Marriage & Relationship - Part 2 of 3 - Mufti Menk

Lecture by Mufti Menk on Saturday 17th March 2018.
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An evening of practical advice on marriage, families and relationships. Dealing with difficult issues while keeping a mentally sound state of mind.
Official Mufti Menk Audio Lecture Resources:
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3. iTunes Audio Podcast: goo.gl/QFnd6T

[@wanjirunganga-gichuhi876]

I am a Christian but I find these teachings so useful and universal. 👏👏👏👏👏

[@carys8582]

May you be rewarded for your open mindedness and ability to seek knowledge in this way. I hope you continue to strive for the straight path, Ameen.

[@catwomanvillain6576]

Ameen ❤️🤲

[@shaikhsana4462]

Yes We should always say come on Without our permission to good things.

[@BrazilianBee24]

Me too

[@Imruzishka]

MashAllah brother

[@skylarkauto7380]

This is the kind of teaching I always love even as a Christian. I have come to enjoy specific teachings in Islam .

[@Ladykhalifakhalif]

Hi hope you doing well in life!♥️♥️ just to let you know you didn't come here on you own God brought you here for a reason 🙏

[@mariyamnaved6170]

masha allah...he is one of the best islamic scholar :)

[@mariyamnaved6170]

@Usman Rohani shame on you!! May Allah give u hidayath.. Please dont ruin the name of Islam brother.

[@oskalbulent]

Masallah very good nice islam ic scholer one of my favourite

[@fatimachaudhry6360]

I always hope to convert mufti's lectures into urdu language so that they are understandable by desi conservative parents. May God bless mufti and his family.

[@muskansyeda6971]

I wish they could understand.. culture is more important to them so sad

[@Anisam2007]

Ameen may Allah bless mufti and his family

[@catwomanvillain6576]

English speaking Leader is Very generous, hes speaking the language that majority can understand Worldwide 🤲🤲❤️

[@majidrehan2440]

You can download the video and use any tool to convert it in any other language; I'm sure there will be one JazakAllah

[@jannah4374]

There is so much advice in these videos that will help us all in one way or another, however what a wise man...42:30-42:50 if you can master this and have little bit of fun with it, you have found the key to happiness in your marriage. May Allah help all who are not married find there partners.

[@sani-thedutchserbianmuslim8708]

allahouma Ameen

[@khan_saif_]

Thankyou I search for this

[@suvam5042]

Ameen

[@ayishietuibrahim9878]

Maasha Allah am very proud to have a powerful daddy like you may Allah subahana Wata alaa grant you long life daddy. Ameen

[@a.m.wangwe4539]

pliz do u hv the no. ov your dad and help me wth

[@nazrh6871]

Shukuran-Jazilan Ya Sheik>>>May we take all the lessons into action. And apply them accordingly. Ya Allah Bless You for the reminders and solutions. muaah

[@ajpadeo5938]

Im christian and i his words must also apply to christians.. One thing. That strucks me is how parents Must handle situations when thier children made mistake... I saw some on my dad. After mistakes Hes a guy that says i dont like what happened but we can't turn things back so that wud be a lesson for u.. He might get mad to stop u from comitting mistakes but once its done there is no sense getting angry becoz no matter how angry u will be your anger wont. Turn things back

[@miradepriti]

I am one of his supporters, I subscribed to his channel i really like his videos about islam mashallaah ❤️✨

[@rafatumohammed9324]

Any time I have trials in my marriage I then I turn to ur lectures May Allah prolong ur life with good health and happiness

[@prettyliyah90]

Ameen

[@MrKhanzama]

great ..just amazing..Mashallah

[@yj850]

Allahuma barik may Allah grant you jannah alferdous

[@romeojallow937]

Mashal Allah this amazing may Allah grant us peace

[@ashimchhetri424]

Really this makes me speechless 😶❤️

[@akberzahid]

Alhamdulillah... we are lucky to be One Ummah

[@DarkJustice1999]

I so appreciate this series right now. Alhamdulillah

[@olleyaaudriellewaverlysain7260]

I see this video so useful specially to those who wants to be married soon.

[@adamomarargent]

Thank you 🙇‍♂️

[@bblight8523]

So true .Dont delay the engagement and if u are having a second thought break it ...

[@najeebahmad7481]

Any second thought?

[@halimahassan3902]

jazakallahu khairan Sheik. This advice has helped me a lot

[@rizwanshaik3220]

Mashallah... I wish he could give his speech in Urdu 🤗😊

[@hurgurhurghuthfn]

Very clever and experimented socio and psycho analysis in light of Islamic authentic guidelines, may God bless you cheikh

[@javohirminavarov6226]

masha allah... May Allah bless on all of us.

[@Guidance_THE]

Let's listen and try our best to practice these teachings first in our own self, family and then society.

[@zahraaabdallah8273]

Ma sha ALLAH 😊.

[@FatmaSaid-id4ot]

Jazak Allahu kher

[@melisancube2831]

Mufti Menk ... Grace and life to you....

[@fantajarju3941]

Masha Allah❤️

[@natekitzman2081]

In my case, I love a wonderful woman and we are in our middle of our lives in age. I want to do it right and respectful and honor Allah and her mother and brothers. May I ask for guidance and prayers from the community of brothers and sisters in the god fearing community, please and thank you 🙏

[@JL-ie8pm]

I hope only the best for you guys in life and god bless you in this life and in Jannah😍 You seem like a good man take good care of your wife.

[@zahraaabdallah8273]

Subhaan ALLAH. Jazaak ALLAHU KHAIR Aljazaa

[@AlQuranHayati]

MaShaAllah

[@zarkakimah4626]

That’s was good lesson to learn,

[@sirajsaj5724]

I need a favour brothers..I want a video where sheikh mufti menk speaks about where we feel angry at the beginning of the relationship and feel strange that if they don't speak to us correctly...where he advice us to give her some time to adjust with you please guys ..anyone can help me with that it was very inspiring...

[@sumayahassan8162]

Jazakallah sheikh

[@Knittingneedles_by_m]

Subhan Allah

[@wiennavaleriedamanik6060]

Mashaallah.... ❤

[@meenakhan2706]

Masha Allah l love mufti menk

[@rafeeqdawud9234]

May Allah guide us to the straight path

[@dsfastfood1276]

I do understand very well

[@mdbappimirza-gl4nn]

MashaAllah

[@ma.fealcantara7915]

Allah Hu Akbar... Inshallah Allah will help me to open my mind and see all the true 😭😭😭 because I am the only one who fight this situation with my married life. For me it's all stranger and I can't trust all human who will judge me to my past and everything 😭😭😭 this is why I don't like to open everything even to my family that's why I asking Allah help me 💔💔💔 inshallah Amen....

[@seifngalinda2423]

Ma. Fe Alcantara Allah will make it easy for you

[@ma.fealcantara7915]

@@seifngalinda2423 inshallah brother

[@hadys.6538]

Amazing

[@fantahamidou1358]

Masha Allah

[@arlenemondiguing9274]

Wat if he or she is living in a very difficult family... But there are instances that there is a golden person among the thorns... And this I true... We cannot judge the person base on his family or background... Coz it's not fare... He or she wanted a good family as much as any body else... For me we should see through the person and give him and her a chance... Isn't...!!!

[@remoteconnection.6333]

Hey I like this.

[@ofdestiny9634]

Great and wise advice but no image for few minutes at the beginning

[@banished4eva]

Who cares.. just listen to audio. Nothing's even happening

[@hajiaamsocute4268]

Masha Allah sheikh

[@80Lora]

Yes I'm in the situation of being married and not married at the same time. I'm going to file for divorce in Sha Allah!

[@muslimboy6174]

ماشاء الله ☺️

[@rumandool4415]

Man sha Allah

[@chocolatecookie8571]

💚

[@anasasharaf9288]

Today ma marrage this class i enjoyed

[@AssholesAssociated]

As a South African, I was shocked to find out he was, marshallah

[@rahmaabdulqadir7549]

ماشاء الله

[@yoursister99]

May Allah guide me to find the right one, who can guide me in Islam, be with me to improving ourself both Deen and Dunya, and together until Jannah, İnshaAllah. Ameen. رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا “Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.” Furqan:74 رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنْزَلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ “My Lord, indeed I am, for whatever good You would send down to me, in need.” Qasas:24

[@fairudzabdulnasser7166]

I was in a relationship with the shi'ah guy and am a sunni, we've been together for six months before 😭😭one month ago he broke up with me 💔I was very hurt everyday morning and night i keep crying 😢😢I've keep remembering the good memories ive done to him 😢I surprised him on the he's birthday i bought five cakes😥i left the apps where we meet because i wanna focus to our relationship i don't wanna cheat on him i respect him so much ive covered my awrah because of him😢he promised me to marry me after three years💔but all of those promises and dreams are gone just suddenly dessapeared💔😭until now i keep hoping and making dua everytime ive pray that someday allah will grant my dua, Allah will let us end up together 😭😭I really love him so much i can't even forgot him and talk to another guy because of him i lost my hope. I've been living in a sadness and dark life an empty soul😭😭allahu akbar, astagfirollah, alhamdulillah grant my dua and bring me back to my old life😭😭

[@nmiburo]

Ferrous Abdulnasser why did you separate?

[@javidoozeer8092]

Maybe, I say, maybe Allah SWT truly love you. Remember he is a Shia, he will always be a Shia. Maybe Allah SWT have seen something truthful in you, Allah Azawajaal have protect you against going astray, because marrying a Shia, if you are a Sunni it will not bring you to Jannah

[@ejay3940]

@Ferrous I can totally understand your situation as I've been through the same. I'm a sunni and he was a Shia. A very honest, well-behaved and decent gentleman with exceptionally good conduct and moral values. We were not in a relationship but we had good friendship and kept it platonic since forever. He never crossed the line and always respected the limits that I've set for na-mehram. But it was no secret that we were genuinely attracted to each other. We were together for good 5 years before I called it quits because I knew it won't lead us anywhere and we will end up having our hearts broken. After all these years I still find it hard to forget him and move on. I've rejected so many proposals not because I don't wanna get married. But because I think the men around us, particularly the sunni men aren't even trying to become the best version of themselves by following Quran and Sunnah. I'm broken and hopeless, need prayers y'all. May ALLAH Almighty make it easy for all of us. Amen

[@javidoozeer8092]

@@ejay3940 how did you view you situation, was it a curse or a blessing from Allah SWT. Hope you are better now.

[@ejay3940]

@@javidoozeer8092 Neither a curse nor a blessing. I view it as a test of my imaan from ALLAH Almighty. Maybe ALLAH was testing my love for HIM by putting me in such a situation where I fell for someone whose doctrine is entirely different from mine. Who is from a sect where it's a norm to invoke Sahaba and pray to them for help and blessings. So if we ended up together, I'd be forever worried for my children as to what they'd choose to follow and how they'd respond to the differences that often lead to arguments and fights. So yeah! I'm glad that didn't happen. But it's just too sad that I lost one of my very close friends who was my go-to person and someone who has always supported me in all my endeavors. May ALLAH guide him to the right path, because apart from him being a Shia, he is a very kind, gentle and humble person. And I'm fine now Alhamdulillah. Thank you :)

[@sheikhirfan2248]

ماشاءاللّٰه

[@Benisnob]

The words that you are spoken some are corrct ad some are impossible to make in reality

[@naimajain3052]

Subhanallah 😭😭 ☝️ 💔 that's what happening to me right now.

[@ahmadamjad5884]

Mashallah ❤

[@jallohmamadu518]

I'm going under this problem right known I want to marry the woman I love but her father is forcing her to another person please help me with prayer to let it not happened let her be my wife

[@hulaymatousowe7762]

Jalloh Mamadu if she is the best for u,may Allah grant you the right to marry her...

[@najstarr197]

Ameeeeeen

[@saiddahir2809]

dude the sheikh stressed the importance of not giving away your heart before you get the parents involved.

[@jallohmamadu518]

@@saiddahir2809 I have already done that because my dad have gone to her parents and her father said no she will marry her cousin because he already promised that boy but the girl didn't want to marry him

[@saiddahir2809]

@@jallohmamadu518 In that case there is not much u can do, i would say this thought pray istikhara in tahajjud time and maybe before u do pray, watch the sheikhs take on in part 3, i guess you could also fast, it helps and or maybe get busy with stuff like exercize basically get ur self busy, and may Allah make our affairs easy for us.

[@ursulasnyman3471]

Dear Mufti,i was christian,i am learning abought Islam an doing my daily prayers.The love of my life is muslim.Mommy is in Pakiestan.He stays with his unckle but did not introduce to his familey yet.we is onley 4 months in a relatiomship.He onley say he is very private.He is 45 and i am 59.

[@sanahoque9321]

Alhamdulillah

[@fifthseptember6577]

Im in the 3rd category :(

[@_.psycho._]

MashaAllah❤❤

[@jyothimary77777]

Your teaching are true and very , honest and truth, I liked your teaching, lots of Christians are converted to Muslims, so should I ? Then they might get me out of the problems, Psychology abused me and brain washed me, I'm a single mum , Please get me justice, The police cannot much, 🙏

[@jyothimary77777]

Even if the police know they don't open Thier mouth, about this

[@jyothimary77777]

Your teaching are very true and correct, My own religious people have betrayed me in UK, and I have nobody to support me, They don't open Thier mouths, and used me for fundraising, Please get me justice, If you could, pray for me in Islam way, so I could win this , As a Muslim women has brought lots of joy to the UK and Ireland, This is the greatest achievement of an Muslim women in the UK, Which has become an world even, I thanks for that young Muslim women , who did great help to the UK and Ireland and USA, they're very proud of this young Muslim women who has been so brave and open the eyes of the Christians to the reality of life, Thanks to those young Muslim women🤩 Thier bravest🙏

[@jyothimary77777]

They brain washed me, I cannot reverse it, as they input in my mind , like a daily basis for 5years and I cannot reverse this, I came to this country I'm immigrant stayed in here for just 10years and past 5years I'm victim of the circumstances, they continue doing this , They're not racist because they already married to Muslims, and help them and communication with the young Muslims women, But they used me and said bad things are happening because of me, please get me justice in Muslims way, I choose this path because The young Muslims women has been a winner, and brave and courageous, thanks again, They just don't like me, and when I ask them to help me do this practical way, Their jelouse of me, Please give me your blessing I'm a mother,

[@jyothimary77777]

It spread to the police who are strangers to me and I became the victim as I don't know them, they took benifit of this situation I'm in, As I hardly know anybody here,

[@jyothimary77777]

Mashaall and I do like your teaching , very honest and true and moral, I listen to this, I did used to have a Muslim boyfriend in my 20s, Very truthfull people,

[@fatmaharr3183]

Allah gives me subbir inshallah 🙏

[@hkossan5155]

Lit🖤

[@sumanroy223]

Bandana i love you

[@mepo658]

سبحان الله

[@suhealya3489]

Can you guys make duwa that I get married one day inshallah

[@strawberrylove275]

Ameen summa ameen

[@h._j6860]

Suhealya in sha Allah May Allah bless you with a happy marriage and find a good spouse. Ameen 🤲🏼❤️

[@h._j6860]

Suhealya your very beautiful.

[@feswalsalim7909]

Ishallah I will locky self hijaa bcss the best hijam is yeman far wt tim

[@lodevinasalvador945]

I'm very also worried about my situation inshallah hi will be a merried to me bec I love him to much I don't know what what I do now bec his family they want to get merry also him to other woman

[@rach2867]

What happened to u?

[@halimaadan250]

Mashaallah

[@humabarak7664]

25:00

[@rizwanakhan7515]

Real real beans 43:04

[@vusizeeplfs4396]

Assalamualaikum brothers and sisters

[@mustafaghadban1269]

بارك الله

[@hafsamsonga9773]

What if I see a brother in dating site, he is from another country, and I want to marry him. Wha should I do?? Please help am in dilemma, I don't know what to say to my parents

[@ermasintya7652]

Assalamualaikum masa Allah 🤲 insa allah merrid aminnn 🤲 🤲

[@Goner05]

But will your wife move to the left or quake for you?? Otherwise it's simply one sided love

[@remoteconnection.6333]

Permission respect Greetings. I want to sign a contract to get the Permission to go or to do the things.

[@eramfatima8191]

@15:55 to 22:31

[@junaidkarodia4713]

100 %

[@emreaydogan4383]

SELAMÜNALEYKÜM from Turkey can you pls add subbttle atleast english sometimes cant follow. ESSALUALEKÜM

[@samk3259]

What about the woman that are there in the harem and ther children who dont even have a fathers name. Please explain marriage , relatonship in that context. Can you ????

[@Vashtappening33]

43:05 what exact verse is it? Help!

[@batshats8243]

Where can we find part?

[@Iftiqarazam1]

❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕

[@simoelomarialaoui2982]

31:30

[@sitarakhan3634]

So, what is the solution for the 3rd category, married but not married? I found it really weird!!!

[@haniamehboob7597]

It's called المعلقة . You can search it up too. And as usual there's no one solution that works for all

[@haniamehboob7597]

But he also meant those people who are in a haram relationship ( as not married). Such things are of course not permissible in Islam but people are in it they should either get married or break up. There's no in between in Islam

[@aayeshajahan1295]

💝💜💛

[@abdoulayegarba9270]

Assalamu alaikum

[@hajraa65]

Who is still watching in 2021😅🤔

[@aayeshajahan1295]

💟💟💟

[@pecayoraanaliza8430]

Assalamu alaykum... I need advice to My problem.. because I did big mistake..really big mistake 😭😭😭😭please help me I need advice 😢

[@idontlikekhasiilikemyboyfr8228]

Giv me the time spam u kno wat i want just giv me the time spam

[@realcconnect6873]

no one helps me to marry , girls are rejecting me because I am not rich, God made all things to us very difficult

[@Yusuf-ep6yz]

Work on yourself, stack your money, become better as a person, then try again

[@beckybrynjolfsson]

I divorced my xhusband because of severe abuse on me and sexual abuse also on my daughter. He had sex with our babysitters who were minors. After I divorced him he had sex with his cousin that was a minor and later married her. His father also sexually abused my two sons. They are narcissistic sex abusers. I don't have anything nice to say about them. They are sick mean nasty people. It's evil not to warn people of evil they do. And they're not the least bit sorry.

[@Benisnob]

ur wife call u to move left side and so u wll move even there is no plce to move. Thts impossible

[@haniamehboob7597]

He just gave an example.