A Surprising Way to Make Him Chase You | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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[@summysauceasmr]

don't get distracted by chemistry, build the connection. Take your time!!

[@patsummer135]

Perfectly said 😥 that's my problem, that's what I have to change 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@FlamingCockatiel]

Good advice, but I don't know how to follow it.

[@briana14333]

I think it's lovely that when you prioritize yourself, your man prioritizes you. This was great. Thank you!

[@crystalanamericaninsicily]

Stop texting. Stop calling. Stop being always available! You stop chasing him...if he's really interested. He'll start chasing you.

[@AngelSanchez-sn6jg]

Ok 👌

[@ashy1111]

So true i have to start that😇

[@thecrazysarecomin]

Or we just think , meh she ain't interested or is playing games which pings red flags , so we move on , hang out with our buddies, concentrate with work and carry on with life .

[@n2organic]

There’s a balance. What I find fun in a budding relationship is reciprocal enthusiasm. When two people are openly and unabashedly interested in each other. There’s no need for playing games when this kind of synergy exists. Holding back like this suggests, will only have a bad result and is indicative of immaturity. On the other hand, I do think men enjoy being the pursuers so at some point allowing him to “chase” but responding positively to his advances raises good energy!

[@crystalanamericaninsicily]

@@n2organic Yes and No. Enthusiasm OK... To much is a BIG TURN Off. Calling and Texting every time you think of them. Makes you look Desperate.

[@LOADING...o.o.o]

Now I only take advice from people who are married. Like this channel. He is doing everything right and I should listen to him.

[@n2organic]

I love this guy. I admit I was skeptical when I saw the title and almost didn’t watch, but I’m glad I did. Nurturing oneself is a beautiful way to approach being ready for a man in ones life--to give yourself what you want from him and be the person you’re looking for.

[@chewyyyl]

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[@nafisaabdi4698]

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[@jennyjen3985]

1.The inciting incident *

[@nsotara]

I want a loving, caring , exciting relationship where me and my partner are connecting at a deeper level of understanding😊 and there is warmth, love, sunshine and all the good things in life❤️

[@nabilarahim5911]

Man, I love these red flowers in the background. Please give my regards to the person that ist taking such good care of the plants. Great job! ❤

[@ireneluvharry]

I always use “ self love “ coz loving yourself is not selfish at all. Its really about knowing your value and worth as a woman. And we should never apologize for having high standards in love because the right man or the man who really wants to be in your life will rise up to meet those standards" 💯he have to prove himself that he is the missing piece of me then his indeed my person .

[@nuramirah9848]

I agree to this 100% Finally someone said it! I was too afraid to admit all of this because I thought I was wrong and was gonna lose the man that wants me. Thank you for giving me hope as well as motivation! 👍🏽

[@stormstringfellow3928]

Matt. I’ve been following you for years. I used to watch your videos all the time. I’m in love now yet he is so insecure. He brings out a side to me I never knew I had. Love is wonderful and your advice is amazing, yet men have issues too and I wish they had a friend like you.

[@swinxfee]

How has it been going?

[@maryhixon1164]

I need to stop being so 'nice', soft and worrying about hurting his feelings.

[@jammyjay917]

Same..... Self love, do what makes you happy.

[@natalied6923]

The interesting thing is, you rob him of the opportunity to do it for himself, turning into a mommy no mentally normal guy feels attraction towards! So live and LET LIVE!

[@jasprerph]

I would say be kind and considerate BUT make yourself a priority first. Take care of yourself first and then do nice things for him if you can. Don't sacrifice for a man that you just met.

[@suzieburnette1677]

I have the very same problem...

[@crystalanamericaninsicily]

He needs to be worrying about yours. Your the Prize!

[@earthangel6116]

Can you do advice videos for single mothers? I just feel that when a woman has a child it changes the rules of the dating game and makes it that nore challenging.

[@rebeccaeichornerdiakoff9883]

Agreed! Please! 🤗

[@shelleysanders9666]

I agree: the relationship advisors on Toutube don't give specofic advice for single parents (nor the older age group of age 50+ daters)..

[@LouiseSantiano]

Hugs momma

[@foxerrr7864]

Yessss

[@rowenaramsaran6568]

Hey Sis, find a way to mention that you have a child, in the first convo or day. You & your child/children are a package deal. They can't have one without the other. Some may run, & although that doesn't feel good, Know that it filters the candidates that are not for you are your kids. Someone may really like you but 1)not be prepared to deal with the nuances that comes with dating someone with kids 2)being with a partner with children that are not his may not be part of what he wants for his life (nothing wrong with this, his goals are valuable to him). Sometimes hearing that the person you're interested in has kids may take you by suprise but if there is a mutual interest, budding and great chemistry there, you'd want to study the person & would become genuinely interested in the well-being of the person's kids. Gradually becoming emotionally invested in them as individuals instead of only the fact that they're your kids. Eg. E🌻 & N🎸 meet, discover a mutual attraction & chemistry. N mentions having a kid. Took E by suprise but N wasn't ashamed of or trying to hide his kid to draw E in (he doesn't know if that's a deal breaker with her or not). E wasn't expecting that but appreciates N was honest from early about such an important subject. He in fact earns a bit if her respect for being honest. E has never been in that situation before but decide to get to know him better. They develop a friendship & E learns about both N & his daughter. In fact, begins to study N & his daughter (through listening attentively & asking questions). Friendship, mutual attraction & chemistry deepens, grows into something more. E appreciates, respects & treats N & his kid as a Team. Respect, appreciation, admiration, & love develops on both sides. E becomes emotionally invested in N's daughter. N is extra careful not to jump the gun & introduce E too soon to his daughter. E understands & respects that timing is delicate & crucial, so she doesn't push him. When N reads his daughter & the timing, realizes they're ready, then introduces E to his daughter. Going in, E protects their peace of mind... and especially her own. Realizes that daughter may not even like her(because E is not her mom), but N loves her (E) & she (E) is willing to invest in a relationship with his daughter. How that works, depends on the adults. It's not easy & honestly, it's not for everyone. Trust your intuition, Momma. Let him earn a place in your life but don't treat him as though as long as he is willing to invest & whatever he is willing to invest is the cost of admission, so to speak. If he is still interested in you, as a person, when he is told you have kids, then appreciate him for it. This is just one perspective from someone who doesnt have kids but deeply values a person who was honest that he has a kid. It's not a deal breaker for everyone. Know your worth, Momma & be willing to walk away if dating a single mom is not what he wants for his life. He wasn't right for you & there is someone who is. Develop a friendship for a while to learn what he is really like beyond his words... you get to see his true attitudes & perspectives.

[@ElizabethLawson4MORE]

I have made quantum leaps forward recently and want to continue in that realm of finding my Voice. Vulnerability, confidence, compassion. Just being me and having fun. I have a man. My story involves the death of my husband of 37 years, my grieving, and now this move forward into a new and expressively freer relationship. To me, I have learned over the years with my precious husband that what is most important is sexual intimacy and that is linked closely to personal intimacy. I am discovering, as in a journey, in my new relationship how to carry ME, who I am, authentically and vulnerably. A whole new world!!

[@hirutnegash5819]

Thank you Mat for confirming my actions. I did all that you said. I am in a total bliss with this person at this moment; of course to early to predict but definitely I am at peace with the decision I made. Decision of choosing the man of my dreams

[@kimfrederick7710]

I love your stories they are so helpful and they show your enthusiasm for your work! Thank you, I truly enjoy listening to your videos

[@richardrivas3294]

When you believe that you deserve a good guy, that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash

[@clairexxx0405]

I so do those things you said.... I’ve been shielding for 4 months it’s knocked my confidence .... my revolution would be to stop over caring about people who don’t show care back.... But it’s a HUGE ask, like learning a whole new way to be?! 😳Thanks Matt have a fantabulous 4th of July 🤗

[@clairexxx0405]

@Steve H Thank you so much for your support and I know your right, I think having being in a abusive relationship effects how you think of yourself and losing my Beautiful little boy impacted that greatly as grief does, thanks again 🤗 x

[@richardrivas3294]

When you believe that you deserve a good guy, that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash

[@deliapasqualini970]

I do love this encouragement. Love yourself first. Thank you❤️

[@sea2sky]

I noticed while watching this video, I'm slowly transitioning between chasing to be chased. I'm starting to project who I am, but I still have times where I want to become somebody else to please certain men. Really thinking about it, I have noticed some men chasing me, and I'm letting go of men that I chased after. It's really quite the vulnerable moment. Although I have always wanted men to chase me, I sort of find it scary? Emotional growth - the most sought after yet scary development.

[@charamos4593]

Hi matt can u make a video where you can advice people who's in LDR to stay connected and strong despite of this pandemic

[@aleinalister3661]

Matt, you have no idea how much I needed to hear Meredith's story and your advice... Thank you!

[@c.b.2321]

Thank you so much from a woman (58 years young) in Northern Germany :-))

[@michelesabini4639]

If nothing changes... nothing changes!! OMG!! I love that so much!! I’ve been following you before you were married. You are always SPOT ON for insight! Had the opportunity to meet you in person at an event and will never forget your hug! One of the BEST hugs I’ve ever received. You are genuine and gifted in your wisdom and caring for people. I admire you and respect you as a person, man, husband and especially as a father! WOW! Wish the world had more men like you in it! Thanks, Mat for being such an inspiration and coach to so many! I’m a happier woman for who I am because of your influence! Happy 4th! Celebrate well!

[@phyllismontoroula6454]

I was being myself standing up to someone was picking on another person that's what made him love me

[@almaengberg313]

Great video. I did have a big "fed up" moment myself recently, and I can see how important what he says is. I did start trying to date all kinda different men and giving them more of a chance. I guess the other steps are still ahead though! I would love to date more and meet more quality men that could be into my kinda lifestyle. I am trying to give myself options and not do my usual mistake, to put everything on one man that i have a thing for.

[@LemansSunset350]

You sound exactly like me lol

[@donnacummins6904]

I ended up hurt by a guy I was pursuing. I was told he was shy and was continuing this pursuit. I felt he liked me. I turned away guys who like me because I didn't want him to stop talking to me and he seemed jealous if I did spend time with others Kept waiting for the date. Never happened. Last time I saw him, he instead was pursuing a young attractive blonde. I put my life on hold. Should never had done.

[@Ash-hb5ty]

Wow recently I’ve had an Epiphany about needing to love myself first so I can set my standards and find a relationship I can actually be happy in. Then I see this video in my recommended 💕

[@faithm9284]

Confirmation. ; )

[@crystalanamericaninsicily]

If you don't love yourself...you can't expect others too.

[@KB-hf3ym]

My ok’d moms advice is this: “The FIRST time YOU CALL HIM You’ve LOST HIM”

[@KB-hf3ym]

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[@richardrivas3294]

When you believe that you deserve a good guy, that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash

[@ThingsILove2266]

Exactly- don’t deny a man the hunt

[@richardrivas3294]

@@ThingsILove2266 very correct miss!! Where are you from?!

[@crystalanamericaninsicily]

Mom is right! Your the Prize...let him TRY to Win you!

[@DTweed74]

I'm a hopeless romantic, I don't connect with many people. It has to be a deep connection beyond looks, or physical. The problem is, I see the good in people and overlook their issues, ignore the red flags, and because I'm a people pleaser, I need more boundaries! I need to stop accepting bad behavior because I see potential. Sometimes I feel like my mission in life is to love the unlovable. Ugg

[@katekoger1794]

I really appreciate all your videos! The help, the insight, the encouragement, it's incredibly assuring when I'm feeling lost or confused. Single or dating I'm trying to learn and open my heart, trusting that what's right for me will find me. Keep being amazing Mat!

[@dcampbell6548]

Mat, I love your videos and I agree with your points here, however, there is another factor that you can't control. And that is the quality of men out there. I am a confident woman with high standards and moral values. I did steps 1-4 and I have been looking for years but finding a good quality man is not easy. Men have told me that they can tell that I am a good person with high standards. But many times they say that I intimidate them. Not in a mean way because I'm friendly to everyone, but they often think that I am way above their league so they don't even try. I find it frustrating. Self-respect and moral values should not be intimidating to a man. And I don't think a woman should lower her standards just to be with someone. 😞

[@KatErina-ii6ru]

If you’re american that’s half your problem. Move overseas you’ll find a man FAST, plus he’ll have a sexy accent 😉

[@dcampbell6548]

Lol. Why fast? Because they want to immigrate? I'm Canadian btw. 😄

[@Jooney91]

Thinking you did everything right usually means you did something wrong. You sure you love yourself and feel feminine? To me this seems like you build perfect walls and image, but still did not heal some inner damage. You do not have to be perfect, do not get me wrong, just saying there are other factors you probably do not consider.

[@dcampbell6548]

@@Jooney91 I am in no way perfect. And I don't expect perfection either. Self respect is self love. And yes, I do feel very feminine. I am not sure what other factors you are referring to? If I had inner damage wouldn't I be the one running away? I am open to getting to know men. Often, I think things are going well and then I am ghosted. With the ones that there is no chemistry, we remain good friends, where I feel comfortable asking them about the situation and that is what I hear over and over again. At first, they felt intimidated.

[@dcampbell6548]

@Steve H I think you are right in the sense that many of the good quality men are married. And the fact that I live in a city where men outnumber woman probably doesn't help either. (They say 2:1 but I don't think it is that high.) My high standards are not materialistic. I don't care if he has a high paying job or a low paying one. I am self-sufficient. I don't need diamonds or perfume. I value time together where we can appreciate each other. I don't agree with your comment that I should lower my standards. My standards are not outrageous and I don't have a lot of them. My friends thought that I was really picky too, but when I told them what I was looking for, they were surprised and thought it was quite reasonable. They asked, "Is it really that hard to find men that have those qualities?" My response... "I can't find them." So Steve, maybe you could suggest to me in what vicinity I can find those single high quality men? Because I don't know where that is. 😕

[@ericafletcher8416]

He's speaking so much sense here. Don't be the version of you you think they'll like best, just be yourself. It explains so much about why I have spent so much of my life single. I wasn't being myself. It's a form of betrayal of yourself really, and only leads to poor self respect. Be you, be honest, be kind, be respectful. It's how to filter out the wrong'uns.

[@SandraHernandez-cl1if]

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[@maidavale1675]

I met the love of my life on a dating site as well. I have met him once before lockdown. After that its all virtual. But this really helps us to know ourselves better into a deeper level. Strong bond was developed. When meeting friends with social distancjng allowed we dated but 2 meters away as well. But that makes us feel of chasing each other. I think the most important thing in a relationship or meeting someone on a date or in a site no pretensions. Just be yourself. Dont step into the level where you should do this so they will like you. Me i showed who really i am. Being you is you for them to accept no matter who we are.

[@ryanarket9082]

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[@dmt0430]

happy to find out I already have entered into the revolution! I had a developmental epiphany and realized I do not want to be in a relationship with those that are difficult to be with and have toxic behaviors. So I’ve reduced back my relating to family who treat me that way.

[@amberjones3221]

Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

[@amberjones3221]

Message him on Whatsapp

[@jasprerph]

This is an eternal truth of life . If we want our life to change, WE need to change our thoughts and behaviors.

[@nabilarahim5911]

I love this view into your garden with these beautiful red flowers in the background...had to listen a second time😂

[@madisondurrenberger4147]

I’d love to end the silence and no contact and be able to jump forth to the talking stage and hanging out going on little dates getting to know eachother again !

[@terrierichards6738]

Matthew you’re so inspiring. !Do you have this boyish sweetness about you. Very unique. Love for people. Thank you for your Encouraging videos that make impact in our lives

[@briannedanielle]

Love this, you really nailed it! I needed to hear this today, right now.

[@Michelle7.17]

Matt, I think that this has been your best video/advice so far! Excellent job!!👍🏼

[@Mybizness89]

I’m so annoyed I just found you!!! I’m binge watching your videos your incredible and just helped me through a really messed up connection. Thank you so much you gained a follower 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼

[@SandraHernandez-cl1if]

Do you really need help to restore your relationship permanently?

[@melanieholstra4397]

You are awesome!! So glad I found you!

[@maxscot4236]

Hello I can recomend you to someone that helped me get my ex back recently he can also help you just as he did mine too

[@maxscot4236]

Text him on WhatsApp and

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[@happymountaingirl6719]

Every time I get rejected by a guy or waste my time on tinder I just feel it's me and then I do this, I try to change myself. If I lose weight it will be better, I think I'm talking too much, or they can sense my low esteem. I sit around lonely and bored and I don't do my painting, or play my celloe, I don't meet with friends as much, I don't sign up into the red cross and use my free time to be around people because my confidence is shot. I never considered just enjoying being myself, growing and being creative and just trusting that I'm good enough.

[@coly4ever]

I’ve been wanting to say something but I’ve been afraid of seemed angry or needy, but this video motivated me to speak my mind.

[@LouiseLanguage]

Literally so glad I found this channel

[@amydeleon3387]

Hooray for Meredith! What a fantastic example! Great advising for reminders that we forget over time. Isn't it amazing the level of low treatment we (men & women) are willing to put up with? My courageous action is to be single for a while & work on myself more! I'd love to end/stop the insane perceived need of ppl to be BUSY all the time so that they could truly enjoy & cherish their time together.

[@asmashamim9878]

Hi Mathew I love your way of talking your sense of humour and your informative videos, well done!

[@sarah-junenadeau8215]

This was an amazing video! Thank you🥰and music in background makes it so much fun I like it!

[@anabella4296]

Happy 4th day to all Americans! Coming from a windy and cloudy UK.💚

[@Jooney91]

Nice video. What you describe in step 2 and 4 I call "a good girl syndrome". I was so guilty of this and even after my revolution I sometimes forget and do that again. And again and again a reaction from universe is that things go wrong, everytime. We women are taught to be caring and sharing, but nobody tells you that you should do that on your own terms, and especially nurture yourself in a first place. Be your own source of love, wisdom and happiness, because otherwise you cannot care and share. Empty bowl cannot feed anyone. 😉

[@nitakalisingh9445]

Well said!!! Soms voelt het alsof je je perspectief kwijtraakt.Maar als je dan wat beter kijkt,zie je dat zich juist op zulke momenten nieuwe mogelijkheden openbaren.Om te groeien heb je af en toe een periode van reflectie nodig,zodat je nieuwe kansen ziet die je anders nooit had opgemerkt of zelfs helemaal niet voor mogelijk had geacht.OP NAAR EEN NIEUW HOOFDSTUK.

[@monikndrea]

Nice! I like your videos, thank you for sharing.

[@spiritualBaddi]

I'd love to create a slow burn that lasts foreverrr and full of adventure where we elevate each other 🥰

[@drisellarobert1833]

Sir, I request you to share your love Story with your wife. How the two of you met? Your love journey? Struggles, temptation u face, how u manage to fight

[@marianw4280]

Oh this is exactly the affirmation I needed at this moment, Mat.

[@runningbike7060]

Mat, I loved your Revolutionary Plan! Have always enjoyed your videos and insight. I am also a big believer in listening to your gut. The gut is never wrong, and has protected me from harm. When dating, it is critical to listen! I hope all enjoy the day! ☺️

[@Rachel_PureBold]

Thanks Matt. I have a long-term on-off friend / boyfriend. Currently we are apart because of social distancing. We are very different and maybe not entirely suited but we do have quite a deep emotional bond. I I do believe he loves me in his own way and does not have another partner, but I don't think he wants to step up and be a proper boyfriend. He always talks about really intense serious subjects so that I can't easily change the conversation on to something as mundane as what I want from my relationship! When I do raise the subject he will give me an ambiguous reassurance and then get off back onto some subject to do with politics, economics or the arts.

[@Shaniceisdivine]

I like your choice of words. Easily communicated and comprehensible.

[@thepatriciaway8169]

Thanks Matt for the awesome tips. Just realized I need to stop chasing the version of myself I want and BE that Confident high value woman that I am. My revolutionary is I want to create is to allow my man to chase and pursue me like he already does😄

[@twinflameswithtempy7019]

That’s my line too! If nothing changes nothing changes

[@greeneyesgemini9750]

I love this encouragement, Even though I already do this & have too many men chasing after me almost every where I go, & I'm not even that beautiful, well, I don't think I am.. my honey disagrees, though. & I never act on those other chasers.

[@anavanana1]

Thank you for this advice ! It’s worth gold !!! 💜

[@suriyamohd]

I used to be that girl who wanted to be the girl every man would want. Then I had a real bad experience and stopped looking. I decided what kind of guy I really want. And after some time, I found a perfect guy. Ofcourse, I'm still learning and improving, but not at the cost of my self respect, my self esteem

[@rebeccanewbaker7839]

Wow, I’ve heard this concept before, but the way you said it awakened some parts that I didn’t realize have needed love and attention. Maybe my guy will rise up to love those essential areas or maybe another man will be manifested... i feel grateful for your time love and energy in researching and sharing such important keys to love in ways that are easier to hear 🙏😍

[@lorettamiller2679]

I find your methods so soothing.

[@nafisatuumar5579]

Thank you for sharing am in call for freedom stage now😃

[@MadenNik]

What an advice man... thankyou and hats off to you matt!! 💘💘🌹🌹

[@beverlypatterson2550]

Wonderful advice ❤

[@valentinanocross8677]

Kudos Matt. This is already happening and he's pulled back and I don't know what will happen. But I am meeting a lot of. Others along the way and new wonderful men showing up as I see my value more the matching is better

[@lwontherez7927]

Hey Matt, will you make a video on how to get past the hurt of being betrayed in an 18-year marriage. I’m pretty sure that the ‘me’ I am today is not attracting men, because they must feel my hesitancy at being hurt like that again. I feel they would like the innocent, pre-hurt “me”... but sense my hesitancy (even just on a singles site) and look; but rarely send a message. Going through the pain had its benefits... helped me to mature. So, I don’t want to lose That, just the trauma of the pain I went through.

[@spreadthegospel6667]

Awesome video Matt! Time for change👍🏽

[@kaylaraines1138]

Hey Matt my name is Kayla and I really love your videos and I was wondering if you could do a series of videos on how to manifest your man? Thank you🙏 Kayla

[@atyehatyeh6257]

My love interest a kind man who happens to be a Dr. He's learning if he needs to Chase. I do not call, I do not text, I do absolutely that's pretty powerful I'm not waiting I'm living my life doing what I like to do. We'll see what happens

[@tontonmestandingtall9289]

Hair looks awesome Matt and that blue shirt is great color on you

[@milagrinafernandes3001]

Very helpful videos dear, thanks a lot for sharing this video

[@priyanshisinghchundawat9787]

I feel really blessed that I I subscribed your channel uncle.......................... love from India 😍😍😍😍 thanku so much ur making me more better day by day

[@sylviarogers8473]

Women take your power n position back. Men have to prove themselves not the other way around. If they dont want to step up let them go so the right man will know you are available. Dont give the wrong one not even a thought. Save your energies for yourself n for the right one. Meanwhile grow n learn things n have a blast because you do not need a man to define you they need you. 💕take it from a powerful, successful n beautiful woman. Matt thank you you gave me my confidence back n Im using it. Lol

[@vasilikitsekou5170]

Greatreminder. Repetition is the mother of knowledge.reprograme our subconscious! Thanks Mathew.

[@katharinabeck1892]

Less hiding and more showing myself

[@casdesigncatering912]

I binge watching your videos and you are amazing i always smile and just be like awww you nailed so many points

[@danielagreene5338]

Oooh, 😮 this helped sooo much! Thank you! 🙏

[@gigi121]

Great video! Very well-articulated

[@taniaioannou6507]

Thank you! Happy fourth of July!

[@tainahollo8567]

I love this revolution aspect! 😀

[@leakieling7613]

Thank you so much! That’s just what I needed to hear!

[@terricornett5706]

You are an absolute gift.

[@almamonta1825]

I love all your video Matt :), thank you very much.

[@ameliad7159]

I have changed my mind set of who I am and not who I should be for others. I've completely started loving me and not getting worried about how he feels. It says. It has been 3 weeks and I have not wanted to argue or worry. Since I've pulled back my energy from that guy, he seems more interested in me now that I'm being the woman I used to be. Myself. Since this time there are very few disagreements between an us. I always respond with easy messages. He seems to be more open to this and now texts me more often.

[@KirbyScruples]

this is sooooo true. I didn't articulate it that way originally however I do see that the more I let my cup run it over and invest in myself, put time in for myself the more I attract high-quality men. I've been on four dates with a very handsome Asian man who owns several businesses. Another guy took me on a mini shopping spree. an old flame and I cross paths and wants to take me shopping as well. I went to a bar and ordered some tacos one late lunch and a random guy paid for my meal after chatting for bit. I also had another old flame send me flowers to my job, randomly!

[@carolynbowman2099]

Most definitely. Thank you!

[@imc0624]

I always blame myself for them not wanted being with me, mostly bc I speak my mind. Now listening to your video make me think what I thought before if I can’t be myself then they can’t be in my life.

[@natalied6923]

Nice thought with the chasing! Love that!

[@cindy032143]

I’m dating a man that claims he doesn’t like to text. In the beginning he told me that he was getting off the dating app to focus on me. Everything was wonderful for at least 4 weeks, after that the pattern of him disappearing in Thursday and Fridays started to appear and he always has an excuse. He stated that when he goes out it is with his kids he goes incognito. Okay!! Remember he doesn’t text and the calls that we at least 2 a day dwindled. He would send dry text messages when he did, just to keep me there. I have decided that I’m walking away. We have spoken about this already and he hasn’t changed. I’m worthy and I deserve better. He is out there, I know it.😢

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Finding this video is my inciting incident, time for change thank you Matt 😊

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I met this guy on Saturday night and he seemed like he's really interested in me. He gave me his phone number and called me later that night he said he was attracted to me and wanted to get to know me. We made plans for Sunday and we hung out and watched movie Sunday afternoon. When I messaged him on Monday asking how his day was going I never got a response and it has been 3 days. I dont know if I should Text him and ask him what's going on or just let it go and let him come to me. He told me all this stuff that he's attracted to me and wanted to get to know me and he wasn't that type of guy to give out his phone number to just anybody, but now I don't know.

[@Autumn_jordan]

You're not a priority to him. Don't chase him. You're on his back-burner. You. Deserve. More. (It's possible something has happened that requires all his time, all his focus... it happens. Still- Either he'll resurface or not. You keep going about Thriving. )

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Please do not chase him. You may like him but that's not reason enough for you to lower your standards. Someone who truly likes and respects you will not ghost you

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Golden rule ladies, BE YOURSELF!!!

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Thank you Matt your advices did help me so much in my life .