Fems Ask Studs the Questions they always wanted to ask w/ CA$E (pt 2)

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AmbersCloset

AmbersCloset

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@goldensunshine8693
@goldensunshine8693 3 жыл бұрын
Let's appreciate Ambers maturity and mindset. She's intelligent and educative
@KenedeYoung
@KenedeYoung 3 жыл бұрын
As a bi-girl, I personally don’t compare men to women. I compare women to women and men to men. They both create different dynamics and to me they’re incomparable.
@purplebutterflikisses
@purplebutterflikisses 3 жыл бұрын
I agree 💯
@Ceeofdreams
@Ceeofdreams 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed 🖤
@r300-p1k
@r300-p1k 3 жыл бұрын
💯👊🏾
@Livmylifelivi
@Livmylifelivi 3 жыл бұрын
As a lesbian who knows where they are coming from, I think it’s that we don’t want a bisexual girl to start missing being with men & feel like they aren’t getting all of what they desire since they crave men too
@ebonylafrance
@ebonylafrance 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly, it logically doesn’t make sense to compare Women and men in a relationship because we are built completely different. Bi girls get so much hate when cheating is wrong PERIOD …. If someone is a cheater, they are going to cheat regardless and shouldn’t matter what sex you are cheating with. There’s so many stereotypes about Bi women that it’s hilarious at times 😂🤣😂😂. I can only speak for myself but there are bisexual girls who are committed to their relationship. Those are the things that you need to communicate to your partner if you are not being fulfilled. If your connection is strong there should be no cravings for being with another male or female at all. There’s so many reasons why people step out on their relationships and cheat but using someone sexual orientation as the reason why they cheated is crazy to me. Lesbians go through the same shit all the time but it’s so dramatic when is a Bi women smh.
@julzalta6466
@julzalta6466 3 жыл бұрын
Us bi people don't have a need for men. We just like who we like, no matter their gender. So don't be afraid, if a bi person is into you, they're into you.
@justb1761
@justb1761 3 жыл бұрын
I agree
@franchesskaw36
@franchesskaw36 3 жыл бұрын
💯💯
@jaempire9543
@jaempire9543 2 жыл бұрын
💯
@julzalta6466
@julzalta6466 2 жыл бұрын
Just to be clear, I'm not that bi anymore lol, I'm more lesbian. But I think it's still true.
@savagebull9183
@savagebull9183 Жыл бұрын
So you're pan sexual?
@leahs1550
@leahs1550 3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate the honesty here bc it feeds a larger conversation about how some lesbians equate bisexuality to non monogamy or promiscuity. That view of bisexual women is fueled by the male gaze. This conversation is an example of how even women loving women can adopt some form of toxic masculinity.
@nthatimabena2
@nthatimabena2 3 жыл бұрын
Amen! I appreciate the honesty too but it’s also quite disappointing 😪
@ima.m.1658
@ima.m.1658 3 жыл бұрын
@@nthatimabena2 Same. I felt uncomfortable when they talked about fems hitting on masc women and said they like it when we’re shy and innocent. Why can’t we be assertive instead of shy and innocent? That doesn’t mean aggressive, just confident.
@Seagazin
@Seagazin 3 жыл бұрын
THIS!!!
@Mellovesdeep25
@Mellovesdeep25 3 жыл бұрын
Agree
@CG-ke6og
@CG-ke6og 3 жыл бұрын
It’s actually about some lesbians being turned off & un-attracted to bisexuals… it’s a turn off for some people believe it or not.
@Seagazin
@Seagazin 3 жыл бұрын
I wanna shout out amber for defending the bisexuals!! There’s so many gender expressions even WITHIN “women.” There’s comparisons between more masc and femme women, nb etc! To so many bi and pan ppl… it’s frustrating for ppl to assume because we don’t really discriminate gender that we would then be too demanding of specific genders because they can’t “provide” what another can…. It feels like we can’t win. I want the lesbians to not be scared of me!! 🥺
@justb1761
@justb1761 3 жыл бұрын
Well said💯
@franchesskaw36
@franchesskaw36 3 жыл бұрын
💯💯👏🏾💯👏🏾
@olatundebanjoko7023
@olatundebanjoko7023 3 жыл бұрын
>333
@royalblue6747
@royalblue6747 3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@MezmorizingAura
@MezmorizingAura 3 жыл бұрын
I feel you
@LS-kx7ph
@LS-kx7ph 3 жыл бұрын
The biphobia is real 👀 if someone's gonna leave you, they're gonna leave you, whether it's for a girl or a guy
@Seagazin
@Seagazin 3 жыл бұрын
THIS!! Being pan or bisexual doesn’t mean you’re more likely to cheat. If you’re into “one side” that still leaves u with over 3.5 billion ppl u could theoretically cheat on vs 7 billion. When u see it that way, if the person is gonna cheat they’d do it anyways. UGH
@jkally1
@jkally1 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@LS-kx7ph
@LS-kx7ph 3 жыл бұрын
​@@Seagazin yes exactly! and why would you want someone to stay with you just because they have less people to leave you for? wouldn't you wanna be with someone who sees you as their top pick regardless?
@Seagazin
@Seagazin 3 жыл бұрын
@@LS-kx7ph exactly! this paints bisexuals as ppl always looking for something better.. WHAT?? It’s a sexuality. Doesn’t say anything inherently on loyalty at ALL.
@incognitox9551
@incognitox9551 3 жыл бұрын
Sure... there's something called a bi-cycle
@karlasalazar4868
@karlasalazar4868 3 жыл бұрын
Y’all should start a podcast, “talking with ca$e” I would definitely listen to it!
@_kimmikim_
@_kimmikim_ 3 жыл бұрын
Podcast is a great idea 🙌🏾
@cooki3monstrrr
@cooki3monstrrr 3 жыл бұрын
Yeees 🙌🏽
@ItsKaylaFleury
@ItsKaylaFleury 3 жыл бұрын
Yesss!
@Luv.Damoni
@Luv.Damoni 2 жыл бұрын
omg yes!!!
@lafleurl4514
@lafleurl4514 3 жыл бұрын
Biphobia is real in the LGBTQPlus community. If a stud is secure in her/themselves then what's the problem. I think the mistrust stems from insecurities.
@tg2575
@tg2575 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed! It's quite sad.
@AmbersCloset
@AmbersCloset 3 жыл бұрын
That was my point exactly. But most don’t see it as that, they see it as them protecting themselves from future “hurt”…but I definitely think we have more work to do in the community by filling our own cups & finding our own confidence in ourselves to feel more secure. So we can focus on our dynamic together instead all the other things that don’t matter
@lafleurl4514
@lafleurl4514 3 жыл бұрын
@@AmbersCloset exactly 💯 👏
@shirmeldanielle2161
@shirmeldanielle2161 3 жыл бұрын
I think that most of them acknowledge that. I think it is easier for femme because they don't have the thought of being compared to a man ... so they know whats up. But yea, the bi-phobia is VERY real in the community
@lagrenounouille
@lagrenounouille 3 жыл бұрын
Definitely. This video is a tough one to watch, not because of the prejudice and stereotyping, but because of the lack of self-reflection. I get their fear, but I wouldn't ever utter the things they're saying without being clear on where they come from - my own insecurities.
@lagrenounouille
@lagrenounouille 3 жыл бұрын
This one must be hurtful to watch for bi people. It ctually makes me feel frustrated and sad for all the lovely bi people I know. I think that you guys should adress your own insecurities and maybe take a look at your dating pattern if you have a thing for cheaters, or for women who actually prefer men. People cheat for various reasons, but being attracted to more than one gender is not one of them. It's about character, honesty, maturity, values, empathy, dignity etc. not about sexual orientation. (This is not adressed at Amber though, who seems very wise in this respect)
@justb1761
@justb1761 3 жыл бұрын
This was actually hard to watch as a bisexual woman. There is so much hate out there. I am a little disappointed but shout out to Amber because she respectfully addressed the topic and u could see she was being respectful
@lagrenounouille
@lagrenounouille 3 жыл бұрын
@@justb1761 I'm sorry there's this kind of hypocrisy in our community. We should know better than to project our insecurities onto a whole demographic. Hope you have many self-aware lesbians in your life.
@coolkelpie
@coolkelpie 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for saying this! Yeah, as a bisexual woman this was really hard to view! The biphobia and hypocrisy is next level 😔😔
@Wicked1xX
@Wicked1xX 3 жыл бұрын
@@justb1761 It's all you see all over Tik Tok too, mostly from studs, who will date a straight woman, but not Bi. It's like, make it make sense 🤔. I can appreciate Ezee's explaining, but it's something I've been seing a lot lately on social media
@uznamalunga
@uznamalunga 3 жыл бұрын
Well said . And yes it was hurtful to watch.
@keturahprowell4704
@keturahprowell4704 3 жыл бұрын
Appreciate the honesty. All views I’ve heard about bisexuals before - I’m bi. The only surprising idea was that some women would go after a straight woman but not a bisexual one b/c you “know what to expect”. That’s wild. Lol shawty will break your heart before I would. If you and your partner are secure in yourself then you're good. Otherwise you can always swipe left...
@franchesskaw36
@franchesskaw36 3 жыл бұрын
💯💯
@SpaztasticSheep
@SpaztasticSheep 2 жыл бұрын
But I think with straight women, they know not to be emotionally invested, so that's the difference
@himesilva
@himesilva Жыл бұрын
Exactly, plus like... if she's sleeping with you in the first place then she's not completely straight, ya know? It's a spectrum after all
@__orlando__
@__orlando__ 3 жыл бұрын
The thing is Crissa's mostly describing a straight woman. If there's something you feel you "need" from men that you can't get from women, then your relationships will always center men. If you can't be with women without constantly thinking of what they lack then you're not bisexual. I hate when bisexuality isn't acknowledged as capable of having the same full love for women that lesbianism does, my attraction to men is irrelevant. I think of women as full people, not men without dicks, and I think this misconception is where a lot of biphobia comes from, and especially relates to the fear studs have of us. People contain multitudes, can we move on?
@aimia100
@aimia100 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with this fully, and I also want to add a detail: that girl could also end up being _only_ homosexual, but not homoromantic. so in that case, it’s likely she could be straight, but it’s also likely she’s still bisexual, but she just hasn’t figured out what _type_ of attraction she holds towards women and other genders. so it’s real important for both parties to communicate what things they seek out of the relationship, and look inward into themselves for some pointers.
@cottoncandyhg8517
@cottoncandyhg8517 3 жыл бұрын
To hear lesbians rather go after straight woman than us is just horrible. Bi phobia is hella real. We all go through a hoe phase, especially in just coming out and realizing and tryna get any an all experience. Everyone is attractive just because we are attracted to both doesn't mean we always want both. Trust if I could choose who my Sophia reacts to I would but if I'm into someone she only reacts to that person!
@SpaztasticSheep
@SpaztasticSheep 2 жыл бұрын
Tbf, I think with straight girls it's like you get what you expect, so they can't be disappointed
@queen68756
@queen68756 2 жыл бұрын
I agree totally but as I was listening to ezee it dawned in my mind that with straight woman they see it as more or a challenge like they like the chase and start feeling themselves if they turn a straight woman “gay” even though they’re probably gonna go back to dudes. Where as they see being with bisexual woman as it’s not as much of a chase it isn’t that hard cause they already like girls and they just finna leave me and go with a dude.It’s still dumb and unfair but I think I understand what they were saying
@j.elixir6089
@j.elixir6089 2 жыл бұрын
Ain’t no all of nothing go through a hoe phase. Childish mindsets do
@justb1761
@justb1761 3 жыл бұрын
I think the problem is studs turn to think that bisexual women compare them to men, presumably but we don't. We may not even be in that mindset and u could just be thinking for us. Personally, I used to get attracted to masculine women up until I realised that they feel like it's a comparison thing even though I would date a girl alone , at a time, like I wasnt dating both a guy and a girl at the same time. Now I just prefer to date other bisexual women because I feel like we understand eachother. The struggle is real for us, especially because fully lesbian women kind of assume that we doing both sides just for fun and that's not the case. Anyway, may nothing be taken out of context. The struggle is real though😃
@zee.unboxed6787
@zee.unboxed6787 3 жыл бұрын
Ezee is ridiculous…. She said “touch it” and threw it back 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@raphaelleyokota4755
@raphaelleyokota4755 3 жыл бұрын
I would actually expect more stud/man comparisons from a straight woman "exploring" than from a bisexual woman who knows very well what she gets on one side or on the other. Also Amber is a DREAM.
@MsAaannaaa
@MsAaannaaa 3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate the honesty about thoughts you have about bi women because I think we need to talk more openly about it. I think there are many misconceptions based on individual experiences and I feel very sad about that - for both sides. It actually hurts to hear women say that they're scared of dating me because of my sexuality when we all know that we don't choose this. but it's even more important then to understand where these fears are coming from because how the hell are we supposed to solve this divide within our community? about the sex part: I'm a queer femme woman and I never compared sex with one gender to sex with another. It can be good or bad or meh with anyone, no matter what's (not) between their legs. it's about the connection you have with a person (on whichever level) and about doing what someone likes, communication. I can be physically attracted to any gender but I also need to connect with the person behind that. and it doesn't matter if it's a dude or a woman or a non binary or an agender person. I either think you're hot and like you and connect with you or I don't. it's very simple. and when I say I want to commit, I mean it.
@justice_rizzo
@justice_rizzo 3 жыл бұрын
*I died laughing when Stevi said don't choke me because ima choke yo ass back* 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@sidoniejordan-olsen7673
@sidoniejordan-olsen7673 3 жыл бұрын
From my experience, I LOVE when a stud sits back like she owns the room...my wife said she had to come see about me cause I kept looking at her. But just that confidence is everything!!!
@bradlove9684
@bradlove9684 3 жыл бұрын
Ezee has to be careful how she's answering the questions 😉 She's answering most in general and in past tense 🤣🤣🤣 Nat Daddy aka The Big Spoon 🥄 🤭
@skaywest1772
@skaywest1772 3 жыл бұрын
I think there's a huge misunderstanding about bisexuals
@lagrenounouille
@lagrenounouille 3 жыл бұрын
Definitely. Fueled by insecurity and toxic masculinity.
@Seagazin
@Seagazin 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah this was lowkey hard to watch cause they’re educated and open yet they still feel that way://
@skaywest1772
@skaywest1772 3 жыл бұрын
@@Seagazin yes I agree being bisexual don’t mean they’re a hoe and just wanna have fun with everyone just because some parents like that bisexual just like any other sexuality can choose to want a relationship or just sleep around or to be loyal or not being bisexual don’t mean they automatically don’t have no self control over sexual desires just means they’re attracted to both sex as they want as a potential partner. But don’t mean they want to be with both plus everyone is different anyways personality and traits is what makes a person not they’re sexuality.
@Thenayway28
@Thenayway28 3 жыл бұрын
@@skaywest1772 well yeah but if you listened to what Ezee was saying she said that was her childish immature thinking that she had. listen to the key word " had" that's past tense I'm sure she doesn't still think this way.
@skaywest1772
@skaywest1772 3 жыл бұрын
@@Thenayway28 I wasn’t referring to eezys response I was implying that what she had thought about bisexuals is a very common thinking amongst people in the lgbt community
@elgaybean5544
@elgaybean5544 3 жыл бұрын
Ezee won’t date a bi woman but chooses to go after ‘straight’ girls? I’m sorry but that makes no sense Edit: I got to the part where she explained herself Edit again in further response to Cover: As a bisexual woman, hearing those sentiments are hurtful because if a lesbian is not comfortable dating me because I like men, or have been with men, then that’s a problem within themself and their negative stigmas of bisexuals. I say that because it does not make sense for them to only want a woman who sleeps with men, one who’s most likely going to return to men if things don’t work out, but not want a woman who would genuinely want them and not treat them like an experiment etc. All I’m saying is don’t have a problem with being compared to men when all you date/chase are straight women who only know men🤷🏾‍♀️ Then again most people have a bit of gay in them anyway so date away to where your heart takes I guess lol
@Cloud-ql3oy
@Cloud-ql3oy 3 жыл бұрын
I actually Agree with you. I also think lesbians that wont date bisexuals shouldnt be attacked for that. Choice shouldn't be taken away and sombody telling women what to do yet again needs to stop. Not being comfortable with a partner who can actually sleep with a guy makes some uncomfortable or turned off. There r 7billion ppl on earth we should all be ok lol.
@elgaybean5544
@elgaybean5544 3 жыл бұрын
@@Cloud-ql3oy I get your point but I wasn’t attacking Ezee, I was more so confused on her mindset. But I said I got to the point where she explained herself which highlighted her perspective. Unfortunately that perspective is one that many lesbians and even other bisexuals share.
@Cloud-ql3oy
@Cloud-ql3oy 3 жыл бұрын
@@elgaybean5544 hey i didn't think u were attacking eazee at all. I also said that I agreed with. The internet is so aggressive and cowardice most times lol so i understand the miscommunication. You're awesome have a good day
@Peresphone
@Peresphone 2 жыл бұрын
It explains a lot, Im a straight woman and don’t like being severely hit on by studs. I wouldn’t mind being friends but I don’t like being severely hit on by anyone whether they’re male or female. I noticed a lot of studs trying to get me and I would withdraw even more..now it finally clicks that they wanted a challenge.
@Mikoexoh
@Mikoexoh 3 жыл бұрын
It’s amber dying laughing at ezee for me 😭😭😭🤣🙌🏽
@AmbersCloset
@AmbersCloset 3 жыл бұрын
She is soooo GOOFY🤣🤣
@spigilogan
@spigilogan 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣 why is she so funny!
@cellyjordan2138
@cellyjordan2138 3 жыл бұрын
Ughhh I lowkey have had the hardest time dating masculine-presenting lesbians (I'm bi). I always had to deal with them feeling like I'm comparing them to guys or already thinking about the next one. I think it has to do with a lot of insecurities and lack of communication... I don't compare women and men because that is kinda comparing night and day. Thank you so much for speaking up for us Amber 🥰
@yeseniac.143
@yeseniac.143 3 жыл бұрын
I want to thank CA$E for creating a safe space for femms/studs to dish it all out. I appreciate what y’all are doing. 🙏🏼
@_pandorah._
@_pandorah._ 3 жыл бұрын
As a Bi-Hun, I get it. I always get insecure partners. Males don’t want me around females and vice versa...we aren’t That bad but the biphobia keeps creeping 🤧
@bathroomdiaries5393
@bathroomdiaries5393 3 жыл бұрын
im so happy Amber introduce these people to her channel I love. Eza and Natalie !! and Crissa over there looking like Alicia keys I lovee this
@pattycannon1804
@pattycannon1804 3 жыл бұрын
We need the black version of the L word representation matters. 👭🏻🏳️‍🌈
@lindalund9621
@lindalund9621 3 жыл бұрын
Have you seen the lipstick series etc here on KZbin They are not bad
@lavi.evangelista3643
@lavi.evangelista3643 3 жыл бұрын
Yupp
@palesamichell7638
@palesamichell7638 3 жыл бұрын
FINALLY PART 2 IS HERE!.💃💃💃.Lol I'm straight but I love y'all's videos a loooooot!🧡..Much Love from South Africa.💕
@Melissa-co5vv
@Melissa-co5vv 3 жыл бұрын
Hahaa Ezee twerking ass on Crissa was so funny 🤣🤣🤣
@lifewithkayy1816
@lifewithkayy1816 3 жыл бұрын
Can you bring a bisexual woman into the conversation just to bring in our perspective on dating lesbians. Because the biphobia is too real lol.
@deneesvacays
@deneesvacays 2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate the respect that Amber has for bisexual women. There is a negative stigma on us that we are “all over the place” and i think that’s an unfair sweeping generalization. The open conversations in these videos are amazing❤️
@LizaOG
@LizaOG 3 жыл бұрын
Love you guys #CASE Love from Africa 🇬🇭 Who else love these beautiful ladies?
@johnsontv1988
@johnsontv1988 3 жыл бұрын
🇰🇪Represented🏳️‍🌈
@tinymogi
@tinymogi 3 жыл бұрын
Oof as a bisexual idk how to feel😕shout out to amber tho for defending us😩❤️
@jiliciar.1423
@jiliciar.1423 Жыл бұрын
I love the freedom y'all give eachother to express yourselves.
@jasminesimmons4399
@jasminesimmons4399 3 жыл бұрын
Technically y’all if you date or take interest in a straight woman that pretty much makes them bi-sexual because they’ve gained interest in women but haven’t lost their interest in men. I was a lesbian for years until I decided to try with men but I never compared and double dipping on both sides is nasty to me, it would have to be a hard break from that woman before I’d bother a man because women is more of a preference. So some bi-sexual women have preferences, may not be all but those who’ve been in between for years have their own set of rules, doesn’t mean to fear one just get their preference before making moves.
@AmbersCloset
@AmbersCloset 3 жыл бұрын
💯‼️
@Wicked1xX
@Wicked1xX 3 жыл бұрын
This is true, but a lot of women who were straight, dated a woman, then went back to men, don't consider themselves Bi, and lesbians allow them to do that 🤷🏾‍♀️
@cpoux8652
@cpoux8652 3 жыл бұрын
Love Ya STEVI 😎🏃🏾‍♂️💪🏾
@Peresphone
@Peresphone 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly so true
@tiachandler5350
@tiachandler5350 2 жыл бұрын
Loving that yall came up with name case for yall that's fire 🔥 ....
@leileahmoroongalibang1278
@leileahmoroongalibang1278 3 жыл бұрын
Amber always speaks and explains well. But love ya’ll vibes❤️
@AmbersCloset
@AmbersCloset 3 жыл бұрын
What other subjects should we do videos on?
@purplebutterflikisses
@purplebutterflikisses 3 жыл бұрын
Turn on and turn offs
@amberleeeeeeee8131
@amberleeeeeeee8131 3 жыл бұрын
Run this back again!!!
@el-u-ay
@el-u-ay 3 жыл бұрын
Insecurities
@tg2575
@tg2575 3 жыл бұрын
Biphobia in the LGBTQ+ community..
@purplebutterflikisses
@purplebutterflikisses 3 жыл бұрын
The name difference! Like why some ppl like to be called dyke and some don’t and find it offensive!!
@rachelseymour7645
@rachelseymour7645 3 жыл бұрын
I’m loving this. Y’all answering all the important questions, and representing all the good things about us lesbians. I dig the maturity and respect you all have too for what the other is saying
@Sheznic369
@Sheznic369 Жыл бұрын
Amber: “And when you come wid it, you better give wat it’s sposed ta gave!” 😂😂😂 💯🙌🏽 Period!!!
@heymsparker2816
@heymsparker2816 3 жыл бұрын
That’s interesting that some studs really have that perspective of bisexual women. That makes a lot of sense why I NEVER get approached by studs 😂😂😂
@Believe_Jesus9
@Believe_Jesus9 3 жыл бұрын
It’s a type of hate on the label bi we don’t discriminate. We are all souls in a body. A good soul is what I’m attracted to with good qualities.I’m with you on that sis. Still got a love them because were all colors of a rainbow.
@CG-ke6og
@CG-ke6og 3 жыл бұрын
@@Believe_Jesus9 🙄 it is NOT a type of hate, it’s about being unattracted to it… but bi people always want to chalk it up to “hate” because they can’t comprehend or want to accept it’s actually unattractive to some people.
@Moi-ll1rt
@Moi-ll1rt 3 жыл бұрын
@@CG-ke6og girl you're not attracted to bi people just people they're bi and you don't call that hate ??? Y'all make me think of the supertraights smh
@CG-ke6og
@CG-ke6og 3 жыл бұрын
@@Moi-ll1rt it might be hard to hear or hurtful to you guys, but that’s the truth… that’s tainted p*say I’m just saying what all other lesbians are too scared to say
@CG-ke6og
@CG-ke6og 3 жыл бұрын
@@Moi-ll1rt it’s a turn off. Tbh
@neutorialucas7541
@neutorialucas7541 3 жыл бұрын
Ezee’s facial expressions 😂 and Amber gagging for it 😂
@phoenixrises626
@phoenixrises626 3 жыл бұрын
I think all this biphobia or panphobia has so many common misconceptions and stereotypes. If we're with you, we want to be with you regardless of your gender. We're choosing you over everyone else (think about that...we could have anyone and we're choosing YOU). We're not going to miss a man, because we want you and all that you come with. Just like if we're dating a man, we want him and all he comes with. I also think it's very telling that lesbians struggle with this more than men do. I think part of it is because men have that stigma that wlw is "hot" so it doesn't bother them, but I also think women have an insecurity about this because they have a subconcious fear the men are better or superior, as if men are the "default" preferred option, which is leftover societal heteronormativity rearing its head. So women worry that their girl will go back to a man because they fear they can't ever provide the things a man can. But...that's really selling yourself short which I will not accept. Lol. Your worth has no correlation to a man, and all the things a woman brings to the table , which is PLENTY, will always be enough. 💖👏🙌
@sainttheresetaylor2054
@sainttheresetaylor2054 9 ай бұрын
« we could have anyone and we choose you » omg the narcissism, thank you oh benevolent bisexual
@ajones21606
@ajones21606 3 жыл бұрын
Ezee is HILARIOUS! I love her and Ambers relationship
@theconsciousentrepreneurs198
@theconsciousentrepreneurs198 3 жыл бұрын
i dont mind dating a bi sexual as a gay women, as long as she loves me and shes loyal and open and honest about how she feels or concerns she has. If she really loves me she would commit to me no matter what
@feathergirl5343
@feathergirl5343 2 жыл бұрын
Came on and hearing the first answer about bi women was an imediate ouch. Thank you Amber for defending us 💖
@Nikki_ItIsWhatItIs
@Nikki_ItIsWhatItIs 3 жыл бұрын
CA$E is a vibe🔥🔥🔥
@Fatally_yours_
@Fatally_yours_ 3 жыл бұрын
Amber cracking up at Ezee though 😂 I’m sat here laughing on my own!
@Junice-b3l
@Junice-b3l 3 жыл бұрын
I love how Ezee makes Amber laugh so hard.
@raynetthernandez4766
@raynetthernandez4766 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! I was waiting for part. 2
@itsKiyya
@itsKiyya 3 жыл бұрын
Hilarious 😂 I have to rewatch to catch everything 😭 I love ya personalities and how you converse with each other. I can tell it’s really a safe space cause everything felt natural.
@aries4512
@aries4512 3 жыл бұрын
Amber talking about her straight ex making Ezee thinking about NatNat 😅
@shequilaellis3757
@shequilaellis3757 3 жыл бұрын
OMG I was thinking the same thing
@justice_rizzo
@justice_rizzo 3 жыл бұрын
*omg tooFunny I just checked if you posted part 2* 🤣🤣 *I'm excited to watch this* 🥰
@lalachina5941
@lalachina5941 3 жыл бұрын
I love watching y’all best conversations lots of knowledge to share I can appreciate that
@najah45
@najah45 3 жыл бұрын
Ezee is hilarious, and you all need a podcast. Definitely subscribing!
@bradlove9684
@bradlove9684 3 жыл бұрын
Stevie telling Ezee and Crissa they're going to get in trouble from Alexis and Natalie 🤣
@adekemi5534
@adekemi5534 3 жыл бұрын
When? Time stamp please
@izzyfox7575
@izzyfox7575 Жыл бұрын
​@@adekemi553412:54
@comishasoftley5551
@comishasoftley5551 3 жыл бұрын
I love you guys have a blessed and wonderful day guys
@Nifaratheicon
@Nifaratheicon 3 жыл бұрын
Amber your answers always make me feel so safe🥺❤️
@Ashtels
@Ashtels 3 жыл бұрын
Lmao Ezee is just so naturally funny lol
@kudzaikelly1193
@kudzaikelly1193 3 жыл бұрын
Interesting video,, thank u so much, learning a lot from you CASE💯❤️🇿🇼
@caribbeangyal9589
@caribbeangyal9589 3 жыл бұрын
i think the with the bisexual question, a lot of straight women would jump and say that they are bi simply because they find some women attractive and they wanna explore but when it comes down to actually committing and being with a girl as a partner, they try but they cant continue with it causing heartbreaks. so long story short, educate yourself on who is a bisexual and instead of calling yourself that, let people know that you're just bi-curious....
@lizali5588
@lizali5588 3 жыл бұрын
Yea bi-curious, but sometimes those types of women can be heteroflexible if you’ve ever heard of that before. I don’t think that term is well known, but yea.
@appleberry3770
@appleberry3770 3 жыл бұрын
And those women are the ones that causes all the negative misconceptions about bisexual women..ugh
@coolkelpie
@coolkelpie 3 жыл бұрын
What? You make no sense. I am proudly bisexual and I have been with my girlfriend for almost four years - she's the one and Imma wifey her And I know many other bisexuals in long-term relationships with women
@caribbeangyal9589
@caribbeangyal9589 3 жыл бұрын
@@coolkelpie i think u fully misinterpreted wat i said. Bisexual women can be in happy long term relationships with women. But im saying a lot of problem arises when women who are bi-curious think they are bisexual and ends up in a relationship with a woman and then breaks that woman's heart cos they finally understand that they really dont wanna be wit a woman.
@coolkelpie
@coolkelpie 3 жыл бұрын
@@caribbeangyal9589 Thanks, understood x
@xxmisstreeonexx
@xxmisstreeonexx 3 жыл бұрын
CASE need to keep this going and maybe bring a couple of their friends in to discuss topics. A CASE town hall discussion
@sea_hous
@sea_hous 3 жыл бұрын
You guys are pure joy. Love this.
@mrsnba8069
@mrsnba8069 3 жыл бұрын
Yall were truly meant to be friends. I wish i had friends like yall lol yall are in union so naturally. I feel the vibz!!!!
@OyayoTheStorm
@OyayoTheStorm 3 жыл бұрын
I get a lot of femme-phobia and bi-phobia because I lean more towards omni-sexual identity. I also deal with poly-phobia. I like to be approached, but I try to give subtle hints so they'll know I'm down, but once we discuss things, there's so much misconception. I have extensive conversations with my stud, trans and NB friends about my lovestyle, so that they can go out with much more understanding, but I be out here single or dealing with being hunted or objectified, so it's scary out here, single and almost 40 😫
@Justamommy86
@Justamommy86 3 жыл бұрын
The way Ezee constantly cracks up Amber! Lollll kills me 🤣🤣🤣 12:04 🤣🤣🤣
@nayjameela953
@nayjameela953 3 жыл бұрын
I always thought I was a femm but after listening to you guys I identify soo much more with studs🤯
@ItsMLE
@ItsMLE 3 жыл бұрын
It’s the way Amber catches of all Ezee’s jokes/ facial experiences 💀
@dineosilinza4845
@dineosilinza4845 3 жыл бұрын
Part 2 has the most facts then the first and I likes how you described the bi and your sharing experience with us Thanks y'all👌
@graceyosei436
@graceyosei436 3 жыл бұрын
Hey love
@OnlyoneBai
@OnlyoneBai 3 жыл бұрын
Ayo 😂 y’all are hilarious 😆 y’all gotta keep this going for the culture! I need a part 3 , 4 and 5 lol this good tv right here 📺
@tanyagoins4361
@tanyagoins4361 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for touching on this subject. We Bi-sexual women get a really bad wrap. I appreciate this so much.
@lisaross6828
@lisaross6828 3 жыл бұрын
Amber you make so much sense with everything you say.. Your a Beauitful Woman..
@angiemoreno4247
@angiemoreno4247 Жыл бұрын
Y’allz friendship is absolutely AMAZING!!!!!!! 💕💞
@heenagujral244
@heenagujral244 Жыл бұрын
U guys are contagious to watch, I can watch u guys like everyday. I can't help but smile !
@amaribrook4477
@amaribrook4477 3 жыл бұрын
Love u guys.... Mob love from Uganda.... (Africa)
@ashleyc024
@ashleyc024 2 жыл бұрын
Eeze is soooo funny and amber stay catching it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@tykeyaoneil1084
@tykeyaoneil1084 3 жыл бұрын
Uh oh Stevi told on herself. She’s off the market y’all lol
@sooshi.4576
@sooshi.4576 3 жыл бұрын
When?
@SteviShari
@SteviShari 3 жыл бұрын
Nottttt
@tykeyaoneil1084
@tykeyaoneil1084 3 жыл бұрын
@@SteviShari idk if your baby would like to hear you saying that lol.
@Wicked1xX
@Wicked1xX 3 жыл бұрын
Ezee so crazy. I love it 😂
@marinacook2821
@marinacook2821 3 жыл бұрын
Stevie n Ezee are so funny they're 🤣😂😆
@phaniemae528
@phaniemae528 3 жыл бұрын
I love the energy…and the eye candy!😍
@EdwardSanchezProductions
@EdwardSanchezProductions 3 жыл бұрын
Ca$e is the best
@miloaneca2261
@miloaneca2261 3 жыл бұрын
Never seen ezee this calm and patience on cam😂
@SteviShari
@SteviShari 3 жыл бұрын
🤣😂🤣 ayy yall they be lying on me I’m outchea!
@shannonh2291
@shannonh2291 Жыл бұрын
I just want to say thank you ladies. You all taught me a lot that i didn’t know. I’m a straight woman and this video was so informative! If y’all didn’t know already all of you are hella kool,smart and beautiful! Y’all should do a lot more videos like this for us to learn and teach ignorant people that’s it’s okay to be who you are!! 🌈🌈🌈sending. Blessings to all of you……..
@lorri31
@lorri31 2 жыл бұрын
Amber's perspective on everything makes her even more attractive 💕
@lashawnderonde9711
@lashawnderonde9711 Жыл бұрын
Ya'll make everything so funny! I just found ur vids and so far its good vibes and joy. Thanks guys Amber, I'm straight and always have been but want to learn and I'm so glad u guys are helping people like me, confused 😕 .
@sebabatsomasoabi5204
@sebabatsomasoabi5204 3 жыл бұрын
y'all should do these more often 😂😂😂,I'm a new subscriber,and I just love the energy..did Stevie not just out herself 😂😂,I love it!..I'm just curious, what is "small spoon "?
@Livmylifelivi
@Livmylifelivi 3 жыл бұрын
I never want these videos to end lol
@TWuttz112
@TWuttz112 Жыл бұрын
Hilarious! Love listening to all of you!! Love the vibes!! Made me laugh!!
@billiondollarimage
@billiondollarimage 3 жыл бұрын
It's the going after a straight woman for me. This is how y'all get y'all's feelings hurt. ALSO, this also means you're trying to turn this woman out KNOWING that's she's straight, it's giving manipulative & persuasive in all the WRONG ways. All lesbians aren't easy, it definitely can still be a challenge. You say you don't want to be a "man" or you "aren't trying to fulfill a man's duties" but going after a woman who ONLY wants that manly energy in there life. Anyways.. I love the 2 on the right, very well spoken.
@loriflores2179
@loriflores2179 2 жыл бұрын
Yall are so funny together. Love it!!
@sizwemabece9656
@sizwemabece9656 3 жыл бұрын
6.53 Amber and Steve killed me 🤣🤣😂
@justice_rizzo
@justice_rizzo 3 жыл бұрын
*Why Stevi deadass picking her toto wedgie with no shame right in the camera* 💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@realtalkoutofthecloset571
@realtalkoutofthecloset571 3 жыл бұрын
I love the hell out of you girls. Stay fun!
@monica_954dale
@monica_954dale 2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry but when she said "I have girls that be grabbing on me like a piece of meat y'all"😔😩😮‍💨..I knew she was serious but that had me dying laughing bruh😭😭😭😩🤣🤣🤣
@busisiwemphahlele6967
@busisiwemphahlele6967 3 жыл бұрын
Mega love for y'all ❤️❤️❤️🇿🇦. Can you not cover her😂😂😂
@stormypast1984
@stormypast1984 3 жыл бұрын
I love all of you and the vibe is everything
@ebonylafrance
@ebonylafrance 3 жыл бұрын
😂🤣🤣😂🤣Y’all so funny together!!! I laughed so much😍🥰
@tiffanyisaacks187
@tiffanyisaacks187 2 жыл бұрын
Props for being real! Keep it up... All y'all beautiful af. Inside an out.
@Morri21
@Morri21 2 жыл бұрын
Hiii Stevi🤪😌. You are always so beautiful and you have such an amazing smile too
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