MARRIED AT FIRST SIGHT S18 EP9 | IKECHI IS MAD AND WE NEED TO TEAR HIM NEW SINGLET

[@adb7771]

I have one question, why did Ike sign up for MAFS TWICE, but does not want to be touched by "a stranger?"

[@sananna8516]

He wants fame.

[@ChastityGathers]

BINGO ‼️‼️‼️ thas EXACTLY what I said. He set my radar ablaze at the wedding reception with that whole entire PERFORMANCE...​@@sananna8516

[@ShayVidz]

True

[@flowersforme375]

We are not buying your book Ike!

[@chosentowin1940]

NEVER!!

[@journeywithcourtney]

Nope 🙅🏻‍♀️

[@TheMariemarie16]

After he accused me of SA I would never be able to even look at him sexually.

[@chosentowin1940]

I think that the producer’s have a responsibility not to actively try and ruin someone’s career. Icoochie has taken things too far and have made accusations that are very detrimental to her career and her self esteem. F him!!! And get him off the show!!!

[@yobiwolrd07]

I appreciate the ultimatum because the contestants actually leave instead of staying and trying to work it out..

[@taylormade9748]

@@chosentowin1940 YESSS! he is dangerous!

[@TiffStawberry]

He's very dangerous. That would have been the end of the show for me! The show would have just had to sue me!

[@Dani84409]

Why does she even continue trying with him?? She’s to smart for that.

[@meganrenee5581]

He’s such a B! Can’t stand men like him.

[@missjoy6685]

I said this before and I’ll say it again. I’m TIRED of these brothers trying to hide their femininity & combativeness under religion. If he is so “southern” and traditional he wouldn’t be 41 single with 2 engagements called-off. 🧢

[@naturellegal944]

Thank you. I noticed this about him during his first two episodes.

[@FoougieTV]

🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@kellymeggie]

@22:00 that happened on the honeymoon on the bus…they were also cuddling and had a lot of chemistry during the honeymoon….he changed towards her after he saw her apartment

[@taylormade9748]

Exactly! They were on the panel talking as if Emem should have been away there was a switch.

[@Becoming_Els]

I think he changed before then because she was using a honey pack on the honeymoon and was spooning him then too. So idk he isn’t interested in her and she is more successful than him too? Yeah he hates her

[@ShayVidz]

Yup !!!!

[@taylormade9748]

Emem is not gullible. She was blindsided and shocked that Ik would allude to their being SA. Ik put that woman’s hand on his private parts and now she is to think that he’s not interested? Ik is knowingly giving mixed signals and being vague on purpose. He did the same thing with the therapist. Emem needs to get out of there before he harms her or her career.

[@SuperNovaTraveler]

@taylormade9748 he did the same thing with the tacos. He comes off like not dependable, and extremely not a safe space. He has too much self work to do the be married.

[@taylormade9748]

@ yesss, there was literally no reason for him to bring up that he could have made the tacos when ultimately he wont. He’s petty, dangerous, and jealous. It’s as if he has a personal vendetta against Em. It’s so eerie.

[@ShayVidz]

So glad someone else see it ❤

[@lindalubanga]

It's the classic bait and switch of narcissistic abusers. Then add the unkind and wild accusations towards your wife. He is treating her so badly. Like dang I would be scared even to be in the same room with him.

[@10ille99]

This is the truth!!!!!! Ask me how I know 👀👀

[@taylormade9748]

@@lindalubanga yes! He gaslights her and uses charged words.

[@karenhalliburton7402]

His weenie don't work and he's trying to blame her when it just doesn't work period

[@sananna8516]

Very dangerous narcissist jealous little man.

[@Peaces-og6vc]

Yes. This is a typical narcissist tactic. This man is dangerous.

[@creationsbychannonb]

He’s a weirdo! Just wants fame not a marriage. He’s so embarrassing to watch.

[@sharrih1987]

Michelle did not go to school. She is an executive assistant, but she probably works at a nice law firm and they pay well. The black guy she is looking for might wanna white girl on his arm but not at 38 years old. She needs to look for a 50-year old black guy for whom she might be a prize.

[@missjoy6685]

Bingo!

[@TheMariemarie16]

Michelle has unresolved family issues. She is snarky and suspecious of good family dynamics.

[@lifeisgood2492]

Juan has a scarcity mindset because he wants a wife that’s stable? lol. She’s living out of a storage unit and doesn’t want to work. Come on lol

[@JacquelineRobertson-zo7gf]

And this woman Emem has her own practice at stake.

[@CocoaM-qk6cd]

This pissed me all the way off. This man answered positively when Dr Pia asked about consent!! What?!! Then to take it back and say that's not what you meant. This man is dangerous and Emem is not safe wth him. And the thing is men like this think they are always right and that they are the prize. She asked him if he doesn't want her. She asked outright! He is not being honest. Hard to see a another hardworking beautiful intelligent black women being treated like this on my TV.

[@chosentowin1940]

I’m also wondering if he’s gay and afraid to come out because he’s from the “south” 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@yobiwolrd07]

Not every man who rejects a woman is Gay.

[@missjoy6685]

@@yobiwolrd07 men who are super feminine and hide behind religion usually are.

[@joyhairston-white737]

🤣🤣🤣

[@chosentowin1940]

Agreed. But I’m still wondering

[@danettewelborn5577]

Yes. I get the gay vibe for sure

[@dskye2634]

I think the bottom line is... he doesnt like her.

[@chosentowin1940]

He is despicable!!!

[@sharrih1987]

Karla said she doesn’t use birth control or other chemicals in her body. Juan doesn’t wanna try that and get locked into an 18-year contract with someone that he doesn’t respect.

[@randomthought6681]

Good point, but just use a condom

[@greeksun369]

I really hate when the women on the panel constantly accuse or allude to men being "a part of the community" when they don't act how they think men should act. That's a super lazy "read" or commentary. For juan, you guys are missing a huge issue, in addition to him having a scarcity mindset, that could be leading to him not being attracted to Karla which is, juan, according to him, typically doesn't date Latin women.

[@markishabennett3307]

Thank you!!!!It is exhausting hearing it every panel.

[@Deenaturally23]

I think I missed it when did he say he doesn't date Latin women? Does he only date white women then lol

[@markishabennett3307]

@Deenaturally23 yes after the wedding when they did the meet in the lounge both Juan and Karla told each other they mainly dated white.

[@Deenaturally23]

@@markishabennett3307 😲 that's very interesting!!

[@markishabennett3307]

@@Deenaturally23 Very!

[@minnya4406]

Mehnnnn its not rocket science though!!!! If a man says youre "aggressive" when you try to do something with him, HE IS NOT FEELING YOU LIKE THAT!!! Emem needs to read between the lines and CODE SWITCH unprompted!!

[@melissatreadfast5310]

Karla has made a declaration that she will not be working after children

[@DuBoisLancaster]

Can we stop equating things with zodiac signs? Sometimes a thing is just a thing is just a thing.

[@THEREALSOURCE]

Yes please!!!!

[@MzChocolateGhana]

Kojo you lookin good 😍

[@jennapitts8373]

Camille or anyone else did not ask Thomas why he cheated.

[@jenniferchanya]

Ikechi’s sarcasm and Emem’s dominance just won’t match. Ike referred to her as the “homey” on the honeymoon and that struck a chord as well. Originally, I wanted this relationship to work but I now know that it cannot work.

[@antoinettechevalier2453]

MAFS would have to pay me big money to spend even 1 more night w Ikechi in that shared apartment after he has called me aggressive. Like the first dude on the panel said: Ikechi is a dangerous person to be around, with the way he’s moving and the things he is saying. This show and this trash man are *not* going to sully my name, my professionalism, my personhood. I’m gone - and MAFS better cut me a check for pain-n-suffering already endured. I would not be playing around w a fool like Ikechi: everything he does is self-serving and performative; he’s a fraud.

[@relaxlibrary4249]

I been said Michelle wants Patrick Mahomes type dude. That's what she meant by light-skinned.

[@NoNonsense-h6i]

Yes, I agree with the sistah who reminded us that Ikechi mentioned that "his mother was watching" when the couple was in bed on the honeymoon.

[@sharonsugarsmith1267]

On the After Party check out the new ring. She's already engaged.

[@kimberlyturner4065]

Emem was on the After Party? I changed chnls when I saw Ik on the first half

[@missjoy6685]

I hope so

[@Dani84409]

@@kimberlyturner4065I never watch when he’s on 🙅🏽‍♀️🙅🏽‍♀️

[@jacquelinef7174]

Who?

[@ronyaclark1777]

I don't think she continued to sexually touch him. She is very touchy like hugging when he comes home and just touching his leg or whatever. He is looking for reasons to put her down and make her look bad.

[@jennapitts8373]

Oh please. Icky is not attracted to her.

[@Metaphysicalmindspace777]

The way he’s acting I’m questioning his sexual preference

[@perlasantos7675]

Describing Karla as a lazy Latina is crazy, how many latinas have YOU actually been with in relationships and otherwise?! Probably not many. Stop idealizing groups of ethnicities based on what you assume and not know like that.

[@MsKamih]

Sean 100% about Dr. P introducing words to Ikechi.. Destroying Emem reputation. Horrible.

[@kimcarty1192]

Why would a beautiful intelligent, educated , successful black woman put up with this disrespect ...i would prefer to be single ...Hes not worth her time but she must also take some responsibility

[@missjoy6685]

Because she’s 35 and fell into the trap that many black women fall into thinking they have to boss up FIRST before they can get married and start and family smh. Shes trying to make it work so she doesn’t have to start all over and waste more time. Poor thing. I hate this for her 😢

[@SuperNovaTraveler]

She just there because of the contract at this point. The moment this show over she will leave ike

[@danettewelborn5577]

Why label it as a black woman? Any woman shouldn't want that kind of treatment

[@ariadnebene8413]

Happy birthday CWay 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@melloneycarroll5990]

People on other platforms are calling Ikechi, No-Coochie cause he don’t want none from Emem, and calling him King of Cankles from his wedding photo with no socks and his ankles are huge; he may be retaining water.

[@jacquelinef7174]

I was wondering why ppl were calling him Cankle King. I missed that LOL

[@jikidean-adedeji6761]

The problem is Juan talks a good game but he’s broke. From look of that apt he doesn’t have much and his cousin is his roommate. Splitting rent. Where’s proof Juan has money or a business?

[@antoinettechevalier2453]

His cousin is the one who needed a place to stay, and Juan is helping him out. And Juan is getting up in the morning and going to work every day: It’s obvious that he is trying to make things happen for himself. Karla has a storage unit (ie no apartment), and is waking up at 1:00pm in the afternoon. We don’t have to see his bank account to know Juan is about creating success for himself: Karla, not so much.

[@relaxlibrary4249]

I cannot stand a man who is a poor communicator and Ikechi is that. And this is exactly the reason why. The failure to communicate can lead to an explosive situation. Emem is confused because Ike was a different person on the honeymoon. He was touchy feely, they were holding hands and connecting through physical touch on camera at least. Now he doesn't want to be touched and he hasn't communicated the what has changed. Of course she has to respect his boundaries, but he went too far. He doesn't want her touching and kissing on him. Ok, but don't say you feel violated.

[@antmyrick2063]

Bro Michelle has said on several occasions she doesn't find him attractive. David and Karla should have never been picked

[@angtucker-mcdonald9763]

Putting her hand on little Ike was a test to see how eager she was and she failed that test. Most women would be like woah I just met you. Instead she came off as thirsty. I don't think he was ever attracted to her but that might have changed if she was a bit more chill and standoffish. In any case he is a real disappointment. He should have just been honest with her.

[@tiffanyc8307]

Ike really didn’t like her from the jump just was faking. Ike seen that apartment then he really made his mind up giving Chris vibes.

[@tiffanyc8307]

Allen and Maddison might be Jamie and Doug, Juan was raise in a 50/50 house hold and seen it work

[@audreyamponsah4268]

All those black men she been with ain’t done nothing like a massage night for her and rose petals etc? That’s why she should forget all this surface level stuff and let’s go. Plus Camille ain’t no dominatrix…no way she is being performative!

[@jikidean-adedeji6761]

Happy birthday CWay. My b/g twins are Sag. Just turned 16.

[@jacks4009]

Ikem is very very mad. Alluding to someone's trying to SA is very mad. If I was her I would not have remained calm, I would have said No I'm not taking that. You've gone too far!!!! Having a reputation of SA is wild!!!!!!

[@SuperNovaTraveler]

Well thomas always wanted the earrings, he just hadnt stepped out to buy any, his ears were already pierced.

[@plaine-jeany3517]

I think that Juan dont like latina they both said that they dont date there own race , i think Juan looks like her like a cousin he looks alot like her in the face , she looks good but sometimes her face jawline looks strong

[@sharrih1987]

Happy Birthday C-way!

[@JacquelineRobertson-zo7gf]

But Karla has been taking care of herself.

[@philgoode8846]

Sorry my connections with KZbin and I couldn't do anything

[@plaine-jeany3517]

Juan sees alot of Karlas, in his family she is beautiful but not special for him

[@billeem5151]

I believe Ike pulled her hand over in the beginning was to show her what he was working with. Now he crying gRape! Bastard. 🤨🤮

[@joyhairston-white737]

And do men from the south put a woman’s hand on their private?

[@Dani84409]

You all can make all the excuses you want regarding Ike, but if he was really uncomfortable he would have expressed only that. This is a grown arse man. He’s going around using the term SA, just say you’re not attracted to her physically. It’s the way that he talks at her and not to her, him being passive aggressive towards her and the doctor. Emem is too beautiful and smart of a woman to even want to continue on with him. I would have left him right at the table with the doctor. He continues to call her aggressive and she continues to allow it and wants to continue to get to know him. I just don’t understand it bc it’s no way I’d want to continue getting to know him after his behavior. I couldn’t agree with C-way more!! Emem is VERY agreeable and pick me.

[@bossupathomewithtequila]

In my eyes, Ikechi is even worse than Chris (Paige) from season 12 I think it was. Chris was a dirty dawg for sleeping with Paige and not being attracted. But at least he didn’t insinuate that she possibly violated his rights while simultaneously using one of the most damaging words known to black women. Ikechi is jealous and envious which to me leads to a dangerous relationship.

[@Jema1908]

Ike is not eloquent……I refuse to believe he wrote those poems! I can’t tell!

[@sharonsugarsmith1267]

Juan was telling Karla about investing in his company. Karla said she not giving anyone her money.

[@shelleycharlesworth5177]

what money? hair stylists don't make that much and she just quit her job!she lives out of a storage box.

[@antionettemoore3321]

I take it back about my comment regarding Elsie let me give her a chance

[@zoraxye4325]

I hate this show & don't choose to watch but all of the social media talk about this ill matched couple has brought me to KZbin. I saw that session with the therspist & instantly knew that the man is not interested in the woman. His rejection is hurting her & she really wants to appease him. The question is why? He's not interested sis.

[@SuperNovaTraveler]

@cway, both the white girls this season have strong faces, especially without make up

[@jennapitts8373]

Allen was drunk on the couch because they had his birthday party the night before and they went to the club and kept drinking. Michelle is for the streets

[@ms.theresa5006]

Can’t hear you

[@billeem5151]

Ike is an ARZ! He need mental help. Emem keep your head high and move out!

[@jacks4009]

Did you see how he was grinning when she apologised???? I was like girl you better than me. After you Was putting my hand on your groin. Boy stop playing with me.

[@shelleycharlesworth5177]

Icky was disgusting-ugh such a nasty attitude. I-wOuld not be attracted to him In ANY way and I would get-out NOW.

[@marquisbradshaw5124]

You have to be very careful about calling a brown skinned woman - harsh looking Yall sound ignorant.

[@TheMariemarie16]

I don't think that Emem looks harsh but she does carry herself or her face to where she looks older. She usually looks serious and makes a perpetual sour face most times which makes her look older or more harsh than she is. She is attractive but does not fit the mold of beautiful or cute in the face by the majority societal standards. She does look normal and not ugly. Her face is average..

[@marquisbradshaw5124]

@@TheMariemarie16 I see your point and I agree, but who really cares about what society deems attractive?? We as black people need to broaden our scope of what is attractive- period. It’s just interesting to me when sisters whom are lighter critique brown skinned women’s features. I think Camille kinda looks like a horse in the face but no one would ever call her “harsh” looking. It seems like so many times different adjectives are thrown at different shades for different reasons and we got stop that ish. We put the stereotypes on ourselves sometimes- smh. I think as you said- she does wear her emotions on her face at times- but I don’t think she is ugly at all.

[@TheMariemarie16]

@@marquisbradshaw5124 I see both sides. You are right that darker is related to worse or harder or stronger in the USA when it comes to women but also we don't want to get so sensitive that we can't say the truth. You are right we are all affected by generations of white rule and beauty standards and we need to realize our type of beauty is beautiful but also again we need to recognize that we can be honest about what we think is pretty. It is a truly nuanced situation. Not easy for us black people to grow and navigate these types of things.

[@antionettemoore3321]

I don’t know Elsie but I think she needs to not be on the panel bring the old panel back please

[@melissatreadfast5310]

I have a problem with Camille yes builds bear now she wants to dominate and whip to believe Camille it’s only interested in controlling him their direction As a couple

[@plaine-jeany3517]

Wow im sad for thomas, giving him a stereotype necklace, like al black man wear a big chain. That woman dont see that she is the Karen, you have different kind of black man nerdy , crazy ,stylish, and layback dont care what i wear.

[@joyhairston-white737]

Ok, that scene was pathetic

[@jennapitts8373]

Thank you Emem is not beautiful as the people are saying nor is she pretty. SHe looked really old at the wedding. She did looks nice. The hair looked depression era and the yellow eyeliner looked horrible. Same thing happened with LAuren and Orion. He was not attracted to her. People kept saying how beautiful she was she is not. Orion was very kind to her too. Unlike Icky

[@teamo4105]

I mean Ike named Kelly Rowland and Michelle Obama as his crushes...not exactly super young looking women

[@Jema1908]

Ike is not eloquent……I refuse to believe he wrote those poems! I can’t tell!