@@Tyk3l55 thanks

[@residentkat]

Great video guys keep having these conversations.

[@wnttalk]

Yessir✊🏿✊🏿

[@benjaminstokesiii5340]

One of the most truthful interviews on deck.

[@Victorious-gx9ur]

Good convo...we make things so difficult.