MARY'S LIES GET EXPOSED

How well do Brandan and Mary really know each other? Forget 24/7 video calls - being together in person is very different! Does Brandan know Mary wants to fatten him up? Does he know Mary's grandad expects them to marry ASAP?
Well, there's one thing he definitely doesn't know... that Mary's been LYING to him! But thanks to her friends, Mary's lies are about to get exposed.
Question is, will knowing the truth change Brandan and Mary's relationship?
👇 What are your thoughts? Let's continue the conversation down in the comments below.
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In this video I'm recapping Brandan and Mary in 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way Season 5 Episode 5

[@Sh52068]

She can lie to go hang out with other guys but he can’t even go to the dentist or get seated next to a girl on a plane 😂

[@minagomez3791]

Crazy right? My goodness!😄

[@thenewmexicantexan]

Or hang out with his mother and sister 🥴

[@dollymae3383]

He's stupid for putting up with it🤷‍♀️

[@solaris5922]

@@thenewmexicantexan My mother’s sister in law is just like this. Every time my uncle and mother used to hang out she would get uncomfortable and find any excuse to drag him back. Now almost nobody deals with him in the family

[@dollymae3383]

@@solaris5922 pray his family frees him but men need to stand up for themselves. If/when a man simps, that's his own fault for falling for "female foolishness" and he'll hafta learn on his own

[@noperope325]

She wants him to gain weight so she can pull the "no one wants you because youre fat" and destroy his self confidence. She's insane

[@bieberninja1]

then she'll dump him for being too fat after he gains 5 pounds in one year

[@JRinseattle]

This happened to me!! I had to lose all my weight again… 70lbs 😂

[@Cap_management]

Maybe you are insane. Do you know that certain cultures prefer chubby as only people with money are chubby there? The same reason why Asian prefer white skin because brown skin means historically you are a poor farmer.

[@Jcope-ce9ef]

A lot of girls do like that in the Philippines,plus if you got a big belly that will not hold you back here ,you can just look around you.

[@bieberninja1]

@@Jcope-ce9ef brandon should buy a miss piggy hand puppet then intentionally let mary catch him jerking off, watch her head explode

[@aesthetic7675]

Both of them are a mess but Mary is completely outta pocket I feel bad for bro cause he’s invested so much into the relationship

[@indramami9080]

Agree.

[@-whackd]

I feel bad that the state of Oregon took him away from his mother because she failed a drug test, giving him abandonment and codependency issues for the rest of his life.

[@bananerz3167]

He took her virginity and knocked her up and married her. I think he got everything out of this that he wanted lol

[@rw8762]

Don’t feel bad he allows it so he’s worse of the worse

[@indramami9080]

@@-whackd 🎯

[@acisner1]

This whole "get chubby so he more huggable" thing is bs. She wants him less attractive to other women.

[@notayoutuber09]

She is a narcassist, to sum up all her negative behavior.

[@bananerz3167]

That's a completely wrong assessment of her, this woman has a lot of different ossues. But u can sum it up wrong if u want. People throw around terms like narcissism, autism and bipolar like school kids that just learnt a new word

[@wackybrattyx]

@@bananerz3167 Idk what she is but she sure is abusive and a complete red flag.

[@lijo4518]

Def something is wrong w her 🚩🚩🚩

[@notayoutuber09]

@@bananerz3167 Well she sure does exhibit a lot of the traits of one.

[@ktrayn78]

Narcissists have more self-control and don't come off as needy. She has other issues.

[@N4CR]

Grandparents look guilty AF as with her. Body language, they scammed him for a cheap house and bought the land, then his grandad claimed 'he owned the land'. Absolutely scammed the naive child Brandon is. Needs to man up.

[@carolannedasilvarocha3651]

He has no spine. Stand up for yourself and be a man. How dare she ban you from your mother wtaf

[@InstantCameraforlittles]

That bch is a grown man, he needs to act like it or dont bch abt nth

[@Seaflower722]

Mary really tries to portray a shy, innocent, honest, and sweet girl. And all she has done is lie, manipulate, control, and be emotionally abusive. She is going to drain Brandon and he’s going in blind fully because he loves the idea of having a home, love, and a family with her. But she’s going to isolate Brandon (which she already started to do) and it’s never going to be enough with her jealousy and control. Mary by all accounts is NOT everything she tries to portray. I hope at the tell all she’s confronted and that her grandparents all know the truth. Also the grandparents should be confronted on how they treat Brandon who thanks to him they have a roof over their head.

[@Zarastro54]

If she is called out at the tell all, she will start to cry, then Brandon will defend her like the simpish white knight he is. He might even storm out in a huff, depending on how harsh (and correct) the criticism is. Mark my words.

[@Seaflower722]

@@Zarastro54 Mmhmm it’s sad but true and I also hope his feet are hold up to the fire when asked if he was so feeble and pathetic that he needed Mary to sacrifice her future for him. Specifically when he made her quit dancing which caused her to loose her scholarship.

[@fatonyalmitchell3281]

Perhaps grandparents think Mary help out with house 🏠 and not Brandon... never know

[@Zarastro54]

@@Seaflower722 We don’t know that he “made” her do that. His behavior thus far does not indicate that he is someone who would do something like that, and Mary said that she “felt she had to-,” not “he asked/MADE” her stop dancing and drop out. My guess is that she did it on her own so she could both leech off of him and continue monitoring him over 24/7 video calls (which remember was HER idea).

[@pixiedust0643]

indeed. haha

[@Sasa-wv7gd]

The production company needs to step in. Sell that house and give Brandon his money back … this is intolerable!!

[@Homegrown_Values]

Knock it down

[@me-wi7mr]

She is crazy enough to kill him

[@wackybrattyx]

A 💯. It’s a fatal attraction episode in the making.

[@DavidGarcia-qs5ng]

Ox tail soup Ala Branbon

[@Smaugette]

I thought that too. I feel sorry for the guy. Hope he will be ok.

[@5050TM]

If she were male there would be no question in telling the partner to run immediately and file a restraining order. Women like this know their outer appearance and gentle demeanor excuses their behavior to a larger degree in many people's eyes.

[@NoDustZone]

​@@5050TMwhy do you black males always try to compare yourself to women 🤔

[@kaylamarie9859]

i’m a filipino and this is insane. her behavior can’t be excused by cultural differences and conservative traditional values holy shit.. someone save that man

[@DocBree13]

Agreed! This is not due to her culture - she’s just a horrible person, and there are horrible, controlling people in every culture.

[@giancarlodonatelli6285]

Oo foreighner hunter yarn hahahahah

[@nagratna793]

​@@anttwoyaa probably

[@TriskaUy]

Exactly! I’m also a Filipino and this trait of hers is totally toxic. I have trust issues since I’ve been cheated quite a few times but that doesn’t make me stop trying to trust men. Because we can’t generalize them just because of our bad experience before. So she shouldn’t really force him to stop making friends with females and especially meeting his mum and sister. So insane. And you can literally see in her that she’s not genuine with her feelings towards Brandan. I hope she’ll come around and change for him. Poor guy will not be happy with this life.

[@mylenemauriciohuff2215]

I'm Filipino too she give us Filipino women bad vibes she's crazy all she does is cry when it doesn't go on her way her mentality is like a 6 yr old child

[@mycatsnameiskaren8253]

There's just no way I could get over the Internet lies. He literally ditched his entire family and isolated himself in an RV in a driveway for HER, lost several jobs because of having to be online with her & she's out running around with her guy friends because she doesn't like being alone? What the actual f??? So she sheds a few tears and she's forgiven? Oh, my, this is gonna end badly.

[@marcus.g.4273]

Why does it have to end badly ? Brandon could easily get on an airplane and go home. Simple as that. 😁

[@xfatoushe-6908]

@@marcus.g.4273yeah but he’s broke. He could either ask his family to send money for tickets or buy it for him. Or he gets a job in the islands which is gonna take forever to earn money with

[@lizlovesafrobeats]

@@marcus.g.4273 exactly they're making it seem like he is a victim in all this, when brendan very much likes mary obsessive controlling side which makes him feel special and wanted

[@JBrandonMercer123]

@@marcus.g.4273 He won't. He's a simp!

[@SagaciousSap69]

@@lizlovesafrobeatsLmao typical woman siding with the woman abuser, a tale as old as time. You guys love victim-blaming when men are on the receiving end, but crumble like a rotting sack of potatoes on the reverse. I don’t really care either way but the hypocrisy is a great source of entertainment for people with functioning brains

[@keiraann3550]

I could not imagine living as Mary. The toxic, dark, and negative energy that lives within her is palpable. A truly miserable human being. It must be a disgusting feeling.

[@Cap_management]

If TV crew filmed your entire life and posted the worst online you will be even worse. Dont judge people from few clips made to look dramatic for views.

[@nagratna793]

She is like ..she wants Brandon to throw himself after her .leave everything and work for her and family..is she even that beautiful to be that controlling 😂

[@mickyfassbender448]

she's not a human. She's a live action adaptation of the Annabell doll

[@perlaleza9009]

She broke up with him because there was a woman sitted next to him on a plane like 😅 wtf

[@paulinehunter408]

Oops all money gone her true colours will show Mary is not a typical Phillapino ....I have many friends

[@staceywalker8699]

My step family are all Filipino. The disrespect towards Brandon is shocking. Its not a culture I personally am used to that they are portraying? He paid for their house (NO not Mary). Still how ungrateful and child-like they treat Brandon, who was man enough to earn money to build them a home..I don't get it? As for Mary. I really don't have words. She's scary, possessive and a hypocrite.

[@TaniumRag]

That’s what I’m saying too. I’m Filipina from the Philippines and if she was in my family, we would have (sad to say) disown her if that’s how she portrays herself because she’s gna shame the clan’s face. Makapal ang muka 😭

[@lillidaisyASMR]

Yes she’s scary and to think now she’s a child but one day she will be a grown ass woman acting like that.

[@samhayet4286]

@@lillidaisyASMR She already is a grown-ass woman. She just refuses to act it, unfortunately!

[@-whackd]

Brandon's brain is made out of dog shit

[@kacperzimowski4626]

There is nothing wrong with being possessive as long as the same rules apply to both people.

[@Campfire30]

She's not allowed to kiss her boyfriend but she's allowed to go hang out with three guys on the beach all the time? Something is fishy with how this story is being told and edited on the show.

[@jaja-cg9yd]

And she's allowed to wear skimpy clothes and get tattoos. Definitely a disconnect somewhere.

[@izabeera166]

she is projecting her crapy character on him. She knows she is lying and being dishonest, so she assumes he is also and wants to control him.

[@maidenhawaii7619]

ABSOLUTElY!!

[@tomwaters5651]

He, unfortunately, sank $60k into this while knowing he knew that she was controlling, wishy-washy and insane

[@Sparklecatofdoom]

Brandon seems like an honest, mature man. Mary has the mentality of a twelve year old. Her lies and manipulation aren't cute or quirky. She's an abuser in the making, and we're watching it live

[@cuentaccuentos]

Dont play dumb. He is just as immature as she is

[@jakethedogluvsyou]

i think if brandon was mature he’d realize his relationship with mary should end

[@chava4809]

@@jakethedogluvsyouexactly, like how mature can he be when he’s staying in this relationship. A more mature person wouldn’t respond to someone’s jealousy/control issues by saying “well you don’t let me have friends so that’s why you can’t either”.

[@victorrancor90]

You think he is mature? Lmfao

[@anitahargreaves9526]

I'm UK, however I was cross a bit, when my daughter got a tattoo. Didn't tell her yet she knows me well. Not allowed to kiss,, accepts a new home and in denial. Imo.

[@bieberninja1]

Brandon: I gave Mary $60,000 to build this house you all live in, do you mind if I make eye contact with your granddaughter? Mary's Grandfather: No! You marry her first!

[@aloveu221]

Fckng wicked!!! Someone help this boy.

[@kyank1010]

I would always choose being alone rather than be in an awful relationship like this. I need to cleanse after just dealing with Mary through the TV. Brandon went from one abusive situation to another.

[@fatonyalmitchell3281]

Who was abusive to him before mary

[@kyank1010]

@@fatonyalmitchell3281 His father. The mom had a drug addiction and basically lost custody of all the kids.

[@fatonyalmitchell3281]

@@kyank1010 Damm 😧 sorry to hear 🙉 that hopefully he turns all past negative into positive future energy ....I'm rooting for him

[@supermariotravels7225]

Young

[@Cap_management]

I didnt seen anything abusive in person. I know from my own experience that long distance relationship makes people crazy and overthinking. It doesnt mean she will be like that when they are together in person.

[@homebrews9957]

Im outraged that Mary and her family treat this poor, sweet lad unjustly. I'm also a Filipina, but I would never treat someone this horribly and chuck it up on cultural thing. Mary has lied so many times and despite video chatting 24/7, she decided not to spare time to set expectations. She very well knows that her grandfather would insist on marriage, yet she didnt even bother telling her partner about it or all the other critical things that are expected of Brandon when he gets to the Philippines. Clearly, both have issues and need to work on themselves before they try being in a relationship. Brandon has insecurities because his parents failed him and this led him to be in a dysfunctional relationships because he didn't know any better. Mary, on the other hand, appeared to have major issues going on. Whether it is due to environmental factors or not, is something thats hard to tell because we don't have much info to work on

[@BrokenBabydoll]

How can such horrible people get someone to love them this much? Absolutely baffling.

[@revinaque1342]

Trauma bonding, probably

[@talcareyifill5937]

Manipulate

[@marcus.g.4273]

I agree, Brandon should feel lucky that Mary cares about him. Because, Mary could kick Brandon out of the house. And then he would be homeless and penniless in the Philippines (which is a nightmare). 😁

[@zsazsasays1573]

They give someone with very low self esteem a bit of positive attention, they then stay because they hope more of it. She was probably one of the very few people that have ever complimented him in his whole life. He will hold onto that comment forever.

[@carlosray5363]

Brandon is a simp boi

[@aanthonyalexis]

i feel triggered. as someone who was in a toxic relationship for 5 years. so many things Mary does to manipulate/gaslight Brandon is telling. when she said "i knew them before i met you, you just met those people" she told me everything i need to know about her. i wish i could tell Brandon to run! i hope the relationship doesn't escalate to anything worse. toxic relationships are draining.

[@nagratna793]

I think she Gaslight him by saying "you are not doing enough" so he feels insecure and tries harder to act her way

[@wackybrattyx]

Mary is a fatal attraction episode in the making. 😩

[@joelhighlight6231]

Bro that deep 😢😢

[@Addie-K738]

I agree! They’re a frightening couple. Honestly, I wouldn’t be surprised if she killed him one day.

[@lavenderlillies8149]

Gosh I said this exact thing just a few minutes ago! She's actually frightening in that sense and I don't think it's extreme to think that it might get to that if Brandon keeps at this. People have been killed by less seemingly creepy people and Mary is just a walking red flag. Tbf Brandon is also a red flag with his extremely low self esteem. But compared to her, he's a pink flag and she's blood red!

[@nathalieandparis]

Oh Brandon. He paid for the house but it’s not his it’s theirs (the land they own)! So heartbreaking! He has no family and never had a healthy vision of family. Mary is absolutely awful. I cant. Such a negative family. Nahhh you’re way better off in the US

[@Malvo6820]

Brandon just don't know what he got himself into. Mary lies a lot. She manipulates, and she cries when she gets caught in her lies.

[@hap3846]

Yep. She uses the crocodile tears to manipulate him further Shes a narcissistic/bpd nutcase

[@Zarastro54]

I really fear for their kid(s) if Mary doesn’t change her ways. Because of his abandonment issues, Brandon is NOT ever going to consider separating from her, no matter how toxic and abusive she gets for the sake of the children. She in turn is going to groom the kids to be malleable doormats like Brandon who will cowtow to her whenever she turns on the water works. If the kid(s) ever defy her, she will turn Brandon against them, and vise versa if Brandon did the same. The point is that the world will revolve around her and she can do no wrong. She’ll guilt, gaslight, and berate her family into submission. I hope this won’t be the case, but these types of narcissistic people rarely change, especially without therapy. Boy I hope I’m wrong.

[@justatexasgirl5583]

But, she’s ALREADY been intimate! If they are having “phone sex” “video chat sex”..they’ve gone pretty far. Do you think grandpa would see it differently? It shows her immaturity level.

[@R.O.T.C._SEEM]

Just like that was her first kiss. I think her grandparents know she's not a virgin and want him to marry her before he finds out because they think he wouldn't marry her if she wasn't. They want her to present herself as pure as possible but you can tell she isn't as pure as she presents.

[@biancajade728]

​@R.O.T.C._SEEM for her 1st kiss she knew how to kiss

[@IvaK2458]

I've been saying this all along - no way she is a virgin. They are just making him believe that, so that they can control the situation. I think she is mentally ill and needs help.

[@batzgameguru]

Wait she's not a virgin? Jesus Christ she's trash

[@sandlotkrew8778]

LMAO !!... NOT AT ALL !!... Anyone dude who tells another dude they had phone sex & not the real thing would be laughed at uncontrollably.

[@customsongmaker]

Give me a break. He bought them a house, but he can't kiss her? They probably would have sold her to 50 guys downtown for the same amount of money

[@henrysedigzadeh6209]

This kid is so sweet, simple, and naiive. He does not realize what he's getting himself into. He should run.

[@michellevdg4708]

Bruh. Break up. Stop paying the house, move on. She’s lazy, she cheats, she’s crazy too. I mean … the fact he pays their house even n he’s doing way more extra stuff while she’s being like that and worse completely not into him anymore after just meeting is sad.

[@michellew512]

Brandon didn’t say he didn’t know the rules because he will do anything to protect Mary and the only way he would have known the rules would be if Mary had told him. It’s sad to me. Brandon seems like such a good and honourable soul and he is being taken advantage of by Mary. Poor guy 😢

[@SuperDougieBear]

she did say he forced her out of her scholarship through jealousy, although after alll this idk how true that may be. or if it is true; to what scale?

[@SuperDougieBear]

also whats the point of her boys snitching on her? its like they wanna cause issues or something

[@lydiaspelman8278]

@@SuperDougieBearI think that they think he can do better to be honest. she shouldn’t keep lies from him so I’m glad they told brandon.

[@TheRealGamer872]

@@SuperDougieBearhe didn’t watch that clip again it was because of her decision on wanting to be on the phone 24/7

[@ZAMSKY1000]

I have my doubts about him telling her to drop a dance scholarship. We already know she's a liar.

[@bushebajiti7641]

I know bashing Mary is the norm but Brandon is also at fault for letting this shit happen. It baffles me how much he actually tolerates

[@minagomez3791]

It's true what they say, LOVE makes you stupid. Not blind!

[@BingingInPeace-ev3bp]

This happens to people who have been neglected and abused. It’s called having low self esteem due to never or rarely having love and support from one’s own family.

[@jspau]

That's victim blaming. She's obviously gotten him emotionally hooked on her, so no it's not Brandon's fault for letting this happened.

[@5050TM]

You do realize he's being abused, correct? An abuser latched on to a neglected man because abusers know which victims are easy prey. So how about we don't blame him so harshly? Because he has no understanding of how this is meant to work and he's young and naive. His own godparents don't put their foot down! They should have given a sterner opinion and explanation.

[@NoDustZone]

​@@BingingInPeace-ev3bpstop making excuses ! We all have trauma it's no excuse to be a loser

[@ktrayn78]

The grandfather is setting unrealistic rules so that when they inevitably break them, he can pressure Brandon to marry his granddaughter. He wants to lock in this provider for Mary as soon as possible.

[@kittyroxs]

Ya but I feel like hes already locked in. Like how much more locked in can you get? At this point hes just driving him off.

[@ubiquitousdiabolus]

He’s not making the decisions, Mary is.

[@didie7700]

Agreed! But he’s the provider for the whole family, not just for her…! Just wow. I feel so sorry for him, I hope he will be able to get out of this nightmare.

[@nagratna793]

These asian grandfathers are conservative..

[@ubiquitousdiabolus]

The person providing for the family should be in charge, not some unemployed people with their hands out for money.

[@dianne7184]

This woman is disgusting and he is acting as if he has no brain!! What man would put up with someone like this girl is beyond me...He needs to run before it's too late for him!

[@JC-zy5gg]

I can’t stand Mary

[@Dreabz617]

I think Mary has such a creepy vibe. She seems like she would be the type to hurt ppl when she gets upset :/

[@jazzygirl4140]

She's very creepy. I was watching this thinking about how unsafe I'd feel. I'd try to contact my mom so she could help me get a plane ticket so I could go home immediately.

[@Lemonfluff]

Brandon is such a sweet kid.. yeah he is a bit messed up due to his smucked up childhood/upbringing. But he is sweet, so far honest, respectful.... it sucks he fell in love with someone like Mary who is also messed up and seems calculating, is immature, is deceitful, and definitely is manipulative

[@cuentaccuentos]

He also caused her to have to leave college. He is also controlling and immature. At a different level, but still. Let's not be cynical

[@Lemonfluff]

@saraandkoda after all the lies she has told I wouldn't trust anything that comes out of her mouth. You believe she would not "give up her friends" and found sneaky ways to hang out with them but she would drop out of school knowing it was something that benefited her future, because honestly I don't. Way I see it she's a lazy, toxic girl who figured she could get by with dancing on tik tok and doing nothing but sitting in front of a computer on a life long video call. Why go to college etc when she has chump boyfriend sending her money to build a house and providing for her and her family. Just in the episodes that have aired so far we have seen that she is incapable of accepting responsibility for the crap she does. 1. She knew her grandparents rules and not only did not follow them but then put him in a hard spot when asked what happened when they met. Then when he said look I don't feel good because we kept what actually happened from your grandfather and it's disrespectful she tried to convince him to just stay quiet. If she had any decency and was mature enough to take accountability when grandfather asked she should have said well you know grandpa we did kiss but it was because he didn't know about put customs and having to ask permission. 2. She painted a picture to her friends of "oh I have to disconnect internet and sneak out to hang out with you guys because he is so controlling" to her friends without ever saying she had her part in that as well because she wouldn't let him have friends male or female and he couldn't even visit his mom and sis because she's a jealous freak. When that conversation with her friends came out it seemed that he said she couldn't hang out with guys either because she didn't want him having friends... 3. Even if she lied about the school thing just like with everything else he is not going to out her out because she starts crying and acting like a damsel in distress and he feels the need to protect her. If being cynical is calling out bullcrap behavior then I am the biggest cynic you will ever come across

[@blobbertmcblob4888]

@@cuentaccuentos There is no proof of this beyond her word of mouth and her word of mouth is spotty at best.

[@이지민-j5w]

@@blobbertmcblob4888 Yeah im actually questioning that part too now... Bc she accused him of not allowing her to meet her friend, turned out there was more to the story than what she let us know, now i wonder what actually happened leading to her quitting her dance team and modelling. I'm also wondering why the friends didnt confront him on this, they took the time to call him out on the "not allowing guy friend" but they didnt even mentioned the more serious college scholarship situation? I'm wondering if Brandon really caused that to happen, bc if its true why would any of them treat him well, when they know he is the reason she wont reach her full success as he caused her to not be able to get a proper education and a degree. And how exactly is a dance team related to her losing an opportunity to study is STEM field? Bc she was getting a degree in something related to science right? I have so much questions, but gonna try to remain positive, Maybe i am just overthinking it like Mary and Brandan does to each others LMAO.

[@hemeranyx4441]

I'm a Filipina and this is extremely NOT OKAY!!! Brandon needs to wake up and leave her FOR GOOD!

[@This_handle_is_tak3n]

She also definitely lied about her grandparents’ house getting destroyed. Her plan was always for the grandparents to live there.

[@hiiiimymelody]

I don't think so. I think it's familial pressure but that she desperately wants her own family system with a different lifestyle and expectations than her grandparents expect. She probably feels like she can't say no but I get the impression she wants freedom without rocking the boat too much.

[@tyronesimon3742]

Yup, she's a dishonest liar who tricked him out of his money. He pays for her and her grandparents to have a house and they got the nerve to question his ability to take care of her when he's taking care of all of them

[@theboredprogrammer1114]

I'm a Filipina with a foreign spouse but my god, I am embarrassed about Mary. Not all of us Filipinas are this toxic.

[@Lee-fw9mr]

As a Canadian, Filipino people are the absolute best humans, broadly speaking. They’re the hardest working people with an easy-going attitude and great sense of humour. They treat everyone with great respect and affection. Nurse, office manager, nanny, supervisor of any company…. in my experience the Filipino colleagues are THE BEST. This sounds like reverse-racism… but at my old office…. whenever we were hiring for a new position… my boss would get SO excited if he saw an obviously Filipino name. Our Team was very friendly with each other and a bad-tempered person could easily damage the flow and good vibes. But Filipino colleagues are an automatic asset because of their fun and easy going nature… along with their inspiring work ethic. He would always hire them first lol. And if there were no Filipino people applying, he would lament our Team’s bad fortune lol. Filipino people are the best 👍🏼

[@Moon-0777]

Us filipinos/Filipinas disown her✨️

[@fawnieee]

Honestly, if someone is generalizing your people like that it's a good sign to just avoid them completely. Only people with common sense and are worthy of your time won't generalize a group of people like that, unfortunately there are just a lot of dummies who are very vocal. I get generalized a lot too because of where I was born and I've just used it as a way to avoid people and use it as a sign as to what kind of person they are and to not waste my time.

[@plantera5542]

Yeah... We don't claim her. Maybe the aliens can take her or summ

[@kathvanwinkz]

It's hard to live in the Philippines if you do not have a solid source of income. A farmer don't usually earn enough so I don't know how these two can survive their "fairytale" world without having a real job of their own.

[@sana_saint]

The Philippines has the second highest cost of living in Southeast Asia (first is Singapore). They will need to work. And the wages will be nowhere near as much as Brandon had been earning in the US.

[@jamesrobbins1243]

It also would not be cool for Brandon to take a paying job from a Filipino that needs it. Earning about a buck an hour will not do much.

[@jamesrobbins1243]

The saying goes: If you want a small fortune in the Philippines, come here with a large fortune.

[@annelopez881]

agree

[@minagomez3791]

maybe they have this mentality "LOVE will keep us alive" 🤣😂🤣😂

[@rhut579]

Brandon gives, gives gives and Mary….. takes, takes and takes.

[@dianne7184]

It's so sad that Brandon has been sucked in by this mousey-looking imp! She has a game plan and he is naive enough to be taking it all in. I only hope she shows more of her ridiculous and scary behavior before it's too late for this poor guy...

[@katielee7364]

she lied to him and he was the one who ended up apologizing??? also the fact that he thinks the jealousy is just going to go away on its own just proves how delusional he is, this isn't some Minor thing where they are kind of jealous, these two are so beyond normal jealousy and bordering on one of them could potentially Hurt the other one in a fit of rage due to the Jealousy. when I was in a LDR we both were jealous to the point we got into fights over liking Instagram posts, BUT we never told the other one they weren't allowed to go out with friends nor dictated what they can or can't do. we did get over our insecurities once we moved in together but we had never lied to each other so we had already built a strong base for our relationship.

[@Lemonfluff]

I think reason he always apologizes is because it was mentioned he lived with his father (I'm not sure but he sounded like an abuser) kids growing up with an abusive parent will sometimes get into the habit of apologizing for things even when they have done nothing wrong..... so maybe that's why even when he.knows it's mary the one who smucked up and is in the wrong he apologizes... also because he is so attached to her and in need of affection he is probably afraid if he doesn't apologize he will lose her or she will leave him....

[@Zarastro54]

Let’s be honest here. Mary is the only one at risk of hurting anyone over jealousy.

[@maidenhawaii7619]

I hope EVERY American male watches this couple to see how SOME of these females in the PI operate with the abuse, control and manipulation. I am SO concerned about this young man. Yes, he’s foolish, but it’s likely from his own trauma and lack of guidance as a kid. However, he’s STILL such a good fricken kid. Despite his childhood challenges, he would make any Mother proud of his accomplishments, his behavior, the immense respect he shows and how big his heart is. He deserves so much better. So much better!!

[@Arista177]

There is definitely something about Mary. (She seems to be constantly lying about something).

[@didie7700]

Brandon is a good guy and unfortunately he has no healthy boundaries to protect himself. She’s very manipulative and insincere, probably a narcissist, or at least super toxic. The whole family is using him for their personal gain, while he just wants to be loved and respected. It breaks my heart honestly.😢

[@Emily_Paris]

If it weren’t for Mary’s friends, Brandon wouldn’t have known about the lies until he saw these episodes.

[@Smaugette]

Not like he's gonna leave her.

[@Emily_Paris]

@@Smaugette and she knows it. That’s why she gets away with a lot.

[@candacevonthemua.71]

She’s a narcissist and he’s a simpleton. Period. She’s emotionally and mentally abusive and he’s codependent. It won’t last but that’s his lesson to learn. She will also have him funding the family soon enough if he already isn’t and still not getting a** from her.

[@StarlaBizarre]

She is stringing him along with the promise of intimacy, sex, romance, everything that he needs and desires, when she knows perfectly well exactly what she's going to do when they meet up. It's so manipulative and horrible! She got a house out of it and he gets his blissfully unaware heartbroken because he has no experience in the world :(

[@tommcgill946]

That’s a good point at the end. How sheltered was this boy? I know he had parents that weren’t his but they seemed like descent people.

[@laurenr9659]

Brandan didn't say that he didn't know about the kissing rule because he didn't want to throw Mary under the bus. I respect him for that. Mary is crying because she got caught. Not because she feels remorse.

[@minagomez3791]

right! now she knows his weakness, she's gonna use the "crying effect" for her scapegoat. he gonna be a SUCKER all the time.

[@marcus.g.4273]

How do you know why she is crying? Only she knows... And, Brandon is not a saint. Mary is actually being very nice to Brandon, because she could kick him out at anytime. And, then he would be homeless in the Philippines (which is a nightmare). 😁

[@hospitable_ghost]

Mary's grandfather is being pretty disrespectful to Brandon IMO. The kid paid for the house you live in and came here to "make an honest woman" of your granddaughter, dude. Cut him some slack.

[@jennifreakthompson8888]

Seriously. He's man enough to put a roof over grandpa's wife's head and grandpa's entire family's head... I don't know how to say this without sounding disrespectful but damn. Grow a pair, Brandon. Asap

[@ubiquitousdiabolus]

Sometimes, these types of women blame their parents/ grandparents when in reality, it is the women making all the decisions

[@marcus.g.4273]

"make an honest woman" ? Dude, WTH are you talking about? LOL. You don't know anything about Mary, yet you are implying that she is less than honorable... C'mon dude. SMH. 😁

[@marcus.g.4273]

@@jennifreakthompson8888 I'm 100% sure that Mary and her family were surviving without Brandon... And, if he leaves, they will survive. Where do you think they were living prior to meeting Brandon? ... Answer: IN A HOUSE! ... 😁

[@hospitable_ghost]

@@marcus.g.4273 You don't understand the use of quotation marks, eh? I mean to say that's how her grandfather sees it. It's not how I see it.

[@fender7695]

I respect her friends for being honest. That isn’t easy. They seem like really nice guys and can see how nice of a guy Brandon is deep down. Respect

[@TheWordmerchant]

They're married and she's pregnant, so... good luck. I don't see it working out. She's a mental case.

[@onyx081]

That baby is doomed to a life of misery and dysfunction.

[@marcus.g.4273]

Pregnant? Mary is not pregnant. lol.

[@joannegregory3024]

It s a ridiculous relationship poor child both far too immature

[@joannegregory3024]

Im not being funny but its his house , so technically he can do what he likes

[@abc-mf4jn]

Not mental case at all. Maybe you have to travel to the Philippines and study the norms of the girls. Your judgement is based on western standards, but here is not the US&A. K.I.S It is just a common opportunistic materialistic attitude of a corrupt women culture. Survival by all means!!!

[@Nina01.]

Because Rose is such a sweetheart, they now need to feature the crazy ones to balance things out 😂

[@LisaSoulLevelHealing]

All brandon saw was a pretty face and decided to accept all the toxicity. Great learning lesson for him, lets just jope his shallowness and staying that there is something left.

[@nightshade9184]

Exactly! Men think with the wrong head sometimes. 😂

[@daedalusdiddle2213]

thats a bit judgemental, they both seem to have a lot of issues he seems to be used to this kind of abuse maybe growing up idk, u never know, doesnt mean he is shallow and only wants her for her looks.

[@cuentaccuentos]

@@daedalusdiddle2213 cmon Dont play dumb. You think he would be with someone he didnt consider pretty? He is also shallow, immature and irresponsible.

[@blobbertmcblob4888]

Lmao what?! Typical woman to try and spin it like the man is the bad egg in the relationship LMAO. Do you not see that little bitches behavior? She's toxic as hell, controlling, a massive narcissist.

[@yamomma8560]

and that’s the teaaaaa😂😂😂 they don’t take accountability

[@fetedesneiges6678]

Mary has the emotional intelligence of a 12 year old.

[@minagomez3791]

For real though! 😄

[@OneTwoThreeHitEmInTheknee]

I’d still pipe tho

[@stewartbeveridge5024]

More like a 7 year old

[@5050TM]

Worse than that.

[@blueneptune825]

Poor Brandon deserves a good, sane woman instead of little Mary nutcake.🐿️

[@Kanivalos80]

Cheaters see infidelity everywhere, i hope Brandan has a reality check soon

[@esethuntloko3288]

🎯🎯

[@zoraboo]

She’s manipulating the very people around her to dislike Brandon in order to gain favor. 1. Dad: did not mention that she didn’t tell Brandon the rules 2. Friends: did not mention that she wouldn’t even allow Brandon to see his own family 3. Brandon: makes him feel like she’s the victim, and what exactly happened to all the money Brandon sent her?

[@loki6821]

Honestly, good for the friend telling him the truth about her literally doing whatever she wants with the rules she set herself

[@YaLittleFriend]

Bro code lol

[@gtsound12]

Imagine me paying for the house and I need to impress y’all lol. Yea right. They would need to impress me

[@AngiO-f1s]

Brandan is sweet and respectful and that is gonna benefit him in the long run. I'm sure today he has the grandparents love and respect for how he conducted himself since the beginning.

[@nyawilson7393]

Darn Skippy 😂😂

[@sharonharris9782]

​@@AngiO-f1s😂😂😂😂😂😂 as though he owes them ANYTHING

[@AngiO-f1s]

@@sharonharris9782he doesn't owe them anything but it's nice to see a young man being respectful to his gfs grandparents. Well now they're married and all family.

[@sharonharris9782]

@@AngiO-f1s excuse me, but he also deserves respect. And he's an idiot for marrying her.

[@linettedavis-se8my]

No son of mine would have left the US and married this.

[@THE_Niccolo_Paganini]

I can bet millions that we’re going to see this all season long ! She’s just going to cry and claim that she’s shy when she’s called out 😑

[@erueru6101]

I find her friends exposing her really funny. I expect them to cover up for her but they did anyway. They probably dont like him or something but they did the right thing exposing the truth.

[@Earth2Natalie]

She's a hypocrite and a narcissist, I don't understand how Brandon didn't end the relationship

[@alejandrofigueroa2431]

Maybe b'cuz Brendan is too nice, I guess? IDK.

[@richpoorworstbest4812]

he paid for a house.... BEFORE they had even met??? Bro.... I've lived in Asia for 18 years.... And that's a massive error unless losing 50k is like losing 10 bucks for the average Joe.... This is a 100% set up scam... Poor dude.... I find it hard to believe the camera crew let this crap just happen and not point out the obvious

[@lizlovesafrobeats]

Why would they point it out? It makes for good television

[@richpoorworstbest4812]

@@lizlovesafrobeats and if he starts an Asian dating app, he'll bank retirement in a year

[@marcus79nyc]

She is very deceitful! She wronged him so many times that its not even funny! Is this how a traditional Pinay girl behaves? Not at all!

[@piek359]

This makes me so sad for him, trauma really is the gift that keeps on giving

[@Mika_Maccabi1913]

We already know they got married and she's pregnant soooo it's not matter anyways. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@spoooook]

Doesn't mean the marriage will last 💀

[@pazarancibia548]

What! Really??

[@ratpitt4292]

No way!!!!!

[@nancyjones6780]

😮

[@katielee7364]

well damn I didn't know ....

[@dabestgrandma9843]

Brandan is in for a very long miserable life. Put your tennis shoes on and run!

[@qesther1241]

Brandon is being scammed by Mary and her family.

[@Gmantrini]

Putting a woman on a pedestal, or leading with money is where he's making huge mistakes. She's a manipulative narcissist woman, unfortunately many woman in pinas have similar traits.

[@joannharrington2279]

I can't imagine them having a child. How is he able to stay in the Philippines? Married to a Filipino? What kind of job can he have? I think of them as 17 year old kids not adults.

[@sana_saint]

Both of them can work in BPO. But it will be graveyard hours and ofc nowhere near as much as Brendan can earn in the US.

[@joannharrington2279]

@@sana_saint Thank you

[@JustinJames-v8x]

The more I follow this story the less I feel sorry for Brandon there is no woman who is saying I can't have friends let alone talk to my mother and sister her level of insecurities is a red flag

[@MrCereal19]

Facts, any man that actually loves and respects himself wouldn't look in Mary's direction. If he doesn't fix those issues in himself then he'll always be in those toxic relationships

[@heloouuitsme1533]

This girl makes me so damn aggressive. I just hope, that Brandon will find the right woman, that isn’t narcissistic and gives him as much love as he is giving her.

[@WTFBustahBrown]

It’s too late, she’s pregnant

[@heloouuitsme1533]

no way, really?

[@maejaring]

​@@heloouuitsme1533yea spoiler married and expecting

[@KagomeYasha023]

I bet the baby isn’t even his and it’s going to have a horrible life in this situation

[@maryrose2757]

Maybe the friend wants him to know the truth about Mary's lies cause he pities him as a man.

[@rosalieholderberg]

none of this matters now because they're married ...

[@herefortheshrimp1469]

Divorce is absolutely a thing, tho

[@BahayCasaCreations]

@@herefortheshrimp1469 There is no divorce in Philippines. Annulment or Legal Separation is.

[@sana_saint]

@@BahayCasaCreations Locally there's no divorce. But if one of the parties is a US citizen, they can start the divorce process over in the US, submit the divorce papers here for documentation, and then they can be considered divorced. It happened with Filipino actor Tom Rodriguez (who is a US citizen) and his ex-wife Carla Abellana. They were granted divorce even locally because Tom is a US citizen.

[@fastdeliveryl708]

Imagine paying 60k and she says shes not ready for s3x . 💀

[@katsthename989]

She is so mean to him. I can't stand to watch their story because it is so frustrating. I love your takes because they are so reasonable, good work on the videos!

[@DeViLiShAnGeL116]

To be fair about the spoon feeding. In Filipino culture feeding your loved one whether child or partner is seen as a sweet gesture. Food is a big part of how we show love and preparing food like peeling shrimp or cracking crab for our partner before they eat is sweet. I get her intentions but I also agree that her controlling him is out of line and extremes. She needs to work on her jealousy and insecurities

[@DeViLiShAnGeL116]

Also the wanting to make him chubby is a saying here in the Philippines. They say when a couple gains weight together it means they’re a happy couple. I think that was her intention

[@SRDXXF]

They both have issues but she has more than a questionable character, lies, is dihonest and has already had 60 k.

[@rachelgreen5180]

Mary is so extremely insecure! She wrapped Brandan around her finger, I feel so sorry for him cause he genuinely loves her and sacrificed everything for her. Lost jobs and contact with his whole family for her, how can you get fully controlled like that!? And she can’t even admit her own mistakes and uses him as a shield, he takes all her bullets. Brandan please find some help and get out of this horror asap!

[@BigRett]

he's infatuated with the idea of them together, and she wants nothing to do with him. her body language says it all

[@ubiquitousdiabolus]

She wants his money and her cousin is probably her real husband or boyfriend

[@cliffordovo6341]

This is how you know a man who can’t talk to women. They manage to find someone and they’ll take whatever nonsense that woman throws at them. That’s the only explanation for this nonsense. If Brandon has different women he talks to,he wouldn’t have started this toxic relationship in the first place.

[@Pangaea83]

I swear this a scheme to get Brandon to walk away from the house.

[@LisaSoulLevelHealing]

It would be a solid plan then she can start on the next guy. This lady has absolutely no moral code.

[@sharonharris9782]

​@@LisaSoulLevelHealingshe's already married to him and apparently pregnant.

[@glyphdoctor]

Yeah they have a KZbin channel together now

[@brandonbrown3563]

As a foreigner he couldn't actually own the house. From what I understand about how that works out there he would likely have put it in her name and at most have a lease on it. If they got married in the Phillipines then he is locked in. No divorce allowed there and adultery can be prosecuted

[@Ruth_45]

Most Filipino women are like this i worked with them and there are bullies glad they are being exposed 😂😂😂👍

[@ancconsultant8667]

Hold up so she can get tramp stamp tattoos all over her body and hang out with guys but can’t kiss her boyfriend I’m confused.

[@princessgemz271]

I feel like her entire family is now using him. He paid for their house so he became a cash cow. Maybe it just started with just her but now they’re all in. 😢

[@anarose7193]

Guy code is universal

[@R.O.T.C._SEEM]

Nah dude probably mad because that was his girl and now he gotta ruin things. Justified but shady

[@oaklandmade007]

​@@R.O.T.C._SEEMshady as a mofo💯

[@michellew512]

@@R.O.T.C._SEEMI suspect it was the producers’ doing in this case tbf

[@mistymonsterbite67]

​@@R.O.T.C._SEEMshe's a narcissist so it's redundant anyway

[@Jcope-ce9ef]

Note! you find girls in Philippines with Tatos ,they are not virgins

[@adellis24]

Considering the wedding photos have leaked I think we know where this goes…

[@maricor4791]

its all about the $$$$$, theyre just trapping him into marriage.

[@exirdus9793]

She's manipulative, she breaks all the rules. Even though she enforce brandon to follow all the "rules". She doesn't have respects for her parents, cause she hides everything and does everything in secret This could also be said to his partner brandon. It's a major red flag, cause her sneaking out and hiding secrets isn't something she does rarely. It is already her habit. She does it to her parents, friends, and even to brandon. So her saying "I need to sneak out and lie to you cause I feel alone" it total lie to manipulate him😅 Cause she's a grown liar, she likes to be this victimized fragile little person. "Ooh poor litol ol' me"

[@cmlosaria]

Brandon, mate. I know some westerners are fascinated with brown skin. For all the things you do, Mary on a good day is a two

[@davideaston8314]

Unfortunately he's the living embodiment and definition of "SIMP" - I really hope you finds the self worth and confidence to break free of this toxicity... he deserves a lot more

[@ktp.]

They already got married so he's made his choice to be in this mess.

[@davideaston8314]

@@ktp. One word... *divorce* 😂

[@blobbertmcblob4888]

Yeah I don't think you know what a "Simp" is.

[@davideaston8314]

@@blobbertmcblob4888 It's usually a silly little manchild, with low self esteem, who believes he can buy the love and affection of a girl who is physically way out of his league, all whilst shaming himself by being a beta b1tch, rolling over and taking all types of abuse and never standing up for himself or what's right, because he doesn't think he'll ever do any better than the girl he's put on a pedestal I mean it's not a dictionary definition, and there are variants (obviously), but this guy is a total simp, who's now being absused mentally and emotionally by the girl because he's so simpy and weak, rather than manning the f*ck up and stamping some authority on the situation

[@Duzykutas]

Everyone deserves what they have, its up to them.

[@claudiarobinson6122]

Omg can we start a go fund me to get him out of that country. This is crazy

[@DrthVdr_qt]

never been so early

[@monzu4253]

same

[@bluedouchemark4685]

Yes, shes a 23 year old virgin....with 8 tattoos.

[@WooWoo-co4jf]

I think she was hoping he could just keep sending money and not go live there.

[@DocBree13]

Yep