RELATIONSHIP Q&A: Trash Men and Adult Friendships ▸ VICKYLOGAN

[@SoulStyleBeauty]

"A healthy relationship builds up. It doesn't tear down." Yeees! Been there and it's not fun at all. Do not settle ladies.

[@goodgirl_goneglam6173]

Years ago, my mom told me when folks get in a relationship their lives instantly start to go up or down and it doesn't take long to see which direction is happening. The older I get, the more truth I see in that statement.

[@TheBryHami]

Giiiirl I tell people to stop dating if they don't know who they are because you cannot find yourself in somebody else. That doesn't make sense!!! I've literally had this same conversation 1000 times and every time I've been right 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@champagnemami5161]

Bryanna Hamilton thank you ma'am. finally someone ahrees with me

[@ashleyjordan5548]

"You're not gonna drive up to me in the passenger's side of your best friends ride and try to holla at me!" Lmao speak on it Vicky. SPEAK. ON. IT.

[@victoriaezekwemba5802]

Ashley Jordan mhmm we don't want no scrubs 👌👏🏿

[@U_neekliss]

Victoria Tomlinson 😂😂😂

[@maxiewilliams4782]

Bruh I was just about to quote this 😂😂😭😍🙌🏾

[@MonkeyGirlGaGa]

When you guys talked about potential and how you can't just fight for someone because they have "potential" is so true and I have always been a victim to falling for that. Gosh I love this video so much ahaha

[@AmariHetep]

When it comes to forming relationships, of ANY kind, there are three cardinal concepts to keep in mind (in my opinion): 1) Discernment (which is NOT to be confused with paranoia -- your body oftentimes senses things faster than you're willing to admit) 2) Energy (this goes back to #1, your body picks up on people's energy, but you oftentimes give the other person the benefit of the doubt (which is rarely successful) and ignore the opposition) 3) Respect (if you're not being respected, UNAPOLOGETICALLY ARTICULATE your concerns, and if said person continues to disrespect you, remove them from your presence) This applies to professional, platonic, social, and intimate relationships. But anyway, Vicky and Cam better preach!!

[@Tiffffjohnson]

I loved Cameron singing lol. Y'all always giving good advice I like that you two are young and married giving out advice to all of us. We all benefit whether we're married, in a relationship, or single. I love when you two get together and talk about life and the struggles! ❤❤

[@simandzamela1346]

You and Cam are dropping bars right now! All relationships should be building you up and once they are breaking you down (not constructively) then it time to peace out. Thank you for the content!

[@NoOtherRose]

"You betta stop talkin to me like you crazy"....when a man says that to me, he's BAE! Lol

[@victoriouslogan]

+NoOtherRose 😂😂 I be like yas zaddy 😛

[@marshellsmith2224]

I love how she's so patient when he speaks and how they both take wisdom from each other. They truly are a power couple and they took the right route on how to build their relationship to their marriage! #LoveThem!

[@LindaMitchell]

I love that you guys talk about the friendship phase. That's so important. 💗💗💗

[@trinigirlchrissy]

Sighhh I swearrrr I needed to be reminded of this about 5/6 months ago "if the relationship don't have purpose why do u have it?" I completely lost my way with that thought process and now dealing with the consequences smh

[@thattiffchik]

trinigirlchrissy GIRL! we gon get it together though with the help of the Holy Spirit!

[@trinigirlchrissy]

thattiffchik yesss we shall! gotta keep focused

[@fatsani27]

Girl! Me f*cking too!! Why Loooord why! 😩😩😩

[@goodgirl_goneglam6173]

Mannnnnn, Vicky/Cam yall are so right! I've been saying for years that when you know your worth, you stop giving people discounts. It's not about being arrogant, it's just knowing you don't have to accept certain levels of foolishness. If you know your worth is Gucci/Fendi/Prada, why let someone treat you like you're just a Walmart/Dollar Tree/Big Lots??? #nope

[@victoriouslogan]

+Aja Gaskin Berry PREACH

[@msroe3506]

this is such an important message. it needs to be shown worldwide. seriously

[@SoulStyleBeauty]

Cam is killing that Let It Go song though 😂😂😂!

[@CameronLogan]

SoulStyleBeauty I couldn't stop singing it 😂

[@lindseyysmithh]

I am 22 and have never been in a relationship. For some reason, I don't have a problem making friends but I don't know how to approach dating/relationships, so thank you for y'all's insight! So intriguing to see how people meet their significant others. I agree with Vicky's thoughts on friendship (and love the No Scrubs reference 😂)

[@victoriouslogan]

+lindsey smith 22 is young! Don't stress girl

[@chatiad.3093]

This is so true I let everybody troubles go and focused on myself and building Chatia. If it ain't a benefit on what can make Chatia stronger or a way to help Chatia achieve this goal to that goal, then I don't have time. I reconnected with this guy from college and we have 150% things in common like our Mamas almost have the same birthdays and what not in common. I strongly believe when its time God will shove you to your knees and be like "Girl I'm not gone throw to many GOOD men your way, you better open those eyes I created!"

[@enmaxus7210]

For a young couple, you guys are so together, such an good example. Continue the good work. God bless yall.

[@yourebeautiful0207]

i think the key is to ask God for discernment!!!!!! I'm married but when it comes to friendships I ask God to shield me from people who don't mean me well or have a love for him!

[@godschild8953]

Christian you beta preach 😇

[@LindaMitchell]

You can start a new channel or setup a playlist under this channel. I really enjoy listening to Cam and you talk about building and maintaining​ healthy relationships​.

[@MesCudi96]

that bout-ta-do talk spoke to my spirit.. y'all always hit the nail on the head I swear 🙌🏾 I think you all should bring these talks to LWTL it'll bring in a different dynamic instead of just the vlogs. That channel could serve the purpose of everything relationship based while you both have your own channels respectively

[@LaMonicasLAB]

This is so true! I like how y'all both had metaphors that didn't confuse nobody #goodvibes 🤗🤗

[@TiffanysLifeandThings]

This was really good!! Positive vibes to everyone ✨

[@joella1704]

Watched during IG live. Had to come back for a second listen. Y'all dropped gems!

[@victoriouslogan]

ayyye IG FAM!

[@sophsoreal]

The "bout to do's" reference I'm hollering because it's sooooo true!!

[@tweetybird20201]

This video just made its way to my favorites playlist for when I need a reminder. God bless you both!

[@princessmaude_]

Exactly what I needed. Loved this!! So many great takeaways. Doesn't matter where, WE JUST NEED MORE VIDEOS LIKE THIS!

[@momentoftruth5381]

1 Corinthians 3:11 For no one can lay a foundation other than that which is laid, which is Jesus Christ

[@fatsani27]

LivingStone 4Christ I felt the Holy Spirit with this comment!

[@Misslesmj]

Some major keys were dropped in this video! Great words of wisdom!

[@jessicagold-lewis1692]

Both if y'all were preaching! I appreciate the wisdom.

[@ashleymccullough810]

Yesss. Great advice for young people. God bless your ministry. #knowledge

[@SincerelyDeniece]

I had to share this video before I even watched it. You guys speech knowledge every time!! Metaphors on fleek per usual. I'm definitely going to watch again and take notes lol.

[@carleehalle4345]

I really appreciate this video. I struggle with figuring out who should be in my life and who shouldn't.

[@awele3051]

I was on the live before this one and Vicky mentioned she was getting sidetracked and too into it in the last one she filmed and this one is just the same lol.... Vicky telling us ladies to listen!!!!!!!!! and it's all truth. Great video Mr & Mrs

[@leanabee]

How Vicky was able to tune out cam while she was talking and he was singing lol, i was dying laughing!

[@PeacewithSha]

Loved the point about putting out good vibes so you can receive them as well.

[@astoldbychae]

I swear, I love these two! Listen, "You CANT fall for the bout-ta-do's..."

[@AmberNicoleHooks]

Yall was dropping all kinds of knowledge!! Yes!

[@halaetademis]

Wow, really needed to hear that. Of course I've known my worth but I realized I've not been valuing my time. THANK YOU BOTH 👏🏾

[@kaypicquet]

I am completely dead with Cam and his meat schedule 😂 sounds like something my fiancé would say. But I agree if he has a problem with someone in my life it's him over them. Gotta take care of the home first.

[@allthingsregine2924]

Y'all give the greatest, sound advice! I love when ya'll do these types of videos. ❤️

[@jamilahredmond651]

Vicky is a realist and I love it ❤️🙌🏽 you both are awesome!!

[@sheaaiko979]

I had to rewind and re-listen to this like 3 times because Vicky looks toooo good and I got distracted

[@Glor_ify]

Man this conversation was crucial ! Need more talks like these .

[@theprettyhomie]

Omg, Cam telling the story of y'all getting together 💗 my heart.

[@ericareed7427]

Can we just take time to recognize all of the similes and metaphors used by each of them? Lol I don't know if I'm the only nerd here, but I love the comparisons! They really help everyone understand and relate when explaining stuff. Love it! ❤️

[@mariatoum.n.9538]

Cam better come on with that frequency message! I'm so big on frequency and vibes.. if we not rocking on the same frequency, i just know it's not going to work. I'm no longer into forcing anything and i have had to learn that as I have matured. Being on complete opposite ends when it comes to vibes tends to be emotionally taxing (especially for someone like me who tends to operate on a lower frequency) and I just wanna be happy! Great advice overall.

[@AshleeMariah]

Y'alls metaphors give me life... microwaves and tenors 😂

[@allsoladarity]

"Meat Schedule" ... interesting lmaooo

[@danyai9321]

Awwn I love these talks!! I'm still in high school, but I've learned a lot especially since I will be seeing College soon.

[@Adegail_]

"Steward your time" 👌🏾

[@011Dalila]

Y'all really don't know how on time this video is!!! 🙌🏼

[@supercalidee]

YOU BETTER PREACH SISTER VICKY!!!!!

[@MonkeyGirlGaGa]

Oh my goodness this was one of the best relationship advice videos I have ever seen!! You guys are so good at explaining what you mean omg!! Thank you so much, this really helped me out :)

[@laurenmarieXCIX]

i love yall's videos together😭

[@tbrac489]

I think y'all could do these types of vids on LWTL simply because it like "life chats" with the logans. Vlogs are somewhat "life in action" whereas these types of vids are life application, advice or testimony. Love the vid. Y'all are the best Grace and Peace

[@zuzugurl10]

Love it! This could be apart of your life with the Logans channel! Maybe once a month y'all could do a spot like this, a cooking or date night spot, and impromptu regular vlog. (I'm still waiting on the home buying video y'all had promise too)

[@goldcrownstylesbeauty9262]

You guys should deff do a series on topics like this and give your advice and insight ❤️

[@ShineLikeSheen]

I'm married but I'm still going to watch lol

[@ShineLikeSheen]

True

[@MsRhandaB]

Sheen Boo same here 😂

[@ShineLikeSheen]

Right

[@faysmalls458]

Caught That No scrubs reference , I see u girl 😏

[@cgates701]

Shout out to everyone that was in the IG live watching this waiting for Vicky to quote No Scrubs😂😂😂 that had me cracking up. Great video! Y'all was preaching 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 lol 💖💖

[@sir9319]

"Imma buy you a romper" = best threat of the year. I sure could use a whole channel for hilarious but solid life advice

[@U_neekliss]

Been married for 10 years but agreed with everything y'all said 💯💯

[@knicole459]

you went innnnnnnnn in the beginning and I appreciate every bit of it !! lol God Bless xoxo

[@knicole459]

yup, made that comment while watching the video and you actually went in the entire time now that I've watched it all. lol I just love you guys!!

[@kiarasmith5712]

I don't know how I missed this...but it's so real and on point! Thank you! Xo

[@DesCoop]

I honestly love you guys thank-you for these videos. I would like to know how Cam deals with negativity that comes to you via KZbin. I have a very negative family to sum it up and my boyfriend is pretty good with dealing with drama and helping me but I feel it's taking a toll on him and our relationship.

[@luakin]

If you go back and forth between your channel and Cameron's I think it'll help drive traffic to your already established content rather than having a new channel. Hope that makes sense 💜 Putting it on LWTL is also an option.

[@victoriouslogan]

+Olaoluwa Adeoye smart thinking!!

[@rb7728]

Olaoluwa Adeoye I'm so cheesy but I honestly love how you gave her a suggestion, or a tip. It wasn't mean. It wasn't rude. It wasn't petty. You gave Vicky a suggestion and she genuinely accepted it. I love this! I love seeing this! Gosh! Y'all have no idea! I know it's so small but this made my heart smile. You know just scrolling through the comments and reading this!🙂You were truly trying to help Vicky's channel grow. It's just like nowadays, all you see are women competing against each other. Some women seriously don't want the next woman to succeed because she may get ahead. There's enough purposes given by God to go around this whole world! It's like how they say when a tree grows, or a plant, it doesn't care what the next plant does, it just grows. It just blooms because it's being watered. And what's so crazy about this whole thing. You helping Vicky doesn't give you money, it doesn't give you a diamond necklace, although that would be cool Lol! But it didn't give you anything. Well, I guess you could say, it does give you something because how you treat someone else is how you will be treated in return, most likely. I mean, People go through storms, and bad things happen to good people but you know what I mean. You doing that didn't give you anything but you did it anyway! You were nice because you are a nice person. You wasn't nice because you could gain this or that. No , You were sweet because that's who you are! And it speaks volume! Anyway, Vicky does what she have to do and amazing things are about to happen. Yep! 😍😀And to you, Olaoluwa, I can only imagine the great things that are about to happen in your life! I want to say thank you. Thank you for being a good person. And Vicky, Thank you as well! You both are bringing light into this world. & I just know, God is so proud of you both❤ hope y'all had an amazing weekend. Be bless beautifulssssss💜

[@luakin]

Rainy Bradford thank you so much, that was really a blessing! I soak it all in! 💜💜

[@homeofpeachesandhoney8472]

ohhh why am I learning so much from this! This makes alot of sense for both my relationships and friendships...choose wisely. Dam I have to vlog about this!

[@Kayy0ticc]

Legit mom and dad. This was SPOT on. I luh yal. 😭

[@vanessagreene9374]

Primero, I LOVE this backdrop/ background! Also, the metaphors remind me of how my friends and I talk, so y'all are now like my friends in my head. Lastly, you guys could easily keep this content on this channel, but I'd still watch if you created a different one!

[@alexusallen338]

Just as wonderful on video as it was live! Great job Logans 😍 look forward to more.

[@bellaxmakeup]

Loved the message and Vicky you ARE GLOWING !!

[@anchoredbeautyx3]

Yes do a separate KZbin channel for this pleaseee. Also, question.. I was in a past relationship and I always argued that I felt we entered into it to fast. I wanted a foundation of friendship before and he always argued back that my point wasn't valid. He said if we were dating then we were trying to find out if we were compatible or not. Aside from the romantic aspects of the relationship I just wanted to know that we would last because we genuinely vibe and care for each other. We are both Christian's but I was and am I little bit stronger in my faith than he was at the time. I would try and be supportive in that but he began to attack me for what I believed in because he questioned his faith a lot more than I did. I am young (20 years old and he is 20 as well) and I realized it didn't seem right for me to keep going. I was so hurt by the things he would say about my relationship with God and I was starting to doubt why we even started dating. I know this is long but I would appreciate some opinions on this situation

[@ashleyfaulkner2198]

These type of videos would be great on life with the Logan's (in my opinion)! I know it's not as big of a fan base as your channel but I think either on your channel or Life with the Logans would be best. If you started another channel you would probably get the same people who watch your channel or life with the logans so just save yourself a little trouble! :) love what you do! Keep slaying!

[@MsDean09]

Thank you both for doing this video!! I really needed this empowerment!! 👍🏾✊🏾🙏🏾

[@Nictory25]

love it! I got my nuggets! Such sound and valuable information, thank you for sharing. God bless you and your family!

[@KalinDtv]

"Do your part and let it go" 🙌

[@tjrhodes727]

The "meat" schedule!!!!!! I'm zzzzzzead!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!!!!!!! I love y'all!

[@a.antoinette7288]

Keep it going!! I support the new channel idea. I think it's great. I like watching your videos and your couple Q&A videos. Thanks for the ideas.

[@alliyahroper9622]

this really helped me , love the hair vicky

[@jtaje10]

Ayyyyyyy Cameron is back 😊🙋🙋

[@oliviathe0wl]

I was singing along like Cam in the background haha Great advice guys!!! Please bring back the YT Vicky vibes - missed them and really appreciate them 💙

[@victoriouslogan]

+oliviathe0wl this was a vicky vibes lol

[@oliviathe0wl]

I know, I meant more of them! 😊

[@victoriouslogan]

lol fasho I got you!

[@dwhite681ify]

Maaannn listen!!! Thank Y'all for this!! 2k17 the year of "alignment"!!

[@deborahayanna9098]

I feel like these types of videos with both of you should go on life with the logans

[@khadiece2939]

your husband is so calm when he speaks . nice vid

[@TheProsperousBeauty]

Loved this!!! So inspiring and exactly what I needed!

[@RacquelEdouard]

Loved this! Wish I could've watched this a week ago 😕 so much great insight for me to use in the future .

[@ashantep5078]

It makes sense to have them on the LWTL channel

[@austinkrogh]

Preach! Awesome video. Love the analogies.

[@kimmurray8085]

Know your worth! I agree 100 percent.

[@TheGlossyLife222]

I enjoy you two so much! Keep the tutorials coming. Cameron reminds me of Smokie Norful. Blessings to you both. 😘😘😘🤗🤗🤗

[@CSALayouts]

Good video guys! At the end though "Ima buy you a romper" Vicky Noooooooooooo! , lol....

[@Thenameisbri]

You guys should just put this segment on your life with the Logan's channel!

[@googleme2318]

I think that you can integrate these types of videos into your vlog channel since that's a channel that you both already share.

[@GorJessGem]

This video was meaningful to my soul... THANK YOU!

[@Derriann9705]

Y'all preachinnnn! This was good.

[@thattiffchik]

put it on Cam's channel. the content flows better there. and shout out to Ms. Shirleen! Lol!

[@daniecrich]

Love the video as usual guys! I think you should put these videos on the Life With The Logans Channel

[@oliviathe0wl]

Also, loveeeee the nail colour girl!!!

[@c.esweets6658]

Yessss Vicky ❤😂Part 2 pleaseeee 💁

[@liltasha03]

I just love y'all! I think you should keep it on this channel