MARRIAGE Q&A YEAR 1 - Marriage, Babies, Arguments, and more! | VICKYLOGAN

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[@ManjiD]

Can I just say that you guys are the most focused, committed, planned, and God fearing couple I have ever seen on youtube and in life...I love everything that y'all have said, and this is the first very long q&a video that I have ever watched without skipping because y'all are just so awesome.😊

[@Chachweezy]

"If marriage isn't the goal why consider yourself a bf or gf" ...perfect 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@creativetears1]

+Charlene Clarke Because not everyone believes in or wants to get married. You don't have to be married to be committed to someone for life.

[@Chachweezy]

+creativetears1 in the not-so-Biblical sense of the word marriage, you're absolutely correct. But as Christians scriptures like 1 Corinthians 7 and Ephesians 5 teach us otherwise. "Let marriage be held in honor by all..but God will judge the sexually immoral" Heb. 13:4

[@ericdave5786]

+creativetears1 Well said sister

[@ericdave5786]

+Charlene Clarke and what about divorce?

[@Chachweezy]

+eric dave what exactly is your question? What I think about divorce? Or what the Bible says about it ?

[@Beebeetaylor15]

Thank you guys soooo much, I'm 16 right now and I've made a decision to stay single until I'm mentally, and spiritually mature. And being so young and seeing how people operate within my age group, it's sometimes hard to want to keep myself. I'm a Christian, and I'm trying to be a serious one. Seeing this gives me lots of hope. Thank you.

[@victoriouslogan]

Brittiny Taylor awww that's beautiful i'm glad you made that decision. dont let anyone change that! dare to have standards in a standardless society (:

[@VintageNeZz94]

IF MARRIAGE ISNT THE GOAL IN A RELATIONSHIP WHATS THE POINT.... THANK YOU JESUS!!!! you guys got my train of thought. Thank you lawd!

[@apostlekingdomministries1772]

Hubby was 26 and I was 19 years old when we got married 25 years ago this year

[@DomLalette]

❤️

[@themodifiedbarbie]

I wish people would stop giving you a hard time about being a house wife, even if you didn't have an income and just your husband worked, that's your business. If you two are happy, that's all that matters. Unfortunately this is KZbin and everyone would rather tell you how to live your life...

[@victoriouslogan]

THANK YOU

[@preciouscbwinner07]

I can really appreciate that "no disrespect" thing you two have as a couple. And when you said "you say things you don't mean and they stick with you forever." GURL, thats something I never heard before but its real. Someone who I was with for 3 years, when we argued things got VERY disrespectful and some of the stuff he said to me, I carried with me through our whole relationship.(Even though it wasn't like how he felt, it was a "heat of the moment" when you're mad type of thing) That still stuck with me and made our relationship unhealthy I feel. So I never thought of it like that but thats something that I think should be made a guideline in relationships. lol I grew up in the church and strayed from it ever since I been in college (I am still very religious, read my bible, pray.) But maybe I need to search for more God-fearing men and get back into the church just to be closer to God even more. Because y'all are an awesome couple. And its nice to see that.

[@onegreenenvy]

+Monaé Ellis Yes! I would never be with a no-God fearing man again

[@malaikasdurbin8960]

This is the BEST explanation I have heard from a young SPIRITUAL COUPLE! I showed this to my young adult children and I am so happy to hear your husband say that you two had CORE VALUES! I said the EXACT SAME THING to my kids!!!! Also, I wholeheartedly agree that dating is with a marriage in view. Thank you so much for this Q&A! May JEHOVAH continue to bless your Union!!!!

[@kateokwudili5385]

@latoyaforever needs to see this ! Not being immature

[@roeroe3793]

👆👆👆 😩😩😂😂 EXACTLY!!!!!

[@SalaciousSerenity]

Ouch its a joint decision though...

[@nains2179]

#latoyaforever #latoyaslife ...

[@TheSimplyeka]

why does she needs to see this?

[@trinityeliz]

Amen!!

[@TooBlessedMaya]

I love how you all are a Christian couple May God continue to Bless yall.

[@parisj1949]

I'm a 17 year old Christian, and I look up to guys soo much. I hope to marry someone with the same beliefs as me one day in the future and you guys show me that it's still possible!

[@newid10]

I never knew Michelle Williams was married to Chris Brown!!! I'm shocked!

[@Opqrstuvwx]

ROTF!!!!!!! LOL! I was thinking the same thing!

[@HisandHerMoney]

I love how you guys are not ashamed to talk about your faith! Keep it up.

[@eclecticcabinet]

Don't let heathen minded women influence how you feel about yourself or your marriage. You do not need to chase meaningless careers in order to be fulfilled. More wives need to be at home away from worldly foolishness. There is nothing wrong with making an income online or with your own business. You will be glad you set that foundation when you have children so you don't have to leave them with strangers when They are 6 weeks old. Protect your marriage. Keep it out of the hands and prying eyes of nosey, bitter, single women with heathen mindsets. Don't apologize for being strong in your faith. Don't apologize for the truth.

[@eclecticcabinet]

My husband and I married in our early 20's and I have always been at home. It has helped our family immensely. I make money how I make money and my husband supports and appreciates my creativity. Women will come and try to talk negatively about your situation, so stay strong and tune them out. They will tell you how trapped you are in all of your freedom while they are slaving away chained to a desk 40 hours a week while someone else raises their kids. The Bible calls us to be separate...good for you for being brave enough to do that.

[@TheOfficialJessicaDivine]

Amen

[@naeluvsGCH]

This. This is all truth!!

[@Not2008Me]

Amen, you are speaking some serious truth because my husband and I have been married for a little over three years and for the first 2 I was a housewife. I was able to be supportive to him and fulfill my wifely duties much better than I am now working a highly stressful job. I make double what my husband makes, but I'm always tired and don't have the energy that I used to have and I can tell he misses the old me. You are really on point...I agree completely from experience.

[@eclecticcabinet]

+rea2725 I don't need to work outside of the home in order to have an income. I thought that was clear in my first post.

[@caetechclub]

God bless you both! I thoroughly enjoyed this video. I even turned off Grey's Anatomy to give it my full attention. Young, saved, grounded, and married. Kudos.

[@GlamazonJay]

Lmaooo at "this nigga just sleep". If that ain't the realest ish ever.

[@victoriouslogan]

I'll have you know, both of our parents have been married for over 20 years and they still love each other the same. Marriage for us isn't just about pretty weddings. the world may think that way but we don't, we see things differently. Even when things change and get hard that's when we draw closer not pull apart. We are a family now... When things got hard in my house growing up or when things changed no one left, no one splits up, we worked it out, same with a husband. It's not just two people who decide to like each other, it's two people who decide to be a family. Families work together through anything, even when our needs and desires change, we learn to work with those changes, not against them. That's what REAL love is.

[@GlamazonJay]

Vicky I have faith in you. I just turned 25, I've been married since I was 21 and right now I'm a housewife until I get my degree. Me and my husband goes to marriage counseling not because we need to but because I was so scared about marrying so young and didn't have an example of a solid marriage growing up like my husband. Honestly age don't matter, all these problems will STILL exist in most marriages despite when they decide to get married. That's just the stages of marriage. I feel like you and Cameron got what it takes to survive the stages of marriage. I got tired of reading your comments with the people putting down housewives, your profession, and "everybody change". Change is inevitable. Everybody will change and continue to change but when you're married you learn to grow with a person. A lot of people who comment has never been married and are bitter about their failed marriage and try to impose their views on people. I am well out the honeymoon phase just after four years and IMMA tell you it's not as bad as people make it seem. You and your husband remind me of me and mines even with the long distance relationship in the beginning. And all of that helps when you had a solid friendship before the union. So I believe in YALL and I think YALL got what it takes to survive the time.

[@victoriouslogan]

it's not nearly as bad as people make it if you actually LOVE and LIKE the person you're with! the thing about change is that it's gonna happen but real love doesnt change with change, it just gets stronger! that doesnt mean we wont have problems to solve, shoot we have problems now, and we had problems when we were dating, but that doesnt mean i'm gonna yell and scream and cheat and lie, that's dumb! and that would be a waste of both of our time. the problem is people are so wrapped up in themselves and self-gratifcation that they dont see how important it is to consider someone else before themselves. marriage requires sacrifice. and as long as people are willing to do that, they will prosper (: keep ya head and dont let anyone come between your love girl, you can do it! dont be afraid, fear is what tears you down, trust me i know. but dont let fear scare you out of trusting and loving your husband!

[@GlamazonJay]

I totally understand. Mind you im out of the honeymoon phase. A lot of the things you're mentioning unfortunately I'm experiencing now. So I understand to a certain extent and you're right, I'm not there yet. However, I won't know until I get there. No one knows. Change are inevitable. It's already hard coping with changes to my body after having our first child and trying to get my husband to understand. That's why I'm glad we implemented marriage counseling when we first got married. And I was told by our counselor we will have to come back every couple of years to learn how to handle these different changes until we can take them on ourselves without outside help. But that's the part of marriage that scares everyone because we don't know how and when to handle those changes, but you can overcome those changes.

[@victoriouslogan]

What I found that works better than anything is prayer and good examples. Get around older people who have been married a LONG time that know a thing or two, they teach you alotttt! I spend a lot of time with my in laws, and even though that sounds boring, just being around people who have been married for almost 30 years can give you great insight on how to deal with things.

[@SpicyChannelShoutOuts]

I think that you can't give such a stern opinion about being married young, middle aged or senior age because you guys were fortunate to find each other at a young age and I hope it works out for the long haul for both of you. But not everyone is lucky to find that person they want to commit their life too at an early age. We never know at what age God is going to send that special someone you supposed to be with let's leave that up to him and when that person comes no matter the age its a blessing. I understand you guys are young and I pray you guys build a solid foundation together for life. But as young people such as yourself you still have individual aspirations and goals and sometimes being married early can stop you from going as far as you could go in life because of the commitment to the other person. Especially if that other person may not want to go down that same path. See you can only grown together if both people are willing to sacrifice for the other and willing to take the same journey. Being so young you two haven't really started life as individuals even you said Vicky that you don't have any goals planned and your hubby wants to do an album and you reacted in a surprised way. So who knows when opportunities come your way and his that may change your relationship around, when the comfortability becomes uncomfortable, that's when you know what your marriage is really made of. When hard choices come as years pass and things present themselves in your lives that you really want I hope both of you will be on the same page. But only time will tell, you don't know, I don't know, but only God knows how this will play out so just be ready. Build a super strong foundation and talk more about what each of you want to do and what you want to be as an individual and how both of you can come together on it. So I wish you both well and I love watching both of you and I enjoy knowing your commitment to your relationship and having faith in God.

[@victoriouslogan]

1. nothing will ever change my love for him. goals and aspirations are important but come after our love. I fully support whatever decisions he makes, as he does the same with me. he actually wants me to have more goals and aspirations... I came into this relationship with that mindset but I'm working on finding my place in life, even while married. he's not stopping me from doing that, he's actually walking with me in that area. but just because we're young doesn't mean we don't know who we are. we are both mature in that we know who we are as individuals, my identity is not defined by him and vice versa. our identities are in Christ (: I DO know that when hard times come sometimes we won't be on the same page, as I would be with any other individual person in the world, but, when those times do come, love and our faith in God will get us through that. love is not always a feeling it's a daily decisions. and I will always decide to love him. I'm not opposed to sacrifice because that's what love is. we have a strong foundation already because we talked about all these things you speak of way before I walked down the aisle. Like I knew cameron wanted an album, I've been pushing him to do it for years. I just acted surprised because he said it on camera. he pushed me to do youtube because he knows I love it and it's an outlet for me and could open many doors in the future! were business partners in this thang. he tries to get me to go above and beyond but I have to get over my fears first lol! but for you and everyone who thinks I'll change later in life or wish I would have waited to marry him after I got a career or something, he doesn't hinder me. he makes me better.

[@kathope4484]

I absolutely agree, Rhonda. That is always my main concern when people get married so young. I know it from my mother's mistake since she got married at 18. I got a friend who is getting married in 2 months and we're only 23 :o But I definitely wish everyone good luck. It would definitely not be me lol

[@victoriouslogan]

you can't apply other people's choices to everyone though. I got married young and decided to embark on this journey because I believe that's what God wants for my life for the assignment he has for us. I can't be too selfish and trick myself into thinking that living for just me is all I'm here for, ya know? if I took that route I would never learn how to have faith.

[@kathope4484]

It is a far way of seeing things. I just think that at this age (I'm only a year older than you) we're constantly learning new things about ourselves if we allow it to. When you share your life with someone else, you're not as free to make your own decisions because your decision affects both. Back in the biblical times, it was practical to be a stay-at-home wife but now there are so many things out there and you might change your mind about things. Unfortunately, it doesn't always go eye-to-eye with the person we're sharing our lives with. Like I said before, I hope it doesn't happen to you guys. And at this stage it's still early days - married for 2 years, you're still in the honeymoon phase. And you didn't live close before so this is all new to you (you said you're still finding things out about each other). I wish you guys the best but these are always my concerns with young marriages nowadays.

[@victoriouslogan]

Well the difference is that we're not like everyone else. we dont let marriage stop us from being ourselves or making our own decisions. i dont think of it as a burden. it's just like having a best friend you live with. marriage isnt hindering me from doing anything I want to do, if I go on a journey he's supporting me the whole way, it's just that now instead walking alone we walk together. we see eye to eye on that, that's why i married him. we wouldnt have gotten married if we didnt trust each other to support each other. we established that from day one.

[@thatsjalisa1935]

Hey Vicky & Cam, Being a 21 year old PK I can definitely relate to the celebrity comparison! It can be hard growing up in a fishbowl, but I wouldn't change it because it made me more conscious of my life decisions, that I am grateful for.This video really gives me hope that young people can make it work despite the negative comments thrown their way. I love Life with the Logans, thank you for sharing your lives and being positive role models to so many, including myself. I wish you all the best in your relationship and look forward to more videos! lol -God Bless, Jalisa

[@SoulStyleBeauty]

He's such a gentle men! You guys are a beautiful couple!

[@Vickyallday]

Great video!!! I love your chemistry. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. My thoughts on the "Have fun, enjoy yourself when you're single" comment that people say I think they're not saying to go out and fornicate. I think it means to enjoy life because you don't have responsibilities, embrace your singleness, travel, go on a self love journey, experience life, get a hobby, discover your identity, find your purpose, get into ministry, serve, volunteer, build a relationship with Christ (that helps with not being selfish). I am happy that God has blessed you both to share life together at a young age. Those who get married older that's Kool too. Those who are still single can embrace singleness and have purpose in that as well and are not catching ebola in these streets haha lol because they're doing God's work while they wait on God's best! ayee! We are all on different paths and it's all beautiful! God's timing is perfect!

[@victoriouslogan]

I wish people like that were the ones who told us to wait... the people who were telling me to enjoy life weren't living right... they told me I should experience more on my own because I didn't go out and party or whatever lol they weren't telling me to do anything good 😂

[@Vickyallday]

***** #Bruhhh Lol wow. They didn't know any better. I'm glad ya'll saw right through that. Good news, all is not lost. :-) You can still do all those kool things as a wife #whoop #whoop. However, It's all about balance and open communication because your main priority is your marriage. The self love/discovery journey is an on going life long process. As women we wear so many hats... I've learned, You have to be 100% to give 100% and it doesn't mean you're selfish... Don't forget to take care of you too... and your boo of course!

[@SalaciousSerenity]

Vickyallday your give great advice, I couldn't have put it better.

[@victoriouslogan]

Vickyallday that is very true! when we were dating, I had a lot of time to discover myself and build my relationship with God (which i talked about in my #VickyVibes being a Christian video) since we were long distance. i know who I am as a person but as I grow into an adult and a wife i'm constantly changing and things are different so I'm forever learning. it's always a learning process. BUT you're right, doing "cool" things with my husband is way more exciting anyway LOL

[@BarbeeSpeaks]

***** We got the same thing when we got married. Smh people act like you can't have fun, travel, or party with your bff/life partner. Shoot, I prefer having a travel buddy anyway!

[@SusanSingsSongs]

Such a mature young couple! I am very impressed with you both! God bless you!

[@MaxineAgy]

God has truly blessed you two to be an inspiration for all of us unweddies out here! I'm so happy for both of you and pray that I find a man that makes me just as fulfilled as you. So many important values you both stated that I believe young people are missing out on and instead throwing their hearts away! I'd love for you guys to throw in some tips and tricks on marriage/relationships/understanding yourself etc either in this channel or your vlogging one. Love you guys xo

[@Cheryltheresa]

loved this. you guys are lovely and level-headed and God fearing and just all round beautiful. Thanks for sharing

[@authorizedbyash]

Lol the adjustment with yall and bean bag is theeeee most hilarious part of the whole video! But no seriously, this whole video just gave me so much hope man. So beautiful!!!!

[@tracytimberlake]

Awww. You two are so cute. Thanks for being so transparent and sharing your experiences with us :)

[@anitadilara67]

Marriage is ministry !! You guys are very inspiring .. much love from Germany !

[@TDBee09]

The average age to get married in the US is 24, why are people freaking out? Also, as Christians we should be condoning marriages not dating around etc. He who finds a wife finds a good thing. As long as people truly realize the vows and commitments they are making are literally until life do you part then I don't' understand why people are trying to add more negativity and resistance to a young couple that's truly to do right and condoning basically pre-martial sex, partying, "having fun" with other people instead...that's doesn't seem right to me? My parents got married at 23 and 24 and enjoyed their marriage 8 years before my sister and I were born. I think getting married young is a beautiful thing. Instead of why ask why not? God would rather see more young people making commitments and keeping the family structure first.

[@DooWopsify]

Vicky. YOUR. HAIR. IS. BEAUTIFUL. And you and Camera are just a beautiful couple. Period. Of course as a viewer, I don't know you guys personally, but I believe you guys' light shines bright. God bless ya'll!

[@qsmith549]

Such an inspirational couple. I'm only 25 & I can say I look up to you both. I have no kids, work, a recent graduate, still in college & somewhat single Lol. I've always told myself I want to achieve my dreams & goals before I start to build a family & some days I feel so lost as to what I am to do in life. Watching you two & others around me gives me more encouragement & aspiration. I just take it day by day. I never comment on videos but I've been doing it lately with both of your channel's ☺

[@SESmithy]

Ooh em...you guys should totally do a series or a booklet or something called Young, Saved, & Married....and include some of your other friends and answer questions or give personal adviced...that would be cool.!!

[@britneyjanae671]

I am a freshly saved young women and I would like to thank you and your husband for basically letting me know and showing me that it's ok to be saved and young. I just got saved Feb 16 of the this and just turned 18, when I first got saved it was a struggle for me trying to help my "friends" understand why I've changed and why it's necessary for me not to do the things that I used to. Being young and saved is hard and I commend you guys for sticking to it. I don't want to write my whole life story, of course, however God really just spoke to me as I watched this and I just simply thank you!

[@MISSNaturalBEAUTY1]

Thank you both so much for giving your personal perspective on marraige. I'm 22 and have had the same questions and similar feelings that you touched on Vicky. To know that someone I admire went through that is inspiration. Cam, you're an amazing example of a real man. Love you both!

[@DPVNStation]

Marriage is a commitment of 2 lives. Those that are single can find companionship with another that is supportive of their endeavors and sharing each others journey. I have shared many firsts with various people and they were all special because of who they were and still are in my life. That is what made it special. If I were to be with one person for 20 years, then some of those firsts may have never happened so I am grateful. You can also experience firsts over and over again because it is about the experience with that person. Each time is something new. Love is expansive it is unconditional and has no conditions if it is truly Love. Love and relationship starts with self. The extended relationship is with another individual. Two people of different flavors with a base foundation becoming one unit but not omni-one. Knowing onmi-self is what makes the relationship better. Some people know at 20 some people know better at 60. What I did at 20 and what I do at 47 is totally different and the knowledge, THANK GOD!, knowing more of me makes me a better person for the next woman in my life and that is because of the various experiences. The been their and done that make the relationship less roads to travel, smother journey and peaceful times together, i feel it is because we bring more life experience to the table. Relationship is not about sex. If someone thinks that then they are not understanding the universal or spiritual laws of gender and companionship. Sex is just the icing. If you lick the icing off the cake then you just have plain cake and you'll be missing the sweetness.

[@DV-rr7cy]

Preaching!!!! Dating is for a purpose, which is marriage, amen!!!

[@LatoyaNickee]

It is so refreshing to hear from a couple of the same age who are truly committed to each other. I am 21 and engaged to be married next year. I am beyond happy about the union to come and so many people find it difficult to understand. We have a strong friendship and foundation in faith as well. Thank you for speaking on this subject matter. In this day and age everyone seems to be seeking the next thrill or believes they are missing out on something by committing to just 1 individual.

[@CrystalRocksForever]

I think it's great that you are living a Christian life. I could tell you guys were different. 👍👍👍

[@sjaylove20]

After I heard Christian I immediately subscribed.

[@monnikajohnson2794]

Me too lol 😂😂😂😂

[@HonestlyKayLin]

You two are so beautiful and compliment eachother so well!.... I'm 20 years old, I've been with my boyfriend since I was 15, he was my first everything, but I wasn't his. I can say, that I'm the type of person that takes my feelings seriously so if I'm being vulnerable, I don't want to get played, I can't take it. So I always have my guard up, I admit a little insecure about thingsbor what not. My bf talks about marriage A LOT... He gets upset when I change subjects, my reasoning is I just always think "maybe if we wait a little longer, he'll know for sure." I tell him like we're too young for it but really I just don't want to jump into something and it's not what we want. How did you get passed the unsure feeling???? Like I'm always stuck on "what if" so how did you get over that? Or did you even experience that?

[@JSSC858]

The both of you are blessed. Ive been married for 16 yrs and I am still in love ❤ stay blessed...and let God be the foundation of your marriage.

[@ieshalovesuF21]

I love you two! I've been with my husband for 5 years, married since September. I am definitely like you, a planner & my husband is totally laid back go with the flow type person. I agree with everything you two talked about in this video. Never ever ever go to bed angry! the best advice we ever received! & its so real when it comes to that, it sucks when & if it ever happens. Let me tell you! I've been up all night going crazy over it too 😅 I have to show this video to my husband!

[@onlyHEknowsme]

i personally wasn't thinking about marriage at 22. I was happily single. Although by age 26 I had 2 proposals that i turned down from good men. Relationships and marriage is not all there is to life. There is absolutely nothing wrong with dating/courting minus the sex. Dating is how some ppl get to know themselves and others. You are 22 and it shows. You seem like a smart girl with a lot to learn, starting with humility. I believe that for some ppl God knows they need to marry young to save them from themselves. Whereas others can go out and have different experiences and never leave God and still do the right thing at 30/40. Maybe you weren't strong enough for that. With age and experince comes maturity and wisdom and that is a beautiful thing.

[@victoriouslogan]

I agree, not everyone's path is the same, not everyone is meant to get married at a young age. marriage isnt all there is to life but for me and my husband marriage was the most important step for what God is trying to do. i honestly dont believe that there would have been enough time for us specifically to wait until 30 or 40 to get married because someone has to create/save the next generation, and I believe the ONLY way we can do that is to build it with strong families and show them what REAL love is. they're watching us and they need that example. and when it comes to real love, that's what we have, so we have to demonstrate that to them.

[@onlyHEknowsme]

I hear ya. Im sure you get a lot of flack for marrying young. doesn't matter the age you marry, long as you marry the right person. everyone doesn't meet the right person right away. Its just the way you spoke in your video you sounded a bit arrogant & critical of others. I'm sure that wasn't your intent. Sometimes its not what you say but how you say it. Your marriage is YOUR testimony and it should glorify God, but the delivery of your testimony may hinder someone. you never know what regrets/hurt ppl are dealing with. The next generation also need to see ppl who have made mistakes and had different experiences so they can learn from them.

[@triceydub6511]

My husband and I got married about 20 years ago at the same ages. You guys will be fine keep talking to each other that's how you make it last.

[@ItsMoore2Life]

I've only watched a couple of vlogs and it was good but I definitely got a good sense of you guys now and I love to support good people.

[@jasminmarie7105]

This video just gave me life because I'm 20 I'll be 21 in New Years Day. I will be single for 2 years in February and it has been a long journey for me. It's hard being alone sometimes but this just put everything into perspective for me. I definitely want to be with someone who supports me and has the same morals as me since that was a problem in my last relationship. People always tell me don't rush just have fun and do whatever and I could never understand why I couldn't let loose but it's because I don't want to go around having sex with just anyone and being in meaningless relationships so I thank you for putting that out there and I honestly wish the best for your marriage. I pray that it continues to flourish. I love yall and yall give me hope!

[@Godscovergirl]

I loved this video, your transparency and honesty. Most of all I LOVE the CHRIST that I see represented in both of you. What an awesome real life example for the world to see. No you are not perfect but you are being PERFECTED in HIM. Know that everyone will not agree with your journey but I encourage you both to continue to stand strong in your faith and marriage. I see GREAT things in your future. WOW!

[@MoselleAlvarez]

I know no one is perfect and I know how people put PK's on a pedestal but I admire you two very much. This is the first video I'm seeing with the both of you talking (the first video I watched of you both was your wedding video) and I'm so proud to see young, christian people not afraid to open up and share. :)

[@crysrsmith]

Beautiful Christian Couple!! May God continue to bless you both & many more!! 🙂

[@KolordByDemiJ]

God bless you both. It saddens me that women will come on here bashing being married at young age. And yes all women should aspire to not sleep around and have premartial sex. Yes women should aspire to be a wife, especially if we are calling ourselves Christian God fearing women. I have been married 5 years and i work part time from home and i also have a 1 year old son and plan to finish school with the support of my husband. Marriage is ordained by God and is a beautiful thing. I totally got what you were trying to say. People just like to nit pic! Be blessed

[@zania22]

Kids love Cam, Cam loves the kids!

[@sisterslove1154]

Wow you look alot like Michelle Williams!! 😍

[@Dancefavv02]

That thumbnail is everything ❗️

[@LouLou-ut6eb]

Great video I've been married since eighteen years old I enjoy the time you share with your mate all the things you do outside of being married such as hanging out going to college can still happen when you get married I believe so many people enjoy playing house I'm happy for you guys the best for now and the future

[@trinityeliz]

Being a PK is one of the hardest things, but the older you get, you learn to deal with it. I'm glad I found y'all!

[@aanshi247]

Awesome video and couple! Love how you said 1. You are his helper and 2. Wherever he goes, you will be right there with him.

[@PyaarPanjia]

Great video y'all thanks for sharing! Oh and Cameron is very charismatic, I feel like he would be a fun and engaging minister.

[@listentome0920]

I'm glad i subscribed to your page vicky. your marriage is very inspirational to me because i have problems when it comes to dating and i'm only 21. i hope to find someone that i gel with, the way you and cameron gel. thank you for sharing your journey publicly. i am loving this young, christian couple, you guys are AMAZING!

[@syrgirl]

There is something about you that is distinctly honest and real. There are lots of women on YT that I consider real but you have "something" that resonates so much to me.

[@AFOS94]

"Uum im saying something right now, and i want u to tune in" Okay pastor 👏👏 lol He took it to church with that intro lmao

[@rosannagarcia2816]

You guys are probably my favorite couple everrrr. I love how you guys have such a beautiful Christian foundation. Hope God continues to bless you and your marriage! God bless.

[@RelentlessFaithTV]

You're devoted to your happiness, a Christ-centered home, and uplifting one another. Keep on going girl! I love watching your journey! :) Everyone has a different path and for those who are commenting with no actual knowledge of what is ACTUALLY going on, God bless you. No divine journey is identical to another.

[@Tmoneytstacks]

you guys are adorable! sitting at my office desk and literally el-oh-el-ing. ya'll certainly are PREACHIN' and SPEAKIN' volumesssssss to all of us still living that single life. Vicky, I started watching your channel recently and you've really inspired me in every aspect of life, ESPECIALLY when it comes to my faith. thanks for that. :) God Bless.

[@Jazz-rd3pm]

You guys are a breath of fresh air, every thing you said was the truth! I pray God continues to bless you all!!

[@mattiestewart8371]

You guys are my role models! So refreshing and inspiring for two young people (like myself) to follow the word of God! I hope you guys will continue to be blessed💕

[@terrinicole9779]

I love you guys.. I watch you every week and I pray for you both like I know you. I love Love... no matter the age! Vicky, your humility towards Cam is beautiful!! There are alot of young women your age that haven't grasped that concept! I know because I was one of them! Lol! But I had to GROW my own way. So Stay focused, continue to support one another, and ALWAYS keep God at the center! Everyone has their own path destined for them and I enjoy you both sharing your lives with us. God bless you!

[@brittanybrown2036]

I love you guys!!! It is so nice to see two people love each other. Thanks for letting us have a sneak peek of your lives.

[@KristianCheyenne413]

"This nigga just over here sleep" DIED!!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😵

[@DraMaWms]

I'm not even sure how I found this video but I absolutely love watching you guys so much. It is the most refreshing thing I've seen in a while. Cute couple. The world needs your channel!

[@quaresmaricardo9678]

There is nothing worth living for, unless it is worth dying for. So its good you guys understand each other and that really will go a long way to strengthen you guys.

[@WYtjai]

It's so funny and cute that you two as preachers kids get together. I really do see the big pressure on PK's. Every one is looking at you and you have to live perfectly in people's eyes. One fault and people are being judgemental and stuff. Also, parents are so busy and maybe lack some time with their children because they have to take care of the whole church. But glad you found each other! God bless you! New subbie!

[@vanessathompson8165]

I loved this video!!! I have been married for a year and one month now and it has been an awesome journey! We are both 23 now and have been married since 22, we are going strong because we have made a covenant to do so Gods way. Girl, it's soo fun!! Lol keep loving and supporting each other!

[@vibryantsounds2764]

Man I really love you guys because I can truly relate. Our stories are very similar and when I watch the love you and your husband have for each other, it shows that when God is the foundation of your relationship, there is NOTHING you can't do. Stay blessed!

[@krisw9409]

You guys are such an inspiration, seeing a young married couple that is saved is so wonderful. Great role models, all the best guys! Stay blessed :)

[@ExtendedStudent4Real]

Inspiring. Love the kindness and character shining from the both of you. Beautiful young couple.

[@ms.j1713]

Love to see a positive ,inspirational ,young , and God fearing couple. I am truly inspired by you guys . This is so beautiful !

[@ladanadam8640]

I really like this video coming from a Muslim girl. I can relate to you guys a lot. It's not every day you run into people with traditional values, its really refreshing! You guys are great, Much love :)

[@WhatMakesJasmine]

You guys are so positive and inspiring. Wish there were more people like you guys around here.

[@simoneyuille8161]

I am soooooo in love with respect aspect of your marriage.(the cussing, the arguing) I love that foundation, and plan to have it myself! You guys are awesome :) Love watching your videos, especially Christian based, just because I feel that you guys share my perspective on some important values!! ahhh just

[@zheahra]

Yes! You and your husband did this vid very well. I'm all for young couples marrying. "Time ain't forever." What does the rest of your life mean? Ppl want to act like they're living their lives in t.v. show. The "right" time is whenever the right time is for you. I'm glad your husband said this is mine and can't anyone tell me how to run it. AMEN. Some ppl are so quick to tell you "I'm grown" in one breath. Then, in the next "I'm still too young." What???? Anyway, this vid is so refreshing to watch. This is what I'm talking about. We're not doomed. Everybody isn't down with the "struggle".

[@alysamonet]

Vicky. Thank you for this video and for taking the time to open up to us and share pieces of your life on KZbin. I'm sorry that there are so many people out there who took what they THOUGHT you said or what they THOUGHT you meant and took it upon themselves to comment ignorantly about that.

[@jasiimwe]

You guys are soooooo wise!! Awesome advice. Living proof that wisdom and youth are not mutually exclusive!

[@PrettyInez]

lol your husband is so mature & wise some of these young guys out here lol 👎😂 but I love y'all relationship well the part we do get to see 😊😍💕👫💍

[@Carpediem2106]

You guys are so down to earth ! You guys are blessed. Thank you for the good vibes. Psalm 37:4-5

[@itsdestaynee]

Love this! yes you guys have definitely done what you have purposed to do. Which is show us how it is being a young saved married couple. I absolutely love you guys and watching your videos. Truly inspiring!

[@tyneillegraham2635]

You guys are literally marriage goals!

[@nakiacee15]

I'm so glad I stumbled upon this channel. Just subscribed! Y'all are so inspiring.

[@Msvvanne]

This is amazing :) my fiancé and I are are getting married in a couple months. We are both 21 and have gotten our share of people questioning our decisions. But we know that between us and the Lord, we are making the right decision! So excited! Thank you for being an inspiration to those of us in similar situations :) God bless!

[@Msvvanne]

rea2725 thanks for the advice, but I can assure you that we are definitely not in the dopamine stage. That wore off years ago. We've been through a ton since then, had many opportunities to leave. But God is faithful as has brought us through to this point

[@Msvvanne]

rea2725 six :)

[@victoriouslogan]

rea2725 lol stop making assumptions! you dont know me, or anyone else in the comments!

[@sabcam2000]

+Msvvanne Good luck!

[@mikaboo98]

You guys are so cute. Best couple I've seen out there, love the whole respect each other thing. That's key in any relationship.😊

[@SimoneShines]

I love you & Cameron! He definitely spoke something when it came to long distance & marriage! I wish you guys the best!!

[@laurenfoster6278]

I really appreciate this! You guys are such a great example of a young Christian married couple! Y'all keep doing your thing...I support it #YalltherealMVPS lol

[@learningearning8385]

*Listening to you at work* Not watching... but I could listen to you all talk ALL day!! Ugh...relationship goals.

[@kakesmonster90]

:) LMAO "You might catch ebola out here."

[@torontostrapper]

Wish you both lots of love and positive vibes :). So refreshing to hear young black married couples and their perspective..

[@tinygoof]

Loved this! Subscribed because of this, your husband's faith is inspiring.

[@shaeowens9458]

You two are really an inspiration to me! I am blessed by your love and commitment! Funny you mentioned your wedding video, because I've watched it a couple times! Just amazed by young love. Thank you for renewing my faith in finding love at a young age!

[@MrsAlton2012]

I absolutely enjoyed this video. I too married young. I was 24 and hubby 29. Going on 3 years this January. Marriage can be fun and like any other relationship it has its ups and downs. I experienced a lot of my firsts with my hubby. The only 2 things I didn't experience with him were my first kiss and my first date. And I didn't even experience those thing until I was 21 & 22. No bf through high school. We've been together since 2009 and we are still growing and learning things about each other. No two ppl are the same. Anywho, you guys are so sweet and look good as a unit

[@RubyKBrown]

I LOVE you guys. May God bless and uphold your union. I pray your lives continue to be a testimony to others xx

[@jasminepenn482]

I'm glad I came across you on KZbin, your videos really inspired me...i pray that God continue to bless you and your husband in all that you do. Blessed

[@chateaupartehrestaurant1967]

Beautiful Couple. I pray for a beautiful marriage for you both. Still bless :)

[@SymphonieJ]

Love EVERYTHING about this video from the convo to the throw pillows on yalls couch:) super inspirational to me as I am too a young black woman who grew up as a pk and is also a newlywed

[@juliaja4winds90]

OMG I am a new subscriber and just watched this video. I ABSOLUTELY love you guys. I live in Chicago and would be more than happy to visit your church whenever you decide to start one. And the face you make at the end while he is plugging his Twitter.... Hilarious!