Marriage & Relationship - Part 1 of 3 - Mufti Menk

Lecture by Mufti Menk on Saturday 17th March 2018.
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An evening of practical advice on marriage, families and relationships. Dealing with difficult issues while keeping a mentally sound state of mind.
Official Mufti Menk Audio Lecture Resources:
1. Website - goo.gl/0jJCZP
2. Android App: goo.gl/wsLk1l
3. iTunes Audio Podcast: goo.gl/QFnd6T

[@brianfinnegan3465]

Recent revert from Ireland. I am getting married this year Inshallah to a Muslima in Indonesia 🙌🙌

[@mss4346]

Congrats for the Islam first of all. Mashallah

[@pharidahbintasuman6930]

Mashallah all

[@MoorChannel]

Alhamdulillllaaaahhhh..may Allah ease you

[@chocolatecookie8571]

Assalaamu aleykum. How did it went with the marriage? KUA requires a lot of papers

[@mujeebshaikh8118]

Congratulations brother, may allah bless you and spouse with lots of blessings

[@alexanderiahaidara2065]

Listening to Brother Mufti Menk helped me with my marriage when it was on the brink of divorce. Thanks so much for your positive message.

[@tiresasaisaacs6767]

Halhumdiala my sister

[@ashiksaleem360]

Gud to hear..

[@ashiksaleem360]

@@tinekahowell5801 lady stop spamming. We people don't believe in superstition and black magic.

[@rameenkuleab764]

QqAAA

[@emeraldgreenqueenidontplay4913]

Damn if you not happy in your marriage get divorce. There no reason to remain miserable in a crappy marriage. life way too short anyway. Good luck brother

[@happynezzz5791]

I embrace islam .alhamduallah .i found this channel ,helps me a lot to learned more about islam..thank you..allah bless you

[@fitrahqistini8503]

Welcome to Islam...may Allah blesses you..

[@cabdirashidcali5071]

Masha Allah

[@afgkhan215]

Mashallah welcome to Islam

[@shabeerkaippurath8026]

Assalaamu alaikum, masha allah very happy to hear

[@sheilamalsada2477]

im filipino balik islam we dont have muslim in my family, but im not lucky to marriage , so here this mufti menk everytime im wacthingq i feel calm, i dontnunderstand the muslim man, my husband egyptian he just desaaper when i was pregnant 8 months, he never think his daugter he just left me direct no contact no anything, i always pray to allah guidebme

[@Mohdr90]

Culture is the biggest detriment to Islam. Allah has given us so much freedom in this dunya, yet our parents and their societal rules, regulations and culture are always there to withhold that freedom. It is the most common reason of stress in youngsters like me these days. May Allah forgive us, our parents and judgmental relatives. :(

[@Feedback53]

Bro I feel you. I've the same problems as you.. Stubborn parents wanting to impose their will on me. They think I'm dumb enough to choose my own spouse

[@Mohdr90]

Larka may allah help you brother. Just be postive and alway always seek for professional help when you need it. And may he forgive your parents and those who impose their will on you. Inshallah.

[@n.m8827]

Ameen. I’ve come to this realization as well and realized how this has contributed to the negative perceptions of Islam.

[@Twank79]

Wallahi this is the truth

[@abdulkabiradeola3607]

@@Twank79 Maa Sha Allah

[@chocolatecookie8571]

Dear Mufti Menk is one of the very few Islam speakers who dares to say what needs to be said. Especially when it comes to parents and marriage. It makes me feel relieved and it softens the pain that truth is being spread. May Allah bless him and his family. 💚

[@daisyak-jx2hu]

Ameen

[@chocolatecookie8571]

@@daisyak-jx2hu but he is very silent on what is happening with the Palestines. I wish he and other Islam speakers would speak out more aggressively against Israel, the US and Europe and call out for boycotting them.

[@saleemellahi7466]

Mufti menk actually makes my life easier. How to deal with life situations. Family issues. He is a gift from Allah to guide us on the right path.

[@IbrahimKabay-pq3tz]

Mashallah

[@nakabuyesau3496]

May Allah grant us the best spouses who will be the coolness of eyes heart and soul

[@musasayyaf3101]

Amiina

[@yatymohd6880]

Amiin.

[@azsasia348]

summa ameen

[@engahkonneh2486]

Ameen

[@mumuniamina3604]

Ameen

[@thebronxbarbies]

Thankyou Mufti Menk, from the bottom of my heart, may Allah grant you the highest rank in Jannah. I just reverted a week ago, I’m still a young woman, only 20 years old. I thank Allah for guiding me to Islam but you Mufti Menk have been like a dad to me, you have been the best role model & I am eternally grateful 🤍ik youre only spreading the word of our prophet Muhammad (pbuh) but you explain it in an easily digestible way especially because I’m a native English speak. Thankyou so much I truly love you, you forever have changed my life🤍🤍🤍

[@fatu_clt]

MashaAllah! Welcome to Islam sister and May Allah SWT bless you immensely ❤

[@IbrahimKabay-pq3tz]

Ameen❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@JJ-ez4wq]

mashallah ❤

[@thebronxbarbies]

@@fatu_clt assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakahtu 🤍

[@thebronxbarbies]

@@IbrahimKabay-pq3tz assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakahtu 🤍

[@quibtia769]

He has a strong personality with a beautiful mind, Masha Allah...I have learnt a lots of things very clearly about Islam,Alhamdulillah

[@amriyahk8108]

True Even me!

[@salma_techie]

point to be taken by youth. YOU ARE EITHER MARRIED OR YOU ARE NOT, THERE IS NO IN BETWEEN..

[@TheRajbhanot1]

This man helped me to taken my shahadah. Mufti Menk…your sermons apply to me completely…everything makes logical sense but my journey is so hard. My relationship has unfortunately failed. I try my best but I know at times I’m hard to live with. 2 people coming together is beautiful. The good times are really good. The bad times are really bad. I don’t know what to do. We were strangers, became friends then lovers and now we are strangers again. Looking back, I really wish I had said and done things differently and most of all I wish we would have watched your sermons TOGETHER. I know it would have made a huge difference. Was a pleasure to see you at the masjid in Preston, UK last week leading the Jummah prayers. Amazing how life turns upside down in a moment. May Allah swt and everyone I’ve pained in life forgive me.

[@haisesaski-mg6dq]

Ameen

[@englandrose2366]

I met the man I love at work. He literally walked into my life when I thought I was working the shift on my own. I was so nervous about doing the shift on my own that I prayed the night before that God would make it so that I didn't have to go! Instead Subhan'Allah he brought my love into my life! We clicked instantly and I truly believe that we are meant to be married. We are both in our 40's and divorced. I never thought I would fall in love with a Muslim man because I never interacted with many before the day I met him. I pray that God will make a way for us to be married insha'Allah 🙏🏻 I am educating myself on Islam and know that it is permissible for us to marry and I just pray that his family will accept me 😳 My Father died when I was 21 so the situation is very different from a couple who are younger. Thank you sir for your inspiring words 🤗

[@MrDaBBaS]

you're an inspiration

[@lalaleenax]

May Allah grant you the right path inshallah and bless your relationship even further. Islam is a beautiful religion, I pray that you embrace it and that it embraces you ❤️

[@englandrose2366]

@@MrDaBBaS Thank you, I keep praying that God will make a way for us 🙏🏻 And for Sabr too! ❤️🕊️

[@thiernobah4415]

May Allah bless your union. Love you 💖 from Guinea Conakry West Africa

[@lilacblue783]

If it's meant to be. It will be!

[@deowatiekhan2633]

Since I became a Muslim listing to mr mufti menk help me a lot mashahallah

[@Kqueen_bellla]

my teacher in KZbin may Allah reward you

[@olyyyyyyyyyyyyyy]

Ameen

[@fatoumatafofana1602]

Amen

[@afrikanboy123]

@@fatoumatafofana1602 Guineeeee

[@shukriibren]

Ameen ♥️

[@IbrahimKabay-pq3tz]

Ameen❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@dreamsagent123]

My father always let me do mistakes in order to teach me. May Allah bless his soul.

[@IbrahimKabay-pq3tz]

Ameen❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@kheyrokamil]

Ya allah- help our daughters and sons through the love of deen and guide them through life..

[@oq3506]

I have never laughed so much by listening to his lectures. 😂😂 may Allah bless mufti menk and his family and everyone who were in this technical team. Amin!! ♡♡♡

[@missjoweriakasomabirungi8940]

When l was a teenager l had vowed and prayed to avoid going into haram relationship, but l really landed to a group of ladies who misguided my innocence of 23years telling me how childish lam , l was made to HV a relationship some thing that changed my whole life, now l hate relationships thanks to mufti menk l learned a lot from him and now and a changed person who is looking forward to a good husband inshaAllah

[@fitrahqistini8503]

May Allah blesses you..ameen

[@missjoweriakasomabirungi8940]

Amen yarabi thanks fitrah

[@lalaleenax]

Allah is the most Merciful! May he guide you and us all in the righteous path inshAllah

[@missjoweriakasomabirungi8940]

@A simple guy Just simple l have no answer for that. All l know Allah is most forgiving for we all make mistakes

[@lifewithwahida6944]

One of the main reasons I love listening to mufti menk is how comfortable he makes his listeners and audience feel. I am not a perfect Muslim yet I don’t feel like he is judging me. This is so important because that’s why a lot of people don’t listen to sermons . May Allah bless him and forgive his sins as he’s also not perfect . Bless him though 💐

[@uthmanbaksh3530]

Alhamdulillah, right now I am in the process of getting engaged and eventually married. It is a little more complex than I hoped because the sister I have been talking to lives in Guyana and it's whole process to get her to the US where live. Plus I'M recovering from cancer so I have been keeping her posted about me and she has been very supportive thought this difficult time. If that's not a sign that she is the one, I don't know what is!

[@Jessica-si5wo]

I embrace Islam as western women. Islam is so beautifull and wise. May Allah bless you all

[@earn-real-money]

Same issue is happening with me though I'm Muslim and my family belongs to a religious background but blackmailed me cuz I love someone whom she is not from a religious family

[@Jessica-si5wo]

@@earn-real-money i feel so sorry for you 😘 i hope you can work it out and become happy. I wish you all the best for the future

[@AsemaB]

I really appreciate you uploaded these videos, for someone that’s unable to attend im glad I can still hear your amazing advice.

[@ToastyCoClothing]

Masha Allah the sound troubles in the beginning brought such a smile on my face, he's a very cheerful man even in troubles Alhamdulillah

[@lordy3162]

Finding this channel is such a blessing ❤️ I heard your voice somewhere else or in someone else's channel yesterday and I fell In love. I fell In love with everything you said in this video. I'm so impressed. Will definitely listen to more of what you have to say and watch your other videos. GOD Bless! (I am now a follower 🙂)

[@riannaali3426]

JazakAllah Mufti for all your advice and inspiration. I wish u could be here to sit one on one with my spouse and I and give all this advice. Really need it right now

[@obaidkhan5113]

Whenever i listen to Mr. Ismail menk i feel motivated and sort my lots of problem by listening him!AlhmdulilAllah

[@amnasaad3311]

Have been listening to this many times n every time I listen I get a new understanding alhamdulillah.. may Allah bless you always mufti

[@taslimahmuhammad3078]

As salaamu alaikum. I had to stop to comment @7:26 timestamp into your video. I love watching and hearing the synchronicity that was displayed during your request to adjust the volume to your liking and the patience that you displayed while they were adjusting the volume and the outcome of the result was beautiful, Alhamdulillah! May our Marriages disagreements have the same outcome, Ameen!

[@samsardar]

I wanna always heart your advice about family and relationship. .cuz i'll marriage in my future then hear your lecture is very important to me Allahumlilalh my Allah SWT blessing you dear brother Menk 🌹 🌹 🌹

[@goodflowh]

Thank you so much for providing full lecture. May Allah bless you all involved.

[@aliezykmrn6850]

I love watching ur video's sir may Allah give u long life to teach us Ameen ❤ U change my life & way of thinking ..

[@sali8312]

I’m having serious issues within my marriage. We nearly going to break up. We have 2 daughters. Please make Dua for us.

[@beautykitchen5550]

My allah guide boyh of you inshalah everythjng will be fine اللهم اصلح بينهم و يسر امرهم

[@nisrinebeauty6983]

Remember 'it's not you vs your spouse, it's you and your spouse vs the actual problem'. Look at or search the real actual problem and control both your emotions at the moment. Communicate (always with respect, both sides). Then pray together. Don't get an divorce for something you could fix. May Allah swt put so much barakazh in your marriage. May Allah help you both.

[@sokhnawallofall4901]

Are alright now

[@sali8312]

@@sokhnawallofall4901 Alhumdulilah all is better now

[@princessnaima1227]

May Allah give you all the strength to overcome any obstacles in your path and strengthen your union and increase your remembrance

[@manayermussaed145]

SubhanAllah, MashaAllah. This was beautiful. May Allah bless you sheikh.

[@IbrahimKabay-pq3tz]

Subhanallah❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@stranjac]

Mufti you are a legend in every essence of the word may Allah bless you give you guidance and the ability to teach mashallah.

[@saidichibwana6190]

Gifted menk may Allah grant you more knowledge and more years so that more people benefit

[@idahkigozi6408]

Just his looks one just fall in love 😍. He is a good teacher

[@modousowe1414]

I love your preaching mufti Menk may Allah protect u.

[@dreamsagent123]

Mufti was fighting a war alone against the audience and the management Hahahaha

[@secretworldforyou]

MashaAllaah I liked your lectures, may Allaah bless you Jannah tul Firdous Paradise Ameen

[@Banana-od4vh]

Listening too mufti menk is so amazing and beautiful talk

[@abcde23157]

My in laws contributed to separation from my husband. They made my life hell. But now I'm thankful because there is a nice plan from God for me

[@MrGoombakilla]

Thank you for the positive words. Mashallah brother. Keep it up!

[@decoded777]

After listening to you sir I'm able to let go of baggages and smile. Jazakallah.

[@leaplantado382]

Mashallahh..all he teaching us very meaningfull and valuable

[@coppersapon9668]

Always listening to your preachings. Would love to hear about interfaith and interracial marriages where parents are not happy with it. May Allah bless all of us.

[@hafsamsonga9773]

me too, I wish to hear about that, how I would know if the person I want to marry from another country is a true believer, his family and if we don't live the same country

[@Computer_Mobile_Learning]

@@hafsamsonga9773 its very simply if you like marry.

[@shonybaby9982]

This brother is so humble his spirit draws you too ALLAH I believe him

[@fauziahmohddinmohddin7988]

Marriage is about forgiving and accepting the positive and negative .. and our children are example showed by Allah SWT how we were at their age . There is something .. we always talk nicely to our parents , friends , and relatives but to not our spouse.. we raise our voice scold and argue all the time .. but those people were not around when we needed the most but our spouse will be there for us . If the husband and wife understand this marriage will be perfect .

[@mulanaji3464]

.🅆🄷🄰🅃🅂🄰🄿🄿 🄽🄾🅆..

[@mulanaji3464]

+❾❶-❼❷❸❶❽❾❶❽❽❾..

[@khadijahali7791]

May Allah grant you goodness in dunya and akirah inshallah brother.jazakallah for the beneficient knowledge

[@Kqueen_bellla]

I make dua every minute mufti thought me how to make dua....

[@isatoumanneh3552]

Alhamdulillah may Allah continue to guide you

[@jumarashid978]

Mashallah brother muft menk may God bless you for educated us a good blessing words

[@bethcharles4303]

Thank you so much good teaching!

[@IslamKhan-oe2dq]

Msha Allah bht khub Love from India

[@tiresasaisaacs6767]

Love this lecture

[@aishar8646]

MashaAllah I wish u could travel to Dublin we would love to have u here please ❤️

[@sanajan6191]

May Almighty Allah bless ew ND ur family.um biggggg fan of Urs.😍😍

[@sundayfunday722]

Lmao the audio thing was funny af

[@Kqueen_bellla]

I take back my suggestion

[@study1232]

sibajiHevoL I ?

[@hibaqhuby7660]

My mentor 💖 I love your da'awah

[@samsardar]

Dr Menk is a Reall Muslim. . I'm so happy when i listen your message and you Dr Menk say you love your wife Masha Allah. . That's beautiful to say "Love wife " or "Love Husband " for much People to hear. . Really i aprecciate the Sir. .

[@judithchileshe285]

Beautiful words

[@zoyamadhavan3869]

Ur the real face of our religion modern and open minded scholar !

[@VijayKumar-cy5gb]

May Allah be pleased with you and bless you here and the hereafter with peace and happiness, may Allah bless you with good wisdom and inspire many and many people to live in peace and harmony. I love you for the sake of Allah.

[@ahmedngereza4421]

Maaashaallah, bro. Menk may Allah continue to bless you upon good speech of Islamic global truthful of our marriage proceedings. Very interesting, heart touching, even to non Muslim appreciate. Its crosscutting message upon all marriage classes. Parents have to give to us the first choice to choose our spouse..... Maaashallah Allah bless you, welcome to Tanzania my bro.

[@ImanFahmi]

i love 💕 the channel because it holds my name.

[@Banana-od4vh]

He talk is so true may Allah grant you xxxxxx

[@ayeshagull4966]

Very important topic 👍🏼

[@mrmathwalla578]

Masaallah after watching this vedio I got lot of knowledge about mentioned topic . I am very thinkful of Allah tala who shown me this channel by which I seriously take many things for learn.

[@SPrincessbeneficialknowledge]

Masha Allah thank you for this. Your lectures are amoung the best.

[@adamomarargent]

Brilliant lecture

[@elite_gamer1012]

Subhannallah I Never Seen Anyone Like You man I learn a lot from you ALHAMDULILAH

[@mulanaji3464]

.🅆🄷🄰🅃🅂🄰🄿🄿 🄽🄾🅆...

[@mulanaji3464]

+❾❶-❼❷❸❶❽❾❶❽❽❾...

[@nezamalik143]

I could wish I got married with my boyfriend from Pakistan who revert me in Islam during Ramadan in Sha Allah 🤲 ya Allah bless him and guide him and his family 🙏 Allahu Akbar 🤲🙏

[@kokyjan1257]

mufti meek just explained all my reasons for never wanting children. I am just glad to hear I'm not crazy to think like that other wise people did wonder why I spoke that way.

[@zayetube3001]

He Is My virtual Teacher On Yoube

[@Banana-od4vh]

Mufti menk your brilliant

[@fathihassan2629]

I love mufti menk for the sake of God wallahi

[@zoyamadhavan3869]

Sir ur amazing. I’m. A huge fan of u

[@zakiyanafisa2979]

As salaam wa alaikum Jummah Mubarak May Allah protect and guide us all Ameen.

[@iamimran5880]

Walekumussalam aap ko bhii

[@ramizali6427]

Subhanallah May Allah make it easy for everyone. What a Wonderful Talk about Marriage.. :)

[@freedsystemsmykdembo4832]

Allah bless you every day

[@fauziahmohddinmohddin7988]

Straight and clear .. Alhamdullilah .

[@littlehana9655]

Mashaallah I like your videos alott Plz make a video on husbands who are staying away from their home for job sake and left their wife alone with in laws just to take care of their parents

[@mrsmalik7328]

But those husbands are providing for the family and are taking care of food, and accommodation

[@yldelisasantana9993]

Wow! Very true thank you so much For a wonderful video !! 👏👏👏

[@humumohammed5094]

May Allah bless you Mufti M🙏🙏enk

[@mouzahan301]

Assalamualaikum sir..may Allah fullfill our all dream and give us right life partner

[@adamomarargent]

Great advice 👌

[@elenasacatani612]

allah always guide u and us in aright part in istiqoma..ameen,baraqaallah ufiq

[@iqradolasaney2602]

Mashaallah sheikh mufti God blesssss

[@NoorAli-pw5yc]

MashAllah very informative speach

[@mirasydow2446]

THIS IS GREAT VIDEO I LOVE IT . I WISH YOU CAN COME TO SOUTH AFRICA CAPE TOWN AND GIVE TALKS LIKE THIS!!! IT VERY INSPIRATIONAL

[@shankaabdull9507]

Manshlah sheikh mufti I learn many things from u jazakalahu kheir

[@zahraaabdallah8273]

Maa shaa ALLAAH. Jazaak ALLAAHU Khair Aljazaa

[@Kqueen_bellla]

this great guy thought me alot.

[@omarhaque8048]

May Allah bless mufti menk aways

[@aamerahmed99]

Assalamualaikum Brother. I have a personal question to ask to the Shaik. how can i find the email id ? Please help.

[@ikhan3601]

I love this brother for the pleasure of Allah swt. Marital problems and advice is so difficult in the western world as people only see someone when they have decided on divorce.. I looked for arbitration and found it unaffordable. Marrying a revert and having non Muslim in laws pose so many problems especially on kids that you just don't know what to do. Sadly I fall into the third category and make maximum sacrifices to keep my young children in a stable family. I get blamed for oppression but am the one being oppressed.. But have to keep altering and changing my stance to keep a stable family. Sad though that one day when the kids grow if I live that long, they naturally would side witth their mum and I'll be left alone as I will just end up being myself and looking after my health... Subhanallah I do pray that Allah swt does not let it come to that and my wife is given rahmaat and learns to obey me and work with me as Allah swt commands

[@crafty.crafts]

Right. Now i am on Lifetime meditation.. Only one wrong step of my parents made my life upsidedown. Now i along with my family is suffering.

[@athmanali2448]

ALLAH BLESS YOU BROTHER MUSLIM AND BLESS US ALL MUSLIM UMMAH

[@myneshar6029]

Mashallah tabarakhallah thank you for sharing this with us,, such a amazing daawa sir u help me a lot,, im alwyss watching ur lectures 😉😊❤️👍

[@hakimaabdi1016]

MashaAllah. May Allah bless you

[@mulanaji3464]

.🅆🄷🄰🅃🅂🄰🄿🄿 🄽🄾🅆..

[@mulanaji3464]

+❾❶-❼❷❸❶❽❾❶❽❽❾..

[@shabbeershuhaib3505]

May Allah bless our marriages and mk everything easy upon all

[@fardowsahajiga1904]

jazakaAllah sheikh put in download i wanted to put it on off line Asalam aleikum to all Muslim

[@elennabaron1465]

Alhamdula ,allah thank you so much allah bless all the time