This Mattew Coast is EXTREMELY knowledgeable and effective. He definitely knows his craft.
@MatthewCoast6 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@rm-nelson12566 жыл бұрын
Naphisa Modmonss Exactly !!!
@samisonimatemaatongataufa35456 жыл бұрын
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@crystalronyk25604 жыл бұрын
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@tuyennguyen-vg7wb2 жыл бұрын
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@akankshasharma43665 жыл бұрын
No 1- Don't make yourself available all the time No 2- Be confident about yourself No 3- Become a roller coaster of emotions ( fun, amazing, scary,wanted,funny, emotional) No 4- Become unpredictable.
@megatron63824 жыл бұрын
5-be feminine 6-radiat your sexual energy..
@mariamargaritis77434 жыл бұрын
This sounds like a narcissist
@eudiatracyomondi66464 жыл бұрын
You just saved me 11 minute video
@DuxpaOfficial4 жыл бұрын
Also, many males hate this.
@fandomlove66073 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@achybellahpergo54592 жыл бұрын
If you believe in yourself putting God first be patient and Everything will fall into place if he love you he will stick around if he doesn't well and good you cannot force love or feeling to a person
@olliewhelan24202 жыл бұрын
From new zealand hello mr pergo thats very true if you believe in God things will fall into His timing dont force your love to love you it will happen when you hoth feel the same towards each other you willwant to be with each other allthe time thats called love
@me1ody692 жыл бұрын
Well I just did. In fact god told me to🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
@nicolebenta56372 жыл бұрын
God helps those who help themselves
@me1ody692 жыл бұрын
@@nicolebenta5637 so he helps those who doesn't need help? What about those who cant help themselves
@nicolebenta56372 жыл бұрын
@@me1ody69 thats a totaly deferent case
@sofiafranca205 жыл бұрын
Starts at 3:00 your welcome 😅
@oliviaonstandby54985 жыл бұрын
You're not your
@jozolana5 жыл бұрын
Thanks😂💙
@deborahmugisa86115 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😂😂😂
@teyannabailey85694 жыл бұрын
Omg thank you!
@iamURHO4 жыл бұрын
You'll miss out.
@larafitzpatrick31403 жыл бұрын
Never chase a man - keep it classy not mean and nasty .. say what u feel and never tell a Man U love him first. . Have your own life
@rominarahbar20118 ай бұрын
fuck.. i did this mistake. i told him i love him first. what do i do now? how do i fix it?? he said he loves me back but i want to start over
@coollife15856 жыл бұрын
Men are tough sometimes, even women give them so much love and attention, they still act like dry towards his women
@harbanskaur53385 жыл бұрын
Evelyn Jamil yeah !! This is my current situation ! No idea what's next
@reysom20525 жыл бұрын
😞
@azelia4445 жыл бұрын
Evelyn Jamil exactly
@romasa30almahdi785 жыл бұрын
saaaaame plz heeeeellllp meeeee
@triptithaverdasani78985 жыл бұрын
My man my love is so faar frm me but all. Man changes now he shows so attitude n when I say him he don't listen nicely it hurts me first when he had approached me he loves m so madly now he ja little changes my Mariage is on November
@lifegleam72056 жыл бұрын
Quality woman out there, just enjoy the moment with your man , but try not to be so emotionally dependent on him like his only the source of your happiness .Try to be yourself , be empowered , give him the space he wants , and I'm sure he will long for you.
@sanariaz90533 жыл бұрын
Great 👍
@velvetpixiecake5310 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely 👌
@maix1394 ай бұрын
Yup give him space let him come to u lol
@acfreeman24526 жыл бұрын
One special woman formula: Key component is being high value; you enrich and enhance his life, he needs to strive to obtain you; not so much that you are completely out of reach; 1) Be happy in your own life; he sees this amazing fun interesting person; he feels like he is winning constantly; 2) Feeling attractive confident valuable yourself; 3) focus on what he feels when he is around you 4) being unpredictable mysterious and surprising.
@femalehobbitwithhairyfeet6 жыл бұрын
@A.C. F thanks for this. I was struggling to stay awake through the jibber jabber of the long video. Your summary of the vid is so straight to the point, saved me so much time.
@jessilyntacorda94696 жыл бұрын
mourn-a-lisa LOL.. He does ramble on but his tips are great.
@septemberdawnluketz6 жыл бұрын
Yep. He is definetely going to have to try harder. My value is priceless, I'm recognizing my worth and choosing to never settle for less anymore. So sick of settling in life with men that aren't committed and don't want to settle down with a quality woman. Wake up guys. Women are tired of the games
@MatthewCoast6 жыл бұрын
Yeah, a lot of guys are feeling the same way... could be several different things happening here.
@jesusreturning30036 жыл бұрын
Same, i too got fed up, and decided not to date anymore till one stood out, then a few years later, God revealed who my future husband is, he knows who i am as well, in the right timing we will court for marriage soon, pray for God to reveal yours and he will bring him around in his timing, many dont believe God will do this, but he is very detailed and strategic, he already has what we need before the beginning of time, In the mean time, there is nothing wrong with weeding out the bad ones, glad you know your worth too :-))) PS: Commitment connection, im pleased to hear men are also waking up too, alot are starting to realise this idea of the hook up culture or using con artist tactics to reel in women is not as all rewarding as they where fed to believe. Thanks for your uploads, you touch on alot of things that have been lost in this era, implementing some traditions in the rship is what will bond a couple together, esp when tough times knock on the door.
@apoloniaayala61186 жыл бұрын
So Damn true. I’m with a guy that wants to act like we’re married and wants to make the rules and treat me like we’re still dating . Like I have to put up with his secrets life . He wants the best of both worlds. It’s bullshit! I’m way better than that!
@strang11245 жыл бұрын
Ok, what do you have to offer other than looks. Which goes straight down hill in your mid 30s. He will provide you a higher $ status & security He will bring physical protection for you He will set the family morals I am all ears.
@Kkf73735 жыл бұрын
Yes, know your worth but also know its not only about you when relationship building.
@goldraya173611 ай бұрын
1_Being valuable women 2_being happy ,funy,intersting without him (you have your own life,) 3_feeling attractive,vaulable,confident 4_foccusing on what he feels when he is arround you 5_being inpredictible mysterious(doing say ,do the same thing all the time)
@saracha99322 жыл бұрын
I know I am worth it, been worth it. If a man doesn’t want you, no matter what you do, he won’t even care.
@MatthewCoast2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing, Sara.
@ghjgkjhmfgjklj81566 жыл бұрын
That's so much work I'm just gonna be alone forever
@strang11245 жыл бұрын
All you have to do is keep his stomach full and his nut sack empty. What man turns down good food & steady sex? That SIMPLE.
@daniellajoseph13184 жыл бұрын
Lolll true 😂😂
@em27384 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha me too. Trust me I am a pretty girl but literally no man.. :( Not sure what I am doing wrong
@hannahdovey61044 жыл бұрын
Guess you dont need a good man if you dont want to challenge yourself to be a better partner it's not all about sex men like to chase woman not an easy one
@KP-rh5qz4 жыл бұрын
ghjgkjhm fgjklj - not necessarily. Here is my advice. Don’t manipulate anyone to become attracted to you, otherwise you will attract a narcissist. I played this game with my boyfriend from college, first 3 months Love Bombing, then he pulled away, then I pretended I didn’t care, it made him more attractive to me, three years later... he proposed. I was excited and thought I had the perfect man. After the honey moon he changed. I started seeing a different side of him. He never wanted to be intimate, He had a bad temper. I told him if he yelled at me again, then I’m done. 17 years later, we’re still married. I’m counting down the days until my son is 18. I’m not in the mood to pay a lawyer a ton of money to file for divorce with a child. (He told me he would fight for custody, it shouldn’t be that way) and now that I’ve pulled away, he wants me. I reminded him that if he yelled at me one more time, I was done. All my feelings are gone, I don’t play games. Best advice I can give you, be yourself and be patient, the right person will come along, and it will be natural. It shouldn’t be a game.
@zarakenton59373 жыл бұрын
The fact the I fully infiltrate these tips into my daily encounters without even watching, just proves what this guy is saying is 100000% true. As a Mans Woman I'm telling You!
@dejadeluxe36903 жыл бұрын
Question is, how can anyone give this kind and caring soul a thumbs down??? Great work!!
@molokwulinda76673 жыл бұрын
I loved what you said.. you are not only saving the love of your life.. you saving your own life..button line .. you have to love yourself be okay with yourself before you can love others
@classynamed40426 жыл бұрын
Why is it that when I get a guy we start dating I start watching these videos that gives me comfort and closures .. ? I love these advices you went straight to the point
@Butterfly-4445 жыл бұрын
If you have to jump through hoops to be in a relationship... Why bother💁🏻♀️? If it doesn’t flow let it go!! Love urself first then everything will come into fruition! Its pretty simple! 🤦🏻♀️
@mb58575 жыл бұрын
Lysa Marie ......What you're saying trumps everything dude is attempting to say.👈🏾
@cplunk765 жыл бұрын
Its killing me I've jumped through so many hoops to end up alone ugh
@oscarwilliamson12644 жыл бұрын
Ms.Marie,you are so beautiful 🌹 🌹🌷 🌷🌺 and too intelligent 🤙
@adday.3 жыл бұрын
But every single dating coach if you would really listen tells you to NOT jump through hoops, to stop doing it! And to not serve yourself on asilver platter with the excuse "I just want to be myself". Our mothers and grand mothers knew how to play the game
@MatthewCoast2 жыл бұрын
@@cplunk76 - Don't jump through hoops, that doesn't work.
@OMEGA-rx7gi5 жыл бұрын
Be yourself! LOVE AND LIGHT EVERYONE
@oscarwilliamson12644 жыл бұрын
OMEGA 007,you look gorgeous 🌹 🌹🌷 🌷🌺🌹 🌹🌷 🌷🌺🌹 🌹
@prayeronthego13756 жыл бұрын
Jennifer Lopez tried all the tricks in the book to keep Ben Affleck but he settled for Jennifer Garnier. Matches are made in heaven.
@ultravioletspirit6 жыл бұрын
Bina Walters and then he divorced her too, so not such a heavenly match
@Stellabyestarlight6 жыл бұрын
Aletia Gonzalez lol Yup
@Stazy13786 жыл бұрын
Ben Affleck is an absolute tool though.
@Stellabyestarlight6 жыл бұрын
Stazy1378 LOL YUP
@catherine21616 жыл бұрын
But they got divorced ... so maybe not a match made in heaven if they didn’t go the distance,... :-/
@youtubingbabs6 жыл бұрын
LOVE yourself. This idea is simple but not easy because 99.9% messages around us, ads, these experts.. They are based on you needing to be something else. BE YOUR OWN BEST FRIEND. Spend a little time every day saying good things about yourself. "Hi me. Can i get you something to drink? How are you feeling? " You are a whole human being who masters looking for the company with another whole human being. Please nourish your mind body and spirit to focus on how to love, be kind, be patient and authentic. Work on clear respectful communications of boundaries. I feel (sad and frustraded) when you
@bazgul57905 жыл бұрын
ih😨
@mom925 жыл бұрын
you are right on about not being simple because most people DONT love themselves and cant see that. Then they wonder why they attract all the wrong things. Like attracts like.
@rachelgawrysiakschwister29823 жыл бұрын
I felt the power of your words. I lost my way for many years, I'm just getting back together but working on myself so I can be even a better version. I've made many mistakes but learned from them. For that, I am grateful.♥️♥️♥️
@terrydillon14276 жыл бұрын
Men can pick up on subtle feelings like, "I am experiencing doubts," but hints about what I want for Christmas? Not so much.
@life56746 жыл бұрын
Terry Dillon , c
@rfor47376 жыл бұрын
This guy is cray..men don't even talk, let alone pay that much attention to what women say or how theyact around them. "Focus on what he feels when he's around you". Men only want one thing. They are hunters and have their own goals that don't involve what a woman wants or enjoys, unless it leads to their getting their goal.
@bibiberrycrunch92236 жыл бұрын
Hahaha xD Yeah
@missclum34236 жыл бұрын
I'm like oh they can pick up on subtle things so why do they have to act like they are so confused about our feelings about situations and they dont get when something bothers us. All they say is we don't know unless you tells us we dont read minds but can read feelings! Smh sounds crazy to me..
@strang11245 жыл бұрын
Men don't like hints. To us they are half truths or unimportant because we believe that if someone wants something they will say or write EXACTLY what they want. This is instinctual to us.
@71kkt2 жыл бұрын
Another winner 🏆 ❤ we appreciate ALL OF YOU DEEPLY and we absolutely 💯 ❤️ 💙 Thank you for the growth 😀 Enjoy your time with M'Lord Jesus, too ♥️ Amen ♥️ ❤️ ✌🏼 💖 🙏 😀
@kyliestanfill79385 жыл бұрын
I like how you pose all of the things about us as questions. A great place to start
@jhenejhene12006 жыл бұрын
Do this when you know he loves you folks,other wise don't invest in someone who does adore you.
@maix1394 ай бұрын
True
@Rebander1549 Жыл бұрын
Matthew Coast is so knowledgeable about the subject of getting to know each other! His advice is so sensible for ALL relationships! 😊 ❤
@empoweringrelaxation83218 күн бұрын
If I can be happy without him, i don't need him anymore. that is a powerful meaning to me! Why should he be crazy? Because of his freedom?he can go away and come back. No way! I love myself more than any men can do!
@amandagarcia63205 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR MAKING THIS VIDEO AT A TIME WHEN I THOUGHT I HAD TRULY HIT "rock bottom", I did not want to keep going on in the "dating" scene, and I did not believe I would ever find a message like this that HELPED ME SO MUCH!......this message that you wrote is soooooooooo inspirational and helpful to so many people, so THANK YOU so much for making and posting this:-) Your channel is wonderful and you are fantastic! You are such a wonderful and amazing speaker:-) I absolutely LOVE! hearing your beautiful voice! Keep up the good work:-)
@Urlasciviousness5 жыл бұрын
999
@annarae5717 Жыл бұрын
How are you doing nowadays?
@myuniverse90746 жыл бұрын
Totally my behavior! He displays major interest however I think either I intimidate him or he’s fearful. But not giving up yet there’s a great connection!
@iluvlife8522 жыл бұрын
Did it work out?!
@jonipuig26343 жыл бұрын
Ladies I am a guy and it all breaks to this if you want a real man: 1-Have self respect 2-Take responsibility specially when you’re wrong 3-Don’t be afraid to put a guy in his place or to teach him certain things if he crosses the line or doesn’t know better the more gracefully you do it the more he’ll like you. 4-Take care of yourself. 5- Don’t say one thing if you actually mean the opposite,specially in serious situations! 6-Be a woman 7-Be as positive as possible Number 6 is more than enough to get almost any guy in the planet, but the 7 are the key to get and keep the real ones. If you are already doing those but are with the wrong guy it won’t work either. I don’t do this because I feel entitled to tell women what to do but because of how much I like them as beings and because I want the best for everyone, hope it helps, try it and you’ll be surprised!
Thanks! This is good intel for men! That last thing we want is to be weak.
@earth7heart5 жыл бұрын
You have a great theatre when you explain this which adds to the information. Thanks.
@aisham33124 жыл бұрын
Very brief, clear n useful. Thanks to the author!
@alliecano980 Жыл бұрын
Wow this is a smart intelligent man! Who is making complete sense & a speaking facts.
@nellaab7796 жыл бұрын
Ignore him, humiliate him and make fun of him. He will chase you and fall in love with you like crazy! 👍
@MatthewCoast6 жыл бұрын
No
@barbaracarter79246 жыл бұрын
Nella Ab.... sad but true!
@Srani636 жыл бұрын
I’m not sure abt humiliating and making fun of a guy will make him crazy abt u ... but ignoring him a little and not chasing him DEFINITELY works.
@rdsginia74996 жыл бұрын
That's horrible! Any man like that is addicted to pain and turbulence, not in love with YOU.
@onemanarmy366 жыл бұрын
Nella Ab that is really BAD advice. Don't do that.
@deborahxavier94155 жыл бұрын
Got it. Now hope he is available.
@hadasasmith5432 жыл бұрын
Just be yourself. Love yourself
@KakoRuraOumijia5 жыл бұрын
Matthew I would have to say that among all the relationship/dating coach..you are the most real! spot on! pprove---coming from a woman You are thumbs up!Your perspective stands classic but proven true and lasting!
@gabbrielle52412 жыл бұрын
Wow Matthew. I never have thought of that, ie Consider what excites and inspires people - like experiencing a range of emotions, or not always knowing what delights are coming up next, or moments of intrigue and mystery - and that’s what to create for your SP! How beautiful too, if we could all do that for anyone and everyone in our company!! How rewarding would that be?! I’m often some of these things but your using a movie, and also gambling as analogies, has opened my eyes to being more deliberate about it. Very insightful., Matthew. Unique information. Brilliant. Thank you 🙏🏻
@MatthewCoast2 жыл бұрын
You're most welcome, Gab! So glad you liked it.
@joan58442 жыл бұрын
Hey Mathew Greetings from Nigeria 🇳🇬 I'm just seeing you here for the first time tho....I will like to know you more I hope you wouldn't mind
@goodgood_jenjen2873 жыл бұрын
Nowadays you can't fall in love you have to stand up in love💯💯💯
@rachelgawrysiakschwister29823 жыл бұрын
Also, I know, cliche, but.... I've discovered if you don't love yourself, 100% you aren't going to attract or accept love in it's entirety. I've missed out a lot because I lost my way and lost the love that I once had for myself. Now I'm getting it done.
@maix1394 ай бұрын
Its 2024 and I dont tolerate bs from guys anymore either. I want peace too. I'm not afraid to walk away if he treats me wrong.
@mykeillekyuti89366 жыл бұрын
i look mysterious but when men find out that i also like em, they don't pursue me??
@stephaniebeeler70726 жыл бұрын
I love your videos. Very informative and helpful. I have taken some of the tips and used them and gotten positive results. I am feeling closer to my guy. He is leaning toward me more. Thank you :)
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
Excellent Stephanie! We're so glad this is helpful to you!
@oscarwilliamson12644 жыл бұрын
Stephanie Beeler,you look stunning🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🥀🥀🌷🌷🌷🌷
@a.w.3772 Жыл бұрын
This is excellent, down to earth advice!
@diyamoni74295 жыл бұрын
You got a new subscriber and fan! I loved your suggestions...My husband used to love me a lot....but for my deeds like being over strict and demanding, he started showing his back to me day by day....Than I realize that if this continues,one day I'll loose his love. Than I started thinking how should I treat him and watched your helpful video....Thank you soooo much for your valuable suggestion! Take best wishes and love from Bangladesh 🇧🇩.... Upload more and more videos.
@Lilly_LFoxx9 ай бұрын
Mathew, you're so good. You have this magnetism connection when you talk to us ladies. Explaining things in such a boss way. Thank you for deciding to do what you do. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@MatthewCoast9 ай бұрын
Thank you too!
@gerr20356 жыл бұрын
First time seeing this. Loved this. Thank you, Matt!!
@MatthewCoast6 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@AnnetteWalker45696 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I needed to hear!! Best video! Thank you!
@PeTaa54 жыл бұрын
This applies to both men and women. I had some relationships when men were unbearably jealous and too clingy with me. It's not always the woman that behaves like that. - I remember telling my boyfriend if he could sometimes argue with me. weird, I know. Or another time I wanted my guy to just go out with his friends. And I really am a normal romantic girl :D
@blessingg61123 жыл бұрын
I know o f a woman who help me get my ex back 💕💕
@blessingg61123 жыл бұрын
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@bakhtawarzahir11136 жыл бұрын
Excellent... All points are clear and to the point...
@nancylakot8139 Жыл бұрын
In other words, never show him how u truly feel. And then always trying to be conscious of how to be confident & valuable. Then love relationships are not worth any effort, if we must be in a game play.
@BethyKable5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for getting to the point quickly. Some of these eating videos to on and on and on....... 15 minutes later, they finally talk about it. Thanks!
@kaurage5 жыл бұрын
BethyKable true!
@TRSGOODIE5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Matt...these KZbin messages have really been a blessing to me.
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@sadiefrazier35503 жыл бұрын
Definitely sounds like a narcissist. This sounds like trying to be someone your not. Just be true to you. That’s what pays off on the long run 💗
@JenniferBristol2 жыл бұрын
Not narcissistic. Even in friendship, no one likes a person who is negative all the time. Be a positive version of you.
@gwendolynwilson84446 жыл бұрын
I'm going through this right now and again you are spot on on everything😁😁😁😉😉😉😉💝💝💝💝💝 thanks Matthew for sharing
@MatthewCoast6 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@kathyarmstrong86442 жыл бұрын
Seems great advice.. Thxx I’m probably way too old to take advantage.. blessings
@angeliquemariel29162 ай бұрын
This video was superrr helpful Matthew thank you very, very much!!! 😊👍🏻
@MatthewCoast2 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@johanna56883 жыл бұрын
Don't depend on him emotionally = have other guys on standby. Be unpredictable = leave him eating/drinking alone while you join another guy you've already prearranged half an hour later to meet you there. Leave him wanting you more = just leave him. A man who plays games with your emotions bcz he doesn't have any himself = get him to open the garage door, then you drive right into him, turning his legs into spam. End of his selfish games.
@avaf69983 жыл бұрын
I know o f a woman who help me get my ex back 💕💕💕
@avaf69983 жыл бұрын
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@ZakiaLott5 ай бұрын
This is too much. I chase God and everything that aligns with his greatness will follow me.
@sninie6 жыл бұрын
I cant seem to get it right .... men want an independent woman yet when approached with such, they intimidated eventually leading to resentment. U date a normal middle class guy n he dont give you money then u hustle for yourself as always n the woman looks so indepent. Eventually yo relationship is night mare. U ask, looks like u are a gold digger. U dont ask problem. U work hard to pay yo bills n he wont realise y u work so hard ( own security). Matt can u just make a video of independent woman n relationships. How to balance n get it right 🤗.
@teresameyer82176 жыл бұрын
Oh God, it's like am back in exam Fever but your voice is rich and clear. Thx
@rebeccasharpe61516 жыл бұрын
I'm doing all I can to show you I'm as valuable to you as you are to me. I'm standing beside the only man I love I can only show you what you want to take into prospective of both our lives you are my only love in my life I'm confident and valuable in your life I will not quit fighting for who I believe in. I can show all my love it's up to you to except me as I am confident in both our lives. We will work thru our problems and you and me will suceed in all we want to do in life we are in it to win it don't give up on us .im right here waiting on you .all my love to my future husband .im positive for both of us I'm staying focused you got to also don't let daily life bring you down I'm here for my future husband I'm a fighter!
@MatthewCoast6 жыл бұрын
It's not what you think is valuable that makes him see you as valuable. It's what he thinks is valuable that makes him see you that way.
@septemberdawnluketz6 жыл бұрын
Why are you guys making it so damn difficult? Either trying too hard or not trying hard enough.
@keepnitreal1116 жыл бұрын
september luketz the story of the men that show up on my life too. It's very frustrating!
@MatthewCoast6 жыл бұрын
Could be a reflection. It could also just be that you haven't found the right guy or that you've been doing things to attract the wrong kinds of men.
@rjrenee47836 жыл бұрын
Commitment Connection - Relationship Advice Read the comments...most females are not saying what u are saying lol...ALL THESE WOMEN ARE WRONG. Bottom line I'm a Queen & carry myself as one. I'm not an easy lay so therefore, guys move on cause they can't hit right away. This is the mentality most guys hv 2dy is sex not a relationship....IT IS WHAT IT IS. Good Men are far & few today. I'M BY MYSELF BECAUSE THEY CAN'T RUN GAME ON ME...THANK YOU
@MatthewCoast6 жыл бұрын
Maybe men don't want a relationship with you because YOU'RE NOT RELATIONSHIP MATERIAL. Have you ever thought of that? Have you ever thought that maybe when you attack men and say that they're dogs, that men immediately think they would never want a relationship with you? Men say the same about women "good women are few and far between" and many think good women don't exist. Maybe instead of attacking men, we can all become better people and learn to understand each other... that's the only way I see relationships working out in the long run. FACT: Most men want a relationship. FACT: Many of the men who want relationships don't think there are women out there that they'd want relationships with. They're not dogs, they just don't think you're the type of woman they'd want to have a relationship with.
@sadiasaqib5316 жыл бұрын
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@piqueny88726 жыл бұрын
I feel like a confidant person until ppl start picking out my imperfections, then I become a lost soul when I met a dude
@karanfield42296 жыл бұрын
So if you're shy, and he picks up yr not confident, well that's a lot of pressure. Hey, I'm always nervous around a crush, I'm fine around everyone else. Well that just excludes half the population. Omg, scared now.
@horstdraper45516 жыл бұрын
Don't worry so much. A smart man realizes that if a woman is nervous around him, then she actually cares about the result of the interaction. As long as he can see you can handle your business in other situations, there isn't necessarily a point deduction for shyness - depending on the guy, of course.
@MollysMindofficial75 жыл бұрын
This video is super on point. Great advice and so true. Try it!
@MadelynnCatalina5 жыл бұрын
Oh, he’s gorgeous.
@mypointofview11113 жыл бұрын
I'm glad to say, I don't care anymore. That boat sailed a long time ago. Happily single, not in a hurry to change that status
@jennifernicol76952 жыл бұрын
I loved watching the video thank you Matthew ♥️♥️♥️
@MatthewCoast2 жыл бұрын
So glad!
@kaseyconahan94444 жыл бұрын
I’ve been friends with this guy for about two years he is 22 and I am 26. I’ve been going to his basketball games since he was a freshman in college, I had other friends on the team and still do! He plays tennis as well and I missed one of his matches early this year, I told him I was sorry I missed it and he said he was sorry too! I’m not sure he likes me or not
@leichun83964 жыл бұрын
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@kaseyconahan94444 жыл бұрын
James Oscar he lives two hours away and went home back in March because of the pandemic. I started working out everyday and posting the workouts on my Facebook stories and I noticed at first he was looking at them but he stopped. He graduated and he loved the post I made him and our other friends who also graduated that was the first Facebook post he ever loved.
@leichun83964 жыл бұрын
@@kaseyconahan9444 okay. Do you want him back?
@mehrunnisajaffre54162 жыл бұрын
In short just be your self don't make shift and changes in your priorities
@alisonalibongo3177 Жыл бұрын
This is so true. Thank you for this
@MatthewCoast Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@khristera26175 жыл бұрын
A woman just needs to be herself and I'm good with that. No bs
@marcusleonard47515 жыл бұрын
A guy here. Thanks for the vid, watched it to learn how to avoid a woman who may like me. If she does some of those signs then I know to stay away even more. I'm just to busy in life, I'm tired of bad relationship and waisted time.
@dellchica23735 жыл бұрын
Marcus Leonard me too
@anachristopher29735 жыл бұрын
I think you watched it for the opposite reason
@dellchica23735 жыл бұрын
Marcus Leonard arent we all?
@kalina18585 жыл бұрын
Love this thank you!!! 🧡🧡🧡
@Marcellopez12496 жыл бұрын
Toooo much Hollywood, things must be just simple.
@sism3028 Жыл бұрын
Great video! Thank you!
@MatthewCoast Жыл бұрын
Glad you liked it!
@mistynight1235 жыл бұрын
Excellent video. Thankyou.
@augustayarteh75246 жыл бұрын
Aw lovely video This men. now a days will miss a women. Is not now generation.
@joshuah56552 жыл бұрын
I will try to add some of my own advice for any girl that is serious about locking down a high value man for marriage and family. First a disclaimer: I'd say I'm somewhat unique in some ways and one cannot expect other guys to feel and behave exactly like me, but I will give my own cases of the few scenarios where I've met a girl and instantly felt like she was marriage material. 1. Class and value (but not vanity): She looks after her appearance, but she does NOT expend excessive energy in cosmetics. A small amount of makeup and refinement is acceptable, and shows that a woman has enough self awareness to indicate both intelligence and conscientiousness. However, too much energy and effort into artificial enhancements is indicative of vanity and/or immaturity. So put your best face forward, but keep it as close as possible to your natural appearance, which is indicative of good values and humility. Look groomed, but not enhanced. 2. Mirroring and empathy: A girl that can read a man's most subtle thoughts without him even speaking is a woman of high value. She is able to accurately deduce what he is thinking/feeling and is also able to make nuanced observations and conversation related to these things. She can give her man wise council. He is both surprised and delighted to be able to place his confidence and trust in you. This takes a lot of perception and prudence. You are mirroring his thoughts and feelings, with an added possibility of providing council. Perceive his thoughts and feelings in every regard except his passion for you. Reciprocate some general enthusiasm, but feign blindness to his primal passion, so that he should need to confess to you and seek your hand in marriage. 3. Reputation and Conscientiousness: You always do what is right and care about maintaining a good reputation. A strong sense of dutifulness pervades every aspect of your life. Your heart, mind and body is guided and even restrained by a strong sense of piety. This is difficult to acquire without proper teachers in the form of pious mother and grandmothers, and role model women within your community. 4. Humility and Industry: You assume the position of the lowliest by being willing to perform menial work and not indulging in the pleasures and privileges of higher rank. You perform humble work and bring great value to your family, your father, or trusted guardian. You are both wise and intelligent, but you conceal both your wisdom and intelligence to avoid vanity, except when that wisdom and intelligence may be used to serve and please your family, your father and trusted guardian. Do all of these things and you will be an exemplar to which a high value man will gladly surrender his devotion.
@rebeccasmuk90994 жыл бұрын
I can't get men to leave me alone, I must be doing something right.
@avakane85614 жыл бұрын
He helped me two weeks ago 😍 😍
@avakane85614 жыл бұрын
His a very good man 👆👆👆
@blessingg61123 жыл бұрын
I know o f a woman who help me get my ex back 💕
@blessingg61123 жыл бұрын
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@abcdefg2084 жыл бұрын
You are amazing thank you because honesty is the best policy
@allysav60535 жыл бұрын
Thanks,I have a boyfriend now.
@Stilettoexec6 жыл бұрын
I'm such a student of yours. Great information. Question: Does this video only apply to men who are also a high-value person? I wonder if there are exceptions here.
@toolshigh56538 ай бұрын
We want it to be genuine font fake anything be yourself this is just wild 😮
@MatthewCoast8 ай бұрын
Dating and relationships are skills... if it's not fake to learn how to drive a car, it's not fake to learn how to connect better with men!
@alinaitweglorious60735 жыл бұрын
Wow Mathew I love listening yr interesting wards n englishspoken
@Aviao1005 жыл бұрын
This can only work if you really dont want any relationship commitment with the guy
@girl900dina93 жыл бұрын
Friends with benefit
@alphonsaaugustine95904 жыл бұрын
i love the way u present 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 its osm 😍love from india kerala 👆🏻othiri istaayi 🥰keep going
@lanellbabbage-torres3586 жыл бұрын
Awesome, Matthew never gives bad advice....👍
@tonyacoley57505 жыл бұрын
Play mind games with them like they do you and disappear
@zarakenton59373 жыл бұрын
I love this guy ya know
@mollyyoung25322 жыл бұрын
Thank you, that was most interesting!
@MatthewCoast2 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@loveandhappiness11116 жыл бұрын
Matthew can you make a video on why men pull away while falling in love? My bf and I have been together for a year. He still pulls away in his man space then he’s normal again after a couple days, but it’s scary.
@MatthewCoast6 жыл бұрын
Sure, I'll see if Helena will do one
@YummyBanks6 жыл бұрын
He’s cheating. He loves you but he pulls away to cheat.
@irinairina11336 жыл бұрын
foranimalwelfare everything is simple Just watch him, his actions more attentively He has another woman
@lisadee02765 жыл бұрын
Heather Hughes yep
@strang11245 жыл бұрын
A man NEEDS that. It's how we figure things out & recharge. You need to start reading "Men are from Mars and women are from Venus" series. These books will explain Male nature & how it relates to you.
@annastasiachandler3394 Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@MatthewCoast Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@arliciacorales9055 жыл бұрын
My 2nd time watching of your video, my first time it was 5 deadly texting messaging a woman to the guy...thanks a lot, Matthew i just discovered this, hahaha. God bless you. I'm blessed to know this channel. 😍😇😇
@genuinejade20255 жыл бұрын
I've heard that guys do not feel emotion. And when they do they shut down. How does that work? "Crazy" is just a stigma.
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
Ask in our community... facebook.com/groups/goddesscommunity
@Shilpa_z6 ай бұрын
Superb❤
@MatthewCoast6 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@Keishanaa376 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a lot to do. Am I the only one working, here?
@aa-fy4fj6 жыл бұрын
same...i'd rather to be myself or be alone...lol
@EniolaIjaduolagoodnews5 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@1LaOriental5 жыл бұрын
Give us some tips on being unpredictable!
@enderdragon67226 жыл бұрын
Wow!! Awesome advice!! I absolutely Love these videos!! So refreshing!!