MARRYING THROUGH HARAM RELATIONSHIP

[@No-fd8dd]

From what I've seen, entering married life through a haram relationship can indeed pose its own set of unique challenges. Open communication and understanding between both partners are crucial for building a healthy and loving relationship. Both parties must also be willing to compromise and work on strengthening their trust and intimacy.

[@MahsaSara]

O Allah, if this relationship and marriage are good for us, make it easy ✨🤲. If harmful, guide us to the right path 🕊🌿.

[@Ryoko007]

I said the same thing to my sibling who was in a haram relationship I asked, did they do istikhara but another sibling who also had a haram relationship and got married said ofcourse they did, and he saw all is good. That older sibling has now encouraged all my younger sibling that it is never wrong to have a haram relationship and get married. She has fought me by speech and has turned my parents especially my mother against me to have her scream and shout at me and my husband when we were all raised islamically in an islamic school. I married islamically my parents chose my husband for me, wasn't really my choice but istikhara showed I should marry them. My parents had made her also marry at the same time in our parents home country to their relatives, mine is OK but after she got back to UK she divorced that cousin and married a violent guy in the local town and has done her best to encourage other relatives and cousins that it's ok and beautiful to love before marriage. Now with her violent husband no 9ne else in my parents home can speak up against her or she gets her husband to threaten everyone. including me and my husband. I now just pray, and do not speak to that sibling anymore.

[@Ilmseeker844]

Leave it sister, trust me Allah make everyone accountable for their deed, I have seen that from my own eyes, how he did that specially to those who did wrong to their own family. Trust Allah

[@fahimredwan]

Subhan Allah

[@omarsaidy8775]

ALHAMDULILLAH💙💚❤️♡♡AMEEN♡ALHAMDULILLAH

[@ZakariyeMohamed-lz6jd]

Allahu akbar

[@sseyoona]

استغفرالله

[@UranSk-wq6mv]

What i have to if someone is in a relationship with a girl but they did a lots of islamic ways of teaching and learning from each other but sometimes they fought and end with crush and promise 😢then what will be done for this kind of people??? If the onwer of the channel see my comments plz respond me as soon as possible ❤️

[@salwajemshad8813]

Anybody there

[@notice_me_20]

How are we supposed to get to know each other then? Cus basically texting is haram according to ya all , someone explain .

[@notice_me_20]

Before anyone comment that “go and see the parent “ remember we live in different places , Africa for instance it doesn’t work that way. Even if you have a good intention , you can’t seek parents permission to even speak with their daughter , unless their daughter rather introduces you to their parents before they would be allowed to speak with you , by then you guys have already had interaction, (texting and calls )

[@RaiLCyuuute]

Repent 100 Times a Day like Prophet (saw) Pray tahajjud every day. Like Prophet (saw) pray for parents and relatives. Like Prophet (saw) call friendly related jinn angels and dead in graves. to reveal your spouse to your family.

[@samia6888]

@@notice_me_20 if her parents are Muslims then they know that is how we do it. Go to the father directly and ask for her hand in marriage, if the father agrees then you can speak to her with her wali present and get to know her. If you are interested in her for marriage truly and she is interested in you truly then you can get a nikkah done. If the father doesn’t agree for whatever reason then you move on to the next. You can live in Africa, Europe, US, Mars, etc. we practicing Muslims have to do it this way.

[@notice_me_20]

@ we are very far away , so I can’t speak to her dad , I only spoke with her brother , and her mom granted me the permission too, we only message ourself we haven’t met before .

[@RaiLCyuuute]

@@notice_me_20 you only know if allah is pleased when asking the dad. Thats our ritual brother. Don't forget asking her dad before in inshallah.

[@salwajemshad8813]

Hello

[@The_reminder-j3h]

What I have prohibited for you, avoid it. What I have commanded you, do it as much as you can. Verily, those before you were ruined only due to their excessive questioning and contradicting their prophets. Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 7288, Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi

[@romanEmpire___]

This hadith directly contradicts the Quran hence it shouldn't be followed. Here’s what Allah says about blind following. When they are told, “Follow what GOD has revealed herein,” they say, “We follow only what we found our parents doing.” What if their parents did not understand, and were not guided? (2:170) The example of such disbelievers is that of parrots who repeat what they hear of sounds and calls, without understanding. Deaf, dumb, and blind; they cannot understand (2:171) “Or do you think that most of them listen or use their intellect? They are only like cattle, nay, they are more astray from the way" (25:44) Indeed, the vilest of living animals, in God's sight, are the deaf, the dumb and those that do not use their intellect (8:22) When they are told, “Come to what GOD has revealed, and to the messenger,” they say, “What we found our parents doing is sufficient for us.” What if their parents knew nothing, and were not guided? (5:104) O you who believe, you should worry only about your own necks. If the others go astray, they cannot hurt you, as long as you are guided. To GOD is your ultimate destiny, all of you, then He will inform you of everything you had done. (5:105) "And indeed, he did lead astray a great multitude of you. Did you not, then use your intellect / reason? (36:62) “And they will say: O our Sustainer! Behold, we paid heed to our leaders and our great men, and it is they who have led us astray from the right path” (33:67) "And do not follow that of which you have no knowledge. Indeed! the hearing and the sight and the heart - of each of these you will be questioned"(17:36) So, just because a sheikh said something does not mean you have to take it as a fact, they’re humans, with biases too so use your god given brain, you will be asked about it. Let’s not be like a certain group of muslims who blind follow their leaders and insult you everytime you bring them God’s verses disproving what their sheikhs are saying, they always come up with stuff like “they studied this their whole lives and you a random is gonna come here and change everything?” When all i say is what Allah says lol. Allah will ask all of us if we analyzed the information that came to us before accepting it as facts, Allah will ask us if we used the intellect & brain that he gave us, just saying..

[@MAWIYAKHAN-f6x]

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