5 things I learned from my twenties

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Matt D'Avella

Matt D'Avella

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@SheldonEvansx
@SheldonEvansx 4 жыл бұрын
*"I should have been grateful for the things I had rather than longing for the things I did not have."* This is the only quote you need to find happiness.
@dulguunuyench7861
@dulguunuyench7861 4 жыл бұрын
?
@farhansyedain9904
@farhansyedain9904 4 жыл бұрын
Right......
@dulguunuyench7861
@dulguunuyench7861 4 жыл бұрын
wait why did u change the comment it used to be smthn abt the office or am i just being dumb rn?
@hlk5887
@hlk5887 4 жыл бұрын
Or: I am grateful for the things I have rather than longing for the things I don't need. You experience happiness in the now.
@leiasart4610
@leiasart4610 4 жыл бұрын
Well, as a rule of thumb, but sometimes you really don't have that much to work with. Learning to appreciate the smallest of things definitely is key though.
@esthermao26
@esthermao26 4 жыл бұрын
i read a quote today: “the grass is never greener on the side. It’s greener where you water it.”
@tonikmu
@tonikmu 4 жыл бұрын
Writing this down :)
@saturnkcals
@saturnkcals 4 жыл бұрын
omg i love that
@lowwastehighmelanin
@lowwastehighmelanin 4 жыл бұрын
I LOVE this
@missrelaxed3872
@missrelaxed3872 4 жыл бұрын
Esther Mao yes! The quote is sooo right
@deepap3409
@deepap3409 4 жыл бұрын
Isn't this from As Long As You Love Me by Justin Bieber and Big Sean? 😂
@davidliang913
@davidliang913 4 жыл бұрын
When you cringe when looking back at your past. That means you've grown as a person.
@kenyeltv
@kenyeltv 4 жыл бұрын
And I’m thankful for my mistakes.
@siyno5879
@siyno5879 4 жыл бұрын
I cringe A LOT, damn it's weird the past
@jeremychamberlain-cjeacomm937
@jeremychamberlain-cjeacomm937 4 жыл бұрын
good point
@deadinside4372
@deadinside4372 4 жыл бұрын
me looking back at me eating sand: i have grown to a strong man
@ManuelBoza
@ManuelBoza 4 жыл бұрын
Big facts
@simini1837
@simini1837 4 жыл бұрын
Lessons from a 42 years old: not important are status, loads of money, a big house and a car. Important are: 1) taking care of your body and mind: your health is your wealth! 2) your loved ones: spending time with them is precious and priceless 3) enjoying not only big things but also the little things in life like a nice cup of coffee, a well prepared nutritious meal or a song on the radio (or Spotify:) 4) doing stuff for others or in the public interest in general 5) being gratefull and content for what you do have, it usually could be a lot worse 6) inner peace and personal growth
@missrelaxed3872
@missrelaxed3872 4 жыл бұрын
I should have focused on all of your points in 20s, but I wasted it by self loathing and worrying about the future and regretting my past mistakes! Since this few months now I have decided to change my mindset for good and got rid of any negative feelings I have ! I am not going back to what I was b4 and now going to change myself for better
@user-ke3vd4qz5w
@user-ke3vd4qz5w 4 жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree, thanks for sharing.
@simini1837
@simini1837 4 жыл бұрын
Miss Relaxed good luck with that, all the best!
@missrelaxed3872
@missrelaxed3872 4 жыл бұрын
Plantbased Sim thank you for this !!!
@sunside7
@sunside7 4 жыл бұрын
Such a wholesome and true comment! Thank you for this! 💙🙏
@munchandcrunch5793
@munchandcrunch5793 4 жыл бұрын
Insecurity came and only leaves when you stop caring about the outcome
@VickAntony
@VickAntony 4 жыл бұрын
U know when you feel a certain way and just need someone say the right thing. This, this comment was it. Thank you!
@chapter22dragons
@chapter22dragons 4 жыл бұрын
Preach
@ericworthington7299
@ericworthington7299 4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@guillermozamora5375
@guillermozamora5375 4 жыл бұрын
Had never heard this before, food for thought
@lotsofloveariya
@lotsofloveariya 4 жыл бұрын
Damn 👏🏽👏🏽
@IM-uh5tk
@IM-uh5tk 4 жыл бұрын
Summary: Communication is key. Happiness comes from the inside. There is no replacement for hard work. Don't let your ego sabotage your relationships. True growth takes time.
@kevindanielpg
@kevindanielpg 4 жыл бұрын
God bless you
@AK_Studioz
@AK_Studioz 3 жыл бұрын
TNX I got my time saved
@filippszafronov1912
@filippszafronov1912 4 жыл бұрын
0:57 Effective communication will solve most of your problems 2:44 Happiness comes from within 4:44 There's no substitute for hard work 6:17 Don't let your ego sabotage your relationships 7:41 True growth takes time
@purplealmond999
@purplealmond999 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for saving me 10 minutes.
@lucasgirala999
@lucasgirala999 4 жыл бұрын
thanks, god.
@vhmotam
@vhmotam 4 жыл бұрын
Gj man
@esobil2
@esobil2 4 жыл бұрын
Heroo
@millerfour2071
@millerfour2071 4 жыл бұрын
Real champ
@epbrown01
@epbrown01 4 жыл бұрын
The big lesson of my 20s was finding how little money I needed to live. I had a toxic boss, quit a good-paying job, and changed industries, starting from the bottom again at 27. It meant cutting back drastically, and it was a shock to me how much crap I was okay without. In about 3 years my salary doubled, I started saving, and had $100k saved up 3 years later. I still cringe at the money wasted in my early 20s making the same amount.
@missrelaxed3872
@missrelaxed3872 4 жыл бұрын
E Brown I am starting from the bottom again because all my money is stolen and I am broke ! Started to focus on minimalism ! Starting again can be scary but I am ready to face any challenge and enjoy the process!
@ArtFloriani
@ArtFloriani 4 жыл бұрын
Before the Minimalism documentary: skinny Matt After the Minimalism documentary: huge biceps Matt Secret: peanut butter sandwich
@SvenVee
@SvenVee 4 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha this cracked me up man
@btsislife1761
@btsislife1761 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao 😂😂
@ashyjeremy
@ashyjeremy 4 жыл бұрын
Mediocre biceps
@Bakerseed
@Bakerseed 4 жыл бұрын
I mean... Yeah, peanut butter is a pretty good source of protein and healthy fats to go bulk.
@gercius
@gercius 4 жыл бұрын
"ain't nothin but a peanut" - Ronnie Coleman
@Whitify
@Whitify 4 жыл бұрын
"20s are for learning, 30s are for earning."
@missrelaxed3872
@missrelaxed3872 4 жыл бұрын
Ha ha ! So true
@DannyLrides
@DannyLrides 4 жыл бұрын
What if you’re still learning and you’re turning 30 in a month?
@missrelaxed3872
@missrelaxed3872 4 жыл бұрын
Joey's third chin that’s me
@DannyLrides
@DannyLrides 4 жыл бұрын
Miss Relaxed That’s me too, how has it been for you?
@thebigthreekilledmyb
@thebigthreekilledmyb 4 жыл бұрын
What if you almost 40 and you still learning?
@SeanLei
@SeanLei 4 жыл бұрын
I'm half-way through my 20s and one of the most important things I've learned is to stay true to myself. Society, parents, friends will all tell you what's best for you, but it's up to YOU to figure out what you actually care about and how you want to grow.
@lilanie2887
@lilanie2887 4 жыл бұрын
💯
@ensocreators767
@ensocreators767 4 жыл бұрын
preach man, there is no one right solution to life im finding
@falonedufort
@falonedufort 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful said. Often times we get wrapped up in what others think is best for us that we fail to see it for ourselves. I’m a believer of having a mind of your own that will work out for you even after failure.
@playerboy4203
@playerboy4203 4 жыл бұрын
True man
@missrelaxed3872
@missrelaxed3872 4 жыл бұрын
Sean Lei on Investing thank you so much for this motivation
@aliabdaal
@aliabdaal 4 жыл бұрын
This is such a wholesome video ❤️❤️
@ensocreators767
@ensocreators767 4 жыл бұрын
all of his are! Great channel on your end too Ali :)
@timothylam3314
@timothylam3314 4 жыл бұрын
Woah Ali you're here!
@bw7112
@bw7112 4 жыл бұрын
Bwoah!!! Ali is here!!!
@muntashirrahman2529
@muntashirrahman2529 4 жыл бұрын
Oh yes, Ali Abdaal is here.
@rosabel8453
@rosabel8453 4 жыл бұрын
Ali you're my crush
@JustinVConroy
@JustinVConroy 4 жыл бұрын
"There's no substitute for hard work" - Couldn't agree more, Matt. Your hard work shows with every video. Thanks for the great and motivating content.
@mariaiqbalart
@mariaiqbalart 4 жыл бұрын
SHORTCUTS only SHORTCHANGE you. Found out the hard way.
@tim8241
@tim8241 4 жыл бұрын
“May the flowers remind us why the rain was so necessary.”
@ZachHighley
@ZachHighley 4 жыл бұрын
I got scared for a second that I wouldn't see Matt make coffee
@namebrandmason
@namebrandmason 4 жыл бұрын
I had to go back and make certain there was a shot of him rolling out of bed. (It's at 5:00 exactly)
@wereallpinkinside8452
@wereallpinkinside8452 4 жыл бұрын
😂
@amandaorjacobchamberlain4505
@amandaorjacobchamberlain4505 4 жыл бұрын
lolz, x.x
@SamsherSidhu
@SamsherSidhu 4 жыл бұрын
"these if-then statements are mostly conditional" programmers watching: well, yes
@camtelle557
@camtelle557 4 жыл бұрын
Haha I've been looking for a programming comment about that line 👌
@ossie200
@ossie200 4 жыл бұрын
haha funny
@eveecat
@eveecat 4 жыл бұрын
i thought the same thing haha
@jamesbriggs
@jamesbriggs 4 жыл бұрын
Came looking for this comment as soon as I heard him say it
@MllesBrash
@MllesBrash 4 жыл бұрын
I was like, "well that's redundant.” 😅
@plarenthx
@plarenthx 4 жыл бұрын
Arguably the highest quality of content on KZbin.
@ensocreators767
@ensocreators767 4 жыл бұрын
he is such a film maker and weaves stories and emotions into each sentence he says
@aldavedesierdo42
@aldavedesierdo42 4 жыл бұрын
I'm glad I'm still 19 I watched self-improvement videos like this.
@DannyLrides
@DannyLrides 4 жыл бұрын
Aldave Desierdo use your years wisely my friend. I’m turning 30 in a few weeks just started school. Sometimes I kick myself in the ass for not starting sooner because I was too busy fucking around in my early 20s.
@Aj__Lopez
@Aj__Lopez 4 жыл бұрын
Joey's third chin as long as your starting now rather than never. Good luck to you you’ll do great 👍🏽
@DannyLrides
@DannyLrides 4 жыл бұрын
Dre Rose thanks Dre that’s kind of you to say. Wishing all the best for you too stranger :)
@aldavedesierdo42
@aldavedesierdo42 4 жыл бұрын
@@DannyLrides its my birthday yesterday. I feel really great than in my past ages. Implementing workout, improve charisma and self esteem, and applying stoic philosophy makes my day better. I am fulfilled and I can't wait to battle any challenges in this training for adult stage.
@DannyLrides
@DannyLrides 4 жыл бұрын
Aldave Desierdo That is good advice Aldave, needed to hear that. Thanks man. Happy birthday by the way!
@nicole1822
@nicole1822 4 жыл бұрын
1. Effective communication will solve most of your problems. Be a proactive communications. Don’t avoid important conversations because they make you uncomfortable. 2. Happiness comes from within. Not physical possessions or followers or admiration from others. Notice the things you already have instead of focusing on what you don’t. Look into minimalism. (It really is a good documentary) 3. No substitute for hard work. You still need to do the work to improve. 4. Don’t let your ego ruin your relationships. Own up to your mistakes. Don’t avoid conflict. Learn how to control your emotions. Take a moment to cool down before getting heated up. Let people know why you’re hurt. 5. True growth takes time. You think there’s a shortcut to wealth and fame, but it takes time before you’re able to get there. Invest in your skills. Make many mistakes because you have the time to learn from them. Very good advice.
@fivepinkbullets
@fivepinkbullets 4 жыл бұрын
“There are no shortcuts if you wanna progress in your career, it’s gonna take rolling up your sleeves and doing the work. And if you’re lucky enough to find something that you truly love, that you can make a full-time living from, you’ll find the reward in the work itself.” - This quote made my day, Matt. Thank you!
@farfromgreat9298
@farfromgreat9298 4 жыл бұрын
I’m 20 and have felt very, very lost today - this has given me so much perspective on everything again. Thanks Matt ❤️
@TheMarizzca
@TheMarizzca 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 21 and have the exact same feeling. Makes me a little bit happier that it's not just me!
@Fubuki43
@Fubuki43 4 жыл бұрын
Same!
@Deltaalfa997
@Deltaalfa997 4 жыл бұрын
Me too. Maybe we all feel this way. Hopefully this video will rise the moral,
@wanda5671
@wanda5671 4 жыл бұрын
Yes It made my day too :)
@AdityaRaj222
@AdityaRaj222 4 жыл бұрын
@Savannah Corona You have a beautiful name.
@MindsetWithJosh
@MindsetWithJosh 4 жыл бұрын
Another important lesson I've learned in my 20s is that you should figure out what you truly want, and go after it ─ for yourself! Don't go down a life path that others tell you to take, as that will almost always lead to unhappiness. Find out what YOU want.
@benb3799
@benb3799 4 жыл бұрын
Also don’t let other people talk you out of things .... number one road block to success in the 20’s is listening to people who are going to talk you out of what you need to do to be successful because they are Afraid to see you fail. Struggling is part of the path. Take risks.
@missrelaxed3872
@missrelaxed3872 4 жыл бұрын
Mindset With Josh it made me unhappy , but I have finally changed the direction I want to go in my life! Thanks for this motivation
@ART-kp9cn
@ART-kp9cn 3 жыл бұрын
so true. I am in mid 30's now and wish I knew this in my 20's. Would of been much happier today.
@MisterPol
@MisterPol 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 22. What I learned so far is that I need to keep watching Matt's videos.
@MisterPol
@MisterPol 4 жыл бұрын
oh and thanks Matt for inspiring me to start my self-development channel!!
@oliverjaybower
@oliverjaybower 4 жыл бұрын
Same 😂
@kenyeltv
@kenyeltv 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been Binge watching all his videos during the quarantine. Best thing from this whole COVID madness.
@jayeshvyaasa
@jayeshvyaasa 4 жыл бұрын
@@kenyeltv and I've cleaned up my room real nice. 😂
@Massimo_Media
@Massimo_Media 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 19, and I couldn't agree with this more.
@joymae
@joymae 4 жыл бұрын
My biggest lesson I learned in my 20s was to stop caring about what others think and that has helped me reach my goals in my career, business, and financial goals!!! Thanks for this video as well.
@kenyeltv
@kenyeltv 4 жыл бұрын
I’m 28! Around this age you start to really understand why you made all those mistakes in your early twenties.
@davewhite9464
@davewhite9464 4 жыл бұрын
Thinking about it all day
@UrAWizard
@UrAWizard 4 жыл бұрын
respect
@ebonysabbs6084
@ebonysabbs6084 4 жыл бұрын
So true I’m 28 and really reflecting!!
@stirfryjedi
@stirfryjedi 4 жыл бұрын
End of 29 vs end of 28 could not have been more different...
@kenyeltv
@kenyeltv 4 жыл бұрын
Wm. Jordan Dent I’m ready!
@jadel7938
@jadel7938 4 жыл бұрын
“Put in the effort now and reap the benefits in a few years time. Your future self will thank you”- this struck a chord with me! 😊 I’m a fellow Aussie and I’d love to see how your partner is going with her new business & how she’s adapting! 🙌🏻
@InstantLuc
@InstantLuc 4 жыл бұрын
I’m almost 30. I’ve learned nothing. Pray for me
@crusader2603
@crusader2603 4 жыл бұрын
Kyron Baxter lol I gotchu
@kenyeltv
@kenyeltv 4 жыл бұрын
Ha! I got you.
@bonifacemungai5324
@bonifacemungai5324 4 жыл бұрын
God bless you, amen.
@jayeshvyaasa
@jayeshvyaasa 4 жыл бұрын
Let's pray for each other brother. 🙏🙏
@Renecide
@Renecide 4 жыл бұрын
Your name sounds like a super villain, so you already won at life my man! 😄
@ausshtin
@ausshtin 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Matt. I turned 20 on June 20th. I discovered and immediately subscribed to your channel the same day. The first video I watched that day was ‘6 things I wish I knew in my twenties.’ And here you are, with a recap on the same. Man, I can’t thank you much for the inspiration and sense of direction you’ve inculcated into me, especially as I start this new, interesting phase of life. You’ve been an Angel. Once again, thanks a bunch! Love from Kenya!!🇰🇪
@nessyfay
@nessyfay 4 жыл бұрын
Comparing yourself in your twenties can make everything much harder! Success is defined on your own terms and your own path
@benwalters4142
@benwalters4142 4 жыл бұрын
"I was spending so much time on the pursuit of happiness that I was completely neglecting all the things I already had that could've been making me happy." As someone in their late 20's, and especially with the current state of the world, I can't tell you how much this resonates with me.
@timbo3009
@timbo3009 4 жыл бұрын
Matts' Top five Takeaways 0:59 Affective Communication will solve most of your problems 2:45 Happiness comes from within 4:44 There is no substitute for hard work 6:15 Don't let your ego sabotage your relationships 7:39 True growth takes time
@timbo3009
@timbo3009 4 жыл бұрын
@Pink Fanta your welcome Buddy :))
@artemis1379
@artemis1379 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks💜
@makeupartistrybymuskan
@makeupartistrybymuskan 4 жыл бұрын
Having found my passion in my early 20's and actually making it my career, Thank you Matt for making me realize that i need to be wayyy more for grateful for that!
@josephremonte962
@josephremonte962 4 жыл бұрын
I’m turning 21 in October. There is a lot of insecurity in the air, but I know that 1) you have one life 2) you can do wutever u want with it 3) it’s about the journey, not the destination. I wish u all success and above all happiness 🙏
@hlk5887
@hlk5887 4 жыл бұрын
You have the wisdom of an older man.
@nazmanrashid7830
@nazmanrashid7830 4 жыл бұрын
@V King awww.thats cute😁😁😄
@Crisbrow
@Crisbrow 4 жыл бұрын
"Don't let your ego sabotage your relationship" I wish this video was release way earlier.. I had to learn this the hard way, and cost me the love of my life to walk away... Thank you for this Matt!
@amanallahelkormany
@amanallahelkormany 4 жыл бұрын
"when I was twenty everything was so different " *turned 21 yesterday*
@m.d.j6180
@m.d.j6180 4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations!
@rohanv2574
@rohanv2574 4 жыл бұрын
Belated birthday wishes buddy
@iancena2200
@iancena2200 4 жыл бұрын
Belated happy birthday man.
@anna-maymoon1001
@anna-maymoon1001 4 жыл бұрын
Happy Birthday!
@christopherspecht2660
@christopherspecht2660 4 жыл бұрын
Happy birthday!
@anamericanentrepreneur
@anamericanentrepreneur 4 жыл бұрын
My biggest lesson? You can’t control other people’s reactions, but you can control your reaction. He who angers you controls you.
@KAY-pv9bu
@KAY-pv9bu 4 жыл бұрын
Why is no one talking about how Matt ten years ago looks like Ryan from the Office?
@Loostyc
@Loostyc 4 жыл бұрын
So pretty
@siyno5879
@siyno5879 4 жыл бұрын
So pretty and a little less of weird. I love it.
@thecoffeehog
@thecoffeehog 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah!!!! Someone said it.
@NostrilNuisance
@NostrilNuisance 4 жыл бұрын
Omg I can't unsee it.
@paulinabarba3949
@paulinabarba3949 4 жыл бұрын
I was just about to comment the same thing
@felipejundi
@felipejundi 4 жыл бұрын
watching this at my 20's and trying really hard to not procrastinate in my duties....
@ensocreators767
@ensocreators767 4 жыл бұрын
Delete your video games! I just deleted valorant today. get cracking
@UrAWizard
@UrAWizard 4 жыл бұрын
youve got time, dont beat yourself up because you dont think youre moving fast enough, thats one thing ive learnt and am still learning. If you continue to shift your focus to positive things every day, and slowly make positive changes over the years, youll be absolutely fine.
@scintillating269
@scintillating269 4 жыл бұрын
Summary: 1 Effective communication will solve most of your problems 2 Happiness comes from within 3 There is no substitute for hardwork 4. Don't let your ego sabotage your relationships 5. True growth takes time
@gekkedanszot
@gekkedanszot 4 жыл бұрын
"True growth takes time". Thank you for saying that specifically. I've been talking with a lot of people who are struggling with mental health, and TIME is never talked about. There is this way of thinking that everything can be fixed with just one week of vacation. Or that you can change in just a little month... But growth, in any form whatsoever, takes time. Thank you for your amazing videos
@BigT4489
@BigT4489 4 жыл бұрын
At 26 I'm trying to take all this in now so I can grow. I feel like I've been mostly in the same spot for years now, so I gotta take in as much advice as I can
@BigDomski
@BigDomski 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 23 now, and yet I feel like my "adventure" is yet to start
@Sarah-cy8bc
@Sarah-cy8bc 4 жыл бұрын
It’s up to you to make it happen, man. Don’t be a bystander of your own life and end up letting it pass you by!
@amandaorjacobchamberlain4505
@amandaorjacobchamberlain4505 4 жыл бұрын
Think of it like an RPG.... until they leave their home town (the known) their story is just backstory... then the adventure begins when they start to take risks and explore the unknown wider world... so just start taking steps... or go deep and find what you really want out of life if you can figure it out on paper first... but it is definitely not likely to come rushing into your living room on you... GO FOR IT! and do your best =)
@the.learningproject
@the.learningproject 4 жыл бұрын
Great talk! Making mistakes is truly how we learn and grow. We create hypotheses about the world and how it works, and test them. When we’re growing, most of the hypotheses we form fail, but we learn from the outcome and create new ones, slowly refining our understanding of the world and our place in it. Only through trial and error can we learn and accommodate new knowledge.
@patring999
@patring999 3 жыл бұрын
Hardest lesson I have to learn: "we are more disappointed of our expectations of others than their action" -Anna Jonna Shits hard because 1. We have to name our emotions 2. We have to be accountable of our emotions 3. we have to be accountable of our own actions. Im 25 years old, divorced from 5 years marriage. I was so broken hearted when he came home one night and asked for divorce. I was angry at him because he's throwing all of our efforts away when in realityyyyyyy, I was more hurt of what we could have been. We could have family together, grow old together with our grandkids running around souped up in candy while our kids try to figure out how parenting works. It sucks, it helped me to learn how to let go. It was not his fault that he realized he had to take care of himself and that journey meant going through it on his own. That's human, what he and I was feeling was human. In the end, it was my expectation that failed me, not him.
@JustEz
@JustEz 4 жыл бұрын
Matt dropping all the great advice as usual! I love it, you’re so inspiring and have really helped me change to a different path in my life, I’ve just turned 20 and this is super interesting to watch ☺️ Thanks 😁 x
@adeleduke2269
@adeleduke2269 4 жыл бұрын
Agree - love his videos!
@epochstories
@epochstories 4 жыл бұрын
I completely agree with your take on failure. The 20's should be the time for us to try new things, take risks and learn with them. Failure should be normalized, because it's essential for the growth.
@DPowRs
@DPowRs 4 жыл бұрын
Us: Matt: “I ate PB sandwiches for 30 Days, here is what I found...”
@Iivinginfiction
@Iivinginfiction 4 жыл бұрын
i literally had a pb sandwich practically every morning in my first semester of college and every single morning in my second semester lmao. idk how i never got tired of it
@stirfryjedi
@stirfryjedi 4 жыл бұрын
My co-worker's doctor literally prescribed two tablespoons of PB every hour to his pregnant wife and it saved their underweight baby. Literally like doubled in weight during the last 3 weeks or something.
@CarolinaMaiorano
@CarolinaMaiorano 4 жыл бұрын
Daniel Powers 😹😹😹
@twinsauce
@twinsauce 4 жыл бұрын
I remember watching minimalism the documentary right when I found it on Netflix, and instantly my life was changed. I’m so glad you took the chance and put in the work to make such an amazing documentary that has helped change my life and so many others.
@pianist-eesen
@pianist-eesen 4 жыл бұрын
So true Matt. When you prioritize yourself and when realize how little everything else matters, the more growth you will see.
@lowwastehighmelanin
@lowwastehighmelanin 4 жыл бұрын
Matt you had the swoop hair? I would never have guessed! 🤣 That aside, I often tell people that your 20s are like extended teen years. For one, your brain is still developing until about the midway point. I don't consider someone under 25 an adult yet (and neither does the British NHS). Additionally, it's like a decade of constant imposter syndrome and the time when you're so obsessed with what anyone else thinks you don't notice you're caught up. 30 was a breath of fresh air. I always tell everyone to stop stressing and just wait it out and do your best until then. I'm still struggling, life isn't easy, but I'll be 35 this year and I'm pretty comfortable with who I am and I've never felt better~
@rj5795
@rj5795 4 жыл бұрын
It's crazy how in my teens people thought I was crazy for being a minimalist before minimalist was a thing nowadays lol.
@danielshaikhali5108
@danielshaikhali5108 4 жыл бұрын
Same dude
@rj5795
@rj5795 4 жыл бұрын
@@vak22 Yeah I should of gotten a copyright on minimalism lol
@rj5795
@rj5795 4 жыл бұрын
@@vak22 I tried but I couldn't😄
@Ava-nv8es
@Ava-nv8es 4 жыл бұрын
"failure is the price you pay for trying anything" ~ this video is the best thing
@caproductivity8463
@caproductivity8463 4 жыл бұрын
You inspire me in literally everything I do , my studies , my habit forming , my growth and my channel so thank you 🙏🏿
@DepressionTalks1
@DepressionTalks1 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 27 now... the 20s are no joke lol
@Maria-dx6ws
@Maria-dx6ws 4 жыл бұрын
Do you see yourself as an introverted person? If yes maybe you could make a video about how it affects your life in general and what you have learned about it so far.
@ashin4728
@ashin4728 4 жыл бұрын
In my twenties. Complete focus is on improving life experiences & staying grateful. 🙂✌️
@hakeemmnc.3432
@hakeemmnc.3432 4 жыл бұрын
One thing that I truly believe is that Real growth is at the end of your comfort zone.
@caylinjade7979
@caylinjade7979 3 жыл бұрын
I just turned 21 and this video really helped me! Thank you so much for this, I’ve been struggling to find my passions and how to really get things going, and I absolutely agree communication is pivotal to all of our experiences. You’re absolutely right about how happiness comes from within
@nooralamery6383
@nooralamery6383 4 жыл бұрын
I Was just having an existential crisis due to stress during 20s I saw this. Matt is watching me
@alexjulius69
@alexjulius69 4 жыл бұрын
Dude, the point you made about using your 20s to make as much mistakes as possible really resonated with me. Truly wise words and something to live by. Because really, who cares - we'll all grow out of our 20s and never be the same person again. Even if it's "cringy", you never know what it'll lead to.
@luisavocado
@luisavocado 4 жыл бұрын
you inspire me everyday Matt
@tatjanaf.5284
@tatjanaf.5284 4 жыл бұрын
What I love about your videos is that in every shot, in every editing you see your love for filmmaking and your passion for detail. Sometimes I only watch your videos for the visual aspects. And somehow you even make the sponsoring part exciting to watch.
@juliettecoatsworth1493
@juliettecoatsworth1493 4 жыл бұрын
1. Effective communication will solve most of your problems. 2. Happiness comes from within. 3. There's no substitute for hard work. 4. Don't let your ego sabotage your relationships. 5. True growth takes time.
@maggiecawthorn5653
@maggiecawthorn5653 4 жыл бұрын
Growth can keep happening. My most transformative years are now in my 60s, and your vlog has been part of my journey over the last 2 years, thankyou
@alajode
@alajode 4 жыл бұрын
"True growth takes time" - This.
@lauraleyshon6268
@lauraleyshon6268 4 жыл бұрын
Needed this today. Had a phonecall with a client about their invoice...we hadn't set a budget, and they also had no idea that making five minute video would take longer than 3 hours. I'm glad Im not the only one who gets these things wrong, but lesson very much learnt.
@InnerResearcher
@InnerResearcher 4 жыл бұрын
*I was spending so much time on the pursuit of happiness that I was completely neglecting all the things that I already had that could have been making me happy* Ooft. Straight to the point. Thank you for this, Matt! I'm turning 23 tomorrow and in the last few years, I've been learning these lessons myself -- especially about effective communication. Great video, great wisdom
@destini8690
@destini8690 4 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for this, i turn 21 the day before thanksgiving this year and i'm still struggling to adjust to adulthood. this is not only inspiring and raw, it gave me a sense of hope and belief that we (as in me) will all find our way… even if that isn't in our twenties.
@chartherese
@chartherese 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 18 and I've learned some of these lessons through my experience too. Thank you Matt for inspiring me to look forward to learning more as I get older😁
@marcofigueroa1235
@marcofigueroa1235 4 жыл бұрын
Throughout this quarantine, I have been thinking about random stuff, putting pressure on myself and overthinking a lot of things up to the point that I've been suffering depression. I've been slacking all the time, not eating properly, not getting enough sleep while facing my phone all day. But I'm thankful for my friends and family who keeps supporting and believing in me and keeping me sane but the problem is, I have already lost faith in myself. I was on the verge of giving up until I watched this video. It gave me realizations about life and a boost to start again. It made me think of the people who are have been supportive despite of me being a disappointment. Now, I won't let them down. I will start to work hard on myself and prioritize on what should be done. I am very much grateful that I stumbled upon this video. You just made a lost 20-year-old student regain his hopes back up and for that, thank you.
@imsamiurrahman
@imsamiurrahman 4 жыл бұрын
This guy seriously changed my life.
@purrrfectblood
@purrrfectblood 4 жыл бұрын
The part about your job really hit home. I'm always asking questions about what's the passion in my life and everyone argues I need something different than my job. But you know what? Don't need that anymore. I start teaching next february and that is my passion. I love learning new things and couldn't imagine a better job for me. I don't need a huge circle of friends or way more money than I spend. I don't need a trillion other hobbies if I enjoy teaching and being creative with that. Now I just need to tell that myself everyday of our teaching apprenticeship.... yay. or not.
@VihanChelliah
@VihanChelliah 4 жыл бұрын
This is so dope Matt. So much to learn from your twenties. I made a similar video on the lessons I'm learning in my 20s. Thanks for the inspiration as always
@sophietopham8822
@sophietopham8822 4 жыл бұрын
I love the consultancy of colour and the whole look and feel of the videos and love that this will hopefully never change too. The finish is perfect every time and the content is always great too
@TheGitGuild
@TheGitGuild 4 жыл бұрын
The one important thing I've learned is to importance of sharing experiences, projects, work and many other stuff. Actually, this is the sole reason why I've started my yt channel in a hope that I could pursue my passion every single day while entertaining/educating others :)
@engboy69
@engboy69 4 жыл бұрын
I think we're subbed to a lot of the same channels. I always see you in the comments. Keep up the good work with your channel, man! I actually started a channel myself for the same reasons as you
@internetprincess8998
@internetprincess8998 4 жыл бұрын
watching this video in the morning on my birthday. exactly 22 today and i'll try to remember and practice all matt's advices in this video for the years to come. thanks for motivating me!
@CaseyBurnsInvesting
@CaseyBurnsInvesting 4 жыл бұрын
30s are going to be the best. It’s like your adult life is a balance of youth/naïveté transitioning to aged/wisdom 30’s are in that sweet spot.
@BizarreAvenir
@BizarreAvenir 4 жыл бұрын
Do you have any advice for someone turning 30?
@Emily-jx8em
@Emily-jx8em 4 жыл бұрын
I'll get back to you on that one.
@clovermark39
@clovermark39 4 жыл бұрын
60 is good too.
@spacedoggo7655
@spacedoggo7655 4 жыл бұрын
@@BizarreAvenir yes here : kzbin.info/www/bejne/hnqzmpmegtF5eLM
@carmenzagonzalez2120
@carmenzagonzalez2120 4 жыл бұрын
I just share this video with 24 and 26 yo niece and nephew so clear path to be mindful about what make us happy 😊 Thanks for your videos
@financnyminimalizmus3621
@financnyminimalizmus3621 4 жыл бұрын
Every morning, arround 5 AM, I make my self a vegie cup of coffee and turn on Matt's video to start my day, so I can think during the day of the tasks I should be focusing on and I wont fall down of the path
@tomaskopecky7058
@tomaskopecky7058 4 жыл бұрын
very nice said my friend :)
@Potatolands
@Potatolands 4 жыл бұрын
Bro how can you do that , i wake up feeling like i am a zombie ,no motivation ,energy or will to even make my own bed.
@financnyminimalizmus3621
@financnyminimalizmus3621 4 жыл бұрын
Kompir Gaming when do you go to bed or how long do you sleep my friend?
@Potatolands
@Potatolands 4 жыл бұрын
Finančný Minimalizmus I am trying to fix my sleeping schedule,i used to stay up all night and then sleep all day long but it's been a week since i changed my sleeping habits ,now i go to bed at 11:30/12 PM and wake up at 8 AM hoping it would make me feel more energetic and productive i still feel like there's something missing like... i don't even know i think i am just depressed.
@lauraaljundi
@lauraaljundi 4 жыл бұрын
For the communication thing, i am now 23 and i am still learning with every mistake that i need to talk and communicate more to avoid misunderstandings, losing people i care about and make more stronger relationships. Very valid point.
@red_dll
@red_dll 4 жыл бұрын
I can agree with the personal growth. I am 21 (almost 22) and I feel like I grew more in these few years than I have from age 0-19. To be fair, from 0-14 I obviously was a baby/ child/ early teenager and I am fine with that. Live your childhood. But lookikg at myself from 15-19 I wish I would have been a lot more eager to learn than I was. My personal growth started at like 18 just after graduating highschool and living more on my own. But the interest to learn new skills and such wasn't there before.
@FamilyonStandby
@FamilyonStandby 4 жыл бұрын
True growth takes time and the communication are HUGE. People often undervalue these two thoughts.
@jeremychamberlain-cjeacomm937
@jeremychamberlain-cjeacomm937 4 жыл бұрын
"I should have been grateful for the things I had rather than longing for the things I did not have." Niiiice.
@amirzarrin4567
@amirzarrin4567 4 жыл бұрын
Matt is such an underrated and amazing KZbinr he works super hard and all of his videos are amazingly educational
@kenyeltv
@kenyeltv 4 жыл бұрын
Matt gives quality advice. The end.
@ensocreators767
@ensocreators767 4 жыл бұрын
its quality, but thats not at all why he stands out. His film making and way of delivering topics makes him a genius. Its an emotional rollercoaster with literally every sentence he says. Pay attention to this when he delivers a sentence. Literally just one sentence
@ijaen
@ijaen 4 жыл бұрын
In my household we are going through a very difficult phase, I never thought this virus could disrupt our life at this level. This video taught me a couple lessons about communication and self awareness. Thank you Matt. I appreciate it.
@zayneytem
@zayneytem 4 жыл бұрын
I'm too early that it seems like it's a minimalist comment section.
@MarijkeViolin
@MarijkeViolin 4 жыл бұрын
(Young) people tend to think they need to accomplish (mostly material) things that in the end don't matter at all. Happiness is simple: a feeling of control over your life, making time for things you enjoy doing and being grateful for what you already have.
@fhguejg8188
@fhguejg8188 4 жыл бұрын
I'm in my early twenties, and I am investing money on a career I don't want to do but my parents push me to try it anyways. They say it's my fault that I don't know what I want to do w/ my life. I don't know what my future holds.
@Superhero-Motivation
@Superhero-Motivation 4 жыл бұрын
Hey man! I'm really sorry that your parents blame you for that :( I want to let you know that it's absolutely not your fault. Knowing what you want can be such a long journey. I have so many passions and interests but I still don't really know what I want. It's okay man.
@erickquidam
@erickquidam 4 жыл бұрын
You've been giving me inspiration for more than one year and sometimes a video feels like an embrace. I started question and doubting about everuthing I know to get better and treat me as I deserve. Thanks for that, Matt. You're unique in KZbin.
@ruitorre
@ruitorre 4 жыл бұрын
In my mid 20's I was fighting for my life (lupus) but at the same time I was giving my very best in photography, programming and design... I think I'm a bit better now at all those 3 things but still, fighting for my life cause things come and go (fortunately I had some years of peace and health) Wish you all a good journey living, learning and being passionate about what you do every day
@poopbear66
@poopbear66 4 жыл бұрын
I am glad you are feeling better now Rui. Stay strong!
@ruitorre
@ruitorre 4 жыл бұрын
@@poopbear66 I'm actually in a middle of another Lupus crisis but I'm doing my best. Thank you :)
@aska4340
@aska4340 3 жыл бұрын
SO INSPIRING. No shortcut for hard work. Thank you Matt.
@DemetriPanici
@DemetriPanici 4 жыл бұрын
Those biceps don’t see age
@gabb314
@gabb314 4 жыл бұрын
I am so glad to be in my 20s and having people such as yourself to inspire me and give guidance for my own path. Guys, you want something? Work the shit out for it, that’s the only shortcut to get where you want and to get what you want. Once again, thank you, Matt.
@lasagnaravioli
@lasagnaravioli 4 жыл бұрын
Conspiracy: Matt does have lips when he’s not filming
@lasagnaravioli
@lasagnaravioli 4 жыл бұрын
Bvbs at least I’m not alone now haha
@pkpatil5857
@pkpatil5857 4 жыл бұрын
He talks his heart out.....that's special thing!
@XIANC
@XIANC 4 жыл бұрын
Not in my 20's yet but I certainly hope that I will learn a lot in the future
@intentionalmastery
@intentionalmastery 4 жыл бұрын
Self Awareness is the key all times.
@tripleg8352
@tripleg8352 4 жыл бұрын
0:57 Effective communication 2:45 Happiness 4:44 Hard work 6:16 Your ego 7:40 True growth You're welcome
@mrswiggityswag472
@mrswiggityswag472 4 жыл бұрын
These videos literally give me hope and life. As a 21 year old struggling with life (yes I know I’m still young) I stress about paying my rent, my phone, my car etc. And I feel like I’m not getting anywhere in life but watching you’re videos always give me that relief that everything will be okay at the end of the day. That I got this and I can make it in life. That I can be successful with time. I really appreciate you dude and thanks for everything you do to help us with our daily struggles.
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