Masculine Lesbian Stereotypes W/ SIYA

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Wassup....I'm Amber and I'm a Weirdo! I make videos that range from challenges, comedy skits, motivational videos, fashion, vlogging my everyday life, LGBT topics, and more. I'm comfortable with who I am, and I'm not afraid to be open to the world. I first started my channel to help others that may be struggling with their identity, to break stereotypes, as well as to showcase my unique androgynous/tomboy style.
Since I started, it's turned into so much more....and I truly LUV and appreciate my followers and supporters. Welcome to the AmbersClosetArmy!

[@Aceoftradezs]

I feel for Siya, it’s sad that in 2018 we still have to deal with shit like that. Glad she held her own, and the black eye doesn’t look bad on her lol

[@sadetucker2094]

Ayry D I actually thought it was a birthmark or something at first. It's sad what people will do because they don't feel good about themselves.

[@lateshiachilds3640]

Yeah I agree it took me a while to notice, poor Siya.

[@alleydaprince]

I had to pause the video for a bit after Siya explained what happened to her eye. I don't even know her like that and I'm ready too fight for her😠. Glad she stood her ground. Great video guys!

[@lateshiachilds3640]

Me too she seem so sweet that is just sad.

[@annakaywright5231]

Didn’t notice Siya eyes until she said something 😫 that’s how I know I be minding my business 😅

[@bratw8001]

Well, Amber is so fine and it is very hard to take your eyes off her ;)

[@Kbatl1997]

Brat W ehhhhhh nah i seent shawty eye off the rip

[@niyawillard1245]

Anna'Kay Wright same

[@LovingSoul61]

Lmao me too😂

[@reereedeedee]

Same until I read it in the comment section

[@alllivesmatter8407]

Im so sorry Siya was treated like that for her sexuality, but thrilled she held her own and beat the shit out of them. Her music is dope, and even though I just discovered her music, I love her personality and attitude about life. She is a very beautiful lady. Take care Siya! Keep the wonderful music coming.

[@AmbersCloset]

Do you guys agree?? What other subjects or stereotypes would you like my friends and I to tackle?

[@AshaCattette]

Ambers Closet I’m so glad you and Siya did this video and touched, no pun intended, the story behind her eye. And Siya got her tooth fixed, I peeped that, got that Colgate smile poppin!!!

[@leloniesmith7517]

Ambers Closet studs always feeling like they need to be in competition instead of homies lol, studs & pleasure in the bedroom, maybe some advice for younger lesbians out here that are more masculine but love you both definitely role models ✊🏽

[@moonlightrai]

Stereotypes? I don't deal with them. However, I like the dynamics between you and your sister. Love the Sister Tags. I would like to see more of them. Have a good one :)

[@bratw8001]

Ambers Closet hmmmm my stereotype that people always apply to me is that I am bisexual even though I am so gay. I think I have an androgynous look but many say I have a fem look?? Lol

[@nicolewebber2869]

Clothing. Like when you’re androgynous and meet a femme while you’re in masculine clothes then she gets upset when you meet up in short shorts, a dress, or a two piece.

[@Iamjustkina]

This is the dopest friendship and collaboration in KZbin history!!! Facts!!!!!!!

[@bubbly912]

It is a great friendship along with Ari Fitz👌

[@savannahmuniz3421]

When ambers muscles shine 😫😅❤️

[@MrsSoftLifeGirly]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@kimw8056]

Think about this, any man that puts his hands on a woman, lesbian or straight, lacks confidence in himself as a man. He's a coward that went after weak prey. *NOT CALLING ANY WOMAN WEAK!! It's just biologically we're not as strong as men. So in his mind he's seeing easy prey* Karma will get him in the end.

[@moonlightrai]

Agree.

[@SwAgGerSoNgZ]

So Called Black Man you like jail huh

[@SwAgGerSoNgZ]

So Called Black Man negative, come correct

[@SwAgGerSoNgZ]

So Called Black Man what insecurities? Lol. These comebacks are lame af

[@SwAgGerSoNgZ]

So Called Black Man lame. Try again

[@navadanp]

I’ve been with my gf for 12 years. We’ve developed this unspoken understanding of feeding off of each other’s vibes. Some days I feel feminine compared to my usual masculine self and she picks up on that and might pay for dinner or plan something for us.

[@ndimyndimystic9336]

Aweeee. I lovvvee that.❤😌

[@heyapple13]

Amber is looking very moisturized, she is not playing with this winter air. I see you, can’t let that African ash get the best of us

[@haizekhaze8868]

Jules truee

[@shaleicerussell3995]

Jules OMG that is the first thing I noticed

[@MyBluebonnet]

I was saying the same thing to myself!!!! THE GLOW! LOL

[@AmbersCloset]

🤣🙌🏽

[@EdwinaLondon]

Jules 😂😂😂😂She came prepared! Not getting caught out.

[@domo3491]

I think this is the first time I've seen a black eye that isn't painted on for special effects. It looks painful as heck, but she plays it off as if it's nothing. I'm in awe.

[@dominiquebutler3704]

i didn’t even see that black eye at first i was staring at her teeth! they so pretty😍

[@kenichiishirahama215]

Siya has such lovely, healthy hair 😭😭😩😩😩❤️❤️❤️

[@isabellabeam2582]

Another stereotype is that the masculine women is the top like personally I’m more tom boyish but omg I’m such a bottom like girl like being and dominant and in control is so hot to me!!!

[@Livmylifelivi]

MY THOUGHTS/FEELINGS EXACTLY. i thought i was the only one.

[@E.RHYMES]

Confusion......

[@jkally1]

Exactly! I'm more feminine and attracted to more masculine women but I love to take care of someone and be that dominant person in the relationship

[@Nomaymes]

My girlfriend and I are both masculine. We have both dated femmes before and yeah, it's the same experience with femmes not wanting to pull their part, I know this isn't always the case, but most of the lesbian relationships out here in LA are def 80/20 relationships. Its great being with my masculine lesbian girlfriend because we both take turns being daddy. Daddy in the streets and Zaddy in the sheets 👌

[@silk62004]

Lex Lopez ...I can relate. FEMME here and I sent my ex a STUD, some flowers once. And she acted all hard with her bro, as if I was crazy. But on the cool, she kept those flowers. Her problem, she always been in a 80/20 relationship. Didn’t know how to deal with a woman in a 50/50 relationship who is not afraid to pick up the tab at dinner or treat her special. Let’s keep it real, she was Always DADDY between the sheets.

[@snaptime88]

Lex Lopez saammmee

[@lateshiachilds3640]

I'm so curious to be in a lesbian relationship, I'm about to move to the west coast soon hopefully I can find a beautiful stud.

[@pinkcloudsnightlightbell]

:) Giving people their flowers while they're alive...LIT RALLY💞💞💞😭😭😭😭💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞

[@BrittaneyBoss]

Ain’t nothing like your own kind.

[@christhesoprano]

Siya got a whole black eye and she still fine as shit. Yo..., how ?! 😩

[@natashacragun2091]

Chris I know right ?

[@jocelynhines8580]

Chris right oms

[@forthluv]

Chris yea....

[@Kashleighsays]

Riiiiiiight!!!😍✨

[@jessicaeverett5829]

Right omg

[@chan2009ify]

I love Siya she's such a sweet and relatable person

[@Kbi84]

Been with the same person 11 years (he is male). Every year, we switch who pays on Valentine day and it's my year. It's important to do things for each other.

[@AmbersCloset]

Keresten Booker thats beautiful!

[@Kbi84]

Ambers Closet if you only knew the trials we went thru to get here.... you would know how beautiful. Love him to death

[@myhextixmind8632]

That's dope.

[@moontears3887]

For a man? Nah.

[@youtubecompilations6731]

It's 2018 and we getting jumped because how we dress or our sexuality smh 🤦

[@youtubecompilations6731]

LORD IKHNATON ATON she ain’t acting like a man she is happy to be a woman clothes don’t mean shit

[@huntinggirl1549]

LORD IKHNATON ATON sooo men get jumped regularly. Yes she is more masculine but thats no reason to get jumped.

[@huntinggirl1549]

LORD IKHNATON ATON yes but that makes the people who did it sound incredibly stupid.

[@huntinggirl1549]

LORD IKHNATON ATON fine wrong word. It is dumb that she would get jumped on for being masculine. Jesus christ. Is it a possibility? Yes but still what are you trying to say by that

[@huntinggirl1549]

LORD IKHNATON ATON why are you dragging this on. Alao how exactly is fighting someone treating them like a man. And if it is good to know that men on the street regularly fight because of how they look

[@TalksWithTJ]

Love the video! I remember the stereotypes from high school because I've always had a tomboy style (not gay, married to my husband 3 years now) and thought why not just let people dress how they want. Hell guys clothes are more comfortable and as an athlete sweats were just life. To think like so many said we are in 2018 and people are so closed minded to think how someone dresses is their concern or invokes that kind of rage is insane. It's disappointing truly. Glad Siya is ok. And Yes Amber has been in that gym heavy. Seen her repping pullups on her IG post. Gotta keep that gym grind going!

[@chan2009ify]

Amber came back with the heat and brought Siya with her. Love this!! 🔥

[@donnabrown1549]

I would give you flowers Amber.

[@cocoababe5112]

The fact that she got jumped because of how she dresses😐😐That shit pissed me oooffffff, let me finish watching the video😂💯

[@ashleymmo21]

Agreed. Y’all should also talk about the hyper masculinity within masculine women who do in fact want to be harder than a man. I’ve never felt the need to alter my personality just cuz I’m a “stud.” The same way I was when i was “femme” is the same way i still am as a “stud.” I was naturally masculine even as a femme, which is why I knew that wasn’t me. Anyways just a lil rant from the other side, but yes I do agree with this video hands down. I’m still a woman who is also part of “boi” culture but still have a strong grasp on my womanhood.

[@AmbersCloset]

ashleymmo21 yessss! Definitely🙌🏽

[@pinkcloudsnightlightbell]

I don't know. As long as you are not causing harm in your masculine presentation both in terms of just being yourself and being someone's lover I don't think we should pick apart how people express their gender identity. UNLESS It's harming others or disruptive. It takes a long time to understand how we relate to womanhood or manhood (or if those things even apply at all sometimes those words sound like Martian Language lmao) so it would be helpful to get into these conversations intentionally not prescribing things hoping for specific partners to come into our lives and, secondly, not automatically equating hypermasculinity with an outsize evil that needs to be avoided; sure it's shitty and needs to be worked thru...but idk I just have a lot of empathy. Journeys to embody ourselves, defend ourselves from cisgendered culture, identify our boundaries and call ourselves the right thing = TOO layered. Lol.

[@buakawbanchamek6160]

Yo ashley ure veryyyy honest to the point that u criticize the masculine culture . Bald

[@julissaruizvlogz]

Do things for Daddy 2018 🗣🗣🗣!!! they’re preaching lmfao !

[@AmbersCloset]

Julissa Ruiz 🙌🏽👏🏽✊🏽

[@mmmwithlids7089]

been obsessed w amber and her laugh since like 2016 and here we are.... 2020..... still severely obsessed 😒😔

[@sad_vegan507]

I wish I had the confidence and style to dress like y’all. Siya has crazy dope style I love it

[@akittynamedcat]

siya is chillllll af and so cute my goodness she's the whole package, and Amber you're GLOWING.

[@silk62004]

OMG, SIYA, 😮 😃 😭!!! Can’t believe my eyes. SIYA THANKS Amber for bringing us SIYA.

[@jknoxthefox]

YASS love me some SIYA

[@loveme658]

Siya please please please start daily vlogs

[@MaryAliceBrandonHale]

"I LOVE ORCHIDS BRUH" LMAO i loved it ♥

[@SmileItsGoodForYou99]

Wow, Siya is so dope. Just saw her in the new purge & she’s a badass in that movie.

[@sammygg473]

I’m in high school I’m also a butch lesbian 🏳️‍🌈 and everyone tells me that I want to be a boy because the way I dress that’s definitely not the case I’m 100% comfortable in my body as a girl it’s just my personality and what I love to wear🤷‍♀️🌸

[@ChobMiss]

that's great keep doing you !!

[@EdwinaLondon]

Something nice Volgs Exactly! I’m a heterosexual woman and dress like a tomboy most of the time. Doesn’t mean I’m lesbian. Stereotypes huh 🙄

[@tiathompson6674]

With you EdwinaLondon...........tomboy and an athlete. Straight as fuck, get accused of the Lesbianism all the time.

[@thesilentdiva]

And even if u did why is that their biz, i don't get ppl

[@ndimyndimystic9336]

Me too bro. That shit annoying. And it was told to me enough to where I actually started believing that shit and I was looking at Female to Male transitioning. Then I don't know, it just snapped like what am I doing? I like being a girl. I like having titties and a vagina. I like being a girl, so why am I here fooling myself, why did I let these people alter my perspective on myself like that? Why did I slip away from my nature so much like that.

[@twinjawns1999]

the fact that amber is so down for her friends and family is so dope yo, she was like " do you remember the?" need more ppl like that nowadays

[@hershey2live]

I just screamed like a fool. I love Siya.😍😍😍

[@zethandosamkety1039]

I love her too

[@deedeesmexilife861]

I love these two...just mature and grown..and about their business...I love it

[@kyleehahsherrese9048]

I'm rlly angry at the fact that siya had to go through that! And it's true women are stronger!! Oh by the way siya i know the perfect way of getting rid of that black eye, buy a aloe Vera plant love ya!!! ❤❤

[@stacis2520]

I think it’s important to keep up with the little things for our loved ones. I’ve been with my husband for 23 years, and my wife for 4. I make sure to buy little gifts and do things for them both all the time. They both comment about how special I make them feel. ❤️ I love them and I want to make sure they know it!

[@myuna6378]

Please do more videos together. With Siya. She has infectious laughter

[@sassywilliams7309]

THANK GOD SIYA YOU ARE SAFE!! STAY BLESSED BOTH AMBER AND YOU!

[@Themelanineducator]

Amber and Siya! 2 of my favorite people💖

[@justice_rizzo]

I remember back in the days i use to see Siya perform at a small spot called Tempermental in NY before she was famous. Always nice n humble. God bless her n i wish her much more success.

[@LINKXWORKOUT]

HONESTLY I have been a big fan of Siya and shes an amazing artist. I just came across your channel again Amber and used to watch your videos all the time literally for like 2 and a half years. I cant believe your not at 1 MIL, your content is great and your such a inspirational youtuber. Keep doing your thing! LGBT all day been with my girl for almost 4 years now! 💛💛💛But yes I agree my girl is more masculine and I buy her roses 👅

[@LovingSoul61]

😍😍😍 you’re both so beautiful I’m really excited to see that the world is becoming more free and explorative about gender and self expression

[@Golden_Glamourzon]

SIYA IS FIYA! Smooches to you Amber..luv your channel and how you discuss issues and you keep it 100! I have been watching you on the YT for some years now and it's always a pleasure. Many blessings to you and yours :-)

[@ashleywynn7349]

both Siya & Amber are both attractive

[@annsollia1893]

Just be you and acceptance is most important. Towards everyone

[@myhextixmind8632]

Amber with the Aaliyah shirt >>>>>>>

[@emmjay551]

OOOOH MY GOD SIYA ON YOUR CHANNEL, WHAT A BLESSING!!!😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@divineselfentity]

SIYA'S HAIR IS BEAUTIFUL. LET'S US JUST TAKE OUT THE TIME TO STILL APPRECIATE HER BEAUTY EVEN THO OF HER TEMPORARY ADVERSITY. GOD WILL HELP HER HEAL.

[@AlizeMerchant]

AMBER LOOKIN FIIIINE ALL OILED UP TF

[@laikezzou7255]

I can't believe those guys did that in Hollywood. That's messed up. Too bad you don't remember them cause Amber's arms look like they've been hitting the gym. If only y'all could find those dudes and not necessarily beat them but make em' feel small like. Make them feel stupid for what they did. Still, I wouldn't be mad if you punched them.

[@AmbersCloset]

Laike Zzou I woyuld make them feel dumb and small....& then knock their ass out

[@laikezzou7255]

Captain, I have no doubt you would.

[@lialupov114]

Laike Zzou, they should not only b Mae feel small (cuz they are), what they did is a hate crime and they should be prosecuted.

[@pinkcloudsnightlightbell]

For real

[@the.g9818]

If you genuinely didn't clock on to the black eye, it doesn't mean you're minding Ur own business, it's moreso means you're not very observant. Minding one's business doesn't necessarily mean your non-observant, it means that you don't interfere, enquire, or fixate on that thing. But for example, If a person has a BLACK EYE, then it's actually ok... To CARE... Even if you know they may not want to talk about it. If a person just walked around outside with bruises on they body, and No-ONE not one soul even notices or Enquires in a loving manner, then I think that person would feel some kind've way. If you're only gonna ask or consistently look coz U just want the TEA and to GOSSIP then THAT'S selfish. It's a bit like saying u know homeless people exist, but you're a person who "minds their own business" so you don't enquire, you don't help and you just walk past them. If a person needs help and you have ability to do something even if it's small then perhaps "minding my own business" is not the best approach m8

[@TheRealMissBecky]

Siya I didn’t even see your eye,pray it heals well. Amber I’ve been binge watching your channel haha

[@ness0421]

I love your channel!!!!! Such a breath of fresh air... All the big young tubers are doing the same thing. Thanks for being different.

[@Linds1.9.0.8.]

I loveeeee SIYA!!!! And I hear that SIYA “it’s not goin down like that” they tried that lol 😂😂😂

[@nealkelsey9313]

I love how chill SIYA is.

[@VanessaAttah]

can't tell y'all how many studs/ masc of center women I've dated that literally could not name a time they've been taken out or been bought an actual gifts by their exes. literally payed for chik-fil-a one day for someone and she was mad grateful. chick-fil-a. @ fems, pls do better. do stuff for ur woman, a little goes a long way.

[@brookielych3917]

you two should start a podcast, I'd listen to you all day

[@izzyn9000]

I'm sorry Siya for what happened!! You are a STRONG WOMAN🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👑❤🔥

[@jas_allmighty7219]

Siya’s music is actually good👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@andilexaba7925]

I love Siya so much damn

[@Luceceleste]

I’m so sorry that happened to you Siya 😞 I’m glad it didn’t escalate to anything further then your black eye!

[@sue8935]

PREACH THAT SHIT TODAY!!!!!!! Being dominant or masculine does not mean that we are men. It should be 50/50. Now if a woman starts off doing everything then sadly she sets the pace for that relationship. Never start off in a way that you know you are not comfortable with just to impress a woman. Make it known from the start what expectations are if you both are getting serious. It is the same for dating. Dating does not mean the more masculine female should have to pay all the time. It does not mean you are cheap, but it sets the tone for you believing in a 50/50 input across the board. Just the same a dominant woman should not have any problems doing domestic chores. No one is assigned to any function unless it is something that is agreed upon due to comfort level or "abilities". Anyway, good topic and keep up the good work.

[@nadeidgedorcelus9607]

I remember sia from this hip hop show she’s a rapper. I remember sia and bia love you sia

[@kaevee3091]

I Just saw you in The Purge! Keep doin ya thing Siyah!!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@alexandrasmileyy1506]

So awful knowing human beings are capable of such evil !! I've been binge watching amber and Arielle & I am a straight female. You always hear about the progress and how far the LGBTQ community has come that I think people don't realize how much FURTHER we (as people) need to go. So flippin' scary to think in the year 2018, in a place such as cali , that a person could possibly be attacked just for living their true unapologetic beautiful life. My heart goes out to anyone who has to deal w this or even fears dealing with us. I support happiness. 💗 as long as what you do isn't hurting someone else then live your truth !!

[@Xarroyo01]

I learn a lot watching your vids. Not only does it help me to be able to express myself in a manner where it makes sense. My 1st language was Spanish. So is a lil challenge for me sometimes to answer questions in a way ppl will understand. Nonetheless respect the content. Much love from Modesto Ca✊

[@katringlass2140]

maan this helped me so much! always been masculine and it's just good to hear others feel like this. ugh thanks giirrllsss 💖💖

[@kyleehahsherrese9048]

Omg I screamed when I seen siya on the thumb nail!!!!!!!!! Aaaaaaahhhh I love both of you! 👀😍😍😍🤑😩👑👑

[@_b.a.a.b.a]

I know I'm two years late but how do you attack someone because of how they dress or for their sexuality like mind your business and do you

[@picassosdaughter3626]

This is content. I like the smooth transitions from topic to topic. Idk if that was planned but I also enjoyed watching a video about interesting women.

[@chelseathomas6401]

MY TWO FAVES TOGETHER AAAHHHH LOVE Y'ALL KEEP GRINDING

[@teelc7044]

Amber and them gains though!! 💪💪💪

[@BreeZsWorld]

Damn Siya sorry you had to go through that

[@sdsinclair21]

Both of my loves in the same space. Siya

[@k.network8617]

When Siya said she ain't eating no bugs when Amber said that the food is from South Africa 😑. Hai Siya!! That's my hood dawg

[@mahnidavis]

Siya outfut is fire!🔥

[@TheRealPocahontasDaddii]

Orchid is my favorite flower too

[@YaaliEboni]

Yes, please more videos with SIYA. (when both of y'all are free to do so) I LOVE Y'ALL!

[@kateo5846]

SIYA's smile after she says "I'm a cutie"....i got the feels

[@cynthiar1977]

I love your shirt Amber! Siya hair is too lucious

[@luckduck913]

Love you SIYA your music and your movies you are awesome I just saw you in the last purge

[@lolaimon8225]

I freakin love me some Siya 😩😍😍😍

[@jennyh918]

That ending was adorable...

[@PsychedPerspective]

Great video and topic. Really appreciate y’all perspectives. Siya, I am sorry that mess happened and you endured that. Smh 🤦🏽‍♂️ ppl are pathetic and hateful in this society.

[@EmmeIsNotHere]

That’s ridiculous!!!! I’m so sorry Siya. Like I’m ready to go back where they were at like “who did it?!”

[@mcbridedominique43]

Beautiful women 😭💖

[@karlaivonne6255]

I always thought so. I don’t care if my girl masculine I still show up to her job with flowers or just get her things she likes. Even if it’s her favorite kind of chocolate. It’s the details and showing appreciation to your partner.

[@zarinazawa6180]

It’s great to share gifts it’s doesn’t matter who your with and I love the meet me half way parts too. Of course I think studs want some nice flowers too and nice trinkets.

[@k.network8617]

"Cause I'm virgin" ... 😂😂😂 I died

[@misspoet33]

I love this, people always assume that I'm a certain way based on how I look. Btw, love flowers too! Thankfully my lady knows this, and has surprised me a couple of times with flowers and little gifts. Thanks for the video!

[@juliane.alexander619]

Siya's smile at 9:19 on this video is impeccable., or is it just ME!?

[@lexi12375]

I love SIYA!!😍

[@chloexxx4366]

Ambers muscles 😂

[@defenderoffreespeechpronra336]

The most awesome way to have a child with your partner is for YOU to donate the egg and HER to carry your baby. That way, there is an emotional/physical tie that is unbeatable in an equal partnership. Its the only way I would do it if I was gay. This can also work in reverse, baring any physical problems in not being able to get pregnant. In a hetero relationship, one donates and one carries the baby.

[@Lostnchocolate]

I love Siya😩😍 but people be bugging, y’all speaking facts😌

[@lateshiachilds3640]

I'm attracted to both men and women, never been into studs until I saw Siya, Syd from the Internet, and now Amber.....wow. poor Siya I didnt notice her eye I was looking at her smile and hair.

[@Britt21]

Honestly. This is a truthful topic to bring up for lesbian relationships and how its always stereotyped. 👌🏽✊🏽👏🏽 Defiently, at the end of the day we are masculine women.

[@RoraBambina]

Loved this! I need me some more Siya 😍

[@toniehgorgla9329]

I swear y'all speaking nothing but facts