Make Him Worry About Losing You - 7 Powerful Tips That Work

[@user-iu6bv8vu8o]

Ignore him, go out, look good, have goals outside of HIM & dont be available to him- especially on a Friday or Sat....always be happy with great energy- basically Do YOU...& Be willing to Lose Him-dont ever get too attached to any man- Ever💯

[@ayananelson7269]

Dee P 💯

[@jenniferbingat9516]

I agree

[@ninonikolaishvili4342]

amen

[@siamisangsia6840]

Thank you!

[@cruisewithbigkim5465]

deep

[@iloveit111213]

I’m sorry for everyone that feels a great pain that they have to watch a video like this :(

[@oreoemsa304]

💔

[@jeonjungkookiechriskookie2143]

Its indeed hurt, but nothing is gona change, stay if u cn ...if not jst move on💔

[@Notyourbusiness606]

:/

[@jeonjungkookiechriskookie2143]

@@Notyourbusiness606 u ols?😕

[@Autumnbreexo]

I can’t do any of these steps because of the rona everything is closed ...HELPPPPP

[@jdrews4824]

1. Let go of anger 2. Prioritize your fitness 3. Glamorize your looks 4. Resurrect your social life 5. Connect with him emotionally 6. Talk when the time is right 7. Be willing to walk away

[@Teresa-lg8oo]

P

[@lakshmiedupalli6286]

Thank you

[@christ2ce]

Love you so much. Thanks!

[@relaxationAges]

Lol

[@flyingchappal916]

You saved 10mins of my life😂

[@ramlaali8872]

The fact that 5.6 Million people watched this shows how much pain people are actually in 😢sending love ❤

[@ArulKkmotors]

Absolutely right

[@AishaMusa-hl2cd]

Much love❤❤

[@belindaantwi8976]

Thank you ❤

[@Bethsbeautyessentials]

🧑‍🚒 they don’t give too hoots only one thing! Don’t do it don’t give in I promise he really doesn’t care! 99% of them dont

[@liapengmokhesi3717]

And he just ignore me

[@maix139]

I learned to stop caring so much about him so I can focus on my own self growth

[@cn1976]

maikor3 I’m learning that is what reels them in! Being confident and flirty seems to be working also

[@ameeraabdullah1030]

Could not agree more

[@tconnertc88]

Amen🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 seems to be good for the soul

[@jennyalex7061]

I love dis but will it work for me,I hope so because I am about to🤔😪

[@tconnertc88]

@@jennyalex7061 It will baby....You have to always remember to love yourself! We seem to get caught up in being the perfect wife, girlfriend etc. And we tend to let things slide. But we need not to let things go...and when I sat that, I'm meaning ourselves!! We need someone who gone love, appreciate, respect us as much as we do with them!!!! Life is to short to settle!! Hope this helps!!! ❣❣❣

[@jennyinthewoods7887]

If I have to look like a supermodel with an hourglass figure, just to be valued by a man, then I don't want that man.

[@lele19691]

👏👏👏👏👍

[@carlenemcgriggs4267]

Exactly, shouldn't that work both ways??? I have a mid section tire!!!, When men look at me and they see that, it's like it's a turn off for them, but then I look at them and they have the same thing, what's up with that???? I don't get it, do you?? If so, please help me to understand that.

[@newsky6236]

Me too dia😁😁😁😁

[@jennyinthewoods7887]

@@carlenemcgriggs4267 Yes it should go both ways, but it doesn't. Men are permitted to let themselves go. And they're permitted to AGE. That one really pisses me off! The way that women are treated when they show signs of aging, is absolutely shameful. Growing up, my (very controlling) dad would force my mom to wear micro mini skirts, tiny shirts, and stiletto heels - all the time. She was a stunning woman, with beautiful waist length hair and an hourglass figure. Even after having 5 children. I remember her having to wear these things while she was nursing newborn babies. All the while, my father had a spare tire. It was so ridiculous. I'm almost 40 now and my dad still tries to tell me how to look. I think that's why I choose to wear jeans and a t-shirt - just to spite him lol.

[@HeatherAnne]

This video is utterly disgusting and oppressive to women. It is like the past 50 years never happened. The truth is that the women I know who get cheated on and treated the worst are the ones who are super model gorgeous. When your relationship is based on looks it has zero substance. The happiest couple I know both weigh about 350 pounds. Your looks are NOT why he treats you badly. He is an ass. That is why. The more you work out to please him the more he knows he has a tight fist on your soul. Screw this vlogger. And look at him. Not exactly so hot himself. Such bullshit.

[@cruisewithbigkim5465]

Sis if his absence brought you peace, it wasn't a loss!!!

[@gerzylcarano-o4847]

Thank you

[@frozencat7069]

Exactly true and fantastic opinion...l appreciate you dear.🎁🎁

[@AmaryllisTV]

A gem

[@cleopatrathekiso2337]

Amen 💓💓💓💓

[@beautyhacks1622]

agreed. i also feel peace. bcz of him i lost my inner peace. heart feel pain

[@mikelnankamba9852]

In this video I learned something, self love. Love yourself and don't make him be the center of your life.

[@edwardmylnychuk5774]

it applies both eays because most modern day women arent worth the time of day, guys are just a convenience unitl the next one comes along, and this is being exposed more and more every day women today are trash and not worth the time of day

[@AishaMusa-hl2cd]

Exactly darling,,self love first

[@momoelsharief6200]

Honestly this the truest thing I've ever seen... I had a boyfriend for 4 years and all I did was make him feel safe and loved and was always there for him and devoted my life to him... but hear me out ladies, when men feel safe and feel like they got you, they'll take you for granted and some might even start looking at other girls and lose interest in you.... After I left my boyfriend I met this guy and did exactly what this video says, make your man fear losing you, that's the only way they stay and will always appreciate you, they would always love you and would do anything just so that they don't lose you... never let love make you weak and devote yourself to a man, live your life and make him a part of your life, don't make him all your life... don't make my mistake 💔

[@ashleyvazquez6293]

Momo Elsharief did you’re ex boyfriend of 4 years ever tried getting back with you?

[@momoelsharief6200]

@@ashleyvazquez6293 yes he did... but it was too late

[@makoreamartin2585]

Thanks for sharing ur story

[@mariaacheul5319]

truuu

[@freetobemusic]

If fear is what holds a relationship together and not love.. What happens when fear is no longer enough because he realizes there is a abundance of females that are actually not bitter from the past and wants to be his comfort and build him up where you're failing to do... Fear isn't the answer.

[@dejaysam]

By the time I do all of these, I'll probably be over him.

[@sharot907]

True and won't need him anymore

[@konekanakanyala602]

Dejay BTS so me

[@kimsana5013]

Are u an Army..?🤔I thought it because u wrote BTS in your name...😅

[@chisengamhango4454]

😂😂😂😂

[@chisengamhango4454]

😂😂😂😂

[@sarahrollins7648]

Ladies the only weight you need to lose is the man that doesn't appreciate you unless you do it for yourself!

[@facundodarriel4185]

So you get to gain a bunch of weight and he has to be ok with it. 😂 the ego is too real!!

[@hikingnw4030]

As a woman, I always stay in shape by exercising. When you take great care of your body, you aren't dependent upon someone else's ideals. A woman in shape is extremely sexy and can wear beautiful clothes. There's nothing that helps reduce stress than working out on a daily basis.

[@MsAlexb]

I think it was more self love here in this vid. But I can see why it can look like this... even if you exercise just to shape up and be in better health xx

[@80sbaby90]

💯

[@messedup8763]

@@facundodarriel4185 if a woman is ok with a man gaining weight a man should be too, because if he doesn't want to change anything why do you have to? it's not worth it. It's only worth it if another person is trying hard for you too. And if you are not shallow you don't care about things like weight as a turnoff (if you are a man or a woman), only about health aspects of it. Though some shallow people pretend they care about health, but in reality they care how you look. If you think it's ok to try hard for someone who doesn't the ego is to real!!!;)

[@racheljune688]

❤️ You will never ever be good enough for the wrong guy. The right one will make you never feel you have to question his love for you. The wrong one will always constantly make you feel insecure.

[@texassage5629]

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[@uyiuhunmwangho2554]

Dr Kelly Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restored my broken relationship of 6 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Kelly always keep up with his words I strongly advise you to seek help from him.

[@batix2297]

I feel sad that I have to watch this 😔

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[@VickyVeeJonas]

Ladies, you can never please a man!!! That’s it!!!

[@joecalypso6301]

Particularly a gay man like him...peace out!

[@joecalypso6301]

A coach...

[@prittyugly86]

You can ONLY please yourself and that's all that matters.

[@ches5662]

Absolutely true

[@chinthadivyabharathi2556]

@@prittyugly86 wt an idea..great

[@caribaez5711]

Basically, in short, love yourself first. :-)

[@Be-MelaninStarRising]

Right

[@angelicmayfernandez4103]

True✅😢

[@snematiwane8166]

Cari yes true

[@fabdoc6099]

Cari ❤️

[@caribaez5711]

@@lills72 google how to be a down to earth person.

[@Muhammadzain12374]

1- let go your anger and don't ask for appreciated 2- get back in shape 3- glamorize your looks 4-change style of clothing 5- he will wonder are you Changing feelings 6- feeling insecure 7- reconnect your social life independence is very attractive for men 8- Connect with him emotionally 9- create a safe zone 10- talk when time is right ▶️

[@mariefricchione437]

If he doesn’t love you- you can stand on your head naked and it won’t work!

[@marykamara3153]

This is the best I have ever watch, thank you very much sir

[@bhavikakumari8502]

Please edit and add - Be willing to walk away

[@charleneeckstein7213]

You will never be good enough for the wrong guy. Do you, and the right man will come along.

[@Msbabyl0n]

This is so true..

[@missv92]

Agree with you

[@ruthwondie8234]

yes,ofcourse

[@tamerakennedy6893]

I’m starting not to believe in a “right” guy. They’ve all been trash in the end

[@nakawooyaprossy4323]

@B B can he help you even when you are from another country? Coz I'm in uganda

[@aeiou37]

No matter how good you are , You can always be replaced.😢😞

[@samanthadepaul5555]

I just say leave men behind all together. Women understand you better anyways lmao.

[@bokamash6916]

Facts!

[@mirahdevine1262]

😂😭

[@agnespakhar9625]

True

[@bitany6236]

True

[@myownlittleworld9216]

1. Let go of your anger and stop feeling unappreciated. 2. Prioritise your fitness. 3. Glamorise your look. 4. Ressurect your social life outside of his. 5. Connect with him on an emotional level. 6. Have the talk when the time is right. 7. Be willing to walk away.

[@karrielarr3683]

Heena Artist can you please send this to me? I’d greatly appreciate it if you could. Thank you

[@rileysmiley9585]

Yep...this is the recipe

[@mariamistretta3860]

Most these things is easy to do. Some guys can't accept change expect things cannot to be like the past. I Don't tolerate judge labeling crizing comparing that past guy does. If a guy is blind sided then that his own issues and not mind.

[@mariamistretta3860]

@@AntonioBorrelloso agree with you Antonio. So force on myself and not some guy who is Resetful of me and those people who are not good enough guy for me. They are not nice either way and there egos pride in themselves and make a change and stand up for myself and ingore bullies online and force on myself do what best from me, be myself confident esstem brave self help self discipline self challenges self respect self respect self guided self optimist self expression self independent self understanding self improvement and not a man who can commitment either way unless you give him a cake he commits to junk food.

[@alinac2918]

Best advice!

[@NicoleMediavillo]

When someone truly loves you. Even in your imperfections he/she sees you in your best. He/she accepts on who you are. Its all about being contented and appreciate everything. :((

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[@stephaniekay9597]

Anyone who has to keep their partner in a Perpetual state of fear for losing them, just to be loved and appreciated, should find a different partner. That's no way to live.

[@a.k.williams9775]

Right!

[@esotera2871]

That's the way believe men are not emotional like us they want to own you but also to work while trying . Do not make him feel like you are going to be always available for him with open arms

[@odunayoolajide5779]

Lol. True

[@veronicaalmeda8014]

@@esotera2871 That is bs!. Men are very emotional, they have a terrible issue with showing such emotions. Society places on them the idea that they have to be in control of themselves and their decisions all the time. Just because they have a hard time expressing their emotions it doesn't mean they don't have them.

[@purplebutterfly7257]

I agree and it seems like head games/emotional abuse for a woman to do that to a man (and vice versa) it just doesn’t seem right I’m sorry I know Most of you ladies will not agree with what I’m saying but I honestly believe it’s true

[@marjoriebatalla1581]

If a man really loves you - no matter what the situation is, no matter how you look, HE WILL STAY WITH YOU. If God gave you that man, then definitely no one or nothing can stand against your relationship! 😊 No efforts needed. No force nor pleasing needed. Thats it!

[@freetobelieve4850]

Marjorie Batalla Amen

[@jihaneakabbal430]

Amen

[@Misskiki254]

Ameeen

[@annalizagarcia620]

Marjorie Batalla - in reality , it’s very rare to happen. Relationship should always show continuity to boost high esteem and remain to be as confident as we can be in ourselves. Since in general, physical attraction comes first and second to check his character. So, we need to always find in love with each other not only emotionally but also physically. This is the reality of life. 🤲

[@Absoluteartcreations]

Efforts needed from both side

[@daliavg1]

If you’re having to do all these things, then the relationship is over. There’s no love anymore, it’s time to move on.

[@sanjana8357]

Move on ? Move on to wat , to whom ? To another man ?? Then when the other one will do the same , ull move on again ? Nope dr , it doesnt work like dis.. u shud try yr best to save your relationship if u really love ur bf.. u shud kno that.. u cant deny the fact that being beautiful , plays a very important in everyone's life.. ofcourse any man would want her girl to glow.. to look beautiful... its a normal thing , mayB some r not like dis but most of thm r like dis.. so u shud just accpt the fact of how he is.. cause its said naa, that u shud love someone however he is, u shudnt try to chnge him/her.. & my dr , u dont nid to change urself.. if u really love someone , ull be automarically changed.. 😍 kip loving ❤

[@odunayoolajide5779]

Exactly

[@anniemarie8577]

Bang!!

[@veronicaalmeda8014]

@@sanjana8357 You don't have to move on to another man. You can be perfectly happy just by yourself all single. Having a partner doesn't always mean happiness, joy and sharing.

[@sanjana8357]

@@veronicaalmeda8014 yes dear.. if someone wants to move on , she better be alone.. u said it well , but move on to another man to forget someone else is totally bullshit..

[@coolkitty03]

This video is not about having to change yourself for a man, it is about prioritizing yourself and working on yourself because when you’re in a relationship you get comfortable and lose yourself. But it’s rather about prioritizing yourself and taking care of yourself so your man could realize that at any day he could lose you because you are a high value women that prioritizes herself. I think he is talking about how when a relationship becomes comfortable men stop putting in the effort as much because they already have you, which is why it is so important not to lose yourself and to prioritize yourself so he could realize that at any moment he could lose you.

[@rachaelharvey3468]

Exactly!❤

[@shamilasingh2168]

show less interest in him, that will wake him up.

[@shanekamcdonald669]

So true

[@iyanyang8869]

How? Tips😂

[@Anicake17]

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[@emerald442]

tips??

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[@chuvachuchu6909]

To sum it all up, ladies, just know your worth. If the man doesn't appreciate you, so be it, and let him be. Who cares about him anyway when I believe there are still better fishes in the sea. Don't force yourself to be loved by someone who doesn't really love you unconditionally. Pray to find a man who deserves to have you and truly loves you, not you keeping everything up just for a jerk. It's not worth it, ladies.

[@chuvachuchu6909]

@@AntonioBorrello Thanks. Really appreciate your response. God bless.

[@charlielovebug1668]

Antonio is right sometime u have to show ur Man what he can lose, and some women do get comfortable in a relationship and let themselves go. What u did to get him u must continue to keep him.

[@charlielovebug1668]

But if no changes are made, then it’s time to BOUNCE✌🏽.. walk away from unworthy to Worthiness 🙌🏽

[@moniccutting5184]

Freya Judah love your comment 🙏🏽 I just broke up with my fiancé after 4 years together.! I choose to walk away from him because he never appreciate me.! Like I’m the only one always making mistake no respect only anger.! I’ve been trying to fix problems but still not good enough for him Yes true there are still better fishes in the sea. This my best friend always told me.! Xx

[@aashibhatnagar3892]

Well said

[@bluefox5976]

Why should we do this? Too much effort for someone that doesnt give a damn. Just leave the fool.

[@brendaawinja3821]

Exactly, even the all pretty ones are cheated on

[@riyasunarart]

This just to make self realise about how important you are to yourself. Because when you fully in the process of self love. You will eventually get over him, easy enough to say him fuck off!! Man!!

[@mcdonaldscharlotte5788]

Okay I can recommend you to a woman who can help you get your love ex back

[@mbalimphaka1502]

Riya Sunar I totally agree with you.... these points directs one to self love

[@zuoweriikidi385]

I wonder why there no video of how to please a woman,can't a man lose weight for his bae n look glamorous to us, I damm tired of way to please him,let him please me

[@anitapoudel4061]

Love means where you can be yourself and still he/she adores you. You dont need to have any strategies with the one who is in love with you. You can be yourself and express your flaws. Dont ever stress about relationships, if its meant to be it will find its way, we need to focus on ourselves and our growth.

[@debodastechtutorials]

I don't agree with you... No matter how good the guy is if you are always available for him he will take you for granted... Be it anyone... You don't value the thing which you have every day

[@jyanalice]

Bottom line: focus on yourself, just you, love yourself.. focus on being the best version of you everyday. love will come, attention will come on your way.. :) :) remember that the best guy doesn't focus on the physical look, but the overall

[@sumedhkanha7651]

Andin this cruel world these type of man is too rare rarer then the vrtiically endarged species

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[@vizii8111]

Men are too complicated and get bored too easy, I'm out!

[@magymaxy]

Exactly

[@oishibhattacharjee3517]

Not exactly bored they actually get frustrated bcz of us doing some things which we think we have done right but it's not actually that for him . Men's don't share there likes and dislikes for that they use to suffer what we couldn't understand nd repeate the same mistake atlast they stop loving us nd we get more frustrated on them lastly it turns into brkup

[@oishibhattacharjee3517]

If u love someone want to stay him forever with u ask him bfr u do as if they do the same with us in the 1st stage if both of the couples can go parallely takeing the same step then it will go smoothly or else u will or they will b a gap which can form distance miscommunication or misunderstanding

[@oishibhattacharjee3517]

If u have already messed it out then wait for him to come to or u can take steps back for b parallel with him

[@oishibhattacharjee3517]

Rst this video can help u all

[@chenisekuroiwa4047]

I tell this to ALL my girlfriends! Always focus on yourself and being the best version of you. Then everything else falls into place.

[@samirashaikh1180]

Agree

[@aprildanielle2693]

Yass

[@helenarichard]

It's true. My ex of 4 years only started noticing me when I walked away, started looking glamorous on social media, flirty, lost weight, fixed my life,... He started snooping everywhere, out of the blue, after a year of stonewalling me. It's too late though, I found the man of my dreams and he wants to marry me in time.

[@celgibson7219]

👏👏👏

[@SeaofMadness-lz6ig]

😊

[@elvirataylor-pearce7278]

The only thing I can say is don't ever I mean EVER get attached to a man It won't go well for u

[@beccareynolds4625]

Elvira Taylor-Pearce yes very true

[@ndlathaa]

Very crisps advice.. ... As someone said in one of the comments You will never be right for the wrong guy ....better walk out of the relationship

[@cecilianzisa9020]

@@ndlathaa tht's cool, being single is much better thn being in the wrong relationship

[@shatariholmes6063]

I feel like that all I been through and going through right now.....I'm losing it

[@mcdonaldscharlotte5788]

Okay message Mama femi ogumekwu for help

[@georgiegirl4532]

So stop saying what’s on your mind and start looking hotter?! Brilliant.

[@Kimberly_Tlholwe]

In 2020, we still doing this 🙄🙄🙄

[@work10yourlight54]

Hahahahaha

[@beccareynolds4625]

Georgie Rowbrey 🙄🙄🙄

[@ohsuzeyq_]

Just find someone new and leave the dumbass

[@tacomamist]

Feel like a piece of me dies watching this... If this love....im doomed

[@louisereyes1519]

I dont know why Im watching these on 3 am crying 😭

[@blake845]

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[@김성일-f8y]

We're same😭😭😭

[@sanasiddiqua9507]

Come on dont cry💖💖

[@shilpasajjan7516]

Dear don't worry iam sure the dark always passes away

[@rbb8943]

This is the one video that hit home. 100% accurate. The most powerful phrase was, "if he doesn't fear losing you, he'll never fully commit." I've been with someone I would tell for 5 years that he was the one and I would never leave him. Of course, he left me eventually, and still thinks I'll be there whenever he wants. Not now...I've moved on. Lesson learned.

[@sophiajoseph3169]

If he doesn't already love and care about you, he's NOT going to care about losing you... you deserve better, be at peace ♡

[@mizzum478]

Sophia Joseph Then there is men like my husband. Who is 100% secure in our relationship. I don’t know if he’s ever been jealous before. He shows appreciation and does things for me/buy things for me etc bc he loves me. Not because he is scared of me leaving him. That is a real man. Not like those boys who only treat you well because they are “afraid of losing you”. I can literally have lunch/dinner with an ex and he doesn’t care because he TRUSTS me.

[@sophiajoseph3169]

@@mizzum478 well I'm glad that you've found him. 😇

[@fiametaferede7428]

Agree

[@laken1804]

The best thing is to get a life. Have few hobbies that you enjoy doing, when he stops to appreciate you, plan a trip that involves activities you truly love.

[@beccawu967]

When you’re single and watching this at 12am while eating cup noodles for “future reference”

[@Masowe.]

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[@julianamartinvlog]

😉🙂😅

[@nikkik6326]

😅😅🤣🤗🤗

[@vickglampshousvicky]

Right!

[@Crazygirl-ud8my]

Lol

[@kaalamankusinaatkantahan3487]

often times, we choose the person who we love the most than people who love us the most. I did all these but the trouble is, I suddenly got used to being all by myself, flying like a free bird and enjoy a life that I've deprived myself with while trying to survive in that barren relationship before. I am happier, seeing my own value, and respecting myself the way I should without the need to beg for attention or love from a numb person.

[@nikitakraya7659]

This also made me realise how important it is to have time to yourself(self discovery) and inner peace 🙇‍♀️💆‍♀️.

[@himanshusarda138]

Do you need help?

[@blake845]

Nomkhitha Kraya 𝒎𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝑺𝒆𝒍𝒇𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒆

[@sharondwyer8513]

He let me go & thats okay. Life goes on 👊❤

[@memoryrinehart]

I feel for you. His loss...

[@sharondwyer8513]

@@memoryrinehart ty ❤

[@RamyaVnkt]

Something amazing will come your way for sure!♥️

[@sharondwyer8513]

@holymosesjew you are absolutely right! My pic was taken 2 years ago when I was trying to be someone I wasn't. I never wore much make up when I first met him. Since the break up I stopped layering on the make up & gone back to natural.

[@sharondwyer8513]

@@RamyaVnkt ty ❤

[@prittyugly86]

Pro tip: how to make him fear losing you, don't fear losing him! How to make him not lose interest in you: have more interest in yourself than him! Easy peasy we are the prizzzze!

[@debbievilleda5500]

That's was said perfect .

[@nkem4real773]

U are so so correct like my , because i noticed he is charting , he changed his character and methods as well; i also noted his new method he now changed fully giving excuses like: coming home late , he doesn't call me like d way he does, when we go out he distances me from so how do i go about it

[@prittyugly86]

@@nkem4real773 there is a book called "ignore the guy get the guy"... changed my life. Most libraries have it.

[@prittyugly86]

@@nkem4real773 be so busy with things you enjoy you forget he didn't call you. Fill your to do list and complete the task so if he comes home late he's not even on your mind. Go hang with cool friends or do something you like alone without him. The trick is to be so mindful with your life he is not on your mind at all. When your not thinking about him he will know and do things to try and get back on your mind. But only let him in if he's doing things that show he cares.

[@gingerred5944]

Well said!💫 👏👍👌

[@beautifulmamas3772]

These are great ideas. I did all these with my husband who took me for granted for many years......trust me sis it works. All these along with prayer. It works. Thanks Sir Antonio👌

[@josephinenangonzi9564]

key word!!*with prayers*thanks sis

[@Bert_de_Wit]

What nonsense. Just be good to him and he'll feel your value. If not, you married a loser. Praying and hoping is gonna get you absolutely nowhere.

[@TheWilDOn31]

​@@Bert_de_Wit😂😂 let me guess: no relationship experience?

[@Bert_de_Wit]

@@TheWilDOn31 😂. Try married for 20 years, and still going strong!

[@JaneMutoni-q6g]

Well said along with prayer

[@oliverkhoo]

1. Let go of your anger and stop talking about feeling unappreciated 2. Prioritize your fitness 3. Glamorise your look 4. Ressurrect your social life 5. Connect with him emotionally 6. Talk when the time is right 7. Be willing to walk away

[@salpivasquez137]

All these things you wrote are easier said than done I don't need to work so hard at keeping someone in my life, it should be more simple. This is too much work for me. I'd rather the person leave my life I don't care. I don't need a shallow man in my life.

[@ayaobagele2193]

The 3nd day I walk away from him is already in restaurant with another lady, so painful 😭. He came back after 10 days FORGIVENESS and to try again but I said NO😭😭 . I missed him, he is my joy but he doesn't appreciate me. So am trying to move on without him. Doctor Antonio thank you so much .

[@forestoflove9322]

So sorry , be strong , hugs.

[@barbaratucker2924]

I commend your strength...you should be proud, you have shown him "you value yourself"...

[@bhavnasharma143]

It is true what you shared but to move on its difficult. ....Doc😏

[@Phosy2024]

So sorry. But its like he had moved on whilst you were still with him

[@ayaobagele2193]

@@Phosy2024 very very difficult, am still crying every day, I want him bck but I will move on without him. Am bck to gym and work bck.

[@chinniea9333]

Stay single. Period. 😂

[@lifewith_Samke]

chinnie A Yes😂

[@pherltv]

Hahahaha

[@slothboo09]

Omm

[@RosaRamirez-zl4wo]

Op

[@bscnyc9948]

ChinnieA. exactly....!!! thank you. that's ME.

[@marnieheeleyray1457]

Good stuff Antonio!!! At age 50 I,m only begginning to understand the dance of love! Love yourself and don't FEAR sharing love, it will always come back to you somehow. Maybe in ways we didn't expect, how exciting! LOVE

[@maxscot4236]

Hello do you need help? I know of someone who can help you just as he did mine, he helped me get my ex back

[@maxscot4236]

Text him on WhatsApp

[@maxscot4236]

+234,815,689,6436

[@isahyahayaadinoyi5914]

I recommend you to father joe his spells and manifestations are the best💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@isahyahayaadinoyi5914]

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[@futureless.]

if you need such videos you're not in a healthy relationship

[@szyraexamen2819]

Yeah absolutely yes

[@euniiepanal2273]

why ? how do you say so ?

[@misosoup2110]

yes !! definitely

[@lisabaylosis6632]

yep..

[@luzbeemarquez2063]

Ouch. But truth hurts.

[@theillustriouschelleyeahem487]

I did each of these before the breaking point and yes he did ask if I were wearing makeup for someone else. But when I reached out to show affection with a kiss he still ducked away from me. He squirmed away when I tried touching him affectionately. I basically was nothing more than a housekeeper. Until October 2019 when I walked out on him.

[@johnmay161]

I know of someone who can help you get your love back

[@johnmay161]

You can message him now on his whatsapp number+2348147957113

[@theillustriouschelleyeahem487]

@@johnmay161 I'm amazed but I am really struggling financially. I barely make enough to pay my bills.

[@johnmay161]

@@theillustriouschelleyeahem487 don't worry. Just get in contact with him first

[@theillustriouschelleyeahem487]

@@johnmay161 thank you

[@tubabutt168]

I just realized, that's all he was doing to me. And that's why I'm so obsessed with him.

[@laurenicole.1]

Tee bee's Channel that’s exactly me and my bf

[@vixenvalenzuela]

Did you end up leaving him?

[@lizeth987]

Same here is not funny :/

[@Oliviabarry67]

I don't really know how to thank Dr IBITOLU, you're sure a wonderful spiritualist ... thanks for bringing back my boyfriend

[@Oliviabarry67]

He is on Facebook

[@TheSandrafabian]

Haha, my boyfriend asked " Why are you always working out and having your hair done and doing things to make it grow more? Something going on." And when I'm working, he asks"Why are you always wearing skirts and have make-up on now? You never wore make-up before and now you don't go to work without it or without heels. I work at district court and he knows I'm surrounded by lawyers, successful handsome men like him. He calls me at my lunch time now and worries if I don't talk to him. I love it because he texts me more often and is more attentive and romantic.

[@joyceamoah26]

Great job 💞👍

[@purplebutterfly7257]

Ummm. That might become an obsession and control issue... be careful what you wish for

[@lulalula7120]

😀😀

[@purplebutterfly7257]

HoneyChild56 That’s not a good situation for you to be in

[@TheSandrafabian]

@HoneyChild56 Harmless "jealousy" is good. I mean when your man feels he can lose you because you know your worth, are a quality woman, want but don't need him, and other men are attracted to you and/or pursue you, he will value you a lot more and will treat you like the beautiful queen that you are. Now, be careful-- there's a difference between possessiveness, control, and harmless jealousy, which is the fear to lose you and subsequently, putting real effort into the relationship and you. Please, do pay attention to controlling and possessive behavior 🙂

[@jamiesmith2724]

Plot twist, Started working out, now engaged to the trainer.

[@tumainikiteja3118]

😂😂

[@anisononyeka2566]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Megasuss]

XD

[@StoneColdFox17]

🤣☠

[@tonileolion9702]

Yeessssssss

[@virginiahamac5851]

Love your self first, before loving someone who will aceept you

[@hassankhalilzadeh5158]

As man, I agree with him 100%. That's something exactly happens to me after 24 years of marriage. I finally respect and pay attention to my wife after I felt I am about losing her. This guy is genious.

[@nancyirgang4059]

It is terrible that someone might need this, but being one of them, I'm glad there are things like this out here

[@coco0249]

There's no strategy in relationships, you can do things right and the relationship will fail still. No human plan can keep the relationship

[@swetznelson6984]

I learned a lot about him, now I'm losing him so I move on,, I love my self,

[@sanazafar5329]

I m sorry girl u felt had

[@sanazafar5329]

Bad

[@Stormybandit]

This made me realize I don't enjoy my husband enough to do all this. 😆 Edit: I left my husband 7/2/2020

[@TarotwithRanjani]

😂

[@YolandaBriggs401]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@vickiduvall4678]

Yesssss! 🤣

[@tabatatee]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Michelle-we4pb]

😂😂

[@randomperson360]

Basically stop letting yourself go. Remember who you are! Self care dress up feel good! Radiate that gorgeous energy you’ve always had deep down! Gonna work on doing that again :)

[@victoriousexotik_eurobornb3]

I told my ex that happiness is a choice and I will be happy with or without him!

[@angelicaing4870]

I REALIZED SOMETHING, EVEN IF YOU ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL, SEXY, SMART IN THIS WORLD, THEY WILL STILL FIND SOMEONE ELSE, LET JUST BE HONEST WITH THAT.... I THINK IF ANYONE AFRAID OF GOD, THEY WILL NEVER DO ANYTHING BAD TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP,

[@simplyme3559]

I agree😊

[@lovefamily8227]

@@simplyme3559 [phone]

[@sharellhoney695]

It's true what you said I'm going through this kind of relationship I don't know how to punish the cheater

[@nl4130]

Being pretty won't keep a man, sex won't keep a man, a baby won't keep a man, heck being a good woman barely keeps a man. The only thing that will keep a man is a man that wants to be kept.

[@fat9457]

100% agree

[@PriyankaKiPathshala]

I just believe that we should always be happy, because we will definitely find that right person someday, and when we meet that person, they won't ever go away. 😊😊

[@empress2423]

if you believe that he will never go away? that may put you in a too 'relaxed' stage, after some years... Don't you see married women, who look... bad, neglected?

[@linnatbu5603]

It should be like that but in this real real world I came to an understanding that such relationships are onle fairy tales! Humans will always be humans...never capable of loving unconditionally...deep down there will always be a 'But' no matter how close to perfection another might be!

[@PriyankaKiPathshala]

Let's not look at the negative side of things. Optimism in a relationship goes a long way to lead a happy life. Yes, I've seen married women in an absolute disaster. But I've come to a realisation that such relationships have a weak foundation. We tend to neglect the important things in life and ask for what we do not possess. That is a basic "materialistic" human nature and not exactly a "Common" Human Nature. Do not generalize humans into one single entity. Everyone should perceive life in their own natural way. It's very easy to adapt to a similar lifestyle of others and always whine about the negative side of things. Be at your best, every single day of your lives and see how your loved ones keep falling in love with you every single day. All the best. 😊

[@bbeautifulfraser]

No Such Thing!!!

[@maix139]

Relationships require work from both parties to keep the love interesting

[@cababanuaprincessallyza8442]

I have done this in the past.... Not only he's afraid of losing me but I redeemed my self esteem.

[@Joystik718]

Toxic af: im seeing this advice from both sides. End the games on both sides and be real

[@domination6585]

Life is a game!

[@adzra__]

THIS! 💯

[@tinahuwase284]

Same here

[@mcdonaldscharlotte5788]

I can recommend you to a woman who can help you

[@homersocrates4588]

YES THEY ARE MANIPULATING US

[@leanavanaswegen7456]

If you treat me like a joke? Il leave you like it’s funny!

[@vnsmur31]

I've done all of these! It works...my husband of 22 years is all over me!

[@linnatbu5603]

🙄🙄...rolling my eyes cuz this dude right here is starting to get on my last nerves!!...I'm starting 2ask myself y I'm still with him...we got engaged after a yr1/2 of dating, he's gotten so used to me that he thinks I'm a joke sometimes just cuz I'm not that much of a risk taker as he is😟😏

[@thewildthingswithtara9931]

LiNdA MB please don’t marry him like I did. I’m on my way to divorce. Don’t ignore the red flags. You’ll have a miserable life.

[@MrsJonesBeauty76]

Thank you, I was wondering if these would work for marriages👍🏾

[@BOSSLADIESGLOBAL]

So do I

[@loveslife7334]

Starlite Moon -That’s fantastic! Congratulations ❤️

[@trishatinker3625]

He already said that he had to lose me to realize how much he loved me over&over !!!

[@eaglehawk3536]

Replaying you like his favorite movie for entertainment. Is that love?

[@frenchielovers8793]

That's the same they say all the time. Don't let that full you. You want actions not Disney movies phase

[@はII]

Yes ! I totally agree with that point “ gently remind him your value in his life “ . Women often forget that . Men are too demanding ...

[@reeyaverma9107]

How???

[@sheilahunter6232]

Love yourself and don’t worry about your man. Act or think like him.

[@Vi-ys5hx]

“Act like a woman n think like a man”

[@laraibniazi9197]

After marry all mans are change

[@sheilahunter6232]

Kimii - no act like a man. Woman is very emotional and vulnerable. Show your man you can live without him.

[@sheilahunter6232]

Laraib Niazi - true. Don’t get married stays single forever.

[@irenenjeri4633]

Sheila Hunter very true say it again...

[@dianachikumbirike3965]

Be willing to walk away

[@kimt8162]

He's right. I dated a guy for 5 years; I thought we were on the right path. Wrong. I needed to address issues after year 1. He was so nice, we never argued, but things didn't progress to a ring. Then when I brought up engagement; because I waited longer, it made the conversation worse. You need to have relationship goals, and he needs to meet those goals. And if you have kids, keep up a "date night". He's right about the social life. I did things with his family, his brother, and his friends; thinking I was making myself more of his life. It was opposite. I needed to do less of that until we were actually "family, committed". I needed to have my own time, my own interests.....and keep him at bay sometimes.

[@kelseyjohnston8297]

I’ve been anywhere from 110lbs to 270lbs in my relationship and my man loves me the same. He tells me everyday, shows he loves my body no matter what and he worries about losing me and expresses it. Men like this do exist, don’t settle ladies it’s possible to not have to manipulate him and hide your emotions. We talk about ours all the time.

[@reclusivelysocial5223]

I agree with your statement that it's impossible to fall in love with someone without first being afraid of losing them.

[@MsStarlet21]

Idk how we ever made it without youtube. I use KZbin for entertainment, friends, therapy lol literally KZbin is everything..

[@lspuglisi]

These tips make a lot of sense. It'd be difficult not being appreciated by a partner. If after doing these tips, the partner still doesn't care, life's too short to stay with that person and feel sad. It's time to value ourselves and hopefully find a relationship in which we value each other. We can't change others just ourselves.

[@denariaanderson1262]

Its 2020, stop playing. Ladies, if he truly loves you and appreciates you, he will be afraid to lose you. Its not the other way around. You shouldnt do a damn thing to make him afraid of losing you. If he treats you casually, isnt invested, and shows no real commitment or fear of losing you, do yourself a favor and lose him. You're too special for that bs

[@asmrcalmingvibes]

Thank you!!! Agreed.

[@letmetalkletmetalk6248]

It's 2021 still ppl like u didnt change i feel sorry for you

[@berzamerza1683]

If he appreciates you he's probably too embarrassed to tell you.

[@isahyahayaadinoyi5914]

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[@isahyahayaadinoyi5914]

He can help you manifest whomever or whatever you want to manifest within 24 hours no delay just as he helped me 💯💯💯💯

[@angelface889]

Be happy no matter what there's nothing more beautiful than a woman who is happy whether she's glammed up or in her pjs with a paint brush and toast crumbs on her top if your smiling they wanna know why !! Keep smiling girls that's the key xxx

[@taniaananda460]

i need someone to talk to. i feel like i love him too much. i even Asked him that i needed a hug, and he always forgot, you know the feeling when you are so tired asking for attention but in one time you cant let that person go..

[@sadiquab5591]

I can understand this feeling.. empathy for you

[@JoelyTomon]

tania ananda yessss omdss

[@noraiminafiah3804]

tania ananda I feel you

[@matanai8883]

I feeel youuuu 😭😭😭😭

[@breannashell3799]

Im in that boat right now... If I bring up my feelings then I'm pittying myself... If I go downstairs and bake him come get me then I'm playing games..... I'm always begging for the attention that I want.. sure he gives me attention but it's the joke around kind of attention. Tickling, pinching, butt smacking.... I don't mind that but I don't want that all the time...

[@sarbjitkaur485]

I think all the things won’t work if he is not in love with you anymore,its not always good to try out the things like this sometimes it’s better to leave

[@ariesadanna9808]

Why am I here, I don't even have a boyfriend. 😏

[@adibasahibzada4315]

😂😂

[@elenaemandii8265]

😂

[@Much_Needed_Therapy1]

Lol 😂

[@mekaarmstrong2362]

Be yourself779 😂🤣

[@berthnthane8057]

Same🤦‍♀️

[@simpu6588]

If you need to do something before he gets afraid of losing you then he's not worth it, because he doesn't see your worth. You don't have to do anything to make someone appreciate you. Because if they truly love you, they'd be able to find it themselves without the help of anyone, especially not from you. So settle things and decide which action you should take that will make you happy.

[@rachelle8422]

you shouldn’t have to threaten to leave, in order to receive the love that you need

[@calvaryconventinternationa1156]

It doesnt work at all.

[@hdbdvdvdbd6006]

My boyfriend is having more than 5 girlfriends and i still love him what should I do

[@rachelle8422]

@@hdbdvdvdbd6006 know your worth and set your boundaries girl, there’s someone out there who will see how special you are. please don’t accept half-love, you are so much more than that ✨💘 love yourself enough to know how you should be treated

[@valariejeruto7861]

*babascove* on Instagram helped me to cast a spell of love on my fiancee and since then, he has been loving me more than before and never thouht of leaving me. To cut the long story short, he proposed marriege to me. I recommend babascove for his wonderful doings and for love spell

[@tynaandrew5703]

Sometime I want to walk away but I fail,now help me what should I do

[@mariellalilan699]

A wise man will treat you a like a princess..if he loved you no matter your style or your attitude he will never gone..... .kung iiwan ka iiwan ka!

[@vivianbella3075]

Dr Frank can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him.

[@vivianbella3075]

Text him on WhatsApp.

[@vivianbella3075]

+ 2 3 4 8 1 0 8 7 6 2 6 5 2..

[@opalynjoytanazana3558]

@@vivianbella3075 tomoh

[@nb.3474]

Be on top of your game from beginning to end so it makes it hard for him to leave AND regret it once you guys part. And remember ladies a lost relationship isn't always a lost relationship sure you'll miss him but if you think back on everything and you know you did everything you were supposed to do or needed to do then he just was not the one for you it won't be your first or your last break up it's happened before and you survived it and then met him think of it that way you will meet another good one give him the same good opportunity and learn how to move on and not hang onto toxic people

[@Linaema]

I ain’t doing shit ! I am perfect.

[@ekramhawas6100]

No one is perfect we are all beautiful for who we are

[@Sg4809]

You go girl!

[@lilybrownie5469]

😂😂😂

[@tetflaminiano1674]

this is all so manipulative. i hope to find someone i don’t need to play games with.

[@barbaraeasson]

YES!!!!!!!!! I can't believe people think this is good advice!!

[@jenellekalicharan2134]

It's not games, it's about taking care of yourself first, and being confident about yourself and your relationship

[@empress2423]

Is not about being "manipulative", is about to loving yourself, about not losing your self respect in a relationship.... I've done all of this, not as manipulation. after 20 yrs I'm still a good looking, not neglected woman, interesting, attractive to other men (although being 200% loyal). I have a life of my own. I was ready to leave 20 yrs ago, and I'm ready to leave today. We developed a great intimacy, he loves spend time with me, we never take 'fights' into bed at night, no matter how was the day? he knows that I'm still his... I wouldn't take bad behaviour , addiction, etc which he refuses to solve (getting the needed help). That makes a good "standard" limit, for him. etc

[@barbaraeasson]

@@empress2423 I love that you have a "standard limit" and I agree with loving yoursel & taking care if yourself. But presenting the latter as a part of keeping a partner...that makes it shallow and superficial. Also, thus guy is addressing women only...why? If how your body looks is part of loving.yourself, why isn't that addressed to men as well? Living yourself should be a discussion of principles, goals, beliefs, learning...etc. not looks and 'social life'. Some of what he says is valid...and I suspect he means we'll, but presenting fitness as a way to keep a man...ugh. I think it is *minimally*, irresponsible.

[@katalinahaddybusuulwa4495]

U gat ma prayers

[@TheAttractionTriggers]

*I swear I couldn't love you more than I do right now, and yet I know I will tomorrow. ~ Leo Christopher* 🥰

[@parlayelda3526]

These tips are really great if the purpose is to make yourself happy or just focus on your self growth, but if you’re only doing this to make him fear losing you this is totally wrong.

[@Sg4809]

Then what would be your advice? I honestly want to know

[@isahyahayaadinoyi5914]

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[@emilyjames5804]

I think this should be"how to move on from a guy who doesn't love you"then you will get a better man after doing all this

[@marlenek6901]

I am a psychologist too and i couldn't agree more with those statements. It is always a good thing for professionals to help other people who are struggling with their relationships. Keep the good job

[@shubhekshabanik8058]

I m the one who is putting 110% of efforts in the relationship.. I m the one who always says yes when he wants to meet no matter how many lies I need to make at job. I always came whn he asked to meet. But the time when efforts were required from his end. His reaction nd behavior were unacceptable.. Yes guys! M being taken for granted again in my 7 yrs relationship for loving nd taking care of him more, for putting extra efforts and for always being there for him. We love each other and he is very loyal nd trustworthy but he never shows efforts when it's required. And also m not beautiful. He is handsome, I m lil fatand I hv myopia. But he accepted the way I was. Now things are going worst.

[@haileymarie8021]

Shortened version - change everything about yourself to make a man happy! I’ll pass.

[@mariamistretta3860]

1. Don't use dating sites either way. Protites myself more. 🙂 Do what best for me, Effort determined movativation to on myself and others move on from past guy. Focus on myself. 4. independent. Busy lifestyle. 😁🤗😊🙂 enjoy life. Not wasting time on past guy. Accepting caring nutriting. So agree the guy has to earn it. Can't show up whenever he feels like it. Be accepting caring, compassion. 7. Not Accept bullying rude behavior. Not settle for anything then less.

[@angela_worlddwide6684]

To be honest if he doesn't worry about you he aint the one. So looking for tips is unnecessary. The right one will come

[@heidb]

I feel the same. This shouldn't even be necessary. I wish we never ever desired one another , stupid to say so because humanity will die,but geez it should be mutual straight through

[@kearab4238]

I sure HOPE so!!

[@agnespakhar9625]

Correct

[@missthabi]

True, because these tips last a little while

[@pennywilson7940]

I absolutely believe in that statement. I also believe more that no one will love or believe in you if/until you love and believe in yourself.

[@jaynisp]

Women just love yourself exactly as you are. Don't change for anyone but yourself. Period!! The right man will love you as you are.

[@ambs928]

So motivating. For so many years I have been looking after my family, ignoring myself. now I realise my worth. Thank you so much for the inspiring video.

[@crikeymos22]

Kept my man interested for years. I am a drama queen and always kept thinks alive because of that sparky attitude. Always gave the threat of leaving him. It’s worked for me he adores me.

[@jenniferlyn6979]

Thank you. I needed this direction as I’m lost after 4 years together, no ring or discussion of a future. Dates stopped, too comfortable.