Masturbation & Vibrators & Porn, Oh My! | Melanie Murphy

[@KarinReiser]

for me masturbating 'helped' to connect with myself and my sexuality again.. being a victim of sexual abuse, sex and sexuality was my enemy for a very long time! Getting to know me and my body was also a very important step in finding again the good and enjoyable side of my sexuality.. It might sound weird.. but... it helped me to lose the fear of being touched down there..

[@RebeccaByrne13]

KarinR 💚

[@beck1291]

KarinR 💚

[@yellahawk5200]

KarinR💚

[@RyuukaXchan]

KarinR 💚

[@anitadutoit3585]

KarinR 💚

[@stevie]

Even your vibrator is ridiculously attractive CAN YOU STOP

[@melaniemurphyofficial]

NEVER! ;)

[@asadmittha1358]

Hy

[@asadmittha1358]

@@melaniemurphyofficial listen

[@chinthanachintnana9913]

Love you so very much

[@melaniemurphyofficial]

OKAY HELLO HELLO! Number 1: my internet #faMely has claimed the green heart emoji, it is now our emoji, just so...you know...also NUMBER 2: I can't believe I just uploaded this hahahahahahahahaha hold me plz, do you guys want more videos like this? If yes then comment "I DO!"

[@annieslife9295]

I DO!!

[@TheGirlHub]

I do!!!

[@karelysalvarez8908]

Melanie Murphy we do

[@kazmamckeown6199]

Yas! Wish I had the confidence you do, own it! 💪💕

[@majawwww]

Melanie Murphy IDO

[@autumngirlsoup]

Nothing worse than when a guy's learned everything he knows about sex from porn and blames you when you don't enjoy it because it worked in what he was watching... 🙄

[@tonydimeo1882]

autumngirlsoup Porn is fantasies. It’s not good for much else.

[@alexrose6471]

LOVE THIS. MORE DISCUSSION ON THIS. YES. MASTURBATION IS GOOD. MASTURBATION IS NOT SHAMEFUL. Lmao masturbation is like the most regular form of exercise I get. I don't know if it's just how my body in particular works or if it's to do with having a vagina instead of a dick but personally my orgasms usually involve a lot of abdominal muscle stuff? Sometimes I'll literally just be going about my day and be wondering why my abs hurt and then it's like oh of course.. I had that mad masturbatory sesh last night. It always bothers me how "for women" porn is always stuff that's super romantically filmed, with soft lighting and that kind of thing. To me it just reinforces the idea that women conflate sex and romance whereas men don't, when in fact actually people have different individual tastes and feelings about sex vs romance! I feel like in porn, "for women," instead of just meaning "romantic," should mean porn that simply focuses more on the woman's pleasure and all the good stuff you said. Then romantic style porn could just be its own genre that doesn't have to be gendered, if that makes sense? Also I feel like I'm the only person on the planet that doesn't feel like porn is full of only one body type. People always go on about how it sends the message that women should have this feature and that feature and a vulva like that, but in my experience, porn is full of body diversity! Is it just the super mainstream, highly produced stuff that supposedly shows only massive boobs and super neat vaginas or something? Because for me, porn was actually what taught me how varied vulvas and boobs really are.

[@anime_freakanime_love7533]

So true! There is absolutely nothing wrong with porn! And mastrubatoon! And sex!

[@jamestrentham8576]

Yep! If you engage the abdominal muscles then I'm sure it'll add to a full body orgasm, right?

[@luutsii]

"i'm pretty sure you do it too"..i reallyy feel like she's staring right at me and my soul when she says that.i"m freaked out lol

[@melaniemurphyofficial]

HEHEHEHEHE

[@applepie58]

She is super hot. No need of viagra

[@gabrielazurkova2133]

Finally someone talks about masturbation openly. From all of my friends I have only one that I can talk bout it openly. This videos really makes me feel more comfortable with myself. Thank you Melanie xx

[@TheGirlHub]

BEST. INTRO. EVER. I LOVE YOU

[@karelysalvarez8908]

Georgina ikr

[@moonthyst6007]

the intro was perfect lololol

[@tvdfan11]

I've just said this on twitter but, you're someone that every girl/woman should look up to, no matter the age. There's no shame in enjoying things that your body it literally built to enjoy! There's so much stigma around female pleasure that people have become conditioned to think it's only down to Men to give you yours and that self love is gross. I absolutely adore these honest open and beautiful videos from you! Honestly is the best policy, there's no shame in being open and enjoy life. Love you and your videos so much! I hope girls see this video and know that it's okay. So much love here xx

[@tillymann6611]

Oh my god the cleansing wipes.. my brother got a vibrator cleansing wipe and put it inside my cello about 7 months ago and i still can't get it out. I go to orchestra every week, i play in shows, i go to my lessons & play to my parents with a fucking vibrator cleansing wipe inside my instrument.

[@melaniemurphyofficial]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! I teared up imagining this! :) xxx

[@nreina1753]

I never comment videos, but i want to say 3 (good) things about your channel : 1. You're amazing communicator, and you talk about really "taboo" topics. Which can help so many people to understand her feelings or eliminate the idea "am i the only one who...?". 2. I'm feel very identified with you... and i think you're adorable, so i'm adorable too (?) :-) 3. When I watch your videos I always have the feeling that you try to help people in some way. You convey kindness through the camera.

[@melaniemurphyofficial]

THIS MADE ME SMILE SO SO SO SO MUCH! :) THANK YOUUUUU! :) XXXX

[@bethancollins6200]

Absolutely love these kind of videos!! So many people refuse to discuss these topics so openly despite them being so normal

[@tillymann6611]

Got the 69th view, how ironic

[@mariamichailidou3134]

tillyisunoriginal hahaha

[@Nettan.91]

tillyisunoriginal its a sign xD

[@therebex23]

Well...almost, 69 isn't really a "do alone" type of thing ;)

[@aminaghemri5849]

out of context but i love this makeup look on you

[@abispear]

Amina Ghemri I kept thinking the exact same thing 💚

[@walikhanjoiya2103]

Hm

[@emmaamourette9766]

Fun fact: I bought my first vibrator after watching this video! I'd been thinking about buying one for a while and this video finally pushed me over the threshold!

[@JustineCerise]

Also too when I first discovered porn I thought something was wrong with me because I only liked it when it was girls with girls. At the time I thought I was straight, and I could never figure out why I didn't get the same feelies with men and women stuff. Turns out I'm bi lol and it was because I never associated men with that stuff until I started having sexual experiences with guys💁🏻

[@katetorpey4290]

Love how real you are! Makes me proud to be part of the Irish KZbin community, you're really a great rep for us all ❤️👌🏻 keep it up, love them 👏🏻❤️

[@emmalechat21]

7:56 I'M DYING

[@estoniass]

HAHAHAHAHA I YELLED

[@estoniass]

HAHAHAHAHA I YELLED

[@tonydimeo1882]

Emma Louise She is 100% right.

[@arceuslordofcreation8824]

OH MY GOD YES

[@queenfan3458]

I know right lol

[@chaeyoungsboop_869]

I'm so happy you made this video, people need more awareness about masturbation. I love when you make these personal and 'awkward topic' videos. Love you very much!!!

[@Mariemili]

This video is PERFECTION!! Love it!! Can't wait to see more 👌🏻

[@melaniemurphyofficial]

eep thank you babe! :) xxx

[@asadmittha1358]

Hy listen

[@MUSiCx100]

When I saw the title I was like OK, where's my headphones?! Haha xx

[@jadegreen8560]

yes!! when anyone talks on taboo topics I get so happy!! I DO!!

[@ElliottHurst]

same

[@highaunt9679]

Jade Green masturbation isn’t taboo it’s perfectly normal

[@JessMakesSimsStuff]

This video made me feel so much better about myself and masturbating etc. Please continue to be this honest and inspiring!! Love you 💚💚💚

[@LovelyJazly246]

Off topic but your hair looks so good! Like please make a video on how you style it, it looks so wonderful! You could mention the cut you got too.

[@rhiannabrennan4736]

Holy moly you are so bloody gorgeous🙌🏼😍

[@menangmenuo4863]

Your hair looks lovely!

[@louisetee6996]

I think this is one of the best vids you have ever made gal!! really appreciate this!

[@lalapipi2527]

it's so nice that melanie is comfortable talking about this so naturally because this is so so so important!! love you, mel❤ (loved the story about the barbie doll aaa omg)

[@larissaw8214]

Is asking for your vibrator/sex toys collection video too much?! Haha cause I'd love to know your opinions on what toys are good and what aren't. I've never owned any type of sex toy although I want to but I'm a little afraid of my family finding it if I'm being honest. I'm 22 but this is still very much a concern of mine! Haha 💚

[@applepie58]

Wow 💝

[@Eemsta]

Fun fact: I actually discovered both you & Hannah because I have an XConfessions membership and loved that film. Feminist porn bringin' people together 😂💚

[@faithirismacilvaine2499]

This was amazing. Thank you so much for being so open about this, I can't tell you how much it means to me coming from a religious household.

[@gabbiayala5047]

I thought this was going to be SO AWKWARD, but I loved this video! Full of cool information and knowledge! Thank you for making masturbation and sexual discovery NORMAL! Loved this so much!

[@crystalfumes4915]

Those videos are actually the reason why I subscribed ! Love you 💚

[@camillamatos985]

omg I just discovered your channel and watched like 5 vids in a row. So happyyyy! 💚💚💚💚💚💚 hugs from Brazil. 😙

[@May04bwu]

"The idea of being caught made me wanna die" -- I relate to this so much :'-D

[@jmgask]

I get the Barbie thing... Both my parents are dentists, so we played with toothbrushes in the tub since we were kids. So yeah. You can imagine what that led to. :D

[@123melbell]

I think up until today I still feel soo awkward about exposing myself because since I was soo young, I would guess also around 10 or 11 I felt masturbating was suuuuch a horrible thing only i was doing and so bad, and I remember feeling soo ashamed about it and I never told anyone about doing it until I was about 18 or so, because my friend brought it up first and I started realizing it is quite common, which may seem okay but imagine, that is like 7 years of thinking i am a shameful horrible person doing strange things that i need to apologize for or something.

[@rowanchadwick4174]

123melbell I felt exactlyyyy the same. I didn't even know it had a name until my friends brought it up!

[@paulinafrost2340]

123melbell sameee

[@justyna_rudzinska]

I just want to let you know, this hair looks incredible on you! And also I feel like you're super brave to talk this openly about masturbation on internet. Love!

[@katieripley8259]

i love how open you are-all of my friends are so uptight about this topic!

[@ariahynes7760]

Squelch squad!Love this,love you !

[@AdamMcIntyre]

wow...you are such a beautiful human, i love your hair in this too!!

[@littlemonster1536]

I love this! I so wish that there had been more videos like this one when I was a teenager and first starting to have sex. It took me years after losing my virginity to actually have an orgasm simply because I had never been exposed to the idea of female masturbation...which is crazy! Having these videos up here for young women to have a safe place to talk about these issues and feel like they can ask questions that to be honest, we do not receive answers to in any sex education class, is unbelievable. Thank you, Melanie for being so honest and lovely. I really admire the work you've done to normalize conversations about sex, especially for women. It's so important. love you

[@nuria9333]

O my gosh I'm actually obsessed with your new hair! It really suits you! 😱❤

[@chelseyyyy69]

Great video Mel, this is not talked about enough! You had great insight and great advice, thank you 💚💚💚

[@karelysalvarez8908]

"HOLY SHIT" Lmaooo ur so funny and cute

[@BeautyRebeccaDoranForEejits]

melanie!!!! youve no filters and i absolutely love it!! great video and love the gruaig ;)

[@klara4063]

I love how you're open about everything and you teach young girls so much! Love you lots, thanks for existing

[@FrizzEllen]

WAIT THERE'S A NAME FOR THAT?! EDGING IS MY JAM, and thank you sososo much for making this video!!

[@melaniemurphyofficial]

hehe, mine too! :) You're welcomeeeeee

[@SusieSweetLife]

I love the way you make this kind of subject normal, it's just how it should always be! Good job! LOVE THIS VIDEO!

[@DustinKloeppel]

I LOVE VIDEOS LIKE THIS. They are so healthy and incredibly important. Sex ed is the best and no one gets it like they should in school. It's also just great getting to hear someone else's experiences growing up, because it's such a good way for people to realize that they aren't complete weirdos or alone in some odd way. So this is just lovely.

[@Marigold11037]

(Sorry,I know this is a year old) My school is exactly like that They talk about consent, STI's, pregnancy, alcohol, trying to scare everyone away from it But they never talk about masturbation, and its gotten to the point where everyone just has to educate themselves - and each other- about it. Its so stupid that schools don't let their students know that its okay and healthy and safe,but in a way,it pushes more students to talking about it

[@magicalvelcro]

SQUELCH SQUAD 💚💚 I really, really appreciate these videos because I feel like women don't talk about masturbation often enough. I was so embarrassed and scared of my lady business~ that I've only recently gotten comfortable with my body.

[@FlowerpowerEmma]

You're the BEST! This video is really good and it's so nice that you brought this subject up. It really should be talked about more and not be something people are afraid to talk about. More of these videos, please!!!

[@laurakrtzr]

Hi, thank you for sharing your experiences with me/us! And thank you so much for recommending Erika Lust's short films! Her works are so amazing!! It is so different from porn that I know. I was always searching for something like that, so I'm so grateful! It is wonderful how openly you talk about masturbating etc, bc society seems to do everything to avoid mention it, but on the other hand (non-feminist) porn is ruling the world. Thank you, Melanie! Lots of Love.

[@vassilikischina7335]

One the most amazing videos I have ever seen. I am 17 years old and I have learned so many things from your videos. Especially (from this one) that you shouldn't be ashamed of your body. You are like an older sister to me. You talk without hesitations and when I actually watch your videos I feel like we are talking face to face. Thank you Melanie.

[@katmarie2311]

Oh my god Melanie thank you so much for making this video

[@imapotatobish6497]

your hair looks so good today 💗💗

[@TheRachealLeahshow]

This was such a cool video! I love that you are so open! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@LadyNani8]

i love the song you're using in the background XD discovered it last month so i thought maybe i had another tab open that was playing it. nope, it's your video!! :D

[@amandavillatoro]

Keep them coming girl!!!!! 😍😍😍😍 it's a normal thing to do! More women should embrace it! 😏👌🏽

[@abihoward7339]

So keen for more videos like this! Just like the period series, people need to open up and talk about this kinda stuff! There's zero shame in giving yourself a bit of lovin' and I think younger people especially (I'm 22) need content like this to help guide them through the mess that is puberty 😂

[@Isabelbeibeizhu]

OH MELANIE! Thank you for shining some light on this topic, especially for those young females who may feel ashamed to masturbate or watch porn because of society. On a side note, I've been subscribed for about a year, you always look amazing in your videos

[@lauren3911]

honestly love you! 😂 defo one of my fave youtubers 💚

[@emmalouise55555]

Yas queen! You are making the best content on KZbin x

[@skepticalpirate]

I sooo appreciate this vid. I used to teach a masturbation class and I'll never forget the little old lady that came to one workshop and she wouldn't say anything sex related. She just called it her down there and told me she'd never had an orgasm (I wish I remembered how she put it because that's not what she said). At the end of the day she was finally able to have her first orgasm and she looked at me and said well, I never! And then started crying. It was really emotional for everyone and so wonderful

[@abbycraig6914]

I love this, Melanie! 💚 I'm so glad you are so open about these types of subjects. I've never heard of Erika before, but I'll be sure to check her out! I hate how the porn industry has manufactured such ridiculously annoying standards and ideals of "what sex should sound/be like". 🙄 Keep posting! 😘💚

[@jennyl93]

Yes! It's finally been talked about! And so honestly too! Love it! 💚

[@neensever]

This is amazing! The fact you talk about it, it makes me feel part of something and not just that one girl struggling with truth about my body and my pleasure. Thank you for suggesting Erika Lust as well, definitely gonna check her out, I am so tired of seeing the same fake stuff around, or those humiliating videos when a woman is an object... p.s. your hair looks great!

[@lauravalen100]

ily Mel!!! thank you for doing these kind of videos, they are very very important, thank youuuuu

[@Kay-iz1wk]

I loved this so much lovely to see it be talked about so casually, so in love with you haha you're personality is just amazing xx

[@charlotte7095]

This is the BEST video on the internet! Thank you for being so honest and open - I love it! Also masturbation really helps cramps!

[@hazelperry7466]

I love your hair and makeup in this video!!

[@winterflowerreads]

Love this video! SQUELCH SQUAD 💚

[@bethpiggford9599]

I DOOO!!! 💚💚 talks like these are so important!

[@nievesugarte]

the intro LOL I just adore your videos 😂😍😂😍

[@Theromancewatcher100]

There should be so many more videos like this, loved it Melanie x

[@jessicakacy8413]

Melanie, you look so happy in this video! Your glowing!

[@ameliawales1745]

I loved this video!!! I am a young teenage female and there is so much pressure for girls to 'do it right' during sex and is so refreshing to see a normal person explaining experiences. Thank you so much for sharing this video, keep doing more videos like these! I DO

[@oOVanillaMelOo]

I'm so glad you decided to talk about this! I still have so much guilt every time I wanna do it and when I actually do it it's even worse... I feel so guilty and even gross... I might not be normal lol but it really sucks to feel that way. I wonder if I'll ever get over it and be open about it... your video help a lot though! It makes me see that it should be a good thing and I shouldn't feel disgusted with myself!

[@junobrill127]

Thank you for being so open about this! It's so important for young girls (and women of all ages and anyone else) to realize that it's totally normal and an ok thing to do. I wish this kind of thing was around when I was like 12

[@juliaharmsworth5827]

YOUR HAIR IS SO PRETTY

[@soleil5401]

love your videos! i guess its kind of hard to talk about such topics but its cool! like it

[@rachaelhinlicky5317]

Yassss to this whole video! Advising that girls and women feel like empowered subjects in sex lives instead of attempting to be the most desirable sexual object they can be is so fucking right on! You're doing a public service girl! Keep fighting the good fight, much 💚💚💚💚.

[@buttpunchoprah4072]

UGH IM SO GLAD YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT THIS! It's so important and I try to be very open about these subjects in my everyday life which is why it's nice to see other people being open as well. :)

[@sandia7196]

I love this video. No words. I totally relate to everything you said and love to hear someone say it, because that doesn't happen often!

[@ElishaCornally]

So glad you made this video!!!

[@aurorahill7836]

That intro was fabulous! 😐😃💙 Your Fabulous Melanie! 💙🌸

[@misstonix]

I love that you spoke about this and uploaded it haha!! It's about time someone spoke so open and honestly about all this stuff, especially the parts that NO ONE talks about. I've heard that women's orgasms are typically more intense than men's which is great! :D

[@scarlettmaguire9324]

I really enjoyed this video! well done! We need more videos like this on KZbin! Amazing x

[@AllysonBraggs]

You are amazing. I love that you make these videos and are so open and honest. I definitely would love more of these videos!

[@TheWorsnops]

Massive MASSIVE thumbs up from me. You brave pretty little Irish sweetie! Thank you so much for sharing this. xxx

[@BetweenLinesAndLife]

This is such an amazing Video! I'm loving your positivity! Thanks so much!

[@emblalo]

I love you for doing this!! Just started watching you and you're amazing!!

[@katpark89]

I really love to watch your videos 💚 So honest, authentic and funny !

[@rh5500]

Love how honest you are! This video should be shown in schools aha!

[@jaylittleton1]

Wandered over here as directed by Erin (Beauty Creep). I'm glad you are addressing the topic of masturbation to young women. It's religion that puts the negative stigma on the act. It's natural and healthy as you say, as long as you are smart, safe, and in control.

[@indiabella2]

squelch squad! ( loved the vid mel!)😘👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@Moonect]

I was introduced to you by story booth!! Now I love watching your videos!!!

[@elifkzldemir5844]

I am so in love with your content recently. I just want you to talk about your sexuality more I love these types of videos.

[@chelsearatsatsi4607]

I really needed this video 😭💙💙

[@aish2142]

Love the video. Love the message. Love the openness. Love the total presentation(hair,makeup,top). Love you Girl!!💚💚💚💚